1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: If you're looking for ways to encourage your kids to 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: learn about saving and smart spending, check out Kit, a 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: pocket money app and card built by Combank. It teaches 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: kids about earning money through chores and saving in buckets 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: or what Kit calls stacks. Kit is free for eligible 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: Combank Yellow customers, t's and C supply, or just fifty 7 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: dollars a year for up to five children. Download the 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: app or visit haykit dot com dot Au. You can 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: also download Kit's free Pocket Money one oh one guide 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: from the Kit website at haykit dot com dot Au. 11 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: TMD available on the website. Consider it appropriate for you. 12 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: Teaching children about money is one of those things that 13 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: feels tricky. Where do you start? What do you talk about? 14 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: What if the children ask a question that you don't 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: know the answer to. What if it looks like you 16 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,279 Speaker 1: might start teaching them things about money that aren't going 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: to be in their best interests. 18 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: Like the stakes feel high if you get it wrong. 19 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: Or maybe we're just too neurotic about it, and the 20 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: psychology of money has gotten into our head so much 21 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: that we don't know what we're doing and we just 22 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: need to trust our gut Caulday and welcome to the 23 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: Happy Families podcast, Real Parenting Solutions every day on Australia's 24 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: most downloaded parenting podcast. My name is doctor Justin Couson today, 25 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: I'm joined by Nicole Petterson McKinnon. Nicole's a longtime financial 26 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: literacy campaigner and educator across newspapers, online, on TV, radio, 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: on stages around Australia. She's had a weekly advice column 28 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: for twenty years in the Cidney Morning Herald, Age, The 29 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: Brisbane Times and WA Today twenty years. 30 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 2: Nicole gives speeches with her. 31 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: Lived advice to prosper She regularly MC's events, including multiple 32 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: Canberra Parliamentary breakfasts for asik or is it is it 33 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: assic or acik? I say acic and I feel like 34 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying it wrong. What do you think, Nicole? 35 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 3: I think it might be ethic, but you know, potato Festado, 36 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 3: it doesn't really matter. 37 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: Everyone gets it. 38 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: I like the sound of acic better, but for some 39 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: reason it just comes out wrong every time. And the 40 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: Australian Government Financial Literacy Board updating members of Parliament in 41 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: Australa's financial literacy progress. A couple of other things, I mean, 42 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: such a long and impressive bio. Since twenty fourteen, Nicole's 43 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: delivered her Smart Money Start incursion in schools, and she 44 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,959 Speaker 1: was recently the guest judge for the ATOS Tax Super 45 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: and You High Schools competition. Nicole has won the top 46 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: Award for Money journalism in the UK and Australia. Is 47 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: the author of How to Get Mortgage Free Like me. 48 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I need more of you in my 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: life and we haven't even properly met you, Nicole, I 50 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: would like to be mortgage free like you. 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: Well, full disclosure, I now have a small mortgage because 52 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 3: that was my first mortgage that I became mortgage free of. 53 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: But yes see, that's the thing, isn't it. You get 54 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: mortgage free, but then you buy a bigger house. 55 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 3: Well that's exactly what happens right at the time. 56 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 4: But that's the process, and that's a good thing. The 57 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 4: more equity, the beout it. 58 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: All right, Well, well, I'd love to talk to you 59 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: about me and make this a special Justine calls in session. 60 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: But that's not what everyone is listening for. Everyone's listening 61 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: because they want to know about how to talk to 62 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: their kids about money. You've been going in and out 63 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: of schools talking about this and writing these columns for 64 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: twenty years. Is just before we get into the nitty 65 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: gritty of the questions. I'd love to know, how do 66 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: you become the money expert? How do you become the 67 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: person who writes about this stuff? 68 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 3: Well, I think to this point and to this podcast, 69 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: I think that I was kind of bred for it, 70 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 3: which is. 71 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 4: A really weird thing. 72 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 3: And I'm not sure that my parents realized they were 73 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 3: doing it, but I am. I am the daughter of 74 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 3: an English teacher and an accountant, so I kind of 75 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 3: think that naturally becomes the financial literacy kind of fare. 76 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 3: And what I would say is that in my house 77 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 3: growing up, money was on the menu. 78 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: Like, we talked about money all the time. 79 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 3: And what's really interesting is a brand new poll out 80 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 3: by a finder that says that forty peopercent of families 81 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 3: only speak about money with their children. So I do 82 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: think it's that awareness, you know, because this help is 83 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 3: not rocket science. It's actually not like the fundamental though, 84 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: is attitude not aptitude. It's great parents can give their 85 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 3: kids both, but they've got to start with the attitude. 86 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: And that's sort of about you know, talking the talk. 87 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not anywhere that I thought the conversation 88 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: was going to go. But let's stay on this for 89 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: a second. I think that is really important attitude towards money. 90 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: Some people's psychology around money is money in, money out. 91 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: It's just money. It comes, it goes. Other people have 92 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: got the attitude, what do you think money grows on trees? Well, 93 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't. Our psychology around money can be kind of 94 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: messed up, right, it can. 95 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 4: Be really messed up. 96 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,359 Speaker 3: And you know, particularly when we're in an environment where 97 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: families have been stretched and stressed for at least the 98 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: past three years. Wow, And we do need to be 99 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 3: really careful about you know, there's a lot of talk 100 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 3: about eco anxiety now among children. I believe economic anxiety 101 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 3: is something that we can pass on to our kids 102 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: if we sort of convey too much of that the 103 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 3: pressure that's around us, and they're not being able to 104 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 3: avoid things, et cetera, without the empowerment to go. You 105 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: know what, kids, We're going to make concrete decisions today. 106 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: We're going to save money there, we're going to cut 107 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 3: back on that here, we're going to target this long 108 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 3: term thing, going to really really enjoy and we're all 109 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: going to get to achieve together, just giving them those 110 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 3: little little teeny crumbs of input that makes them feel 111 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: empowered and in control and set them lot for a 112 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: better life. 113 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is really interesting. 114 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: As you're saying that, I'm reflecting on one of my 115 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: mates that I grew up with. His dad was Scottish. 116 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: Obviously there's a pretty strong stereotype around the Scots and money. 117 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's true, but the stereotypes are there 118 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: for a reason anyway, the territory. Yeah, so my friend Richard, 119 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: his dad was Scottish, his mum was English, and they 120 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: were tight. Like one day they were taken into the 121 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: bathroom and told how many squares of toilet paper they 122 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: were allowed to use when they went to the toilet. 123 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: It was like that super super super tight. But we 124 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: used to mock our friend Richard because if we were 125 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: going to buy takeout after we'd been surfing as teenagers, 126 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: he would choose KFC over Yuck Donald's because the straws 127 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: were skinnier and therefore the drinks lasted longer. 128 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 4: Yeah. Well that's amazing, isn't it. And luck we've all 129 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 4: got those friends. You know. I've got a friend who 130 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 4: at university, lived on Maggie noodles and vitament tablets. 131 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 3: Very financially secure right now, because that was okay with her. 132 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 3: I'm not, you know, not financial advice. It's also not 133 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 3: nutritional advice. 134 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know. 135 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 3: And you know that person who took their own banana 136 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 3: and wanted to discount for the banana smoovie, because you know, 137 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: that's how that's where their mindset was at with money. 138 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 3: I am not like, I'm notoriously stingedpied. I'm not that tiped, 139 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Because I do think 140 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 3: the money is for enjoying along the way, and particularly 141 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 3: as parents, when we've got these small people, we do 142 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 3: want to give them those experiences that they're going to remember. 143 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 3: So there is a line where maybe not the counting 144 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 3: out the toilet paper. Maybe that's something that's going to 145 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 3: stick with you in a negative way through your life perhaps, 146 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 3: but you do want to give them that sort of 147 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: enjoyment without the indulgence and the appreciation where the money 148 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 3: is coming from and where it's going, what it's getting you. 149 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: So you go into schools and give talks. Let me 150 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: make a provocative statement to you. The stuff that you 151 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: share with kids in schools is probably going to have 152 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: a fairly small impact on the way they approach money 153 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: in comparison to what they're learning day in day out, 154 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: breathing in in the environment. With what their parents are 155 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: saying about money fair one. 156 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 3: Hundred percent accurate. And I mean, you know, I do 157 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: what I can, and what I do in schools is 158 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 3: more at that very last, you know, exit from the 159 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: school gate. Hey, guys, be really careful. I do a 160 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 3: lot of he's what you haven't learned in school. You know, 161 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: it's an incursion right at the very end. The sort 162 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 3: of exams are done and dastard and it's like you're 163 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 3: going to have a credit score US style very very soon. 164 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 3: You need to protect that with your life, because your 165 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 3: life really does you know, really affects your life. You 166 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: need to be really careful about debt. You need to 167 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: be really careful about putting your name on leases and 168 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 3: about the liability of that. You are going to get 169 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 3: targeted by funky fintech companies because that's your generation who 170 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 3: are going to want to clip your ticket. They're going 171 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 3: to offer you all this liberation of spending, all these 172 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 3: ways that we didn't have of getting money that we 173 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 3: haven't earned. 174 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 4: Right there. 175 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: Used to be one needs to be bank guard introduced 176 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 3: in the nineteen eighties. Now there's about twenty different ways. 177 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 4: Of getting it. 178 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 3: So I think it kids, you just got to be 179 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 3: really aware that all this kind of free money is 180 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: not free at all. And the impact of interest rates 181 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: that's another one, but just really really key to your 182 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 3: future life. You know, you pay too much on your 183 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 3: mortgage and you go way backwards. 184 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: So let's talk about kids from let's say eight and up, 185 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: maybe ten and up somewhere around there. Okay, so they're 186 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: old enough now that they're earning some pocket money, they've 187 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 1: got access to perhaps their parents' credit card when they 188 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 1: jump online and they're playing Roblocks or something like that 189 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 1: and Fortnite, or they've got a part time job perhaps 190 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: and they're starting to earn money. 191 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 2: What are the biggest. 192 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: Money traps that parents don't usually talk to their kids about, 193 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: but the kids definitely get caught up in. 194 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 4: Well. 195 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 3: I think what it is is not getting that broader 196 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 3: picture of what money can do for you. I think 197 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: that's the key thing that parents need to pass on 198 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 3: very quotely entwined with that is the idea about being 199 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 3: able to delay gratification. That's a really key lenny, and 200 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 3: every parent knows that, you know, as beings, we arrive 201 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 3: hardwired at some level of being able to delay gratification, 202 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: either wear a consumer or wear a delayer, and that's 203 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 3: kind of been built to us with us. And it's 204 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 3: a parent's responsibility to kind of show their children just 205 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 3: what they can achieve if they just delay that. Food 206 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 3: is the fantastic proxy for money in small children. So 207 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 3: you can kind of start getting these attitudes across to 208 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 3: your children very very early, and you know, talk about 209 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 3: the concept of future. You may you eat that all 210 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 3: that chocolate bar right now, you're going to be super 211 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 3: sad this afternoon. 212 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 4: Won there's a chocolate bar left. 213 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 3: If you have half a hour and half later, imagine 214 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 3: you'll be double happy. And you know that idea of 215 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 3: you know, justin knows that I'm a bit of deputy 216 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 3: of chocolate. So I actually hearing these tools to get 217 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 3: across these messages is really really great. 218 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 4: And then it's about the goal targeting. 219 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 3: You know, no matter what the money is, if you 220 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 3: grow as the kids have ten, what are they going 221 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 3: to do with it? What is the magic money slit 222 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 3: that means that they're going to enjoy it as much 223 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 3: as possible, rather than just fresher it and have it disappear. 224 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: We've always done this thing with our kids, where we've 225 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: had them set a goal. They look at how much 226 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: income they have. I mean, when they're getting pocket money, 227 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: it's very very clear. But even once they get their 228 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: part time jobs, they've got a pretty decent sense of 229 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: how much money they're going to earn on a week 230 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: tweek basis. And we'll set like a three month or 231 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 1: a six month or even a twelve month goal with them, 232 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: what are you working towards? How much you think you 233 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: can put away? And they'll give us that number, and 234 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: then we'll say, all right, what would a stretch goal 235 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: look like? And so they might add an extra hundred 236 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: bucks or an extra five hundred bucks, again depending on 237 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: their age and what their income is. And then we'll 238 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: say to them, here's the thing. If you hit that 239 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: stretch goal, we'll bonus you by this amount. Sometimes we'll 240 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: match it, other times we'll give them a percentage of 241 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: it. It just depends on how big that goal is. Now 242 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: we're going ourselves, but the idea there is to teach 243 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 1: them that if they can delay that gratification for the 244 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: three months or the six months, if they can think 245 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: about future to me rather than present me, that the 246 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: benefit to them down the track is going to be 247 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: a really significant payoff. What's your take on that? And 248 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: do you have any other strategies that can help to 249 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: teach these principles. 250 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Look, I love the idea of the stretch goal. 251 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 3: I think that's really good branding. It's all about the 252 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: brandings of kids, all about the gearick and like the 253 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 3: cut through to to make that really land. A love 254 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 3: idea with stretch goal. So what you're embodying there is 255 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 3: this thing of pain in the game. So as humans, adults, children, whatever, 256 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 3: we know that something that's given to us is just 257 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 3: not appreciated as much as something that we strive for 258 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 3: and earn, write anything, right, you know, bars goods, whatever. 259 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 3: So the idea of pain in the game and a 260 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 3: stretch goal of hey is my fifty percent here? 261 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 4: Is your fifty percent here? 262 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 3: And that being expandable based on incentivizing spending up and 263 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 3: up and up is a really great mechanism of again 264 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 3: and powering children to show them that they can make 265 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: a real, real difference. 266 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 4: One of the things that I do. 267 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: Is, you know, I tell to you a little bit 268 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 3: about interest and the implication of that. A lot of 269 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 3: the kids that I talk to in schools, you know, 270 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 3: these sort of seventeen eighteen year old, you know, adults, 271 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 3: they feel really disempowered. They feel like property prices are 272 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: out of their reach. They feel like they're going to 273 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 3: give up before they try, because you know, the economy 274 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 3: is such that they're not going to succeed anyway, which 275 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 3: is a really super dangerous set. And so I say 276 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: to them, you know what the thing is that you 277 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 3: have an asset that is so powerful on your side 278 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: that your parents don't have, that no other adult has. 279 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 3: And of course that act is time, right, So the 280 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: earlier you start saving and investing, the cheaper and easier 281 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 3: it is, the more powerful that is. 282 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 4: And the time to start is today. 283 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 3: So I just give them a really straight up example, 284 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 3: which I you know, I would tremend to parents. If 285 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 3: you start saving six dollars a day from the day 286 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: you finish school, and you get an eight percent investment 287 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: return under standard, you know, over the long term you'll 288 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 3: be a millionaire by sixty to six bucks a day. 289 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 3: You wait till fifty you're going to have to save. 290 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,599 Speaker 3: With apologies to everyone at the other end of this scale, 291 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 3: one hundred and seventy nine dollars a day. Wow, So 292 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 3: that you speaks to the amazing impact that time has 293 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 3: and the earlier they start, the cheaper. It is like 294 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 3: we're talking micro savings that can make an absolute maximum difference. 295 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 3: And if you put numbers on it like that. Here's 296 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: another one for parents. Right of that million dollars, a 297 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 3: child who starts saving the minute they leave school gets 298 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 3: nine hundred thousand dollars for free. They only save one 299 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars of it themselves, and that's where that 300 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 3: magical compound interest comes in. That's the beautiful thing about it. 301 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 3: Whereabout a literally poor fifty year old has had to 302 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 3: save six hundred and fifty thousand bucks or thereabouts themselves. 303 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 3: So you know, it's really incredible. If we can just 304 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 3: incentivize our children and stretch them by matching to show 305 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 3: them just how far they could go with whatever money 306 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 3: and limited resources they have, then that's future changing. 307 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 4: It really is. 308 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 2: It's to get rich slow strategy. 309 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 4: Line, and they can do it because they've got the 310 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 4: time to do it. 311 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: I turned fifty this year and I'm currently me too, 312 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: trying to work out how I'm going to put away 313 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: one hundred and eighty dollars a day for the next 314 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: ten years. I know, I know, it's the kind of 315 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: is now you mention it right, kids, It'll be fine. 316 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: I did go and have six children, which certainly made 317 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: it hard to put. 318 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: Them anyway well to look after you. Just hopefully they'll 319 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 2: be able to do that. 320 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: Thanks for the yeah, the good news. It can be 321 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: helpful for kids to learn the basics of how finances work, 322 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: especially in this digital age of invisible money. Kit is 323 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: a pocket money app and card built by Combank. It 324 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: helps kids learn about money through earning, saving, and spending 325 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: pocket money, as well as by playing fun games and quizzes. 326 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 2: Kit is free for. 327 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: Eligible Combank Yellow customers, t's and c supply, or just 328 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: fifty dollars a year for up to five children. Download 329 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: the app or visit haykit dot com dot Au. You 330 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: can also download kits free pocket Money one O one 331 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: guide from the kit website at Heykit dot com dot 332 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: Au TMD available on the website. Consider it appropriate for you, Nicole, 333 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: I want to ask you a couple other questions as 334 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: a parent who sometimes feels a little bit lost when 335 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: it comes to financial conversations and so many parents do 336 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: are any Are there any tools that you think are 337 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: really useful that are available online to help them, maybe 338 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: even yours? And for what it's worth, this is not 339 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: a setup question, like I'm asking out of genuine interest. 340 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: I don't know where you're going to go with this, 341 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: so I just want to be really clear about that. 342 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: We haven't planned this ahead of time. 343 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, and look, don't feel like you're alone. You know. 344 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 3: They're studied by the Extra Foundation, which does not for 345 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 3: profit financial literacy in schools, which involves the amazing Paul Clitho, 346 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 3: who was involved in the governmental financial literacy push as well. 347 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 3: A recent study of THEIRS shows that all parents understand 348 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 3: that money smarts is a really important lesson for their kids. 349 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 3: Twenty four percent of them feel like they don't have 350 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 3: the head around it themselves, you know, might one in 351 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 3: five don't know where to start teaching kids about money. 352 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 4: So it's a really really common thing. 353 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 3: So in terms of tools to help, there's actually a 354 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 3: lot out there for parents. So in terms of skilling 355 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: up yourself, take take a look at the moneysmart dot 356 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 3: gov dot AU website. Lots of really small, targeted, factually 357 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 3: correct information on there to just lift your own aptitude 358 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 3: just that little bit. And then there's a couple of 359 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 3: great pocket money apps that are available in Australia, which 360 00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: I like, we have migrated between a few. You know, 361 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 3: money is earned, not bestowed. I believe that kids need 362 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 3: to work for their pocket money. I think that's really important, 363 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 3: and these apps let you kind of set those criteria 364 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 3: for your kids and tick them off and then show 365 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 3: them when and why they're getting their money delivered. And 366 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 3: they have kidtastic celebrations around the fact that go, you 367 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,640 Speaker 3: look what you've achieved. You've done this yourself, and now 368 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 3: how are you going to split this money to make 369 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 3: it maximum enjoyment from you to reap the rewards of 370 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 3: what you do. So the couple here there's Spriggy, which 371 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 3: is good. It's got some really great interfacing features for 372 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 3: children to give them that goal targeting which is just 373 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 3: so important. No interest earned on that one, which is 374 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 3: a problem. Then you've got kit which is backed by 375 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: the Commonwealth Bank. Now let me just stay upfront that 376 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 3: I was a very vocal critic of the previous Commonwealth 377 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: Bank you know, school banking, et cetera, which. 378 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 4: Was banned several years ago. Now this new iteration is 379 00:17:58,359 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 4: very good. 380 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 3: So it does the kid tactic celebrations, It split the 381 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,439 Speaker 3: money automatically into the goals, and then it's got a 382 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 3: bank account hooked to it where the money goes directly 383 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 3: in and earns interest for your children. So rather than 384 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 3: kind of paying for the app and paying to let 385 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 3: someone keep your money, which is sort of a bad 386 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 3: adult lesson, you actually earn the interest straight away. And 387 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 3: there's a lot of merits to that particular app. I'm 388 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 3: just migrating my kids to that one. And the other 389 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 3: thing is just you know, his bank accounts is a 390 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 3: really big deal for a lot of institutions, and just 391 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 3: quietly that's because they're a great customer acquisition final That's 392 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 3: why I think they had been so big in this 393 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 3: state for such a long time. 394 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 1: I've got to just say, like we've received some pushback 395 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: because we've had some CBA advertising, and I get it, 396 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: like everyone's going to have to have a bank account, right, 397 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: so it's in every financial institution's best interest to do 398 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: what they can to acquire people to do their banking. 399 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: So I just have to push back against the people 400 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: that are saying, well, that's not okay, because hello, it's 401 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: like where. 402 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 2: You're going to put your money, you need to have 403 00:18:58,480 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: an account anyway. 404 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 4: Go on, you do need to have a bank account. 405 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 3: And again that comes back to my point about you know, 406 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 3: parents teaching your children the importance of interest, because you 407 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 3: want to be saving into a bank account that has 408 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 3: the very highest amount of interest, that. 409 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 2: Might not be able take as much money as you 410 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 2: can from the banks. 411 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 3: Is what is yeah, one d per like why would 412 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: you donate it to them? Do you mean like they're 413 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: just like us paying too much on our mortgage? Why 414 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 3: would we be giving an institution money? And you know, 415 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: again another message of parents can get across on this 416 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 3: one is that no two banks has the best of 417 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 3: two products in my experience ever, So you know, tell 418 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 3: your kids you should have probably a different bank for 419 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 3: your savings account, a different bank for a credit card 420 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 3: if you want to get one, a different bank for 421 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 3: your mortgage. The one institution is not going to take 422 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 3: all of your boxes. So that's a really another important 423 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 3: thing to get across. But here there are a lot 424 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 3: of amazing tools, and there is a lot of resources 425 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 3: being spent by a lot of banks that really bring 426 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 3: their kids savings accoun to life and principle among them 427 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 3: is that goal targeting, which is really life changing. 428 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 4: For a chile. 429 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. Love that. 430 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: The only tool that I've been looking at financially is 431 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: superannuation calculators lately. But again that's it fifty thing. It's 432 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: a different podcast and different conversation. All right, let's wrap 433 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: this up, Nicole. I've really enjoyed chatting with you and 434 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: this has been quite insightful and a lot of fun. 435 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: One last question for you. If you were just to 436 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: give one piece of advice for parents to make financial 437 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: lessons stick, what would your most valuable idea be for 438 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: parents to go, Okay, yeah, I need to have the 439 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: financial chat with my kids and this is the thing 440 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: that I need to say. Would it be don't sign 441 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: up for months to month plans? Would it be stay 442 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: away from Netflix and the gaming apps and gambling? 443 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: Where would you go? What would you say? 444 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 3: I'd say the key thing is for parents to talk 445 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 3: the talk, right. So the difficulty in you know, you 446 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 3: have the chats, you have chats with kids, you can 447 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 3: have them about the money. You can have the theoretical 448 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 3: aspect to it. They're less likely to land than watching 449 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 3: you every single time you transact, especially digitally, right going 450 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 3: hey kids, I know you know the tap trap. I 451 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 3: know I'm tapping this card, but that's because the money 452 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 3: is coming out, the money is actually in there, and 453 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 3: I'm spending money I already have and I've been careful 454 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 3: about how I've spent that money. I've spent the less 455 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 3: the leaks I can possibly do. I've bought something that 456 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 3: I wanted to buy in the first place. I haven't 457 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 3: given into impulse, and I'm responsibly spending. 458 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 4: I think if they if. 459 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 3: They see you doing that, if you model being that 460 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 3: model money citizen, then that's going to get that biggest 461 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 3: cut through. You know, you've started off saying, you know 462 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 3: what difference am I really going to make? Going to 463 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 3: schools and having that one talk with kids Equally, you know, 464 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 3: a couple of talks from parents may not have the 465 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 3: same power and impact as watching you do the right 466 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 3: thing and say the right words, even if just quietly 467 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: the money is not there and you're spending on credit 468 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 3: or whatever. 469 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 4: Just talk about the fact that you've earned it. 470 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 3: You've carefully allocated it and you're going to use it 471 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 3: for the maximum enjoyment for you and your family. And 472 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 3: that could be a long term thing that might not 473 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 3: be today, that might be in a year's time when 474 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 3: you're going to take a holiday, or in five years 475 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 3: time where you're going to stretch stay with them so 476 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 3: that they can buy their first card. 477 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,439 Speaker 1: Love that you've just talked about the tap trap, and 478 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,120 Speaker 1: you remind me of something that I would really love 479 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 1: to know. This is a quick fact check question. I 480 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: read recently that inserting your card means that you generally 481 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 1: don't pay fees, whereas tapping you do pay fees. 482 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 2: Is that right? 483 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 3: That can be true, yes, because that can swing it 484 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,719 Speaker 3: to the savings part of your card rather than the 485 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,199 Speaker 3: debit or credit part of your card. So yes, it 486 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 3: can be true, depending on the institution and depending on 487 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 3: the merchant. O. 488 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: All right, so again, just one of those things to 489 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: teach the kids. It's better to wat to it. 490 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's it. 491 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 3: And legally, if you can't pay by cash, then emerging 492 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 3: is not supposed to be able to charge you that 493 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 3: explicit fee. They've got to wear that themselves. So and look, 494 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 3: cash is another thing we should probably quickly touch on. 495 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 3: I love the use of cash for kids. It's just 496 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 3: really good to bring that sailings to something that is disappearing, 497 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 3: really really quickly. Because the lesson to get at Christ 498 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 3: is it just because you can't see something, it still 499 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 3: runs out. 500 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 4: That's really really key, so valuable. 501 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: Such a great conversation. 502 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 1: Nicole Peterson McKinnon is a long time financial literacy campaigner 503 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: and educator the in schools, in the media and even 504 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: with Parliament. Great to chat with you, and thanks for 505 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 1: giving up some time to help us be more financially literate. Nicole. 506 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 4: Lovely to chat with you. 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