WEBVTT - UNDER THE INFLUENCE: MAFS Lizzie Sobinoff 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:03.480 This episode of Outspoken is brought to you by mind Tan, 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:09.400 where channing meets cosmetics and skincare. This is Outspoken, the 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:12.920 podcast is not afraid to say exactly what you're thinking. 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:17.280 Our names are Amy Kate and Sophie Torbor. We're identical triplets, 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:21.160 but we often don't have identical opinions, so sometimes things 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:27.040 can get heated. Outspoken covers all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:34.120 and issues facing women. That is so thank you. Today 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.720 we're joined by Lizzie from Married at First Sight to 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:40.120 spill all the details about the popular show. Thanks so 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.720 much for speaking to us with such short notice. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.160 Yeah, not to worry, guys. 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:48.320 How have you been keeping yourself entertained during this sort 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:49.960 of awful isolation period. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:52.919 Lots and lots of books. 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.680 Lots of books, lots of tea candles, about two hours 0:00:57.720 --> 0:00:59.480 in the bath every afternoon. 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:04.320 Like along, like zoning out kind of mood right there. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.880 Oh my gosh, that sounds amazing. Is are there any 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:07.880 books you'd recommend? 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:13.320 I finished one yesterday and I remember the It's called 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.520 The Devil Inside. I can't remember the author, but I 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.640 just started, like literally about an hour and a half ago. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.800 The day the lies began, so I'm getting right in 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:22.520 there with the drama. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:26.600 And I also finished a romantic novel the other day. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.120 Oh, you're making me feel guilty because I've just been 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:30.959 watching Netflix and I was going to see if you 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.880 had any Netflix or even podcasts recommendations. 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:37.280 Do you know what? I'm actually not a TV person? 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:38.360 Really. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:40.760 I know people kind of go away, They're just like, 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:44.240 but no, I'm not a TV person. But I if 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:46.640 i'm I mustn't mean. I can't believe I'm gonna admit this. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:49.960 I had been watching vander Punk Rules back to back. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:52.760 Oh, I used to love that back in the day. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:54.320 I probably should start watching it again. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:56.360 It's so trushy. 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:59.720 I love it. So did you watch ma Did you 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:01.800 watch Maths then before you went on? Or does that 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.640 explain no reason for signing up? 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:07.320 Never ever watched Masks beforehand. 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:10.160 Knew about it obviously, because like when I was driving 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:12.680 to work, I was about an hour while drive every morning, 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.600 so you'd have the like the morning radio, and there 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:15.960 was always like a masked person on there. 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:17.320 But had never actually watched it. 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:19.799 Oh my gosh. So were you approached to go on 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.200 it or were you Yes, I was I was approached, 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.760 Oh wow, because it's so funny a couple of years ago. 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:26.960 Because my sisters and I wear triplets. We actually got 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.760 approached to go on it. And it was the series 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.080 when they had the twins on it, so I think 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.000 they were scouting out like multiple berths, but we yeah, 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:36.440 we said no at the time. But but how did 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:38.720 you were you found on Instagram or were you out 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:40.080 in a bad I. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:43.560 Was literally at work and going on to the bathroom, 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:47.839 so I was Michael Hill at that point, and I 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.600 just walked to go to the bathroom and I heard 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:51.800 this excuse me, excuse me, And I want to accomplised 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:53.880 about to say this, but this is a salesperson technique. 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:55.480 I want to lure them back to. 0:02:57.840 --> 0:02:59.920 And literally like, have you thought about being on reality 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:03.160 TV before? And I was like, no, not really, but 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:03.800 what show? 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:04.120 You know? 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.720 Like married? At first that I'm like, yeah, I heard 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:07.360 of it, but I have never actually watched it. 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:11.480 Oh wow, because it is kind of flattering when people 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.760 ask you, were you flattered or did you initially think nah, 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:15.680 I'm not doing this. Ah. 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:18.320 Look, it's not the first time I've been asked. I've 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:20.519 been scattered to things. So when I was younger. 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.480 I actually I talk about this quite a bit. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.560 On my Instagram, but I'm not sure how many people 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:28.080 are actually aware of it that I was. I have 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:31.080 a chronic illness and I actually was really sick for 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:35.080 about a decade. So that year that I got scouted, 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.440 I was literally six months into having a job, which 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:38.800 I hadn't had a job for ten years. 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.119 I literally started work that year. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.120 Oh wow, so can you tell us more about your 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:43.880 chronic illness? 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:50.240 So basically I had a misdiagnosis and it was quite horrendous, 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.920 and then they started to figure out that wasn't what 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.119 the case was, and it's kind of like an ongoing thing. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:00.840 It is hard to manage. But yeah, so. 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:04.560 Yeah, I just I'd started work and done really well 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.600 within six months. So I just decided I was going 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:08.720 to go move to Sydney and live with my brother 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:11.000 and his family and just get work. And I ended 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.480 up getting a job the first job I applied for, 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:15.760 which was a jury store managing business and made it 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:19.560 as a managing jury store, and then made it manager 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:20.200 on the third day. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:21.719 Oh my god, amazing. 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.680 Yeah, and then not having a job for ten years. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:27.919 Then you get scouted for a reality show, absolutely killing it. 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:28.680 It was crazy. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:31.839 It was absolutely crazy that that is how it happened. 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.560 We're talking about maths. Obviously, you and seb are doing 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.200 the whole long distance thing. How is that all going? 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:40.160 Yeah? Good? 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:43.120 We contact each other like every hour on the hour, 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:46.680 like constant text messages. He does not have an iPhone, 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:50.479 so he we what's that do the video face callao? 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:55.120 Is that is the video face school? So like what's 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:55.839 that FaceTime? 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:57.200 Yeah? Yeah? 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:59.680 And then we talked like like first thing in the morning, 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.679 that last thing at night, like just constantly talking. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:04.440 But he's going to try and get here next week. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.560 Oh my gosh. That's so exciting because he's in Adelaide 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.320 and we're from Adelaide. And I did sort of watch 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:13.480 with interest your first impressions of Adelaide and it does 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:15.960 get a bad rap sometimes. But can you tell us 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.120 a little bit more, how you know what you think 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.720 about Adelaide? Now you've been a few times. 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:23.520 I've been a few times now. 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:28.080 It was more the first because I was sick for 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.719 so long and I came from I was Sydney, but 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:33.240 then Newcastle while I was sick, and then I just 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.200 wanted more fast paced I didn't want to go back 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:36.800 into a more slow. 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.279 Lifestyle, and that was the perception I did have of Adelaide. 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:40.000 But I love it. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.279 It's actually really chill, and I love the fact there's 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:43.400 a church in every corner. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.279 Now I'm a. 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.920 Little bit like my flavor. It was like a little 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:49.279 bit Gothic. So I like the fact there's a church 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.000 in every corner. But I also found out there's like 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:52.760 a Hungry Jacks on every corner as well. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.960 Yeah, that's that's very We actually used to live like 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.280 right down the road from a Hungry Jacks and our 0:05:58.320 --> 0:06:00.559 cousins were so impressed because you could do the shake 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.840 and win thing from our house, and they were like, 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:09.480 this should be a selling feature of this property. Just 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:12.920 back to maths. So once you get scouted, what sort 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.200 of the process from there. I'm assuming there's lots of 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:16.440 interviews and that kind of thing. 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:20.120 That, yeah, but my process was a little bit different. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.520 I managed to make an impression. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:25.560 I don't know, I guess because I'm quite like a 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.000 lot of people, quite reserved, and when you first meet me, 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:30.800 even even the first chat that you know we're having, 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.240 I'm quite open, Like I'm an open book. I'm actually, 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:35.960 so I got a phone call the next day and 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:36.839 within two weeks. 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:38.599 Wow, yeah, you're. 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:41.080 On the show within two weeks. 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:43.599 Literally the next day. The next day, I had a 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:47.520 phone call. They wanted a skype interview. They had a 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:49.960 Skype interview. I filled out like one form and then 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.800 I had an interview on a panel with one person 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.440 and then basically had it. Wow, a lot of people 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:58.560 went through I know people went through a bit more 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:00.679 like more through more of a process. 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:03.520 I actually just got it quite instantly. 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:04.720 Wow. Cool. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.800 They always show the experts going and sniffing all the 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:12.760 shirts and showing people photos. That's real, that is real. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:14.480 I had to wear a shirt overnight, so they don't 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.080 want your wearing perfume or anything like that. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:18.040 You literally they want your own doorphins. And I thought, 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:19.560 I was like laughing my head off, going what the 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.320 hell have I even find? Because I read but I 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:23.320 had not watched the show. 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:26.680 Now producers on like people behind the scenes had told 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:28.600 me to watch the show, and I refuse to do 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.360 it because I don't like having a preconceived notion of 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:34.400 what something is, so I don't like. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:36.600 Sorry, I was going to say, do you think you 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.000 would have done it if you had watched the show. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.640 Yeah, because I'm about because my life has already been 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.720 so different then, I mean, everyone's life is quite different, 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.720 but the fact that I was, you. 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:51.360 Know, I was, I've just had a. 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:53.200 Really different life with my illness and things I've done 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.280 prior to my illness and everything like that that. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:59.320 I just wanted. My life's just been different, So I thought, 0:07:59.320 --> 0:07:59.600 why not? 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:04.560 Yeah, well, had you've had such a big TV transformation 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:08.120 from your first being on Maths And then again, what 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:09.240 do you think is behind that? Are you a bit 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:12.040 of a chameleon and are usually changing things up? Or 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:13.160 was your experience life? 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:17.720 I constantly look different, and it's so funny because it's 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:21.200 literally like because I only filmed for less than a 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.000 month around a month last year, and I was only 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:25.840 actually on the show for about three weeks, so people 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:30.280 only saw me for about three weeks, and so I'm always. 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:33.520 I love fashion. I absolutely love fashion, and I'm not just. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.360 I feel like so many people are focused on trying 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:40.120 to improve their appearance, whereas I like to just dabble 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.920 in everything. Like I'm talking like seventies Americana, to like 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:47.160 goth to like to all of it, and then I 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:48.800 know a lot of people go all about the weight loss. 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:49.880 I actually and. 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:51.480 This is where I feel bad because people always go, 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:55.440 watch your Secret, blah blah blah. I actually, before I 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:59.600 got Secret underweight. So my body tends to go underweight. 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.520 So with the condition that I have, it's recommended to 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:05.280 have a high club diet, and that's what I was following. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:07.640 So I was managing a store without having had a 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:10.200 job for you know, and managed to do so well 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:12.880 that I had to eat more to keep going because 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:14.440 my body gives out on me and so. 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.040 You need a high carb, high GI diet. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.200 So I was literally just throwing back as much food 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:21.400 as possible, and so that's why I was curvier than 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:24.960 what my average weight would actually be. So coming off 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.800 the back of the show, I'm not working at the 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:28.320 jury store back to back anymore. 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:31.560 So that's why my weight has subsided. Oh wow, Well, 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:32.120 so it's hard. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:33.760 It's hard because people always want like they go, oh, 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:36.920 what's the secret, Like there's no secret. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.120 And like I wish I could, you know, give you something. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.520 I mean, I do occasionally follow the five two diet 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:45.280 and occasionally do intermitive fasting. It's not really the best 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:48.959 thing for my what I manage, but I occasionally do 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.959 do it, but it's also like a meditation thing. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.439 I was going to say, now that you're in I, so, 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:55.920 have you got any new looks that you're going to 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.040 be testing out? 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.440 I mean, tesse and you looks like every day. 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:04.640 I love to have a play and I think it's 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:07.520 a great thing to show everyone that you don't have 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:11.360 to always look the same and you can think outside 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:12.400 the box and. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.520 You can have fun with it. Just play with it. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.360 Who really keeps a crap what other people think? Just 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:16.920 play with it. 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.720 There's been a lot of guys that have been shaving 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.120 their heads during IO. What would you do if Seb 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:24.520 decided to do that because I've already warned my boyfriend 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:25.120 not to do it. 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:27.920 Okay, So I really like Sebi short hair. 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:32.080 He kind of goes like he he likes his hair 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:33.920 a bit longer and always like cut cut it, so 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:36.559 he's been cutting it more recently. He's so hot when 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.600 he cuts it, and then like I'm like I want 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.240 him to get a fade. He's like, I'm not going 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.160 that far, but I'm like, I think it'd be freaking hot. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.360 As Like, I like him with really short hair. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.720 Will you convince you convinced him to get the tattoo, 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.560 so I feel like you could push for the haircut. 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:55.040 No, he really loves his hair. I was just like, 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:57.880 I love it short, so it goes shorter and short. 0:10:57.880 --> 0:11:01.560 And I haven't seen him for about three weeks, so 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:03.480 I know that he had a haircut right before I left, 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:05.080 and he had a haircut in between some like I'm 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:07.560 thinking the short thing, he's you know, he's he's coming 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:08.280 to terms with it. 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.559 Well, just back to maths. And I suppose the experts, 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.760 I mean they've divided opinion and there's talk of Kyle 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:19.319 Sandaland's potentially being an expert. What what are your view 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.240 on the judges and do you think Kyle would make 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.280 a good or sorry not judges even though they seem 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.000 judge on the experts, Sorry. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:30.079 They're actually really lovely people. Yeah, they're just this is 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:31.880 what they're doing. It's just part of their job. I 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:36.920 think they're lovely as individuals. With Kyle Sandalians, I have 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.640 met him that a couple of times. The first time 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.560 I did married at first sight, and he's actually like 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:47.480 so lovely, like he is really really nice. 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:52.120 Really he seems lovey, he seems hilarious. I'm surprised. 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:55.440 Yeah, but I think I think that's obviously there's some 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.599 people have more of a persona, but him behind the 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.920 scenes is so fucking love like so lovely. So my sworry, No, 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.720 he's actually so. I can't get over how lovely he 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:06.240 actually is. 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.440 So he might make a good expert then, because he 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:10.880 might be able to sort of be kind, but then 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.520 also a bit cruel when he needs some truthful you. 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:14.720 Know what, I'm going to say something. 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.160 I feel like the experts need to call out a 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:17.640 few of those people in they're bullshit anyway. 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:21.240 So yeah, no, it's so true. All they seem to 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:23.800 do is focus on everyone's sex lives. Like that seems 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:27.640 to be I mean, obviously it's. 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:29.000 I kind of go with this is Look at guys, 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:30.840 won't you start me? Like I will not shut up. 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.079 I don't never love it. Literally. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.320 The thing is, it's a relationship show, and that's part 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:37.640 of that's part of a relationship, whether you're doing it 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.040 or not. If you you know, for instance, I know 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:42.680 those people out there who stay celibate to the marriage, 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:46.240 like actually you know married, so of course the marriages 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:50.000 aren't legal marriages, right, So if someone was wanting to 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.880 be celibate while during that time, they should talk about 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.719 it and make other people feel okay about. 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.760 It instead of kind of point you know what I mean, because. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.920 There are people out there who don't want it and 0:12:57.920 --> 0:12:59.760 they don't feel comfortable, and the should turn around and say, look, 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:01.960 I want to stay celibate. And you know, when you 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:03.720 get on that show, you have a platform, so use 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:04.440 your voice for good. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.559 Well, we've got to ask what really goes on at 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.720 the dinner parties? Is there any inside goss you can 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.400 give us, because sometimes it looks like the contestants are 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.360 like sweating. I'm assuming there's lots of lighting and you're 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:18.640 there for hours, but that's just a guess. I don't know. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:20.080 I'd love to know what goes on. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:25.040 People look like they're sweating. That's in New One. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:29.559 I loved the dinner Parties and it's basically you're not 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:32.440 meant to see each other while filming, right mm hm, 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:35.120 you're not, because like what happens is the dinner parties 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.240 and the commitment ceremonies or the time to catch up 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:37.720 on everything. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.080 Right now, there's a lot of cheeky BUCkies. 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.560 Who hang out afterwards, like who hang out when they're 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:44.400 not meant to be And that's when they cause a 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:46.080 lot of the drama. And then that's when I feel 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:48.079 like a lot of people and their kind of go oh, 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:49.440 you don't know what actually happens. 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:51.439 Well, you were doing that when there's no camera. Random 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:52.319 part of being on the. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:54.400 TV show is that you know you have to film 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:55.480 the relationship dynamic. 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:59.959 So yeah, I feel like I think they're great fun. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.559 I mean, sometimes I can't help myself and be a 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:03.000 little bit of a ship stirer, Like I get out 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.840 the spoon and just want to stir it a little bit, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:06.199 like provoke a bit of conversation. 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:12.800 But I'm like, I. 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.320 Love that you mentioned the point about some people, you know, 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.280 ca noodling off camera, because there's been so much drama 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:21.200 that's come out since Math's actually finished airing. Of course, 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:25.680 there's Casey's relationship with Michael. Did that surprise you or 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.920 did you sort of think there was something going on 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:28.680 during filming? 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.400 Oh god, there was the jury filming. There was definitely nothing. 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:35.240 No good. No. 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:38.000 I am Raly going to say one thing about this? 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:41.200 What two things about this? First of all, you know, 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.200 if they're happy, they're happy, good luck to it, do you. 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:43.600 Know what I mean? 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.320 Like, I genuinely feel that because you never know who 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:49.120 you're going to meet in that you know, that space. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:53.480 But then it's also unfortunate because I felt like there 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:55.520 was a friendship with there with Stacy. So that's where 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.240 I get a little bit like because I'm very much 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:58.200 girl code. 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:02.520 Yeah, and I'm really that really is me and I 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:06.480 kind of I would never go for someone else who 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.600 was actually with someone else. And yeah, so that's why 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.840 it's a bit messy. But if they're actually happy, you know, 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:12.880 good good luck to them. And I hope they you know, 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:15.400 I hope they make some you know, goodness with it. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.520 I was gonna say, a lot of contestants come off 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:25.080 the show and one of the first things. 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:30.320 Look, the thing is, I can't speak for everyone's experience 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:34.400 is different, right, but that's just everyone in life. I 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:37.480 think that two things go on. It is a TV 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:40.600 show and then and everyone's aware of that. And then secondly, 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:42.880 you know, you know, you have a camera in your 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:45.480 face twenty four to seven, right, and then try you 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:46.480 have to condense it down. 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.960 So they did all those things. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:53.400 Yeah, I'm just saying when they grow about the edits like, no, 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.600 you did do that and you are aware of the 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.120 process of how this works, So no tears there. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.880 We're talking about people who clearly did the wrong thing 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:03.600 and we're edited to look like complete assholes. Let's go 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:07.440 back to Sam and oh my gosh, we felt so 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:09.840 sorry for you watching that, as did most of Australia. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.000 I mean, I feel like it took a lot of 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:14.920 guts to then return for the second series. Did it 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:18.000 sort of make you not trust the process or potentially 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.640 the producers when you were going the second time round? 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.200 During the interviews afterwards, right, a lot of people have 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:25.920 said to me, oh, did you feel the pressure how 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:26.880 you had to make it work? 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.160 And I was like, I literally thought I'd get another asshole. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:33.000 I was talking to the producers going you make sure 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:35.520 like he's someone gives me like, yeah, sure is he? 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.160 But yeah, so it was I was really expecting another asshole. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.840 Well thank god I didn't get one, because se seems 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.160 amazing and I think everyone was so happy when you 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:46.479 got paired with him. 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:47.280 Yeah. 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:48.960 Do you know what I kept saying, I'm going, why 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:51.600 why are you on reality TV? Like what's the real 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:54.520 just here, Like I was like, why you here? 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:56.560 And I's just like, you know, because I am. And 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:59.360 I'm like, hmmm, So I've. 0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:00.880 Got to tell you a fun story that you might 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:04.359 be able to tell remind Seb of this. So Kate 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:06.200 and I were journalists, so I used to work out, 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:10.159 you know the show today tonight the techy. Yeah, and 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:12.240 so I remember we were in Adelaide. We were doing 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:15.920 a story about the party girls and party boys about 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:19.320 and yeah, we got Seb into it, but he I 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.440 think his football coach tipped him off that it might 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.400 not be a good idea to be in it. So 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:25.439 he was in. I think there were shots of him 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:27.600 getting a spray tand but that was about it. He 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:29.919 didn't go on the night out. And I feel so 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:31.840