1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to fearlessly Failing hot Seat. In this EPP, I 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS, 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be aswing you. I'm not so good at 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the awesome answers. 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Now a new EPP is going to drop every Wednesday, 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: so enjoy this shortest style episode of fearlessly Failing Hot Seat. 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to the hot seat, my friend, a full name, 8 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: introduce yourself. 9 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: My full name is Joshua Curtis Friedman. 10 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: It's gorge great name. 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:37,959 Speaker 2: Thank you. 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: Would you say sweet? Mor savory is your vice? 13 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: Oh? Sweet? 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: What would it be? 15 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 2: Chocolate? 16 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: Are you Aussie chocolate? 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: I mean caramel? Koala? I'm all about it. 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: You're me both you and me both Okay. I'm only 19 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: asking this to you because we've had a match a date. 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: What is your match? Because I remember when you texted 21 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: it to me. 22 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I get an ice manto latte made with almond milk, 23 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: and I get honey in it, and then I love 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 2: when they shake it. So it's already like fully sweet throughout. 25 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: But it's it's not like super sweet. It's just like 26 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: a little bit of honey and then it's you know 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 2: and get all like my my green bits and stuff. 28 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: Does it? 29 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: Does? 30 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: Some people stuff it up? 31 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: Though? 32 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a very specific order, like do 33 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: you have do you have to go to the right 34 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: spot to get it good? 35 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: Well? I do have like a go to spot for sure. 36 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 2: And they like definitely know me and Linda by now 37 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: we're basically considered regulars. But and they like once in 38 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 2: a while if it's somebody new and they forget the honey, 39 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's fine, I just didn't didn't deserve it today. 40 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: Oh no, go back get that honey. 41 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 2: No I can. 42 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm too kind, Okay for a favorite city, Oh. 43 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 2: My god, like in the whole world. 44 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not fair. It's not a fair question. 45 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: I know. Yeah, there's two. I love New York City 46 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: and I love Barcelona so much. I just love it. 47 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: There's something about New York. It feels like there's it's 48 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: just bubbling all the time, like it's so carbonated as 49 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: far as the city goes. 50 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't know, I like, I love that 51 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 2: New York has like seasons as well. Yeah, so going 52 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 2: in certain times is like my favorite part, Like if 53 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 2: I get to go in the winter and I'm like, this. 54 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: Is fine, so christmasy in the winter time. 55 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the park is just so beautiful in 56 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:26,839 Speaker 2: the summertime, and yeah even in the fall. So yeah, 57 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 2: I like New York in Barcelona. 58 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 1: Now, since you said that nature is like one of 59 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: your favorite things, especially for resetting and reinspiring yourself, do 60 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: you have a favorite place like nature wise, You've obviously 61 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: shot in some beautiful locations. 62 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: Yes, and I'll never tell you. 63 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, really. 64 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 2: No, No, I definitely have spots for sure. And I 65 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: love nature so much. I feel like there's poetry in 66 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: it and it's beautiful and I find it to be 67 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 2: I'm biophilia, yes, yes, yes you are. But yeah, I mean, 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: I'll tell you a couple that I love. Like, I 69 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: love Malibu as of like, I spend a lot of 70 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,399 Speaker 2: time by the beach there, beautiful, but like away from 71 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: like where people like like, I like my little private 72 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: little spots. Yeah, and I like to to walk in 73 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: the trails there too. I find that relaxing to go 74 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: like really high up and then also be close by 75 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 2: the water. 76 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: Here's my thing. Whenever I've hiked Malibu, though, can I 77 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: be really honest with you. 78 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: Tell me right now. 79 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: I've seen rattlesnakes. 80 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to poke them. I fight. If I 81 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: there's a stick and a rattlesnake, I will poke it. 82 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: Why to get it to rattles? 83 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: I just feel like I need a little danger to 84 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: keep me going. 85 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Absolutely not, my friend. I'm Australian. We know not to 86 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: go near snakes. 87 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I think Americans know that too, But 88 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 2: I still just want to have something. 89 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: You know, they're quick, right, They're quicker than us. 90 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: Rattles Yeah, I just feel like in my mind I 91 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: could be quicker. 92 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,839 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, okay, remind me not to hype with you. Yeah, 93 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: would do something else by failure. Okay, this can be 94 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: a hard question for some people. But what is a 95 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: quality about yourself that you really like? 96 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: I really like? I don't know whether to be like serious. 97 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: Or like fun, give us one of both. 98 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: I feel like I think I've got great taste in food, 99 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 2: and that's an amazing quality I have. And I also 100 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: feel like I am kind. Yeah, I don't know. Is 101 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 2: that a good quality to say? 102 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: Like obviously? 103 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, Like it's hard to say, like, 104 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: I think I'm a nice person. 105 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: It's a very hard thing to do, isn't It's hard 106 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: to like? 107 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: But I do. I feel like I'm empathetic. I'm sorry, 108 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: I'm jumping in. 109 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know you're empathetic. 110 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: But like to a point where I'm like, how do 111 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 2: I I just love it. I love being nice to people. 112 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 2: I love when people feel good, and I love to 113 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: be a part of making the or having them feel good. 114 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to make anybody feel anything, but. 115 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, So this question I was going 116 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: to ask you now long form chat, but we run 117 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: out of time, so I'm going to ask it here. 118 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: Ask me, do you ever get imposter syndrome? And if so, 119 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: how do you deal with it? 120 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: You know, right now I haven't. I think right now, 121 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 2: I'm actually really proud of where I've gotten to and 122 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 2: where we're going as like a team and a unit. 123 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 2: So I'm actually focused more on like enjoying the moments 124 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: that I've worked so unbelievably hard to achieve. I think 125 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 2: that if I'm being like extremely honest, like you can't 126 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 2: walk onto a set with four hundred people and actors 127 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 2: and have all of these things kind of happening around 128 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 2: you without thinking to yourself like do I deserve this? 129 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 2: Like the you know what I mean? So I think 130 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: that you it makes you kind of question your sense 131 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: of self and you take the responsibility seriously that way, 132 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 2: But in doing it in your truth and in your 133 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 2: own way, you find that, I don't know, there's like 134 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 2: a confidence that comes with it. So right now it's 135 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: less like I don't feel like, I don't feel like 136 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: I'm an impostor, but I do feel like I've worked 137 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: really hard to get here. But I know the feeling 138 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 2: that you're talking about, I just don't relate to it 139 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 2: much right now, do you know? 140 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: As you said that like when I which is why 141 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: I didn't ask it, you don't feel like you have 142 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: it to me. And I think you answered exactly why 143 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: you don't. You come from truth, and my mantra at 144 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: the moment is to be relentlessly honest and live from 145 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: that place. And I think when you're just in your 146 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: truth or honesty, you don't really have too much to 147 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: lose because you've got that like as your cornerstone, like 148 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: it's where you're coming from, and it kind of negates 149 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: any kind of I don't deserve this or doubt or 150 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: because you're just like this is who I am, and yes, 151 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: I've worked very hard to be here, and I'm going 152 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: to give it a red hot crack. That's a very 153 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: Australian saying. But you know what I mean, You're gonna 154 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: give it a shake, You're going to give it a try, 155 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: and yeah, there's confidence in that. 156 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: And I can tell that you've thought about this before 157 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: because I love your response and I relate to what 158 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: you're saying. So I think it's I am I yeah. 159 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: Love it, love it. Okay, So do you have a 160 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: non negotiable? You've got the creative and the business combo 161 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: so perfect. Is there something that you're just like and 162 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: you mentioned this earlier, like, no, my non negotible is 163 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: like to be in nature once a day, or to 164 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: something that you have to do that is really important 165 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: for you on like a multitude of levels. Or is 166 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: it just like that alone time. 167 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: In the sense of being creative, or just like something 168 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 2: I must do every. 169 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: Day, like I think something you need to do date, 170 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: like that's important just to your value system. 171 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: Well selfishly matcha and if it's not with my big 172 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: sister and Miss Linder, I feel like I don't even 173 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 2: know what I'm doing today. We go for like I 174 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 2: want to say, like not joking, We walk like between 175 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: like fifteen thousand to seventeen thousand steps every monthing, which 176 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: is like eight miles. But we get so much done. 177 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: She makes me happy as a human. We get reproductive. Yeah, 178 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: and we get to have a macha and laughs and 179 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: giggles and connection. Yeah, totally. I think that that's kind 180 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: of the foundation that I love about life right now. 181 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: I think that's that's a great nonmago to. Well, you 182 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: told me when we first hung out. You were like, oh, 183 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 1: this is what I do every single day. Yeah, I 184 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: love it. Final one, it's going to feel like a 185 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: repeat question. But advice for someone greener that is like, oh, 186 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: I've got this creative dream. I don't know what to 187 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: do now, Like what advice do you have. Do we 188 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: just go out and make the thing or should people like, yeah, 189 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: sharpen up their business smarts. 190 00:08:53,640 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think that you do it. And whether 191 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: I know that that sounds like people just say that 192 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: and it sounds so easy, But attempting to do it 193 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: is also going to be informative and you're actually doing it, 194 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: so like, be brave, be courageous, and allow yourself to 195 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: live your truth and don't be afraid to fail and 196 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: fail again and fail again until you feel like you're 197 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 2: getting to where you're going. And even in the failures, 198 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 2: I don't think that you're gonna see right at that 199 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: moment that you learned something and if you didn't have 200 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 2: that failure, that's why you like, when you get to 201 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 2: where you're going, you'll see that those were all necessary. 202 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 2: So I think it's about just doing like taking action. 203 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: And they call it connecting the dots when in the 204 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: moment when you're getting that like hit or that failure 205 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, why didn't I get that role whatever, 206 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 1: and it's not too you look back and connect the 207 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 1: dots and go hang on. If that rejection or that 208 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: thing didn't go to play, I wouldn't be sitting here 209 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: right now, you. 210 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 2: Know, and you know what, you might even do it, 211 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 2: and you might be like it might not even be 212 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 2: a failure, it might be a success, Like why can't 213 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: you look at it from that perspective? Too? Oh? I 214 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: love that you know, like you do it, and you 215 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: might be really proud of what you've done. 216 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: And there's always growth with failure, I think. 217 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 2: For sure, and there's growth in achieving as well. 218 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, can I be your friend? I feel like 219 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: thank you my friend. He neiled it. Thank you for 220 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: jumping on the hut seat. 221 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for having me. This is so fun.