WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: How did you catch them cheating? 🤰 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.600 Laura, come on. 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:19.320 Show everybody. 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:22.639 Hello everyone, Happy Thursday, Mitch, Laura. 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:27.800 Do you know what I am when we say we 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:31.080 are we are? I am an idiot. I can you 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:35.240 see this? Okay, I did to myself. You go, it's 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:38.000 new mac got freaky. It's not a Hickey. It's I 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.880 burnt myself with the steamer just before I came into 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.800 work today because I was trying to steam my jumper 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:46.280 whilst I was still wearing my jumper. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.760 Double hickey. No, what's two little dots? That's where the 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.360 steamer nozzle is, Guys, I burn. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:53.360 I burnt kind of on the side of my boob 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.360 and under my armpit with a steamer. 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.000 Like the main rule of steaming is you don't do 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.400 it on your body. It's boiling hot. 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:02.000 Li has a sign on the front of the steamer 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:05.320 that says do not steam clothes while wearing them, and 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.959 I was like, I'll just do it quick. I'll get 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.959 it done real fast, and to be fair, I got 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:11.000 through ninety percent of it, but then when I got near. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:12.360 The underround part, it didn't work out for me. 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:12.960 Anyway. 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.959 I think this show has been terrible for your public 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:18.160 brand or you ever talked about his burning self dropping 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:19.240 things for getting children. 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:21.680 Yeah, I'm I haven't forgotten my children yet. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:25.479 I mean, but there's always time, always time. Anyway, No, look, 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.680 I'm yeah, I'm an accident waiting to happen. 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:28.160 Put it that way. 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:29.880 Well, you know what if you heard that and you thought, God, 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.960 I'll have some advice from Laura on my life falling apart. 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.320 It's Thursday. It's perfect timing because we're doing an ask 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:36.039 gun cut coming up. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:38.600 Well, I think when you've lived the life that I've lived, 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:41.040 even if you don't have any qualifications, you can give 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:42.360 some you can give some advice. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.800 Yeah, I about the experience. Going to talk about cheating too. 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:45.920 We've got a big show today. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:48.760 It is Laura's going to put some burnead on a boot. 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:51.160 I've experienced that as well. Anyway, let's get into the 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:52.240 show around the country. 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.080 This is the pickup. It is Thursday time. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:56.560 For this ask Umcat. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.520 We have a pick up. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:04.000 A listener standing by to get some premium quality a 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.000 advice from the three of us, as you girls do 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:09.000 on your hit success podcast Life un Cut. 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.800 Every week, we do it here on the radio. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:12.760 You can also text us if you've got a question 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:16.399 for nine nine four four, one oh six five everyone. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.520 I think if you go on your social media feed, girls, 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:19.480 do you have friends in Europe? 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:20.400 At the moment Europe somemech. 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.720 It just about to say, girls, do you have any friends? 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:23.440 No? 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:25.960 Yeah, my sister's over and doing the whole Europe thing 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.799 right now, and then whenever BRIT's not here, I say Europe. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:30.920 So I know what it's like watching on and seeing 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.400 all my friends over there. Yeah, averrel spirits. 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.720 It's tough to watch. Image's got to travel related question right, image? 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:37.880 Hi welcome? What's going on? 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:39.040 Hi? H? 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.239 I also want to get hello. I also want to 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:43.560 get to Europe for summer next year. And I'm really 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:47.280 struggling to save money. All my friends they've got hen 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:50.080 parties and birthdays and presents, and everyone wants me to 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.160 go in on everything, and I'm really struggling to say no. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.639 And I would love your advice on I guess how 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:58.040 to turn them down or save money. 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:01.640 It's okay, So things like Hen's parties, I think they 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.560 can get out of control so quickly, especially if you're 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:07.280 a bridesmaid or you've been asked to do more for 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:09.760 the wedding. That just racks up so quickly we need 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:11.040 to normalize being okay with. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:12.560 Saying no to being in that role. Well, I think 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.800 we just need to remember no is a complete sentence. 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:16.840 But one thing, I'm just saying no. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:18.680 You got to get god no. 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:19.359 In all honesty. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:21.480 One thing I want to say, And it's a conversation 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:23.720 we've been having, Like on the podcast, we actually just 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:26.920 spoke with this amazing financial advisor from America leader in 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.760 the world, name's Tory Dunlap. But we sort of spoke 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:33.239 about the fact that there's always a shame around when 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:34.880 we feel like we need to say no to someone 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.760 because we're saving money, Like there's almost a shame around, like, oh, 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:38.480 I can't. 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:39.920 Afford that this week. But I think we need to 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:40.880 take the shame away. 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.840 I think it's empowering and amazing for you to be 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.560 able to say, hey, I'm a bit tired at the 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:48.440 moment because I got some really big things coming up 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.520 that I'm working towards. So unfortunately I'm not going to 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:51.800 be able to make it, but let me know if 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:54.280 we can catch up later. Like, I think it's okay 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.200 to say that catch up on a platform and in 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.800 a way that suits you financially and your time frame. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.320 I also think on that brite, I totally agree with you, 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:04.360 But I also think we need to get more comfortable 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:06.960 with talking about it earlier on, because the more that 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:08.960 you sort of say to your friends, oh, I'm budgeting 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:11.080 at the moment, or I'm having to, you know, kind 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:13.400 of cut back on my spending, it's also not going 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:16.840 to then come as a surprise to them when you say, hey, actually, 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:18.440 I'm not going to be able to make that event 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:19.839 or I'm not going to be able to do that thing, 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.040 And they're not going to think you're being a tight 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:23.840 us because you've already told them, You've already made them 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.640 aware that you're in a phase of life where budgeting 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:27.600 is really important but. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.200 Also cost of living a crisis. It's not even a phase, 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:31.200 it's it's everyone. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.960 Everyone should be able to understand that, like purse strings 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.159 are being tightened, whether we like it or not. And 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:39.359 everyone has different priorities, Like their priority might be the 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.760 destination hens party, but your priority right now is your 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.040 trip next year to Europe. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.200 Yeah, Nick and Osh, if she comes, you send us picks. 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.400 Okay, all right, good luck and enjoy Europe. 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:51.599 If you want to get in touch with this, you 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:54.560 can textas like I said on four nine nine four 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:55.320 one six five. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:57.320 Yeah, and look coming up, I've got a little bit 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.400 of a spicy. 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:58.520 One for you. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.000 We're talking about cheat now. It's something that no one 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.160 ever wants to experience. You definitely don't want to be 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:05.760 on the other side of cheating, but it's something that 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.000 I think so many people have been in this situation. 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:10.320 And there is one woman who found out that her 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.960 partner was cheating on her and you will not believe 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:13.840 how this unfolded. 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.440 All right, that's on the way here on the pickup. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.920 You know, the one thing in relationships that I think 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:22.680 everybody has a very strong and negative opinion on y 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:25.560 sharing food or not. Well, I mean maybe in your 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:27.520 relationship room. But now I was going to say cheating. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.919 There's a TikToker who has gone viral. Her name is Laypenny, 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.839 and she's gone viral for sharing how she found out 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.320 that her boyfriend at the time was cheating on her. 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:38.600 So have a listened to this. 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:40.720 Okay, I've been talking to me for the past who 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:42.839 then she just walk them in his baby mother, his 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:50.839 baby mother, his baby mother. That's a bounce fift birth okay, wow. Wow, 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.000 he comes in here as soon as he sees me, 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:55.120 has face strapped. 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:56.120 I'm confused. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:06:01.320 I'm quickly enlightned because the mother is behind them with 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:04.200 the belly before her. Wow. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.839 So she is a nurse and she's at the hospital 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:08.760 that day. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.560 She's been texting her boyfriend. They've been texting throughout the 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:12.279 day everything. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.240 The guy she's been talking to, Yeah, the guy. She's 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.120 been seeing him for a while. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.480 Maybe not boyfriend, but you know, they're definitely an item, 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:20.280 and they've been sleeping together. Anyway, she's at work, she's 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.279 on a shift at the hospital, and in work walks 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:24.720 her boyfriend and she thinks. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.120 Oh, he's come to visit me. He's come to surprise 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:28.760 me on my late night shift. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:32.800 But no, he walks into the hospital and behind him 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.760 is his wife or girlfriend or whoever it is. And 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.320 she is heavily pregnant. And that's how this poor woman 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:39.640 found out that her partner was cheating. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:41.599 She approached and say, hey, I am here to deliver 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:42.200 your baby. 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:42.960 No, do you know what? 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:45.839 And I loved this about this TikTok because I think 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:47.839 if you ever put in a situation where you find 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.560 out you're being cheated on, Like the you have that 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:53.159 kind of question as to whether you're going to confront them, 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:56.640 you're going to confront the other person. Yeah, as a nurse, 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.599 she realized the amount of distress that that would have 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.560 caused that woman who was just about to go in 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:04.000 and have a baby, and she was like, I hate him, 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.000 He's an absolute jerk, But I don't want to do 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:09.400 that to another woman in this moment. And maybe she 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:11.560 will find out. I mean, finding out shortly after you've 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:14.240 had a baby is also still horrific. But I don't 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.600 think anyone wants to have that news as you're walking 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:19.280 in to have a baby, walking into no titeous. 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.400 I mean, I feel like that says a lot about 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.840 the person. If she was to go and tell that 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.320 pregnant woman in that moment when she's giving birth, I 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:29.000 think that says a lot about her anyway. Like, I 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:30.400 think there's not many people that would be in that 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.680 situation that would go and ruin her, like she's in 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:34.520 labor and she's pushing it, like you just wouldn't do 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:35.120 it in that way. 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:35.760 Not her fault. 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:37.960 That's the persons to be spoken to is the guy, 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:41.520 And like pregnancy such an intimate moment, a special moment 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.760 for that woman. She can find out at a later date. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.760 But it does make you sort of raise the question 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.000 around the interesting ways that people have found out how 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.560 their partners were cheating on them. So when I was 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:55.320 when I was in my twenties and my real long 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:58.560 term boyfriend who I was, I mean, I genuinely thought 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:00.080 we were going to get married, like I was so 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:01.400 obsessed with him. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.360 Many toxic things happened in that relationship. 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:06.680 But I came to work this one day and one 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.960 of my staff from Tony May, she was like, look, 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:10.640 I don't know how to bring this up with you. 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:14.400 I'm scared you're going to fire me for being the messenger. 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:16.520 In the middle of this, She's like, but I need 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:21.120 to tell you my girlfriend matched with your boyfriend on 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:24.200 Tinder and they went on a date. And I only 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.600 know this because she showed me the guy that she'd 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.320 been on a couple of dates with, and then I 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.520 realized it's your boyfriend. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:31.360 Could you imagine? 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.000 It's awful? But I would have loved to have how 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:33.959 old were you at that point? 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:34.800 It was twenty eight. 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.280 I would have loved to have met twenty eight year 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.599 old Laura, how does that happen to you? 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.160 I was devastated. I thought my life was going to end. 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:40.800 Laura. 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:43.360 There were a lot of signs in Laura's relationship, but 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:44.920 that I think at the time you chose to or 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:45.800 like the woman who. 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:48.839 I found a pair of undies that were not mine 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:50.880 in his bed and he managed to explain away to 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:51.800 me that they weren't. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.680 Yeah, the signs meet him? What would he have said? 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:55.960 How did he explain that away? 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:58.760 There was actually something else that happened, like the next 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.400 day I found message. I didn't want to confront him 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:02.920 because I knew he would lie about it again or 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:05.280 say she was making it up. So I am not 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:07.000 proud of this, But I ended up going through his 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.679 phone and as I was in his phone, I got 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:11.880 a notification which was just a number, and it said 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.600 do you want to remove this number from spam? And 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.080 I was like, what spam? And then I found the 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:20.480 spam folder and it was filled. You're really deep in 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:21.480 that phone, no, I was. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:23.360 It was filled with messages from girls that he'd been 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:23.719 cheating on. 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:25.839 Listen, how did you catch the cheater? How did you 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:26.839 find out? What's that your cause? 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:27.120 Next? 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:31.160 On the pickup. They're just talking about a TikTok that 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:31.640 we've seen. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.920 We're talking about down and dirty cheating is what we're 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:34.439 talking about. 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:37.160 Oh God, imagine being a nurse working the night shift, 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:39.079 about to deliver a baby, and then in walks a 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.400 woman and she's with her partner. 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:42.680 But that partner is your partner. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:44.240 Yeah, but she's also pregnant. 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:46.080 She's also pregnant. You're not cheating. 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:48.479 Stressful, Like, of all the ways. 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:49.920 That you could find out that your partner's cheating on you, 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:51.000 some of them were worse than others. 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.760 But at the end of the day, cheating is very, 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:54.280 very bad. 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:58.760 Georgia, Hey, how did you catch the cheaterh Ah. 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.120 It's a few years ago now. I can't remember how 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.160 I stumbled across it. But I was on the computer 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:05.000 at home and i came across a folder called golf 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:09.440 and I'm like, that's weird. My husband doesn't And inside 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.840 was a whole heap of pawn And when I looked 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:16.679 at it, there's no spaces, there was no you couldn't 0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:18.960 see who it was. And I'm like, well, that looks 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:22.760 like he's wedding ring. That's a bit strange. And then 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.360 I saw a tattoo on the tummy of the girl, 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:29.679 and I went, oh, okay, and I saw another one 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:32.760 and it was just the girl, same tattoo, saw the 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.720 face and went, hold on a minute, I know you. 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.320 And it was someone he worked with, and they was 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:43.439 like the different videos of the two of them. Oh bloody, 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:48.120 what happened? What happened? Oh, you know, denial, it's not 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.319 what you're see. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:56.000 That's how golf works. What about Sarah? Hey, how did 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.320 you catch the cheetah? 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:57.760 Hey? 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:00.160 I was in a long distant relationship with my away 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:04.040 from at the time, and we're on FaceTime chatting and 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:06.280 then all of a sudden, like the phone just fell 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:09.360 on the floor and I was like, oh, hello, like hey, 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.160 you're still there whatever no answer. I was like okay, whatever, 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.480 like the reception must have just died or whatever. So 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.959 I hung up, and then like a couple hours went past, 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.840 and I was like, this is so weird. So I 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:22.600 decided to check his location, which I think he forgot, 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.360 but I had his location, so icho it's girlfriend, you know. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:30.120 And then he replied like three four hours later and 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:32.480 was like, oh, I'm so sorry, Like I tripped and 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.440 fell and hit my head and I got knocked out. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:35.520 What an idiot? 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:35.880 Why? 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.920 So then I was like, well, no, I think you 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.840 know that's not right because your car was moving like 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:46.120 you were left the house. 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.160 But what a weird wouldn't why Like I was unconscious. Okay, 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:51.920 we'll go to the hospital then, but how did you 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:52.800 actually catch the cheating? 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:54.600 Just because he's in a car driving doesn't mean he's 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:55.400 boned and someone else. 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:59.120 Because I like questioned him about it and I made 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.840 him feel really bad confessed do lie. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:04.720 The thing about this, though, is that it's so devastating 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.880 at the time, Like there is nothing more emotionally ruining 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.040 than finding out you're being cheated on. But then it 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.400 always in retrospect years later, once you've done a bit 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.440 of healing, you always find it funny, always like, what 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:15.960 an idiot? 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:16.960 That guy's a loser? 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:20.040 Hey, joining us next a show intervention, not on brit 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:23.280 not on Laura. On the fourth member of the pickup 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:27.359 team is that I'm not going to say it, However. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:33.280 An extension, if. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.160 I love that you think she's like the fourth member 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.920 of the pick up I think she's your child. She's 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.440 legitimately your child, which we treat her in the same 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.840 esteem as we do my children. She eats probably better 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.720 on My kids are eating burgers and yours eating air 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:47.600 fried saltmon. 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:49.480 Yeah, we've got an intervention. We need to talk to 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:52.160 Lilah because big moves happening this week in her life. 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.280 We'll get you up to speed with this next on 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:58.800 the show stand By. Unfortunately, we have some some interesting 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:02.719 updates in the world of BRIT's dog, Delilah. You're a 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:05.720 beautiful Australian shepherd. She's beautiful to look at, but to 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:06.960 spend time with horrific. 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:10.840 She's not. You love her and she loves you, and 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.680 if she heard you say that, Mitch, she she'd be 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.160 so hurt. She is a beautiful dog. 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:19.120 And I like and Delilah to imagine like that person 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.640 that you went to school with, where they are so 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:23.040 hot that they didn't have to work on their personality. 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:23.839 That's what I mean. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.600 That sounds me to she's so hot she can get 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.480 away with anything. But I would love to get to 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.440 the bottom of like what's the actual problem, Like do 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:32.320 we need to sedate her? 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:33.960 Like what's the next step in this No. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.439 Because we heard on Tuesday on the show that you're 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:38.479 having issues keeping a dog walker. 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:40.880 So not issues keeping one. I have had two dog 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:44.000 walkers that take turns for two years. They both dumped you, 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.600 but in the last week they both said that, well 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:48.280 one of them is sort of dumped done. So I 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.640 think she's better suited, you know, with a different pack. 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:55.000 And the other dog walker, Jody, put her on a 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:55.960 one month probation. 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:58.400 We've got Jody on the phone. Now she's joining us. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:02.640 We want to get to the roots, John, she moves away, Brett. 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.800 We need to know what is going on with this dog, Jody, 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:06.959 Welcome to the show. 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.360 Hi, Hello, everybody by. 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.160 It's okay, it's Delilah Bully. 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:16.760 Look, I'm not gonna lie. She's she is a little baby, 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:19.880 bit of a bully, but not all the time. Not 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:23.920 all the time. She's got her times where she is 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.600 a bit of a beach and then she's got her 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.560 time where she's a bit of an angel. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.280 I think Deliah's got pretty privileged. That's what I think 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:31.640 this is. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:36.600 She doesn't know, sorry, Brett, like I mean, she literally 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:37.560 looks like you. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.680 That's so funny. She's an influencer dog. 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:43.600 But Tody, you did give us a report card the 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:45.800 other day because you've put her on like quite a loose. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:49.880 I would like to say loose one month probation, because 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.560 after you told me she was on probation, I went home, 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:55.120 and I'm embarrassed to admit this. I sat down with 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:57.040 her and I spoke to her like she was a toddler. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.320 I was like, you are not going to have anyone 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.280 that wants to walk you. You're not going to have any 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:03.280 other dog friends. I was like, you need to rain 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.200 your behavior in and that I thought I was crazy 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:06.240 if anyone saw me doing that. 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:07.960 How was she the next day? 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:12.440 She was absolutely fun until I picked up my first dog. 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:16.320 Delana's got a thing where she is incredibly territorial. She 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.760 thinks that any human that's worth her is hers. She's 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:23.800 got about eighty seven mothers, and so when she's worth me, 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:27.520 she thinks she is absolutely in charge of all the 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:31.040 dogs and my car. So she wasn't the greatest student. 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.880 When I picked up a few dogs. She has to 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:38.760 be in the front with me, and yeah, she just 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:41.760 basically like, if I'm not really holding her back, I 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:45.000 think she may jump over and like tell them what's what. 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:49.440 But because I am prepared for it, I don't allow 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:50.120 it to happen. 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:52.600 Do you know what Jodie I actually had after we 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.200 spoke about it the other day, I had so many 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.680 people right out that are the parents of Australian shepherds, 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.320 and they all said the same thing. They were like, 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.600 it's not you, it's an Aussie trait where they have 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:04.280 this like weird obsession with the humans. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:09.760 Absolutely, they are so loyal and so protective, and because 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:14.440 they're really really affectionate as well, that mix of sort 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:18.120 of protection but also lovingless they lovingness. They get so 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:22.320 confused and I just think it ultimately comes down to 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:26.000