WEBVTT - FARMER HARRY TALKS LOVE AND FARMS! 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:01.760 It's in the news today, but it was actually on 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:05.000 TV Reload the podcast last week. They might welcome back 0:00:05.040 --> 0:00:07.560 to TV Reload. My name is Benjamin Norris and on 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:10.240 this podcast I go behind the scenes with the biggest 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:13.200 players in television. Each episode you will get a front 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:17.720 row seat with content makers like executive producers, writers, editors 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.599 and casting agents, plus the talent that we see on 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:23.680 our screens. TV Reload reloads the shows that you are 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:26.760 currently watching and gives you a better insight into our 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.480 television industry and our streaming services. 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:30.160 Today. 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.480 On the podcast, I have another farmer from Farmer Wants 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:35.279 a Wife twenty twenty two. It is Farmer Harry, who 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:38.080 looks set to find a match in the series finale 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:41.159 on Monday night at seven thirty. This year, as we know, 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:44.080 five new farmers joined the series to find real love. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:48.040 In another exciting new season of Australia's favorite bush fairy Tale, 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.360 which has been a really decent season on Channel seven 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:54.200 and seven plus. Farmer Harry has been a joy to 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.560 watch this year with his genuine nature and family values. 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:01.120 I will say some questionable death moose, but to make 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:04.840 up for that, some smooth talking Harry is a fan favorite, 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.800 and I really hope he finds the right girl to 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:10.080 join him permanently on the farm. We will talk his 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:13.639 connection with the girls, why they didn't use his real farm, 0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:17.600 if he needed his mum's approval, what the relationship was 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:20.880 really like with the producers, and why a swarm of 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:24.240 leeches left the cast and crew screaming. However, let's get 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:27.240 started with today's guest. I'd like to welcome Farmer Harry 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:28.800 to TV reload. 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:31.840 The Only twenty three. Why are you trying to get 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:32.399 a wife? 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:36.640 It's been months since our five hard working, lonely farmers 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:41.119 began their search for true love. I'm not gonna lie. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.080 There was he go back to me teenage years and Jesus, 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:46.640 it was pretty fiery and rocky along. 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:50.480 The way Farmer Benjamin and Farmer Page found out of 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:51.760 their search for love. 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:56.000 He going into it. I wanted to be true to myself. 0:01:56.000 --> 0:02:01.160 Going oh Harry, I'm Harry. Unfortunately, only not being out 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:04.360 in a film at home was just another victim of COVID. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:07.160 I think you just got to let love find its 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:09.640 way and you'll know in your hearts whether it's working 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:13.520 or not. Whoever it is, I don't necessarily want them 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.000 to put their life on hold for me. 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:17.320 Hi, farmer, Harry, how are you? 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.280 Howdy? Yeah? Good, thank you? How are you? 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:25.040 I love that you've started with howdy. That's so farmer esque. Yeah. 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.320 I don't know. I picked it up from some fairly friends. 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.000 I reckon, That's how I got it. I never used 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.760 to say. It wasn't until I reckon last year, and 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.080 they'd always entered the pine with howdy. 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:38.240 I wondered whether or not Channel seven had said to 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.359 you from now on, you're a farmer, and farmer wants 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:42.720 a wife, always saying how do you do? Everyone? 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.160 And you know what a couple of times I stopped 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:49.000 saying it because I was like, oh, I'm just really 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:54.600 living up to the you know, the cliche. I suppose. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:58.400 Well, congratulations on getting this opportunity. How have you gone 0:02:58.480 --> 0:02:59.760 watching the series so far? 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.520 Thank you? No, it is I do see there as 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.960 an opportunity. I would like to start off with saying that, like, 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:09.239 it's been very interesting. In all honesty, I definitely cringe 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:13.400 when I'm on the old TV. I don't know, I like, oh, 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:15.200 I was like, they need to add captions on. I 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:17.560 just mumble the whole of them time the hell like 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.600 I always talk like that, but the embarrassing. But I 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.119 think for me, it's been more fun to just watch 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.960 the other farmers and see their little stories and watch 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.920 along for that, because you know, I did hear like 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.200 kind of what happens on their farms when we catch up, 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:34.080 but you don't really actually see it as a whole 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.680 other thing, I suppose, So that's it's actually been very 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.920 sweet kind of see how everyone else's story has progressed 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.400 throughout the whole, the whole thing. 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.000 You know. When I first saw you, I was like, 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:47.280 Harry's twenty three. Does farmer want a wife? Or does 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:50.120 farmer need a few more dates under his belt? 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:51.400 Yeah? 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.440 No, I've heard that a couple of times. Believe it 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:54.720 or not. 0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:56.600 It's funny. 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.960 I think people say that, And I don't. 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.320 Know if to me it's I don't really get caught 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:04.440 up on age or anything like that. I think it's 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:07.080 more like your life experiences that kind of tell you 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:09.800 when you're ready to settle down and just your approach 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.120 to life. And I've always kind of said, you know, 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:15.120 I get told like you're only well the filming I 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.160 was twenty three, Like you're only twenty three, like why 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.560 you're trying to get a wife and stuff like that 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:22.440 that I think for me, Like, you know, your twenties 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.760 are the know, meant to be the best times, and 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.040 like why wouldn't you want to share those best times 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:28.719 of you know, someone that you care about. 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:29.279 I suppose. 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.680 But is it different in the like in the country 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:34.919 and regional areas, Like are people still getting married, Like 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:36.960 back in the day people would get married, you know 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:40.000 at eighteen and nineteen, you know, he's twenty three too 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.680 young to get married out in regional areas. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.560 I don't know. Like my dead partner, I'm pretty sure 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:50.000 she's married. Yeah, there's I know a couple of people 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.440 married about you. I don't know. 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.560 I want to say, I know a bunch of city people. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.520 Everyone from the city that I know is someone from 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.440 the country that's made to the city. So but I 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.000 don't know everyone else is like in the city, but 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:03.880 you know, in the country, it's I don't think it's 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.440 that uncommon, you know, for at least when you're in 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.760 your early twenties to be completely settled down, because a 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.080 lot of them are you know, high school sweethearts and 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:11.760 stuff like that. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:13.440 Thought, I want that too. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:16.159 Oh for sure. And look from watching the show, I 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:18.280 think that you look like you're ready to settle down. 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.560 I don't think that you're pretending to do anything. I 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.160 think that this just seems like a natural progression for you. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.400 Yeah. No, it did feel very natural the whole I 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:28.080 just had so much fun with it, getting to know 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:32.159 the ladies, and I guess, like it's funny people ask 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:34.039 me like, oh, why do you think you're like that? 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:37.400 But that's just who I am. It's my natural train 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:37.800 of thought. 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:40.400 I guess a big point that people are discussing at 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:42.800 the moment is, you know, how are these farmers being 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:44.760 picked to be on a show like this? Did you 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.359 apply or did you get somebody who came after you 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.720 and said you're a good looking rooster, you should be 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:50.760 on Farmer Wants a Wife. 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.719 Yeah, so my mates, well, growing up, we used to 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:56.839 watch the show and it was always kind of the 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.000 family drake at Christmas time that me and me brothers 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:02.760 would end up Wants a Wife. So, like, my cousin 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:06.080 actually sent me a snapchat memory from like five years ago, 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:08.200 and it's me standing in front of the tractor at 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:11.479 home and I'm smiling giving her thumbs up, and she's like, 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.800 the caption is our next season if Farm wants a wife, 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.799 Farmer Harry coming out here or something like that. 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.600 So, yeah, it's always been kind of a family joke. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:21.200 And then you know, with those advertisements that come out 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:24.320 that they post on Facebook and whatnot, my friends would 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:25.760 just always tag me in it. 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:28.400 So it kind of turmed from that that. 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.800 They saw it was being tagged left and center on 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:34.000 Bloody almost every post they put up, and so they asked, 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:36.520 is you know, is that something you'd be interested in? 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.080 It kind of went from there, I suppose. 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.960 And also, you know, as you know, before we started 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:44.279 talking on the official podcast, I talked to you about 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:47.839 chatting to Farmer Will and Farmer Ben and they both 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.480 revealed that they have a bit of a bromance going on. 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.320 Are you getting in on some of that action? 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:55.080 Oh yeah, I suppose. So I think we all get 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.640 along so Bloody Well, you know, when we do our 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:00.599 little farmer catch ups, it's pretty funny they have to 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.840 kind of like tell us to shut up, all right, 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.839 we're done. Guys like to wrap up the conversation because 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:08.479 you know, we just want to keep talking and talking 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:10.920 because we all get along so well. It was quite 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:14.120 funny because once we're all in a room together, it's 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.600 pretty hard to keep control of a lot of us. 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:18.880 I'd say we had the handsfull, that's for sure. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.400 A few people this week talking about your farm not 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.640 being a farm, which I think is in a real 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:27.120 It's not even a big issue to me because obviously 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.400 during COVID, you know, we were lucky to get any 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.680 television made. Do you see that kind of commentary online? 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.520 And do you think it's you know, a storm and 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:35.080 a tea cup. 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:36.520 Yeah, look, I think, yeah. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.760 Unfortunately, not being able to film at home was just 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:44.720 another victim of COVID, and it's just, yeah, it sucked, 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:47.200 but I guess, you know, like you said, lucky to 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:48.720 even have the opportunity at all. 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:50.200 And it's not like the girls missed out. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.800 It was still an operating farm and they I definitely 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:56.040 still had them out there driving tractors and milking cows 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:57.520 and feeding calfs and everything. 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.360 They still got the full farm experience. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:02.320 And I think, yeah, I'm trying to just don't let 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.880 it affect me that much. It's just that's how it is, 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.040 I suppose, and people are always going to want to 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:08.600 ask up about something, and. 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:10.840 I guess that's just kind of just got to take 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:11.360 it on the gin. 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:13.720 I suppose did you have to say to like your family, 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:16.119 keep this on the download, but I'm not actually filing, 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.320 you know, I'm not actually filming on the actual farm. 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:20.320 I'm assuming that you sort of have to play along. 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:23.440 But do you expect your family to play along with 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:24.400 that kind of stuff as well? 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.280 Well, no one was ever expected playing like it was 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.560 the first ten seconds, you know, it was. It was 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:33.280 pretty obvious it wasn't It wasn't kai. I think anyone 0:08:33.320 --> 0:08:35.280 could see that, like where we film was a lot 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.560 different to home. But yeah, like I said, it was 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:41.040 never said that it was my farm. It was Harry. 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:44.560 Ladies are working with farmer Harry, and so you know 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.280 it was We never ever put out the idea that 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:50.240 it was my property to begin with, so I never 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:51.520 felt like little lying at all. 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.520 Well, I'm not a country connoisseur, so I had no idea. 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:57.200 It looked like your farm for sure. You definitely sold 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:58.800 it to me, and I couldn't have cared. 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:02.560 Less, thank you. Yeah, it was. It was still great 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:04.679 to get out there and the girls, Yeah, like I said, 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:06.840 they didn't miss out on any you know, what they 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:09.520 would have experienced at home. Really they were still out 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.400 their milk and cows and feeding them and you know, 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.360 drenching cattle at one point. 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:15.360 Yeah, it was great. 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:18.760 You also seem to have a really strong relationship with 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:22.360 your family. Was your mom's approval something you know of 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.079 a non negotiable? Was when it came down to picking 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.480 the right girl, did you make sure that your mom 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:30.400 gave you the sign off and gave you the ticket approval? 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:32.560 You know, it's that's so funny you should say that, 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:36.120 because like, yeah, mum's approval is really important, but my 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:39.240 mom has it has a pretty different approach. She's never 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:41.800 once told me in my life like this is what 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.520 you got to do. She's always you know, Harry's happy, 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.080 I'm happy. And going back to when she had to 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:48.720 decide on that, you know, who would go on that 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.400 overnight date, she actually kind of struggled with that because 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.360 she's like she didn't want to make that decision for 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.880 me because she was like, oh, it's Harry's Harry's girls 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:58.960 and he wants you know, his life kind of a thing. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.760 And that's always been her approach is as long as 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:05.559 we're happy. She's happy, and she's been really really good 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:09.400 about the whole process really and even just going on 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:11.800 the show, she was like, oh, like she was excited 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.200 for me, but also, you know, you think about it, 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.000 make sure this is something you want to do, because 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:17.800 once you do it, your life will never be the same. 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.920 I liked the relationship that you had with her will 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.720 have with her, and it came across really well on screen. 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:25.760 Every time she was there. You could see that you 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:27.800 had a great relationship with your mum, which I always 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.360 look for in relationships with my friends. You know, I 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.640 think that if you, you know, if you've got a 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.880 good relationship with your parents, it says a lot about you. 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:36.760 Yeah, I think I think it does. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.160 I'm not going to lie. 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.080 There was go Back to Me teenage years, and geez 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:42.480 it was pretty fiery and rocky. 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.400 But I think, oh, everyone hates their mom at that stage. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:48.440 Yeah, yeah, I think you do. And some days, you know, 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.480 you wish that you were different when you were younger. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.559 But I think you can't really dwell on that because 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:54.600 you can't really control that. You can only control what 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:56.880 you're doing right now. You can hopefully only grow to 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:58.720 become a better person. At the end of the day. 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:01.360 So I think that's kind of where I've you know, 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.600 I really got a lot of respect from Mum because 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:07.000 she's done a lot. She's a bloody good woman, tell 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.280 you what. She had a handsful growing up with us 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:12.000 four kids on the farm and helping dad and then 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.040 having her own job and then taking us to soccer 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.840 or bloody swimming, driving us five hours to swim at 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.080 for about a total of one minute in the pool 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.240 and then come home. She's been great throughout my whole life. 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:26.760 And all of your siblings, as much of a handful 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:27.400 as you are. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.520 I think you just me some of them a bit 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:30.360 more of a handful. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:34.760 I like to say I'm the craasy one, but Mum 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.720 would probably say otherwise, I'm probably in the middle. 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:41.360 There's definitely easier, but definitely a lot more stressful. 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.640 I think Mum always says that raising one daughter was 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.880 more it was more over handful than raising three boys. 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:51.240 I think I made the biggest mistake. I always thought 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:53.160 that I was the easy one, and then you know, 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.600 as an adult, we're all sitting around the table, and 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.040 you know, it was revealed that I was the worst 0:11:58.040 --> 0:11:59.480 of the lot. So you know. 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.760 Oh jeez, that's a bad bloody way to find out. 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.920 I suppose, isn't it, Like I'm the great raft? 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:07.719 What's wrong with you there? 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:09.880 That's always what the bad ones say, though, isn't it. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:15.679 I'm obviously deluded? Obviously making a show for television is 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:19.120 quite an intrusive, you know, experience, especially when it comes 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:22.040 to meeting women. How much did the production side of 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:25.360 things get in the way of you building genuine relationships? 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:26.679 I don't know. 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.080 I think I had a pretty I like it. Think 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.520 I'm pretty laid back and nothing really phases me. And 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:34.120 that's something I definitely learned pretty quick, is like you 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:36.640 can't meet someone who you know needs to have structure 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:39.400 in their life because structure just falls apart because all 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.120 it takes is like one wrong turn on the way 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:43.880 to somewhere and then you're back a whole bunch of 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.720 hours or you know, a bit of rain to come 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:46.000 that it. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:47.199 Stuff's the whole day up. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.680 So I think I was very big on I kind 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:52.240 of I don't really watch TV or anything like that, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.240 like especially these show Like I don't really consume much 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:57.640 of this stuff because going into it, I wanted to 0:12:57.679 --> 0:12:59.920 be true to myself, and I think because of. 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:02.000 That, I had a bit of an advantage in that 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:03.240 I didn't. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.680 Really know how it all worked, so I just took 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:07.280 it on the chin kind of a thing, and just 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:08.880 you know, I was like, Oh, I'm just going to 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.280 be me and that's all I can do. And I 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.040 think that approach kind of helped. And I think you 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.680 do get nervous on camera, but by the end, like 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.800 it only took a couple of days and you're pretty 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:21.280 you kind of get used to having cameras and microphones 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.240 on you. I think the only thing by the end 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:26.120 that still freaked me out was the events, because all 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.280 of a sudden, it wasn't you know, your two soundos 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:30.880 and two camera guys. It was like thirty cameras and 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:34.440 fifteen soundos and all this stuff was going on with 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.480 it just being very like I felt very supported the 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.520 whole way through too, like I had a great truth 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:41.880 Like it was sad when it all came to, you know, 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.160 the end of it, because I got along with them 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.280 so well, and I really did feel like they were 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:49.120 kind of rooting for me to find someone and be 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:50.000 happy at the end. 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:51.760 I think that's the best way to do it. Like 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:54.240 if you're going to do reality television, you know, you 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:56.120 want to be doing the right thing. You sort of 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.400 want to be pointed in the right direction and trust 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:01.920 those relationships. I think as soon the trust is broken, 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.240 you know, that's when it probably becomes a much harder 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:09.040 relationship to try and work through or try to be authentic, 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.520 because you know, it's like anything really, you know, once 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:15.760 trust is broken, something like this can be really difficult. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:18.920 Yeah, and I suppose I guess, like you've got to 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:22.200 be true to yourself and be yourself, because god, I 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.360 can't imagine doing it any other way, because like it'd 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.920 be so exhausting, Like it was exhausting be myself, but 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.360 putting on a character, don't. I don't know how anyone 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:33.400 could do it. Really, Like they're long days. I don't 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.120 think people realize that, like twelve hours of footage gets 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:38.040 to cut down to like thirty seconds. It seems like 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:40.080 that has probably been the hardest thing to you know, 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:42.400 watch is see all these things that we did and 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.200 that doesn't end up on TV. And then in a way, 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.120 it's kind of cool that like even when we're doing 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.360 that stuff, just to care that everyone looking to making 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:53.600 sure everything looked good, and you know, everything was running smoothly, knowing, 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.360 you know, knowing that there's a pretty good chance it 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.840 won't even end up on TV. It's kind of heartbreaking 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.520 the to see things that you did and even moments 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:05.320 you shared with people or you know, farm work that 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.800 you thought was really fun with the ladies and it 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:10.400 doesn't end up, you know, going to TV and people 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:12.400 miss out on it. That is a little bit of 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:14.600 a shame for it, but that's just how it goes. 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:17.400 I yess interesting that you know farmer will you know, 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.960 he's kind of like a model, Like he's the most 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.960 beautiful looking man, you know when you look at all 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:24.880 the photos. But you know, I think watching the show, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:28.600 you became more attractive as the show went on because 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.640 you were so genuine And I think that that was 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.000 what was interesting to me as a viewer, was that 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.120 you became more appealing than some of the other farmers 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:40.120 because you genuinely look like you're having a good you know, 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:42.200 you just genuinely look like you're having a good time 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:43.080 and happy to be there. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.840 I had so much fun, Like I literally like it 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:48.120 was the funniest thing ever, real, Like, seriously, this was 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:50.640 like a highlight. I was just I don't know, it's 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.920 been explained to me. It's a little bit of imposter syndrome. 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.320 So it kind of it's a good thing aboud thing 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:57.560 because I was just like, it's a privilege to be here. Really, 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.760 Like I was convinced, especially in I was like, they're 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.760 going to realize I'm awkward with these girls. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:03.760 I'm awkward on camera. 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:05.960 They're going to a big mistake, and they're going to 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:07.880 say I'm going to get a phone call and they're 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:09.760 going to say, look, carry we've thought about it and 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:11.160 we just can't go through with you. 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:14.040 You're just it's not quite right. Like I was just 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:15.440 convinced that was going to happen. 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:17.560 Because you've been fired. 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:22.880 Yeah, this is like a once I life on Opportunity 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:24.320 is the only time there's going to be like three 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:27.000 hundred people that were going to making sure my hair 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:29.480 is right and my outfits match and stuff. 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.200 Because if I was dressing myself, it would I would 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:34.160 wear it. I'd be wearing like blue and green with 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:37.760 nothing in between. You know, I'd be breaking all the 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:38.560 rules of fashion. 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:43.240 Harry, the best thing about you was the slightly awkward moments, 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:45.280 because that's what we want to see on television, we 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.640 want to see, we want to see ourselves, and that 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.600 I think we all are super duper nervous when it 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.040 comes to meeting people, you know. So I think that 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:56.040 just genuinely being all of those things was probably your 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.720 best selling point where you're like, please don't fire me. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:01.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I was. 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:03.920 It was just it was just great and I just. 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:06.280 Got along with the crew, like there was no one 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:08.520 that I came up against the whole way through and 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.719 I never want to see that person again, just like 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:12.800