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Speaker 1: Need a lift. It's Will and Woody.

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Speaker 2: A young Japanese schoolgirl has been caught flirting with Prince Harry.

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Speaker 2: Don't know if you've seen this story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's that's hyperbole.

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Speaker 2: Surely it's a tiny bit of hyperbole. I do say

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Speaker 2: it with a little bit of with a bit of

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Speaker 2: zeal will And I'm being a bit facetious when I

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Speaker 2: do s. But basically he was doing this. He was

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Speaker 2: doing this tour of this school in Japan in Yokohama,

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Speaker 2: and one of the Yokama, Yokohama. I was practicing before this,

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Speaker 2: but Yokohama. Yeah, and one of the school girls started

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Speaker 2: calling him very handsome. Oh, you're so handsome, You're so beautiful,

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Speaker 2: so handsome. Anyway, what Prince Harry did all part of

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Speaker 2: the joke whatever. He flashed his wedding ring at the

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Speaker 2: school girl as if to say, sorry, I'm taken, and

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Speaker 2: they all had a really big laugh about it.

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Speaker 1: Whenever, Oh, okay, so a little bit of tongyan check

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Speaker 1: at me.

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Speaker 2: There, very very tongue in check. Yeah, I want to

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Speaker 2: ask you or not so tongue in check.

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Speaker 1: His own chair obviously, of course, Will, of.

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Speaker 2: Course I want to ask you a question though. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's obviously done the wedding ring flash as a defense. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: I'm taken, not interested.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate this was in a joking fashion, but if

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Speaker 2: it was in a serious context, my question for you is,

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Speaker 2: do you think flashing a wedding ring is a good

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Speaker 2: defense or do you think it actually makes you more enticing?

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Speaker 1: Were saying flashing the wedding rings or it's wedding rings

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Speaker 1: in general. But I don't think that many people flash

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Speaker 1: their wedding rings unless it's as a joke true, or

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Speaker 1: unless it's, as you said before, a last line of defense,

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Speaker 1: Like somebody has to be saying to you, hey, do

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Speaker 1: you want to go and take this elsewhere? And then

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Speaker 1: you go, hey mate.

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Speaker 2: It's a very direct to me.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like saying to somebody, hey, sorry, I've

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Speaker 1: got a partner.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But you're just saying in general, wedding rings, wedding rings?

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Speaker 1: Are they enticing?

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Speaker 2: Do you think it actually makes you more appealing at

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Speaker 2: like a public place, at a bar, restaurant, whatever, seeing

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Speaker 2: the wedding ring doesn't make him more appealing?

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Speaker 1: I think so.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I think they're taking people are hot. I reckon you know,

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Speaker 1: people always want what they can't have, and somebody's got

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Speaker 1: a wedding ring, You're like, Wow, they're happily married, they're

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Speaker 1: doing their own thing there. I can't get them. And

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Speaker 1: as I said, you want me you can't have, so

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Speaker 1: that makes it more enticing. Whether or not that means

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Speaker 1: that you follow through with that, I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: I think that, you know, naturally you go like wow, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I think it makes someone hotter. Definitely.

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Speaker 2: Do you think there'd be people out there who see

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Speaker 2: a wedding ring and see that as like a goal

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Speaker 2: or a mission and go, I know you're taken, but.

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Speaker 1: Oh maybe in the movies. Well, I think you got

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Speaker 1: to be a bit of warped individual to be looking

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Speaker 1: at somebody who's married and going, I like that challenge,

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Speaker 1: Like that makes me a bit sick, to be honest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a bit gross.

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Speaker 1: It's that's super gross. That's OK, that's bottom of the

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Speaker 1: barrel sort of stuff.

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Speaker 2: I would be interested to hear, though maybe not from

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Speaker 2: those people. But thirteen one oh six five's are number.

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Speaker 2: We're asking the question if a wedding ring makes you

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Speaker 2: more enticingly.

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Speaker 1: Because there's too different size of this argument here there's enticing,

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Speaker 1: which what I was talking about before. It's just like overall,

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Speaker 1: you're more a versus Would I actually have a throw

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Speaker 1: at the stumps?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Sure, sure, sure, But I'd like to hear from married

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Speaker 2: people here. Yeah, if you do go out with a

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Speaker 2: wedding ring, do people flirt with you all the time?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Like, do people actually approach you in bars when you've

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Speaker 2: clearly got a wedding ring on because you are so enticing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, yeah, practically, And if you want to call

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Speaker 1: up and admit that you're the one that hasn't you know,

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Speaker 1: had a ping at somebody who's married, and I will

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Speaker 1: also hear from him.

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Speaker 2: We had a call on this show once from a

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Speaker 2: woman who said this, Yeah, but I used to go.

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Speaker 3: Out with a group of girlfriends who weren't married, and

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Speaker 3: guys would come up and off to buy me a

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Speaker 3: drink and I'd put up the hand and go married

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Speaker 3: and that guy, That's cool. How I just buy your drink.

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Speaker 1: And have a chat.

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Speaker 2: Happened to Susan, Wow, happened a certain she had a

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Speaker 2: wedding ring.

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Speaker 1: On a bit of a saucy topic here would super

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Speaker 1: saucy one of six. Five is the number. Does a

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Speaker 1: wedding ring make you more enticing? And I think yes,

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Speaker 1: I think I think I think it has to as

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Speaker 1: I said, I think I think, you know, it shows

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Speaker 1: that you can commit to somebody. It shows, as I

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Speaker 1: said before, you you always want me what you can't have.

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Speaker 1: So somebody's taken, they're off the market. Then yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think that that makes them hotter, whether or not. And

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Speaker 1: this is there obviously the key point you pursue that

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Speaker 1: that's a whole nother kettle of fish to me.

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Speaker 2: We've got Vanessa here, Vanessa, what are your thoughts on this?

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Speaker 3: Hi, I definitely agree that with the wedding ring makes

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Speaker 3: you more appealing, just because you're not on the hunt,

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Speaker 3: so you don't have that sort of look in your

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Speaker 3: eye that you're looking for somebody.

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Speaker 1: You're relaxed, which is which is the most unattractive thing

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Speaker 1: in the world. Yeah, I agree, particularly particularly on men.

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Speaker 1: You can just I smell it on them, can't you.

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Speaker 2: I've had male friends tell me this is a smaller

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Speaker 2: like bringing it back a little bit, but they've said

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Speaker 2: when they've got a girlfriend or a partner, yeah, all

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Speaker 2: of a sudden they're getting way more attention at bars. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just because they're not trying.

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Speaker 1: And maybe that's part of it. Maybe the attention it

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Speaker 1: is not necessarily other women that want to pick them up.

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Speaker 1: It's just other women going, I know, I can have

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Speaker 1: a conversation with you and you're not going to try

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Speaker 1: and pick me up, which is sad, but that's probably

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Speaker 1: a large part of it. Thanks for the corness. That's

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Speaker 1: a really good point. Actually, I was telling you but

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Speaker 1: just before whence I was watching the movie Eyes Wide

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Speaker 1: Shot last night, which is Tom Cruise and Nicle Kidman.

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Speaker 2: That's a bit of a sexy one.

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Speaker 1: Will that's a super sexy one for anybody playing at home.

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Speaker 1: But that movie is very much about this. It's about

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Speaker 1: the fact that they're both taken and they're both out

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Speaker 1: in this hot and happening scene. They're very attractive people

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Speaker 1: and they both get hit on a lot, and how

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Speaker 1: you deal with that within a relationship, because I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: a wedding ring isn't it isn't a barrier, It's just

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Speaker 1: an indicator. Yeah, because I'm going to stop people from

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Speaker 1: coming up to you and trying to have a girl,

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Speaker 1: I suppose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've got Stephire now, on thirty one or six

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Speaker 2: five step. Does a wedding ring make you more enticing? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm actually not married, but I tend to wear a

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Speaker 2: wedding ring when I go out with girlfriends to try

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Speaker 2: and will be sleepy guy. Sure.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Experience recently where I start talking to a guy, things

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Speaker 3: are going pretty well, pretty good chemistry up and he

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Speaker 3: do things that I was married.

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Speaker 2: And he sort of played along with it for a while.

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Speaker 3: I think he made it more exciting, to be honest.

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Speaker 3: But then after a few months, you know, when things

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Speaker 3: were sort of getting a bit more serious, I'm still

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Speaker 3: pretty into him, I decided to come clean and he

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Speaker 3: dropped me.

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Speaker 2: So he enjoyed the chase when he thought you were

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Speaker 2: married and when he thought this was an affair, but

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Speaker 2: as soon as it was my god, fair game, he

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Speaker 2: lost interest. Yeah yeah, so I guess he didn't want

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Speaker 2: anything more serious than that. He just.

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Speaker 1: Married woman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah wow about.

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Speaker 2: Him, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It sounds like a dodge a bot.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Wait, that is wild stuff amazing. Thanks to the call staff,

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