WEBVTT - Is It Okay To Share Big News Before It Happens? 🤔💬

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Firms Flex and Firms. This is the flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Firms catch up podcast here with flexing Firms.

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<v Speaker 2>You are on Kaida and I was on TikTok obvy

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<v Speaker 2>the other day and I scrolled across a TikTok that

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<v Speaker 2>picked my interest. Please produce Mikaela play the Shape.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop sharing things before they happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop it.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop posting about things. Stop telling people about things before

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<v Speaker 3>they happen. If you applied for a new job, if

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<v Speaker 3>you got a brand deal, if you are waiting for

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is to happen, do not post it online.

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<v Speaker 3>Do not tell your friends, do not tell your family

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Keep it to yourself. Manifested, Talk to the universe,

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<v Speaker 3>talk to your God. Do not tell people. The evil

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<v Speaker 3>Eye is so so so real.

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<v Speaker 2>So are related to this up until the evil I

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<v Speaker 2>think I don't know enough about the evil to know

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm inviting.

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<v Speaker 1>It to fudge up my so to speak. But I

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<v Speaker 1>really related to this.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm someone who will constantly Actually that's

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<v Speaker 2>not true. I'm not going to implicate myself, but I

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<v Speaker 2>have been wont to talk about things.

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<v Speaker 1>Before they've happened.

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<v Speaker 2>So the other day I decided to do something quite big.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna not say what this is, but I'm giving

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<v Speaker 2>you guys an example. I decided to do a big

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<v Speaker 2>medical procedure right told everyone I know because I thought

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<v Speaker 2>everyone should know about this in case they want to

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah. I go ahead, all right, and everything

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<v Speaker 1>is in motion.

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<v Speaker 2>Why that morning do I decide, Oh, I don't actually

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<v Speaker 2>want to do it. So then for the next few

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<v Speaker 2>days I'm picking up the pieces. Everyone saying, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>thought you're doing this thing. I say, oh, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing anymore. Like Oh, then I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>an idiot because I really like ged this thing up.

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<v Speaker 2>And there've been other like there's nothing I do get

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<v Speaker 2>this in terms of like not karma, but like there've

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<v Speaker 2>been instances where I've told people about things that I

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<v Speaker 2>think are definitely going to happen, and then it doesn't happen,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you feel like a double idiot when you

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<v Speaker 2>could have just kept it to yourself. But then it

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<v Speaker 2>kind of goes against like, I guess this is a

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<v Speaker 2>lesson in manifesting correctly. If you believe in manifesting, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a way to manifest where you tell everyone like you

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<v Speaker 2>know people are like, oh yeah, Lady Gaga said, like

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<v Speaker 2>as Stephanie, She's like one day, I'm gonna be the

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<v Speaker 2>most famous person in the room. Okay, she is now,

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<v Speaker 2>but if she was just another random chick, you'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>that chick is quote unquote crazy. And I see a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of merit in this. I still I don't agree

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<v Speaker 2>that to not tell anyone, like I'll be telling my

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<v Speaker 2>best friend and my mum. Okay, just for them to

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<v Speaker 2>know what the score is and if it happens, we

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<v Speaker 2>can all enjoy. But I'm in my era of not

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<v Speaker 2>telling people when a job is on the horizon, not

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<v Speaker 2>telling people until any contracts assigned.

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<v Speaker 1>I fudge with that. What do you think, Mikayla?

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<v Speaker 4>I agree. When I got this job, I was tossing

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<v Speaker 4>up do I post about it? Do I tell people?

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<v Speaker 4>I was excited. My intimate friends are family, knew. I

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<v Speaker 4>even googled on LinkedIn. When can I update my job?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you done it yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Babe?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I did it.

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<v Speaker 5>I did it the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're friends were connected.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, time I got the job? The reason? Tell

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<v Speaker 1>tell your why you got the job.

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<v Speaker 4>Makaylor, because years ago for me, asked people to add

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<v Speaker 4>her only.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I asked. I just said you can.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I felt like it was a call out, serious.

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<v Speaker 1>A call out.

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<v Speaker 5>Those connections.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we've been friends, so I've been observing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called a connection where babe.

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<v Speaker 4>And then you were like, we need a producer and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>I could do that. That's crazy, guys, And that's how

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<v Speaker 1>it happened. And I'm asking kay to, where's my kickback?

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<v Speaker 2>Fan?

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<v Speaker 4>I asked, I put it in my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, who preferred you? I put you down.

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<v Speaker 2>We cash incentive. I swear most companies have a cash incented,

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<v Speaker 2>which is like you get six k. Does this happen here, Becky.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine. Hundred dollars? Oh my god, contact I whear, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I will contact h.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm certain we had talked about.

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<v Speaker 5>It, and let's not yet it's done it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will be asking for Okay, I need to buy

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<v Speaker 1>a new couch. I need to furnish a help if

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<v Speaker 1>you wants to meet hr so badly, King King living Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I either want the Jasper.

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<v Speaker 5>Not on track.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, take it seriously, I'm being serious, Okay, Mikayla that's

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<v Speaker 2>I said what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>Take what you want from that, guys, But.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm always surprised when for me goes extra spiritual. We'll say,

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<v Speaker 5>as my mum likes to say, if you really believe

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<v Speaker 5>in spirituality and spiritual and spiritual protection, you know everything

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<v Speaker 5>that's for you doesn't pass you by, and like your

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<v Speaker 5>intervention isn't greater than like the intervention. I think evil

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<v Speaker 5>eye is real, but it's on you regardless. You are

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<v Speaker 5>a very public person. Your life is public, your name

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<v Speaker 5>is in mouth, you will never meet ever. There are

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<v Speaker 5>people on the other side of the world talking about you,

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<v Speaker 5>speaking on your name and your reality as you speak.

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<v Speaker 5>Isn't that spookier than you telling a close friend like

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<v Speaker 5>I applied for this job and I'm really excited. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>don't scare me, but they do not want to be

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<v Speaker 5>scared about stat being public figure is very scary, is

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<v Speaker 5>it you doxing yourself every forty five seconds to feel

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<v Speaker 5>something that is scarier than telling your close friends that

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<v Speaker 5>you're excited and like you shouldn't feel embarrassed about wanting

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<v Speaker 5>to do something enthusiastically researching it and then deciding for

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<v Speaker 5>yourself that you don't want to do it because you

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<v Speaker 5>empowered a lot of people to also look at something

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<v Speaker 5>and try something and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Take it back.

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<v Speaker 5>I would hate for you to feel guilted into making

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<v Speaker 5>your major decision because you said that you were going

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<v Speaker 5>to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's crazy. I'm good, guys, thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>we don't need more fear.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't want to be scared about.

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<v Speaker 1>More fee You tell me these people in New York

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<v Speaker 1>with my name in their mom we shouldn't be like

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't thought of that? Someone's okay for mere listening

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<v Speaker 1>from the Czech Republic?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think is happening juk Poland?

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<v Speaker 5>Come on now, babe, Like in theory that is scarier

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<v Speaker 5>than like the thing you're speaking of to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Have they sat opposite you. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a frightening experience. Who you I'm scared? Tell

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<v Speaker 1>someone in Poland, I'm scared. I'm scared. Okay, mister you babe.

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