WEBVTT - B*TCH PLEASE! The psychology behind mean girl behaviour 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:23.320 Guys, guess who's back. Welcome to another episode of Life 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:24.880 on Cut. Spoiler it's us. 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:27.960 We're back. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.040 We had a week off, guys, and we are so sorry, 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:32.920 but we had a little mini vacate. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:34.720 We actually did try to. 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:35.280 Record for you. 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:37.479 We took our equipment up. It was a really big mission. 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:41.559 We failed miserably. It went to hell in a hand basket. 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:42.280 But we are back. 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:43.400 We are rejuvenating. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.280 On hell in a hand's not even a saying. 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.440 Yeah, when something goes terribly it goes to hell in 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:48.520 a hand basket, not. 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:51.440 Once in my thirty I don't want to say how you. 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:53.280 Were on The Bachelor with Nick Cummens, who had the 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:55.560 most outrageous one liners, and you're going to pull me 0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:57.440 up on going to hell in a hand basket. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.120 Yeah, but he was just like slide out like a 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:00.240 lizard drinking in the. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:03.480 Same thing about her and a handbasket. Also, if that's 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:05.240 completely incorrect, do not dm me. 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.360 I don't want to know about it. 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:08.479 I'm going to keep on saying it don't add us. 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:09.600 So yeah, like. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:13.000 Brit said, we did bring the equipment up to Byron. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:16.679 We had great intentions. It went terribly, terribly wrong. So instead, 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:18.640 we are well rested and here to bring you the 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.800 best content that your ears have Heather listened to. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:22.760 You know what the worst part of that was, actually 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:25.039 we still put in the effort and the hours, so 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.000 we still did all the research. We still sat down 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.800 for half a day and recorded and did everything so 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:33.520 for nothing. So we wasted this our precious, precious, precious 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:35.640 holiday time trying to and I mean we just have 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:36.399 to accept defeat. 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.440 Sometimes sometimes things just don't work. 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.360 We did also have someone who we were interviewing and 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:43.480 I maybe didn't press record. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:47.720 Look, it's thin Ice, Laura. It's a touchy subject and 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:48.560 it's too soon, so. 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:49.920 I don't want to talk about that. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.760 It's the first time it's ever happened. But it happened, guys, 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:57.360 with lac Efron. She didn't hit record, and Brittany's chances gone. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:58.400 He's now dating enormy. 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:00.600 You realize you were the reason. And I'm not dating 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:01.120 zach Efron. 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:02.840 You can blame me for all your problems in life. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:04.760 But anyway, guys, it's nice to be back. Thank you 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:08.440 to everybody who understood. Also, you know, we this isn't 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.280 our full time job. This is like a really like 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:13.040 fun extra thing that we do that we love doing 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:15.440 for you guys, and we get so much out of it, 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.359 but we do put. 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:17.880 The time in like it's a full time job, but 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:19.680 it's not our main job totally. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.359 And so you know, there are definitely weeks and from 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.200 time to time when we find it really difficult to 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:26.200 bring you the consistency of content that you guys are 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:28.600 used to, But we obviously put all our time and 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.880 energy into trying to bring you two episodes a week, 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.640 and we just want to reassure you that. 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:36.400 We are back, baby, and what on that hate when 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:37.079 you sing so much? 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:38.240 Sing it? 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:42.160 Well, on that note, I guess now we can say it. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:45.359 We have actually looked back over the year and almost 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:46.760 year and a half we've been doing this, and we 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:49.200 were like, how many episodes have we actually missed. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:51.120 Or not given on time? And there aren't actually many. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:52.720 There's been a few in the last month or two 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.440 that might have been a little bit late, as in 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:55.720 a couple of hours. 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:59.040 And we can now tell you that that is because. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:03.120 Laura has been insanely unwell with her second baby. 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:05.120 I'm having a baby. 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:08.480 I mean, woo, it's so weird. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.400 Don't get too excited Laura, No, I'm really really excited. 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.519 I mean, it's it's obviously been something that's been happening 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.680 for a while now. There is a little part of 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.120 me that feels bad that I've kept it from you guys, 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:22.200 and like exactly what Britt said, I was really sick 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.480 with morning sickness for the first trimester. But yeah, I've 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:27.120 seen the light, the light at the end of the 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.640 tunnel of the second trimester. Times are good. Well, we 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:30.799 will get into some questions. 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:32.720 I have some questions for you, but I just want 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:35.480 to say, like just so you guys can understand, and 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:36.920 it's been hard because we haven't been able to tell you. 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:39.200 There were some times some days where we were recording, 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:40.720 and this is why some of them didn't get you 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.760 on time. Some days would be recording and Laura's looking 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:43.960 at me and I was like, oh shit, you don't 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:47.160 look well, and she'd be like she'd start with her 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:48.560 mouth and I was like, oh my god, you've got 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.960 to vomit, and she'd literally have to run to the bathroom. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.880 And there were just times she was physically like unable 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:55.920 to sit here and hold a conversation for an hour 0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:58.280 and a half and I was like, babe, it's okay, Like, 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.560 if you can't do it, we can't get the episode out. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.920 There was this one day that we were recording and 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.920 I had such bad intergestion. I just kept spuburbing into 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.440 the microphone and then I had to spend like four 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:10.960 hours trying to edit out every single time I stopped 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.680 started because I couldn't breathe properly. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.200 So these are the things that we've been going through. 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:19.080 It was ridiculous. But anyway, Laura, congratulations. 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:22.080 I know obviously I've known for a long time, but 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:23.760 it's really exciting news. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.440 How do you feel that you can actually now share it, 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:28.000 get this weight off your shoulders? 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:29.880 Well at first day, I just want to say thanks 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:32.480 to everybody from our community as well who's been so 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:36.599 incredibly supportive, especially because, like I mean, if you've been 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.240 listening to Life on Cut from the beginning, then you 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:41.400 know I've been really open with our pregnancy journey and 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:44.000 that Matt and I have had a couple of miscarriages now, 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.719 and so that was one of the biggest reasons why 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:49.520 I wasn't really comfortable with sharing it, and I kind 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.480 of was just not that I was in denial, like 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:55.240 I definitely was like, I'm pregnant, but I was kind 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:57.080 of in denial that maybe this baby was going to 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:59.000 stick around for a little while, so I didn't want 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.480 to make it public and then I have to go 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:05.919 through another public conversation about miscarriage. So firstly, before I 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.159 get too excited and two ahead of myself, I just 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:10.080 want to recognize that I know that if there's anybody 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:13.080 listening to this episode who's currently going through a really 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:16.080 difficult fertility journey, it can be a real slap in 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.960 the face to hear another happy pregnancy announcement, and I 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.359 just want to say, like, I really recognize that, and 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:23.640 I know what that feels like, and so I really 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:25.760 feel I really hope that you get your rainbow baby, 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:28.480 Like I genuinely mean that in regards to like Matt 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:32.440 and I. I guess we're like fully halfway now. But 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:36.080 it's really different with your second baby, because, like with Marley, 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.960 I was so in tune with the pregnancy. I was like, 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.960 oh today, my baby's a blueberry. Now my baby's the 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:43.960 size of an orange, it's growing eyelids. 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:45.120 Now you forget your pregnant. 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.600 Honestly, I like, get to two o'clock in the afternoon, 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:51.680 I'm like, God, I've got that indigestion. Oh, that's the 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:52.640 foot in my lung. 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:53.480 There we are. 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.880 Anyway, I'm at the point in the pregnancy now where 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.360 I'm not talking about the glowy, gorgeous wonderfulness of pregnancy. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.240 I'm talking about how like your vagina starts getting fat 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.080 and your nipples go black, and why is there a 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:05.560 beard growing on my stomach? 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:09.680 Hang on, winder back. Your vagina gets. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.640 Fat, Your vagina gets. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.320 So fat, what do you mean like chubb like chubby. 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:16.599 It looks like well, mine doesn't look like it yet, 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:19.920 but like low and behold at nine months, some people 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:24.640 get a really swollen vagina. It bluid like a chicken breast. 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.440 Just think of a really juicy chicken breast. 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:28.360 And that is. 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:30.800 Let's move along to the hairy beard on your tummy, 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.559 which at the nine month mark when I had Marley, 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:37.880 I was shaving your stomach or the floppyga. 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:40.880 All of you above my stomach. 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:43.200 I really hope that there's other like pregnant women out 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.680 there are people who have kids who listen to this 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:48.560 and relate like pregnancy just does the weirdest shit to 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:49.080 your body. 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.120 It's not normal. 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.520 It's well, it is normal, we just don't talk about it, 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.919 from like growing excess hair, to losing your hair, to 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.200 getting a fat vagina, to your nipples going black, or 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:00.799 to your nipples getting really long, like all this weird 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:03.240 stuff happens and nobody talks about it. 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:03.719 We'll see. 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.320 The thing is, I didn't know any of that. I 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.240 don't know what you just said. I just thought you 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:12.160 had a harry stomach. I was gonna say, in a 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.880 fat vagina, but like that's awkward. Oh you see me 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:19.720 in a bikini. So no. But but for real, it's 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.760 actually nice to hear someone talk about the things that 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:23.880 no one does talk about, because I'm sure there's a 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:25.800 lot of women out there like me right now being 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:26.679 like what. 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:27.800 Vagina puts on way. 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:29.800 But I guess the thing as well is is like 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:32.080 it's one of the reasons well, I mean, this is 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:33.960 my assumption, but I think it's one of the reasons 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.680 why we struggle so much with the changes that our 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.960 body goes through when we're pregnant. And that's because like 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.720 there's only very limited aspects of that that we talk about. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:43.960 We don't really talk about varicus veins. We don't really 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:47.240 talk about like fluid retention. And I think that there's 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.000 like this lack of preparation for just how weird shit 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:51.960 gets with your body, and like a lot of it 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.600 goes back to normal, A lot of it kind of 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:56.480 there is this once the baby comes out, it kind 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:59.560 of like slowly gradually goes back to a new a 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:02.280 new normal, not the same but very similar. 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:04.040 Not a streamline. 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.040 Let's say, I'm no twenty year old, but yeah, I 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:08.920 think it's really important for women to talk about these 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.720 things and be open about it so that when you 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:13.200 are pregnant and shit starts going really weird, you're like, hey, 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:13.840 that's okay. 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:16.120 That go from The Bachelor had a fat vagina too. 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:17.480 I feel less alone. 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:20.400 No, but absolutely, I just aren't wait for Daily Mail 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:21.600 to write an article about this. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:25.080 I just so you guys know and heads up to you, Laura. 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.240 I will be asking a lot of questions over the 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.920 next couple of months and keeping you guys informed as 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.240 to the progress of Laura's vagina, Laura's hair situation. But 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:37.320 how let's tell everyone how far actually are you right now? 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.840 So I'm twenty one weeks all right, let's do the 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:43.080 math is that five months. Yeah, it's like, well, I guess, 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:45.400 I don't know. Twenty one weeks is like five months. 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:48.680 I'm just over halfway. Yeah, okay, so congratulations on keeping 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:50.520 that a secret. God knows how you have done that. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:54.120 I feel like watching your progress, I don't feel like 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:55.559 you popped until. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.360 Like really recently. 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:57.440 Yeah, I guess. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.680 Also, it's been pretty easy to keep it under wraps. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:03.280 I mean, one, it was isolation, so like no one 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.360 was really leaving the house. Who it was winter, so 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.520 I was wearing like big baggy clothes, and like three, 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:07.960 no one. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.080 Really cares about me anymore. So it's also it's really easy. 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:11.719 No they did. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:13.840 There were some moments that Laura and I we might 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:15.480 have taken a cute photo or something. She's like, you 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:18.319 can't post that preggers. So we were trying to filter 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:19.280 some stuff out. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.040 And there were actually some people, some people from this 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:25.120 community and also people who follow me on Instagram who 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.480 had started to tweak to it. So I was starting 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.720 to get a lot of messages from people saying, hey, 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.839 I have a feeling that you're pregnant, which is a 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.240 kind of a weird thing to text someone, but they 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:34.880 were correct. 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:38.800 So yeah, to everybody who tweeked to it. Congratulations, you 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:40.800 win the Lucky Door prize. You in all right, let's 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:42.280 just wind it back to the start, because I think 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.560 the most important thing, and I think it really shows 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.439 like who's the most important person in your life and 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:48.680 who you love the most and who's the best Who. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:49.520 Did you tell first? 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.320 Okay, so Britt says this because I told Brit, So 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:58.040 the very first person I told was Brit. Also, like 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.200 when I was pregnant last time, Brit was the very 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.079 first person I told. And then Britt was also the 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.439 very first person I told that I was having a miscarriage. So, 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:06.920 like you seem to be really like my point of contact, 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.559 my touch point for these things. Love that I told 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:11.920 Britt first, And like I said, I was in a 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:15.760 bit of denial because this pregnancy happened very very quickly 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.440 after the miscarriage that I had, which I spoke about 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.720 in one of that episodes if you want to go 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.319 back and listen to it. This happened really really soon after, 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:26.040 and much to Matt's disappointment, he thought he was going 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:27.760 to get a little bit more sexy time out of me, 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.320 but he did not. The man is very potent. I 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.280 kept it to myself for a really long time. I 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:36.760 didn't tell anyone apart from Britt. I didn't tell Matt 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:39.680 for about three or four weeks until I was actually 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:41.480 going to have my scan. So the day I was 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.560 going for my scan is the day that I told Matt. 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.080 And I don't I kind of feel bad for doing that, 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:49.440 and I Matt wasn't annoyed or anything. He understood. But 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:52.640 my reasoning for not wanting to tell him was because 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.920 if I had gone through another miscarriage, I didn't want 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:58.600 to have to disappoint him again. I wanted it to 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:01.040 be like, a, Hey, I'm going from a scan. I'm 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.080 gonna find out today if the baby has a heartbeat 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.320 and if everything's okay. So you're gonna know by this 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.400 afternoon if everything's okay. So I kind of pushed it 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.719 as far out as possible because I just didn't want 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:12.679 to go through that again. It's been stressful as much 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.400 as if there's been parts of it I've enjoyed. There's 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.760 been parts of this pregnancy so far. That's it's really 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.679 hard to enjoy a pregnancy after having pregnancy loss. 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:20.280 Yeah, and I can. 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.480 I can one hundred percent see both sides of that. 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.280 I can see why Matt would have been. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:25.800 Like, Babe, like, why didn't you tell me straight away? 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:29.160 But I can see why you after having two miscarriages 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:32.040 and you'd literally just miscarried recently, I can see why 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:34.800 you were like, I can't just disappoint him again, and 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.520 I just want to make sure this feeling of like 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.120 making sure it's safe, and I mean, you sort of 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:39.880 have to tell me. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:41.800 I guess we spend so much time together and it's. 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:46.480 And also like Matt kind of knew because for us, 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:48.920 like the most challenging parts in our relationship that we've 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:52.080 ever had has been during my first trimester of pregnancy, 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.640 because I turn into a psychopathic, crazy. 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:56.360 Hormonal witch. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.880 I can confirm that, like angry about everything, crying about 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.280 things irrationally, like I just can't control. I have so 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.720 little patience, And normally I would like to think that 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:09.040 I'm a relatively chilled person, but during the first trimester, 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:13.440 I just feel so angry and like frustrated and just 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:16.040 so quick to temper. And Matt had said to me 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:16.760 a few times, are. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:17.800 You sure you're not pregnant? 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:19.480 Like usually when you're a bit angry, He's like, are 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:22.120 you sure you don't have your periods? And now he's like, bitch, 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:24.480 you're pregnant, Like there's something going on here. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.120 So he well and truly had sniffed it out. 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:28.120 Moments where Matt was like, hey, babe, have you seen 0:12:28.120 --> 0:12:31.160 where I put my hat? And Laura was like, don't 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:31.719 want to you. 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:32.960 Just put it away where it blongs. 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:34.959 And I was like, I know I'm close to this couple, 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.520 but I cannot intervene here. It's like, Matt, your hat 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.320 is hanging on the door. It was a lot, but anyway, 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:41.680 as soon as you get past that. I don't know 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.440 if other people experience it, but as soon as I 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:45.760 got past that first trimester, like things kind of go 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:48.600 back to normal and I'm not quite possessed demon, so 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:51.079 everything's good. Now you're for sure emotional, and I think 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.480 there was this time too that you and I were 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.559 like our emotions were feeding off each other, like one 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:55.880 of you would start to cry and I'd be like 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.320 I'm upset too, Like I was almost like I was 0:12:58.360 --> 0:12:59.800 the sympathy pregnancy partner. 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:03.480 But well, this was all happening during your Bachelor Paradise stuff, 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:05.360 so it was obviously a really heightened period for you 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.479 as well. And then I was having my own emotional 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:10.800 stresses around this, and so yeah, we were just a 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:11.760 bundle of hormones. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.880 Guys. I'm really glad we got through that together though. 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:18.319 And big question, big question from the people, are you 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.360 going to find out or have you found out? If 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:25.120 I'm pregnant, if I'm allowed in the delivery suite, if 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:26.359 what you're having. 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:27.080 We don't know. 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.160 We have no idea for having a boy or a girl. 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.720 Mally was a surprise. I love surprises, and I think 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.480 that having a surprise baby. I think that not knowing 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:36.880 the gender of your baby is like one of the 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.800 most beautiful surprises. So yeah, I don't know. But I 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.880 had this really overwhelming feeling when I first found out 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:44.600 I was pregnant that it's a boy, Like I have 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.480 really strong boy vibes, which I never got any vibes 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.160 with Maley. I was like, I hope that this is 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:52.360 a human child, whereas this time I'm like, this is 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:53.360 a this is a boy. 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.560 I must yeah, I must admit. I think, you know 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:56.319 how it just comes out. 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:58.200 I think when we started talking about it, I had 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.440 said I can't wait to meet him or whatever. I 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:03.240 think I had dropped the he pronoun, so maybe subconsciously 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:04.040 I think it's a boy too. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.880 They go, well, anyway, maybe that's enough baby chat, just 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:07.880 to like, is it. 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.240 I mean we're gonna talk about the next four months. 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:11.200 We'll definitely not. 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.160 I mean, I might talk about my long black nipples, 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:15.120 but like that's my last week. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.960 I know, and I guess, yeah, I mean, we'll talk 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:19.280 about it later, but I guess we'll have a couple 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:19.920 of weeks break. 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.560 Laura is in the birthday week podcasting. I'll just give 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.080 you a minute by a minute update. 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:27.640 Don't worry. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:29.480 Well, tell me what's been happening in your world? 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:31.840 God, nothing as exciting as that. No, we went to 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:33.840 Byron Bay. We had a great little week. It was. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:35.800 It was a funny week because we were still sort 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.200 of working but were seming on BAK. But something really 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:42.200 cute did happen. Actually, I was saying with my girlfriends 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:45.080 and they have these two little girls that are like 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.960 four and five, and they watched me on the Bachelor, 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.880 and like they obviously at five years old, they didn't 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.320 they don't understand it. But they're allowed to watch Arnie 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.680 Brittany like dating on. 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.800 You're this TV prince Sacy. You're like, wow, she's from 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:00.359 the DV The Magical. 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:02.480 And yeah, they just think I'm in the ants pants 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:03.600 because TV is so big to a. 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:04.160 Five year old. 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:09.240 Anyway, they've obviously understand to some extent that I've been 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:13.800 dumped twice, Like they get that I'm single. 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:15.800 Anyway, we're at home. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:17.640 They're doing these little arts and crafts on the table 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:21.960 together and they're like, greaty, we're making you a handbag 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:23.840 because I was going out to dinner that night, and 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.200 I was like, amazing, thank you, and they're like, you 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:27.760 have to take it to dinner tonight and I was like, 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:31.080 of course I will. They're coloring away, and then a 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.520 couple of minutes later they put their head up they. 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:39.760 Go, they go, how do you spell single? 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:45.920 They're just making you a walking banner for you to 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:47.880 take to dinner. I'm not kidding. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:50.720 In my heart just like skipped a beat, broke all 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:54.000 these feelings at once. Anyway, I spelled it out to 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:56.080 them across the room and the girls will like. 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:58.720 It's spelled d Pete, depressing. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:02.080 No I was. I spelt it for them and then 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:04.320 they didn't skip a beat. They didn't look up. 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.360 But they were writing, they were coloring, and they were 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.040