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Speaker 2: a fucking midnight?

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Speaker 1: Just never ends. I was like, I cannot wait to

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Speaker 2: We have an episode that came out today.

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Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, I haven't uploaded the episode.

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Speaker 2: Did you write them?

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Speaker 1: I wrote it.

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Speaker 2: You're very good at that.

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Speaker 1: Did you read today? Not the strongest? You didn't remind

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Speaker 1: me normally, you remind me.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to.

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Speaker 1: Wednesdays come around so cool.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to remind you because that would make

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Speaker 2: me your boss and I'm not. We're equals.

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Speaker 1: Almost almost dropped the ball, made that mistake a few times.

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Speaker 3: Not today.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to two Golding Dads. I'm Mattie J And

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Speaker 1: I'm Mash. This is a podcast that is all about parenting.

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Speaker 1: It's the good, the bad, and the relatable. And if

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Speaker 1: you have come thinking that you may get any type

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Speaker 1: of advice, unfortunately you've come to the wrong podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: not going to happen here, not today, not ever.

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Speaker 2: Never, never, ever, ever ever ever anyway. Hell am I'm good, Look,

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I can't say I'm bad because there's people

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Speaker 2: that they're much worse than me. But no, but this

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Speaker 2: is week two of Oscar having to come home early

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Speaker 1: What happened last time?

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Speaker 2: He was just sad. He was tired because I didn't

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Speaker 2: I saw Oscar's teacher and she was like, is Oscar

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Speaker 2: Cab'm like, yeah, he seems fine to me, which is fine.

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Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, he was just laying around everywhere

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Speaker 2: So two days later, let's just go two days later, No,

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Speaker 2: the day later. I'd already promised him the day off

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Speaker 1: Would you ever backtrack on those type of promises or

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Speaker 2: He fucking remembers, mate, He will never forget, like he'll

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't know if you've ever heard of his

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Speaker 2: Well, I went out to do that Marcott job thing, right,

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Speaker 2: I was saying, oscars at home he has and she went, oh, no,

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Speaker 2: is slap gee?

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Speaker 2: It definitely wasn't common. And I was like, I's got

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Speaker 2: Man Like, No, it's not contagious if the slap cheek

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Speaker 2: So you've got to pre empt every day that. Now

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Speaker 2: Then this week he's obviously been run down as you do.

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Speaker 1: He's got the herb.

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Speaker 2: week three next week, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Although it's a nightmare, no question about it, just back

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Speaker 2: What did I have for breakfast this morning? I had

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Speaker 1: I won't jinx it. I won't. I also not. I

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Speaker 2: There is something else I want to talk to you about.

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Speaker 2: We'll get to it.

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Speaker 1: Akat two medical stories that I have.

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Speaker 2: Any hospital visits.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I will get to that. I'll get to that.

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Speaker 2: Johnson's love guard to the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So yesterday I moved house. I'm now just down

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Speaker 1: to Oscar, he's a kelpie. He's just full of beans.

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Speaker 2: That was your best trip.

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Speaker 1: I think the best trick I did was like a

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Speaker 1: And I could can't tell if you're actually impressed just

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Speaker 2: Towards me at the moment, I don't see it anyway.

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Speaker 1: So it's something that George and I, you know, we've

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Speaker 2: Him up to the skate park Terry Hills skate Park.

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Speaker 1: Well, I can't because he had an incident.

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Speaker 2: You know so you've just set up a dangerous obstacle

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Speaker 1: No, because it happened yesterday and I've been.

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Speaker 1: So he came up on the scooter, up off the table,

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Speaker 1: And whilst you're jumping, here hold these knife anyway, look

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Speaker 2: Shouldn't I wear a helmet? No, that's how I picture

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Speaker 1: But my sister was like, they give a bit of gas.

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Speaker 1: You have raspberry, vanilla, chocolate or Coca Cola. He went

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Speaker 2: It cool, And I say, hey, George, mate, it's best

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Speaker 2: can't do that. You're gonna hurt yourself. Get them stitches

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Speaker 1: But I spoke to my sister just before we recorded,

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Speaker 2: So that reminds me my brother in law is a

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Speaker 1: What the fun is that?

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Speaker 2: No? No, no, anyway, so he's a you need to

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Speaker 2: So just picture that, okay, picturing it? So I think

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Speaker 2: there you go, George. There's no age bounds on that.

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Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure he's like thirty seven or thirty

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Speaker 1: That is a fucking embarrassing. It's one of those things that,

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Speaker 1: I tried to do a pop shove it and I

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Speaker 2: And I'm just getting back into skating because it's like

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Speaker 2: we'll go to do something and yeah, You're like, how

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Speaker 1: Like kneel down to do an ollie? As I like,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Did you have a moment when you

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Speaker 2: We went glad it's not my.

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Speaker 1: Kids, yes, because see this happened last week, but we

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Speaker 2: You know what, you deserve it now.

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Speaker 1: After that, we had a little trip to hospital with Marley.

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Speaker 2: Oh so Karma's got ya?

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Speaker 1: And can I just say also she is fine? Both

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Speaker 2: You're a liability, you lot well, you're clogging up the

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Speaker 2: Oscar went to hospital twice in his life. He's four,

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Speaker 1: Why are you looking at me? And I'm the problem here?

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Speaker 1: Like it's not like, hey, which we do this weekend?

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Speaker 1: Let's go to emergency the children, So we go back

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Speaker 1: To be fair, I've actually never done the hospital trip.

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Speaker 1: It's always been Laura.

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Speaker 1: And I was kind of like, I don't know how

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Speaker 2: You actually did this trip.

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Speaker 1: But Laura was like this is not good. Like she was,

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Speaker 2: You this time?

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Speaker 1: I went the second time, and you kin'd of get

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Speaker 2: You're doing a fantastic job.

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Speaker 1: But they do like an initial how sick are you?

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Speaker 2: The ultrasound punish and they don't understand either. It's a punish. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: like Mummy would have done. So that's why Matt's thinking, flashback,

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Speaker 2: did you start going? Because I would be c sick,

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Speaker 2: you know me in that? How long were you there?

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Speaker 2: Four hours?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know what it was? Do you know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like this is it.

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Speaker 2: I'm die. Actually I'm okay like that.

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Speaker 2: Like it's just one of those funny if it was

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Speaker 1: because we had to like not to end on a

437
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 1: down a note. You have to walk to get to

438
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 1: the ultra sound was like a fucking maze.

439
00:20:58,760 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 2: Past the dying people.

440
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you have to.

441
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 2: It's like hospitals are no good.

442
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,679
Speaker 1: Walking past these beds with the kids who have like

443
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: tubes up their nose and they're.

444
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 2: Like, you know with what was the children's hospital?

445
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, children's Yeah, so walking past the sick kids and

446
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 1: you're like, that's not how a kid should be spending

447
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 1: the day like it's.

448
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: And that look, honestly, we've got a pretty good when

449
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 2: you think, oh, totally, speaking of triage, I want to

450
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,160
Speaker 2: go back to the triage.

451
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 1: What is triche mans triage?

452
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 2: Just like they like you said that, I don't know

453
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,199
Speaker 2: what it exactly means, but they determine who needs to

454
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 2: go up the line anyway. So this is something that

455
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 2: happened to me where I had to deal with a

456
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 2: triarche nurse and you were saying, oh, you know, the

457
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 2: people that are dying go first. So when I was fourteen,

458
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: let's just skip right into this story right away. I

459
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: didn't think I was going to tell this story.

460
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 1: No, well, can I just say that, do you ever

461
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 1: think you are going to tell any particular story?

462
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 2: No? It just comes to me on the mark. I'm

463
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 2: just definitely not written. I've go written down what I

464
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 2: want to talk to you about it. I was just

465
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 2: going to fuck it, going to talk about to talk

466
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 2: about I'm just going to bounce off what you've said

467
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,959
Speaker 2: and I will remind myself. So when I was fourteen,

468
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 2: lived on the Gold Coast at the time, and we

469
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 2: actually came did a house swap with our old neighbors

470
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 2: in Sydney. So we did house swap. So we came

471
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: down to Sydney for like two or three weeks coming

472
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 2: over how long it was anyway, So we drove down.

473
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: The whole family drove down. I was in the car.

474
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 2: I was the tallest, so I was in the passenger seat,

475
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 2: which you know, at fourteen a lot of involuntary erections.

476
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 2: That's not the story.

477
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: Did I forget what it's like being fourteen? I used

478
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,400
Speaker 1: to get maybe like ten a day.

479
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to talk to you mum when

480
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 2: she comes down.

481
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: Can I just confirm? So your mom's in the backs mum,

482
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: and my sister.

483
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 2: In the back seat. I'm in the front with an

484
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 2: awkward erection, classic hiding it somehow, And the problem is

485
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,239
Speaker 2: like there's nothing to distract you. Back then it was

486
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 2: four I had a phone, but there used to be

487
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: no reception on the way.

488
00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, game boy, what would you play?

489
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 2: It was just like look out the window and hope

490
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 2: the direction goes down, like looking at roadkill. Like yeah,

491
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 2: it was like that's kind of sexy. Anyway. So we

492
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 2: came to sit.

493
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: You ounder control. You and your old man are just

494
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 1: like ah, like father likes something. He's looking over.

495
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: He's like, wrong, that didn't happen, and he didn't drive

496
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 2: a manual. Anyways. We're only here for like twenty four hours,

497
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,959
Speaker 2: forty eight hours, okay, And I went to catch up

498
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: with some of my mates. Can you know you're not

499
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 2: going to fucking dog?

500
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: What's what's wrong with her?

501
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: Because she's swollen?

502
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: What does she have swollen nees for? Okay, swollen knee?

503
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 2: And I was like, you should take it to a

504
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: pet physio.

505
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, that's a.

506
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 2: Are you fucking serious.

507
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: What any one who's not aware? Ashes had to go

508
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 1: over lift his dog onto the couch.

509
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: It's a low lying couch, dude, Like it's thirty centimeters

510
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 2: off the ground even, and the dog is like, come here, bitch.

511
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 2: The other day I had to lift up those two

512
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 2: steps and it's two steps. She could have just gone upstairs.

513
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: How old is she the dog?

514
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 2: She'd be ten soon, Okay, so she'll be dead soon

515
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 2: soon enough. Little dogs live forever they do. I will

516
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: be saying like, oh my god, this burden of a dog.

517
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 2: And she'll live till I'm like twenty. Hurry up so

518
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: I can replace you any You and your dad getting erections?

519
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: No together? No?

520
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 1: So where were we?

521
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 2: We're here for like twenty four or forty eight hours?

522
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: And I went saw some mates because I used to

523
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 2: go to school here, and I went and met with them,

524
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: surved a couple of times with them that day. Great,

525
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 2: having a lot of fun. And then I got like

526
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: a pain in my lower stomach, like lower, I don't

527
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 2: know left.

528
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 1: I think it was not erection related, not.

529
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 2: Erection related, not related. I don't think it's related to

530
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 2: the erections.

531
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: Actually a lot of sense.

532
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 2: And I was like, it's like so much pain, so

533
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,439
Speaker 2: much pain, and my dad had to come and get me.

534
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: And Dad's like come the classic dad like comes to

535
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 2: pick me up. I'm in excruciating pain. But he hasn't

536
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: seen this person's parents since we moved, so he's like, oh,

537
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: stop and have a chat. I'm in the car. Man

538
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: I'm in the car, like Dad, I'm fucking in so

539
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 2: much pain. I was like, and I just said to him,

540
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 2: it's my fucking nuts right. My testicles are fucking pulsating,

541
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: they're so sore. And as soon as I said anything

542
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: about my testicles, like a man should, let's come. And

543
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 2: my dad's no good with like doctors or something like that,

544
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 2: even though he's a medical rep. How the fuck does

545
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: that work.

546
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: Isn't it? Parents are so crazy and like any little

547
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: your dad's chatty. I met your dad and he loves

548
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: he loves the gin wag. You're there on death's door

549
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: and he's like.

550
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: Oh, cliffs, got over it, mate, youkay. That's pretty much

551
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 2: what it was like until I mentioned my testicles, and

552
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: he's thought, fuck.

553
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: This is a medical emergency.

554
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 2: So he's driven so taking me to the medical center.

555
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 2: He's taken me back to where we're staying for mom

556
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: to take me to the medical center. That's a bloody shamuzzle.

557
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 2: He was just didn't want to go. I don't think

558
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 2: it's like, thanks Dad.

559
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: Maybe he was like me and he didn't know. Maybe,

560
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: But when it comes to testicles, every second count.

561
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Every second does count. Matthew anyway, so mam has taken

562
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: me to the medical center. Anyway, I remember vividly sitting

563
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 2: in the medical center. It was like the plastic those

564
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 2: medical center plastic chairs with like the gray thin I

565
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: felt like I was melting the plastic. That's how much

566
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 2: pain I was in. I was sweating, I was hot,

567
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 2: and I was just like anyway, doctor see me, and

568
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 2: they're like, we don't know, we don't know what it is.

569
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 2: Then sent me to the emergency room.

570
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: Okay, ultra sound.

571
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: And then I get to the emergency room it's been

572
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 2: like four hours.

573
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: Me just like oh yeah, ultra sound, that's the only

574
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: medical word.

575
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and stating my arm ultrasound. Anyway, I got

576
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 2: to see the tree arched nurse. Okay, also that term

577
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 2: very good Mary, mindflowing fourteen years of age. I've already

578
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 2: shown my nuts to one person. The next thing, I've

579
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: got to show my nuts to another person.

580
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: Were they big? Were they enlarged?

581
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 2: No? No, but very sot, very sore stomach. Really really,

582
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: that's like, I'll tell you what's wrong with you. You've

583
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 2: got a direction?

584
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: Who's that? Who's that? What's that medical show where a

585
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 1: guy has to like diagnosed those strange cases ah, embarrassing.

586
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: Bodies anyway, So I'm like, at this point, like four

587
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 2: hours of pain, like sweating, really really bad, tree arched

588
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: nurse took one look at me and went, your testicles

589
00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: are twisted. Yeah, so in the sack itself, and this

590
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 2: is where the triash nurse has gone. You're okay. You

591
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: would think, okay, you're not in a life threatening situation,

592
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: but your nuts are more important than anyone in this

593
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: fucking er right now, because no one is more important

594
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 2: than your testicles. Straight through, I'm in surgery, in fucking

595
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm talking like minutes because there's only a certain amount

596
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: of time before the nut dies.

597
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 1: It's a cold blue.

598
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 2: Like cold blue woo woo woo, straight through.

599
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: Since I had a car accident, don't.

600
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: Worry about me and get that saved the testicle anyway,

601
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 2: straight in, And the last thing I remember was like

602
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: I was on the bed and they're pushing me into surgery.

603
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: But to get me into surgery, they actually had to

604
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: go into a supply closet for a U turn and

605
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 2: I passed out in the supply closet, So I thought

606
00:28:54,360 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 2: we did the surgery and the supply closet anyway, Hell, anyway,

607
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: separated the testicles, stitch them to the walls of the

608
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: testicle sack, and so for the next three weeks while

609
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: we're in Sydney. Still I'm fucking bedridden with these testicles

610
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: that were huge. And my mate at the time thought

611
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 2: it would be really really funny to pretend to sackack me,

612
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: so I'd squeeze my legs together. It was fucked anyway.

613
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: What an apologies if you're going to get to this point,

614
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: But what causes a twisted testicle?

615
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: No idea.

616
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: It just happened.

617
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: Just happened. Happens a lot apparently, but we were minutes away

618
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 2: from losing it. Well, thankfully now I have two kids.

619
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: I don't really need them now they're actually twisted back up.

620
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: But yeah, I just thought you just the word tree,

621
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 2: I was just really spark something in me.

622
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: Then did you, like you have you ever gotten in

623
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: contact with that nerves? Have you said that could be

624
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: a beautiful get it on the podcast? What was her name?

625
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: Do you remember?

626
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 2: I don't have a clue, Matthew it was that was

627
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: like nineteen years ago.

628
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: That would be a beautiful story.

629
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 2: So old.

630
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: They're coming together. I wonder how many nutsacks she saved

631
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: in her career as well.

632
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 2: I hope a lot. I hope she's got You know

633
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 2: when it's like when you leave like the army and

634
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: you get like the purple heart, They're like, here's a

635
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: set of purple testicles. Here's a set that didn't make it,

636
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: but not because of your efforts.

637
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: How lucky though, How lucky that she was on call

638
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: at the very minute that you came in with your

639
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: twisted nat sack.

640
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 2: But also afterwards, I, as teenagers do they ridicule people.

641
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: So my mates thought I had one ball one ball ash.

642
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: And this goes back to when the other day I

643
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 2: went and bought a guitar and you're like, what are

644
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: you going to learn? Wonder Wall, Like it's a joke,

645
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: and I was like, that's funny because my mats made

646
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 2: up a song called one ball.

647
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: Because I look over and you start crying and I

648
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: was like ash.

649
00:30:55,440 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: They were like, cause he's got one ball. Anyway, we

650
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: just really took a long journey together there. But I'm fine, obviously,

651
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: But yeah.

652
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that story.

653
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 2: Should we go into lies now?

654
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:24,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me love, tell me little. So we are

655
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: now back with parenting lies.

656
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, So the Budget Smuggler is going to be happening

657
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Speaker 2: from now until the end of the year.

658
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Speaker 1: It's coming back.

659
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 2: It's coming back.

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Speaker 1: We know people right now will be panicking.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm missed out on the budgets. No, there's plenty

662
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Speaker 2: of opportunities to do that over the course of the

663
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 2: back end of the year, So still get stories in

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Speaker 2: for that. But in the meantime, we bring back everyone's

665
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 2: favorite segment, which is the lies and Matthew, what do

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Speaker 2: you do you have for me?

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Speaker 1: I've got one ash. This one is from writ a Day,

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Speaker 1: Britt A Day a Day. It says, tell me lies.

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Speaker 1: I bloody love this. Well, Britt, we love it too.

670
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Speaker 1: So she says, I've just realized that my husband and

671
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: I have already been lying to our eleven month old son, Rowan.

672
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: He keeps going to share Slash give food to the dog,

673
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: and I'm bloody sick of it because she keeps making

674
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: food for him because it's the dog.

675
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sucks.

676
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: It's like the one bad thing about having a small child.

677
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Speaker 2: The dog's well fed all the time.

678
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Speaker 1: So she says, no, dogs don't like sausages, and no,

679
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: dogs don't like sandwiches, so whatever, he's eating. She has said,

680
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: the dog doesn't like it, and it works, but she says, mate,

681
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Speaker 1: my dog will eat his own shit. He would devour

682
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Speaker 1: whatever the tiny human has handed him. So now the

683
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: dog just stares at us like we're committing the ultimate betrayal.

684
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Speaker 2: Stop lying to the child. That's pretty good because I

685
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: know Mazie, like I always say, the dogs stalking them?

686
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, they're just.

687
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Speaker 2: Stalk dinner time. Yeah, they're just stalking. No, at all times,

688
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 2: don't it's always this tone as well. Don't feed the dog.

689
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Speaker 1: So annoying, so annoying.

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Speaker 2: My lie, Matthew is something that I can't remember who

691
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: it came from. But if this does ring any bells

692
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Speaker 2: from someone, thank you. But I also do this as

693
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Speaker 2: well as like it's part of a parenting style. Okay,

694
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Speaker 2: So if anytime Oscar, mainly because maybe doesn't understand yet,

695
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Speaker 2: anytime Oscar is being a naughty boy or doing the

696
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Speaker 2: wrong thing, it could be six twelve months out from

697
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Speaker 2: his birthday, I always say, that's it. Your birthday's canceled.

698
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Speaker 2: You don't get to change age this year. Your birthday's

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Speaker 2: completely canceled. Works a treat every time, because he's just

700
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Speaker 2: like they obviously associate it with presents, okay, but also

701
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Speaker 2: I like to throw in there that you're going to

702
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Speaker 2: be four again for another year. I think all the

703
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Speaker 2: other boys and all the other girls are going to

704
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Speaker 2: be five. You, sir, you continue that behavior, you will

705
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Speaker 2: remain four. Your birthday will be canceled.

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Speaker 1: That's great. But Marley sometimes she'll be like, I don't

707
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Speaker 1: want to grow up, dad, And she's like, I don't

708
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Speaker 1: want to get older because she's so sweet.

709
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Speaker 2: Because a moron, he's not. He's not, but he's a boy.

710
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 2: He all he cares about is where the next monster

711
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: trucks coming from. Okay, so he's not a moron.

712
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Speaker 1: Hey are we are? We going to do lies next week?

713
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: So we are going to do lies next week. But

714
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Speaker 2: then we're back baby with budget. Mugger's most ordinary parents,

715
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Speaker 2: So get your lies in, get your ordinary parenting moments in.

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Speaker 2: Whether it's a D M or there's an email in our.

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Speaker 1: Two D two double D double d's look dot com

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Speaker 1: dot dot.

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Speaker 2: A U yes, correct, So get him over. Like I said,

720
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Speaker 2: there's going to be plenty of opportunities for ordinary parents

721
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Speaker 2: and lives for the back end of this year. But

722
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Speaker 2: ordinary parents, you get to win something, which is great.

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Speaker 1: Love it. Let's end the episode on questions. We always

724
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Speaker 1: have two questions. I'm going to start off ash and

725
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Speaker 1: ask you if you could hire any celebrity to look

726
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Speaker 1: after your kids, who would it be? And why? Let's

727
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: go I mean, sure we can make it open ended

728
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Speaker 1: and have anyone could be alive for the sake of

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Speaker 1: this question.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, while I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: You go, I'm going to go Kim Kardashian.

732
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to go Scott Disick. Well, those who

733
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Speaker 2: know that person is who's on the keeping up with

734
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Speaker 2: the Kardashian he would be the funnest babies that are

735
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Speaker 2: fuck it, I want him to babysit me.

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Speaker 1: No, he's just he's like a drunk, isn't Heah.

737
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Speaker 2: But he's such a wayanka, but he knows he's a

738
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Speaker 2: winger and everything that comes out of his mouth is

739
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Speaker 2: fucking hilarious.

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Speaker 1: The Lord, the Lord Lord. I'm pretty sure he goes

741
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Speaker 1: by the name of the Lord.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you're talking about it saying Scott Dissic, Yeah.

743
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Speaker 1: He used to be married to Corny.

744
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's the best. He's so good. Whereas,

745
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: for example, if It's like he's like, do you want

746
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 2: something to drink? And Chris Kardashian's like, well, it's like

747
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Speaker 2: I don't need you love yes or no, that's the

748
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Speaker 2: energy I want in my house.

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Speaker 1: I'm going Kim just because it would just be such

750
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Speaker 1: a flex to have. Yeah, and she's got kids.

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't be cheap though.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not paying. Oh I'm not paying, like

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Speaker 1: I'm fuck whos gonn afford Kim Kardashian to look after

754
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Speaker 1: your kids. I'm just doing it purely for like, for

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Speaker 1: the flex, for the flex of like I mean, I

756
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Speaker 1: actually would she be a bad mum? I mean, I'm

757
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Speaker 1: sure she's got an army of helpers. Oh yeah, I'm

758
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Speaker 1: sure she's never This is me judging. I'm sure she's

759
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Speaker 1: never like in the trenches trying to feed her kids.

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Speaker 1: She's got probably like a list of fourteen people before

761
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Speaker 1: her before she has to get on her hands and

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Speaker 1: knees and get in.

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Speaker 2: Then she got her hands and knees. I'm going to

764
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Speaker 2: go with Scott Dissick because you've gone Kim k And

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Speaker 2: I realized, and I'm just gonna say that is because

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Speaker 2: I went down the wormhole the other day of watching

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Speaker 2: Scott Dissick videos on TikTok, and I need that sort

768
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Speaker 2: of energy in this house because I think I would

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Speaker 2: have a lot of fun and my kids would have

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: Because if you're out, okay, I'm going to change mind. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Princess Diana.

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Speaker 2: Which is dead, we can bring it back.

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Speaker 1: But why because she's beautiful?

775
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Speaker 2: Oh fuck, Matthew, please, I have a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Please.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you said you'd never do as a

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Speaker 2: parent that you now do all the time?

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Speaker 1: M Yeah, there's a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: Obviously. The most prominent one would be the iPad situation, Like,

782
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Speaker 1: holy shit, I used to judge parents.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I used to be like, I'm never gonna do that.

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Speaker 2: Ah man, I went out the window immediately.

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Speaker 1: Kids. I would if I saw a family with young

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Speaker 1: kids with iPads at the dinner table at a restaurant,

787
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Speaker 1: I would be like, oh never.

788
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Speaker 2: Now we get it completely totally.

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Speaker 1: You gotta it's amazing. You've been at my sister's house.

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Speaker 1: I remember, like, because she's got the three kids when

791
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Speaker 1: one of them is not being injured in a hospital.

792
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,959
Speaker 2: Sorry, George, Sorry George was setting up that really Dodgy ramp.

793
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Speaker 1: So were my kids and her kids are together on

794
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Speaker 1: a Friday, we might have dinner. It is chaos. It

795
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Speaker 1: is absolutely Oh yeah, kids are going mental. We feed

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Speaker 1: the kids first and we give them iPads to put

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Speaker 1: TV on, and it's just like a drug. It's like

798
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Speaker 1: a sedative. They're just like forty five minutes.

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Speaker 2: And then any luck, they fall asleep and you're like,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, that's the stuff.

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Speaker 1: I mean. Don't get me wrong. You don't always rely

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Speaker 1: on the iPad twenty four to seven.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you do. I've got a quite and actually I've

804
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 2: got a really quick question for you as well. And

805
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Speaker 2: I'll probably going to ruffle a couple of feathers year,

806
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 2: but whatever, I don't really give a fuck. Parents who

807
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 2: put their kids on the leads, yeah, yeah, going on,

808
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 2: it's like before you had kids, you like, I'm never

809
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 2: going to do that. I haven't done that. I put

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Speaker 2: a leg rope on Oscar once, but just because he

811
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Speaker 2: was like, put this on my wrist, and I was

812
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Speaker 2: just like, actually, this is kind of nice.

813
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Speaker 1: Is this at home or was this out in public?

814
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Speaker 2: I was just here, this was in the garage.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you like took it for a test run.

816
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he was like, picked up one of my

817
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: leg rights and he was like putting this on like

818
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Speaker 2: a wristband. I was like sweet, and then he's like

819
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 2: moving towards the door and I gave it a yank

820
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: and he was like and I was like, this says no,

821
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't the backpack lead. It's so it's kind of

822
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Speaker 2: a bit demeaning, and I'm sorry it is.

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Speaker 1: It is absolutely demeaning.

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Speaker 2: If you do it to your kid, that's fine, that's

825
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 2: your decision. I'm not gonna judge you. Actually, I'm going

826
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Speaker 2: to judge you. That's fucked up. Why I don't even

827
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Speaker 2: put the dog on a lead because I feel bad

828
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Speaker 2: when I yank it?

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Speaker 1: Okay. I think it depends on the kid though, right,

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Speaker 1: Like if you've got a kid who was like a

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Speaker 1: runner or she's a runner, ye, little boy, little boys

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Speaker 1: like Miley's pretty good in that. It's stressful. Okay, you're

833
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Speaker 1: going to like the Easter Show and then you're going

834
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Speaker 1: with Oscar and he's going to run away.

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Speaker 2: He's going to you know, yeah, I think where in

836
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Speaker 2: that situation, I'm like, fine, but like, look, if your

837
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Speaker 2: child is a prominent runner away or that's not going

838
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: to call it well said. Rather, then if you're near

839
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Speaker 2: a road and stuff, fine, because look, you hear about

840
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 2: it all the time where a kid gets you by car.

841
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 2: Fuck that would suck. So look, I take back to

842
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: I don't take it all back. I take it. If

843
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: your kid's a runner and you've got them on a lead,

844
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: and it's like, look it's a life and death situation,

845
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Speaker 2: I'm fine with that. But if you're just in a

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Speaker 2: shopping center walking your kid on a lead for the

847
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Speaker 2: sake of because it's easier and convenient for.

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Speaker 1: You, hang on a second, hang on it ash. You can't.

849
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Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense.

850
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Speaker 2: You can't to hate them.

851
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 1: You can't be someone that says yes to iPads twenty

852
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: four to seven.

853
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 2: And then draw.

854
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: That doesn't fucking make any sense.

855
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 2: My opinion means nothing.

856
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense.

857
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 2: But I'm just going to say the lead things a

858
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 2: bit demeaning. What do you reckon?

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00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, look.

860
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: You cancel.

861
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: I've never done one before.

862
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: No me, I've done the leg rope. But that's about it.

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00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you're visually visually, it's just.

864
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 2: Because you put it on a backpack doesn't make it

865
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Speaker 2: any better. Just put it around its neck like a

866
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 2: dog and move on.

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Speaker 1: I want to get you a lead. I want to

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Speaker 1: get you on, not just the leg rope one. I

869
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Speaker 1: want to get a proper lead that's designed for crazy

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Speaker 1: toddlers and put.

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00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: It on me.

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00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: No, I want you to use it for a while.

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Speaker 2: No, I won't. I won't use it because, honestly, look,

874
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: if I'm being honest, it's a bit fucked.

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00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: That don't make any sense. It's like you love birkenstocks,

876
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: then you won't wear cross but then you won't have a.

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00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 2: Bay and round me out as a person. I had

878
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 2: a question. I asked you for your answer. You gave

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00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 2: me a weird look and said it's a bit demeaning.

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00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:52,959
Speaker 2: Let's leave it on that.

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Speaker 1: Sure, and.

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Speaker 2: Free the lead. On that note, I think it's time

883
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 2: we said goodbye. And I'm sorry if I've annoyed anyone

884
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 2: with that leash thing. But no, fucking get over yourself.

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00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 2: How dare you go through life and not be offended?

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00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this episode, somehow love a review will

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Speaker 1: be really amazing.

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00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: We not the leash people away from the reviews.

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00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: Man, the leash people, they're opinionated. You offend the leash people,

890
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Speaker 1: and you're in trouble.

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00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 2: Free the leash Free That okay, they're going to be

892
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: knocking on my door going.

893
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 1: How d you don't know what? People who ashes offended

894
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: so fast since the podcast started.

895
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: Country and Lea People, the leash users. Did you see that?

896
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: Actually banning crocs now in shopping centers, airports and trains.

897
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: That's bullshit.

898
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: That's such about times.

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00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: Just it's just the media using like click okay.

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Speaker 2: Donald.

901
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: Fake news, fake news.

902
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 2: People keep on talking.

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00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: That's a terrible impersonation.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. I don't I know.

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Speaker 1: No stuffer right there.

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Speaker 2: Follow us on Instagram, Yes, please follow us and yeah,

907
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 2: just reminder, get your ordinary stories in, get your lives in.

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00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:19,959
Speaker 1: We'll see you next week. Good bye bye. Two Doting

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Speaker 1: Dads podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout Australia

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00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: and the connections to land, see and community.

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00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torrestraight Island

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Speaker 2: the people's today. This episode was recorded on Gadagle Land