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Speaker 2: Flexing froomes on Cada. Look, life is a lot, and
Speaker 2: I feel like, what's that quote? Suffering is inevitable? Larva
Speaker 2: say lar v babe. We just got to chase the high,
Speaker 2: non drug related of just life and living. If we
Speaker 2: were committed to enjoying as much as we are committed
Speaker 2: to like not enjoying life would be the best. Imagine
Speaker 2: if you walked to every room and you were like,
Speaker 2: how do I make this room funner? That's me nicer, just.
Speaker 3: Kidding, just kidding, but big enjoyment on what's the thing
Speaker 3: you staying with me for a few years? You coined
Speaker 3: that I did not, But thank you you brought it
Speaker 3: to my attention. I did your flexing firmes.
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Speaker 2: If you've ever found yourself in an unrequited love situation,
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Speaker 2: A Singaporean man had this situation. He was friends with
Speaker 2: a girl for a give or take about four years.
Speaker 2: Around the four year mark, he revealed to her like, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm really keen on you. We have a great connection.
Speaker 2: She was like, oh babe, and shut him down gently.
Speaker 2: He was not happy about that. He said, this is
Speaker 2: not gonna work for me. I'm distressed. This is causing
Speaker 2: me trauma I will not recover, to which she said,
Speaker 2: I understand what you're saying. As a friend. I really
Speaker 2: care for you. We could never date. He says, well, then,
Speaker 2: what are you gonna do for me? She says, couple's therapy.
Speaker 2: They go for eighteen months. He's like, not good enough.
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Speaker 2: And then she gets a letter in the mail, a
Speaker 2: court summons saying that she's been sued a lawsuit three
Speaker 2: point two four million dollars. She says, what why? What
Speaker 2: are you suing me for? He says, and I quote
Speaker 2: indefinite loss of potential investment, rehabilitation and therapy programs to
Speaker 2: overcome the sustained trauma of this situation as well as
Speaker 2: reductions in his earning capacity. Can I get a hurrah?
Speaker 1: He really said, I've had won too many mental health
Speaker 1: four years.
Speaker 2: He said, I've been doing the long con, the long game,
Speaker 2: and it didn't work out, to which she said or
Speaker 2: in response, she got a protection order as one does.
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Speaker 2: people have been coming to how that's an alarming picture
Speaker 2: of male entitlement and harassment. I will say a couple
Speaker 2: of weeks ago we did talk about this phenomenon in China,
Speaker 2: where amongst the quote unquote elite women who feel as
Speaker 2: though they've had their time wasted by men who have
Speaker 2: strung them along and then not married them can too
Speaker 2: or can request a breakup gift, usually in the form
Speaker 2: of cash equivalent to what they would be o for
Speaker 2: that wasted time.
Speaker 1: And for that, I say, go all the way off,
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Speaker 3: It was recently my birthday. I am twenty five years
Speaker 3: old aka twenty eight minus COVID.
Speaker 1: Yeah, which we're going by those simple masks.
Speaker 2: Anybody who gets to geest.
Speaker 1: It Kobedian calendar. Yeah is what we call it.
Speaker 2: That's good Bom.
Speaker 3: And back on my birthday in the third of March,
Speaker 3: we were talking about perfection. So I've heard about astrology.
Speaker 3: I don't really dabble in the dark arts of astrology
Speaker 3: or the light.
Speaker 2: Art, despite coming from a very spooky family that does
Speaker 2: say answers.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, we deal just with death, not life.
Speaker 2: True.
Speaker 1: It is that kind of vibe.
Speaker 3: It's like a I think I like the feeling of
Speaker 3: a strong emotion of scaredness. Wow, I said this sort
Speaker 3: of say I did my perfections? Explain to me what
Speaker 3: a perfection is place.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: So initially you were talking about your satin return, which
Speaker 2: happens generally between twenty eight and thirty. It's where like
Speaker 2: stuff happens. We won't get into it, to which I responded,
Speaker 2: you're not your sat in return yet, but have you
Speaker 2: looked at what your perfection is for this year? And
Speaker 2: you had said no, and it said what is it?
Speaker 2: Perfection basically means what is the theme of your year
Speaker 2: based on how old you're turning and the planets and stuff.
Speaker 2: We don't need the details really, but you turned twenty
Speaker 2: eight this year. So according to this very helpful wheel,
Speaker 2: you're in your fifth house perfection year. That fifth house
Speaker 2: is ruled by Taurus. So what that means for you
Speaker 2: is that this year the theme that's going to naturally
Speaker 2: be coming up perhaps of importance to you, or it's
Speaker 2: gonna be like permeating through your priorities. It's creativity, recreation, procreation, entertainment, pleasures, romance,
Speaker 2: children and play. I see this for myself very exciting.
Speaker 2: Last year was my fifth house perfection year, and that's
Speaker 2: when I was like, I want to do socialite era.
Speaker 2: I want to do La la la, because I'm a
Speaker 2: tourist Venus it's a Taurust house. I was like it
Speaker 2: was aligning for me, and like, I'm gonna go to
Speaker 2: Ghana for one month. I'm gonna enj I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: created worked doubt. That was a natural vibe. I didn't
Speaker 2: even know. I did some more research for you. Usually
Speaker 2: I like to research things about myself just so I
Speaker 2: can apply it more. But I thought it's good to know.
Speaker 2: I'm very interested in what this year will hold for
Speaker 2: you because last year, off the record, we had some
Speaker 2: discussions about you just experiencing life in a different way.
Speaker 2: But is this off the record or on the record,
Speaker 2: And we had off the record discussions. Oh, yes, we're
Speaker 2: on We've questioned, so you know about how you're doing
Speaker 2: life differently. You're taking conscious steps to build and curate
Speaker 2: a life that suits current you, which is so sick
Speaker 2: and it's nice to see you in action. Because I've
Speaker 2: said this before, but a lot of the qualities I
Speaker 2: like about you or that I admire is that you
Speaker 2: carry this sense of like this energetic It's not even
Speaker 2: like it's not just being energetic, but you are really
Speaker 2: radiant and social and excitable, and you don't have a
Speaker 2: really dampened spirit, which I think is really awesome because
Speaker 2: they interact with people. I'm like, gosh, life is on
Speaker 2: a number on you, and you're ruining my vibe. I
Speaker 2: must say, I'm blessed, truly. It's really nice to have
Speaker 2: that perspective and that outlooking to be really present. I
Speaker 2: mean not in like an attention way, but just in
Speaker 2: like a living life way. So for you to be
Speaker 2: having a fifth House Perfection year is just allowing you
Speaker 2: to like to go hard to maintain that energy that
Speaker 2: you've co created so beautifully with you and your higher self.
Speaker 3: Cool, honey, So tell me, can I go back through
Speaker 3: all the other years of my life and look at
Speaker 3: the perfection ye here, okay.
Speaker 2: The last time. So my last fifth House perfection year
Speaker 2: before this one. Let me get my sabler and me
Speaker 2: get my sable. This is the table.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got one for me as well. It's like
Speaker 3: it's like a spider web. It's yeah, a spider web.
Speaker 3: And so you're able to go back. So you can
Speaker 3: do a perfection based on your age, the age you're
Speaker 3: going to be turning, and that's like a yearly theme,
Speaker 3: or you can do one based on your birthday. I
Speaker 3: just do the age and call it a day.
Speaker 2: Okay. So if for me is twenty eight now and
Speaker 2: she's no fifth House perfection year, you're also in your
Speaker 2: fifth house when you are sixteen, and you'll be in
Speaker 2: your fifth house again when you're forty.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So for example, this year, for me, I'm in my
Speaker 2: sixth House perfection year because I'm twenty nine? Am I
Speaker 2: twenty No, I'm twenty eight, but I'm turning twenty nine? Yeah, God,
Speaker 2: that's confused. So sixth house a steleja.
Speaker 1: Let's have a look. What does your year hold.
Speaker 2: On, ready for this. Everyone of the sixth house corresponds
Speaker 2: with health, wellness, fitness, daily routines. This is what you want,
Speaker 2: it's happening. Hold on, let me read out some more.
Speaker 2: If you let me read us some more. Where the
Speaker 2: body you're born with exists in the first house, the
Speaker 2: choice is made of a lifetime created the body found
Speaker 2: in your six house. Naturally, our environment and life choices
Speaker 2: affect our health, such as self care, having good work
Speaker 2: life balance, whether you spend energy, whether you spend enough
Speaker 2: or too much time in the sun or outside, just
Speaker 2: paying more attention to your physical and mental well being.
Speaker 2: That is the vibe. And that's what I've been doing.
Speaker 1: That's crazy, unbeknownst to me. So the perfection.
Speaker 3: So if you're listening to this, then you want to
Speaker 3: do your perfections. Google Perfections Calendar. Now it looks like
Speaker 3: a whole bunch of symbols, so I might need something
Speaker 3: to explain.
Speaker 2: Next, let's find a website. Okay, what you want to do?
Speaker 2: Go to Google, type in in style yep, and the
Speaker 2: article is called how to use an annual perfections wheel
Speaker 2: to figure out what twenty twenty three will look like
Speaker 2: for you. You're going to scroll down. It's going to
Speaker 2: show you a wheel, and in that wheel there are
Speaker 2: some ages. You're going to pick the age you're turning
Speaker 2: this year. Check if it's in the fourth, the first, second, third, fourth,
Speaker 2: whatever house, and then that is going to show you
Speaker 2: what the theme is for this year. Let's do Brookie, Brookie,
Speaker 2: what age you're turning this year? Brookie's turning twenty six.
Speaker 2: This is her third house Perfection year. The third house
Speaker 2: is about communication in all forms. Becomes key when you're
Speaker 2: in your third House Perfection year. During this time, the
Speaker 2: way you express yourself to others becomes highlighted. You're encouraged
Speaker 2: to tap into your own thoughts and feelings with greater depth,
Speaker 2: and to explore communication, conversations, and even the written word
Speaker 2: more deeply. Third years are often a time for publishing,
Speaker 2: creating a greater social media presence through writing. They said,
Speaker 2: get a job, short distance travel, familiar relationships. Let me
Speaker 2: also finish off with this because I think this might
Speaker 2: be more helpful. Wait, what's the asc house rising?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? What ceeds?
Speaker 2: Is your rising?
Speaker 1: Ac is one house?
Speaker 3: One?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're a sender? Is your first house?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Okay okay, So.
Speaker 2: The third house rules your mind and your intellect. It
Speaker 2: reveals how you approach and analyze problems and how you
Speaker 2: perceive information. It drives your overall learning and communicate your
Speaker 2: communicative process. For example, this house administer skills and writing, editing, speaking, thinking, reading,
Speaker 2: conductive research. Babes, you're in your time. Oh wow, bad,
Speaker 2: you're in your time? So what often happens?
Speaker 1: Does?
Speaker 2: People often will want to use astrology to figure out
Speaker 2: questions like when am I going to be in a relationship?
Speaker 2: When am I going to move overseas? And so looking
Speaker 2: at your perfection you can see what themes are naturally
Speaker 2: going to come up. So a lot of the times,
Speaker 2: generally generalizing, you might fall in love in your Venus
Speaker 2: perfection year in your fifth house.
Speaker 1: All right, let's go boys.
Speaker 2: All right boys, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for that.
Speaker 2: Let me know how you go. I real baby flex
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Speaker 3: Feed as in what's most interesting? Absolutely Yeah, the exploor page. Literally,
Speaker 3: I just get dual leap of dancing. That's weird, and
Speaker 3: I have the last six months.
Speaker 2: That's why you got stop hate watching ruined your algorithm?
Speaker 2: It really does now. The quote it's from powlo Quello
Speaker 2: and it goes the fear of suffering is often worse
Speaker 2: than suffering itself. How do you feel about that? Yeah,
Speaker 2: isn't it?
Speaker 1: It's making sense.
Speaker 2: It's made too much sense. And I've been thinking a
Speaker 2: lot about it because I've been trying to I told
Speaker 2: you that part of my twenty twenty three ins and
Speaker 2: outs was not taking the bait. I'm someone who gets
Speaker 2: really riled up very quickly, Like I let things get
Speaker 2: to me very quickly. I take things personally all the time.
Speaker 2: I can't just let things go really Yeah, in my heart,
Speaker 2: Like on the surface, I'm like it's whatever, just clocking.
Speaker 2: In my heart, I'm like holding a grudge. Right, I'll
Speaker 2: still be people black to your face, but definitely know
Speaker 2: you're dead to me, not you, but you could be no.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: And I was thinking about how now that I've overcorrected
Speaker 2: in that way, I'm not as confrontational as I would
Speaker 2: like to be. Like sometimes I'm just like, I don't
Speaker 2: want to have this conversation. It's gonna make me upset,
Speaker 2: and therefore, if I get upset, I'm gonna be down
Speaker 2: and have the blues. I want to do that, And
Speaker 2: then I get into this like spiral of worry of
Speaker 2: being like but if I did, but if I didn't,
Speaker 2: but if I did, but if I didn't, I just
Speaker 2: go back to og brute flex and just have the confrontation.
Speaker 2: At least i'd know how I felt, rather than like
Speaker 2: getting really comfortable with the possibility of things going poorly,
Speaker 2: because what if things go well?
Speaker 3: Exactly, Well, that's just anxiety, is it, not worrying about
Speaker 3: what's actually gonna happen. Then often this is like exposure therapy.
Speaker 3: If youved on exposure therapy, I told you about exposure therapy.
Speaker 3: Plenty of podcasts. Every second episode. I'm going to exposure therapy.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm eating coriander.
Speaker 1: Wait, you're doing it? Is the food thing exposure therapy? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, then we're doing nintended.
Speaker 2: The food thing that for me is referencing is I'm
Speaker 2: a reforming, picky eater. But I made a decision overnight
Speaker 2: to just start eating foods that I once said I
Speaker 2: vehemently hated and it actually quite works. Is now my
Speaker 2: palate is more developed and I enjoy eating more foods.
Speaker 2: Who would have thought so.
Speaker 1: Strawberries are not to be scared of.
Speaker 3: Actually have a friend who's never eaten a strawberry.
Speaker 1: This one's for her. Suffering is not as bad as
Speaker 1: the fear of suffering.
Speaker 2: Great. A nice little edit from Frooms.
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