1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: My Name'satasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman and 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm here to acknowledge country t Glenn Young Ganya Niana 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: Kaka yah y and beIN Ahaka Nian our gay In 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: Mbini yakarum Jar Dominyamika Umagahawaka Woman Damon Imlan Bumba ban 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: Gadabomba in and now in wakah ghan On yak rum 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: Jar water Nadaa. Hello, beautiful friends, we gather on the 7 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: lands of the Aboriginal people. We thank, acknowledge and respect 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: the Abiginal people's land that we're gathering on today. Take 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: pleasure in all the land and respect all that you see. 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: She's on the Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community and connections, 11 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: bringing you the tools, knowledge and resources for you to thrive. 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: She's on the Money. 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. 14 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 4: Hello and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 15 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 4: that makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. It's our 16 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 4: favorite day of the week because we get our little 17 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 4: team together. It's especially little today to celebrate you how incredible. 18 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 4: She's on the Money community. Miss Jesse Garci is here 19 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 4: as always sharing our favorite money wins. Beck still away, 20 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,279 Speaker 4: so I'm going to be sharing this week's broke Tips. 21 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 3: This week we'll be. 22 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 4: Helping to answer a money dilemma that asks how much 23 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 4: money should you actually have in savings and something that 24 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: you slid into our dms about what happens when you're 25 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 4: not sure about advice you were given from a financial advisor. 26 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 3: Oh, how's your week being, though, Jess Lovely. 27 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: I went to the snow for the first time shop week, 28 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: which was very fun. I'd only ever seen snow ones 29 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: and it was when I was hiking mountains, so that was. 30 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 4: That's not that interesting, No, so I and it would 31 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 4: have been just like a little bit slushy, not really real. 32 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: Which mountain did you go to? 33 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: It was Kilimanjari, so it was pretty hectic up the top, 34 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: but I was so tired that I really wasn't just I. 35 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 5: Didn't even notice that. It was my first time in 36 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 5: my life. 37 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 2: Seeing snow, and I didn't even clock it because I 38 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: was just like walking along. So yeah, so going to 39 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: the snow for the first time is really fun. 40 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 3: But did you ski or did you snowboard? 41 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: I snowboarded because everyone I was with with snowboarding, and 42 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 2: I thought I just. 43 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 3: Can't imagine it. You give skier vibes. I'm so sorry. 44 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 4: I'm also so envious because I haven't had time and 45 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 4: this is like the biggest first world problem. I haven't 46 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 4: had time to like work out when we are going 47 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 4: to go to the snow and like, Loki, I'm off 48 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 4: to Bali like next week, which I'm really excited about, 49 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 4: and that was what was prioritized. But my husband two 50 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 4: weeks ago went for like just a midweek ski trip 51 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 4: with his friends, and I was like. 52 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 3: One, Okay, that's fine, like have a good time. 53 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I had a single parent And then all 54 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 4: he's doing is sending me photos of him skiing, and 55 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 4: so then now you're like, I went to the snow too, 56 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 4: so envious. 57 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 5: Makes time we can go together? How is your we been? 58 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 5: Apart from that, I. 59 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 3: Am prepping for BALI like low key. 60 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 4: I feel like all I'm doing is talking about it 61 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 4: at the moment, I think because I'm like, you know, 62 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 4: when you're just like excited to get away. It's been 63 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 4: so sluggish here, it's been cold. I feel like the 64 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 4: wind this year is like extra ikey. So just the 65 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 4: idea I'm gonna go to somewhere warm and get to 66 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 4: get to eat a mass amount of like Nazi goring 67 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 4: and have a drink beside a pool, and my baby 68 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 4: is going to be there. But like it's been taking 69 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: a lot more planning than you know, just my husband 70 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 4: and I going out to Bali, so like making sure 71 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 4: that Harvey has swim nappies. 72 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 3: I've been picking up this week, making. 73 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 4: Sure he has like enough hats and rash fest and 74 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 4: like I'm just packing for another human being that I 75 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 4: also want to swaddle in cotton wool, you know. 76 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 5: M hmm. 77 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to ask you what your recommendations are, 78 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: because I seeing about this recently. We had friends who 79 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: have for dinner and they've got kids, and I was like, 80 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: they've just they come in, They've got like they've got 81 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: to do trips from the car, right because obviously we 82 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: don't have kids. 83 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 5: You've got the high chair. 84 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: And the mad we cannot fly with carry on only anymore. 85 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: Literally, it's not possible. And I was thinking, oh, it 86 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: would be nice if I could just like you know, 87 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: do some looking on marketplace and find you just really 88 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: cheap versions of all of these things, so it's like 89 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: less things for my friends to have to lug around, 90 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 2: So I'll have to pick your brain on like what 91 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 2: the essentials are to just have. 92 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say a portcot yep. 93 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 4: And I would say some form of high chair, but 94 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 4: like high chairs take up a lot of space, so 95 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: maybe like those booster seats tabletop one. Yeah that can 96 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 4: like sit on the dining chairs that you already have, 97 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 4: because like I don't know, lots of people have lots 98 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 4: of different opinions, but like I like having my baby 99 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 4: involved in the conversation, Like I want him to sit 100 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:48,559 Speaker 4: at the table. 101 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like he doesn't have. 102 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 4: A high chair with a tray off to the side, 103 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 4: Like his high chair is one that I purposefully could 104 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 4: put under the like dining table with us, So I 105 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: feel that. 106 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 3: And maybe just like a big tub of bloe. 107 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, something good, something universal. 108 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeap, something universal that they can play with that like 109 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 4: kind of promotes creative play. But also like you can 110 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 4: pack away because I'm assuming you don't want your house 111 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 4: to look like kids live there. 112 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 3: Right now it looks like toy World. It's all over 113 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 3: my lound room. 114 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 5: Oh fun, So. 115 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 4: Let's move on from there, because I'm not gonna lie. 116 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 4: I don't love that my entire Loungdroom is now a 117 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 4: toy shot. Would you like a five star review? 118 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 5: Oh, I would love one. 119 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 4: I'm glad because we've got a really good one this week. 120 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 4: So this one is from Morgan. She says the podcast 121 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 4: every Woman Needs. I have been an avid list of 122 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 4: the podcast for over five years. I just want to 123 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 4: say a huge thank you to Victoria, Jess and Beck 124 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 4: and the whole She's on the Money team for completely 125 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 4: transforming my money mindset. I went from six thousand dollars 126 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 4: in debt after a Mexico trip with zero savings to 127 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 4: having more than fifty thousand dollars invested in ETFs and 128 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: a super bows, well above the average for my age. 129 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 3: Thanks to your advice. 130 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 4: I grew up with an abundance mindset and never felt 131 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 4: like I ever went without. 132 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 3: But I saw the other side. 133 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 4: Through my dad, now tens of thousand dollars in credit 134 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 4: card debt, forced to sell his luxury car and move 135 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 4: in with his ninety six year old mum with nothing 136 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 4: to his name. That hit me really hard. Thanks to 137 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 4: your podcast, and now truly value the importance of looking 138 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 4: after future me. You've changed my life and I'll be 139 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 4: a loyal listener forever. It literally is the highlight of 140 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 4: my week. Much love Walks. 141 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: That's so nice. Thank you, it's literally my favorite. 142 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 4: Like please, don't get me wrong, like everybody loves a 143 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 4: good review, but like knowing that the content that we 144 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 4: make changes lives, not just all. 145 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: I love what you do. 146 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 3: Thanks, It's like, sorry, did we like help you? You 147 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 3: did all the work. I'm not trying to take. 148 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 4: Credit for that, but like, sorry, please tell me more 149 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 4: stories like this. Absolutely, they made me so excited. 150 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 2: That's incredible, and how incredible you can then use that 151 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 2: information to hopefully pass on and help your family. 152 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 3: Exactly as equally exciting. 153 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 4: Every single week we ask you to share your money 154 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 4: wins and confessions with us, and then Jess goes through 155 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 4: that thread and brings what she deems. 156 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: To be the best money wins and confessions to the show. 157 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 3: What have you got this week, Jess? 158 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 2: It's always hard to choose, but I'll start off this 159 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 2: week with one from Catherine, who said she has her 160 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: citizenship ceremony this week and she wanted to get a 161 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 2: special dress for the special occasion. She fell in love 162 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: with one she tried on in David Jones, but it 163 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: was three hundred and forty dollars. She went home to 164 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 2: think about it and found the exact dress with tags 165 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: still attached, for sale on deepop for eighty bucks including postage. 166 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: She then got herself a pair of tenderly heels on 167 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: Facebook marketplace, and she said she's so chuffed. 168 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 4: Literally you can probably see my comment only yah already 169 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 4: because I've been there and I am excited. 170 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 3: Also, welcome, friend, you are now one of us. 171 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 2: Congratulations the beautiful little odd news number two for anyone 172 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: who adnews. 173 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 3: Stresses are so expensive, but like also just so beautifully cut. 174 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: They look gorgeous, and I love that the girl's a 175 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 2: female owner. She documents on TikTok. Anyway, I'm sure it's 176 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 2: people have seen that. I just think it's very cool. Next, 177 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: I've got a money win from Sienna who said she 178 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: changed her passport to her married name for. 179 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,239 Speaker 5: Free in New South Wales. 180 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: Sorry what and instead of putting the existing expiry date 181 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 2: of two and a half years from now, they gave 182 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: her a full ten year passport for free. What Isn't 183 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: that crazy? I don't know if that's maybe she just 184 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: got lucky and that's not the standard. 185 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 4: No, I think it is standard if you get married 186 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 4: and you change your name, like, you can apply to 187 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 4: have your stuff updated. 188 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 3: They're like, oh, no, we won't charge you for that. 189 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 2: Yes, you you can find the form online and get 190 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: it done. Next, I've got a money win from Grace, 191 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: who said she had lots of Flybys points so she 192 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 2: decided to treat herself to an Apple Watch off their store, 193 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: and then she still had points left over afterwards. 194 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 4: That is actually so good. I still tell every man 195 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 4: in his dog about your kitchen aid mixer. 196 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: Oh it's just the best. Every time I use that 197 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 2: kitchen aid. I feel so good about it. 198 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 3: You're just like, this was free. 199 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 5: I know I'm making something with love. 200 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 2: Next, I've got of money in from Irena, who said 201 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 2: money in and pet tax. She's been cat sitting as 202 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 2: a side hustle for two and a half years and 203 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 2: she now has plenty of regular customers. 204 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 5: But she also keeps getting new ones. 205 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: She said this past week and she expanded her business 206 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: by adding a new species to her bought folioir stop it, 207 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: and getting herself a new regular client. And she said, 208 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: meet Sonny the ferret. 209 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 5: And I've got to say. 210 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 3: Ferrots a ferrets are so cute. 211 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 5: Oh my god, look at that little tidy way. Oh 212 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 5: I did I screenshot a big one? 213 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 4: I follow a ferret on TikTok. Actually, I actually can't 214 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 4: be trusted. I like look at other people's TikTok feeds 215 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 4: and they're like, you know, productive or like cooking and whatnot, 216 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 4: a minor like ducks. I've got ferrets. I look at 217 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 4: cat videos. There's this girl I follow and she has 218 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: that cat called Juni. 219 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 5: Oh I love ye. 220 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 4: I watched every single Junior video like, I'm sorry, Like, 221 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 4: I just look at pictures of animals. 222 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: That's what the Internet's for, in its trurest, purest form. 223 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 2: The Internet is for funny. 224 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: Sorry. 225 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 4: I just stopped following anybody who made me feel bad 226 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 4: about myself, anybody who made me feel like I needed 227 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 4: to buy stuff. I was like, unfollow immediately, and then 228 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 4: I'd follow another duck page. 229 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, you've really trained that algorithm. 230 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 2: Next, I've got a money win from Lucy, who said 231 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 2: she sent a message to someone at her workplace saying, hey, 232 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 2: if you ever want a hand running the cooking classes 233 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 2: that they run, she was happy to help out. 234 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, turns out. 235 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 2: It's turned into almost an extra six thousand dollars a 236 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: year in extra income. Story what she said, it may 237 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 2: even double beyond that because they run craft workshops as well, 238 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:32,599 Speaker 2: and so she might be brought on to do that. 239 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: She said, Yes, technically I'm working more hours, but it's 240 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 2: different from her main role and it's something she will enjoy. 241 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: I want to know where you work that you get 242 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: to do cooking classes and craft workshops, because that sounds 243 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: like a job. 244 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 3: I would very much like to have. Please don't tell her. 245 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 3: I don't want her to leave. 246 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 5: So yes, that's so funny. 247 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 2: And then lastly, this week, I've got a money win 248 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 2: from another Lucy. This time Lucy was an Eye. She 249 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: said she got an email from Booper saying that they 250 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 2: had gifted her fifty dollars to spend on their online 251 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 2: reward store. She locked in and she decided to get 252 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: herself two twenty five dollar Ubery Its vouchers. She said, 253 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 2: it's perfect for a girl who works shift work and 254 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 2: she has sometimes it's a sleep all day after a 255 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: long night shift and she just want to make dinner 256 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 2: when she wakes up, so she can just file the 257 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 2: little gift cards away for later. 258 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 3: I love that. That is a good little wrap up 259 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 3: of the group this week, Jess, thank you. 260 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 5: Have you got some brog tips that Beck sent you? 261 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 6: I do? 262 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 3: Are you ready? 263 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: So? 264 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 4: The first one is from Ebony and she said, students 265 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 4: and concessions get into the Immigration Museum in Melbourne for free. 266 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 4: It's a warm place and such a fun way to. 267 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 3: Spend a day. I'm sorry, that's genius. Lou has another 268 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 3: tip for us. 269 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 4: She said, to avoid paying full price at cotton On 270 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: in store, always check their online prices first because they 271 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 4: will price match their online store in store. 272 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 5: Oh, I've done this one many a time. 273 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 3: Yep, she said. I've got up to fifty percent off 274 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: retail twice doing this. 275 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 5: That's so clever. 276 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: And last brog tip comes from Leanna and she says, 277 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 4: I'm at the end of my two week pay cycle 278 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 4: and I typed in what things I had in my 279 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 4: fridge and pantry and wrote into chat GPT my location 280 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 4: to come up with dinner plans for five nights under 281 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 4: one hundred dollars. Not only did it come up with 282 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 4: a wicked plan, I had sixty bucks left over as a. 283 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 3: Mum of three. 284 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 4: This is a bloody money when in my books, and 285 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 4: now I don't need to dip into next week's food budget. 286 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 5: That's incredible. 287 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: You would be amazed at how much stuff there is 288 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 2: in your pantry that you can turn into a meal 289 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 2: with a little creativity. 290 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 4: One one hundred percent, And you know what, it doesn't 291 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 4: even need creativity. Sometimes you just need a fresh mind, 292 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 4: because like the amount of times I've been like I 293 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 4: have nothing and then look something up online and I'm 294 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 4: like I heard everything, and. 295 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 3: You don't even have to go to cold exactly. 296 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 4: Well, Jess, let's go to a really quick break because 297 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 4: on the flip side, I'm very excited we get to 298 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 4: answer a money dilemma that asks how much money should 299 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 4: we actually have in our savings account? Which I think 300 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 4: is very ballid and something that you slid into our 301 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 4: dms about this week, what happens when you're not sure 302 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 4: about the the financial advisor gave you? Don't go anywhere, guys, 303 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 4: Welcome back, everybody. 304 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 5: Let's take a listen to this week's money dilemma. 305 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 7: Hi, there, have you got a money dilemma you just 306 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 7: can't solve? The Shees on the Money team is here 307 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 7: to help. Every week, we tackle your dilemmas, both big 308 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,719 Speaker 7: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 309 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 7: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 310 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 7: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 311 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 7: just find yourself on the show. 312 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: Now, let's take a listen to this week's money dilemma. Hi, team, 313 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 3: I hope you're all well. 314 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 6: How can I work out how much money is ideal 315 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 6: to have in my savings account? I have a reliable 316 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 6: weekly income, an emergency fund with another bank, and I 317 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 6: regularly invest in shares through dollar cost averaging. However, I've 318 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 6: heard Victoria and others speak about not keeping much cash 319 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 6: in savings. I want to maximize every dollar, but I 320 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 6: also don't want to access miamigency fund until an actual emergency, 321 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 6: So I'm keen to know how to work out how 322 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 6: much to keep in savings. Thanks Tane, have a great day. 323 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 3: By yes, how much money do you think we should 324 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 3: have in savings? 325 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 2: I feel like there's no should, Like there's no correct 326 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 2: answer to that, right because it's going to be so 327 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 2: different for everybody. You're saving set aside for something you know. 328 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 2: For me, the bulk of my savings is going to 329 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 2: a house deposits. Obviously, I've got a number that I'm 330 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: working towards for that, but that's relative to the house 331 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: that I'm purchasing. If you're saving for a holiday or 332 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 2: a car or whatever you're saving for, you know, you 333 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: might have a goal number in mind. I think the 334 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: principle that she's referring to is more so the fact 335 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 2: that you want your money to be working hard, like 336 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: like with your investments. But our listeners saying she's already 337 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 2: got her investments going. I don't think it's a bad 338 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: thing to have money sitting in a high interest savings account, 339 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 2: and obviously like find the best option you can for you, 340 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 2: the account that's giving you the best interest rate. 341 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 5: But as to how much savings. 342 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 2: You should have outside of your emergency fund, which typically 343 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: we say around three months of expenses where possible, it 344 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 2: really just depends on what you're saving for and what 345 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 2: you're comfortable with, and you know how much you were 346 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 2: able to save. 347 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 5: Like how long is a piece of string is really 348 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 5: the question. 349 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 4: And it's a hard bit, right because we know from 350 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 4: research that most Australians unable to access five hundred dollars 351 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 4: should an emergency pop up, like they have to rely 352 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 4: on credit. So I kind of want to draw attention 353 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 4: to that before answering the question, because I think in 354 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 4: this current economic climate, having savings is a privilege, not 355 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 4: a given. And if you're in a situation where you're 356 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 4: listening to this and you're like, what do you mean 357 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 4: how much I should have in savings, I can't save queen. 358 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 3: We see you, we get it. 359 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 4: But on the flip side, I do think it comes 360 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 4: back to your values and what you're working towards. Like, 361 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 4: let's pretend and this listener wrote in and said, you 362 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 4: know I'm not talking about my emergency fund. Yes, well, 363 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 4: I don't know planning on a baby? Are you saving 364 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 4: for a house deposit? Like there's actually no right or wrong. Personally, 365 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 4: Steve and I have our and like this is just 366 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 4: our personal situation. We have our emergency fund, which is 367 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 4: sitting in an offset account to our mortgage. 368 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 3: And then we have our cash hub or like. 369 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 4: Our you know, transactions account, which is where all of 370 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 4: the money builds up for like our bills, our regro whatever, 371 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 4: and that gets direct debited also an offset to our mortgage, 372 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 4: and we have a little bit of what i'd call, 373 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 4: you know, like a float. So like if you work 374 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 4: in retail, you know you always start with maybe like 375 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 4: five hundred dollars in the till at the start of 376 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 4: the day, so we have the right change, we have 377 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 4: a float, and in that I think it's like about 378 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 4: two thousand dollars give or take, and that's like the 379 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 4: base amount. So in case like someone's red ro comes 380 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 4: out and it was unexpected, there's always going to be 381 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 4: money in that account. So for me, I wouldn't say 382 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 4: that savings. That's just the structure of like our quote 383 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 4: spending account. And then for savings, it really depends on 384 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 4: what our goals are, Like we save for holidays, we 385 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 4: save four or you know, a house deposit. We're putting 386 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 4: some extra money aside in case we need a little 387 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 4: bit more money if we're purchasing a bigger property, And 388 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 4: you know, I think it's really based on your values. 389 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 3: Like my savings had a. 390 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 4: Little bit of a different trajectory when we were having Harvey, 391 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 4: Like I had worked out how much I needed for 392 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 4: like a gosh and a change table in all of 393 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:25,160 Speaker 4: that other stuff, and a pramp. Oh my lord, different conversation, 394 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 4: Why the heck a pram so expensive? 395 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 3: Jess, what do you mean it doesn't even have a motor. 396 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 4: It should absolutely no, they should be self driving at 397 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 4: this point. If you're more than fifteen hundred dollars, I'm sorry, 398 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 4: what the heck? Anyway, I think it's really up to 399 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 4: your values. There's no right or wrong when it comes 400 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 4: to like how much you should have in savings. I 401 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 4: think you need to ask yourself some questions. What are 402 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 4: your values, what are you working towards? What would you 403 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 4: spend your money on if you had savings, Because if 404 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 4: it's like, oh, I don't have anything I would spend 405 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 4: money on, like Steve and I, and this is just 406 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 4: like my personal situation, and I feel. 407 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: Like that I don't know. 408 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 3: He helps contextualize it. 409 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 4: I don't actually want all of our money sitting in 410 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 4: offsets to our mortgage because don't get me wrong, it's 411 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 4: offsetting interest payable and that's a money win. But both 412 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 4: of us are quite aware that we'll make more money 413 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 4: and that money is working even harder if it's in 414 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 4: an investment. So like, we don't sit on a lot 415 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 4: of savings just purely because we're like, we have our 416 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 4: emergency fund, we have our little float. Every single month, 417 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 4: when our incomes come into that account, they're divvied up 418 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 4: and you know, when we were planning for a baby 419 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 4: and we were saving for Harvey to come along, and 420 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 4: when we are planning for a holiday, we actually figure 421 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 4: out our investments and like flip that around a little 422 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 4: bit so that we go, Okay, we'll have the savings 423 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 4: for that particular event, but then we revert back to 424 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 4: sending as much as possible to an investment. Yeah, but 425 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 4: that's going to be different for everybody. Yeah, based on 426 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 4: your priorities and stuff. 427 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. And I think that's it. Learn 428 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 3: your priorities. It will tell you how much you need 429 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 3: in savings. Anything else to add. 430 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 2: Just no, I think that about covers it. Should we 431 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: get into the juicy d I'm so excited. 432 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 4: Yes, of course, this is my favorite segment and I 433 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 4: hate that we always have to wait until the end 434 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 4: of the episode every single week to do it. 435 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 3: All right, So this is the DM we got help. 436 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 4: My fiance and I have seen a financial advisor who's 437 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 4: recommended we add my name to his house title, which 438 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 4: is his asset, and open a joint share portfolio with 439 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 4: my savings. I've got about one hundred thousand dollars that 440 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 4: we both keep contributing to. I don't want to add 441 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 4: my name to the title. I'm a dual citizen, and 442 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 4: it can mean I have to pay capital gains tax 443 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 4: on the house if we ever sold, and also cuts 444 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 4: me off from the first homeowners grant in the future. 445 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 4: After listening to so much financial advice to protect yourself, 446 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 4: it feels uncomfortable to put his name on my life savings. 447 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 4: But we're also getting married soon and to keep it 448 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 4: separate doesn't sit right either. 449 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 3: What would you recommend? 450 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 5: There's lots to unpack. There isn't that. 451 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god, what would you do? 452 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: Yess? 453 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 5: I think so. 454 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 2: The first thing that jumped out is the comment that 455 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: you'll have to pay capital gains if you sell a house. 456 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 2: I believe anyone would have to pay capital gains on 457 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: the profit you do. 458 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,719 Speaker 4: It's a little bit different if you're a dual citizen 459 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 4: because you've got international attacks to take into consideration. So 460 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 4: you are not wrong, yeah, but it also is a 461 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 4: little bit it's a little bit different. 462 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, got it? 463 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 5: Okay. 464 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 2: I would say, have you said this to your financial advisor, 465 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 2: because from my understanding of financial advisor is going to 466 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 2: look at your situation, give you like their opinion on Well, 467 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 2: this is what I would do if I was in 468 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: your circumstances. But you're well within your right to say 469 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 2: to them, oh, thank you for the advice. You know 470 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: exactly what you just said to us, Like I am not, like, 471 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 2: I don't want to waste my opportunity to take advantage 472 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 2: of first home biogrants. I ideally would like to keep 473 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: my savings independent or my investments independent. Or perhaps he's 474 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 2: recommended putting his name on it. 475 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 5: I don't really know. 476 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 2: Maybe there's some benefit tax wise or something like that. 477 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 2: I don't know how that works. I'm not a financial advisor. Shocking, 478 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 2: but you know, you can have a conversation with them. 479 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 2: I would say and say, hey, what are my other options? 480 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 5: I don't like X, Y and Z. 481 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: Can you give me an alternative? Like, it's not as 482 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 2: if they lay down the law and that's it. They're 483 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 2: giving you their best recommendation, but they're also like, they 484 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 2: will operate within the framework that you provide them. So 485 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 2: if you hadn't said to them at the beginning, we 486 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 2: want to keep our assets separate, their recommendation is not 487 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 2: going to take that into account. Yeah, So I would 488 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 2: say just go back to your unless for some reason, 489 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 2: you were unhappy with them or their advice. I would say, 490 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 2: go back to the same advisor and tell them exactly 491 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 2: what you told us and get them to do a 492 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 2: different work up for you. 493 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 3: Oh, just be really honest. 494 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 4: As an ex financial advisor, this question makes me really uncomfortable. 495 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 4: And the reason for that is I feel like you 496 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 4: haven't been listened to and by the time you get 497 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 4: to erosola or like your statement of advice and your 498 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 4: financial advisor is putting all of your recommendations on the 499 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 4: table and going all right, Jess, this is what you 500 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 4: guys should be doing, or like this puts you in 501 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 4: the best possible position. 502 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 3: I should know you so deeply, like I should be. 503 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 4: Talking to you, Jess about like your thoughts, your values, 504 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 4: what you want to achieve. Like your financial advisor relationship, 505 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 4: I would say, is one of the you know, this 506 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 4: is maybe just not how other advisors work, but from 507 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 4: my perspective, it's one of the most intimate relationships you'll 508 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 4: ever have because I'm going to talk to you about 509 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 4: a lot of things. I'm going to talk to you 510 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 4: about your budgeting great, I'm going to talk to you 511 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 4: about investing. I'm going to talk to you about your savings. 512 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 4: I'm going to talk to you about your superinnuation and 513 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 4: your insurances, and doing all of that touches on lots 514 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 4: of different life aspects. So when I do your insurances, 515 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 4: I actually need to ask you a lot of deep 516 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 4: questions about your medical history and to have the best 517 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 4: and the biggest impact and to put you in the 518 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 4: best possible position. Jess, You've got to be comfortable telling me. 519 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 4: You've got to talk to me about whether you you know, 520 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 4: broke your knee in grade twelve and had to get 521 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,719 Speaker 4: like a pin in it. I need to know if 522 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 4: you've had any very serious sexually transmitted diseases. 523 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 3: I actually, for some people, and I still think this 524 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 3: is quite backwards. 525 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 4: If you're in a same sex relationship, I actually need 526 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 4: to know a little bit about how much you've been 527 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 4: sleeping round. 528 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 3: Like your insurance. 529 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 4: Application for asks, And because i'm your advisor and I 530 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 4: don't ever want you to submit an application that's not complete, 531 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 4: or like you might see a question and be like, oh, 532 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 4: that's worth skipping, I don't really want to give them 533 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 4: that answer. It could mean an instant decline. So back 534 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 4: when I was an advisor, I would sit with every 535 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 4: single client and do your application together, even though it 536 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 4: was arduous and honestly kind of boring, because go, I 537 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 4: actually don't care about your sexual history. I really don't. 538 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 4: It's none of my business. And like you do you, 539 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 4: but I need to know these things to put you 540 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 4: in the best possible position. So the fact that I 541 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 4: get to ask all of this, I also get to 542 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,719 Speaker 4: be like, hey, jes low key, like do you think 543 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 4: you'll have a divorce your husband? 544 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 3: Hey? So what's going on here? How do you want 545 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: to set this up? 546 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 4: You know, are there any inheritances that you might be 547 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 4: getting that I need to structure a trust for in 548 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 4: the future. Like, we're asking some pretty deep questions, so 549 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 4: I should know you, Yeah, I should know what would 550 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 4: make you a little bit uncomfortable. I should have already 551 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 4: asked about your savings, Jesse. If you're saying you've got 552 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 4: one hundred thousand dollars in savings, gol, how did you 553 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 4: get that? 554 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 3: What happens? 555 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 4: What's your intention? Why did you start saving? Was it 556 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 4: because you wanted your first home? And have I asked 557 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 4: if you wanted to do that on your own? Even 558 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 4: if you've got a husband, you can still go get 559 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 4: your first homeowners granted by your first apartment on your 560 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 4: own doesn't mean you're moving into it. It might be 561 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 4: an investment for financial security for you. So the idea 562 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 4: that your advisor has made advisements that you're like, oh, 563 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 4: I don't really feel comfortable with this. Also, sorry, how 564 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 4: does your future husband feel about putting the house in 565 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 4: your name? 566 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: Like? 567 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 3: Do not get me wrong. 568 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 4: You're about to get married, which means that your finances 569 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 4: are likely legally going to become intertwined. But we could 570 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 4: be talking here about a binding financial agreement, going okay, cool, 571 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 4: You're both coming into this with separate assets. They're called 572 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 4: pre marrital assets. If you get a divorce. If this 573 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 4: doesn't work out, what's he taking versus what you're taking? 574 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 4: Could we get on the same page about that. The 575 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 4: idea that we're just quickly labeling it and blumping it 576 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 4: all into one thing makes me relatively uncomfortable. You're also 577 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 4: not on a level playing field, Like, you've got one 578 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,959 Speaker 4: hundred thousand dollars in savings, but he actually owns an 579 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 4: existing house and I'm assuming that you know, maybe he 580 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 4: bought it a few years ago. There might be more 581 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 4: than one hundred thousand dollars worth of equity in that property, Like, 582 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 4: are we comfortable with this? Like I could have made 583 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 4: that recommendation as a financial advisor, and we're not saying 584 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 4: it's wrong, But I would never want a client to 585 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 4: see that recommendation on paper and either be surprised by 586 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 4: it or not feel comfortable with it. It would be 587 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 4: a recommendation where I've gone, oh, what if we I've 588 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 4: already asked the questions, You're already comfortable with it before 589 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 4: we've come to the conclusion of getting it on paper. 590 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 3: And I mean, you're not wrong. You are a dual citizen. 591 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 4: This change is tax It also stops you from accessing 592 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 4: the first homeowners grant. It makes me wonder if you're 593 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 4: saying that you can't access that. 594 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. 595 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 4: This is just making me overthink Jess. But like if 596 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 4: you're saying, oh, that means I'm tapped out of that? 597 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 3: Sorry? 598 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 4: Is property a priority for you? Accessing that grant? Was 599 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 4: that a priority for you? Why isn't your advisor planning 600 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 4: around that? 601 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. 602 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 4: I just feel like there's been a few things that 603 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 4: have been skipped over. I can't make any recommendations of 604 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 4: what you should do, because obviously I can't. But my 605 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 4: recommendation would be get more advice or talk to your advisor. 606 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 4: I don't think you're being selfish here. I actually think 607 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 4: you're being really smart. Like financial vulnerability, it's never romantic, 608 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 4: like there's nothing sexy about it, and protecting yourself doesn't 609 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 4: mean that you don't love your partner. Lets we need 610 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 4: to put ourselves in the best possible position, Jess, that's 611 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 4: why we exist as a business. I guess think of 612 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 4: it as future you saying thank you for being thoughtful today, Like, yeah, 613 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 4: I don't know. I just I feel uncomfortable with the 614 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 4: idea that you're not comfortable with advice, that you're ad 615 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 4: is giving you to. 616 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 2: Play devil's advocate, and I agree, like you are so 617 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 2: well entitled, and I think we all know. I'm the 618 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 2: biggest proponent for saying protect your own asset to look 619 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: after yourself first, Like I'm not saying that's the wrong choice. 620 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 2: But I also think it would be worth asking your 621 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 2: advisor why they gave you the advice, because it may 622 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 2: be that. 623 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 3: Where'd this come from, Like is it more advantageous? 624 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 5: Correct? 625 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 2: My assumption would be that they made the recommendation to 626 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 2: do that for a reason. So maybe like if they 627 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 2: were to say to you, oh, well, it's because you're 628 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,439 Speaker 2: a dual citizen and so by doing XYZ you can 629 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 2: alleviate this taplele Like, as I said, I don't know 630 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: what leavers and polleys there are because I don't know 631 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: enough about that world. But there may be a reason 632 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 2: they've made the recommendation that you're not aware of. So 633 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 2: talking to them before going, oh, I need to get 634 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 2: a different opinion, I think would be quite weird. 635 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 4: When I was an advisor, Like, don't get me wrong, 636 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 4: you didn't know everything that was going to be in 637 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 4: your say because I hadn't sat down and written it yet. 638 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 3: But the surprises that. 639 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 4: Were in your statement of advice, like when you sat 640 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 4: down and I presented the advice to you, would have 641 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 4: not been, oh, we're going to invest you already. Would 642 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 4: have not that that's kind of going to become a 643 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 4: part of the plan because we're having conversation about it. Yeah, 644 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 4: But the surprises would have been with gtfs I'm picking 645 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 4: for you, or which direct shares I'm picking for you, 646 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 4: or you know, we knew we were going to do 647 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 4: your insurances, we just don't know who we're going with, 648 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 4: and your statement of advice would have the insurer I 649 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 4: think that we're going with and the plan for it. 650 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 4: You know, if you're planning on saving for a property 651 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 4: or whatever, it wouldn't be about you know, oh you 652 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 4: should save for a house and you go, oh god, 653 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 4: I didn't know I could do that, Like you knew 654 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 4: that was going to be part of the plan, But 655 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 4: I've actually done the finances for it. Your statement of 656 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 4: advice has the time frame when this can happen. How 657 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 4: much of your budget is being allocated to this? What 658 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 4: that actually looks like? Your statement of advice? And I 659 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 4: used to say this to all my clients. There should 660 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 4: not be surprises in here. We have talked about everything, 661 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 4: and if there are surprises in here, I haven't done 662 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 4: my job properly, Like I have not held your hand 663 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 4: enough through this process. And so maybe I was overkill. 664 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 4: Gin know what, Sorry, you're paying me, that's my job. 665 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 4: I should be overkill. And I feel like that's what 666 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 4: we should be expecting if you're going to pay for 667 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 4: financial advice, because it's expensive. 668 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 5: Right, definitely? What did everybody else think? 669 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 4: So first question we asked was if you were given 670 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,960 Speaker 4: this advice, what would you think? Fifty percent of you 671 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 4: are with me get a second opinion. Twenty four percent 672 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 4: of you said good in theory, probably messy in practice, 673 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 4: fourteen percent said I wouldn't be doing it, and thirteen 674 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 4: percent said, yeah, it makes sense to join everything. The 675 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 4: next question we asked was how would you want to 676 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 4: handle assets pre owned before marriage? Forty seven percent said 677 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 4: whatever benefits us most financially, thirty one percent said whatever 678 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 4: gives me the most protection, thirteen percent said keep everything separate, 679 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 4: and ten percent said just join everything. 680 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 3: We're married. And then my favorite part, We said, guys, 681 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 3: what is your two cents? 682 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 4: And I have collected a few of your responses because, 683 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 4: as it turns out, we had a lot of opinions. 684 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 3: There were hundreds of reply on this one. 685 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 4: First person said, laws change, Look at California House laws 686 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 4: on splits. I don't know what that means, but I 687 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 4: laughed at this one. Because we have been trying so hard, 688 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 4: jest to gain an international audience. 689 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 3: We've got one. 690 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 4: Thank you for contributing, Adore, but that's not going to 691 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,959 Speaker 4: help because this listener is in Australia. 692 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 5: But they're right, laws can change. That's absolutely true. 693 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 4: But yes, absolutely laws can change. Also, I just was like, 694 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 4: oh my god, like we're getting this international audience who 695 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 4: are giving like good advice but also not relevant in 696 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 4: this situation. 697 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 3: But please keep giving it. 698 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 4: Next person said, assets don't lose or gain value with 699 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 4: an extra name on them. 700 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 3: I wouldn't be trading security for tradition. Loved that. 701 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 4: Next person said, divorce rates are currently over fifty percent. 702 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 4: Keep control of everything that's yours, irrespective of what you 703 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 4: love and don't. The next person said, never make a 704 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 4: decision if you're feeling uncomfortable, trust your gut and go 705 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 4: get a second opinion. Someone said, I've been happily married 706 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 4: for ten years. We actually still have all of our 707 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 4: assets separate, but we have some joint expenses. This just 708 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 4: shows me everyone's money is different, Like there's never a 709 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 4: financial plan, Like I could give you Stephen my financial 710 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 4: plan and you could be like in the bin, like 711 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. 712 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 3: And then on the flip side, someone. 713 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 4: Else might be like, oh, I'm doing that, but we're 714 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 4: going to tweak X, Y and Z, Like there's no 715 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 4: one size fits all, which sucks because I could make 716 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 4: a plan and sell it to you guys for heaps 717 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 4: of money, but I can't. 718 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 5: Personal finance is deeply personal exactly. 719 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 4: Next person said, couples are a team. You can both 720 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 4: benefit as a team while still protecting each party, which I. 721 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 3: Think is important. 722 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 4: I agree with that too, So like, if your financial 723 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 4: advisory is recommending that you put each other's names on things, 724 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 4: your husband to be should be as comfortable with either 725 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 4: doing that if you both want to do that, or 726 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 4: not doing that and going no, no, no, I want 727 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 4: to protect Jess like no, like she needs her stuff 728 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 4: too if this doesn't work out, green flower. Immediately, next 729 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 4: person said, hope for the best, to plan for the worst. 730 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 4: Protect your finances. You will know how things will go. 731 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 4: And then the last one I laughed at maybe because 732 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,239 Speaker 4: like women are seen to be a little bit more 733 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 4: touchy feely, she's a girl. Go get a female financial advisor, honestly, Yeah, 734 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 4: go see Daisy at Everest Wealth. She's very popular in 735 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 4: our community. 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