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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, lady Hella.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just not if I just got my hair done.

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<v Speaker 4>This has been my hair for like two months, so

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<v Speaker 4>you just don't notice. No, I think it's that girl

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<v Speaker 4>thing when you have a shower and you wash it well,

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<v Speaker 4>like when you've washed it and you come into work,

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<v Speaker 4>everyone's like, oh my god, your hair looks so good today,

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<v Speaker 4>and you're like, I just had a shower.

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<v Speaker 5>Or a showers on a girl thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's that girl thing that women only do

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<v Speaker 1>where they wash them occasionally.

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<v Speaker 6>It's because men pretty much never wash their hair and

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<v Speaker 6>just wear product in it, or they don't have hair,

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<v Speaker 6>one of the two. But women, when they wash their hair,

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<v Speaker 6>it looks all nice and silky, and so, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know what is so annoying is that the extent that

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<v Speaker 4>women go to with skincare and their hair and their

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<v Speaker 4>shampoo and their condition and how much it all costs.

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<v Speaker 4>Men just put soap or body wash on their whole body.

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<v Speaker 4>They soap their hair once a fortnight. They all look beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>It's always lash. They literally put in half the effort

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<v Speaker 4>we do and it always look better.

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<v Speaker 2>This is true.

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<v Speaker 6>That's why we should be paid more because we have

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<v Speaker 6>to buy more, and that is why we should be

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<v Speaker 6>paid more.

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<v Speaker 5>I picked and storm the street. That'll do well.

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<v Speaker 7>Take that to the bottom much rug seven night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I've got a big razor for a dollar. Pay

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<v Speaker 5>me more.

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<v Speaker 6>You know what else you need to be paid more

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<v Speaker 6>for the tax on chocolate. Chocolate is going to go up.

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<v Speaker 6>We talked about beer last week. I'm just bringing to

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<v Speaker 6>the facts, guys, chocolate is going up by twenty seven percent.

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<v Speaker 6>Just Laura, just scroll supermarket apps to the spare time.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, I am my mum.

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<v Speaker 6>I care about inflation.

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<v Speaker 5>Is your neighbor Willie Wonka who knows? Like morning, Laura,

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<v Speaker 5>I hated you hear the chocolate news. I'm ready depressed

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<v Speaker 5>about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Apparently the cow trades through the roof and so chocolate

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<v Speaker 6>you get your cabrity.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be costing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pulling all my money from bitcornes. Guys, I invested

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<v Speaker 1>in the wrong a hard cocow. All right, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very big show today. We have an ask on cut.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we have a really difficult ask on cut. Someone's

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<v Speaker 4>written in saying that their sister is pretty far along

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<v Speaker 4>in her pregnancy, but she's an absolute slob, lives in disarray,

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<v Speaker 4>lives in disgrace, and she's genuinely worried about the welfare

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<v Speaker 4>of the baby once is born.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby is not born yet.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it's it's en root in the womb.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, one way out.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, not much you could do. Now

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try our best to give us some advice. Next

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<v Speaker 5>just forty nine to ninety nine. It is time for this.

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<v Speaker 8>Everybody ask Asking cut is something we do every week

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<v Speaker 8>on Thursdays where you guys write in or call in

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<v Speaker 8>your deepest, darkest burning questions and when we do our

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<v Speaker 8>best to answer.

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<v Speaker 4>Them and we have the lovely Amy has in today.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Amy, Hi, what is the problem O?

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<v Speaker 7>So guys, I have this problem.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a problem with my mother in law,

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<v Speaker 3>but I have a problem.

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<v Speaker 9>With the state of her house. So, in a nutshell,

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<v Speaker 9>she has got three dogs and one cat, and they've

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<v Speaker 9>got no toilet training sense whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time I go around.

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<v Speaker 9>There's a pooh on the floor, there's we on the floor,

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<v Speaker 9>And I have a one year old who will be

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<v Speaker 9>spending a day a week with her, and I just

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<v Speaker 9>can't trust that he's not going to put the pooh

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<v Speaker 9>in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good way to build some immunity.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, this is what she tells me.

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<v Speaker 4>Not true, because you can actually get really sick. Cats

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<v Speaker 4>particularly the cats can make children very very sick. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it can actually kill them. I'm not just saying

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<v Speaker 4>there's diseases.

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<v Speaker 2>You can pick.

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<v Speaker 7>It's gastro waiting to happen, is it not?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean obviously it's to help with babysitting, so

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<v Speaker 6>you're not having to pay as high your daycare fees.

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<v Speaker 6>Is there not a way that she could come to

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<v Speaker 6>your house and do the babysitting at your house?

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<v Speaker 3>So no, because she runs a business from home, which

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<v Speaker 3>is the other issue I have with it. Also, last

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<v Speaker 3>week I went there, there was raw chicken breast on

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<v Speaker 3>the bench.

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<v Speaker 2>The dogs were eating it. Do you know what though? Ay?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it's a hard one because you're getting something

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<v Speaker 6>out of your mother in law, which is that she's

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<v Speaker 6>going to be helping you to take care of the kids,

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<v Speaker 6>which saves you having another day of daycare, which is

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<v Speaker 6>obviously so expensive. So true, it's so expensive. So I

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<v Speaker 6>guess like there's a big decision for you to make.

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<v Speaker 6>Either you're comfortable with your is it a little boy

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<v Speaker 6>or a little girl, my boy with your boy being there,

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<v Speaker 6>or you have to pay that extra money and have

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<v Speaker 6>them in daycare. Because I also worry if your mother

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<v Speaker 6>in law's living like this, if she's got rubbish everywhere,

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<v Speaker 6>if she's letting the animals, like you know, pool on

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<v Speaker 6>the floor and she's not able to clean it up,

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<v Speaker 6>or whatever it is. I always ask the question, like,

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<v Speaker 6>is that person's mental health okay, because it's a real

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<v Speaker 6>sign of someone who's not coping when they're living in

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<v Speaker 6>a state that's not clean or hygienic or good for them.

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<v Speaker 6>And that could also be something that is an issue

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<v Speaker 6>that no one's considered.

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<v Speaker 2>She may not be okay. Some people are just lazy

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<v Speaker 2>as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Though some people are just dirty and like and of

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<v Speaker 4>course there could be more problems there, but some people

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<v Speaker 4>are just dirty and lazy. I think for me, if

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<v Speaker 4>I could find the money, I would be trying to

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<v Speaker 4>find the money in and put my kid in the

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<v Speaker 4>daycare rather than in that environment. Also, if you can't

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<v Speaker 4>clean up after your animal, I wouldn't trust these animals

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<v Speaker 4>to be around my one year old animals.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know the way they behave.

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<v Speaker 4>It could be you could have had your family pet forever,

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<v Speaker 4>but you would never leave it unattended in a room

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<v Speaker 4>with an animal and a baby.

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<v Speaker 6>So I have have you ever had the conversation with

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<v Speaker 6>her like, have you ever spoken to her about it

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<v Speaker 6>and explained your worries or pointed out the things?

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<v Speaker 9>And I have mentioned my anxiety about putting him on

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<v Speaker 9>the floor because literally every time I walk in and

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<v Speaker 9>I'm like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a dog who Yeah, no, that's that's too hard.

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<v Speaker 3>But she sort of just goes oh like an acts

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<v Speaker 3>as if you know, she's not aware of it, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's every time, And how do you not know that

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<v Speaker 3>there's who on the floor inside your house?

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say you need to sit her down and make

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<v Speaker 1>sure everything's good with her, because I think I'm with you, Lauds.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're living like that, you know, have the chat,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure she's okay, maybe she's waiting. Yeah, maybe you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you just need to extend the olive branch and the poops.

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<v Speaker 9>Ca Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, definitely. We'll keep us updated there.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's a tricky one.

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<v Speaker 6>And if you can't come to some sort of resolution,

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's you have to put them into daycare

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<v Speaker 6>or look at getting a babysitter or something. We'll see

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<v Speaker 6>if you can work from home on those days. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it may be if she can't take care of herself

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<v Speaker 6>and her animals at the moment in her house, it

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<v Speaker 6>may be too much of a burden for her to

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<v Speaker 6>be able to take care of your child as well.

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<v Speaker 7>It's an easy one day care for me.

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<v Speaker 6>There's a tough conversation to be had.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely, Amy, That's how it all goes.

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<v Speaker 5>Oka, No worries.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want some advice like that, you can hit

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<v Speaker 1>us up on the pickup dopu also dms on the

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<v Speaker 1>pickup on Instagram. All right, now, next on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>alarming statistics coming out. If you're a parent and you

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<v Speaker 1>have a phone, which is everyone on Earth, Laura, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a parent and you have a phone, I've got some

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<v Speaker 1>new stats on the alarming screen time parents are putting

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<v Speaker 1>into their phones when they really should be putting into

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<v Speaker 1>their kids.

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<v Speaker 4>We then, Laura has multiple phones, She's got a burn

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<v Speaker 4>a phone, She's got the app Authentic Vfication phone.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've got screens everywhere.

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<v Speaker 5>Parents, listen up, you're gonna want to hear these stats.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do it next on the Pickup Thursday, on the Pickup,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back, Britt, Laura and Mitchie are thanks to chemist

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<v Speaker 1>Warehouse heading today great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 5>You know on this show, we love a study, we

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<v Speaker 5>love a survey.

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<v Speaker 7>Statistic.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this is an interesting stat interesting study for parents

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<v Speaker 1>in the cars listening, or if you're a child in

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<v Speaker 1>a car for some reason listening, you'll love this because

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<v Speaker 1>the study out of the US is revealed that six

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<v Speaker 1>in ten American parents have admitted to spending more time

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<v Speaker 1>on their electronic devices are you their phones than they

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<v Speaker 1>do one on one time with their kids. On average,

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<v Speaker 1>wh parents spend nearly five hours a day on their

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<v Speaker 1>electronic devices compared to less than four hours they would

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<v Speaker 1>spend having meaningful activities with their kids.

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<v Speaker 7>That doesn't shock me at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, really, in this day and age, that parents are

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<v Speaker 1>spending more time on a device than they are actually

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<v Speaker 1>with their kids.

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<v Speaker 6>My part of me when I hear these statistics, Yes,

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<v Speaker 6>it is shocking, and I think that no one can

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<v Speaker 6>say that it doesn't sound shocking, But I think it's not.

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<v Speaker 6>When we say like they're spending X amount of time

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<v Speaker 6>on their phones and X amount of time with their kids.

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<v Speaker 6>People use their phones for work these days. When we

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<v Speaker 6>say devices, we are all using computers or ninety percent

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<v Speaker 6>of us are using computers as part of our working life.

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<v Speaker 6>We're at work for eight hours a day, most people more.

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<v Speaker 6>Most people are getting to work at eight am, not

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<v Speaker 6>leaving until five six. If you've got little kids, and

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<v Speaker 6>I speak myself, my kids are waking up at six

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<v Speaker 6>thirty am, they're at daycare by eight, and then they

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<v Speaker 6>get picked up at five and then they're in bed

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<v Speaker 6>by seven. There's more time that I have on a

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<v Speaker 6>Monday and Friday on my computer than I do with

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<v Speaker 6>my kids. Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>So your kids are babies, Like, what do they expect

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<v Speaker 1>you to sit down to discuss the meaning of life

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<v Speaker 1>with your two year old?

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<v Speaker 6>You still have meaningful time with your little kids, but

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<v Speaker 6>I just think sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>They're a blob. You don't have to hang out. And

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<v Speaker 2>when I say meaningful.

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<v Speaker 6>Time, it's not watching cocoa melon. But I mean, sometimes

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<v Speaker 6>these statistics, they're so alarming, and they can make parents

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<v Speaker 6>feel so bad and it makes you feel so guilty.

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<v Speaker 6>And if I was to read that, I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I do spend a hell of a lot of time

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<v Speaker 6>on screens and devices. But that doesn't make me a

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<v Speaker 6>bad parent. It makes me a working parent, absolutely. But

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<v Speaker 6>I think, I mean, this is an average survey. I

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<v Speaker 6>think what it means is and I have no doubt

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<v Speaker 6>this is true.

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<v Speaker 2>There are a lot of.

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<v Speaker 4>People that will have a weekend and the days off,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's definitely easier to put a device on for

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<v Speaker 4>the kid. You go do your thing and do your

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<v Speaker 4>own device. And I think that's what it's coming from.

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<v Speaker 4>It's easier to be in front of technology. Now there's iPads,

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<v Speaker 4>there's computer games, TV, one hundred different thousand streaming networks.

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<v Speaker 4>Like everyone says, every friend I know says, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to be that parent.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not gonna let them have an iPad. I'm not

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<v Speaker 7>gonna put them in front.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the TV.

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<v Speaker 4>But then when they've been screaming for twenty four hours straight,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know that putting them in front of the

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<v Speaker 4>TV for a hot seconds is going to calm them down.

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<v Speaker 1>You do it, Yeah, Laura, interesting question for you, is

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<v Speaker 1>there any part of you that thinks that worries that

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<v Speaker 1>your kids are going to grow up going knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>you're so active on social media.

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<v Speaker 5>You are on your phone a lot for work and

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<v Speaker 5>rightly so.

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<v Speaker 1>But is there any part of you that does worry

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<v Speaker 1>that they'll hold resentment or they'll be aware of how

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<v Speaker 1>much you use how much?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 6>And I think it also comes down to if I'm

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<v Speaker 6>in the room with her, then I'm not doing work

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<v Speaker 6>on my phone. And the reason why I realized it

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<v Speaker 6>is because you can be for me. I can be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I've just got to do this email or I've got

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<v Speaker 6>to do this one thing. At the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 6>she doesn't know what I'm doing. She doesn't care if

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<v Speaker 6>I'm watching a TikTok or if I'm writing an email

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<v Speaker 6>to someone that's important. All she sees is that I'm

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<v Speaker 6>choosing to be on my phone over being in her company.

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<v Speaker 2>And she must have been three, she's four now.

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<v Speaker 6>It was probably a year ago and I was doing

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<v Speaker 6>work and she'd just woken up after her nap and

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<v Speaker 6>she was talking to me and she was like, Mummy,

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<v Speaker 6>look at my face, Mummy, look at my face, because

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<v Speaker 6>she knew that I was paying full attention to her.

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<v Speaker 6>And I think that that for me was the moment

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<v Speaker 6>where I was like, Okay, if i'm yes, I can't

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<v Speaker 6>get away from using my phone. I have to use

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<v Speaker 6>my phone. But if she's speaking to me, give the

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<v Speaker 6>kids the same amount of respect that you would to

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<v Speaker 6>an adult. But sometimes it can be so easy because

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<v Speaker 6>kids are always wanting to talk to you, to be

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<v Speaker 6>like in a second, or yeah, honey, I'm listening, but

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<v Speaker 6>you're actually distracted. They should deserve that same level of

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<v Speaker 6>respect that you would give to an adult. But at

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<v Speaker 6>the same time, I feel like overarchingly, parents are not

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<v Speaker 6>trying to be bad parents, like most parents on average

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<v Speaker 6>want to be good parents and want to do the

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<v Speaker 6>best thing by their kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if only all parents are like my boomer parents,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know how to get on instagramw if my

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<v Speaker 1>parents did, I would never talk to them. They would

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<v Speaker 1>be hooked if they could.

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<v Speaker 6>So I mean our parents did it. I mean they

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<v Speaker 6>had their own ways of messing things up. So true,

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<v Speaker 6>you're going to screen you kids up someway.

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<v Speaker 5>Different kind of trauma altogether. Now, Lauria, you're in the

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<v Speaker 5>middle of moving houses, right I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the middle of moving houses.

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<v Speaker 6>We went to an inspection recently on a house that

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<v Speaker 6>we just signed the lease for, excited about moving into it,

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<v Speaker 6>and I needed to go and measure up a few things.

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<v Speaker 6>And I went in and look, there was a surprise

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<v Speaker 6>waiting for me, something smelling.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's next, I'm a pickup.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, before I get into this story, something that

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<v Speaker 6>happened to me recently.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're in the process of getting ourselves.

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<v Speaker 6>A new house and it's hard at the moment to

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<v Speaker 6>find a good rental property.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it is hard.

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<v Speaker 6>It is slim pickings and everything is extremely overpriced. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 6>recently we signed on a new lease and we have

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<v Speaker 6>because we've got so much kids stuff. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>make sure that all the stuff we had is going

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<v Speaker 6>to fit in this new house that we're moving into.

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<v Speaker 6>So I asked the real estate agent after we'd signed

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<v Speaker 6>if we could go in and have a look at

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<v Speaker 6>the place again, which I know is kind of I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>it's not really the dumb thing, but there's because there's

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<v Speaker 6>someone living there right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Right there's a tenant in the house.

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<v Speaker 6>So anyway, asked him if we could go in measure

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<v Speaker 6>some stuff up, and they were like, yep, no problem.

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<v Speaker 6>So I walk in to the house and it looks beautiful,

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<v Speaker 6>like the tenant has really cleaned it up for us,

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<v Speaker 6>and I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, this is going to be on your home. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was so excited.

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<v Speaker 6>And I walked in and I was going through the

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<v Speaker 6>bedrooms at the front of the house, and everything looks great.

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<v Speaker 6>It's obviously a guy who's renting it. I'm thinking he's

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<v Speaker 6>probably a pretty well to do man because he's renting

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<v Speaker 6>a family home. But it's just one single dude. So

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<v Speaker 6>I walk in and everything looks lovely. And then as

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<v Speaker 6>I get further and deeper into house.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, why is that smell? Like why does

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<v Speaker 2>the house stink?

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<v Speaker 6>Anyway, I walk into the master bedroom, suite that has

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<v Speaker 6>a little on suite there, and I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 6>this does not smell good in here, thinking maybe there's

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<v Speaker 6>something wrong with the plumbing that would have to raise

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<v Speaker 6>with the real estate agent. And I walk into the bathroom. Now,

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<v Speaker 6>this man knows I am coming to inspect the house.

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<v Speaker 6>He knows I am coming this day. He knows at

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<v Speaker 6>twelve o'clock the new tenant has a key and she's

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<v Speaker 6>coming inside the house.

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<v Speaker 2>And so what has he done? He has left an

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<v Speaker 2>enormous log, an enormous poop.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm talking a fully snapped off, massive like holidays to

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<v Speaker 6>potle sausage that you can hold in.

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<v Speaker 7>Two hands, sitting in.

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<v Speaker 6>The toilet bowl with no toilet paper, not to us square.

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<v Speaker 7>So he snapped one off. He's had a shower, he's gone.

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<v Speaker 6>And done a poo, and then he's obviously well doing

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<v Speaker 6>across to the other side to the to the sharer

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<v Speaker 6>of a shower.

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<v Speaker 7>In his defense, no, yeah, he's probably ticked off. He's like,

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<v Speaker 7>this is a rental.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't just come and go.

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<v Speaker 4>However many times you want to come back and check

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<v Speaker 4>out the place because you're a good enough.

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<v Speaker 6>Look who leaves the peol and the toilet guy, that's

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<v Speaker 6>like stuff you for coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're in his space. He's paid for that pooh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in his area.

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<v Speaker 7>He didn't come into your house and dropped her off.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Still what would you do? What would you do?

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<v Speaker 5>I left it. These images would not displayed on the debate.

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<v Speaker 6>I was never going to be able to sit on

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<v Speaker 6>that toilet and not think of his boom. Ever, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>always gonna think about the man who snapped it off

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<v Speaker 6>and waddled.

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<v Speaker 2>Into the shower.

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<v Speaker 4>It reminds me of one time when I moved into

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<v Speaker 4>my house a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 7>They were actually out. I had suddenly and I was

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<v Speaker 7>moving into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Opened one of the cupboards to like put my clothes

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<v Speaker 4>in coming, and there was a giant box of used

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<v Speaker 4>sex tweets. They left every sex tweet everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't even know.

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<v Speaker 7>What they bro you know, that'd be dusty imagination. No

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<v Speaker 7>dried up like.

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<v Speaker 1>I did the opposite when I because I just moved

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<v Speaker 1>out of my place with my partner because we split up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I left a photo of the two of us

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<v Speaker 1>on the wall for.

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<v Speaker 5>The site to pack it. So they got to move.

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<v Speaker 5>This beautiful gay couple on the wall.

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<v Speaker 2>The real estate agents go through and check for this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley High ash as what happened in the move out

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<v Speaker 1>of the rental property?

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<v Speaker 5>What went wrong? Ash So?

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<v Speaker 10>When I was moving in, this is the first time

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<v Speaker 10>I was moving out by myself. I was so excited.

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<v Speaker 10>It was the cheapest rental in my area, and I

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<v Speaker 10>was like, see there, what it's actually not looking too bad.

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<v Speaker 10>I moved in and within like the first few days

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<v Speaker 10>you sort of looking at all the cupbears and that

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<v Speaker 10>kind of stuff. I've gone into the bathroom and up

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<v Speaker 10>in the bathroom cupboard it was full of use pads, tampon.

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<v Speaker 4>Who puts used pazantine one's back in the cupboard?

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<v Speaker 2>They're single use everyone.

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<v Speaker 10>Usable.

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<v Speaker 7>That's actually disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 10>I have to admit I got pitched. I was pissed off.

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<v Speaker 10>I called the real estate and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 10>was disgusting, and they were like, oh, we're sure that

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<v Speaker 10>this has been checked. Are you sure?

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<v Speaker 6>Don't gaslight me about what I just found. I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>do it in my sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'll take a photo, put it in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the inspection report, the condition report.

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<v Speaker 4>I did.

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<v Speaker 6>I did, so I have a photo make sure make

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<v Speaker 6>sure you put them all back when you move out.

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<v Speaker 1>Laura burn photo on the pick up socials everyone as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as we can.

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<v Speaker 5>Same with the turd photo. Laura, it's going to be

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<v Speaker 5>it's going to be an album.

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon it's still sitting in the toilet to this day.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, Ashley.

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<v Speaker 6>Coming up next to the boys, Will and Woody, what's

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<v Speaker 6>on the show today, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>This afternoon?

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<v Speaker 1>Very exciting what he explains why he's got the most

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<v Speaker 1>sensitive nipples in the Southern hemisphere and digs of the

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<v Speaker 1>Jones brothers. Yeah, guy called John has the northern hemisphere covered.

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<v Speaker 1>But again we'll talk about it more in about two nice,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we'll see tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, guys,