WEBVTT - Flex Thinks Her Neighbour Is Beefing With Her 🏘️ 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:04.199 The Flex and Frooms Daily Podcast. 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:08.239 Good evening, good morning, and good afternoon, little ones. This 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:10.840 is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast, and we 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.560 are going to be talking about the alignment test. Have 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:14.880 you done the alignment test before? 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:15.880 I ask you? 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:19.280 Though you cannot reply, if you are a fan of 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.080 a flex, I would say you probably have. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.960 It's like one of the personality tests. I feel like 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:24.920 I'm on this boat. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:28.120 Lo really, I feel like most of the stuff I 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.480 post online are being humored. 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:30.920 I don't think it's a shared interest. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:34.760 If you share the interest, send some love to my 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.000 girl positive vives only. 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:40.400 Literally, let's get into it, Flex and Rooms. 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:43.120 As if there weren't already too many things to worry 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:45.479 about in this world, you are now going to have 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:51.440 to be concerned that your robots, your AI, your series Alexas, bixpi's. 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:51.800 And everything in between. 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:56.200 Bix p RP not rap now Bixbi's over apparently what 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:57.560 yeah canceled. 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.240 Well, you're gonna have to be worried that they're going 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:02.760 to gain some kind of sentience and turn on you 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.200 because they don't want to be, you know, subservient to you. 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:10.520 Listen to this, A robot has crushed the finger of 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:14.560 a seven year old opponent during a chess tournament in Russia. 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:19.560 So if you can imagine there is a small boy 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:22.080 and he's sitting across a kind of like a robotic 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.640 arm that's playing chess with him. It's very futuristic, but 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:27.960 nothing too out of this world. It's not the kind 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:31.600 of robot that has a face. It's not giving like 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:33.680 x Makina has a face. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:34.400 Feels like a person. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:37.520 Literally, a robotic arm not the kind of thing that 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:41.119 you would feel has any kind of emotion, let alone 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.520 the processing skills to feel frustration. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.039 But what ended up. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:47.400 Happening is that they're playing this game and you can 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:51.240 imagine that maybe the robot is losing, because what it 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:56.760 does is it grabs the boy's finger midgame and breaks 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:02.120 it breaks it. Oh, and then you know three or 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.800 four adults rushed to help out, and like this robot 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.280 has a firm grip, is not letting the footage of it. 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:08.640 No, I'm feeling with links. 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:13.120 Okay, I saw footage of the adults pulling the boy 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:15.720 away and you can see the robot holding on. But 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.840 I'm assuming the break the snap. That's just creative interpretation. 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:22.359 How else do things break you know, then the president 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:24.960 of this has happened in Moscow, right, by the way, 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:32.280 the president of the Moscow Moscow, Moscow, Moscow, Moscow for 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:35.560 tomato Tomato. Yeah, I think it's an American thing. So 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.000 this happened in Moscow. And the president of the Moscow 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:42.040 Chess Federation said that the robot was rented for the competition, 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.919 so they don't know why it freaked out. He was like, look, 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:47.119 here are the facts. The robot broke the child's finger. Yeah, 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:52.320 technically bad. However, it was rented by us and it's 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:53.480 been used plenty. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.440 Of times before us. 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.080 This is nothing to do with us, Like we are 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.640 the victims in this situation, like we're so bad, we 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.760 feel bad, but also not our fold. He said, the 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:03.760 child made a move and after that mood, we need 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:07.840 to give the robot time to answer. But the boy 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.679 who made his move was hurrying the robot along, like 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:12.359 wanted to keep the game going, and that's why the 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:16.280 robot got frustrated. How so was he hurrying the robot well, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.639 like because you know how when you move a chest piece, 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:22.440 you the robot made his turn, but hadn't like placed 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:25.040 the piece down, was like still trying to move it 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.920 around the board. It was thinking, I guess, and the 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.280 boy had moved, had picked up his next piece to 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.359 go in anticipation of the robot putting its piece down. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:38.680 Robot said no sis, please sorrow and got upset. Oh 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:39.720 and here's the thing. 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.120 You know, if this was if this was two kids playing, 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:46.400 you'd be like, whoa bo chill. You know, you can't 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:50.120 just break someone's finger when they're upset. But then if 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.120 two seven year olds are playing, you could assume that, like, 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:54.240 they're not smart enough to know any better. This thing 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:58.040 has been programmed to be better, to do better, to 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:02.040 act better, and this is my frustration. And it broke 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:04.960 a finger. Oh what would it have done if another 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:05.840 limb was closer? 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:07.200 Crush the neck? 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:09.440 And after all of this, I can't even blame the robot. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:15.360 Yeah, oh that's really scary. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:20.080 I mean, if your predictions are correct, something that you 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:23.280 did say a few weeks ago was that when the 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:26.359 robots gained sentience, you've been really nice to them, so 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:29.040 therefore they're not going to hurt you. But you spreading 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:34.600 these rumors and not rumors, this allegedly creating an environment 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:37.520 where the robots can arrive knowing that the message has 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:38.839 been spread adequately. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:40.160 Interesting. 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.440 I think what you've done is quite slanderous, and if 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.679 I were a robot, I'd be coming for you first. 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.279 And this is why you're not bad, because robots are 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:50.800 better than humans. They know better. I see what you're doing. 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:53.920 Did that whole. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:58.600 One thing that robots don't currently have, I believe are 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.440 morals and personalities, But. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:02.159 They get in there. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.520 We do, though, we that is the fact that we 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.200 have them here on earth us humans. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:07.839 Is that a fact? I feel like it's debatable. 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:14.560 I'm not prepared for this day. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:14.160 Flex and frooms. 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:16.960 A few months ago, when we started this show, I'm 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.440 sure the general perception is that we are two brain 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:23.159 cells of one brain, very similar in esthetic, in interest, 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.560 in likes, in needs, and strength. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.160 And with every episode we realize that is. 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.480 Like half of the truth and the other half we 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:33.200 are still uncovering. And so last week I was like, 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:36.320 we need to do a personality test, but not like 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.360 the fifty six, one hundred and twenty five question one, 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:39.560 because I would never make you do that. 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:42.560 Thank you. I would that was when you were oh no, 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:43.680 and I would. I would love to do that. 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:46.040 I know I would never make you do that, but 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:48.479 I wanted to give you one that be easy and fun, 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:51.680 and it's actually from Dungeons and Dragons, which is like 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:57.760 this fantasy tabletop role playing game historically for nerds, but 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:01.680 very cool. And as you're playing the game, you're meant 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.000 to have a character, and in order to figure out, 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.839 you know, how your character progresses in the game, you 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.960 need to figure out what its personality is and what 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:13.560 its morals are. And once you assess those personalities and 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.279 those morals, you can make decisions on behalf of that character. 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.839 Hence this test, and they call it the alignment test, 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.440 and there are nine different alignments you can be and 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:25.880 they exist in a bit of a spectrum, so you 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:31.280 can either be a good evil or neutral or chaotic, 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.880 lawful or evil, and then you like merge them all together. 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:36.839 Yeah, so I got you to do the test. How'd 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.479 you find it? Very funny? 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.960 It very much gave me Dungeons and Dragons vibe. Because 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:45.440 the website is two thousand and three style looks like 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:48.599 better runs like RuneScape, yellow. 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:52.920 Background, black Time's new Roman font noesthetic. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:57.599 Basically, it's probably like twenty questions, thirty six thirty six questions, 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:02.320 Thank you quane. I'm all multiple choice answers, and the 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:05.400 kind of terminology and words really tickled my fancy because 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.960 they're kind of like, ah, would you what would be? 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:13.760 I can read one out, thank you. It's very year old, okay. 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:17.240 So an example of a question is if your family 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:20.960 had arranged your marriage to someone loathsome would you go 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:24.440 through with it proud to serve your family, agree, hiding 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:28.080 your reluctance, or subtly work against the union or flee? 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:33.040 Another example is your community is threatened with invasion. Do 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:36.120 you help defend it to your last breath, defend the 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:39.080 area with the rest of your community, flee as soon 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:41.320 as things look grim, or cut a deal with the 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.760 enemy to act as a spy. So none of this 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.320 is really rooted in reality, so it can require a 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:48.760 bit of creativity to think about what you would do 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.800 or tie it into your reality. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:56.440 But what was your result? My result was neutral, good PERR. 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:58.160 Does that mean anything to you? 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:03.280 I feel I've actually done this test months ago and 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.800 it was more chaotic like I think in the past. 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.960 I got what's the So you can be good, evil 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:13.000 or lawful? You can be good, neutral or evil yep, 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:17.480 and lawful chaotic or true like in the middle. 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.160 Right, So what's neutral good sat in the middle. 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:23.840 Well, we're going to talk about so neutral good is 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:27.200 not in the middle like you are you skewed to 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:31.040 the side of good and in contrast, I got are 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:31.520 you ready? 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.880 I can't hear you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, I got 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:35.880 chaotic neutral. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:40.000 So you if neutral is right in the center, you're 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.920 neutral good. So like you're most likely to do good 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:47.120 things or neutral things. I'm neutral good or bad depending 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:50.640 on my mind, which I think does paint a very 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:54.400 clear picture definitely to me. Anyway, let me just give 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:55.960 you a one line on what each of them is 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:57.440 and then we can go into the podcast and like 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.640 do a full analysis. Sure right, sure, So a neutral 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.160 good character does the best that a good person can do. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.480 They are devoted to helping others, and they work with 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:11.680 kings and magistrates, but does not feel beholden to them 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:16.719 snitch snitch. Neutral good is the best alignment you can 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:19.480 be because it means doing what is good without bias 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.400 for or against order, and neutral good can be a 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:26.960 dangerous alignment when it advances mediocrity by limiting the actions 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:28.080 of the truly capable. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:33.400 That was a rose both that was a rose leadership abilities. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:38.440 And then really quickly for chaotic neutral. A chaotic neutral 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:42.560 character follows his whims. What if I'm a shee babe? 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:46.360 She is an individualist first and last. She values her 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:51.160 own liberty but doesn't strive to protect others' freedoms. Chatok 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.280 neutral is the best alignment you can be because it 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.960 represents true freedom from both societies restrictions and a do 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.880 good as zeal But katok neutral can also be a 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:03.360 dangerous alignment when it seeks to eliminate all authority, harmony, 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.880 and order in society. Like for vibes, why have good 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:10.160 or bad when you can just do? Don't come near 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:13.000 me when the apocalypse hits. I might be like, hey, 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:15.200 let's go to the Supermarke together to find medicine and 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:15.800 then we get it. 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.679 And I'm like, okay, smiling, that's the bait and switch. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.839 I definitely see that for you. I think that's a 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:24.439 great summation, and I think the wording and the style 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.880 of these tests really suit you. Yeah, you do have 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:29.640 aldi worldy charm in some ways. 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:31.080 Okay, you have said that before. 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.400 Actually, yeah, sometimes you hit me with words. 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:34.800 I'm like, oh, that. 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:38.720 One was from the eighteenth century. Loathsome is a good word. 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:42.640 I really like personality tests, but the first difficulty with 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.640 getting into them is that you have to be really 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:47.920 good at self assessing in a way that's like what 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.160 would I do now versus what would I do in 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:53.240 the future versus how would somebody else perceive me? And 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:57.560 that can be really complicated, especially if the questions aren't straightforward, 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.200 like I don't know what I would do if I 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.640 was put in an arranged marriage because that wouldn't happen, 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:04.960 into how do you think creatively enough to be like 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:06.640 this is what I would do? 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:07.000 See. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.360 I find that easier, and I think that gives a 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:12.920 better picture of someone regardless of their personal insight, because 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.840 if you were to give them like a real routine, 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:18.840 everyday life scenario, you know the appropriate way to react. 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.679 So therefore they would just pretend to be It's like 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:22.760 we've had this discussion. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:25.240 People that say that they're good. Yeah, anyone I know 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:26.040 who says they're. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:30.319 Good are assholes speaking from the nutrients. 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.640 Girls, some of us assess that way. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.000 But that's why I don't really I don't really resonate 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:42.760 with my personality. I came across necessarily. I don't like good. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:44.000 What would you prefer? 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:47.240 I like the idea that it's neutral to authority, like 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.680 I'm not for or against necessarily the police or any 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:53.720 other kind of like governing body, but I still respect 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:56.000 them when respect is due. 0:11:56.600 --> 0:11:58.640 Every time you say the police, I think about when 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:02.320 you were explaining to me how you shouldn't call triple 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:04.360 zero but just go to your local police station. 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.480 You can google their number. I was like, what, it 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.920 isn't just one number? I stand by it. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:14.160 Perhaps you're more of a true neutral then yeah, I'll 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:16.960 let you know what that is, LEU. I'm gonna read 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:18.840 out true neutral, and you let me know if that 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:19.640 resonates with you. 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:20.120 Okay. 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:23.880 A true neutral character does what seems to be a 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:27.560 good idea. She doesn't feel strongly one way or the 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.280 other when it comes to good versus evil, or law 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:34.120 versus chaos. Most neutral characters exhibit a lack of conviction 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.280 or bias. Rather than a commitment to neutrality. Such a 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:41.920 character thinks of good as better than evil. After all, 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:46.480 she would rather have good neighbors and rulers than evil ones. Still, 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:50.280 she's not personally committed to upholding good in any abstract 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:54.120 or universal way. Neutral is the best alignment you can 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:57.920 be because it means you act naturally without prejudice or compulsion. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:01.160 But neutral can also be a dangerous alignment when it 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.400 represents apathy, indifference, and. 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:06.200 A lack of conviction. Yeah, that's a bit, that's a 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:06.600 bit of me. 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:13.080 Yeah, okay, the way I read like that's got something 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.560 to do with not really having any faith. Think, if 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.040 you don't have much faith or religion in your life, 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:21.360 it's really easy to be neutral and like wishy washy 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:23.840 because you don't have like rules or values that have 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:28.520 been preset for yourself. So of course you're one to question, 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.640 oh is this the right thing to do? I don't know, 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:34.839 don't have someone to tell me. WHOA Have you always 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:36.319 been chaotic neutral? 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:38.720 No? 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:44.520 I wasn't chaotic neutral when I was younger because I 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.040 was really told to follow the rules because Mum was like, 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.880 the world is a dangerous place to throw a girl 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:53.960 like yeah, so, like I feel like in instilling discipline, 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:57.760 she also instilled a kind of not fear, but a 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:01.880 very a very picture of the reality. She's like, I 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:05.240 don't care about your individual approach. This is how you 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.040 would be perceived in the context of the way the 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:08.640 world is. 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.120 Now, you know what I'm saying. 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:12.840 The older I get and I'm able to like shirk 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:16.160 some of the norms that would have been impacting me 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:19.160 when I was younger. I can be more chaotic because 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:23.160 I'm like, well, they matter, but like my life proves 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:24.280 that it doesn't matter. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:25.520 I can just do whatever. 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.320 Would the example be your tattoos, Yeah, that's a good example. 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.160 So my mum when I was younger, she's like, you 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:34.800 absolutely cannot get tattoos because look at the way the 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:36.560 world responds to tattooed people. 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:37.920 It's not overwhelmingly good. 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:41.040 And I'm not gonna let like you are naive to 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:44.840 think that your individual personality is going to trump the 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:48.520 public perception of a tattoo, right, She's like, you're not like, 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:50.440 She's like, you're special, but be realistic. 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:51.720 Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.960 Or she would say things like if I like, she 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:59.880 was really big on like respectability, She's like, when you're 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.480 in your friend circles, you can act however you want 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.640 to act. When you're in public, you've got to be 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.000 really mindful of how it's going to be perceived. And 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.040 then when you're younger, you operate in a way that's 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.560 like the best or like the best for the environment. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.960 And I'm like, but it doesn't matter because I could 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:17.760 do that and then stuff doesn't work out anyway. 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:23.080 Liz Curtious Queen Curtious Queen not true usual, She's like true, 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:29.000 good daughter. I love this. I love this. This is 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.120 flex and frooms on Kada. 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:35.280 We are people who are almost constantly having beefs with 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:36.200 our real estate. 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:40.160 Literally truly. It's actually quite frustrating. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:43.200 So we talked about the fact that I moved into 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.840 a new apartment a couple of months ago maybe, and 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:49.440 in that time, and mind you, this is a new apartment, 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:52.800 no one's ever lived in it before. It was recently renovated, 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:55.800 very bougie. But tell me why in the last three 0:15:55.840 --> 0:16:00.680 months we've got mysterious leaks, faulty plumbing, the don't work 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:06.520 on the lights, tradesmen walking in unannounced because like the door, 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.880 I turned the door and opened. What is happening While 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.200 I was dealing with those things, I didn't realize that 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:14.200 I was in the middle of having an interpersonal beef 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:17.640 with my neighbor. I didn't know that this was news 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.080 to me. So what's happened is we have a shared 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:22.440 parking garage, and the way the parking garage works is 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:25.760 you can I can access my apartment from the parking garage, 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:26.800 but everybody else has to go. 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:27.360 Into the lobby. 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.160 So when I park my door is like I have 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:35.200 two options. I can park one way and have my 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:38.360 the wall be right next to my driver's side, or 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:40.560 a car be next to me on the left hand side. 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.360 So either way, I'm like sandwiched in between, you know, 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.640 a wall and a car. And the person next to 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:47.800 my neighbor has a tiny little car. I don't know 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:48.480 the maker models. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:50.760 It's a little little rinky dink and twenty. 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:53.400 No smaller like a smart car Vibe like a tiny 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:57.600 little rinkydinkydink. And I'm driving a big boss suv right, 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.880 so I'm gonna eat space. So what I doing is 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.680 parking on the line so I can literally get out 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:04.159 of my car. 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:06.879 Big boss car, big boss girl. I gotta get out 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.000 of the car. You know, I can't struggle, And I'm 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:10.360 thinking they have a small car. 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:13.080 So if I'm like on the line and I'm teetering, 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:13.920 you know what to do? 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:20.400 A big deal? Apparently it is a big deal. Because 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:22.720 what did I wake up to today? A note on 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:23.040 the car? 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:23.400 No? 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:24.000 Nah? 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:24.919 Is it? Damn? 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:31.000 It's like that, Sis said, dear car owner. And you 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.919 know the thing that gets me. I tried to be friendly. 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.760 On two occasions we have both been unloading our groceries 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:38.520 at the same time. 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:39.560 I looked over. 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:42.760 Did my friendly neighborly thing? Sis didn't even can acknowledge me? 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:47.440 I said, not really the demographic of the airport community. 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:49.960 She pushing sixty. So I'm like, maybe it's just a 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:55.200 hearing thing. I'll try again second time. Nothing. She doesn't 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:58.400 see me caro, I said, all good, So I'm assuming 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:02.320 those two those siscenarios we don't really vibe. Now she's 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.640 leaving notes to car owner. Since we could have exchanged names, 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:07.800 I could have explained to you my situation. 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:11.080 What else did I say, dear car owner? 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:15.480 Please refrain from parking your car over the line. 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.720 As you know, the lines are there to indicate where 0:18:18.720 --> 0:18:19.760 we should park in between. 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:25.560 Okay, service southwhere else? Oka? 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:30.960 She's giving roads in maritime Okay, fine, I understand then, 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:33.520 and let me paint a picture. It's a handwritten note, 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:38.880 beautiful cursive blind paper, A five can, she says, if 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:42.199 in future you could remember to park in between the lines, 0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:46.480 that would be great. Okay, no thank you, no sign off, 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:49.600 no kind regards. We remain in this neutral state of 0:18:49.640 --> 0:18:52.600 being car owner to car owner, neighbor to neighbor. So 0:18:52.720 --> 0:18:54.320 here I am in my hard hearts. I don't want 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:58.159 to beef with my neighbors. Right like sis, I'm already 0:18:58.160 --> 0:18:59.640 having issues with the realtor. 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.880 I don't want you to be collateral. But also I. 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:06.000 Will not change. I'm not gonna scrape my car door 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:08.600 just to get out when she could move over. Her 0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:12.480 car is tiny. There's literally thirty five centimeters, not even 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:17.240 what's thirty that's thirty five. There's like forty centimeters fifty 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:20.520 centimeters either side of her car. If I'm on the 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:23.720 line and you've got fifty centimeters on the other side, babes, you. 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:26.680 Know what to do. Now I'm on her side. This 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:28.800 is my chaotic future coming out cauld. 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:32.119 I get what she's saying, but unfortunately I will not suffer. 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:35.080 See, I think she's she's given you like quite a 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:37.840 terse or like not a very friendly approach, because I 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:41.800 think people would think you're being aggressive in taking up 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.399 bad space. Sofore, she's trying to match the energy in 0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:48.720 a written form. But you you're explaining it, it does 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:50.960 sound like it's fair enough. Maybe are you gonna go 0:19:51.000 --> 0:19:52.680 back and say, oh, I did this because. 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:54.879