WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Do You Have A Work Crush? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.680 This episode was recorded on cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.200 welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. I'm Laura, 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.160 I'm Brittany, and this is ask gun cut where we 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:22.920 answer you're deep, you're duck, and you're burning questions. Also, 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:24.400 I just want to say very big thank you to 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.639 everyone because this is the first episode. I know we 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:29.240 had Friday's episode come out, but this is the first 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.040 episode since the break news, and I just want to 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.760 say thank you for so many really really nice messages 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:35.479 that I've received. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.960 Imagine if you didn't get nice messages though, actually, if 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:39.920 it was like, fuck you having another baby in an 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:40.920 overpopulated world. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:43.040 What about that one you got about twins? 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:44.280 Oh, someone messaged me. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:46.839 I was like, please only send me positive news stories 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:49.720 about going from two to three, because, like I told 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.920 you on the last episode, everyone likes to tell you 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:54.360 how insane you are. And this one woman message and 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:56.760 she was like, yeah, She's like, two to three sound 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.440 like a fucking great idea, except now I'm eighteen weeks 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:02.720 pregnant with twins. Imagine going from two to four. That 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:04.640 would just mess you right up sideways. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.839 One of my really good friends that you guys know, Tany. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:08.720 Shout out to Tany. She listens to every episode. She'll 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:13.160 f off that. But she had child, she had two kids. 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:15.440 She was I'm in and iroing for the third. They 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:19.399 decided to She's now got four under four. She had twins. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.520 That's so wid Did she just start a small business 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.360 like last year? You know what? Fuck it chilling, Charlie. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:27.759 It's a pajama business. It's amazing. She's one of those 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.399 superhero moms. It's like she's an architect, works full time, 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:32.600 started a business four kids under four and a half. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:35.640 This is a real thing, though I can't remember where 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.399 I read it, but women who have babies and then 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:41.840 start businesses after becoming mums well productive. Yeah, there's this 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.360 real entrepreneurship that happens. And I also we're very lucky 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.880 with the current climate with like social media and the 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.600 accessibility of starting small online businesses. It's definitely a thing, 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:55.160 and I think it's because having your own business obviously 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.160 starts as a bit of a creative idea, often during 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.680 maternity leave. But it's something that you can within your 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:03.240 own time, dependent on what it is, and often it's 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:06.840 these businesses that end up blowing the hell up I've 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.240 mentioned it before, kire Crumble. She has quite a few 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:11.959 different businesses now, but a lot of them were inspired 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:13.360 off the back of motherhood. 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.760 And I think even for us, like when we started. 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:18.320 You guys probably remember I started May and Move with 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:21.600 my sister, which is like a crocheted blanket brand. Mind you, 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:23.440 I haven't had the time to dedicate to it that 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.920 I probably need because of the other basillian businesses that 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.880 we've got going on. But I think sometimes as a mum, 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:30.720 you see a gap or you see something that you 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:32.920 would have liked yourself, and that's kind of like a 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:33.840 business opportunity. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:35.720 And I guess you're not sleeping anyway, I. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.840 Might as well add MOUTI might as well. 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:39.840 Be doing emails while we're feeding, right, Yeah. 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:41.480 I think the thing is And I mean maybe this 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:43.680 is just talking to my friend Tiny as well, but 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.800 you do hear that mothers are more productive because the 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.040 time they have less time, so the time that they've 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.440 got they just knuckle down. Like I know, for her, 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:53.720 she's realized with four kids at home that she's like, 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:55.280 I want more autonomy and I want to be able 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:56.680 to do stuff at home, and I want something that's 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.880 more mine yeah, so I think that's really cool. I 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.320 also said she's an architect, so she's an engineer. But 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:03.120 I just want to rectify that we're best. 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:06.560 Friends actually on that though, Like Laura, I actually remember 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.639 you teaching me about this. It'd have to be over 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.160 a year ago now, but you gave me such a 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:14.320 different perspective on it in terms of employing mothers, because 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.679 I kind of had maybe a little bit of a 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:20.120 really wrong and a bit of a judgmental attitude that 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.600 if women were employed and they had kids, they had 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:23.959 priorities that were greater. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:24.440 Than their work. 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.200 And I thought, well, that's always going to be the 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.919 case until their kids are of a certain age. And 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:32.680 you taught me, if you hire mums, they will work 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.240 the hardest of anyone in the room because they don't 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:36.640 have the time to fuck around. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.160 They're not the ones going and getting. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.880 The coffees and going and taking the extra time to 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.240 chat with everybody in the office, because once their worktime stops, 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:46.400 they have to parent and they will get their shit done. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.160 And it really really shifted things to me. 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:50.560 I was like, Wow, that's a perspective I hadn't thought 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:52.960 about before, and it's probably one hundred percent true. 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.080 And I think that heralding women in that way is 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:55.720 a really really. 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:56.440 Good thing that you did. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:57.720 You shifted my mindset on it. 0:03:57.760 --> 0:03:59.600 Maybe that's what I need to do, because I've got 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:00.800 all these bits and since in the back of my 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.760 mind and I can't start them, maybe I need to 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:05.120 get pregnant and then I'll become super successful. 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.720 At the same time, you're already super successful, breathing. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.480 That's the problem. You already have. 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.240 Businesses, but you're like, but now I need a sunglass brand. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.880 No, I have these two brands. It's so annoying I have. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.359 I've got business names, I've paid for them, I've trademarked them. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.800 They're sitting there and it's really annoying because I feel 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.760 like I was just taking off and then I'm not 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:28.039 going to say who, but somebody, very very big in 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:32.040 Australian media just launched the same business. And now I 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.240 know that there's room for everyone and every markets saturated. 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.320 But I'm like, fucking oh, Like, if I did it 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.600 a year ago, I would have you know, but you 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:41.040 can't be like that. But now I've got to think, 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:42.919 do I still want to do it? Because this person, 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:45.119 I'll tell you off air. I can't go up against 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:45.559 this person. 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:47.960 It is like, yeah, it's different when someone else is 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.120 doing up, but they're doing it really really well that's 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:50.679 the problem. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:54.360 Yeah, they're just I mean their reach and they're following 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.400 and who they are. Can I say we can be 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:57.120 if it's right. 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:58.039 Yeah? 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:03.240 Yeah, well look, guys, knock harded to derail this back 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:06.760 to myself for a second, but genuinely, I genuinely wanted 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:10.279 to say thank you, Like I just feel so I 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.359 feel so loved, Like, yeah, it means so much to me, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.560 how much so many of you one listen to the 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:17.880 episode two cared message, like all of the just all 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.880 of the love and all of the support, and I 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:23.560 feel so lucky that this little baby gets to have 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.800 two amazing sisters. If you missed it, we're having a 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:29.120 girl yay, which. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:33.280 Also sorry Paul Matt, you're living with you, Maley Lola. 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:37.119 But mom Ellie the cat that he didn't want a girl. 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:40.320 The cat he's got Buster, at least he's got one. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.800 Other doesn't do much. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.880 He's such a good boy. He just sits in the corner. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.600 He doesn't contribute to the testosterone. 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:48.760 He's such a good boy. 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.159 No, look, I mean, Matt was always destined to be 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.039 a girl dad, and I guess maybe we'll have a 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:55.560 big conversation about it later on, but we've spoken about 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.480 gender disappointment before, and I absolutely don't want to put 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.240 Matt into the camp of having gender disappointment. He is 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.640 thrilled that we are having a girl, but he definitely 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:08.960 had the reaction of like, oh, okay, I have to 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:14.040 reassess my expectations around what I thought fatherhood would be 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.359 because he always saw himself as being a dad to 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:16.719 a boy. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:18.960 I don't plan on having another baby after this, so 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:22.200 like this is this is uh? He might have other ideas. 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:23.560 Let's can we gret. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.840 That audio and hold onto it for when number four. 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:29.120 This is us and our family complete, I think, and 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:31.200 I guess like it was like a moment of whiplash 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.680 for him to get his head around, and he is 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:36.200 so so stoked that we're having another baby. He's so 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:38.440 sorry that we're having a girl, and he is the 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:41.480 best girl dad. And I think for me, I am 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.520 happy that it's a girl because I worry that bringing 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:48.080 a little boy into the dynamic would change the relationship 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.960 that he already has with our daughters and I say 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.080 this because you know, we have one nephew. We have 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.640 two nephews, sorry, but one that he spends a lot 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:59.039 of time with, which is George, his sister's son, and 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:02.320 anytime where all together. And Kate has two little girls, 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.040 and she also has a little boy, George. Matt instantly 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.080 b lines and they play football, and they do all 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.280 these things together, and it's like, well, I would hate 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:12.240 for you to think that they're the things you have 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.000 to do if we had a boy, and you don't 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.160 do those things with our girls, you know, And the 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.640 relationship he has with Malea and Laulu is so incredibly 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.400 special that I'm like, we were designed for this, you 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:22.160 were destined for this. 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:23.920 I don't think he would change if he had a boy. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:25.440 I don't think he'd change the way he treats the 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.680 girls in that sense. But I do think you can 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.440 have the same things running concurrently. I think that you 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.880 can have a level of gender disappointment and still be 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.200 equally thrilled, Like you can still be equally thrilled you're 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.520 getting a daughter and still have a level of like 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.080 could have been cool to dabble in something I haven't 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:41.520 dabbled in. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.280 Yeah, change of scenery would have been nice. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.320 Also, I don't want to make this too deep, and 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:46.960 we can cut it if you're not comfortable with it. 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.120 But Matt doesn't have a relationship with his dad, and 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:50.320 I wonder if there was a little bit of a 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.400 subconscious thing where he wanted to be the dad too, 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:55.360 you know, a figure that he never had as in 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:59.400 like I wonder if he kind of maybe wanted to parent. 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.760 A boy the way that he was not raised as 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:02.080 a boy. 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:03.239 Does that make sense? 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:06.520 Yeah, And we've had big conversations not about not about 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.320 specifically being a dad tool boy, that being a dad 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:12.000 in general. And I think I wonder if other people 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:16.800 have experienced this, but like, there is something incredibly healing, 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:18.800 and this is a big conversation about and I have had. 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:23.280 There's something incredibly healing about becoming a parent when maybe 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:27.360 your experience of your childhood wasn't the idyllic childhood upbringing. 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.560 Because I really feel as though you get to heal 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:32.880 your own inner child by being the parent that you 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.080 always deserve to have. And I know that that's something 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.280 that Matt has felt because he's just the best dad. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:40.120 He's the best, best dad. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:41.880 And you know, he's always said, I want to be 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:44.160 the version of a dad that I didn't necessarily have, 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.800 So yeah, I'm so proud of him. And also, you know, 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:50.120 it took him a second and now he's soon on board. 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:53.679 So look, guys again, thank you. It's very exciting times. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.559 I'm sure I'll update you and all of the gory 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:56.520 details along the way. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:57.960 You're going to be thrilled about it. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:08:59.920 Yeah. Oh, we are so much more content now. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:01.760 Thank god we were running drive. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.200 I can actually talk about it because there were so 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:06.240 many things going on in your personal life and you're like, oh, 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:09.120 I just I can't share that yet. So yeah, we're 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.200 going to get the backlog of all the funny stories I. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:14.520 Did, like, I genuinely loved going through all the guesses 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.360 of what was going to be on the Instagram post 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.199 like that was really fun. The people that thought all 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.840 three of us were having babies simultaneously, that was very optimistic. 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.280 I don't know on the same day, I don't know 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:24.600 how we would survive that. 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:26.840 To be fair, that would be one situation where the 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:28.040 podcast would really struggle. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.160 I don't I don't know what would have happened. I 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:32.679 don't know how we would have survived that, so it's 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:36.199 probably as exciting as that would have been. Be grateful 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:38.120 that we're all not having babies simultaneously. 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:41.040 And also the second biggest guess was that Britt is 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.880 now already married and she's moved to Italy. Those things, 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.520 those things are going to happen, like that's probably the 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.480 next big news that we have, like when we're teasing 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:51.760 an announcement, but realistically, well you have just the beginnings. 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.480 Thanks Laura. I was holding on to that. Thanks. No, 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:58.080 it was exciting. I also did love the person that 0:09:58.160 --> 0:09:59.679 wanted Ben to come on as a co host. I 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:00.600 thought that that was cute. 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.320 I was like, wow, it really hit home with someone, 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:06.720 and I do want to also validate a lot of 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:09.160 people were talking about cloud, which I know that I 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:11.360 didn't mean to bait you with the cloud in the. 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.640 We didn't think it's sorry, we're not thoughtful enough to 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:14.480 do Easter eggs. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:17.439 No, I'm not Taylor Swift, guys. I was just looking 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.200 for I was in a rush. I was also trying 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.240 to get food into both kids. It was soft, it 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.559 looked nice, and you know what, it was a template 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:25.679 in canvas that we used a long time ago, and 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:27.320 I was like that'll do, Pig, that'll do. 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:30.800 We actually were all speaking in our messages being like, wow, 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:32.920 we really didn't think that one through. Like we definitely 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:34.959 did bait that it was something to do with Cloud, 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:36.680 but we didn't. No one knew, No one knew that 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:37.480 that's what we were baiting. 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:37.760 We didn't. 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:38.800 It didn't even cross our mind. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:39.160 Okay. 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:41.600 And also, if you haven't listened to Cloud, listen, go 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.400 and listen. It is a fantastic podcast that we created. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.920 Keisha created it, she's hosted it, she's produced it, and 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:52.080 it is all about living with adhd adhd like diagnosis. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:55.400 It's a fucking girl podcast. Don't get that in your ears. 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:58.440 Well, speaking of recommendation, should we get into vibes, I 0:10:58.440 --> 0:10:59.920 thought you were going to recommend your pop. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:03.760 I'm just gonna recommend her again. Yeah, look, I'm going 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:07.120 to kick start then without two weeks like overseas and stuff. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.760 I man, I watched some stuff like the Plane thirty 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.679 hours traveling. I download all a bunch of stuff and 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:14.040 I just watch whole series. 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:14.880 Can I say? 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:16.880 I had planned on trying to get through a couple 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.160 of seasons of I just wanted to watch White Lotus. 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:20.880 I wanted to watch it whilst I was on holiday. 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:21.720 I still haven't watched it. 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:25.160 I didn't watch a single thing, not one thing on holiday. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:26.960 I don't know what I did though. 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:28.920 We just, I guess in family stuff, which is probably 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:30.120 better than more dolphins. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:34.079 You were very connected around it, and you should. 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.120 I actually don't know what I did. I can't tell 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:36.719 you one thing. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:38.840 Tell you because you would send me photos you Laura 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:40.800 would send me photo of her at the beach, be 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:42.599 like I'm so free, I'm going to move here and 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:44.199 it was just like an empty beach and I was like, Okay, 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:45.760 see you back in the city next week. I was 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:47.960 like what she always saw that she goes this is 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:49.640 freedom and I was like, who are. 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:54.760 You SHEDFOI has literally like making sand angels. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:56.880 She was on the ground making angels and she's like, 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:57.840 I just love it here, guys. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:11:59.600 I'm born to be in the country. I'm not born 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:00.000 to be here. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.920 I'm not I'm born to be on the Italian on 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:04.520 a yacht. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:10.160 But we all have what we want, all right, recommendations. 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:14.319 Yes, so you so season five of you? We all 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.760 know what you is. Literally there's five seasons. This is 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:18.600 the final season. It came out like in the last 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.120 two weeks. It's really fresh. But I downloaded it straight 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:22.240 away and watched the entire thing. 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.160 So many episodes are we talking. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.840 I think it's eight ten max eight, But it's see 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:30.000 what you can achieved when you're not doing sand angels. 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:31.800 I see what you can achieve when you're on a 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:35.320 thirty hour flight. So if you've seen the reviews, it 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.960 is getting mixed reviews. And I went through each season, 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:41.760 so season one to five basically got like in terms 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:45.400 of percentage ratings, ninety five percent, ninety three percent, eighty 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:47.480 nine percent, like they sort of went down a little bit, 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:50.000 and I think this one's the lowest, seventy nine percent 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.319 or something. But I loved it. I really enjoyed it. 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.640 What I will say is it was and I think 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.240 you can feel it both things at the same time. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:02.200 I was very frustrated by the choices the character's made. 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:03.800 You know, when you want to scream at a TV 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:05.679 like you're like, well, what did you think was going 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.560 to happen? Like that's what I was saying. I was like, 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:09.600 of course you're going to get murdered, Like why did 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:12.360 you do that? So you get this real frustration with 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.920 the characters, but it wasn't enough to not make you 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:16.520 want to watch it like you wanted to see it through. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.280 You just victim blame the characters. 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.320 One hundred percent. I victim blamed. No, I wait, you 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:24.200 see it. Wait, you're like you idiot, I won't. Yeah, No, 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.640 you have to. You have to. It has to come. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:28.520 It's one of those things that has to come full circle. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.360 And I haven't seen anything since season one. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.959 I watched all of season one and I loved it, 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.040 but I haven't seen any of the other seasons, so 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:35.520 it's too much. 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:36.319 I'm now overwhelmed. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.200 Well, I've put Ben onto it. Ben's going to watch 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:40.079 all five seasons. And I think it's one of those 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.480 things that if you've ever watched one or two seasons, 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:44.840 just finish it, just go through, watch them all. So 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:47.600 I enjoyed it. It's definitely done. There is no room 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:50.480 for another season, and there shouldn't be, like it's run 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:50.960 its course. 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:53.280 Why do you feel as though it's receiving negative backlash 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.040 this season verse the other four? 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.480 I think because it's done. I think because it's like 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:01.000 we've explored so many storylines and almost getting a bit 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.760 unfathomable now, like this one is a bit almost a 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.840 bit fantastical. You're like, right, yeah, it's a bit like crazy. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.440 But I think Penn Bagley, who is the lead, is brilliant, 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:12.360 Like he's very. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.120 Good, and I think he was perfectly cast. So he'll 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.240 always be danned from Gossip Girl totally. I saw that 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.040 he went on Call Her Daddy last week as well, 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:19.120 so yeah, let's not. 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:20.480 Promote the biggest podcast in the world. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:22.960 I'm trure he'll be on Life on Card next week, 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.280 Key Show. What to vibe. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:27.320 My vibe of this week is because I traveled internationally 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.360 a week and a half ago, and this is something 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.600 that I've had for the past, I reckon maybe eleven years, 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.600 and it's a travel money card now mina through the 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:38.320 Commonwealth Bank because I bank with them, and this is 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:40.880 not an ad I have had these cards for as 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:44.520 long as I can remember. I remember not paying for them, 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:46.320 so I'm assuming that that's because I am a comm 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.480 Bank member already. I don't know how much it would 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.360 cost to just get one of these if you don't 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.320 bank with them, but I can't imagine it being much. Basically, 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.720 it's a prepaid visa card and it means that you 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:58.560 get no international transaction fees. So the way it works 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.480 for me is that it just as an additional bank 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.920 account in my set of bank accounts, so I can 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:07.000 transfer immediately, and I can also transfer out of it 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:08.760 immediately if I was to lose one of the cards 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:12.920 or whatever. I load it with Australian money whenever I 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.320 use it in no matter what country I'm in. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:16.600 If I haven't. 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:19.720 Preloaded that particular currency, it will just take the day 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.280 exchange rate for that day and it will just transfer 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:23.080 it on the spot. 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.400 So I always put just Australian money in it. 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:27.720 I'm sure if you were smart enough or if you 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:30.640 were kind of checked in enough to notice when there 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:33.720 was a really good exchange rate, you can actually convert 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:36.680 some of the money into euro or you know, British 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.080 pound or whatever it might be that you need. I'm 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:40.880 not really that organized, though, so I just go with 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:41.520 the day rate. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:42.920 It's really really easy. 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:46.400 No international transaction fees. So yeah, I've been using them 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.520 for as long as I've traveled internationally. And I was 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.880 just reminded about it because we went on the weekend 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.120 and my boyfriend was talking about having to unlock his 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.520 credit card, and I was like, Oh nah, don't worry 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:58.600 about that. Like we'll just use the travel cards. You know, 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:00.360 it's pretty safe. You can just put small amount of 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:02.520 money in there. And like I said, if there was 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:05.880 ever an emergency and you needed a large amount of money, 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:09.600