Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the
Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom
Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present
Speaker 1: and emerging, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and
Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today, I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,
Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is
Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and
Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,
Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses
Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo
Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No
Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to
Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical
Speaker 1: self awareness.
Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into.
Speaker 1: The driver's seat of your own life and stop letting
Speaker 1: life pass you by.
Speaker 2: Then you're in the right place.
Speaker 1: Hello, my angels, Welcome back to the potty guys.
Speaker 2: I turned thirty on the weekend and on Saturday.
Speaker 1: It's wild because like that was my last Like Friday
Speaker 1: was my last day as a twenty something year old,
Speaker 1: Like I called my parile and I was like, because
Speaker 1: all my brothers are older. I'm like, this is the
Speaker 1: last day that you have a child in their twenties. No, actually,
Speaker 1: you know what happened. I called them and I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's my last day in my twenties and they were like, no,
Speaker 1: for us, it's our last day to have a child
Speaker 1: in our twenty.
Speaker 2: I'm like, stop making this about you, honestly. And I
Speaker 2: even said to.
Speaker 1: Tim, I'm like, Tim, this is the last day that
Speaker 1: you're going to be with a twenty something.
Speaker 2: You're old.
Speaker 1: And he goes, maybe, oh, my god, honestly, you're fine.
Speaker 1: You're fine.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, that's a pretty good one.
Speaker 1: He was coming up with all what happened on Thursday.
Speaker 1: I oh, we're going to go to Fiji for Ivy's birthday,
Speaker 1: hopefully for a third birthday. And I sent him some
Speaker 1: places and he was like no. And then he sent
Speaker 1: me some places and the only reason why he pitched
Speaker 1: this place because it has two golf courses. And I
Speaker 1: sent him a text being like, oh, the rooms are
Speaker 1: so old. He goes, just remember as of tomorrow, you're
Speaker 1: old too. He was like, first, damn, it's not tomorrow.
Speaker 1: It's Saturday. And Secondly, that's rude, and he goes, that's
Speaker 1: how an old person would reply, So looks what it is.
Speaker 2: It is what it is.
Speaker 1: But in this episode, I tell you thirty lessons of
Speaker 1: becoming thirty.
Speaker 2: These are literally all the lessons.
Speaker 1: I've learned in thirty years. I've really tried to make
Speaker 1: it short and sweet, but it wasn't. But it is
Speaker 1: really insightful. So I hope you guys love it. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much for being on this journey and all
Speaker 1: the birthday wishes. I really do appreciate it. When this
Speaker 1: goes live, me, Tim and Ivy will be road tripping
Speaker 1: down like New South Wales Way, our first time doing it.
Speaker 1: So I'm away for the week celebrating my birthday being thirty,
Speaker 1: so feeling super blessed and grateful and yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited new decade.
Speaker 1: Also, guys, on the weekend, we had a like one
Speaker 1: day birthday sale thirty percent off, but A Tears just
Speaker 1: said she would do a little sneaky.
Speaker 3: I think we should.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll definitely do it. No, I love you.
Speaker 1: Teach's got you back, guys, I do so if you
Speaker 1: want a sneaky thirty percent off anything at Rice what
Speaker 1: do you on the coach BTT.
Speaker 2: This is thirty yeah.
Speaker 1: This is thirty okay guys, use this is thirty sit
Speaker 1: wid thirty percent off and this is only for you, guys.
Speaker 1: We won't put this anywhere else. And it's just a
Speaker 1: big thank you. Thank you for the support. A lot
Speaker 1: of you have been here from my early twenties, so
Speaker 1: I really do appreciate it. And I hope you love
Speaker 1: these lessons and just thank you for letting me do
Speaker 1: what I love.
Speaker 2: And yeah, should we get straight into the.
Speaker 1: Episode Lesson one? When you look for the good, you
Speaker 1: find it. When you focus on the good, the good
Speaker 1: gets better.
Speaker 2: What I feel like, I'm reading a book. I am
Speaker 2: reading off my computer. Guys.
Speaker 1: This has been a big lesson I've learned in this
Speaker 1: last year. I went through a bit of a dark
Speaker 1: time at the start of the year, actually.
Speaker 2: Or was it the mill? Was it the Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, I just I went through a bit of a
Speaker 1: time where I noticed I had really negative thoughts and
Speaker 1: then I was getting in these negative loops and I
Speaker 1: really started to just go back to gratitude and focusing
Speaker 1: on the good and the really simple things, and life
Speaker 1: just got so much better and I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: it can actually be that simple, like focus on the good,
Speaker 1: focus on what.
Speaker 2: You're grateful for. So that's actually been like a recent
Speaker 2: lesson lesson number two. When you sit in the.
Speaker 1: Feeling of gratitude, more gratitude comes so obviously off the
Speaker 1: previous lesson. Guys, I know, every self development and spiritual
Speaker 1: podcast you know, preaches this gratitude like when in doubt,
Speaker 1: gratitude when things are going wrong, gratitude when things are
Speaker 1: going right, gratitude. Just if we can be in gratitude
Speaker 1: in the morning and when things going you know, right wrong,
Speaker 1: all the things you just can not go wrong. And
Speaker 1: it's because the actual frequency of gratitude, the feeling, it
Speaker 1: is so high. And so if we are in lower
Speaker 1: vibrational feelings, you know, that's when we attract law vibrational people, situations,
Speaker 1: those sorts of things.
Speaker 2: So to lift ourselves up, to get out of.
Speaker 1: Those moods and those day to day things which are
Speaker 1: just going to happen, like we're gonna look at our
Speaker 1: phone see something that we don't like or compare or
Speaker 1: just makes us feel like shit, we go on a
Speaker 1: law vibe. And so I have just been looking into
Speaker 1: gratitude so much lately, and it's just wild how much
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, life is just getting so much better.
Speaker 1: Lesson number three, Never stop healing.
Speaker 2: There is always more. But keep going, guys.
Speaker 1: The healing I have done in the last couple of years, honestly,
Speaker 1: I think since my Sadden return, which when I was
Speaker 1: twenty eight, I went. So Cooper actually saw our trauma
Speaker 1: coach first, which Lee. I've spoken about him a lot
Speaker 1: on the show and I'll link him the show notes,
Speaker 1: but basically Cooper went and saw him first, and Cooper's
Speaker 1: whole world turn upside down first and was just like
Speaker 1: it was wild and he obviously got through it, and
Speaker 1: then his life was, you know, better than he could
Speaker 1: have imagined. And he had to go through his trauma,
Speaker 1: and he kept encouraging me, and he's like, you need
Speaker 1: to see Levi, and I just knew.
Speaker 2: I knew what was coming, and so I kept putting
Speaker 2: it off, and I was just like, I can't go there.
Speaker 1: Right now, like I've got a little sweet baby like
Speaker 1: work stuff like I can't go there. And then I
Speaker 1: remember just the moment for me was not really feeling
Speaker 1: into my emotions and having everything quote unquote on paper
Speaker 1: and still not feeling happy, fulfilled, you know, still feeling
Speaker 1: like disconnected from myself, a bit incomplete. And that's when
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I need to go and
Speaker 1: do that like in a child healing, that trauma healing,
Speaker 1: and oh my god, it was a wild ride, and
Speaker 1: it needed to happen in this time in my life
Speaker 1: because if I tried to do that in my early twenties,
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have been ready for it. I needed
Speaker 1: to do all my other healings and I needed to
Speaker 1: go through everything that I've been through. So I did
Speaker 1: a lot of healing in the last couple of years,
Speaker 1: but you know, throughout my whole twenties, Like I feel like,
Speaker 1: if you're listening to this podcast, you do self development,
Speaker 1: you know, you do courses, you listen to different things.
Speaker 1: Maybe you've been on retreats or event days or seen
Speaker 1: a therapist, and it's like all that is adding up
Speaker 1: and compounding. But I think what trips us up is
Speaker 1: we get to a point where we feel really good
Speaker 1: and we think, oh, I don't have to do it anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't have to heal, I don't have to go
Speaker 1: and seek out those sorts of things, and that's what
Speaker 1: I really feel like I'm not going to do anymore
Speaker 1: me And You've actually had this conversation last night because
Speaker 1: we've been reading a lot of like self development books lately,
Speaker 1: and we just feel like we're on like a great
Speaker 1: vibration and like we need to not get.
Speaker 2: In the trap of when things are good, of stopping.
Speaker 1: Our practices and the healings and the learnings, because then
Speaker 1: you tend to you know, full off.
Speaker 2: So that's a universe shows you why I need to
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're like, shit, I didn't need that, which you
Speaker 1: could just seek it out yourself. So I truly believe,
Speaker 1: like never stop healing. And even though I've just been
Speaker 1: through some big trauma and toxic work, and I do feel,
Speaker 1: you know, in such a beautiful place. I yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: still seeking out books that interest me that you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm still connecting back in with myself. I've actually
Speaker 1: had the huge realization lately that I just need to
Speaker 1: go slower. I just need to take things at a
Speaker 1: slower pace because that's what I'm wanting. But I'm noticing
Speaker 1: my whole life is rushed. So it's like, how can
Speaker 1: I have that result when I'm not being that that
Speaker 1: makes sense, but that was a tangent.
Speaker 2: The number four.
Speaker 1: Negative feelings are just feedback and a compass for where
Speaker 1: to go. So again, such a huge moment for me
Speaker 1: was realizing that negative feelings aren't bad. I grew up
Speaker 1: in my childhood of like, you know, if people had
Speaker 1: negative feelings, like it was the end of the world.
Speaker 1: Like it was like, oh my god, like something's wrong.
Speaker 1: Even I notice, you know, my parents saying a lot
Speaker 1: of language of like just be happy, like you don't
Speaker 1: have to worry about it, and they really not intentionally,
Speaker 1: but I feel like mental health issues were almost like
Speaker 1: shunned upon, like oh that's We're not those sorts of people.
Speaker 1: It was this thing like, oh, we're fine, like we
Speaker 1: don't we don't have those issues. And what I've realized
Speaker 1: now is like, you know, when we have quote unquote
Speaker 1: negative feelings and I'm doing air quotes, it's they're not
Speaker 1: actually negative. So for example, when I'm feeling let's say
Speaker 1: I have a really big week of work, I maybe
Speaker 1: have to go away and record for Rise, and then
Speaker 1: I've got like a conference, and then I've got like
Speaker 1: a speaking gig all in one week and I start
Speaker 1: to feel guilt because I'm like, oh, I haven't been
Speaker 1: the most present mom with Ivy. That doesn't mean I'm
Speaker 1: a bad mum. It is just showing me. Okay, Georgia,
Speaker 1: your number one value is Ivy and Tim. And do
Speaker 1: you see how this week things have you.
Speaker 2: Know, not represented that? Yeah, not represented that.
Speaker 1: So instead of being like, oh, I feel so guilty,
Speaker 1: I've got mom guilt and almost like identifying with it,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, cool, good this weekend, I'm actually going
Speaker 1: to cancel my plans with a girlfriend and I'm just
Speaker 1: going to spend the whole weekend with Ivy because it's
Speaker 1: just showing me something of what I want, if that
Speaker 1: makes sense. It's showing me and I think obviously you
Speaker 1: know that's why it's so important to do self development
Speaker 1: work where you are clear on your values and you
Speaker 1: are clear on your seasons and those sorts of things,
Speaker 1: because when the feelings come in, you're able to connect
Speaker 1: back with yourself and just be like, oh, okay, what
Speaker 1: needs to shift and change here.
Speaker 2: It's not bad.
Speaker 1: I'm not a bad person because I prioritized work one week.
Speaker 1: It's just showing me that I don't want to do
Speaker 1: that all the time, so I don't have to take
Speaker 1: on Oh I get mum gilt.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like, instead of identifying with it, I'm like, Okay, that's
Speaker 1: good to know. I'm gonna shift things lesson number five,
Speaker 1: keep moving towards I want to do cool shit.
Speaker 2: I literally wrote that on my what does that mean? Guys?
Speaker 1: I have been like writing, I've got like a list
Speaker 1: in my notes for my emails, and I've been like
Speaker 1: adding to them.
Speaker 2: So so funny. So me and.
Speaker 1: Cooper have always had this thing in you know, business
Speaker 1: and in life of we don't just want to live
Speaker 1: an ordinary life. We want to live an extraordinary life.
Speaker 1: And I've even said this to Tim if he's like if,
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's go to a couple's retreat and he's
Speaker 1: like why, Like our relationship is good, and I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, Tim, I don't want a good relationship.
Speaker 1: I want an extraordinary and he's like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: Sick of it. It's like, I'm so sick of you.
Speaker 1: But it's truly is It's like I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of people are okay with being average, with just
Speaker 1: accepting less because you know this and that. But I've
Speaker 1: always leant to okay, but where can I lean into
Speaker 1: This feels really exciting, This feels really cool. And even
Speaker 1: for example, like Cooper, he's doing his helicopter license and
Speaker 1: if you ask him why, he's like, because I want
Speaker 1: to do a cool shit in this life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like that.
Speaker 1: It doesn't actually have to have an ROI or whatnot,
Speaker 1: but it's just like, does this feel fun and exciting?
Speaker 1: And will I be like, what a cool experience? And
Speaker 1: so I always try and mix that into my logic
Speaker 1: because obviously we can't live our life fully like that,
Speaker 1: because you know, might go down some interesting pathways. But
Speaker 1: I do try and put that into my life of like, well,
Speaker 1: what would just feel like cool and exciting? And even
Speaker 1: in the businesses is like I think I hate when
Speaker 1: I start running the businesses like everyone else and I'm
Speaker 1: not adding in, okay, but this does this even benefit
Speaker 1: what I want to do? Does this even benefit the mission?
Speaker 1: Because our mission is always going to be so different
Speaker 1: to other companies, so really.
Speaker 2: Moving towards I want to do cool shit?
Speaker 1: And yeah, I feel like even for example, in Naked Harvest,
Speaker 1: we have kind of done that in the way of
Speaker 1: for example, we always include community in our events. That
Speaker 1: again it's not like they're bringing in an audience. They're
Speaker 1: not like, you know, benefiting this event that we're putting
Speaker 1: money in. But for us, it's like our community who
Speaker 1: buy our products, who experience Naked Harvest, get to meet
Speaker 1: us the team and experience you know, our ecosystem and
Speaker 1: like that to me, that's so cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So even those like making decisions in that way lesson
Speaker 1: number six never stop picking growth. So again, huge moment
Speaker 1: for me this the last couple of years has been
Speaker 1: whenever I get comfortable and almost and we'll do it
Speaker 1: whenever I get comfortable, Not that things go to shit,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I don't want to have that belief,
Speaker 1: but I just notice such a difference in the trajectory
Speaker 1: of my life and my happiness and my growth and
Speaker 1: my purpose is when I'm picking the comfort choices or
Speaker 1: when I'm picking the comfort goals, and I will notice
Speaker 1: such a debt a.
Speaker 2: Direct correlation between it.
Speaker 1: So, for instance, like I had a moment where, you know,
Speaker 1: things were happening in the business and I was like,
Speaker 1: why is this happening? And I looked, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: six months or four months before, and I had made
Speaker 1: a lot of comfortable decisions, and I was like, and
Speaker 1: I feel like anytime in your reality when you're experiencing
Speaker 1: something that's a result of previous you, whether it's six months,
Speaker 1: a year or whatnot. And so it's always so helpful
Speaker 1: when things aren't going to plan or whatnot to just
Speaker 1: think back and be like, oh, is there any part
Speaker 1: that I can take responsibility for this? And I did
Speaker 1: notice It's like when I stopped picking growth, which is
Speaker 1: definitely my human design, Like I said, I want to
Speaker 1: lead an extraordinary life. I just notice a direct correlation
Speaker 1: in my reality. So again, me and Cooper even talking
Speaker 1: last night, being like, we need to continuously pick growth.
Speaker 1: And honestly, not many people pick growth. They pick the
Speaker 1: comfortable decision. Even the decision in the morning was snoozing
Speaker 1: your larm and not going to gym, Like that's the
Speaker 1: comfortable decision, that's not picking growth. So can you see
Speaker 1: how like that's such a small thing, But if you
Speaker 1: are continuously that.
Speaker 2: Person, what sort of life you would have?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Where you are? I did that? Yes, Okay, that's okay,
Speaker 2: it was so cold. We need to I honestly had
Speaker 2: a sleep in this morning.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's my pre birthday day, so it is okay,
Speaker 1: but you're in there, notice yourself.
Speaker 2: If that's continuously what you're picking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I act even had this aha momentary up
Speaker 1: where I so I went through my whole health thing
Speaker 1: with my thyroid where basically had to stop doing you know,
Speaker 1: hit and high intensity to really tell my body it
Speaker 1: was safe to heal. And I did heal, and you know,
Speaker 1: my thiro it's in a great place. I'm off my medication.
Speaker 1: But I did notice, you know, like I am can
Speaker 1: I get blood tests every month, so I'm all good,
Speaker 1: But I do notice I like still don't want to
Speaker 1: do hit sessions of cardios, but not even like even
Speaker 1: at Jim if they're like, oh, you know it's ten
Speaker 1: minutes at the end, and let's do this little hit finisher,
Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, I.
Speaker 2: Can't do that whereas I can. Yeah, I'm like don't
Speaker 2: want to. Yeah, So I'm.
Speaker 1: Even thinking, I'm like, oh, I might even just try
Speaker 1: and add in like a run or something, just a
Speaker 1: bit that makes me uncomfortable. The thought of running makes
Speaker 1: me uncomfortable me too, So I'm like, well, maybe I
Speaker 1: should like lean into it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think with that one as well. Sometimes no
Speaker 3: decision is a decision.
Speaker 2: Mm, totally. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's even something I've noticed previous me. She hasn't made decisions,
Speaker 1: and now I'm fucking dealing with her shit, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm usually so decisive, but obviously, you know, when things
Speaker 1: are going on, I can get very like put my
Speaker 1: head in the sand, and I.
Speaker 2: Don't want to make a decision.
Speaker 1: Even if I've got those feelings, it always doesn't end well.
Speaker 2: No, So that was a good pick up.
Speaker 1: Lesson number seven. May I remember how much I wanted
Speaker 1: this life when things get tough. This is again, you know,
Speaker 1: when I'm feeling overwhelmed that I've got to get out
Speaker 1: of the house in the morning and I've got to
Speaker 1: go to this like you know me, and then I've
Speaker 1: got to go to this other meeting, and then I've
Speaker 1: got to record a podcast with you, and then I've
Speaker 1: got to do this, and I'm like, I'm so overwhelmed
Speaker 1: and I've got so much to do, and then I
Speaker 1: get home and then I've got to you know, play
Speaker 1: with Ivy all afternoon and like all these things, I
Speaker 1: like think to myself, Georgia, this is like such a privilege.
Speaker 1: This is you know, you five years ago, if you
Speaker 1: told her what you were doing in the life you
Speaker 1: were living, she would be blown away, Like she would
Speaker 1: be like, holy shit, are you serious. So in the moment,
Speaker 1: things can feel tough and hard, and you know, like
Speaker 1: you're just like going and going and going, but I
Speaker 1: really have to try and remember it's like, you know, like,
Speaker 1: how fucking what a privilege. I get to be a
Speaker 1: working mom. That's something I always wanted to be. I
Speaker 1: always wanted to have my babies and have my career,
Speaker 1: and I'm doing it. Is it hard, yes, but I'm
Speaker 1: doing it. It's what I wanted. So it's almost who
Speaker 1: it's like. For example, I was having conversation with this
Speaker 1: with my girlfriend because she's a stay at home mum,
Speaker 1: and she says the same thing. She goes, I wanted
Speaker 1: to be a stay at home mum, and then I
Speaker 1: find myself during the day feeling overwhelmed and being like, oh,
Speaker 1: I have to do the washing, I have to look
Speaker 1: after the baby, feeling you know, resentful, and she needs
Speaker 1: to remind herself. She's like, this is what I picked,
Speaker 1: This is what I wanted. If I told eighteen year
Speaker 1: old you know, self, I was being a stay at
Speaker 1: home mom and I had this beautiful husband and this
Speaker 1: beautiful baby.
Speaker 2: She'd be like, oh my god, that's goals.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so she's like, do you see how we
Speaker 1: get to where we wanted to be?
Speaker 2: And then we complain.
Speaker 1: About it, and I'm like, I guarantee you we all
Speaker 1: do this, and again it's okay, it's you know, we
Speaker 1: need to have those moments. But I'm like, may I
Speaker 1: always remember that I'm actually living my dream life and
Speaker 1: I picked these things. And I think when you take
Speaker 1: responsibility for like, no, this is actually something that I know,
Speaker 1: gid my life towards and embrace those chaotic moments, I
Speaker 1: think that is so important. Lesson number eight. Always lead
Speaker 1: with heart in business and you'll never.
Speaker 2: Lose So sweet who wrote the.
Speaker 1: So again, you know, I feel like I've harped on
Speaker 1: about this, but I just truly believe it's like, if
Speaker 1: in business, you have a heart led business and you're
Speaker 1: leading with heart, and you're making heart led decisions even
Speaker 1: if they don't logically make sense, even if you don't
Speaker 1: want to make them, even if they feel, you know, hard,
Speaker 1: even if everyone else is doing different things.
Speaker 2: You can't go wrong.
Speaker 1: You have to trust your heart, you have to trust
Speaker 1: your intuition, and yeah, I just feel like because it's
Speaker 1: a part of you, and it's You're the one with
Speaker 1: the vision and the mission, and so it's like if
Speaker 1: you're moving towards it, that's all that matters, because otherwise
Speaker 1: you're going to get a couple of years down the
Speaker 1: track and you're going to feel so disconnected from your
Speaker 1: own business that you're not going to want to work
Speaker 1: in it. Yeah, so obviously this is for my business galleys,
Speaker 1: but always leading with heart lesson number nine, there is
Speaker 1: always goodness trying to get.
Speaker 2: Through to me. I love this one.
Speaker 1: This is like the way I would explain this is
Speaker 1: kind of like life happens for me, vibes of even
Speaker 1: when I think someone isn't being nice to me, the
Speaker 1: world isn't being nice to me, tim isn't being nice
Speaker 1: to me, bad things are happening. Just trusting that there
Speaker 1: is goodness, There's an abundance of goodness, There's an abundance
Speaker 1: of this is going to feel really good. It's coming
Speaker 1: for you. You just have to be patient and wait. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And for some reason, I just have really resonated with
Speaker 1: that word goodness.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys do.
Speaker 1: It's almost like giving people Again. I do this with
Speaker 1: tim of Let's say he's done something where he's forgotten
Speaker 1: to get me a coffee. Yeah, And so instead of
Speaker 1: being like like, oh, he doesn't think about me, he's
Speaker 1: you know, he's not considerate. Can I think give him
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt of he was actually preoccupied
Speaker 1: because he was thinking about you know what he's planning
Speaker 1: to make us for dinner? Yeah, or you know, there's
Speaker 1: goodness in other ways that will come out, and really
Speaker 1: trusting that rather than going to the negative, the negative,
Speaker 1: he's bad, no one cares about me, those sorts of
Speaker 1: things as they feel like our brain it always goes
Speaker 1: to the worst case scenario. It always goes to the
Speaker 1: badness rather than the goodness. So if I can just
Speaker 1: trust that, no, it's like it's it gets to be
Speaker 1: goodness and that gets to be my reality. Listen, Number ten,
Speaker 1: be generous with resources once your cup is filled. So
Speaker 1: again I just think, obviously big one here is filling
Speaker 1: your cup first, and then once your cup is filled,
Speaker 1: you want to be generous.
Speaker 2: You want to.
Speaker 1: Give your time, you want to give you know, whether
Speaker 1: it's money support, emotional support, you know, all those sorts
Speaker 1: of things you want to give that. So when you
Speaker 1: notice that you don't want to be generous.
Speaker 2: With your money, time, energy, or whatever.
Speaker 1: It's because you haven't filled up your own cup. And
Speaker 1: so that's always such a reminder for me because I
Speaker 1: know I'm such a generous person, and so when I'm
Speaker 1: feeling a bit like oh I don't want to give
Speaker 1: anyone anything or like resentful, it's like I haven't filled
Speaker 1: up my own cup. So that makes sense and again
Speaker 1: not making that situation bad and be like I just
Speaker 1: need to go fill out my cup. Lesson number eleven.
Speaker 1: Love who is around you and who has always supported you,
Speaker 1: so obviously just a sweet little one. I think sometimes
Speaker 1: it's this for me is like it's really easy to
Speaker 1: see everyone's flaws. It's really easy, especially when you're doing
Speaker 1: self development and maybe the people around you you know,
Speaker 1: or your pa or lifelong friends don't do it, and
Speaker 1: you feel like you're constantly evolving and they're not. And
Speaker 1: again it's like that, well, I'm doing the work, why
Speaker 1: can't you? And for me, this has just been going
Speaker 1: back to people don't have to want to do what
Speaker 1: I do. People don't want to have to evolve and heal,
Speaker 1: I can still love them.
Speaker 2: And again it's.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's such a more beautiful place to
Speaker 1: be where you don't need everyone to be like you,
Speaker 1: you don't need everyone to be on the same journey,
Speaker 1: but you can still love them how they are. And
Speaker 1: I feel like, definitely, at the start of my self
Speaker 1: development journey, I didn't have this, but now entering my thirties,
Speaker 1: it's just this beautiful, like unconditional They get to be
Speaker 1: who they are in this lifetime and it's not up
Speaker 1: to me to change them, drag them, tell them they
Speaker 1: get to be who they are. And if they are
Speaker 1: someone who does love and support me and show me
Speaker 1: kindness and you know that unconditional love, I can absolutely
Speaker 1: have that for them.
Speaker 3: That's so beautiful. I think it's like a step above
Speaker 3: like when people are like if they're not matching, you
Speaker 3: cut it out, cut them out. It's like, no, you
Speaker 3: don't need to, like you can still be kind and
Speaker 3: have so much love for the people around you.
Speaker 1: And I think that comes from maturity, and that's why
Speaker 1: I put it in because I think, like, you know,
Speaker 1: twenty five year old Georgie was about that, like they're not.
Speaker 2: Up to your standards, get rid of them. Yeah, like
Speaker 2: she was very brutal.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you'd probably listen to old podcasts and
Speaker 1: I probably would have said that, But thirty year old
Speaker 1: Georgie has so much more space and capacity. Obviously, it's
Speaker 1: because these people are your people and they've supported and
Speaker 1: loved you. That's you know, the pre just anyone, No,
Speaker 1: not just anyone, But yeah, I think that feels so
Speaker 1: much better to me because I think it's a very
Speaker 1: black and white thinking to think, well, if they're not.
Speaker 2: Up to my standards, they're out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, lesson twelve, which goes hand in hand with lesson
Speaker 1: eleven pour into the people who pour into you. I
Speaker 1: feel like I don't even need to get into that
Speaker 1: less than thirteen.
Speaker 2: Do I really need to do this? Or am I picking?
Speaker 2: Ivy will never be this young again? Are you okay?
Speaker 2: So again?
Speaker 1: Being a working mom, I do miss moments like beautiful
Speaker 1: moments of Ivy's childhood, you know, like you know, our
Speaker 1: dads probably did when we grew up, and our mom
Speaker 1: got us a lot more and so I notice, you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm obviously that's what I've picked, and I'm happy
Speaker 1: to do that because I have so much love for
Speaker 1: my business and the impact we make. So I've been
Speaker 1: asking myself that question because I have had quite a
Speaker 1: few work things come up on the weekend. So the
Speaker 1: question I asked myself is like, do I actually want
Speaker 1: to do this? Will this push the needle forward? Is
Speaker 1: this part of my impact?
Speaker 2: Or am I picking? Ivy will never be this young again?
Speaker 2: So I pick her?
Speaker 1: And that has helped me so much in making really
Speaker 1: great decisions with like not doing so on the weekend
Speaker 1: or you know, picking stuff and I'm like.
Speaker 2: No, this is this is important.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think also like just saying that, like
Speaker 1: Ivy will never be this young again, and like I
Speaker 1: don't want to miss her childhood and I know I
Speaker 1: won't because I prioritize it so much. But I think
Speaker 1: just having that in mind has just been Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: been really good. Lesson fourteen, Always pick peace. It's like
Speaker 1: that trend on TikTok. I ain't no man's peach.
Speaker 2: Have you seen that?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 2: I started getting a mad cooked it's so funny, funny,
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I was like, oh my god, it's
Speaker 2: me so roe self expiatory.
Speaker 1: And this is even like if I notice like a conflict,
Speaker 1: or if I just notice me getting triggered by something
Speaker 1: or something come up, I'm like, can I pick.
Speaker 2: Peace in this moment? Can I just pick peace? Does
Speaker 2: this actually have to be something? And it's been really helpful?
Speaker 1: Lesson fifteen, know my values so like important, so important, guys.
Speaker 1: If you don't have a list of values that you
Speaker 1: make choices from, what are you doing? So again, you
Speaker 1: know my values, they start with Tim and Ivy, and
Speaker 1: then second is me so meantime, me filling up my cup,
Speaker 1: and then third is my businesses passion, and then it
Speaker 1: goes to self development and then it goes to friends
Speaker 1: and so I think there's also like experiences and holidays
Speaker 1: in there, but I don't know where they are.
Speaker 2: I'll have to look at my sheet. But that's like
Speaker 2: a Tim and Ivy thing too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically, again, if I'm struggling to make a decision,
Speaker 1: I go to my list of values and I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: what decision am I making off these? Because when you're
Speaker 1: making decisions from your list of values, you can't get
Speaker 1: them wrong. Because even if you you know, maybe think
Speaker 1: you're going to regret it, or if you do regret it,
Speaker 1: in that moment, you made it from your values, So
Speaker 1: how could it ever be wrong?
Speaker 2: So powerful?
Speaker 1: Lesson sixteen, pick and follow my life off those values.
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't need to explain that one.
Speaker 2: Lesson seventeen.
Speaker 1: May I make my mess my message. So again, just
Speaker 1: knowing any lessons, any struggles are a beautiful shaping of
Speaker 1: who I meant to be, embracing them and then also
Speaker 1: sharing them. I think sharing your mess is so so
Speaker 1: powerful because I guarantee you there are people who have
Speaker 1: gone through what you're struggling with or you know you'll
Speaker 1: find with it now, but they're struggling with it. And
Speaker 1: I think, you know, connection via story is the most
Speaker 1: powerful thing.
Speaker 2: On this earth.
Speaker 1: So if you can share your story and you can
Speaker 1: share your message, that like, that's the ultimate connection. And
Speaker 1: so that has just been a huge thing. I personally
Speaker 1: don't I don't like sharing my mess during it.
Speaker 2: I like being in it, and.
Speaker 1: I very much, you know, reflecting on it, internalizing it
Speaker 1: and really going through it myself, and then once I'm
Speaker 1: out of it, I share it. You might be different,
Speaker 1: but that's just how I do it.
Speaker 2: Lesson eighteen. The magic is always me.
Speaker 1: Oh, I honestly think I might get the statooed on
Speaker 1: me because lately I love this beautiful Yes, the magic
Speaker 1: is always me because it's like any time that you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what to do, or you
Speaker 1: know this has happened, or you know something, or you're
Speaker 1: doubting yourself, like just remembering it's all in here, Like
Speaker 1: the magic is me, Like I'm the main character of
Speaker 1: my own life.
Speaker 3: It's like, stop waiting for someone to save you.
Speaker 1: Yes, like be your own prince charming lesson nineteen. When
Speaker 1: I'm locked into my purpose, good things happen. You can't
Speaker 1: go wrong. Lock into your purpose and your purpose. This
Speaker 1: is actually really incredible. Cooper was saying he saw something
Speaker 1: on TikTok the other day and it was like a
Speaker 1: guy who like channels with a you know, spirit or whatnot,
Speaker 1: and someone asked the spirit, you know, what is my purpose?
Speaker 1: And he said he said something so beautiful, and it
Speaker 1: basically was, your purpose is always being you.
Speaker 2: No one else in this world is you.
Speaker 1: Everyone has a unique and different purpose, and your purpose
Speaker 1: is being you.
Speaker 2: No when is you, and that is your power.
Speaker 1: I was like.
Speaker 2: Isn't that beautiful? So beautiful?
Speaker 1: Lesson twenty may, I contradict myself. Oh, your purpose can change. Oh,
Speaker 1: so obviously you know your purpose being you. We love
Speaker 1: that authentically you is very important. But for example, you
Speaker 1: know your purpose, it might be, you know, in your
Speaker 1: early twenties, you're really like empowering women to go after
Speaker 1: what they want, Like that is my purpose. But it's
Speaker 1: so interesting since I have done my trauma work and
Speaker 1: because I had this huge thing not against men, but I.
Speaker 2: Was very for the female.
Speaker 1: And it may have been because some trauma, and since
Speaker 1: I have dissolved that trauma, I have noticed how much
Speaker 1: more loving men.
Speaker 2: I'm not actually that bad. I'm like, oh, men, not
Speaker 2: actually that bad, They're right.
Speaker 1: And I'm noticing like I'm not as biased and I'm
Speaker 1: more of like, I want everyone to step in their power,
Speaker 1: not just females.
Speaker 2: Love that. So to see that's even like it's it's
Speaker 2: a big shift in your purpose too though totally. So
Speaker 2: that's even something I was a little bit like. I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, but I've always.
Speaker 1: Just been, you know, very females, which I still am,
Speaker 1: but I've noticed it's kind of changed in a volve
Speaker 1: and I think that's me growing up and evolving. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, your purpose can change, like you're allowed to evolve,
Speaker 1: and especially you know, if you enter, if you start
Speaker 1: a different business, or if you know, something happens and
Speaker 1: you change careers, like your purpose can change lesson twenty one.
Speaker 1: You can contradict yourself, and you should.
Speaker 2: I love this one, guys.
Speaker 1: Honestly, if you don't look back at when you're like twenty,
Speaker 1: when you're thirty and are just a little bit not
Speaker 1: like wow, that was a bit cringe, but you're like, wow,
Speaker 1: I'm such a different person, you want to you want
Speaker 1: to look at yourself too, five years ago and be like, wow,
Speaker 1: I'm a different person. I have different values, I have
Speaker 1: different beliefs. Maybe not different values, but like different beliefs.
Speaker 1: You want to contradict yourself, like especially you know, the
Speaker 1: especially me, even that evolution from no it's just for
Speaker 1: females to now being for everyone. You know, that's such
Speaker 1: a beautiful evolution. It's you know, embracing that and even
Speaker 1: contradicting yourself in the way of I was thinking about this,
Speaker 1: so my like, I also have money values, so I
Speaker 1: have like my normal values, and then I have money values,
Speaker 1: and that just helps me decide what I spend money on,
Speaker 1: which again I think everyone should have. And so, for example,
Speaker 1: one of my money values is I love dropping lots
Speaker 1: of money on handbags, on designer handbags, Like I just
Speaker 1: have this, like I'm like, oh, like I'm so attracted,
Speaker 1: I feel so good.
Speaker 2: I don't mind some shoes.
Speaker 1: Bit handbags are like my thing, Whereas I it doesn't
Speaker 1: feel good to me to buy designer clothes because I'm
Speaker 1: not like I'm talking over one thousand dollars. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: I'm talking designer, designer, not just you know, fancy.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, and I've.
Speaker 1: Realized it's because I it's like a use thing for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's like because I know I only wear clothes
Speaker 1: a couple of times, and that's why I have deep
Speaker 1: hop and I recycle clothes because I love wearing new clothes.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And so for me, I'm like, oh, I just don't
Speaker 1: think I want to spend drop two grand on a
Speaker 1: dress because I know I'm gonna wear her once and of.
Speaker 2: Course I could resell her.
Speaker 1: But for example, for my thirtieth birthday, I hired two dresses,
Speaker 1: so I wanted some options, so I hired two and
Speaker 1: they're you know, they're back in Bridge, so there would
Speaker 1: be you know, five hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: To buy, and I'm like, I'm gonna wear them once?
Speaker 2: Why would I do that.
Speaker 1: I'll just hire them for like, you know, a couple
Speaker 1: hundred dollars together and then have two options.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and to me that feels so much better.
Speaker 1: But it's because I like, know my values and I
Speaker 1: know I love spending a lot of cash on airbags
Speaker 1: but not really on clothes. But that could be contradicting
Speaker 1: to someone. Yeah, they could see me and be like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: your company's worth eight figures and you still hire dresses.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, but that makes completely sense to me.
Speaker 1: That makes sense to me, but it might look contradicting
Speaker 1: to other people. But it doesn't matter because it makes
Speaker 1: sense to me exactly. Anyway, that was a tangent, but.
Speaker 2: We loved it.
Speaker 1: You should contradicte yourself, Okay, lesson twenty two? Where can
Speaker 1: I drop the struggle?
Speaker 3: Love?
Speaker 1: Like I have been asking myself this so much lately,
Speaker 1: and so much has shifted because I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: we were we changed the launch for something, and I
Speaker 1: called Cooper and I'm like, I'm really stressed, and then
Speaker 1: I'm going away and then like, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: think the girls are ready, and blah blah blah, freaking
Speaker 1: out and Cooper's like, we'll just push the launch and I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, but I can't push the launch. He's like why,
Speaker 2: but why I'm like and then You're like, oh, I'm
Speaker 2: actually in charge. I can Oh, that's actually my business.
Speaker 2: That's weird.
Speaker 1: But it's because I get I get worked up and
Speaker 1: I get these ideas in my head and I'm like, no, no,
Speaker 1: but I told myself it was this date. But it's like,
Speaker 1: because I have a lot of like self responsibility, if
Speaker 1: that makes sense. But I'm like, I've actually just made
Speaker 1: this so difficult and so stressful for myself when I
Speaker 1: don't need to. And so we just pushed the launch
Speaker 1: a month and I feel fucking great, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, and it.
Speaker 2: Was that easy.
Speaker 1: It was that easy, and I could just drop the struggle. Obviously,
Speaker 1: that's a very unique circumstance because I am my own boss.
Speaker 1: But I even think, for example, like Ivy, if she's
Speaker 1: been really difficult sometimes and she has does this new
Speaker 1: thing where she doesn't want to have a bath. And
Speaker 1: you know, it's like Saturday night, Tim was out. She
Speaker 1: want to have a fucking bath, And it was like
Speaker 1: nearly getting to seven pm.
Speaker 2: And then I was like I'm just not gonna bath her.
Speaker 1: You know, like she wasn't It's not like she'd been
Speaker 1: rolling a mud or anything like that. Like I obviously
Speaker 1: changed unappy, and I was like, she doesn't want to
Speaker 1: have a shower.
Speaker 2: Why am I making a shower? This is like because
Speaker 2: it was ruining our whole lab where you're like screaming
Speaker 2: at each other. So she didn't have a shower.
Speaker 1: We changed her nappy and we sat and we watched
Speaker 1: some more TV and she was so happy and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh wow, this was like so much easier.
Speaker 2: But I was like, no, you have to get it.
Speaker 3: How I didn't got jore Meala crude and said they
Speaker 3: don't wash their kids unless they can see dirt on them.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 1: I get it because it's the moment it's so hard.
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't because I don't have a kid.
Speaker 2: I'm like, just put her in the shower. No, you
Speaker 2: don't understand. I understand.
Speaker 1: One day, Ivy yell, she goes take this she goes,
Speaker 1: no way, we're gonna have a shower.
Speaker 2: No way, no way.
Speaker 1: She runs away from me, and if I try and
Speaker 1: pick her up, she's screaming like.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to murder her. I'm not even joking so dramatic.
Speaker 2: I want to where she gets it from, I know.
Speaker 2: So that's why I thought, fuck I could, I'll just.
Speaker 1: And I was getting really stressed because usually.
Speaker 2: Tim's there and she listens to him, and I just thought,
Speaker 2: why am I bothering?
Speaker 1: Let her not have a shower, and look, we're not
Speaker 1: doing that every night, but then she'll be dirty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no we're not.
Speaker 1: But in that moment, I was like, okay, like do
Speaker 1: you see how I'm like, it's not worth it.
Speaker 2: It's not worth it. I was making it more difficult. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so fair valid.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's things in your life where you
Speaker 1: Tim even does this where he's like he works something
Speaker 1: up in his head and he's like, oh I got
Speaker 1: to do this, and he always talks about like going
Speaker 1: to get the groceries and how hard it is for Ivy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you can just get them deliver
Speaker 1: in yeah, and he's like oh no, but I like
Speaker 1: I want to go in.
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, then why are you complaining you want
Speaker 2: to go in?
Speaker 1: There's an easier option, and you know, not picking it literally,
Speaker 1: so like you know, that's absously a good a good thing.
Speaker 3: I do this with that other people might like I.
Speaker 3: We obviously are very privileged here at work where we
Speaker 3: have flexible working hours, and I like to get in
Speaker 3: at six thirty in the morning because then I missed
Speaker 3: the traffic coming to work and going home, and I
Speaker 3: will fluster myself up like nothing else if I'm gonna
Speaker 3: be here even like fifteen minutes after six thirty, And
Speaker 3: I'm like, no one's going to be at.
Speaker 2: Work for another hour.
Speaker 3: Like if you get to work at six forty five,
Speaker 3: it's fine.
Speaker 2: It's fine. Literally, no one's gonna.
Speaker 3: A yeah, like stay fifteen minutes later.
Speaker 2: It's not that big a deal. It's really nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But it things like mentally, you've like told yourself
Speaker 1: I'm going to start at six yet and you drive
Speaker 1: yourself insane.
Speaker 2: Yes, less than twenty three.
Speaker 1: Be efficient with your time and consistently ordered it. So
Speaker 1: our time is our greatest resource. It is more like
Speaker 1: it's more important than money. It's our greatest resource. And
Speaker 1: I think if we aren't consistently auditing it and being efficient,
Speaker 1: like you, you have flexible working arrangement arrangements again amazing,
Speaker 1: I know everyone doesn't, but you being like, well, it
Speaker 1: takes me, you know, an hour and a half to
Speaker 1: get to work if I start.
Speaker 2: At this time.
Speaker 1: So I'm going to start an hour earlier and it's
Speaker 1: only going to take me forty minutes to get to work.
Speaker 1: I'm going to save that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You're being efficient. Yeah, so I don't carry the way
Speaker 1: as long as the work's getting done. So you're being
Speaker 1: efficient with your time and you're making your routine work
Speaker 1: for you. Where was they feel like so many of
Speaker 1: us are just doing these tasks or routines because we
Speaker 1: think we have to, but they're not actually efficient, they're
Speaker 1: not actually benefiting us. And I think obviously what's great
Speaker 1: to about auditing it is they should change.
Speaker 2: They should evolve.
Speaker 1: They should be working for you, not you working for them.
Speaker 1: Lesson twenty four lesson twenty four. May I always know
Speaker 1: lessons are blessings hashtag life happens.
Speaker 2: For me.
Speaker 1: Again, just knowing in those really tough moments, it's like
Speaker 1: this is happening for me, I'll get through this. It's
Speaker 1: been the most incredible. It's I think that's probably been
Speaker 1: the most incredible lesson of my twenties. They are always
Speaker 1: blessings Lessen twenty.
Speaker 2: Five May I always do belief work.
Speaker 1: The answer to any question about how you become the
Speaker 1: person who fill in blank like Dardi da, who gets
Speaker 1: the promotion, who gets the house, who earns more money
Speaker 1: is belief work.
Speaker 2: It's you doing belief work.
Speaker 1: I even I had a cool my girlfriend and we
Speaker 1: were just even discussing like going into my thirties and
Speaker 1: like my goals and that sort of thing, and she
Speaker 1: even picked up She's like, oh, I love that, but
Speaker 1: your beliefs don't match it. So she's like, I love
Speaker 1: that goal for your thirties. I absolutely know you can
Speaker 1: get there, but what you're saying, I can see your
Speaker 1: beliefs don't match it.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, that's such a good pickup.
Speaker 1: So she said, I want you to go write down
Speaker 1: your beliefs, even like record them and say them like
Speaker 1: every day for the next month. And That's what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do, because our belief system needs to match who
Speaker 1: we want to be in the future. If our belief
Speaker 1: system matches who we are now. We will always have
Speaker 1: what we currently have now, and most of us are
Speaker 1: trying to strive and achieve different things. So it's like
Speaker 1: that person who has your goal, what is their belief
Speaker 1: system And it's if it's different, you need to do
Speaker 1: the belief work to be that person. And obviously we
Speaker 1: get a lot deeper, you know in my programs, the
Speaker 1: project in the Rise app and.
Speaker 2: A new course coming out Verto soon.
Speaker 1: But that is so important and I even like she
Speaker 1: said that, I'm like, fuck, I even teach this and you're.
Speaker 2: So right, and I have missed that.
Speaker 1: So it's even cool if you have people who understand
Speaker 1: and this of even having a discussion of being like, okay,
Speaker 1: so the goals I want to be this, what sort
Speaker 1: of thoughts and beliefs would that person have? And even
Speaker 1: get your friend to like help you a little bit,
Speaker 1: because sometimes we can get really stuck and just notice
Speaker 1: the difference the gap lesson twenty six. The how question
Speaker 1: is always how do I become a vibrational match?
Speaker 2: That's amazing? How good is that?
Speaker 1: So that that's such an and such again such an
Speaker 1: important part of like, oh I want this, I want that. Well,
Speaker 1: it's like, well, how do you become a vibrational match
Speaker 1: for that thing? Because that's how you get it, you know,
Speaker 1: that's essentially what manifestation is. And for instance, if you
Speaker 1: are wanting this reality where you know this person is
Speaker 1: always secure in herself, she makes great decisions, she makes
Speaker 1: fast decisions, she never doubts herself, she's solid, she's connected
Speaker 1: to herself, she meditate, she's you know, all these things
Speaker 1: and that's the reality you want, but you don't practice
Speaker 1: any of that. Now, how are you ever going to
Speaker 1: be on the vibrational frequency to match what you want?
Speaker 1: So again, it's that belief work, but also the frequency.
Speaker 2: That's why I put them together. But that's a good eye,
Speaker 2: that's a good ease. I going to remind myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, So Lessen twenty seven. Where can I have more fun?
Speaker 1: That's an important one. Putting on music with Ivy dancing
Speaker 1: around and I always feel so much better. Lessen twenty eight.
Speaker 1: I don't have it all figured it out, but I
Speaker 1: just need to have my vision and I just need
Speaker 1: to know my next step. So again, don't be too
Speaker 1: worried if you don't know all the steps, because the
Speaker 1: how isn't up to us. We let the universe lead
Speaker 1: the way, but there's always going to be that little
Speaker 1: next step and just keep following that Lesson twenty eight Lead,
Speaker 1: don't wait for others to do it. Guys, you're the
Speaker 1: main character of your life. You need to lead, You
Speaker 1: need to make the decision.
Speaker 2: You need to go first. It is so easy.
Speaker 1: To think other people need to go first, and you
Speaker 1: want to see how it turns out. But then you're
Speaker 1: living their life. You're not leaving, You're not living yours.
Speaker 2: And then the last lesson lesson thirty is always be you.
Speaker 2: Oh we love that one. You can't get it wrong, guys.
Speaker 1: Be you, embrace being authentically you, and you can't fuck
Speaker 1: it up.
Speaker 2: You can't get it wrong.
Speaker 1: Love Guys, thank you so much for listening to my
Speaker 1: thirty lessons of becoming a thirty year old. I honestly
Speaker 1: feel like I'm like thirty five at this point. I
Speaker 1: don't like, be like, what does it feel like?
Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like.
Speaker 1: I've been thirty for so long. I feel like a
Speaker 1: bit of an odd soul. But I just am so
Speaker 1: excited for my thirties. I'm so excited for a new decade,
Speaker 1: I already feel like wiser, so I'm excited to continue that.
Speaker 1: And I'm just excited to learn more lessons and obviously
Speaker 1: continue this journey with you guys. And I just want
Speaker 1: to say thank you for sticking around.
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot.
Speaker 1: Of you would have known me since my early twenties,
Speaker 1: so wow, yeah, yeah, thank you for being around. I
Speaker 1: appreciate and love you guys so much. Thank you so
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