1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Before we get into today's show, we just wanted to 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: issue a trigger warning in one of our segments we 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: do touch on issues about sexual assault. Hello, and welcome 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 1: to Outspoken. 5 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: You're dose of the hottest influencer and pop culture news 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: twice a week. I'm Sophie Torbert and I'm joined by 7 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: my sisters and journalists Kate and Amy. On today's show, 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 2: we set the record straight on the Carl and JACKIEO 9 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: debacle and the latest on Love Island UK. But first, 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: it has been quite a week in the podcasting world. 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: We have been dragged into quite the scandal involving the 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: Kyl and JACKIEO Show and the Shameless podcast. Kay, can 13 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: you take us back to where it began? 14 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: Yes? I can, because it is all quite complex and convoluted. 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: So it all started when Shameless released an episode in 16 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: late May entitled Ladies Please Remember Balls Empty Now. In 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: the episode, they discussed a segment from the Kyle and 18 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: Jackie O Show where Kyle said women should get intimate 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: with their male partners before they go out so their 20 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: balls are empty and they don't cheat. Shameless's segment was 21 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: only a couple of minutes long, with Zara saying it 22 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: didn't deserve their critical feminist analysis. Now, this ignited a 23 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: back and forth between the shows. The following Monday, the 24 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: Carl and JACKIEO Show responded to Shameless's segment, which Shameless 25 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 1: then discussed in depth on their Thursday episode. Shameless entitled 26 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: the episode this One's for Bruno and explain that they 27 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: had been notified by a wealth of dms that Carl 28 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: and JACKIEO had spoken about them. 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 3: Let's throw to what they said. 30 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 4: It was an interesting week. Did anyone else listen to 31 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: the Kyle and Jackie O Show on Monday? 32 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 3: I can't say that I did. 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: I did see a wealth of dms about it, and 34 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 2: I thought that seems like something I'm going to ignore 35 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 2: is delicious. 36 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 4: Well, clearly not so for me, because as soon as 37 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 4: I got a DM about this, I was like, well, 38 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 4: obviously I'm going to check that out. 39 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: Which speaks to our personalities because if you hear like 40 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: a little bit of something, you're like, dig dig dig 41 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: dig dig? 42 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 3: What else am I gonna find? I am like, oh, 43 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: what else can I have with? 44 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 45 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: Exactly? So I went deep. And by going deep, I'm 46 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 4: I just listened to the segment that they did on us. 47 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: So during the discussion, Michelle threw to two clips from 48 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: the show where Kyle Jackie O and producer Bruno mocked 49 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: the girls, which they giggled along with. In the last clip, 50 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,399 Speaker 1: it was revealed that Bruno had a problem with Shameless 51 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: because they created a list about the best chocolates, which 52 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: is apparently his thing, as he's known as the list king. Now, 53 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: Michelle responded saying this, I. 54 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 4: Need to tell the world we have been framed. This 55 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 4: is like a case of mistaken or stolen identity. Bruno 56 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 4: hates us. Producer Bruno from Kyle and JACKIEYO did a 57 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 4: seven minute segment on us and hates us because we 58 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 4: stole his list idea and apparently ranked chocolates recently, which 59 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 4: we just never did. And now I'm very confused. 60 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: I just want. 61 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 4: Bruno to address the chocolate list thing. Where did you 62 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 4: see that? I know we did one maybe in twenty eighteen, 63 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 4: but we haven't in the last four years. So I 64 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 4: just love to know who's mistaken us for Yeah. 65 00:02:58,280 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 3: He's a case of mistaken identity. 66 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 2: So after Shameless's segment aired, we received a lot of 67 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: dms from our listeners saying Bruno had confused us with Shameless, 68 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 2: and we all thought this was a bit of a laugh, 69 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: so we contacted Zara and Michelle to tell them it 70 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 2: was actually us that Bruno had mistaken them for. So 71 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: we also contacted Bruno and she had an Instagram story 72 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: saying a mystery solved and tagged both Shameless and Bruno. 73 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 2: We did receive a short DM from the Shameless account 74 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 2: saying oh my gosh, and that was essentially it. 75 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. So fast forward to Monday last week and The 76 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: Kyle and Jackie O Show recorded another lengthy segment about 77 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: what they dubbed Shameless Gait, and this time the segment 78 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: went for almost eleven minutes and we were included. 79 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: In the narrative. 80 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: So, after recapping the past events, Bruno admitted that he 81 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: had gotten Shameless and Outspoken mixed up. He then said 82 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: he guessed he owed Shameless an apology. He then proceeded 83 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: to say that he now liked Zara and Michelle because 84 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: they were hot. He said he watched their videos and 85 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: found them very attractive and hoped they could be friends 86 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: and go out for drinks. Kyle suggested perhaps Bruno could 87 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: be a guest on Shameless's podcast during Mental Health Week 88 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: to which Bruno agreed and said maybe he could forget 89 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: to take his tablets. Our podcast then received a roasting. 90 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: They mocked the tagline on our website, which reads issues 91 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: facing women and the fun stuff. Kyle said, we speak 92 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,239 Speaker 1: about discharge and stealing lists. They also said our podcast 93 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: must be super woke because there's three female hosts. Now, 94 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: if this all wasn't bad enough, they finished with this, Yeah, Shameless, 95 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: sorry time, and I'm sorry to the hot girls from 96 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: Shameless and the ugly girls from Outspoken. 97 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 4: Better watch yourself, Better watch. 98 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: Yourself when the big dog comes barking, better watch yourself. 99 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: Now. We only found out that this segment existed on 100 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: Thursday through our best friend, who messaged us asking if 101 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 2: we were okay. And it was really mortifying, to say 102 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 2: the least, finding out through a friend that you'd been 103 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 2: called ugly on the biggest radio show in Australia. And 104 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: we then remembered that Shameless had released an episode that day, 105 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 2: so assume they would have called out the segment. So 106 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 2: to say that we were shocked when we listened to 107 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: their discussion about it is an understatement. 108 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: This is what they said. 109 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 4: I also, of course listened to our apology on Carl 110 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 4: and Jackie O. Don't know if you guys heard it. 111 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 4: It was an interesting apology as far as apologies go, 112 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 4: but we got it. So thank you for the extra 113 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 4: minutes on the biggest radio show on the world, Kyl 114 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: and Jackie Oote. 115 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: Kay. We will take any public good publicity there, yay. 116 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: Now, it is important to point out that the following day, 117 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: Shameless updated their Instagram followers on their stance on the matter, 118 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: which we'll go into a little bit later. Now, there 119 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: is just so much to unpack here, but I wanted 120 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 1: to start by explaining who Bruno is because he is 121 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: getting a lot of airtime, and I was surprised to 122 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: learn that he is thirty six years old, even though 123 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: I mean, he's quite young to have these sorts of 124 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: sexist views. He's married and has a three year old 125 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: daughter called Juliet. 126 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 4: Now. 127 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: Bruno is the former executive producer of the Kyl and 128 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 1: Jackie O Show. He actually left the show in twenty 129 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 1: eighteen to become Kyle's manager and the managing direct of 130 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: his company, King Kyle. 131 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 3: Now. 132 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: It's not the first time Bruno has caused controversy on air. 133 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: In twenty eleven, listeners called for his sacking following comments 134 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: he made about organ donation and the fact that he 135 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: would never consider donating his own. In twenty twelve, he 136 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 1: was fired from the show as a guest and talent 137 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: producer after making jokes on Twitter about the twenty twelve Aurora, 138 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: Colorado shooting. The content on Bruno's website has also come 139 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: into question. Bruno's website allegedly featured a video of a 140 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: man apparently beating up a woman in front of her child. 141 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: It also featured an anti Obama sticker on a car 142 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: with the phrase do not renig. In twenty twelve, content 143 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: on his website also included Bruno loves boobs and an 144 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: image of a man dressed in a fancy dress costume 145 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: made to look like a sanitary pad. 146 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: It's quite clear that Bruno is cut from the same 147 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: cloth as Kyl Sanderlans and he has based his radio 148 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: career off being very controversial. Now. Bruno did reach out 149 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 2: and apologize to us via an Instagram DM, but in 150 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: the same breath he asked if he could appear on 151 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: our podcast to explain himself. He also did so when 152 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: he was discussing shameless He said how desperate he was 153 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 2: to get on their podcast, and we explained that we 154 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 2: were disgusted by his comments and asked him to provide 155 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: more detail about what went down on the show, which 156 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: he never responded to, and we simply refuse to give 157 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: any more airtime to a thirty six year old man 158 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 2: who chooses to objectify, bully, under grade women based on 159 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 2: their appearance, who already has the biggest platform in Australian radio. 160 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 2: Over the weekend, I was reading this really good article 161 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: in the Washington Post which gave me an insight into 162 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: Bruno's behavior. So the article, written by Meredith Simmons, was 163 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,119 Speaker 2: entitled don't like what a woman is saying? 164 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 3: Call her ugly? 165 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: And in the article, the journalists discussed how the response 166 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: is a time honored tradition and a technique Trump employed 167 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: a lot. The journalists explained, no matter what field women 168 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: work in, whether it's politics, journalism, or sport, women face 169 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: criticism of their appearance that is totally unrelated to their 170 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: job description. Gee that sounds familiar, the journalist wrote. It 171 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: seems that any woman who has the audacity to speak 172 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: in a public forum will be evaluated not only on 173 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: the substance of what she says or how well she 174 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: does her job, but what she weighs, what she's wearing, 175 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: and what her hairstyle says about her. Needless to say, 176 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: men hardly face similar critiques. So essentially, this article was 177 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: saying that discussing a woman's appearance is a way of 178 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: undermining their credibility. And you notice that this happens a 179 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: lot in politics. So as soon as a woman's ideas 180 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: or power becomes threatening, you often see them referred to 181 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: in terms of their appearance and as used as a 182 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: way to distract, to trivialize, and to divert attention from 183 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: the important things women are saying and doing, and making 184 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: fun of someone's appearance also puts that person below you, 185 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: whereas if you then choose to engage with someone based 186 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: on their ideas, it's a level playing field. So it's 187 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: just a bit of an insight into why men decide 188 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: to call women ugly or comment on their appearance when 189 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: they feel threatened. And clearly Bruno is feeling threatened that 190 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: these two female led podcasts are doing something amazing in 191 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: that space and oh god forbid, doing a chocolate hierarchy 192 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: over him. 193 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and podcaster Meghan Pissetto. She made a really good 194 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: point following all the backlash about Bruno's comments, and she said, 195 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: how does a comment like this make the cut from 196 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: the radio show then to be put out on a podcast, 197 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 2: because there were so many people who would have had 198 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 2: to listen to that audio for them to be placed 199 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 2: on the Carl and JACKIEO Show podcast. And it is 200 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: a comment that could have been easily edited out of 201 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 2: the podcast. And while it's not women's job to pull 202 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: up men for their misogynistic behavior, it doesn't make it 203 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 2: any less disappointing that JACKIEO and the other females didn't 204 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: do this. I think I was so taken aback by 205 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 2: the ugly comment that I originally didn't even notice Bruno's 206 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: threatening tone, And it wasn't until Meghan Pisetto pointed it 207 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: out on her Instagram story that I realized. So to 208 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: remind you, he said, and to the ugly girls from Outspoken, 209 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 2: watch yourself when the big dog comes barking. Now, the 210 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 2: fact who deem this an appropriate way to behave in 211 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: public on the country's biggest radio station makes me feel 212 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 2: very uneasy. How is he acting behind closed doors? And 213 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 2: to remind everyone. This is over the fact that three 214 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 2: women dared to do an Easter food hierarchy because that's 215 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: his thing, not that he did it this year or 216 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: hasn't done it for a couple of years, but he 217 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: used to make lists. Is it wrong that it makes 218 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: me want to create a list even more? Because I 219 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: think it's just ridiculous that this guy who works in 220 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: radio claims that lists are his thing. I mean, there's 221 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: countless radio stations that put out this type of content, 222 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: not just him. Yeah. 223 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: Well, I did see one of our lovely listeners suggested 224 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: that we should do a hierarchy of the biggest dicks 225 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 1: on radio, and he commit at them number one. 226 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 2: Now jokes aside, because this really hasn't been a pleasant 227 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: time for us, I do want to talk about how 228 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: we felt on Thursday night, because it was incredibly tough 229 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 2: for us, and it did feel like two of the 230 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 2: biggest podcasts in the country were ganging up on us 231 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: and it even affected our family. Many of them are, 232 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 2: of course, really upset and offended by the comments. It 233 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: honestly just felt like we were back at high school. 234 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: It was really humiliating and degrading to be spoken about 235 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 2: like that on the country's biggest stage, and. 236 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: To originally hear Michelle Andrews thank Bruno for his apology 237 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: and be excited about getting more minutes on the Kyle 238 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: and Jackie Oh Show was really hard to stomach. So 239 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: we just couldn't sit back and not say something about 240 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: the matter on our socials, and we were really pleased 241 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: to see that Shameless updated their stance on Bruno's apology 242 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: Following our Instagram post, now Shameless posted a lengthy statement 243 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: on their feed, which we will link in the show notes. 244 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: They started by saying, last night, it was brought to 245 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: our attention by Outspoken the podcast that after Bruno Bouchet 246 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: from The Kyl and Jackie Oh Show wrapped up his 247 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: apology to us, he made some awful remarks about Sophie 248 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 1: Amy and Kate Torber. We were mortified to have learnt this, 249 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: and we don't stand by that for a second. We 250 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: had only listened to a screen recording of the radio 251 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: show sent to us by a listener and truly believed, 252 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: given the two two minute snipet ended with what sounded 253 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: like a conclusion of the segment, that there was nothing 254 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: more to hear. We now know that there were further 255 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: comments made on the radio after we were spoken about, 256 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 1: and we want to address them publicly. They went on 257 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: to say two groups of women, both ourselves and Outspoken, 258 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: were objectified on live radio. They explained that they didn't 259 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: want to address the comments in their episode because the 260 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: show had firstly sexualized them in their workplace and insinuated 261 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: the only reason men would engage with their content is 262 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: because of their appearance. Secondly, the comments made them feel 263 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: deeply uncomfortable and exposed. Michelle and Zara went on to 264 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: say that dropping the topic altogether was not an option either, 265 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: as the debacle had been a title of their previous episode. 266 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 1: They said they couldn't ignore the apology they had asked 267 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: for seven days prior, as it would have confused thousands 268 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,719 Speaker 1: of listeners now. Seamler said that they only listened to 269 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: two minutes of the eleven minute topic and missed the 270 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: part of the apology where Bruno objectified us. They said 271 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: that they were blown away by how gross Bruno was 272 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: and that his comments were sex and degrading, and they 273 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: back us one hundred percent for calling it out. They 274 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: went on to say what they will never do, though, 275 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: is be sucked into some kind of feuding women narrative, 276 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: and pointed out that the comments were made by a 277 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: man about two sets of women, and it was Bruno 278 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: and Bruno alone who made the comment. 279 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: We do really want to thank Shameless for changing their 280 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: public stance on the issue and condemning Bruno's comments. It 281 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: really did meet a lot to us, and I think 282 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,199 Speaker 2: that they summarize things really well. I think the saddest 283 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 2: thing for me is how much this whole debacle showed 284 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 2: that the patriarchy is still well and truly in power. 285 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 2: The fact that arguably the most powerful women in Australian 286 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 2: podcasting felt pressured enough to originally stay silent when Bruno's 287 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 2: comments had made them feel so uncomfortable speaks volumes to 288 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 2: how powerful this radio show is. Yeah, and I think 289 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 2: we've all been in situations when men in power have 290 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 2: made comments to us in the workplace or even in 291 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: social situations, and we felt like the only option is 292 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 2: to laugh off those comments, which I feel like is 293 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: what Zara and Michelle did here. And sometimes you feel 294 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: like it's the only way to make these comments stop, 295 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 2: or perhaps you feel intimidated or frankly just don't know 296 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: what to say and it can be very hard sometimes 297 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 2: to find the courage to call out this type of 298 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 2: behavior and not play into these powerful figures games And 299 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 2: for any new listeners who may not know, in twenty sixteen, 300 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: Amy and I both lost our jobs in news media 301 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 2: because we stood up to someone who sexually harassed Amy 302 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 2: and making that complaint ultimately lost us our jobs, but 303 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 2: we fought it, so Amy took legal action against the 304 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 2: organization and it was settled out of court. If you 305 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: are interested to find out more, we will put a 306 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 2: link to a great piece that the seven thirty report 307 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 2: did on the whole debarcle. I thought it was important 308 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 2: to share this because the day that story aired, the 309 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: media organization in question their shares actually dropped dramatically on 310 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 2: the market, and there were so many think pieces questioning 311 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 2: the misogyny in workplaces like this, And I think when 312 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: women find the courage to stand up and speak out, 313 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 2: amazing things can happen, and that's when change occurs. I mean, 314 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 2: I know it's not fair that women have to be 315 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: the ones to do it, but we do need to 316 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 2: be able to back each other and be there to 317 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 2: support one another when these sorts of things happen. 318 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 3: I totally agree. 319 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: And the thing is, whilst it's incredibly hurtful to be 320 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: called ugly, being called hot can be equally as problematic 321 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: because while some people may think it's a compliment, it 322 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: actually just sexualizes women and makes it all about how 323 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: they look. And with the Shameless girls, Bruno only seemed 324 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: to see their worth once he saw a photo of them. 325 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: It didn't matter to him how articulate and clever and 326 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: funny and hard working or successful they are. It all 327 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: came down to how they looked. 328 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: That being said, I do really wish that Shameless had 329 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: given the time to seek out Bruno's whole apology initially 330 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: before thanking them publicly on their platform. We have such 331 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: respect for the girls and to feel like both podcasts 332 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 2: we're in on some sort of joke about our show, 333 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: or that Shameless agreed with the sentiment, it really hurts. 334 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 2: And of course now the girls have cleared the air 335 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: with their very articulate apology, but we sort of wanted 336 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 2: to explain why we thought it was necessary to ask 337 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 2: them to rethink their acceptance of the first apology. 338 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: And the thing is, as we touched on before, you 339 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: can see how intimidating it would have been for them 340 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: to actually call them out originally without any other backing 341 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: from females because the Kyle and Jackie O show has 342 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: caused so much controversy over the years. In an interview 343 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: with sixty Minutes in twenty twenty, Jackie O said she 344 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: was worried that one day Kyle will say something that 345 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: will end his career. 346 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: She said that probably. 347 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: The hardest part when working with Kyle is that he 348 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: has this really beautiful side, and then with that comes 349 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: this other side that you think, oh no, why do 350 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: you have to say that? 351 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 4: Why? 352 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I get nervous for him. She 353 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: then turned to Kyle in the interview and said, I'm 354 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: always worried you're going to say something that will one 355 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 1: day just ruin you. 356 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: In an interview on Mea Friedman's No Filter podcast, Kyle 357 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 2: revealed he has a clause in his contract that at 358 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 2: actually prevents him from being fired. He explained, I have 359 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 2: to deal with crisis PR people and they've always got 360 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 2: the wrong ideas, and I say, you really don't know 361 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 2: what you're doing. He continued, saying, I work for myself. 362 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: I don't really work for anyone. I don't have to 363 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:17,439 Speaker 2: do anything that they say. He then reiterated that he 364 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: wasn't scared of losing his job because he's protected in 365 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 2: his contract. And whilst Kyl appears to be untouchable on radio, 366 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: in two thousand and nine, he was acts from the 367 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 2: judging panel of Australian Idol following an on air controversy. 368 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 2: So a teenage girl became emotional during a lie detective 369 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 2: segment on Kyle and Jackie Oh's Today AFM breakfast show 370 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 2: and reluctantly admitted she had been raped when she was 371 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 2: twelve years old. Kyle then replied, right, is that the 372 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 2: only experience you've had? At that moment, Jackie swiftly cut 373 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 2: off the segment and announced the show's host and producer 374 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 2: had no prior knowledge of the rape. 375 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: It is so baffling to me that Kyle is so 376 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: untouchable in twenty twenty two, But then when you think 377 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,239 Speaker 1: about it, he and Jackie O reportedly each earn an 378 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: estimated eight million. 379 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: Dollars a year. 380 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: They are the highest paid media personalities in the country. 381 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: Now they take that money home because they have more 382 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: listeners than any other breakfast show in Australia, and they 383 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: made history last year, when the show took out its 384 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: nineteenth consecutive number one FM spot with a twelve point 385 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: nine percent share of the Sydney audience. 386 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 2: Well for the KRL and Jackie O Show, controversy sends 387 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 2: ratings through the roof. I feel like a lot of 388 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 2: us live in this little bubble on the Internet where 389 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: we follow people who uplift us and people who we 390 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 2: share similar values with, and we feel like the majority 391 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 2: of people think like us, that have moved away from 392 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: these sort of archaic sexist views. But sadly, the Carl 393 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 2: and Jackie O Show is evidence that so many people 394 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty two still think so differently to us, 395 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: and we still have so far to come. I mean, 396 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 2: every day on the Internet, young women are canceled for 397 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 2: the slightest of things, from old tweet surfacing or pulling 398 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 2: an expression that we don't like, or for not standing 399 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 2: up against fast fashion brands. And we hold these women 400 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 2: to such a higher account than we do these shock 401 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: jobs because sadly, we don't expect much more from them, 402 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 2: and it's not really surprising to us when these sort 403 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 2: of comments come out of their mouths. However, I feel 404 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 2: like we really need to push back on this. 405 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Apby Chatfield did a great segment on her podcast 406 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 1: yesterday about this. She was saying, how when a controversy 407 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: like this happens, we're all compelled to go and listen 408 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: to the segment on the radio show or on the podcast, 409 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: and at the end of the day, that only bumps 410 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: up that podcast ratings. So executives see that controversies sell, 411 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 1: so then they continue the cycle. And it's kind of 412 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: like the influencer world. There's influences that you might not 413 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: agree with, but by continuing to hate, follow them, or 414 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: engage with their content, it only benefits them. So if 415 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 1: you take anything away from this segment, just remember your view, download, 416 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: or click actually matters, So don't engage with the content 417 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 1: that doesn't fulfill you or that you don't agree with. 418 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 2: It's important to point out that Bruno appeared on Tuesday's 419 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 2: episode of The Carl and Jackie You Show and they 420 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 2: did touch on the segment. However, there was absolutely no 421 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 2: apology towards our show or Shameless's show. 422 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:11,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, Bruno seemed more concerned about apologizing for bringing Jackie 423 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: and Kyle into disrepute. It's like, hey, how about you 424 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: fucking apologize to the people that you hurt instead of 425 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: sending us a pathetic DM that you didn't clearly stand by. 426 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: How about you apologize on your platform rather than begging 427 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: us to get onto ours. 428 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 2: I feel like that's a bit unfortunate. Last name Besh 429 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: Love Island UK has been heating up our screen since 430 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 2: the premiered last week, but it's one of Islander's former 431 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 2: flame that's got everyone talking amy what has gone down? 432 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:48,679 Speaker 4: Well. 433 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 2: Late last week news broke that fan favorite Luca Bish, 434 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 2: who's the twenty three year old fishmonger from Brighton It 435 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 2: previously dated at UK influence at Saffron Barker. And what 436 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 2: makes this story even more juicy is allegations of what 437 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 2: I like to call a love square. 438 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 3: Now. 439 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 2: Prior to dating Saffron, Luca dated another well known influencer 440 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 2: called Sophie Rimmer. Now she's known as Sophie Floyd on 441 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 2: social media and they dated for four years. So it's 442 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: claimed that Luca left his ex to be with Saffron 443 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 2: Baker last year. And to add salt to the wound, Luca, 444 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 2: Sophie and Saffron all went to school together in Brighton 445 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 2: and Sophie and Saffron were friends. So Sophie addresses split 446 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 2: last year on her YouTube channel, saying, it just feels 447 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 2: like I've kind of lost a best friend, which is 448 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 2: fucking horrible, and it does like really hurt now. Before 449 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 2: entering the villa, Luca did some media interviews and told 450 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 2: a number of publications about his romance with Saffron. He 451 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 2: confirmed they dated a few months last year after meeting 452 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: through friends. He said, I think she had just come 453 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 2: out of a relationship that year. 454 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: That was it. 455 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 2: We just kind of hit the ground running a bit. 456 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 2: We still remain real good mates. 457 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 3: He said. 458 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 2: The reason for their split was because she had a 459 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: very busy lifestyle and he has to work nights. I 460 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 2: actually can see them getting along really well because I 461 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 2: feel like they've both got great band to big personalities. 462 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 3: See. 463 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: I am a keen follower of Saffron Baker, but I 464 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: never knew that this relationship even happened, and that's because 465 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: she never posted about Luca or discussed him on her 466 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: YouTube channel. However, Luca did share as cheeky inst story 467 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: of the two cuddling in bed, which is now doing 468 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: the rounds on TikTok, of course, and this led many 469 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: to question Luca's motivation for hooking up with Saffron. Now 470 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 1: there's been even more rumors swirling around on TikTok. There's 471 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: been a number of unsubstantiated claims that Saffron and Luca 472 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: got together during Saffron's girls trip to Dubai, and Saffron 473 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: actually documented this holiday on her YouTube channel. There was 474 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: also another rumour doing the rounds that so Floyd found 475 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: out about Saffron and Luca because Luca got sent a 476 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 1: speeding fine which was sent to their house and Saffron 477 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: was pictured in the car. Now, at the time, Saffron 478 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 1: was still publicly together with her then boyfriend Tyler, and interestingly, 479 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: Saffron and Tyler split not long after the fateful Dubai trip, 480 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 1: and following this trip, Sophie Floyd stopped following Saffron on Instagram. 481 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 3: So read into that what you want to now. 482 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: Saffron's representatives have responded to the media reports by simply 483 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,439 Speaker 2: saying Saffron didn't do anything wrong. 484 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 3: There has been. 485 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 2: No official word though, from Saffron, despite followers flooding her 486 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 2: comments and Instagram lives with questions about Luca. I would 487 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 2: love to know, though, how Saffron's ex, Tyler feels about 488 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 2: it all because they split in November twenty twenty one, 489 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 2: and I remember at the time thinking that it was 490 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,919 Speaker 2: all a bit strange because Saffron recently had taken Tyler 491 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 2: on a holiday with her and a family, and when 492 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 2: they did announce their split, Saffron told her followers during 493 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 2: an Instagram Q and A that there was no bad 494 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 2: blood between her and Tyler and they will always stay friends. 495 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: But since then, the pair have unfollowed each other and 496 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 2: Tyler has deleted all of his photos with Saffron. It's 497 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 2: all coming out though now so because a few months ago, 498 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: Tyler did a Q and A on his Instagram where 499 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 2: he said something along the lines of the truth always 500 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 2: comes out. 501 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 3: Do you guys think Luca will talk about Saffron and 502 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 3: the Villa? 503 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 2: I reckon he's already spoken about her to the other Islanders. 504 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 2: All the guys seem to show off about people they've 505 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 2: dated as soon as they get in there. I do 506 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 2: think the ITV might choose not to play those sections 507 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: where he discusses her, because Saffron did appear on ITV's 508 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 2: Strictly Borroom, as well as a number of other shows, 509 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 2: so they might be trying to protect her. But don't 510 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 2: you think it's weird that there's quotes from Luca from 511 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 2: before he was in the Love Island villa, almost promoting 512 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,880 Speaker 2: the fact he's on Love Island where he's talking about Saffron. 513 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 2: I wonder if they have purposely timed the release of 514 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 2: these quotes, and will Saffron Barker pop up in the 515 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 2: Love Island villa. 516 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 3: That could be true because I was talking to Reece. 517 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: We actually caught up on all of the Love Islands 518 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: on Saturday night. It was a wild night, and I 519 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 1: noticed that in the start of the show they obviously 520 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: let the viewers pick who got coupled up with, and 521 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: I sort of thought they were starting to try and 522 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: shake things up a bit and bring in elements of 523 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: other reality TV shows. So I kind of thought having 524 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 1: the couple's pre matched was a little bit Maths esque, 525 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: because I know Math's Australia is really popular in the UK. 526 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: And then I saw a promo that Jemma's ex is 527 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: being brought into the villa tonight, and that's very X 528 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: on the Beach esque, so perhaps they will be bringing 529 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 1: his ex Lucas X Saffron Barker into the villa. How 530 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 1: amazing would that be? Particularly love of Saffron has stayed 531 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 1: quiet on it. 532 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 3: Or maybe they're going to bring in Sophie Floyd. 533 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 2: Now, kay, you touched on Jemma Owens and much of 534 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 2: the show has so far focused around the nineteen year 535 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 2: old contestant. Now she is the daughter of English soccer 536 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,479 Speaker 2: player Michael Owens, who played for Liverpool and Manchester, and 537 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 2: he is worth an estimated sixty eight million dollars. No 538 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 2: wonder she can afford to have twelve horses. I love 539 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 2: how she casually dropped that into conversationshilarious, You've just got 540 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 2: twelve horses? 541 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: Yes, if it was so normal, Yeah, I've got twelve 542 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: horses at my house. 543 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 2: And Jemma is yet to reveal that Michael Owens is 544 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: her father, but it's safe to say that a lot 545 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 2: of the drama has been around her. She was one 546 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 2: of the first contestants to generate headlines when she was 547 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: coupled up with twenty seven year old Dava Day. Now. 548 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 3: Dave Day had the. 549 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 2: Opportunity to pick from any of the female contestants in 550 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 2: the villa, and he chose the nineteen year old, and 551 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: many were surprised considering the large age gap, and there 552 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 2: were plenty of think pieces saying there was a huge 553 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,679 Speaker 2: maturity gap and also an unbalanced power dynamic. 554 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 3: And it was quite awkward because. 555 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: During Gemma and daver Day's date, Jemma revealed to him 556 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 2: that she still lived at home, and this was then 557 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 2: followed by dover Day saying that he moved into his 558 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 2: own place when he was eighteen. Now, that was almost 559 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 2: a decade ago, so let's put this into perspective. Jemma 560 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: would have only been nine years old when he moved 561 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 2: into his new apartment. Now, one online user wrote, I 562 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 2: cannot imagine being twenty seven and keen to share a 563 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 2: bed with a nineteen year old. None of this is 564 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 2: sitting right with me? Anote, doesn't Jemma need a permission 565 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 2: slip before leaving the villa with dub Day. Now that 566 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 2: being said, anyone who has watched this show intently will 567 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 2: know that Jemma isn't your average nineteen year old. 568 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 3: She comes across as really. 569 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 2: Confident and strong and upfront, and she seems to be 570 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,679 Speaker 2: able to handle herself and she knows what she wants. Now, 571 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 2: she's since been coupled up with someone closer in age, 572 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 2: and that is, of course Luca, who's been causing all 573 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 2: of this controversy. 574 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 3: To be honest, I was. 575 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 1: Really surprised by the whole backlash about the age gap. 576 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: I didn't think it was a big enough age gap 577 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: for people to be complaining about, considering that Jemma is 578 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: over eighteen, and I mean, we talk about power and balance, 579 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 1: but they're both on the show. They both have the 580 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: opportunity to choose yes or no. 581 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 2: Well, her dad, Michael Owens, has responded to those who 582 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 2: were saying she was too young to go on the show, 583 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 2: and he pointed out that he joined Liverpool when he 584 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 2: was seventeen and she's had two more years than he 585 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 2: has to get ready for life in the public eye. 586 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 2: He also continued by saying she's a mature nineteen. She's 587 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 2: a bit like me in that regard. I was playing 588 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 2: for Liverpool when I was seventeen and having to make 589 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 2: friends with twenty three, twenty four to twenty five year olds. 590 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 2: The bottom line is she's an adult and I have 591 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 2: to trust her to make sensible decisions now. My dad 592 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 2: also called out a tweet written by a football coach 593 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 2: which said can't wait to see her getting smashed alongside 594 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 2: a series of laughing emojis. Michael Owen wrote, what a 595 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,719 Speaker 2: fine example to set from a man in your responsible position. 596 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: Anytime I watch Love Island, I actually do think about 597 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 2: all their parents, because when you watch it, it's easy 598 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 2: to forget that these are people's children. And can you 599 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 2: imagine your parents watching your Love. 600 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 3: Island kissing people and they would just be horrendous. 601 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 2: Well, he did joke earlier that it's a father's worst 602 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 2: nightmare for their daughter to enter the villa, but he 603 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: seems to be handling it quite well. What did bring 604 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 2: me back to her young age though, was her dad 605 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 2: also said that one of the things he wasn't happy 606 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 2: about on the show was the amount of swearing, because 607 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: Jemma isn't allowed to swear at home. 608 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: Now back to Jemma's ex boyfriend who is entering the villa. 609 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: He is a professional rugby player called Jack O'Neill and 610 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: his club Castleford Tigers has released him from his contract 611 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 1: to allow him to pursue the show, so he and 612 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: Jemma apparently split because he spent too much time on 613 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: his rugby and not enough time on her now apparently 614 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: in the episode which does air tonight, so sorry if 615 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: anyone's actually already seen it, But apparently Jemma runs off 616 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: to put her makeup on after she realizes her ex 617 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: boyfriend has entered the villa. So in the preview that 618 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: we've seen, Jack sits in the villa garden while the 619 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: girls are on the balcony, and the remaining girls wondered 620 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: who he could be before a shocked Jemma realized it's 621 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend, so she quickly ran into the bathroom 622 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 1: put her makeup on, and she said to Tash that 623 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,239 Speaker 1: she hasn't seen Jack since they broke up. 624 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: I didn't see an issue with her running to put 625 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 2: makeup on it all. I don't know why she was 626 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 2: copping heat for that. That's probably the first thing I 627 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 2: would do if my ex boyfriend came into the villain. 628 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: I wonder if this is the ex boyfriend that's meant 629 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: to look like dover Day, because she did say, oh, yeah, 630 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: I've dated some that looks he is. 631 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 2: He actually does look like him. They have very similar features. Now, 632 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: I don't think you guys are going to believe this 633 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 2: because there's also rumors swirling that Gemma's other ex maybe 634 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 2: entering the villa, and this time it is a footballer 635 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 2: called Cameron Green. Now. Producers have denied that there's any 636 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 2: prior romantic connection between Gemma and Cameron, saying they're just 637 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 2: close friends. Now, Cameron reportedly spent time at the Owen 638 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 2: family home and appears in a promotional post on Jemma's 639 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 2: dad's Instagram account. I mean, what have their producers done. 640 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 2: They've just trolled through anyone that Jemma has had any 641 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 2: sort of relationship with and invited into the vill It's really. 642 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 3: Becoming the Gemma Show, and I'm going to call it. 643 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 2: I think she's going to come out of the villa 644 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 2: and arguably be just as big as Molly may Well. 645 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: I think that's all we've got time for today. Thank 646 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: you so much for listening to another episode of Outspoken, 647 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: and if you did enjoy the show, please leave us 648 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: a five star review. 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