WEBVTT - The Man Suing A Woman For Refusing To Date Him ⚖️

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>Flexing froomes on Cada. Look, life is a lot, and

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, what's that quote? Suffering is inevitable? Larva

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<v Speaker 2>say lar v babe. We just got to chase the high,

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<v Speaker 2>non drug related of just life and living. If we

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<v Speaker 2>were committed to enjoying as much as we are committed

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<v Speaker 2>to like not enjoying life would be the best. Imagine

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<v Speaker 2>if you walked to every room and you were like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I make this room funner? That's me nicer, just.

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<v Speaker 3>Kidding, just kidding, but big enjoyment on what's the thing

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<v Speaker 3>you staying with me for a few years? You coined

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<v Speaker 3>that I did not, But thank you you brought it

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<v Speaker 3>to my attention. I did your flexing firmes.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's cool you're listening to Flex and Frooms on CADA.

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<v Speaker 2>If you've ever found yourself in an unrequited love situation,

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<v Speaker 2>how to crush that it's a friend that doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>you in the way that you want them, or you

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<v Speaker 2>can sue them for a hefty sum. I'm talking three

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<v Speaker 2>point two four million dollars. Baby, this is a real story.

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<v Speaker 2>A Singaporean man had this situation. He was friends with

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<v Speaker 2>a girl for a give or take about four years.

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<v Speaker 2>Around the four year mark, he revealed to her like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really keen on you. We have a great connection.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, oh babe, and shut him down gently.

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<v Speaker 2>He was not happy about that. He said, this is

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna work for me. I'm distressed. This is causing

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<v Speaker 2>me trauma I will not recover, to which she said,

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<v Speaker 2>I understand what you're saying. As a friend. I really

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<v Speaker 2>care for you. We could never date. He says, well, then,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you gonna do for me? She says, couple's therapy.

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<v Speaker 2>They go for eighteen months. He's like, not good enough.

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<v Speaker 2>She's soft coast sim as I do recommend a subtle

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<v Speaker 2>wean is always really nice to get people off your trail.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she gets a letter in the mail, a

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<v Speaker 2>court summons saying that she's been sued a lawsuit three

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<v Speaker 2>point two four million dollars. She says, what why? What

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<v Speaker 2>are you suing me for? He says, and I quote

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<v Speaker 2>indefinite loss of potential investment, rehabilitation and therapy programs to

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<v Speaker 2>overcome the sustained trauma of this situation as well as

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<v Speaker 2>reductions in his earning capacity. Can I get a hurrah?

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<v Speaker 1>He really said, I've had won too many mental health

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<v Speaker 1>four years.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, I've been doing the long con, the long game,

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<v Speaker 2>and it didn't work out, to which she said or

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<v Speaker 2>in response, she got a protection order as one does.

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<v Speaker 2>Who rah. She also lodged the harassment suit necessary necessary

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<v Speaker 2>and it's gotten house security additionally necessary. And then so

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<v Speaker 2>people have been coming to how that's an alarming picture

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<v Speaker 2>of male entitlement and harassment. I will say a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of weeks ago we did talk about this phenomenon in China,

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<v Speaker 2>where amongst the quote unquote elite women who feel as

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<v Speaker 2>though they've had their time wasted by men who have

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<v Speaker 2>strung them along and then not married them can too

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<v Speaker 2>or can request a breakup gift, usually in the form

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<v Speaker 2>of cash equivalent to what they would be o for

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<v Speaker 2>that wasted time.

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<v Speaker 1>And for that, I say, go all the way off,

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<v Speaker 1>go queen. That's its keita flex and frooms flex and

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<v Speaker 1>frooms FLEXI.

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<v Speaker 3>It was recently my birthday. I am twenty five years

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<v Speaker 3>old aka twenty eight minus COVID.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which we're going by those simple masks.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody who gets to geest.

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<v Speaker 1>It Kobedian calendar. Yeah is what we call it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good Bom.

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<v Speaker 3>And back on my birthday in the third of March,

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<v Speaker 3>we were talking about perfection. So I've heard about astrology.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really dabble in the dark arts of astrology

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<v Speaker 3>or the light.

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<v Speaker 2>Art, despite coming from a very spooky family that does

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<v Speaker 2>say answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, we deal just with death, not life.

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<v Speaker 2>True.

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<v Speaker 1>It is that kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a I think I like the feeling of

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<v Speaker 3>a strong emotion of scaredness. Wow, I said this sort

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<v Speaker 3>of say I did my perfections? Explain to me what

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<v Speaker 3>a perfection is place.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So initially you were talking about your satin return, which

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<v Speaker 2>happens generally between twenty eight and thirty. It's where like

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<v Speaker 2>stuff happens. We won't get into it, to which I responded,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not your sat in return yet, but have you

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<v Speaker 2>looked at what your perfection is for this year? And

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<v Speaker 2>you had said no, and it said what is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Perfection basically means what is the theme of your year

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<v Speaker 2>based on how old you're turning and the planets and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't need the details really, but you turned twenty

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<v Speaker 2>eight this year. So according to this very helpful wheel,

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<v Speaker 2>you're in your fifth house perfection year. That fifth house

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<v Speaker 2>is ruled by Taurus. So what that means for you

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<v Speaker 2>is that this year the theme that's going to naturally

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<v Speaker 2>be coming up perhaps of importance to you, or it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be like permeating through your priorities. It's creativity, recreation, procreation, entertainment, pleasures, romance,

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<v Speaker 2>children and play. I see this for myself very exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>Last year was my fifth house perfection year, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>when I was like, I want to do socialite era.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do La la la, because I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>tourist Venus it's a Taurust house. I was like it

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<v Speaker 2>was aligning for me, and like, I'm gonna go to

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<v Speaker 2>Ghana for one month. I'm gonna enj I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>created worked doubt. That was a natural vibe. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even know. I did some more research for you. Usually

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<v Speaker 2>I like to research things about myself just so I

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<v Speaker 2>can apply it more. But I thought it's good to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very interested in what this year will hold for

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<v Speaker 2>you because last year, off the record, we had some

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<v Speaker 2>discussions about you just experiencing life in a different way.

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<v Speaker 2>But is this off the record or on the record,

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<v Speaker 2>And we had off the record discussions. Oh, yes, we're

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<v Speaker 2>on We've questioned, so you know about how you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>life differently. You're taking conscious steps to build and curate

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<v Speaker 2>a life that suits current you, which is so sick

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<v Speaker 2>and it's nice to see you in action. Because I've

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<v Speaker 2>said this before, but a lot of the qualities I

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<v Speaker 2>like about you or that I admire is that you

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<v Speaker 2>carry this sense of like this energetic It's not even

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<v Speaker 2>like it's not just being energetic, but you are really

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<v Speaker 2>radiant and social and excitable, and you don't have a

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<v Speaker 2>really dampened spirit, which I think is really awesome because

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<v Speaker 2>they interact with people. I'm like, gosh, life is on

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<v Speaker 2>a number on you, and you're ruining my vibe. I

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<v Speaker 2>must say, I'm blessed, truly. It's really nice to have

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<v Speaker 2>that perspective and that outlooking to be really present. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean not in like an attention way, but just in

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<v Speaker 2>like a living life way. So for you to be

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<v Speaker 2>having a fifth House Perfection year is just allowing you

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<v Speaker 2>to like to go hard to maintain that energy that

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<v Speaker 2>you've co created so beautifully with you and your higher self.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool, honey, So tell me, can I go back through

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<v Speaker 3>all the other years of my life and look at

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<v Speaker 3>the perfection ye here, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The last time. So my last fifth House perfection year

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<v Speaker 2>before this one. Let me get my sabler and me

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<v Speaker 2>get my sable. This is the table.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I got one for me as well. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>it's like a spider web. It's yeah, a spider web.

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<v Speaker 3>And so you're able to go back. So you can

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<v Speaker 3>do a perfection based on your age, the age you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be turning, and that's like a yearly theme,

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<v Speaker 3>or you can do one based on your birthday. I

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<v Speaker 3>just do the age and call it a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So if for me is twenty eight now and

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<v Speaker 2>she's no fifth House perfection year, you're also in your

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<v Speaker 2>fifth house when you are sixteen, and you'll be in

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<v Speaker 2>your fifth house again when you're forty.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So for example, this year, for me, I'm in my

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<v Speaker 2>sixth House perfection year because I'm twenty nine? Am I

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<v Speaker 2>twenty No, I'm twenty eight, but I'm turning twenty nine? Yeah, God,

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<v Speaker 2>that's confused. So sixth house a steleja.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's have a look. What does your year hold.

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<v Speaker 2>On, ready for this. Everyone of the sixth house corresponds

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<v Speaker 2>with health, wellness, fitness, daily routines. This is what you want,

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<v Speaker 2>it's happening. Hold on, let me read out some more.

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<v Speaker 2>If you let me read us some more. Where the

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<v Speaker 2>body you're born with exists in the first house, the

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<v Speaker 2>choice is made of a lifetime created the body found

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<v Speaker 2>in your six house. Naturally, our environment and life choices

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<v Speaker 2>affect our health, such as self care, having good work

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<v Speaker 2>life balance, whether you spend energy, whether you spend enough

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<v Speaker 2>or too much time in the sun or outside, just

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<v Speaker 2>paying more attention to your physical and mental well being.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the vibe. And that's what I've been doing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy, unbeknownst to me. So the perfection.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you're listening to this, then you want to

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<v Speaker 3>do your perfections. Google Perfections Calendar. Now it looks like

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<v Speaker 3>a whole bunch of symbols, so I might need something

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<v Speaker 3>to explain.

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<v Speaker 2>Next, let's find a website. Okay, what you want to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Go to Google, type in in style yep, and the

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<v Speaker 2>article is called how to use an annual perfections wheel

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out what twenty twenty three will look like

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<v Speaker 2>for you. You're going to scroll down. It's going to

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<v Speaker 2>show you a wheel, and in that wheel there are

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<v Speaker 2>some ages. You're going to pick the age you're turning

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<v Speaker 2>this year. Check if it's in the fourth, the first, second, third, fourth,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever house, and then that is going to show you

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<v Speaker 2>what the theme is for this year. Let's do Brookie, Brookie,

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<v Speaker 2>what age you're turning this year? Brookie's turning twenty six.

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<v Speaker 2>This is her third house Perfection year. The third house

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<v Speaker 2>is about communication in all forms. Becomes key when you're

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<v Speaker 2>in your third House Perfection year. During this time, the

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<v Speaker 2>way you express yourself to others becomes highlighted. You're encouraged

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<v Speaker 2>to tap into your own thoughts and feelings with greater depth,

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<v Speaker 2>and to explore communication, conversations, and even the written word

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<v Speaker 2>more deeply. Third years are often a time for publishing,

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<v Speaker 2>creating a greater social media presence through writing. They said,

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<v Speaker 2>get a job, short distance travel, familiar relationships. Let me

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<v Speaker 2>also finish off with this because I think this might

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<v Speaker 2>be more helpful. Wait, what's the asc house rising?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? What ceeds?

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<v Speaker 2>Is your rising?

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<v Speaker 1>Ac is one house?

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<v Speaker 3>One?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you're a sender? Is your first house?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Okay okay, So.

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<v Speaker 2>The third house rules your mind and your intellect. It

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<v Speaker 2>reveals how you approach and analyze problems and how you

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<v Speaker 2>perceive information. It drives your overall learning and communicate your

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<v Speaker 2>communicative process. For example, this house administer skills and writing, editing, speaking, thinking, reading,

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<v Speaker 2>conductive research. Babes, you're in your time. Oh wow, bad,

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<v Speaker 2>you're in your time? So what often happens?

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<v Speaker 1>Does?

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<v Speaker 2>People often will want to use astrology to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>questions like when am I going to be in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>When am I going to move overseas? And so looking

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<v Speaker 2>at your perfection you can see what themes are naturally

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<v Speaker 2>going to come up. So a lot of the times,

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<v Speaker 2>generally generalizing, you might fall in love in your Venus

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<v Speaker 2>perfection year in your fifth house.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's go boys.

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<v Speaker 2>All right boys, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me know how you go. I real baby flex

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm bringing back Instagram quotes not quotes that originated

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram but are seen frequently on Instagram Explore generally,

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<v Speaker 2>which I do recommend you jump into that. The hierarchy

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<v Speaker 2>is Instagram stories Instagram Explore than Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Feed as in what's most interesting? Absolutely Yeah, the exploor page. Literally,

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<v Speaker 3>I just get dual leap of dancing. That's weird, and

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<v Speaker 3>I have the last six months.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you got stop hate watching ruined your algorithm?

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<v Speaker 2>It really does now. The quote it's from powlo Quello

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<v Speaker 2>and it goes the fear of suffering is often worse

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<v Speaker 2>than suffering itself. How do you feel about that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>It's making sense.

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<v Speaker 2>It's made too much sense. And I've been thinking a

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<v Speaker 2>lot about it because I've been trying to I told

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<v Speaker 2>you that part of my twenty twenty three ins and

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<v Speaker 2>outs was not taking the bait. I'm someone who gets

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<v Speaker 2>really riled up very quickly, Like I let things get

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<v Speaker 2>to me very quickly. I take things personally all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't just let things go really Yeah, in my heart,

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<v Speaker 2>Like on the surface, I'm like it's whatever, just clocking.

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<v Speaker 2>In my heart, I'm like holding a grudge. Right, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>still be people black to your face, but definitely know

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<v Speaker 2>you're dead to me, not you, but you could be no.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was thinking about how now that I've overcorrected

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<v Speaker 2>in that way, I'm not as confrontational as I would

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<v Speaker 2>like to be. Like sometimes I'm just like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to have this conversation. It's gonna make me upset,

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<v Speaker 2>and therefore, if I get upset, I'm gonna be down

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<v Speaker 2>and have the blues. I want to do that, And

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<v Speaker 2>then I get into this like spiral of worry of

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<v Speaker 2>being like but if I did, but if I didn't,

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<v Speaker 2>but if I did, but if I didn't, I just

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<v Speaker 2>go back to og brute flex and just have the confrontation.

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<v Speaker 2>At least i'd know how I felt, rather than like

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<v Speaker 2>getting really comfortable with the possibility of things going poorly,

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<v Speaker 2>because what if things go well?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, Well, that's just anxiety, is it, not worrying about

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<v Speaker 3>what's actually gonna happen. Then often this is like exposure therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>If youved on exposure therapy, I told you about exposure therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>Plenty of podcasts. Every second episode. I'm going to exposure therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why I'm eating coriander.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, you're doing it? Is the food thing exposure therapy? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Okay, then we're doing nintended.

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<v Speaker 2>The food thing that for me is referencing is I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a reforming, picky eater. But I made a decision overnight

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<v Speaker 2>to just start eating foods that I once said I

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<v Speaker 2>vehemently hated and it actually quite works. Is now my

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<v Speaker 2>palate is more developed and I enjoy eating more foods.

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<v Speaker 2>Who would have thought so.

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<v Speaker 1>Strawberries are not to be scared of.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually have a friend who's never eaten a strawberry.

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<v Speaker 1>This one's for her. Suffering is not as bad as

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<v Speaker 1>the fear of suffering.

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<v Speaker 2>Great. A nice little edit from Frooms.

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