Speaker 1: Laura, come on.
Speaker 2: Show everybody.
Speaker 3: Hello everyone, Happy Thursday, Mitch, Laura.
Speaker 4: Do you know what I am when we say we
Speaker 4: are we are? I am an idiot. I can you
Speaker 4: see this? Okay, I did to myself. You go, it's
Speaker 4: new mac got freaky. It's not a Hickey. It's I
Speaker 4: burnt myself with the steamer just before I came into
Speaker 4: work today because I was trying to steam my jumper
Speaker 4: whilst I was still wearing my jumper.
Speaker 5: Double hickey. No, what's two little dots? That's where the
Speaker 5: steamer nozzle is, Guys, I burn.
Speaker 4: I burnt kind of on the side of my boob
Speaker 4: and under my armpit with a steamer.
Speaker 3: Like the main rule of steaming is you don't do
Speaker 3: it on your body. It's boiling hot.
Speaker 4: Li has a sign on the front of the steamer
Speaker 4: that says do not steam clothes while wearing them, and
Speaker 4: I was like, I'll just do it quick. I'll get
Speaker 4: it done real fast, and to be fair, I got
Speaker 4: through ninety percent of it, but then when I got near.
Speaker 5: The underround part, it didn't work out for me.
Speaker 6: Anyway.
Speaker 7: I think this show has been terrible for your public
Speaker 7: brand or you ever talked about his burning self dropping
Speaker 7: things for getting children.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm I haven't forgotten my children yet.
Speaker 4: I mean, but there's always time, always time. Anyway, No, look,
Speaker 4: I'm yeah, I'm an accident waiting to happen.
Speaker 5: Put it that way.
Speaker 7: Well, you know what if you heard that and you thought, God,
Speaker 7: I'll have some advice from Laura on my life falling apart.
Speaker 7: It's Thursday. It's perfect timing because we're doing an ask
Speaker 7: gun cut coming up.
Speaker 4: Well, I think when you've lived the life that I've lived,
Speaker 4: even if you don't have any qualifications, you can give
Speaker 4: some you can give some advice.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I about the experience. Going to talk about cheating too.
Speaker 5: We've got a big show today.
Speaker 2: It is Laura's going to put some burnead on a boot.
Speaker 5: I've experienced that as well. Anyway, let's get into the
Speaker 5: show around the country.
Speaker 2: This is the pickup. It is Thursday time.
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Speaker 7: for nine nine four four, one oh six five everyone.
Speaker 7: I think if you go on your social media feed, girls,
Speaker 7: do you have friends in Europe?
Speaker 2: At the moment Europe somemech.
Speaker 5: It just about to say, girls, do you have any friends?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: Yeah, my sister's over and doing the whole Europe thing
Speaker 4: right now, and then whenever BRIT's not here, I say Europe.
Speaker 4: So I know what it's like watching on and seeing
Speaker 4: all my friends over there. Yeah, averrel spirits.
Speaker 7: It's tough to watch. Image's got to travel related question right, image?
Speaker 7: Hi welcome? What's going on?
Speaker 5: Hi? H?
Speaker 9: I also want to get hello. I also want to
Speaker 9: get to Europe for summer next year. And I'm really
Speaker 9: struggling to save money. All my friends they've got hen
Speaker 9: parties and birthdays and presents, and everyone wants me to
Speaker 9: go in on everything, and I'm really struggling to say no.
Speaker 9: And I would love your advice on I guess how
Speaker 9: to turn them down or save money.
Speaker 4: It's okay, So things like Hen's parties, I think they
Speaker 4: can get out of control so quickly, especially if you're
Speaker 4: a bridesmaid or you've been asked to do more for
Speaker 4: the wedding. That just racks up so quickly we need
Speaker 4: to normalize being okay with.
Speaker 5: Saying no to being in that role. Well, I think
Speaker 5: we just need to remember no is a complete sentence.
Speaker 5: But one thing, I'm just saying no.
Speaker 2: You got to get god no.
Speaker 5: In all honesty.
Speaker 3: One thing I want to say, And it's a conversation
Speaker 3: we've been having, Like on the podcast, we actually just
Speaker 3: spoke with this amazing financial advisor from America leader in
Speaker 3: the world, name's Tory Dunlap. But we sort of spoke
Speaker 3: about the fact that there's always a shame around when
Speaker 3: we feel like we need to say no to someone
Speaker 3: because we're saving money, Like there's almost a shame around, like, oh,
Speaker 3: I can't.
Speaker 5: Afford that this week. But I think we need to
Speaker 5: take the shame away.
Speaker 3: I think it's empowering and amazing for you to be
Speaker 3: able to say, hey, I'm a bit tired at the
Speaker 3: moment because I got some really big things coming up
Speaker 3: that I'm working towards. So unfortunately I'm not going to
Speaker 3: be able to make it, but let me know if
Speaker 3: we can catch up later. Like, I think it's okay
Speaker 3: to say that catch up on a platform and in
Speaker 3: a way that suits you financially and your time frame.
Speaker 4: I also think on that brite, I totally agree with you,
Speaker 4: But I also think we need to get more comfortable
Speaker 4: with talking about it earlier on, because the more that
Speaker 4: you sort of say to your friends, oh, I'm budgeting
Speaker 4: at the moment, or I'm having to, you know, kind
Speaker 4: of cut back on my spending, it's also not going
Speaker 4: to then come as a surprise to them when you say, hey, actually,
Speaker 4: I'm not going to be able to make that event
Speaker 4: or I'm not going to be able to do that thing,
Speaker 4: And they're not going to think you're being a tight
Speaker 4: us because you've already told them, You've already made them
Speaker 4: aware that you're in a phase of life where budgeting
Speaker 4: is really important but.
Speaker 5: Also cost of living a crisis. It's not even a phase,
Speaker 5: it's it's everyone.
Speaker 3: Everyone should be able to understand that, like purse strings
Speaker 3: are being tightened, whether we like it or not. And
Speaker 3: everyone has different priorities, Like their priority might be the
Speaker 3: destination hens party, but your priority right now is your
Speaker 3: trip next year to Europe.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Nick and Osh, if she comes, you send us picks.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, good luck and enjoy Europe.
Speaker 7: If you want to get in touch with this, you
Speaker 7: can textas like I said on four nine nine four
Speaker 7: one six five.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and look coming up, I've got a little bit
Speaker 4: of a spicy.
Speaker 5: One for you.
Speaker 4: We're talking about cheat now. It's something that no one
Speaker 4: ever wants to experience. You definitely don't want to be
Speaker 4: on the other side of cheating, but it's something that
Speaker 4: I think so many people have been in this situation.
Speaker 4: And there is one woman who found out that her
Speaker 4: partner was cheating on her and you will not believe
Speaker 4: how this unfolded.
Speaker 2: All right, that's on the way here on the pickup.
Speaker 4: You know, the one thing in relationships that I think
Speaker 4: everybody has a very strong and negative opinion on y
Speaker 4: sharing food or not. Well, I mean maybe in your
Speaker 4: relationship room. But now I was going to say cheating.
Speaker 4: There's a TikToker who has gone viral. Her name is Laypenny,
Speaker 4: and she's gone viral for sharing how she found out
Speaker 4: that her boyfriend at the time was cheating on her.
Speaker 4: So have a listened to this.
Speaker 6: Okay, I've been talking to me for the past who
Speaker 6: then she just walk them in his baby mother, his
Speaker 6: baby mother, his baby mother. That's a bounce fift birth okay, wow. Wow,
Speaker 6: he comes in here as soon as he sees me,
Speaker 6: has face strapped.
Speaker 2: I'm confused.
Speaker 6: I'm quickly enlightned because the mother is behind them with
Speaker 6: the belly before her. Wow.
Speaker 5: So she is a nurse and she's at the hospital
Speaker 5: that day.
Speaker 4: She's been texting her boyfriend. They've been texting throughout the
Speaker 4: day everything.
Speaker 5: The guy she's been talking to, Yeah, the guy. She's
Speaker 5: been seeing him for a while.
Speaker 4: Maybe not boyfriend, but you know, they're definitely an item,
Speaker 4: and they've been sleeping together. Anyway, she's at work, she's
Speaker 4: on a shift at the hospital, and in work walks
Speaker 4: her boyfriend and she thinks.
Speaker 5: Oh, he's come to visit me. He's come to surprise
Speaker 5: me on my late night shift.
Speaker 4: But no, he walks into the hospital and behind him
Speaker 4: is his wife or girlfriend or whoever it is. And
Speaker 4: she is heavily pregnant. And that's how this poor woman
Speaker 4: found out that her partner was cheating.
Speaker 2: She approached and say, hey, I am here to deliver
Speaker 2: your baby.
Speaker 5: No, do you know what?
Speaker 4: And I loved this about this TikTok because I think
Speaker 4: if you ever put in a situation where you find
Speaker 4: out you're being cheated on, Like the you have that
Speaker 4: kind of question as to whether you're going to confront them,
Speaker 4: you're going to confront the other person. Yeah, as a nurse,
Speaker 4: she realized the amount of distress that that would have
Speaker 4: caused that woman who was just about to go in
Speaker 4: and have a baby, and she was like, I hate him,
Speaker 4: He's an absolute jerk, But I don't want to do
Speaker 4: that to another woman in this moment. And maybe she
Speaker 4: will find out. I mean, finding out shortly after you've
Speaker 4: had a baby is also still horrific. But I don't
Speaker 4: think anyone wants to have that news as you're walking
Speaker 4: in to have a baby, walking into no titeous.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that says a lot about
Speaker 3: the person. If she was to go and tell that
Speaker 3: pregnant woman in that moment when she's giving birth, I
Speaker 3: think that says a lot about her anyway. Like, I
Speaker 3: think there's not many people that would be in that
Speaker 3: situation that would go and ruin her, like she's in
Speaker 3: labor and she's pushing it, like you just wouldn't do
Speaker 3: it in that way.
Speaker 2: Not her fault.
Speaker 7: That's the persons to be spoken to is the guy,
Speaker 7: And like pregnancy such an intimate moment, a special moment
Speaker 7: for that woman. She can find out at a later date.
Speaker 4: But it does make you sort of raise the question
Speaker 4: around the interesting ways that people have found out how
Speaker 4: their partners were cheating on them. So when I was
Speaker 4: when I was in my twenties and my real long
Speaker 4: term boyfriend who I was, I mean, I genuinely thought
Speaker 4: we were going to get married, like I was so
Speaker 4: obsessed with him.
Speaker 5: Many toxic things happened in that relationship.
Speaker 4: But I came to work this one day and one
Speaker 4: of my staff from Tony May, she was like, look,
Speaker 4: I don't know how to bring this up with you.
Speaker 4: I'm scared you're going to fire me for being the messenger.
Speaker 4: In the middle of this, She's like, but I need
Speaker 4: to tell you my girlfriend matched with your boyfriend on
Speaker 4: Tinder and they went on a date. And I only
Speaker 4: know this because she showed me the guy that she'd
Speaker 4: been on a couple of dates with, and then I
Speaker 4: realized it's your boyfriend.
Speaker 5: Could you imagine?
Speaker 2: It's awful? But I would have loved to have how
Speaker 2: old were you at that point?
Speaker 5: It was twenty eight.
Speaker 2: I would have loved to have met twenty eight year
Speaker 2: old Laura, how does that happen to you?
Speaker 5: I was devastated. I thought my life was going to end.
Speaker 6: Laura.
Speaker 3: There were a lot of signs in Laura's relationship, but
Speaker 3: that I think at the time you chose to or
Speaker 3: like the woman who.
Speaker 4: I found a pair of undies that were not mine
Speaker 4: in his bed and he managed to explain away to
Speaker 4: me that they weren't.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the signs meet him? What would he have said?
Speaker 5: How did he explain that away?
Speaker 4: There was actually something else that happened, like the next
Speaker 4: day I found message. I didn't want to confront him
Speaker 4: because I knew he would lie about it again or
Speaker 4: say she was making it up. So I am not
Speaker 4: proud of this, But I ended up going through his
Speaker 4: phone and as I was in his phone, I got
Speaker 4: a notification which was just a number, and it said
Speaker 4: do you want to remove this number from spam? And
Speaker 4: I was like, what spam? And then I found the
Speaker 4: spam folder and it was filled. You're really deep in
Speaker 4: that phone, no, I was.
Speaker 5: It was filled with messages from girls that he'd been
Speaker 5: cheating on.
Speaker 2: Listen, how did you catch the cheater? How did you
Speaker 2: find out? What's that your cause?
Speaker 1: Next?
Speaker 2: On the pickup. They're just talking about a TikTok that
Speaker 2: we've seen.
Speaker 4: We're talking about down and dirty cheating is what we're
Speaker 4: talking about.
Speaker 7: Oh God, imagine being a nurse working the night shift,
Speaker 7: about to deliver a baby, and then in walks a
Speaker 7: woman and she's with her partner.
Speaker 2: But that partner is your partner.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but she's also pregnant.
Speaker 2: She's also pregnant. You're not cheating.
Speaker 5: Stressful, Like, of all the ways.
Speaker 4: That you could find out that your partner's cheating on you,
Speaker 4: some of them were worse than others.
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, cheating is very,
Speaker 5: very bad.
Speaker 2: Georgia, Hey, how did you catch the cheaterh Ah.
Speaker 8: It's a few years ago now. I can't remember how
Speaker 8: I stumbled across it. But I was on the computer
Speaker 8: at home and i came across a folder called golf
Speaker 8: and I'm like, that's weird. My husband doesn't And inside
Speaker 8: was a whole heap of pawn And when I looked
Speaker 8: at it, there's no spaces, there was no you couldn't
Speaker 8: see who it was. And I'm like, well, that looks
Speaker 8: like he's wedding ring. That's a bit strange. And then
Speaker 8: I saw a tattoo on the tummy of the girl,
Speaker 8: and I went, oh, okay, and I saw another one
Speaker 8: and it was just the girl, same tattoo, saw the
Speaker 8: face and went, hold on a minute, I know you.
Speaker 8: And it was someone he worked with, and they was
Speaker 8: like the different videos of the two of them. Oh bloody,
Speaker 8: what happened? What happened? Oh, you know, denial, it's not
Speaker 8: what you're see.
Speaker 2: That's how golf works. What about Sarah? Hey, how did
Speaker 2: you catch the cheetah?
Speaker 1: Hey?
Speaker 10: I was in a long distant relationship with my away
Speaker 10: from at the time, and we're on FaceTime chatting and
Speaker 10: then all of a sudden, like the phone just fell
Speaker 10: on the floor and I was like, oh, hello, like hey,
Speaker 10: you're still there whatever no answer. I was like okay, whatever,
Speaker 10: like the reception must have just died or whatever. So
Speaker 10: I hung up, and then like a couple hours went past,
Speaker 10: and I was like, this is so weird. So I
Speaker 10: decided to check his location, which I think he forgot,
Speaker 10: but I had his location, so icho it's girlfriend, you know.
Speaker 10: And then he replied like three four hours later and
Speaker 10: was like, oh, I'm so sorry, Like I tripped and
Speaker 10: fell and hit my head and I got knocked out.
Speaker 5: What an idiot?
Speaker 9: Why?
Speaker 10: So then I was like, well, no, I think you
Speaker 10: know that's not right because your car was moving like
Speaker 10: you were left the house.
Speaker 5: But what a weird wouldn't why Like I was unconscious. Okay,
Speaker 5: we'll go to the hospital then, but how did you
Speaker 5: actually catch the cheating?
Speaker 4: Just because he's in a car driving doesn't mean he's
Speaker 4: boned and someone else.
Speaker 10: Because I like questioned him about it and I made
Speaker 10: him feel really bad confessed do lie.
Speaker 4: The thing about this, though, is that it's so devastating
Speaker 4: at the time, Like there is nothing more emotionally ruining
Speaker 4: than finding out you're being cheated on. But then it
Speaker 4: always in retrospect years later, once you've done a bit
Speaker 4: of healing, you always find it funny, always like, what
Speaker 4: an idiot?
Speaker 5: That guy's a loser?
Speaker 7: Hey, joining us next a show intervention, not on brit
Speaker 7: not on Laura. On the fourth member of the pickup
Speaker 7: team is that I'm not going to say it, However.
Speaker 5: An extension, if.
Speaker 4: I love that you think she's like the fourth member
Speaker 4: of the pick up I think she's your child. She's
Speaker 4: legitimately your child, which we treat her in the same
Speaker 4: esteem as we do my children. She eats probably better
Speaker 4: on My kids are eating burgers and yours eating air
Speaker 4: fried saltmon.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we've got an intervention. We need to talk to
Speaker 7: Lilah because big moves happening this week in her life.
Speaker 7: We'll get you up to speed with this next on
Speaker 7: the show stand By. Unfortunately, we have some some interesting
Speaker 7: updates in the world of BRIT's dog, Delilah. You're a
Speaker 7: beautiful Australian shepherd. She's beautiful to look at, but to
Speaker 7: spend time with horrific.
Speaker 5: She's not. You love her and she loves you, and
Speaker 5: if she heard you say that, Mitch, she she'd be
Speaker 5: so hurt. She is a beautiful dog.
Speaker 4: And I like and Delilah to imagine like that person
Speaker 4: that you went to school with, where they are so
Speaker 4: hot that they didn't have to work on their personality.
Speaker 5: That's what I mean.
Speaker 4: That sounds me to she's so hot she can get
Speaker 4: away with anything. But I would love to get to
Speaker 4: the bottom of like what's the actual problem, Like do
Speaker 4: we need to sedate her?
Speaker 5: Like what's the next step in this No.
Speaker 7: Because we heard on Tuesday on the show that you're
Speaker 7: having issues keeping a dog walker.
Speaker 3: So not issues keeping one. I have had two dog
Speaker 3: walkers that take turns for two years. They both dumped you,
Speaker 3: but in the last week they both said that, well
Speaker 3: one of them is sort of dumped done. So I
Speaker 3: think she's better suited, you know, with a different pack.
Speaker 3: And the other dog walker, Jody, put her on a
Speaker 3: one month probation.
Speaker 2: We've got Jody on the phone. Now she's joining us.
Speaker 5: We want to get to the roots, John, she moves away, Brett.
Speaker 7: We need to know what is going on with this dog, Jody,
Speaker 7: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi, Hello, everybody by.
Speaker 5: It's okay, it's Delilah Bully.
Speaker 1: Look, I'm not gonna lie. She's she is a little baby,
Speaker 1: bit of a bully, but not all the time. Not
Speaker 1: all the time. She's got her times where she is
Speaker 1: a bit of a beach and then she's got her
Speaker 1: time where she's a bit of an angel.
Speaker 5: I think Deliah's got pretty privileged. That's what I think
Speaker 5: this is.
Speaker 1: She doesn't know, sorry, Brett, like I mean, she literally
Speaker 1: looks like you.
Speaker 2: That's so funny. She's an influencer dog.
Speaker 3: But Tody, you did give us a report card the
Speaker 3: other day because you've put her on like quite a loose.
Speaker 3: I would like to say loose one month probation, because
Speaker 3: after you told me she was on probation, I went home,
Speaker 3: and I'm embarrassed to admit this. I sat down with
Speaker 3: her and I spoke to her like she was a toddler.
Speaker 3: I was like, you are not going to have anyone
Speaker 3: that wants to walk you. You're not going to have any
Speaker 3: other dog friends. I was like, you need to rain
Speaker 3: your behavior in and that I thought I was crazy
Speaker 3: if anyone saw me doing that.
Speaker 5: How was she the next day?
Speaker 1: She was absolutely fun until I picked up my first dog.
Speaker 1: Delana's got a thing where she is incredibly territorial. She
Speaker 1: thinks that any human that's worth her is hers. She's
Speaker 1: got about eighty seven mothers, and so when she's worth me,
Speaker 1: she thinks she is absolutely in charge of all the
Speaker 1: dogs and my car. So she wasn't the greatest student.
Speaker 1: When I picked up a few dogs. She has to
Speaker 1: be in the front with me, and yeah, she just
Speaker 1: basically like, if I'm not really holding her back, I
Speaker 1: think she may jump over and like tell them what's what.
Speaker 1: But because I am prepared for it, I don't allow
Speaker 1: it to happen.
Speaker 3: Do you know what Jodie I actually had after we
Speaker 3: spoke about it the other day, I had so many
Speaker 3: people right out that are the parents of Australian shepherds,
Speaker 3: and they all said the same thing. They were like,
Speaker 3: it's not you, it's an Aussie trait where they have
Speaker 3: this like weird obsession with the humans.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, they are so loyal and so protective, and because
Speaker 1: they're really really affectionate as well, that mix of sort
Speaker 1: of protection but also lovingless they lovingness. They get so
Speaker 1: confused and I just think it ultimately comes down to
Speaker 1: protection and loyalty. She doesn't get that she can share.
Speaker 1: She's just not a good share act, not a.
Speaker 7: Good share well, like a mum, Jody. While we have
Speaker 7: you the question that the whole country wants to.
Speaker 5: Know, everyone's on the edge of their set.
Speaker 7: Actually me, are you going to keep Delilah and put
Speaker 7: in the work to making her a reformed dog?
Speaker 2: Or are you firing Delilah right now?
Speaker 5: No pressure?
Speaker 2: Do I need to pay you more?
Speaker 1: Look a bit of column deep. But let's rehash this
Speaker 1: in a month and I'll give you an answer.
Speaker 5: So she's still on probation.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, report it's been one world.
Speaker 1: It's been one, but I still love her with all
Speaker 1: my heart. You know that. So let's chat in a
Speaker 1: few weeks and we'll go from there.
Speaker 2: Updates on that to car, let's go