1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Christian No Common Show podcast. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: So many amazing stories coming out of the Olympics this week. 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: One of our favorite ones happened yesterday with Jess Fox 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: and then her dad Richard Fox, a legend himself, commentating 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: as well. Richard is on the line right now. 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: Good morning Richard, Good morning Christian. 7 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 3: Good morning from Penrith. 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: Good morning, Penrith, and from us in Melbourne. 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: Richard, I got to say, you moved us all to 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: tears yesterday, you and your amazing daughter winning gold and 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: what a story. 12 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: How do you feel this morning? 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 3: Oh good? I mean I didn't sleep so much, but 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 3: I woke up and I'm messaging back and forth across 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 3: the world and yeah, amazing, feel good. And we're out 16 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: on the riverbank of the Nepean here and one degree 17 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 3: so a bit chilly, No amazing. Spoken to Jess in Tokyo, 18 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 3: spoken to Miriam and yeah they're buzzing and it's been great, 19 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 3: so much support, so much love, And couldn't be prouder. 20 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I bet the thing that I may is right. 21 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: As a dad myself who just loses it whenever his 22 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 2: kids are in like a school play, how do you 23 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: remain so calm. 24 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 3: Richard, Well, I lost it quietly at the end. I look, 25 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 3: I admit that. No, I yeah, obviously it's an emotional thing, 26 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 3: and doing the commentary is actually a good way for 27 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 3: me to process all of that, because you know, I'm 28 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 3: from the sport and I was sort of in almost 29 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 3: in the boat and living the technique and the feeling 30 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: and the performance. So but once it's over, or you know, 31 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: even before it happens, Yeah, there's a lot of tension 32 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: and emotion and so many feelings that are attached to it. 33 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, I guess I knew when she was coming 34 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: down towards the last section that she just had to 35 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 3: finish it off. Well. She had a bit of an advantage, 36 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: so it was just so good to see, so good 37 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 3: to feel, and she was in a dark place after 38 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 3: the race on the Tuesday where she you know, she 39 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: struggled a little bit on the course, but she she 40 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 3: was ahead and it was there for the taking, and 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 3: then she made that mistake at the end of the course, 42 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: she hit the gate and that that you know, scarred 43 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: her heavily and she had to come back from that. 44 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: And I think it was a great competition because the 45 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 3: British athlete Mallory Franklin. She put down this huge score 46 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 3: and when you see that, when you know the sport 47 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: and you just think that's the bar, the bar has 48 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 3: gone up and she's still got to get over that. 49 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 3: So that was that added anovel, another layer of tension. 50 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,119 Speaker 2: And tell me this, then, what advice do you give 51 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 2: her then? As a dad and also someone who competed 52 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: a very high level, you know, ten time world champion yourself, 53 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 2: how do you help your daughter from the mistake and 54 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 2: the bronze? So then learn from that, move on and 55 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: not carry it forward to when she's competing yesterday. 56 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: What do you say? 57 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no playbook in life for that because you 58 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 3: just don't know. And I actually didn't sleep that well 59 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: the night before the last final, and I got thinking, 60 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 3: what do I say? I'll wait till the morning, and 61 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: I talked about Yeah, I just gave us some keywords 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 3: to think about. And you know, one of the things 63 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: I said at the end, which I think, is, you know, 64 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: for every parent, when you've got your kids in sport 65 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: or any sort of activity where they're under the pump 66 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: a little bit, you know, love love beyond the finish, 67 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: So that whatever happens, you've got that. And then we 68 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 3: had a little chat yesterday morning before the race. I 69 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 3: talked about courage and confidence and control and that you've 70 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 3: got to have that for those moments. You've got to 71 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 3: have courage. And there was a time very early on 72 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: in her career where we were in a World championship. 73 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 3: She was sixteen, and it was the toughest course. You know, 74 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 3: there's a big drop and she got hammered and it 75 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 3: was one of those defining moments where you either get 76 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: back on the horse so to speak, you know, back 77 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 3: in the boat and run it again, or you know, 78 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 3: it's a very delicate moment to say, what do you 79 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 3: want to do? Do you want to go? Is this 80 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: what you want to do? Do you want to get 81 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 3: back in and have another go? And we talked about 82 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 3: that moment and I yeah, so as I say, there's 83 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 3: no playbook for it, but that was what we talked about, 84 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 3: and she had to dig really deep. You know, she 85 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 3: had incredible courage to you know, bring out that performance, 86 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: and she talked about how nervous she was, so yeah, 87 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 3: and I think, you know, if it doesn't happen, you've 88 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: still got to have that love for the person because 89 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 3: it's not you know, you're there in competition at the Olympics, 90 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 3: it's what she loves to do. The chances you know, 91 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 3: just as high or higher that she's not going to 92 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 3: succeed because the bar is set so high. So she 93 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 3: was in that defining moment of you know, will I 94 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: do it? Am I good enough? Can I? And amazingly 95 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 3: she did. So, Yeah, it was It was very special, 96 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 3: but it's challenging. But I think being there and having 97 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 3: that support was important. 98 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 2: Was it hard for you being not out there? Was 99 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 2: it really hard? Commentating? And I wish I was there 100 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: to give her a hug? 101 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: Was that hard? 102 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 2: Richard? 103 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 3: Yes, but we knew it was going to be like that. 104 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 3: And so in fact, the way following the games, and 105 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 3: I was saying this this morning to seven is actually 106 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 3: being very very different, very revealing through the eye of 107 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 3: the camera and you can see so much more. You 108 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: can see the expression on the start line, and when 109 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 3: you know the person, you can read a lot into that, 110 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 3: into the emotion then. And how so I was more 111 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 3: into the competition than I've ever been before. You miss 112 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: a lot of that when you're you're there live. Of course, 113 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 3: it's great to be there. But you know, with you know, 114 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 3: all the technology today, we're in constant contact and you know, 115 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: it's been okay, and we knew it was going to 116 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,119 Speaker 3: be like that, so you know, it wasn't a shock. 117 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 3: And I've enjoyed being part of the public, if you like. 118 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 3: The plan was to be in the stands actually, and 119 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: I would have been, you know, I would have been 120 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 3: there for the hug at the finish or whatever. But 121 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 3: this has also been amazing. 122 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. 123 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 3: You know. 124 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: The winner is Jess's and Jess as loan, but she 125 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 2: is a real credit to you, mirroring your wife as well. 126 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: And the great thing about her is yesterday is the 127 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 2: other athlete. Some of the other partners were walking alongside 128 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: while she was doing her race, cheering her on. She's 129 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 2: she's a realness. She will actually inspire so many young 130 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 2: boys and girls to take it up. She'll inspire the 131 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 2: next generation. Are you are you aware of that? 132 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 3: Oh? Look, she she does. And I think she you know, 133 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 3: she really takes on that. It's not a responsibility, but 134 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 3: she takes on that role and she knows how she 135 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 3: was impacted by others. She when she grew up, I 136 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: mean obviously her parents are in the sport and she 137 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 3: sort of said that for breakfast every day. But I 138 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 3: remember when. 139 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:39,559 Speaker 2: We before breakfast, you get in that canoe, yeah before okay, 140 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: then breakfast, okay, stop crying. 141 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. And I remember, you know, we went to Bay 142 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 3: Athens in Beijing as coaches, and you know there was 143 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 3: always the homecoming and you come off the plane and 144 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 3: they were always you know ian Thorpe Animeres and all 145 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: Susie O'Neil, all these great legends and so you know, 146 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 3: she was inspired by all of that, and I think 147 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 3: she feels this real sense of joy of sharing that, 148 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 3: and she loves the connection with the schools and with 149 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: families and sharing. So I think, well, yeah, she'll really 150 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: embrace that moving forward and hopefully you know, bring a 151 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 3: lot to other people, and you know to the mums 152 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 3: and dad too. I mean with Miriam, they have they 153 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 3: have such a lot of violent and great stories to tell. 154 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: Awesome. 155 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: One final question. When I was a kid growing up 156 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 2: in England, Rich and I remember you on a TV show. 157 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember this. It was a 158 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 2: strange show. The BBC used it for school children while 159 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 2: they're on the summer break and it was a game 160 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 2: show based around canoeing. Do you remember paddles up? 161 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 3: I do? I do? And that's so funny you mentioned 162 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 3: it because the girls when they were growing up, they 163 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: loved laughing at their dad when they pulled up the 164 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 3: videos from it and they, yeah, there are some famous 165 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: moments from it. 166 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so, I mean everyone in Australia won't know about 167 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: the show, but it really was like a game show 168 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 2: based around canoe and I seem to remember you would 169 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 2: always smash it. But didn't your one point right have 170 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: to get your canoe out the water and hit a football? 171 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh there was. Yeah, there were tricks like that, 172 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 3: and there was an Eskimaux role in it. So when 173 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 3: you kip over and you've got to come back up. Yes, 174 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: And this is the piece they loved the most because 175 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 3: you know, I didn't do it very well. I didn't 176 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: come up at the first tent and I got stuck 177 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: between two obstacles. My boat you know, snapped basically snapped 178 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 3: in two, and they just kept you know, I don't 179 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 3: know their age or nine or whatever, they just keep 180 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 3: playing that him laughing at their dad stucking it up. 181 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm going to speak to Channel 182 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 2: seven on your behalf. Paddles up needs to come back. Okay, yeah, 183 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 2: you and Jess and Miriam are the hosts. Pulls up 184 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 2: Channel seven. Let's bring it back. 185 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be up for it, all right. 186 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: We'll let you go. You've given Australia so much inspiration. 187 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: Joy Jess is amazing. She's one of the highlights. She's 188 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 2: going to be one of the clips that we that 189 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: Australia plays back when they do highlight reels. They'll be Catherineman, 190 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 2: you know, Thorpe and Aimes, but also going to be 191 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 2: your daughter, Jess. So you should be really proud. She's 192 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 2: given us so much. I loved getting to know her 193 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 2: and you guys in your story as well. So thanks Richard, 194 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: and thanks Jess as well, and your wife Miriam as much. 195 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: It has been lovely chatting to you today. 196 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 3: Thanks Christian, we've just lost him, so I will say 197 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 3: thank you. 198 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 1: Who are you? 199 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 3: I'm the offer I'm feeling with. 200 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm Christian, by the way you live on God. I know, Christian, 201 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You know that he's all right. 202 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 2: Isn't following that river? He's what the side of it 203 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: was excitements aren't coming back. It's calling his agent. He's 204 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 2: cutting me out the deal. Well, listen, you have a 205 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: lovely weekend. 206 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: Nice to chat anyway. 207 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 3: That's to check to you too. 208 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: Things guys, when we say stuff like we're on hold 209 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: with Channel seven, this is what happens in our world. 210 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: Richard didn't say her, Why Richard was it? 211 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 3: Paddles up Carlin a brighter Now you're listening to the 212 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,719 Speaker 3: Christian Know Carls Show podcast