WEBVTT - MINI! Is your partner micro–cheating? Find out HERE 💔

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I would say most of the population is on

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<v Speaker 1>board and has the same feelings surrounding cheating in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think where the water gets a bit muddy

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<v Speaker 1>is with this term micro cheating. Now, there's this list

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<v Speaker 1>going viral online at the moment on TikTok that this

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<v Speaker 1>one girls put out to her what constitutes micro cheating? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>micro cheating if you don't know when your plane at

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<v Speaker 1>home is like anything that is considered crossing a line

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<v Speaker 1>without it being physical, Like they haven't gone out and

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up with someone like physically, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's things that deep down you know that ain't right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know your partner's probably not going to be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever I think of micro cheating like as a concept,

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<v Speaker 2>the very number one that comes to mind for me

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<v Speaker 2>is like liking other people's like as in like if

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<v Speaker 2>you're dating a guy and he's liking all these bikini

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<v Speaker 2>photos over and over and over, You're like necessary or not?

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<v Speaker 1>You see? To me, the thing that comes to mind

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<v Speaker 1>first is I guess probably secret conversations or excessive conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it was a relationship with mean a man,

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<v Speaker 1>like if my partner was messaging another woman a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>asking how she is checking in And even if I

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<v Speaker 1>knew or if I didn't know, that is micro cheating

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<v Speaker 1>just cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Well no not because if they're just like, hey.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you, I'm like, look, I know that there's

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<v Speaker 1>some deeper feeling there. But this list tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>you guys think about this, because this is the controversial part.

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<v Speaker 1>This is her list of micro cheating secretly messaging someone, flirting,

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<v Speaker 1>maintaining contact with ex's adding or liking half naked people's

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<v Speaker 1>pictures online. Yeah. Yeah, seeking new friendships with people that

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<v Speaker 1>you find attractive, so like actively going out to meet

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<v Speaker 1>new people because you think they're hot. Lying about your

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<v Speaker 1>relationship status online or in person.

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<v Speaker 3>To me, that's just cheating. Yeah, I think that's just cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>But also I guess the problem like this, if you

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<v Speaker 2>haven't heard of this idea of micro cheating, I think

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why it's such a gray area is because

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it sounds a little bit crazy when you say

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<v Speaker 2>out loud or I don't like these things that you're doing,

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<v Speaker 2>because like they haven't actually done anything that's one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent black and white wrong. It can actually make you

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<v Speaker 2>sound a little bit insane that you're putting all these

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<v Speaker 2>things down, But it's the it's these things together that

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<v Speaker 2>make you feel insecure in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I say technology has come so far. Like

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<v Speaker 3>fifty years ago, you could only cheat on someone physically.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you've got you can like flo float with someone

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<v Speaker 3>on LinkedIn, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So you have to move the bar, or you can

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<v Speaker 2>just appear to be single, like a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who are like cheating or keeping their options open. They

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<v Speaker 2>may not cross the line yet, but they're appearing single

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<v Speaker 2>online because they're keeping their options open.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's so subjective to essentially it is

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<v Speaker 1>your partner crossing a boundary that you have put up.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you said this isn't cool and they're secretly doing

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<v Speaker 1>it anyway? Then they then there's something else going on, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But liking of a photo here and there, to me, fine, nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>who cares. But if you've gone onto one person's page

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, you've liked ten photos, you've sent some fire flames,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you've done all the stuff, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Did the groundwork.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to get their attention. The only reason you

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<v Speaker 1>go back on people is to get their attention. So

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<v Speaker 1>something else sus is going on.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's micro cheating as much as it

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<v Speaker 3>is like pre cheating. It's like doing that. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>pre cheating because if we're going to throw around terms

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<v Speaker 3>because it's like technically not the cheat, but you'll lay

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<v Speaker 3>in the land, you're sewing the seed for one day,

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<v Speaker 3>potentially needing another person, or if you decide to physically

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<v Speaker 3>cheat that you've got people there ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, okay, Ultimately, I just think if you're already

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<v Speaker 2>feeling this insecure in a relationship, if you're looking for

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<v Speaker 2>all these signs, if your partner's doing all these things,

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<v Speaker 2>and you need a label for micro cheating, it's probably

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<v Speaker 2>not the relationship to be in.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep your five flames to yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I really in your monogamous relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I was really hoping it was cheating for ants, micro cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry to I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>To break into that. It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not cheating for tiny little all

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Well, coming up, I want to know when did

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<v Speaker 2>you put your foot in it get yourself into a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of trouble if it were, well, not in the

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<v Speaker 2>micro cheating, but just like, when did you make a

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<v Speaker 2>mistake