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Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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Speaker 1: and emerging, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today, I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is

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Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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Speaker 1: self awareness.

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Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into.

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Speaker 1: The driver's seat of your own life and stop letting

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Speaker 2: Then you're in the right place.

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Speaker 1: Hello, my angels, Welcome back to the potty guys.

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Speaker 2: I turned thirty on the weekend and on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: It's wild because like that was my last Like Friday

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Speaker 1: Like I called my parile and I was like, because

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Speaker 1: you know what happened. I called them and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, stop making this about you, honestly. And I

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Speaker 1: Tim, I'm like, Tim, this is the last day that

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Speaker 2: You're old.

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Speaker 1: And he goes, maybe, oh, my god, honestly, you're fine.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, that's a pretty good one.

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Speaker 1: He was coming up with all what happened on Thursday.

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Speaker 1: I oh, we're going to go to Fiji for Ivy's birthday,

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Speaker 1: me some places and the only reason why he pitched

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Speaker 1: so old. He goes, just remember as of tomorrow, you're

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Speaker 1: old too. He was like, first, damn, it's not tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: It's Saturday. And Secondly, that's rude, and he goes, that's

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Speaker 2: It is what it is.

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Speaker 1: But in this episode, I tell you thirty lessons of

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Speaker 2: These are literally all the lessons.

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Speaker 1: I've learned in thirty years. I've really tried to make

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Speaker 1: really insightful. So I hope you guys love it. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for being on this journey and all

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Speaker 1: the birthday wishes. I really do appreciate it. When this

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Speaker 1: goes live, me, Tim and Ivy will be road tripping

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Speaker 1: down like New South Wales Way, our first time doing it.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited new decade.

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Speaker 1: Also, guys, on the weekend, we had a like one

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll definitely do it. No, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Teach's got you back, guys, I do so if you

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Speaker 1: This is thirty okay guys, use this is thirty sit

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Speaker 1: We won't put this anywhere else. And it's just a

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Speaker 1: big thank you. Thank you for the support. A lot

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Speaker 1: to get me a coffee. Yeah, And so instead of

438
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Speaker 1: being like like, oh, he doesn't think about me, he's

439
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 1: you know, he's not considerate. Can I think give him

440
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt of he was actually preoccupied

441
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: because he was thinking about you know what he's planning

442
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: to make us for dinner? Yeah, or you know, there's

443
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: goodness in other ways that will come out, and really

444
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 1: trusting that rather than going to the negative, the negative,

445
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: he's bad, no one cares about me, those sorts of

446
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: things as they feel like our brain it always goes

447
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: to the worst case scenario. It always goes to the

448
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: badness rather than the goodness. So if I can just

449
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: trust that, no, it's like it's it gets to be

450
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 1: goodness and that gets to be my reality. Listen, Number ten,

451
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 1: be generous with resources once your cup is filled. So

452
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: again I just think, obviously big one here is filling

453
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: your cup first, and then once your cup is filled,

454
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: you want to be generous.

455
00:23:58,880 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 2: You want to.

456
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: Give your time, you want to give you know, whether

457
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 1: it's money support, emotional support, you know, all those sorts

458
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: of things you want to give that. So when you

459
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: notice that you don't want to be generous.

460
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: With your money, time, energy, or whatever.

461
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: It's because you haven't filled up your own cup. And

462
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 1: so that's always such a reminder for me because I

463
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: know I'm such a generous person, and so when I'm

464
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: feeling a bit like oh I don't want to give

465
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: anyone anything or like resentful, it's like I haven't filled

466
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,919
Speaker 1: up my own cup. So that makes sense and again

467
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 1: not making that situation bad and be like I just

468
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: need to go fill out my cup. Lesson number eleven.

469
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: Love who is around you and who has always supported you,

470
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: so obviously just a sweet little one. I think sometimes

471
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: it's this for me is like it's really easy to

472
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: see everyone's flaws. It's really easy, especially when you're doing

473
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 1: self development and maybe the people around you you know,

474
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: or your pa or lifelong friends don't do it, and

475
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: you feel like you're constantly evolving and they're not. And

476
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: again it's like that, well, I'm doing the work, why

477
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: can't you? And for me, this has just been going

478
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 1: back to people don't have to want to do what

479
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: I do. People don't want to have to evolve and heal,

480
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: I can still love them.

481
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 2: And again it's.

482
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: I feel like that's such a more beautiful place to

483
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: be where you don't need everyone to be like you,

484
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: you don't need everyone to be on the same journey,

485
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: but you can still love them how they are. And

486
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: I feel like, definitely, at the start of my self

487
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 1: development journey, I didn't have this, but now entering my thirties,

488
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: it's just this beautiful, like unconditional They get to be

489
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,239
Speaker 1: who they are in this lifetime and it's not up

490
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: to me to change them, drag them, tell them they

491
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: get to be who they are. And if they are

492
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: someone who does love and support me and show me

493
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: kindness and you know that unconditional love, I can absolutely

494
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: have that for them.

495
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 3: That's so beautiful. I think it's like a step above

496
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 3: like when people are like if they're not matching, you

497
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 3: cut it out, cut them out. It's like, no, you

498
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 3: don't need to, like you can still be kind and

499
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 3: have so much love for the people around you.

500
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: And I think that comes from maturity, and that's why

501
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 1: I put it in because I think, like, you know,

502
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: twenty five year old Georgie was about that, like they're not.

503
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 2: Up to your standards, get rid of them. Yeah, like

504
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 2: she was very brutal.

505
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you'd probably listen to old podcasts and

506
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: I probably would have said that, But thirty year old

507
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: Georgie has so much more space and capacity. Obviously, it's

508
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: because these people are your people and they've supported and

509
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: loved you. That's you know, the pre just anyone, No,

510
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 1: not just anyone, But yeah, I think that feels so

511
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: much better to me because I think it's a very

512
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: black and white thinking to think, well, if they're not.

513
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 2: Up to my standards, they're out.

514
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, lesson twelve, which goes hand in hand with lesson

515
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: eleven pour into the people who pour into you. I

516
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 1: feel like I don't even need to get into that

517
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: less than thirteen.

518
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 2: Do I really need to do this? Or am I picking?

519
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 2: Ivy will never be this young again? Are you okay?

520
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 2: So again?

521
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: Being a working mom, I do miss moments like beautiful

522
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: moments of Ivy's childhood, you know, like you know, our

523
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: dads probably did when we grew up, and our mom

524
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: got us a lot more and so I notice, you know,

525
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 1: and I'm obviously that's what I've picked, and I'm happy

526
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: to do that because I have so much love for

527
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: my business and the impact we make. So I've been

528
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: asking myself that question because I have had quite a

529
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: few work things come up on the weekend. So the

530
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 1: question I asked myself is like, do I actually want

531
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: to do this? Will this push the needle forward? Is

532
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: this part of my impact?

533
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: Or am I picking? Ivy will never be this young again?

534
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: So I pick her?

535
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: And that has helped me so much in making really

536
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: great decisions with like not doing so on the weekend

537
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: or you know, picking stuff and I'm like.

538
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 2: No, this is this is important.

539
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think also like just saying that, like

540
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: Ivy will never be this young again, and like I

541
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: don't want to miss her childhood and I know I

542
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: won't because I prioritize it so much. But I think

543
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: just having that in mind has just been Yeah, it's

544
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: been really good. Lesson fourteen, Always pick peace. It's like

545
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: that trend on TikTok. I ain't no man's peach.

546
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: Have you seen that?

547
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: Now?

548
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 2: I started getting a mad cooked it's so funny, funny,

549
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I was like, oh my god, it's

550
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: me so roe self expiatory.

551
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: And this is even like if I notice like a conflict,

552
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: or if I just notice me getting triggered by something

553
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: or something come up, I'm like, can I pick.

554
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: Peace in this moment? Can I just pick peace? Does

555
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 2: this actually have to be something? And it's been really helpful?

556
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: Lesson fifteen, know my values so like important, so important, guys.

557
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: If you don't have a list of values that you

558
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: make choices from, what are you doing? So again, you

559
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: know my values, they start with Tim and Ivy, and

560
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: then second is me so meantime, me filling up my cup,

561
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 1: and then third is my businesses passion, and then it

562
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: goes to self development and then it goes to friends

563
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: and so I think there's also like experiences and holidays

564
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: in there, but I don't know where they are.

565
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: I'll have to look at my sheet. But that's like

566
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 2: a Tim and Ivy thing too.

567
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically, again, if I'm struggling to make a decision,

568
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: I go to my list of values and I'm like, Okay,

569
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: what decision am I making off these? Because when you're

570
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: making decisions from your list of values, you can't get

571
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: them wrong. Because even if you you know, maybe think

572
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: you're going to regret it, or if you do regret it,

573
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: in that moment, you made it from your values, So

574
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: how could it ever be wrong?

575
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 2: So powerful?

576
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: Lesson sixteen, pick and follow my life off those values.

577
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't need to explain that one.

578
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: Lesson seventeen.

579
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: May I make my mess my message. So again, just

580
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: knowing any lessons, any struggles are a beautiful shaping of

581
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: who I meant to be, embracing them and then also

582
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: sharing them. I think sharing your mess is so so

583
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: powerful because I guarantee you there are people who have

584
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: gone through what you're struggling with or you know you'll

585
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 1: find with it now, but they're struggling with it. And

586
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: I think, you know, connection via story is the most

587
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: powerful thing.

588
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 2: On this earth.

589
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: So if you can share your story and you can

590
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: share your message, that like, that's the ultimate connection. And

591
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: so that has just been a huge thing. I personally

592
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: don't I don't like sharing my mess during it.

593
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 2: I like being in it, and.

594
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: I very much, you know, reflecting on it, internalizing it

595
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: and really going through it myself, and then once I'm

596
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: out of it, I share it. You might be different,

597
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: but that's just how I do it.

598
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 2: Lesson eighteen. The magic is always me.

599
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: Oh, I honestly think I might get the statooed on

600
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: me because lately I love this beautiful Yes, the magic

601
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: is always me because it's like any time that you're like, oh,

602
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what to do, or you

603
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: know this has happened, or you know something, or you're

604
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: doubting yourself, like just remembering it's all in here, Like

605
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: the magic is me, Like I'm the main character of

606
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: my own life.

607
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: It's like, stop waiting for someone to save you.

608
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: Yes, like be your own prince charming lesson nineteen. When

609
00:31:56,240 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm locked into my purpose, good things happen. You can't

610
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: go wrong. Lock into your purpose and your purpose. This

611
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: is actually really incredible. Cooper was saying he saw something

612
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: on TikTok the other day and it was like a

613
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: guy who like channels with a you know, spirit or whatnot,

614
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: and someone asked the spirit, you know, what is my purpose?

615
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: And he said he said something so beautiful, and it

616
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: basically was, your purpose is always being you.

617
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 2: No one else in this world is you.

618
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: Everyone has a unique and different purpose, and your purpose

619
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: is being you.

620
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: No when is you, and that is your power.

621
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: I was like.

622
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: Isn't that beautiful? So beautiful?

623
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: Lesson twenty may, I contradict myself. Oh, your purpose can change. Oh,

624
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: so obviously you know your purpose being you. We love

625
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: that authentically you is very important. But for example, you

626
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: know your purpose, it might be, you know, in your

627
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: early twenties, you're really like empowering women to go after

628
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: what they want, Like that is my purpose. But it's

629
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: so interesting since I have done my trauma work and

630
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: because I had this huge thing not against men, but I.

631
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: Was very for the female.

632
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: And it may have been because some trauma, and since

633
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: I have dissolved that trauma, I have noticed how much

634
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: more loving men.

635
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: I'm not actually that bad. I'm like, oh, men, not

636
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: actually that bad, They're right.

637
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: And I'm noticing like I'm not as biased and I'm

638
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: more of like, I want everyone to step in their power,

639
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: not just females.

640
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 2: Love that. So to see that's even like it's it's

641
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: a big shift in your purpose too though totally. So

642
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 2: that's even something I was a little bit like. I

643
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: was like, oh, but I've always.

644
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: Just been, you know, very females, which I still am,

645
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: but I've noticed it's kind of changed in a volve

646
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: and I think that's me growing up and evolving. But

647
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, your purpose can change, like you're allowed to evolve,

648
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: and especially you know, if you enter, if you start

649
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: a different business, or if you know, something happens and

650
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: you change careers, like your purpose can change lesson twenty one.

651
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: You can contradict yourself, and you should.

652
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: I love this one, guys.

653
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: Honestly, if you don't look back at when you're like twenty,

654
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: when you're thirty and are just a little bit not

655
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: like wow, that was a bit cringe, but you're like, wow,

656
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: I'm such a different person, you want to you want

657
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: to look at yourself too, five years ago and be like, wow,

658
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: I'm a different person. I have different values, I have

659
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: different beliefs. Maybe not different values, but like different beliefs.

660
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: You want to contradict yourself, like especially you know, the

661
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: especially me, even that evolution from no it's just for

662
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: females to now being for everyone. You know, that's such

663
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: a beautiful evolution. It's you know, embracing that and even

664
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: contradicting yourself in the way of I was thinking about this,

665
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: so my like, I also have money values, so I

666
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: have like my normal values, and then I have money values,

667
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: and that just helps me decide what I spend money on,

668
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: which again I think everyone should have. And so, for example,

669
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 1: one of my money values is I love dropping lots

670
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: of money on handbags, on designer handbags, Like I just

671
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: have this, like I'm like, oh, like I'm so attracted,

672
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: I feel so good.

673
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 2: I don't mind some shoes.

674
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: Bit handbags are like my thing, Whereas I it doesn't

675
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: feel good to me to buy designer clothes because I'm

676
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: not like I'm talking over one thousand dollars. Yeah, like

677
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: I'm talking designer, designer, not just you know, fancy.

678
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, and I've.

679
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: Realized it's because I it's like a use thing for me.

680
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

681
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: So it's like because I know I only wear clothes

682
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: a couple of times, and that's why I have deep

683
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: hop and I recycle clothes because I love wearing new clothes.

684
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

685
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: And so for me, I'm like, oh, I just don't

686
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: think I want to spend drop two grand on a

687
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: dress because I know I'm gonna wear her once and of.

688
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: Course I could resell her.

689
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: But for example, for my thirtieth birthday, I hired two dresses,

690
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: so I wanted some options, so I hired two and

691
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: they're you know, they're back in Bridge, so there would

692
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: be you know, five hundred dollars.

693
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: To buy, and I'm like, I'm gonna wear them once?

694
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 2: Why would I do that.

695
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 1: I'll just hire them for like, you know, a couple

696
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: hundred dollars together and then have two options.

697
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and to me that feels so much better.

698
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: But it's because I like, know my values and I

699
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 1: know I love spending a lot of cash on airbags

700
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,959
Speaker 1: but not really on clothes. But that could be contradicting

701
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,720
Speaker 1: to someone. Yeah, they could see me and be like, Georgia,

702
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: your company's worth eight figures and you still hire dresses.

703
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: And I'm like, but that makes completely sense to me.

704
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: That makes sense to me, but it might look contradicting

705
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: to other people. But it doesn't matter because it makes

706
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: sense to me exactly. Anyway, that was a tangent, but.

707
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 2: We loved it.

708
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: You should contradicte yourself, Okay, lesson twenty two? Where can

709
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 1: I drop the struggle?

710
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 3: Love?

711
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: Like I have been asking myself this so much lately,

712
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: and so much has shifted because I'm like, you know,

713
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 1: we were we changed the launch for something, and I

714
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: called Cooper and I'm like, I'm really stressed, and then

715
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm going away and then like, you know, I don't

716
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: think the girls are ready, and blah blah blah, freaking

717
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: out and Cooper's like, we'll just push the launch and I'm.

718
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,479
Speaker 2: Like, but I can't push the launch. He's like why,

719
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 2: but why I'm like and then You're like, oh, I'm

720
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: actually in charge. I can Oh, that's actually my business.

721
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 2: That's weird.

722
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: But it's because I get I get worked up and

723
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: I get these ideas in my head and I'm like, no, no,

724
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: but I told myself it was this date. But it's like,

725
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: because I have a lot of like self responsibility, if

726
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: that makes sense. But I'm like, I've actually just made

727
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 1: this so difficult and so stressful for myself when I

728
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: don't need to. And so we just pushed the launch

729
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 1: a month and I feel fucking great, and I'm like,

730
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: oh wow, and it.

731
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: Was that easy.

732
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: It was that easy, and I could just drop the struggle. Obviously,

733
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 1: that's a very unique circumstance because I am my own boss.

734
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: But I even think, for example, like Ivy, if she's

735
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: been really difficult sometimes and she has does this new

736
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: thing where she doesn't want to have a bath. And

737
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: you know, it's like Saturday night, Tim was out. She

738
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: want to have a fucking bath, And it was like

739
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: nearly getting to seven pm.

740
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: And then I was like I'm just not gonna bath her.

741
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: You know, like she wasn't It's not like she'd been

742
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: rolling a mud or anything like that. Like I obviously

743
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: changed unappy, and I was like, she doesn't want to

744
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: have a shower.

745
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: Why am I making a shower? This is like because

746
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 2: it was ruining our whole lab where you're like screaming

747
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: at each other. So she didn't have a shower.

748
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: We changed her nappy and we sat and we watched

749
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: some more TV and she was so happy and I

750
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,720
Speaker 1: was like, oh wow, this was like so much easier.

751
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 2: But I was like, no, you have to get it.

752
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 3: How I didn't got jore Meala crude and said they

753
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 3: don't wash their kids unless they can see dirt on them.

754
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: I get it.

755
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,240
Speaker 1: I get it because it's the moment it's so hard.

756
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't because I don't have a kid.

757
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 2: I'm like, just put her in the shower. No, you

758
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 2: don't understand. I understand.

759
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: One day, Ivy yell, she goes take this she goes,

760
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: no way, we're gonna have a shower.

761
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 2: No way, no way.

762
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: She runs away from me, and if I try and

763
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: pick her up, she's screaming like.

764
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to murder her. I'm not even joking so dramatic.

765
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 2: I want to where she gets it from, I know.

766
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: So that's why I thought, fuck I could, I'll just.

767
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: And I was getting really stressed because usually.

768
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 2: Tim's there and she listens to him, and I just thought,

769
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: why am I bothering?

770
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: Let her not have a shower, and look, we're not

771
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 1: doing that every night, but then she'll be dirty.

772
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, no we're not.

773
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: But in that moment, I was like, okay, like do

774
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: you see how I'm like, it's not worth it.

775
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 2: It's not worth it. I was making it more difficult. Yeah,

776
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 2: so fair valid.

777
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's things in your life where you

778
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 1: Tim even does this where he's like he works something

779
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: up in his head and he's like, oh I got

780
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,839
Speaker 1: to do this, and he always talks about like going

781
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: to get the groceries and how hard it is for Ivy.

782
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you can just get them deliver

783
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: in yeah, and he's like oh no, but I like

784
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: I want to go in.

785
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, then why are you complaining you want

786
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 2: to go in?

787
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 1: There's an easier option, and you know, not picking it literally,

788
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: so like you know, that's absously a good a good thing.

789
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 3: I do this with that other people might like I.

790
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 3: We obviously are very privileged here at work where we

791
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: have flexible working hours, and I like to get in

792
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 3: at six thirty in the morning because then I missed

793
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: the traffic coming to work and going home, and I

794
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 3: will fluster myself up like nothing else if I'm gonna

795
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 3: be here even like fifteen minutes after six thirty, And

796
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, no one's going to be at.

797
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 2: Work for another hour.

798
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 3: Like if you get to work at six forty five,

799
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 3: it's fine.

800
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: It's fine. Literally, no one's gonna.

801
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 3: A yeah, like stay fifteen minutes later.

802
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 2: It's not that big a deal. It's really nice.

803
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, But it things like mentally, you've like told yourself

804
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to start at six yet and you drive

805
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: yourself insane.

806
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 2: Yes, less than twenty three.

807
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 1: Be efficient with your time and consistently ordered it. So

808
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: our time is our greatest resource. It is more like

809
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 1: it's more important than money. It's our greatest resource. And

810
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: I think if we aren't consistently auditing it and being efficient,

811
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 1: like you, you have flexible working arrangement arrangements again amazing,

812
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 1: I know everyone doesn't, but you being like, well, it

813
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: takes me, you know, an hour and a half to

814
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: get to work if I start.

815
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 2: At this time.

816
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: So I'm going to start an hour earlier and it's

817
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: only going to take me forty minutes to get to work.

818
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to save that, you know what I mean.

819
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: You're being efficient. Yeah, so I don't carry the way

820
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: as long as the work's getting done. So you're being

821
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: efficient with your time and you're making your routine work

822
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: for you. Where was they feel like so many of

823
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: us are just doing these tasks or routines because we

824
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: think we have to, but they're not actually efficient, they're

825
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: not actually benefiting us. And I think obviously what's great

826
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: to about auditing it is they should change.

827
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: They should evolve.

828
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: They should be working for you, not you working for them.

829
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 1: Lesson twenty four lesson twenty four. May I always know

830
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:02,399
Speaker 1: lessons are blessings hashtag life happens.

831
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 2: For me.

832
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: Again, just knowing in those really tough moments, it's like

833
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: this is happening for me, I'll get through this. It's

834
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: been the most incredible. It's I think that's probably been

835
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 1: the most incredible lesson of my twenties. They are always

836
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: blessings Lessen twenty.

837
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: Five May I always do belief work.

838
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: The answer to any question about how you become the

839
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: person who fill in blank like Dardi da, who gets

840
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 1: the promotion, who gets the house, who earns more money

841
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: is belief work.

842
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 2: It's you doing belief work.

843
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: I even I had a cool my girlfriend and we

844
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: were just even discussing like going into my thirties and

845
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: like my goals and that sort of thing, and she

846
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 1: even picked up She's like, oh, I love that, but

847
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: your beliefs don't match it. So she's like, I love

848
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: that goal for your thirties. I absolutely know you can

849
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: get there, but what you're saying, I can see your

850
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: beliefs don't match it.

851
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, that's such a good pickup.

852
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 1: So she said, I want you to go write down

853
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: your beliefs, even like record them and say them like

854
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: every day for the next month. And That's what I'm

855
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: gonna do, because our belief system needs to match who

856
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: we want to be in the future. If our belief

857
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: system matches who we are now. We will always have

858
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: what we currently have now, and most of us are

859
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: trying to strive and achieve different things. So it's like

860
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 1: that person who has your goal, what is their belief

861
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: system And it's if it's different, you need to do

862
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: the belief work to be that person. And obviously we

863
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: get a lot deeper, you know in my programs, the

864
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: project in the Rise app and.

865
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: A new course coming out Verto soon.

866
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: But that is so important and I even like she

867
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: said that, I'm like, fuck, I even teach this and you're.

868
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: So right, and I have missed that.

869
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: So it's even cool if you have people who understand

870
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: and this of even having a discussion of being like, okay,

871
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,879
Speaker 1: so the goals I want to be this, what sort

872
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Speaker 1: of thoughts and beliefs would that person have? And even

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Speaker 1: get your friend to like help you a little bit,

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Speaker 1: because sometimes we can get really stuck and just notice

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Speaker 1: the difference the gap lesson twenty six. The how question

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Speaker 1: is always how do I become a vibrational match?

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Speaker 2: That's amazing? How good is that?

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Speaker 1: So that that's such an and such again such an

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Speaker 1: important part of like, oh I want this, I want that. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's like, well, how do you become a vibrational match

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Speaker 1: for that thing? Because that's how you get it, you know,

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Speaker 1: that's essentially what manifestation is. And for instance, if you

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Speaker 1: are wanting this reality where you know this person is

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Speaker 1: always secure in herself, she makes great decisions, she makes

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Speaker 1: fast decisions, she never doubts herself, she's solid, she's connected

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Speaker 1: to herself, she meditate, she's you know, all these things

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Speaker 1: and that's the reality you want, but you don't practice

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Speaker 1: any of that. Now, how are you ever going to

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Speaker 1: be on the vibrational frequency to match what you want?

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Speaker 1: So again, it's that belief work, but also the frequency.

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Speaker 2: That's why I put them together. But that's a good eye,

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Speaker 2: that's a good ease. I going to remind myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Lessen twenty seven. Where can I have more fun?

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Speaker 1: That's an important one. Putting on music with Ivy dancing

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Speaker 1: around and I always feel so much better. Lessen twenty eight.

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Speaker 1: I don't have it all figured it out, but I

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Speaker 1: just need to have my vision and I just need

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Speaker 1: to know my next step. So again, don't be too

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Speaker 1: worried if you don't know all the steps, because the

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Speaker 1: how isn't up to us. We let the universe lead

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Speaker 1: the way, but there's always going to be that little

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Speaker 1: next step and just keep following that Lesson twenty eight Lead,

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Speaker 1: don't wait for others to do it. Guys, you're the

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Speaker 1: main character of your life. You need to lead, You

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Speaker 1: need to make the decision.

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Speaker 2: You need to go first. It is so easy.

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Speaker 1: To think other people need to go first, and you

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Speaker 1: want to see how it turns out. But then you're

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Speaker 1: living their life. You're not leaving, You're not living yours.

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Speaker 2: And then the last lesson lesson thirty is always be you.

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Speaker 2: Oh we love that one. You can't get it wrong, guys.

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Speaker 1: Be you, embrace being authentically you, and you can't fuck

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Speaker 1: it up.

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Speaker 2: You can't get it wrong.

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Speaker 1: Love Guys, thank you so much for listening to my

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Speaker 1: thirty lessons of becoming a thirty year old. I honestly

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm like thirty five at this point. I

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Speaker 1: don't like, be like, what does it feel like?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like.

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Speaker 1: I've been thirty for so long. I feel like a

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Speaker 1: bit of an odd soul. But I just am so

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Speaker 1: excited for my thirties. I'm so excited for a new decade,

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Speaker 1: I already feel like wiser, so I'm excited to continue that.

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Speaker 1: And I'm just excited to learn more lessons and obviously

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Speaker 1: continue this journey with you guys. And I just want

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Speaker 1: to say thank you for sticking around.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of you would have known me since my early twenties,

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Speaker 1: so wow, yeah, yeah, thank you for being around. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate and love you guys so much. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for listening to another episode of the Rise and

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Speaker 1: Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and want more, come

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