1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 2: Now, this guy called Robin Sharma said the hours that 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: ordinary people waste, extraordinary people leverage. 5 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: And now here's the scars at our show My mom 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: and dad. 7 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 2: Hello, this is doctor Justin Colson, the author of six 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: books about how to help our families to be happy. 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 2: And I'm here with my wife Kylie missus Happy Families, 10 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: So the mom to our six daughters. 11 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 3: Today's Friday, and this is probably our favorite day of 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: the week when it comes to podcast recording. 13 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 4: I'll do better tomorrow. 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: I'll do better tomorrow. And what I love about it 15 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 3: is it gives you and I an opportunity to reflect 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: on the week that we've had and to look at 17 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: the experiences that we're having with our children and find 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: meaning in them. 19 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean this is about how we can 20 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 4: learn to be better parents. 21 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: This is the intentional step back, get some perspective, have 22 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: a think about things, and move things for But before 23 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 2: we do all do better to mom or I've got 24 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 2: to tell you something. You've seen it in the notes, 25 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: but you don't know what it's about. Have this thing 26 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: the other day. So one of the kids, I'm not 27 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: going to say who, but one of the kids had 28 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 2: a playdate at our house the other day, and I 29 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 2: caught this particular child and her friend her playdate, who 30 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: may or may not actually be related to our family. 31 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 4: I'm just saying this was one of the kids and 32 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 4: the cousins. 33 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: But I didn't say that they're playing with the dog's penis. 34 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: And you know, you know those things that come out 35 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 2: of your mouth completely unexpectedly, and you think to yourself 36 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: twenty years ago or you know, before I became a parent, 37 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 2: I never actually thought that I would say this, you know, 38 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: Like I remember, I remember one time I said to 39 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: one of the kids, I think it was to Ella, 40 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 2: I said, would you please get your feet out of 41 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: your food? 42 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 4: But I found myself saying. 43 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: To the kids, would you please stop playing when the 44 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: dog's penis? 45 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 4: Dogs don't like it. When you I couldn't believe it 46 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 4: was coming out of my mouth. 47 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 3: I tell you, this dog, e Ben Sin. We've had 48 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: him for what twelve years now, yeah, something like that, 49 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 3: and from the day we got him, he just has 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: let the children. 51 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 4: Do anything bang whines. 52 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 2: But it got me thinking and I decided to do 53 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 2: a quick google all of the things that we've said 54 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: as parents that we never thought we would say, and 55 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: I came up with one on a website called Mummynearest 56 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: dot com Thirty things I never thought I'd say before 57 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 2: becoming a parent. Good job on your pooh, honey, like 58 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: you just no, just nod. Good job on your pooh? 59 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: Have you said stuff like that to our kids? 60 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 3: Of course I have. What's even worse so is when 61 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 3: you're in a public toilet and your little. 62 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 4: Daughter says you are you a pooling? 63 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really cool. 64 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 4: I remember Michael McIntyre, the comedian. 65 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 2: He talks about how he was in the bathroom on 66 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 2: time and a daddy, a daddy, I'm calling him a daddy. 67 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: A dad took his son into the bathroom, but he 68 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: didn't see the son coming in, and so the. 69 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 4: Dad's standing at the urinal and he's talking to his. 70 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: Son saying, that's it, pull it out, okay, now give 71 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 2: it a good shake, And Michael McIntire was looking around. 72 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: He thinks that this guy's talking to him anyway. I diagree. 73 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 5: We've gone to a I'll do better tomorrow, as always 74 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 5: talking about so look, that's just a funny story that 75 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 5: has nothing to do with my reflections on being a 76 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 5: great parent. 77 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 4: Hope, I promise. 78 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 2: But it is about intention and sometimes we have to 79 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 2: say things that we never intended to say. But I 80 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 2: read a quote this week that really inspired me, and 81 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: it was about personal development and time management and being 82 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: ultra productive and being your best you. But as I 83 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: read it, I thought, this is not just about that. 84 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: This so easily flicks or switches across into the family. 85 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: This guy called Robin Sharma said the hours that ordinary 86 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: people waste, extraordinary people leverage. And as I was reflecting 87 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: on that in a family context, I thought, the people 88 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: who have the best families the hours that ordinary parents waste, 89 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 2: extraordinary parents leverage. 90 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 4: To make their families happier. 91 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 3: We talked about this a little bit yesterday in that 92 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: idea of intentional planning. Yeah, and for us as parents, 93 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 3: it seems like it takes up so much about time, 94 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 3: and yet without it, our family just doesn't function at 95 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: its best. 96 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 97 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, So my I'll do better tomorrow because I've been 98 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 2: I've actually been caught up on a. 99 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 4: Netflix series lately. 100 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 2: Yes you have, And for the first time in our lives, 101 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: I've actually been watching that in the evening rather than 102 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: reading or even being social. And I'm feeling a really 103 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 2: big need to repent. I'm feeling like I've been called 104 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 2: to repentance and I need to be better. And so 105 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: I've only got about seventeen episodes left and then I'll stop. Yeah, yeah, no, 106 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 2: I'll choose my timing better and I will do better 107 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,799 Speaker 2: tomorrow because I don't want to be ordinary in my family. 108 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: I want to be extraordinary, and that means that I 109 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: can't waste those hours with our kids. 110 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 4: Or with you. 111 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 3: I think that's a really wonderful insight, honey. I'm looking 112 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 3: forward to seeing what happens tonight. 113 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 4: You're so supportive. I appreciate it. 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You've 124 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 4: been practicing it? Sounded good? 125 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 3: Thank you. 126 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 4: So I've talked about how this. 127 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 2: Idea that ordinary people waste these hours that they could 128 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: spend with their kids, and extraordinary parents leverage those hours 129 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: to build stronger relationships with them instead. 130 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 4: That's my key learning for the week. 131 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: It came off the back of a quote and a 132 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: little bit of personal insight and introspection. 133 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 4: What about you? 134 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: Well, last week I shared a little bit of a 135 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 3: Christmas struggle that I've had in the past and getting 136 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 3: the kids in letting the kids get in bold and 137 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 3: I had a wonderful experience during the week as I 138 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: let them actually decorate the Christmas tree. You gave me 139 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 3: a really hard time last week about the fact that 140 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 3: they were going to be decorating the tree that nobody 141 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 3: else sees. Yes, yeah, and I let you get away 142 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 3: with it. But I'm not going to this weak right 143 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 3: because that tree as actually the special tree, and it's 144 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: a special tree for a reason. We have two trees 145 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: because when we have family gatherings and everybody comes together, 146 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: we don't want to kind of complicate the gift giving scenario. 147 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 4: Well, that's not really why we've got two trees. We've 148 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 4: got two trees because you love Christmas. I do. 149 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: It's made it much easier room, It's made it much 150 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 3: easier to deal with the Christmas Yes chaos. And the 151 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 3: kids have claimed this tree because it's in a quiet 152 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 3: space and it means that our family has a quiet 153 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: space to go to on Christmas Morning. So this is 154 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: actually the tree that means the most to our kids 155 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 3: because it's the tree that they put the presence that 156 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 3: they've handpicked for their secret sister underneath. It's the tree 157 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 3: that Santa leaves his gifts under, It's the tree that 158 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 3: they wake up to, and they're really really excited about it. 159 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 3: And so while you made it sound like it was 160 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 3: a really really sneaky of me because no one else 161 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: was actually going to see it, this is actually an 162 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 3: important tree to them and they've acknowledged that. To me, 163 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 3: this was really exciting to them. It was, and I 164 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: over the last few years have recognized that this is 165 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: something that I needed to let go of, but still 166 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 3: have struggled to do so. And so probably two or 167 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 3: three years ago I actually said to them, if you 168 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 3: want to help me with the Christmas tree, then I'm 169 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 3: going to teach you how to decorate a Christmas tree. 170 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 3: And so over the last few years they've actually been 171 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: a part of the decorating. But I have not let 172 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 3: go of the reins. I have been very intentional, some 173 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 3: might say controlling and controlling, Yes, I agree, in helping 174 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 3: them to learn how to have a tree that's beautiful 175 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 3: to look at, and they have participated. So this year 176 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 3: I actually stood right back, and except for putting on 177 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: probably three or four decorations right at the very top 178 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 3: of the tree, because it just was a little bit 179 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 3: too far for even Lily who's ten, to climb on 180 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 3: a stool and reach up the top, I let them go. 181 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 3: And a couple of times I had said to miss six, 182 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 3: I'd said, Emily, can you just step back and have 183 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 3: a look. There seems to be a lot of decorations 184 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 3: in one little spot. And she looked at and she said, oh, 185 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: I can see it, mum, And she went and moved 186 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: the extra baubles away. 187 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:34,439 Speaker 4: That was all I did. 188 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 3: And you know what what I actually saw was two kids. 189 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 3: Not only were they completely engrossed in it, but those 190 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 3: years of lessons had really paid off and they created 191 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 3: a beautiful tree. 192 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: I don't. 193 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 3: Honestly, I do not think that I could have done 194 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 3: a better job. And what I learned in that process 195 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: was that sometimes we just don't give our kids enough credit. 196 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 3: That's a little bit tricky for me to say, because 197 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 3: I like things to be a certain way. But as 198 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: I watched our kids do that, I was blown away 199 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 3: at their capacity and I hadn't given them credit that 200 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: they were actually capable of doing that. 201 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, and the tree looks beautiful. 202 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 3: It does, and they love being there. 203 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, they really do. Well, that's a great story. I'm 204 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 4: so glad that you shared that. 205 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 2: I think what this story really illustrates is the importance 206 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 2: of what I talk about when it comes to helping 207 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 2: our kids to learn, and that is induction. We need 208 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: to teach them slowly and even over a couple of years, 209 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: by bit, what our expectations are and how they can 210 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: do something, and then stand back, give them the reins 211 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 2: and let them go for it. And I think they've 212 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 2: done a great job. We will post some pictures of 213 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: that on our Facebook page so that you can jump 214 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 2: on there and have a squizz. 215 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 3: What I really loved though, I just remembered you said 216 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: last week that you're really nervous that the kids were 217 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 3: actually going to have some perfectionistic tendency. 218 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 4: So yeah, I did mention that you did, and did they. 219 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 3: They didn't even compare the trees. They loved what they 220 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: had achieved, and we're so excited to show me at 221 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 3: the other end. 222 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 4: Winning all round. 223 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 2: I'll do Better Tomorrow returns next Friday for our last 224 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 2: Friday before Christmas? 225 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 4: Can you believe that? 226 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness? 227 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 2: We would love, by the way, for you to jump 228 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 2: onto Apple Podcasts and let us a rating and review. 229 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 4: Those five star ratings and reviews. 230 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: Help other people to find the podcast and make their 231 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: families happier. 232 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 4: We could consider it a Christmas gift. 233 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: I know I've harped on about that in every podcast 234 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 2: this week, but it'd be great if. 235 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 4: You wouldn't mind doing that. 236 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 2: We so much appreciate the great work done by Justin 237 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 2: Rwand from Bridge Media for making the. 238 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 4: Podcast sound great. 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