WEBVTT - BONUS 💌The Riskiest Text 💬 We've Ever Sent 😬 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:02.599 Cute flex and frooms getting near it. 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.120 It's on the tip of my tongue though, cutting grass 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:05.640 and a bit of. 0:00:07.320 --> 0:00:08.920 Flex and from. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:12.840 Whitty Pies and everybody else. We are on holidays. These 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:16.079 girls do need breaks. It's actually like a legal requirement. 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.159 But we thought we couldn't leave you high end. I 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:21.640 would never do that because we have a commitment to you. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:23.960 And so here is a little sweet bone. If before 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:25.760 you hope you love and if you do share it, 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:28.320 why are you gatekeeping on? Tell your friends and tell 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:31.200 a friend, please please, mister Deeley. 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:35.400 This is flex and Frooms on kit. So last week 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:39.000 I received a DM. Somebody slid in, a little cheeky one, 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:43.559 a cheeky DM from a man. Yes, very presumptuous, but 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.000 he slid in saying, oh, just give you a bit 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:48.360 of context. Yeah. So I didn't know who he was, 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.960 but I clicked on his profile because his little avatar 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:54.080 was like quite attractive. And it turns out that he 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:58.800 is an ex Survivor star. Oh I've never watched the show, okay, 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:01.240 but like we get it, we get to watch the 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:06.360 viver to know. So he slides into my DMS saying, 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.160 you're funny at times. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:11.559 Oh, that's worse than I thought. 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:12.640 What do you think? 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:13.080 I thought? 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.959 You said you're kind of funny? Sometimes you're funny at times? 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:21.640 I yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, pistuff. I'm feeling anger in 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:22.640 my loins at this. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:24.800 Because now I want the I don't want the feedback, 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:26.160 but like, what's not clicking? 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:27.640 You know, like what didn't hit? 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:32.040 What didn't land? Which bit fell fell dry? 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:34.560 Is it the shred content? Is it a bit too Weirdeah? 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.160 Are we going more for the skits like I need? 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:40.920 And also funny compared to what? What's your humor? Mister 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:44.800 stranger aside from what he's come in with? How do 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:48.000 you feel about a cheeky DM slide? I feel like 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.800 I don't respond well to compliments coming from straight men 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:55.200 because I worry about their taste sometimes. Oh do you know, 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.520 like there's that meme that says that if you ever 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.960 give your opinion on the internet and a bunch of 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.960 straight guys agree with you, you've given the wrong one. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.720 You've given the wrong one. It's not the correct one. 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.560 You gotta read them, you know. 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.360 That's what it feels like sometimes, and of course there 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:11.160 are exceptions. 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:15.680 Well, my approach to getting dms can't say it's ever worked, 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:19.600 but we'll say the ego boost don't appreciated. 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.880 Keep sliding in because it could be your turn next. 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:26.320 In this instance, let's call him James. We've decided that 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:29.000 there's only one way to reply to this slid in. 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:33.040 He said, you're funny at times, it's jog behavior. So 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:36.079 you have suggested that we send him barks a. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.840 Voice memor of us barking at him that is as 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:40.679 sensical as what he sent. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:45.320 All right, should I go first? Okay, We're give him 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:46.639 two tracks? Two tracks? 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:48.840 Okay, any tips? 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:49.600 Just go with your heart. 0:02:52.960 --> 0:03:00.760 Wait, go with your godby okay, yeah, alright. 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:05.320 Not too much. 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.000 I need to do to back yourself bad? Okay, hold 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:10.880 on here. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:19.560 All right? Earth? 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:23.120 Oh nah, again it sounds him. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.200 Let me do. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:43.000 It all right, center, Thank you. It's gonna give him 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:43.360 so k. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:44.680 I'm comfortable with that. 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.800 This is literally the grown up equivalent of sitting in 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:50.960 a circle at lunchtime in year eleven, getting all your 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.040 friends to co sign the text you send the guy 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:56.320 who literally wouldn't care if you lived or died, and 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.880 you're like, do I do one emoji? Two emojis? 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:03.160 He don't know if you exist. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.080 Now. I want you to imagine this, and if you're listening, 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:08.160 I would like you to do the same. Deep breath 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:11.240 in as I say, and out through the nose. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:13.680 Did a bullet? Come on, Brookie? 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.160 You went in through the mouth, out through the mouth, 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:18.200 through the through the mouth. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:23.280 Into the microphone. All right, close your eyes now, if 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:27.719 you're driving, do not close your eyes. You you've just 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.000 broken up with your boyfriend, but you are still on 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:33.520 good terms. He still has the keys to the apartment. 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.120 It's a nightmare. He still has the keys to the 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.240 apartment you shared and messages you if he can come 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:42.039 over and grab some stuff while you're out. You think 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.599 nothing of it and say yeah, sure. Minutes later you 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:48.080 remember you had a guy over the night before and 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:52.080 left dong nom. You know what that means, wrappers on 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:53.840 the bench right next to where he needed to get 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:54.240 his stuff. 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:55.800 I love the way practicing safety, though. 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.880 Yeah, do you need to give him a heads up 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.800 and potentially make it work or say nothing? Let him 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:03.320 see it and wait to see if he brings it 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:04.839 up with you. Just let that sink in. 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:08.760 That is literally so scary to me, you know, it's 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.400 so crazy. I used to be the kind of person 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:13.719 who'd be like, you can definitely be friends with your ex. 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:16.159 But that was in my narcissist era, where I couldn't 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.880 stand that somebody who loved me would now hate me, 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:22.320 So in like a manipulative thing, I would maintain this 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:27.040 air of like mutual joviality. We're like friends and we're friendly, 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:31.440 and you still love me, which is terrifying because realistically, 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:35.520 what gets you to a breakup is someone's bad behavior, 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.040 a lack of reciprocity, or in some way shape of 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:46.239 form eroded trust, eroded care. These things are not fundamental 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:51.480 or like. These things are not are not like, they're 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.120 not the formula for a good relationship. I also think 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.840 that like maintaining a good relationship with your ex is 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:03.680 very confusing because humans and have the capacity to like 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:08.680 hold to incompatible things and understand them both. Like in 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:12.719 your head, you're compartmentalizing in a way that's not healthy 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:15.520 for you and often beneficial for the other person. So 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.400 all those times where I was like I'm just gonna 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.320 be friendly, I'm gonna be friendly, you know what I 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:22.760 was doing hurting them? I was hurting myself number one, 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:25.279 because I was denying that I wasn't actually in a 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:29.080 good place to like be nice to you, Like I 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.600 don't feel good about this, so expressing my emotions number one. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:34.440 Number two, I. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:38.039 Was like prioritizing the way it looked as opposed to 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.920 the reality of what it was. And I was forcing 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:43.680 myself to choose and decide how everything had to felt 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:45.800 in the now, as opposed to letting things just be 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:48.200 awkward for a bit, like letting things just be like 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.960 awkward whatever, like existing that no man let know what's 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.000 it called no man's land territory, Like. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.039 It's not nothing, but it wasn't what it was. Since 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.440 we figure out what it is, things just need to 0:06:59.480 --> 0:06:59.880 be awkward. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:04.440 I will say, though, seeing the miscellaneous rappers from the 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:09.440 night before is punishment for being too comfortable in the dynamic. 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:13.760 Why are you do it in a batch? You get 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.040 two batches in and out facts, one for the things 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.000 you can put into your car, the other for the 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.160 removal list. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:23.440 If like, oh, it's so awful, isn't it? I just 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.480 heard everything about it? You know what I want to say? 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.040 No, no, no, no, no no, no, Let's. 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:28.920 Just stop breaking up. 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.720 Let's just continue to date everyone we've ever dated before, 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:35.480 or knock them off, cre create a web. You know 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.040 it's like will always be because you know, like the 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.120 thing I don't like about an X, the word makes 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.240 you feel like you're not connected. But the reality is 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:47.560 you are connected forever are you. You're my ex, I'm 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:51.560 your ex. Whether or not we ever have content, whether 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.720 or not we ever have contact in the future, what 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:58.280 I experience with you affects my life forever. What you 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:02.320 experienced with me affects my life forever, vice versa right. 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.440 So for that reason, I don't need some kind of 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:09.400 like not contact but acknowledgment of that. I don't like 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:12.320 how you go from being like someone's every day to 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:13.239 like nothing. 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:16.040 Babes, I'm in your law. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:19.200 When someone opens the book of your life, babes, I'm 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:20.679 chapters one through four. 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:22.600 You can't even. 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.320 Get to five through thirteen without going through me. First. 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:26.800 White out is needed. 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.800 So it's flex on Kit and this week we are 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:33.760 making dreams come true. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:37.240 I swear to you. We surprised rooms. 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.360 My special co host, she's one of her favorite people 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:43.560 in the whole white world. Gavin Rubinstein from lux Listing, Sydney. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.560 We had her in the studio and when I tell 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:49.520 you she squealed, was in hysterics, huffing, puffing. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:50.840 It was really quite beautiful. 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:52.959 I think there was chemistry all round, and I think 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:55.840 you want to pay attention and stay tuned so you 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:57.320 can hear exactly how it went down. 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:07.920 O God, this is phenomenal. 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:11.560 Last week threw me over here, probably gave us a 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:16.920 fifty minute monologue about how obsessed she is, not just 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.959 lux listening, So it's not even about that, it's about you. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:21.640 I appreciate that, Thank you very much. 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.319 She is freaking, I actually am. 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:24.880 Yeah. 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:26.920 I don't even get nervous. I forgot what it's like 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:28.360 to be nervous. 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:32.120 I know that I said that we both love Simon 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:36.679 and Gavin flex big fans appreciate that. I said, I'm 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:37.680 probably more of a Gavin. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:40.640 You better not have said you prefer Simon. 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:44.000 I would never say that she's good, yeah cool. 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.480 I would describe us both as like professional friends. You 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:52.080 Simon and Dalene. What is the relationship there? 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:55.120 It's a weird dynamic. So like Dleene and I have 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:59.160 no real friendship at all. And that's true on a 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:01.440 professional level. If we cross over, we cross over, but 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.360 we don't have much of a professional relationship either, Simon, 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.600 I have a good working relationship. We've got a good friendship. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.720 We don't always see eye to eye. You've got to remember, 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.959 he's kind of representing the buyer. I'm representing the seller. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:12.920 He's trying to buy low. I'm trying to sell. 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:15.720 High and enemies. Love story. 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:17.720 I know about love story. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:22.080 It needs are direct quotes I'm getting from GAM's mouth 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:27.480 modal enemies. Now, while we're here, I want to say 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.280 thank you for extending your time to us. 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:31.280 It's a pleasure even do it. 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.520 If I have a full day. I'm not stopping for anyone. However, 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.520 while you're here, a few rapid fire questions. I want 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:39.160 to get to know you. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:42.280 Have you ever used a property you were selling for 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:47.080 anything other than work purposes? Don't incriminate yourself, but if 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:51.680 it's a yeah, okay, that's all we need. 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:52.040 Cool. 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.959 Who do you think is dirtier people that sell houses 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.240 or people that sell cars? 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:01.599 Depends both pretty much on the same level, right you 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:03.600 know what? Really, I think the perception of used car 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.840 salesmen and real estate agents from from a society perspective 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:08.599 is they're pretty even. I do what I can to 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.439 change that. Perspective. One guy is not going to change. 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:11.720 I know there are a couple of other good agents 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:15.240 who do three. Yeah, there's three or four out there. 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.560 And I've got one last question. Do you have one? 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.880 You go and I'll see probably the most important question 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:20.839 I've asked, and I. 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:23.360 Guess what it is. Of course, Burple far not at 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.240 all bad, not at all. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.400 I'm using this time properly. I'm planning for the future. 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.440 But yeah, just what were the kitchen? Was there? I 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:31.360 thought i'd just answer it. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.120 Wow, would you rather be the first or last person 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:35.760 to know about a zombie apocalypse? 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:37.320 I want to be the first, because I want to plan. 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:40.360 Were you planning for escape? We're going. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:44.319 I'll find a way. I'll find a place. Got resources, 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.640 use them. There's always a way, There's always a way. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:47.840 Man is overrun. 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:54.120 There is always a way. Am I am? 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:55.559 I am I the asshole? 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:56.800 I said. 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:59.720 One of my twenty twenty three outs was respectability politics, 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.280 and that you know a lot of us find us 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:06.360 shackled by the idea that we have to say things 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:08.840 in the right way to be heard or the polite way, 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:11.120 and I'm just over it. This year, I'm getting really 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.200 annoyed because I feel like we spent the last five 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:18.160 years learning how to critically think like unpacked stuff, become smarter, 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:22.040 and yet we keep asking ourselves really silly questions or 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.200 ones that don't need this much thought at all. This 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:27.120 am I the asshole in particular? No shade to the author, 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:30.160 but I just feel like, is this what we need 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:31.640 to be thinking about on a day to day. 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:32.480 And yet you're hooked? 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:37.360 Yeah? Here, I am the problem? I am what do 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:38.560 you call it a. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.640 Problem? Am I the arsehole for buying a gift cards 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:49.760 a birthday gift? Off the top OFFT No, No, we'll see. 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.600 So am I the asshole for buying my mother in 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:53.439 law a gift card for her birthday? It was a 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.960 marvelous night, lots of fun until she opened my present 0:12:56.000 --> 0:13:00.480 and everyone stared at me with effing, flaming daggers. Mother 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.200 in law had no issue at all, or she's a 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:07.200 very talented actress using her best smile. My significant other 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:12.599 significant other thinks I'm the asshole because I'm supposed to 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.240 give someone an actual gift on their birthday, which I 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:17.920 did a Nike gift card for seventy five dollars to 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:20.640 buy workout clothes from her favorite brand. I feel I'm 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:22.480 not the asshole for the simple fact that my gift 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:25.920 had thought and value. Meanwhile, there were some very heavy 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:30.160 hidden gifts jewelry, expensive shoes, Bloomingdale clothes, etc. And I 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.640 can't even afford more than seventy five dollars without breaking 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:35.200 Christmas budget or you know, paying my rent. Am I 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:36.240 the crazy one here? 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:37.000 Please? 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.520 I know I'm already conflicted about the situation. I felt 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:42.079 bad enough that the rest of the night I hit 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:43.400 in the bathroom because. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:46.959 Of the food. It was not the food that is 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:50.000 the real issue. It was not the food. You know. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:53.200 That one is a little bit more complex because gifting culture, 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.559 much like tipping culture, a lot of unspoken rules, a 0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:00.360 not a lot of like middle ground at all. Do 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.800 not say too much, miss and not. 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:07.120 This is just a horrible, horrible situation on behalf of 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.679 everybody but this woman first and foremost. Am I ever 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.640 going to be getting my mother in law as seventy 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:17.240 five dollars gift card? No? Sorry, gift full stop? Absolutely not? 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.000 Oh never. 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:22.440 I think there's either under fifty or if it's like 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.000 the first birthday with your partner or like your parents, 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:27.920 you do in the upper hundreds. Okay, seventy five is 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.320 the weirdest amount, so. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:31.720 It's the number amount that's really got it. 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:34.960 Yeah, it has seventy five dollars, Like, how did you 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:36.440 think about it? You may as well just have done 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:41.280 like sixty two or something. I will say it's very thoughtful. 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:44.720 Nike is her favorite brand, and sports where is something 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.600 that's very particular. I don't want someone going out and 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.080 buying me a pair of short It's like a very 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:51.640 specific type. I personally have nothing against gift cards. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.760 Who started anti gift card propaganda because I think a 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:58.680 few people have Number one, overestimated their importance to assume 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.880 that I have enough time, space energy to go out 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:02.280 and find you a physical gift. 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:05.360 When you can do that in your own time, it's 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:05.920 your gift. 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.400 ME providing the resources for you to get exactly what 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:11.040 you want feels like the most thoughtful thing to do. 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:16.000 Now as an adult, I realize why people think that 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.360 it's rude to get gift cards, because I understand how 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.400 hard it is to make time to get gifts. If 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.800 that makes sense. Yes, I used to never think it was. 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.200 I didn't think there was anything difference between going out 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:28.880 and getting a gift card and buying something in terms 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.240 of like the labor, I will say there. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.000 Is a difference, Like, if there's anyone in my life 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:37.080 who's important enough to me that warrants a gift or 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:40.600 expects a gift, I will do the due diligence and 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:41.800 go out and get them a gift. 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:44.560 Right, But a mother in law is a very. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.040 Specific niche of gift giving, like I don't really know 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:47.840 you like that. 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:50.360 I might know of you, so I feel like a gift. 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.560 But to be honest, I would go to like six 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:56.000 No six, a diptyque candle and call it a day. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:16:00.760 I'm gonna know, say the hand crem a hand crem 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:05.640 pack from where just a body shop number. Okay, we're 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:06.080 not we're not. 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:09.400 Doctoring, built different, different, and that's okay. 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.320 Mother in law is specifically with the awkwardest. Actually, a 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:13.720 father in law might be awkward as well. 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:14.960 Oh yeah, I'm not getting him a gift. 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:19.480 I got my ex's sister a we're doing siblings. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:20.720 It was yeah. 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:22.280 I was like, meant to go up and see it. 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:25.000 We ended up like breaking up. I already got in 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.680 the present, but then we broke up. But I got 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:31.680 to like a Mason Balzac, like the carafe and the 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:34.400 class moment before it was very popular, mind you, okay, 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:38.600 just saying tastemaker. So yeah, but never met her actually either, 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:41.240 So just be careful. 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:42.200 You were doing too much. 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:43.000 I was doing a lot. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:44.200 That's okay, that's okay. 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:45.120 I went out in style. 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:47.280 How many times do I have to tell you? 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:48.800 Honey? 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:50.760 Are you sing? 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:51.280 Karen? 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:55.000 If you want to the life of a character, character. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.000 Flex see that day I went to go get myself 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:01.760 a juice. Do you use beverage or perhaps a smoothie? 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:04.560 We will keep that under wraps because what I'm about 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.600 to say is potentially incriminating. I want to go get 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:09.040 myself a juice. I'm starving. I'm a ravenous in the morning. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:12.800 Need my juice now, bitty kneed juice. The chick takes 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:16.440 my order up at the cash register. Gloves on, yep, 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:19.359 that'd be thirteen dollars and ninety five cents. Why are 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:24.080 her fingers tapping the phone? Why her fingers tapping the 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:27.240 f bos machine? I thought, you know what, maybe she'll 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:29.720 take the gloves off and then go and make the smoothie. 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:33.600 Why does she then go touching the cash register? All 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:35.960 the way back to grab the banana, grab the protein, 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:38.840 put it into the thing, put the lid on it, 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:39.840 give it to me. 0:17:40.280 --> 0:17:41.040 Hold on a second. 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:48.240 If the gloves are clean, So you're saying it's bad 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:49.600 food safety preus. 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:52.840 That is food safety braxis one oh one. And what 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.359 not to do is use the gloves on the cash 0:17:55.400 --> 0:18:00.399 register into making me my premium large smoothie juice. 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:02.359 So what you're advocating for is that she take this 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:06.800 single use plastic off before she make you your smoothie. 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:09.160 Like, yeah, I actually would. I don't want to get. 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:11.600 Well, no gloves for the registered gloves on for the 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:13.680 for the food prem What. 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:18.080 I would mostly prefer if we're thinking about plastic use 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:21.040 tippity tappity, go wash your hands, give it a thirty 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:28.320 second wash, make the juice. Then again, dermatitis. Stick yourself. 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:32.240 I have dermatitis because I'm that clean. I'm serious, guys, 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:35.280 Look at the dermatitis that's giving Clean Girl Era. 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:41.640 Clean Girl Era hand is falling off Clean Girl Era. 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:45.920 But seriously, I have a problem with this. I drank 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:49.919 it anyway, as I said, I was starving ravenous, and 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:52.520 I thought I'm ravenous. I'm not going to be grumpy 0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:54.000 about this. I just took my juice. 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:55.399 What would it take for you to say something? 0:18:56.960 --> 0:19:01.600 I have exited my Karen in public era for multiple reasons. 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:03.480 For the optics. 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:07.480 Oh, purely optics. I feel everything inside. It hasn't gone away. 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:10.560 I didn't say anything. I had told you the time 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:13.520 about it. At the time I went to a sandwich 0:19:13.600 --> 0:19:19.240 artist establishment. This is about twenty years ago, so about 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:27.200 twenty literally, he knew you were old. The chick tariachy chicken, okay, 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:29.720 with the cheddar cheese. Why does she put it in 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.159 the oven? Takes it out of the oven. 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:36.359 It flips under her arm. 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:40.560 Cheese and jeriachy chicken. I'm gonna arm. 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:43.159 She's got a third degree burn, making you which you're 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:43.920 about to complain? 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:47.520 What will happen next? Flaps it back. 0:19:48.359 --> 0:19:51.720