WEBVTT - Tim bought WHAT without telling Georgie? Q&A with Tim Part 2

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to acknowledge the traditional owners on which this

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<v Speaker 1>episode is being recorded, the combo marry people. We pay

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<v Speaker 1>our respects to elders past, present and emerging, and extend

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<v Speaker 1>that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

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<v Speaker 1>Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>Rise and Conquer podcast. This is the podcast where which

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<v Speaker 1>have mindset, self development and becoming your higher self mix

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<v Speaker 1>soon with a lot of laughs, plus behind the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>of my life running two businesses and being among Think

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<v Speaker 1>of us as the perfect combo of brunch with your

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<v Speaker 1>besties mixed with self development. No matter where you are

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<v Speaker 1>in your journey, We're here to help you be curious,

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<v Speaker 1>pull yourself out, and embrace radical self awareness. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to get into the driver's seat of your own

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<v Speaker 1>life and stop letting life pass you by, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>in the right place. Hello and welcome back to the

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<v Speaker 1>RNC party. Happy Friday. Today we have part two of

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<v Speaker 1>Q and A with Tim. Guys, these are your favorite episodes,

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<v Speaker 1>they are They're my favorite two. A dear loved producing

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<v Speaker 1>this and we chat about how we feel about stepping

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<v Speaker 1>into our next level together. There was like a tricky

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<v Speaker 1>question for me to answer because no one has ever

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<v Speaker 1>asked me that. We also talk about how often we fight,

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<v Speaker 1>how we deal with fighting, if Tim will ever go

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<v Speaker 1>back to work. That question is word it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Tips on how to get your partner into self development,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot more. In this episode, Tim does chat

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<v Speaker 1>about his coach and the current program he's doing, and

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<v Speaker 1>we will link that in the show notes, just because

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<v Speaker 1>I know you guys will probably ask, and it has

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<v Speaker 1>been transformational for him, and just apps like this is

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<v Speaker 1>something we've fully paid for ourselves, no spon con or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that, but it just it has been transforming

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<v Speaker 1>for Tim, and I love giving credit where credit is due.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can hear the difference if you If

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<v Speaker 1>anyone listens to the episode we did with Tim last

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<v Speaker 1>year versus this two parter, you can you can really hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, Mmm, that's really cool. It's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>cool that we have that evidence. I guess, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely. I felt like he was way more confident

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<v Speaker 1>and I just even loved the points he brought to

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<v Speaker 1>the combo. I was even like, oh, yeah, that's interesting. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get into the show. A quick week update.

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<v Speaker 2>Georgie, how's a week been?

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<v Speaker 1>Why we all awk? Good? Oh my god, it's yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually had one of the best weeks. Yay, it

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<v Speaker 1>has been. I feel like because previous couple of weeks

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<v Speaker 1>were a little bit, a little bit interesting. There was

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<v Speaker 1>lots of internal things happening for me personally, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like you know, even astrologically, and this

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<v Speaker 1>week just feels lighter. I feel so clear, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. I've had some really exciting meetings for NH

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<v Speaker 1>and that no, can I give you a hint? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get murdered. And that was me really like stepping

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<v Speaker 1>into like CEO Georgie, Yeah, I love that, like pitching

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<v Speaker 1>the brand, talking about what makes us different, all those

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of things. I could really feel like my passion

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<v Speaker 1>cut getting filled up. And then also, guys, we had

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<v Speaker 1>our first live call for Rebirth and how was that?

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<v Speaker 1>I dear it was amazing. I literally was on the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest high all day after it. And I actually like

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was in a bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>just like like a trance when I was on the

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<v Speaker 1>call with the group. I really just like, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>said a little prayer before the call. I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>let it all come through, like let it be perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>And I truly, I'm just so proud of myself how

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<v Speaker 1>I showed up. I'm so proud of the group and

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<v Speaker 1>how they showed up. And you can even like we've

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<v Speaker 1>got such beautiful messages about like already feeling a shift.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was really cute when one woman just explained that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she had seen the workbook previously and answered

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<v Speaker 1>it like just journaled on it. Yeah, And then I

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<v Speaker 1>did the call and she said just the way I

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<v Speaker 1>explained things and like transmuted the message. I guess she

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<v Speaker 1>then went back and redid everything and just like had

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<v Speaker 1>a whole different version of herself come up from my call.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing, and that just makes me feel really good

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, it really does matter how I show

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<v Speaker 1>up and how I be and obviously I know that bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was just some really amazing feedback and yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I just I truly know how life changing

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<v Speaker 1>this course is going to be for those involved. And

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<v Speaker 1>we've already just had the most amazing feedback and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, there's just something the energy of a live

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<v Speaker 1>call is just something else.

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<v Speaker 2>It isn't, Yeah, so give it too late to get in?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, So you can get in, but we've

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<v Speaker 1>only got three more live calls, so if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be involved in the action and the magic, you

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<v Speaker 1>can definitely jump in. But also if you can't make

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<v Speaker 1>it for the live calls, it's so fine because they're

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<v Speaker 1>all saved and recorded. So yeah, do not stress. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just a shout out to everyone involved in rebirth. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so proud of you and just the magic in

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<v Speaker 1>that group. It's just it's feeling it's feeling so so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my week.

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<v Speaker 2>What about you? Pretty good? Life's just so normally at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment, nothing crazy is happening. I'm not doing you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, And I'm just loving getting into

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<v Speaker 2>a good routine and I'm experimenting with like coming to

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<v Speaker 2>work earlier and then going to gym in the afternoon

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<v Speaker 2>and playing around with that sort of stuff. I am

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<v Speaker 2>joining a new gym and my condition wasn't needed an

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<v Speaker 2>inferreds order and so it does. It's ten minutes from

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<v Speaker 2>my house and it's twenty four seven, so I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be having a sauna more often.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, A tear literally messaged me the other night.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a Saturday night, yeah, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I just had a sauna as the

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<v Speaker 1>best thing at that It literally was. I felt so

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<v Speaker 1>good after.

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<v Speaker 2>I had the best sleep that night. And I think, like,

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<v Speaker 2>as much as i'd love to get when at my

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<v Speaker 2>house is something I probably can't do at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>but still finding a way to get it in because

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<v Speaker 2>it is now a priority for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. And it's interesting because I have a

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<v Speaker 1>sauna at least three times a week. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>said that, I was like, yeah, yeah, they're really good.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I was like, oh no, Like I remember

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<v Speaker 1>when I first started and being like wow, so I

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<v Speaker 1>get what you're saying. And it's like, oh yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a vibe, isn't it. It's such a vibe. And

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<v Speaker 1>now that I do it consistently, like I can just

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<v Speaker 1>consistently feel like that, and it makes such a huge difference,

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<v Speaker 1>such a sort of it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, if I'm so to have a sauna

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<v Speaker 2>three times a week, then I'll have to go to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym, so I might as well, Like it'll get

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<v Speaker 2>me to the gym. It's like, oh, it's a whole journey. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So ps A, Tia, we are giving away a sauna

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<v Speaker 1>at n H for our birthday. I'm so jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't win it.

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<v Speaker 1>And when this episode goes live, I'm pretty sure you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have like one or two days to enter or

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do a shop at end H and

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<v Speaker 1>you could win a sauna or even four K cash.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, get on that.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're obsessed with saunas like me and a tear,

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<v Speaker 1>now is the time to shop at NH. And just

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you register your entry. Guys. If you do shop,

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<v Speaker 1>there is just a link on the website. It's really easy,

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<v Speaker 1>and just put your auto number in and register because

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<v Speaker 1>for every fifty dollars you spend, you get one entry.

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<v Speaker 1>So the more you spend, the more entries you get.

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<v Speaker 1>And with that, let's get into the episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see another side of each other after having

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<v Speaker 2>IVY good or bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Well just your maternal side.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh actually yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I always knew Tim would be an amazing father,

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<v Speaker 1>but to see Tim as a dad, as a girl

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<v Speaker 1>dad has just been the most incredible journey. And like

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<v Speaker 1>I've been through a journey, but to see Tim become

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<v Speaker 1>a dad and just how he shows up for Ivy,

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<v Speaker 1>how he role models for Ivy, how he cares for Ivy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't explain that feeling. It's just, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like I've seen such a beautiful side of you.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, you know, even though we've had so many,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, challenging times, it's like when you're going through

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<v Speaker 1>a challenging time for a child you share together, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's very powerful, like the bond and that sort

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. So yeah, I feel like I've seen a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different side of you. I feel like you're a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different person.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks, man, I appreciate that, and the same to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Some reason in my head, I'm like, and that's me thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I thought I can say something negative about

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<v Speaker 3>me or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you baring?

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<v Speaker 3>That's interesting? I know, that's an interesting perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a concept.

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<v Speaker 3>Put a pin in that one, babe. We can talk

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<v Speaker 3>about that later.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk about that tonight at dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Babe. Yeah, that's a meat problem. But yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 3>you have definitely stepped up in a way of juggling

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<v Speaker 3>mum life and work life, which has been super hard

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<v Speaker 3>for you because you're already fucking stressed out and busy

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<v Speaker 3>enough as it is before we had Ivy. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>like for you to be able to do, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>mitigate these situations and you know your daily struggles to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to come home and like show up for

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<v Speaker 3>Ivy as well, it's like, yes, super special and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>super proud of you for being able to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. How do you both handle moments of feeling

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<v Speaker 2>resentful towards each other?

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<v Speaker 1>We talk about it. I just tell them straight up

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<v Speaker 1>and like I did the other night, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually feeling a bit fucking pissed off that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to golf tomorrow and I'm feeling really stressed and

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<v Speaker 1>emotional about my week. And then we unpack it and

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about it, and then it's also we came

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<v Speaker 1>to the conclusion or I did, of I need to

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<v Speaker 1>sharedule my week better in work, because I had just

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<v Speaker 1>put a lot of things on myself that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>probably weren't needed. I probably didn't need to attend all

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<v Speaker 1>the meetings, I probably didn't need to do all the

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<v Speaker 1>things in the business, but I had such a I

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<v Speaker 1>need to do this. So really that resentment was really

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, but I was projecting it onto Tim because

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<v Speaker 1>it's the easiest thing to do is project and to

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<v Speaker 1>put responsibility on someone else. So I feel like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're feeling resentful towards your partner, really have a think

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<v Speaker 1>about where you're resentful towards yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And before you guys sort of opened up conversations like that,

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<v Speaker 2>did you work through it on your own or did

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<v Speaker 2>you find the resentment building up? How did that first conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Both doing PD, I'd just.

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<v Speaker 1>Be you know, I don't know why you keep calling

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<v Speaker 1>your PD. Every time he says that, I've got to

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<v Speaker 1>like really think what he's talking about, and I'm like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well he does. Yeah, I mean I would just

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<v Speaker 3>be passive aggressive, and like we did really hold that

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<v Speaker 3>resentment and it came out in toxic ways, like we

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<v Speaker 3>would just have like a like a screen magele or something,

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<v Speaker 3>or it would come out in spiteful ways, yes, fieful ways,

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<v Speaker 3>or like we might lose our temp with IVY, Which

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<v Speaker 3>is like why making things so worked up over this

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<v Speaker 3>little thing is because it's from like this over here,

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<v Speaker 3>coming from me holding resistance from a situation that happened

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<v Speaker 3>a few days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think that's the biggest thing we've realized since

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Tim's got into this and we've really started

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<v Speaker 1>unpacking our feelings. Is like a lot of the motions

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<v Speaker 1>you feel in that moment actually don't belong to that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and they usually are built up from other areas. You

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<v Speaker 1>just don't You're like just at your limit, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just, you know, the straw that breaks the

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<v Speaker 1>camel's back, like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Would came out like we didn't because before obviously we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know how to channel our anger, did we really?

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<v Speaker 3>And then now it's like we're still working it out,

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<v Speaker 3>but at least we can channel it by essentially just

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<v Speaker 3>putting emotions out at the table. It's like that's how

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<v Speaker 3>we get our our feelings and angery in a sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Our next question, how does it feel stepping into this

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<v Speaker 2>next level together? New cars, a chef, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Tim, how's your new car? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I love it?

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<v Speaker 1>Full up question on your new car?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you buy a car without telling Georgie?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 1>I literally you already told everyone on the podcast. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you take us through your thought process there?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, just so excited I was like, minute, I'm getting it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just speak clear. I didn't actually buy. I put

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<v Speaker 3>a deposit on it, Okay, didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>The refundable deposit.

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<v Speaker 3>No, well listen, it's like I knew it was going

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<v Speaker 3>to happen, so I just put the deposit on it

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<v Speaker 3>and it was good.

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<v Speaker 2>And how did you bring that up? Did you tell you?

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<v Speaker 2>I think?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you lie about me? He fucking texts me about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Babe. This is literally in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>We just.

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<v Speaker 3>Fully channeled it out. I don't even know what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>It was all blow. It was like this and then

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<v Speaker 3>this and then this. It's like you know that meme

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<v Speaker 3>where it's like your phone gets wet and it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I'm shopping and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>I just brought a car. It's like, for gotta know.

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<v Speaker 3>Next minute, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Do think it's funny. Oh yeah, well no, I think

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<v Speaker 1>to get back to the question, me and him have

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<v Speaker 1>known each other since we were no. I know, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we're so young. So it's really funny because

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<v Speaker 1>when I talk to people about our lifestyle, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I remember a time where I was at university

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<v Speaker 1>and working full time, but like and I was struggling,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to pay rent, and you know Tim would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, help me out to pay for something, or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we've really come from you know, that place

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<v Speaker 1>of nothing and having to really build our future together.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, it really does feel like, fuck, is

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<v Speaker 1>this our life?

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<v Speaker 3>M It's like it's almost slug.

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<v Speaker 1>Good analogy and then quit. And then other moments it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like we've just stepped into this life. This has

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<v Speaker 1>been so gradual, Like if you think about it, Naked

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<v Speaker 1>Harvest is for before that, I was, you know, training

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<v Speaker 1>to be a lawyer. Like, we have taken gradual steps

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<v Speaker 1>into our reality. So a lot of the time it

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<v Speaker 1>does feel really like, of course, this is our life,

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<v Speaker 1>and then other times it's like, holy shit, is this

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<v Speaker 1>our life? I think a lot of the time, how

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<v Speaker 1>often do we say Tim, like when we look out

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<v Speaker 1>at our view of like oh my god, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe this is our house, or like this is our view,

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<v Speaker 1>or like we have so many moments like that of

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<v Speaker 1>being like surreal, Wow, this is our reality. Because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's even funny we're talking about just five years ago

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<v Speaker 1>we were in our little townhouse in Holland Park, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting married only five years ago. Yeah, and there's a little,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, two bedroom townhouse that was sizes of a

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<v Speaker 1>shoe box, so cute and so like it's funny because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like been fast but also not really. So we

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<v Speaker 1>have so many moments where I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is our life, and then so many moments of

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<v Speaker 1>like knowing how hard you know, we've both worked and

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<v Speaker 1>how hard we've you know, worked on this very specific reality.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like even the chef thing, I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>sat on that and thought about that for like six

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<v Speaker 1>months before getting one, Yeah, being like I need this,

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<v Speaker 1>inquiring knowing the price, being like now we can't do it,

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<v Speaker 1>we can just cook, and then having like so many

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<v Speaker 1>meltdowns in the kitchen of like me and Tim trying

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<v Speaker 1>to cook, and then like me coming home from big

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<v Speaker 1>work day, and then Tim's trying to cook, and then I,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like all these things and this and it

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<v Speaker 1>being like, no, this is the thing. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people might see social media

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<v Speaker 1>and think, oh my god, it's just it's always been

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<v Speaker 1>their life, but not knowing the steps and like what

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<v Speaker 1>happens behind the scenes and how long things you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes take and what goes into it and like the

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<v Speaker 1>amount of times I've got a journal and something and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all those sorts of things to doesn't share that with me.

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<v Speaker 1>But sure, no cars, this is why I'm gonna work.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, but I am good at selling them. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>a that's for some reason, I don't know what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>really good at selling stuff? Would you not agree? It's

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<v Speaker 3>like weird thing that I do. That's like motal So.

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<v Speaker 1>Tim sell stuff on the marketplace and out cars and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and he just he's great at selling for some reason.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the universe is just like people always want

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<v Speaker 3>to come to me, like by style. If you want

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<v Speaker 3>to sell anything, I'll just sell it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's really good at selling stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>To which maybe she just start like a selling business.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like hey, you want to sell your ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop, you don't fucking have the time right, sit back down.

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<v Speaker 3>Sell your ship. Don't come. This is the official like

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<v Speaker 3>advertising forman stop. So everyone, just if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>email hello at Rosen Conker podcast. If anyone wants to

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<v Speaker 3>sell their ship, you either get me or you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to see you sell it and it'll be gone with

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<v Speaker 3>But it's going to be gone within two weeks. Anything,

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<v Speaker 3>anything will sell it.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time that we joke to my parents that

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to sell our dogs and they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't sell the dogs them. We're going to sell

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<v Speaker 1>them in my place.

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<v Speaker 3>That was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We're joking. We would never sell out pressure pressure as

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<v Speaker 1>little babies.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So next question is Tim going back to

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<v Speaker 2>work at all? And I've been to daycare, Tim going.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to work when I goes to school, Well, I think, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Tim reckins, he's retired.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it. On the tour.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally what he tells people when you're on holidays.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's retired.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like my go to line. I'm like, They're like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you do for work. I'm like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>actually retired.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like what, you're retired and he looks after a

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<v Speaker 1>one year old like that.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, oh, pretty much retired. I'm like, no, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not retirement at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, he is going into daycare probably one day

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<v Speaker 1>a week soon to test it out for her development.

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<v Speaker 1>We think it would be really good, like for her

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<v Speaker 1>to be around other kids, and then it will give

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<v Speaker 1>Tim one day a week.

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<v Speaker 3>For himself because weekends is like pretty much strictly.

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<v Speaker 1>Family now, family time, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like super important, it's like needed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, but he's no, he's not going to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to work on that one day. He would just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just do be a lady of leisure.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'll probably I'll do my golf day on that

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<v Speaker 3>one day off and then it'll be like do some

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<v Speaker 3>cool stuff, do a bit of study. Yeah, just like

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<v Speaker 3>because that's super important, like just me t for me

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<v Speaker 3>to like recharge for the week. But like that's my

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<v Speaker 3>one day off will be during the week.

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<v Speaker 1>And then also he's one day where he can get

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<v Speaker 1>some ship done because like, as you know, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get shit done with the child's very hard.

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<v Speaker 3>They probably have to mow the lawn as well. So

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<v Speaker 3>like I do inside the house and I do outside

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<v Speaker 3>the house.

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<v Speaker 1>No one feels sorry. They do.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think understands that they don't feel sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they love you. But it like hen going

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<v Speaker 1>back to the question would you ever go back to

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<v Speaker 1>work and.

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<v Speaker 3>What would you do? M So, I now have a

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<v Speaker 3>bit of an idea I now have.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to tell people you don't well, should

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<v Speaker 1>we leave them on.

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<v Speaker 3>The Yeah, like I have, so before doing this core stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't really have any idea of what I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to do when I when I went back to work,

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<v Speaker 3>or if I was going to get back to work

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<v Speaker 3>now figuring out sort of my purpose, I'd sort of

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<v Speaker 3>have a bit of idea like what I would like

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<v Speaker 3>to do moving forward, but I think it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still working on it. So I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>say what it is. If that makes sense, should we

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<v Speaker 3>just tell them?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you share, well everyone, what your purpose is? I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that'd be intrigue. Share your purpose?

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<v Speaker 3>So my purpose, my purpose. Let me get my notes,

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<v Speaker 3>Let me get my notes. I've got notes everywhere through

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<v Speaker 3>this phone. I've got notion on my phone. I got audible,

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<v Speaker 3>he's got notion socause. I just want to get this,

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<v Speaker 3>like absolutely down back.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're waiting, all right, all right, so this is

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<v Speaker 1>like this is it?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>The short version? So my purpose is to empower men

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<v Speaker 3>to be more emotionally intelligent and to leave people better

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<v Speaker 3>off than before I met them. I actually saw that

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<v Speaker 3>from Jamie a little bit, because when I heard that,

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<v Speaker 3>that's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, I told him Jamie's and he goes, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my purpose. I love the first part of that too.

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<v Speaker 1>So even me and Tim discuss a lot of like

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<v Speaker 1>because what you know he talks about is like him

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<v Speaker 1>wishing he had a lot of these tools when he

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<v Speaker 1>was younger. So even like Tim would love to be

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<v Speaker 1>involved in maybe you know, younger males and helping them

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to their emotional intelligence and having those tools.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awesome. That'd be super cool and whatever that means

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<v Speaker 3>in whatever way. But something along those lines, the universe

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<v Speaker 3>will working towards that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's beautiful, bab, that's really incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Our next question, how often do you fight and how

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<v Speaker 2>do you resolve them?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we've been fighting heaps less. Would you say.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, Oh, have we felt pretty good?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly think since you have been doing this personal development,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we've had a proper fight.

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<v Speaker 3>We talk, i'd say fights out about ego, which is

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<v Speaker 3>not actually a fight. Let's just say what you go talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're trying to say. In moments, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>we have emotion and we have you know, conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and we'll get heated and whatnot. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we haven't had like a fight where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like lingering passive aggression. Yeah, and you're like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just feel like we haven't had those

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<v Speaker 1>fights because we always sought it out in a way.

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<v Speaker 1>And even what happened the other day and I just

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<v Speaker 1>said to you, I a hundred like I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, or I don't know, I can't really

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<v Speaker 1>remember what it was about, but I just said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just dealing with a lot at the moment, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just like would rather not speak about it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like I respect that, and then

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<v Speaker 3>like almost like you know, I say, thank you for

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 3>telling me that, and it does mean a lot.

0:25:35.080 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>And Tim did say, and it's he wrote some stuff

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>down and he said, when you're ready to talk about it,

0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:42.400
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about it. He wrote some notes.

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 3>I've got the notes. I'm a notes man.

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 2>Now.

0:25:44.800 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 3>I think it's so important because otherwise I just forget it.

0:25:46.880 --> 0:25:48.679
<v Speaker 3>So if it's there, I'm like, oh man, we can

0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:49.440
<v Speaker 3>tap back into it.

0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 3>And then also so like for me, I'll if I George,

0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:56.399
<v Speaker 3>like something annoys me with George, I'll like I'll hold it,

0:25:56.520 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 3>and then I know we're going to have that chat

0:25:57.800 --> 0:26:01.119
<v Speaker 3>at night and then I'll say this and like what

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:04.880
<v Speaker 3>you did today like really frustrated me, and then sort

0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:08.639
<v Speaker 3>of go through the emotions and then yeah, just like

0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:12.200
<v Speaker 3>that will be us getting our emotions out instead of

0:26:12.280 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 3>having a screaming match and just actually like just talking

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 3>how we felt instead of been like, ah, fuck you

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 3>you know this and that it's like, yeah, just literally

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:24.359
<v Speaker 3>talking like the very calm voice.

0:26:24.600 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Even it was Sunday and I could tell you were

0:26:26.960 --> 0:26:29.480
<v Speaker 1>getting a bit frustrated, and you even kind of snapped

0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>at me at one moment, and I just didn't respond

0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>because and then it was maybe ten minutes after you

0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 1>said I could really feel I was in my ego then,

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and I apologize and I just I didn't respond, whereas

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:47.320
<v Speaker 1>previous me would have snapped back. But because we're so

0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:50.160
<v Speaker 1>much more, I know he's not doing it because he's

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>just trying to be a dick. I know he's clearly

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:56.400
<v Speaker 1>frustrated about something. So I feel like our reactivity has

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>gotten so much better where I don't feel the need

0:26:59.640 --> 0:27:01.480
<v Speaker 1>to react because I'm like, he's having a hard enough

0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:04.920
<v Speaker 1>time with whatever he's dealing with, and I know that

0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 1>we're going to bring it up later so I just

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:09.200
<v Speaker 1>don't feel the need to react. But then most of

0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 1>the time, nine times out of ten, we'll even be like, oh, look,

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 1>I apologize, I didn't mean to. And it's even so

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:18.080
<v Speaker 1>funny because I notice myself doing that of like, you're

0:27:18.119 --> 0:27:22.800
<v Speaker 1>not reacting and me being like, and now I have

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:28.479
<v Speaker 1>to apologize. No, But it's not it's not even silent.

0:27:28.600 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't even say you don't do that, because I

0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:34.440
<v Speaker 1>don't believe in silent treatment. It's but it's the I

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:37.879
<v Speaker 1>know I've overstepped, and even if I don't apologize in

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:39.680
<v Speaker 1>a moment, the fact that I know we're going to

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>talk about it later, like being.

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 2>Like, how do you feel being at the stay at

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 2>home parent now that you're in the trenches as in

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:50.520
<v Speaker 2>I think like actually having to do it now, like.

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:52.119
<v Speaker 3>As in like being tht in the deep end or

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 3>most a yeah, and you're.

0:27:53.920 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Like, it's your reality.

0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 2>It's not just like I'm going to stay at home

0:27:56.880 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 2>with Ivy. It's like you're actually at.

0:27:58.280 --> 0:28:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Home with Ivy now that you're a stay at home dad.

0:28:00.800 --> 0:28:02.400
<v Speaker 1>What do you how do you feel.

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 3>About it now it's all happening. Yeah, I guess it's

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:07.400
<v Speaker 3>like it's fucking hard.

0:28:08.920 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 2>Like it is.

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 3>And it's I mean, hats off to all them, all

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:14.920
<v Speaker 3>the mums that fucking stay home with their kids or

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:18.920
<v Speaker 3>dads or dad's brother. Obviously it's a bit more rareer

0:28:19.200 --> 0:28:21.920
<v Speaker 3>my case, but yeah, it's fucking hard.

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:27.400
<v Speaker 1>Well that's even for example, and I notice our conditioning

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 1>so much because even I fall in the pattern of

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:34.200
<v Speaker 1>even to get to this podcast, like Tim had to

0:28:34.240 --> 0:28:36.159
<v Speaker 1>wait till Ivy woke up, and then our dogs are

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 1>getting a haircut, so he had to pick them up up,

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:40.720
<v Speaker 1>pick them up, and then he came here and the

0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 1>dogs are here, and it's all stressful, and Tim's a

0:28:43.160 --> 0:28:46.560
<v Speaker 1>bit flustered and stressed. And I made the comment of

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>are you stressed because you had to do your two

0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>things or you know, something like that, which not appropriate,

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.000
<v Speaker 1>And I do apologize to making that comment. It was joke.

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 3>I didn't think that was very interesting comment.

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 1>He did put in his phone.

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 3>This is gonna come up to not.

0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>You see us, I know, and I do apologize because

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>that's not appropriate. And what your comment back was like,

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 1>you have no idea, and it's so true. Like the

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>other day my girlfriend was like, let's go for a

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:27.880
<v Speaker 1>walk of their baby's and she was even coming to me,

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and so I had to walk down you know, our

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:32.959
<v Speaker 1>hill where we leave, and she's like, I'll be there

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:34.960
<v Speaker 1>in half an hour, and Ivy had just woken up,

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 1>and to like get Ivy up to feed her, to

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:40.320
<v Speaker 1>back the bag, and then she did fucking pooh and

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 1>then this and then that, and it took me so long,

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and I like was running down the hill. And yeah, honestly,

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I can say, obviously I've been a mom for eighteen

0:29:50.680 --> 0:29:54.240
<v Speaker 1>months now, and happily I can say, even though I

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:59.200
<v Speaker 1>run to seven eight figure you know, businesses with twenty

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>staff and all all the things, being a parent is

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:08.320
<v Speaker 1>the hardest job. Can easily say. Anytime Tim's like we

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 1>have a joke and Tim goes, should we swap? And

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I go, no, I'm not swapping. You'ret called DIBs and

0:30:16.040 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I no take backs, and.

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 3>It is I guess it's like I do like the

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 3>aspect that it is challenging and like every day is different,

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 3>but yeah, it's still I can't even explain our of this.

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 3>Some days, like emotionally and mentally, I'll be like, at

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:36.560
<v Speaker 3>the end of the day, I'll be like so emotionally drained,

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't even want to talk at night, I

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 3>just want to sit there you see me, like in

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 3>a flak jacket in the corner. So yeah, but it's

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 3>so rewarding at the same time, it's like, obviously she's

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 3>getting that a stage now where she can like she's

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 3>like Richie's few stuff because she knows that you're her

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.160
<v Speaker 3>dad or she knows that you're her mum, and just

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:02.880
<v Speaker 3>like and she'll come to you the biggest cuddle at night.

0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 3>She'll just like cuddle you on the count. It's just like, oh,

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:07.520
<v Speaker 3>all these hard moments are like just for that, you know,

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:09.960
<v Speaker 3>even five seconds, if that happens, it's all worth it.

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you wait? Prefer this toddles stage compared to the

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>newborn stage?

0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, so much, babe. That's like a no brainer.

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:20.760
<v Speaker 1>I know so much better. I say this every month

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Ivy gets older, I'm like, oh, this is my favorite month.

0:31:24.080 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Just keeps getting better. And that's like if you're listening

0:31:26.600 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 1>to this and you're like you're in the newborn trenches

0:31:29.920 --> 0:31:33.560
<v Speaker 1>or you know the things, just know like it just

0:31:33.800 --> 0:31:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I know everyone says it, but it does. It Just

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 1>it gets better and you find your feet and you

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>find yourself and you know your relationship and all the things.

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, next question, what activities does Tim do with

0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Ivy during the week, Like playgroup, et cetera.

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:55.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh all right, so no playgroups yet. We just muck

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 3>around together, me in the eyves. So what we'll do

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:01.479
<v Speaker 3>is like general activities, like we'll go for a bit

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 3>of an afternoon swim in our spa, do some happy laps,

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 3>which include me throwing her in the pool.

0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Or her jumping off the edge.

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:16.240
<v Speaker 3>Jumping off the edge, she has no fear by the way,

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:19.480
<v Speaker 3>just like and she just like she'll think she's going

0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 3>to catch her, so she should just run it and

0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:22.320
<v Speaker 3>like if you won't look, and she's just going to

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 3>fall straight the pool.

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>So concerning, it's actually concerning other than that, I haven't

0:32:30.840 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>said that.

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 3>I mean other than that, like, well, we'll go to

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:39.920
<v Speaker 3>the park. We'll do a few daily park trips sometimes.

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 1>And he's like, I've been in three parks today.

0:32:45.680 --> 0:32:47.720
<v Speaker 3>Or she's just like and then that's the thing, like

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 3>you gotta find what's like you're going to figure out

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:52.920
<v Speaker 3>like what your baby's like, Like you might not have

0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 3>a very active baby and you can just chill and

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 3>just like you do more intellectual, you know, activities, whereas

0:32:59.920 --> 0:33:02.719
<v Speaker 3>like Ivy is quite active, so I'll to take her

0:33:02.760 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 3>to the park and then she'll just like and then

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 3>we'll do things at the park, and then she gets

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 3>interact with other kids.

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, what you were saying the other day, you

0:33:09.680 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 1>were booking a doctor's appointment, and I was like, Oh,

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 1>why don't you go to this doctor's place that was

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>closer to our house? And Tim was like, oh no,

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I like going to this doctor's place because it's further

0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>to our house. But he's like, the place has a

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:25.520
<v Speaker 1>play center for her, so he'll, like, you know, if

0:33:25.560 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 1>he has to do things like go to the doctor

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>or like I don't know, do mundane you know, errands,

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:33.640
<v Speaker 1>he will send her around. Well what can I do

0:33:33.800 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 1>for Ivy two during that time?

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that's like what I got to think about now,

0:33:37.800 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 3>because like you've seen firsthand, is like she she won't

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 3>sit here, Like she will sit here for maximum five

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 3>seconds and then she gets up and just wants to

0:33:48.320 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 3>do like she can't sit still.

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Tim was getting my Mother's Day president the other day

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 1>and he said, Ivy ran out of like Pete Aller

0:33:54.960 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Exander like three times while he was trying to pay.

0:33:57.720 --> 0:33:59.480
<v Speaker 3>And like the same. But like I thought it was

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 3>fucking hilarious. So I'd be like running after and she'd

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 3>look back.

0:34:02.920 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 2>She'd be like.

0:34:05.480 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 3>Running, and then I'll be like grab her. She's like, ah,

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:12.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm like money. This is literally I'm just trying to

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 3>buy your mum a knife Month's Day President and just

0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:17.840
<v Speaker 3>taking me off like fucking three hours just to do it.

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:22.440
<v Speaker 3>But yes, that's all the joys. So like, yeah, I

0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 3>guess there's very active activities to keep her entertained and

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 3>to weary out so she has a good sleep because

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:33.360
<v Speaker 3>she's actually dropped. No, I don't want to control the.

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Next question.

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 2>This is a really good one. I struggle to get

0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:42.680
<v Speaker 2>my husband on board to have deeper conversations, but I'm

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 2>desperate for some How do I get him to join?

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>You take the lead on this, babe? Your purpose?

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 3>All right, well, let's just do three three three hints,

0:34:54.400 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 3>three tips, three tips from Tim. One is you know

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.879
<v Speaker 3>holding space, Like if you love your partner, of course

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 3>you want like what's you know what they want? So

0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.440
<v Speaker 3>it's like you got to, Yeah, you gotta hold some

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.480
<v Speaker 3>space for them. Just have that time where it's just

0:35:11.560 --> 0:35:13.120
<v Speaker 3>you and you and them so they can get their

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 3>their emotions out basically.

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:14.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 3>Second tip is like you know, you gotta start. You've

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 3>got to step into your your modern alpha male that's

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:24.799
<v Speaker 3>what I like to call it. So it's like your

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 3>step into your emotional intelligence and actually let go of

0:35:29.600 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 3>your ego and just sit there and actually yeah, just

0:35:33.719 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 3>like really tap into what your partner is trying to

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 3>say and actually connect with them. Mmmm.

0:35:42.239 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>And number three I would say, like you should think

0:35:47.080 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 1>about the questions you're asking them because you know, for example,

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>if I was to ask you without you doing anything,

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.800
<v Speaker 1>tim what is your purpose, We're probably not going to

0:35:57.920 --> 0:36:02.440
<v Speaker 1>get into, you know, a certain conversation, so it's maybe

0:36:03.200 --> 0:36:07.319
<v Speaker 1>not going so deep so fast of like maybe going

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:10.839
<v Speaker 1>to other questions that you can just get a layer

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:13.719
<v Speaker 1>of of for example, hey, you know when you do this,

0:36:14.280 --> 0:36:18.439
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel? Or something a bit simpler, something

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:28.080
<v Speaker 1>more like entry point, some conversation cards, some self discovery guards.

0:36:29.680 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 3>That's right.

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I think the questions are quite important.

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:36.480
<v Speaker 3>Definitely, and highlight questions and like another probably like the

0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 3>biggest hip actually now I'm thinking about it, is it's

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:42.759
<v Speaker 3>okay to feel vulnerable, like especially the ruand your loved one.

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 3>It's like men still hold this like thing. It's like, say,

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.400
<v Speaker 3>for instance, you know, he's probably in his ego a

0:36:49.440 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 3>little bit. He doesn't want to like show fear because

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:54.640
<v Speaker 3>he's going to feel like less masculine to his wife.

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 3>But that, honestly the opposite of that is what you

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 3>should should be doing, is like you should be like

0:37:01.360 --> 0:37:05.879
<v Speaker 3>giving into that emotion, to that vulnerability where it's like, yeah,

0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 3>putting it all out on the table, because that's what's

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.360
<v Speaker 3>going to help you with that connection with your partner.

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 2>Well quick by the last few questions next on knowing

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 2>what you do now? Do you wish you waited longer

0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:22.440
<v Speaker 2>to have a child? No way, Nah, it comes with

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<v Speaker 2>the perfect.

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I truly believe in divine timing, and I truly believe

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:29.120
<v Speaker 1>that it's like life happens for me. So I just

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:32.440
<v Speaker 1>would not change anything in my life. Amazing, And I

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>couldn't imagine not having the life we have now, or

0:37:35.239 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 1>the challenges or the relationship or ivy or just everything. Like,

0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I just would never regret it ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful, Are you nervous to have another child and go

0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 2>back through the newborn stage? Oh yeah, a little bit,

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:53.680
<v Speaker 2>even saying that I feel like we're so well equipped

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 2>now after having colic baby and like knowing what we

0:37:57.040 --> 0:37:57.319
<v Speaker 2>know now.

0:37:57.440 --> 0:38:00.359
<v Speaker 1>So if anything, I'm probably like less nervous because I'm like, oh,

0:38:00.400 --> 0:38:02.320
<v Speaker 1>I actually know what to do now because it'll be

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 1>also yeah, but also I'm going to straight away get

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Susie the sleep Goddess, the sleep queen, straight away get help.

0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:15.759
<v Speaker 1>Was before I like waited, it was only yeah, yeah,

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I just yeah, I say bring it on, but also

0:38:19.880 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 1>not keen on doing it anytimes.

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but like we'll be ready for when we're ready.

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<v Speaker 2>Our second last question, Tim, what is Georgie's worst habit?

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<v Speaker 3>In the toilet?

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<v Speaker 1>It was on the ground.

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:40.360
<v Speaker 3>I know, I.

0:38:42.239 --> 0:38:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Did know what they were like on the floor, and

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I was taking them off to get in my gym tires,

0:38:46.680 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, like that sort of thing. No,

0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not Yeah, probably I'm because I'm not very clean.

0:38:53.480 --> 0:38:55.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess it's like the cleanest thing because it's like.

0:38:55.960 --> 0:39:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Ideal date night grilled. It's just when we have time

0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 1>to ourselves, when we have a big space of time

0:39:07.320 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 1>where it's just me and Tim. Honestly, it doesn't matter.

0:39:10.040 --> 0:39:12.680
<v Speaker 1>We recently we did a picnic like we've been on

0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:15.920
<v Speaker 1>holidays that it's just whenever we have space and we

0:39:16.000 --> 0:39:17.440
<v Speaker 1>have time to connect.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of the time, like yeah, like in nature

0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:21.279
<v Speaker 3>and it's just.

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:23.799
<v Speaker 1>Your nature, yeah, with some grilled.

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<v Speaker 2>In nature with.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazy how much like I have changed, really like

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<v Speaker 3>in a way of like because I was just had

0:39:33.400 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 3>that trading mindset, you know, like.

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:37.800
<v Speaker 2>The you know like this, and do you feel like

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:44.600
<v Speaker 2>that's changed now or like very recently or angel.

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 3>Well, like gradually obviously from quitting my trading job and

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:53.839
<v Speaker 3>then going into naked harbers stuff, which was like sort

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:56.400
<v Speaker 3>of the icebreaker of me not having to work, you

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:59.600
<v Speaker 3>know with a whole bunch of other dudes and like

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:01.600
<v Speaker 3>sort of of integrating like you know, started to work

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:04.320
<v Speaker 3>with women and then started to you know, have a

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:07.480
<v Speaker 3>different sort of role that I had to play out

0:40:08.000 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 3>job wise, and then obviously transitioning into and then but

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:15.120
<v Speaker 3>even from then transitioning into having a baby and then

0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 3>just being alone with the baby. I think it was

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 3>a pretty good transition. I think I would have struggled

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<v Speaker 3>a lot more if I was just went from straight

0:40:22.239 --> 0:40:26.000
<v Speaker 3>trading hanging out with fifty dudes a day a day,

0:40:26.080 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, having the trading chat like this, and that

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:31.560
<v Speaker 3>going straight to looking after a baby would have been

0:40:31.800 --> 0:40:32.400
<v Speaker 3>pretty hectic.

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:38.760
<v Speaker 2>That would have actually been nuts. Our last three questions,

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<v Speaker 2>what is your favorite part of getting to do parenthood

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<v Speaker 2>on your own terms?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess my favorite part is I get to do

0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 3>within reason, like whatever I want every day, which is

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:54.840
<v Speaker 3>pretty good. Like, and I like to mix things up

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 3>because I like to do different things. I don't like

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 3>to do the same thing. I was brought up. We

0:40:58.320 --> 0:41:02.719
<v Speaker 3>literally our family holidays, we went to the exact same camp,

0:41:02.800 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 3>so for like fifteen years straight. So I was it

0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:08.879
<v Speaker 3>was actually like really I was very conditioned to doing

0:41:08.920 --> 0:41:11.239
<v Speaker 3>the same shit all the time, and I was like

0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:13.400
<v Speaker 3>when I finally realized, I'm like, oh my god, I

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:15.520
<v Speaker 3>just I just hate doing that. I like doing different

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:17.800
<v Speaker 3>things and it's so cool that I can like do

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 3>that for Ivy and like show her that you can

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:23.800
<v Speaker 3>do different things growing up, you know. So yeah, we

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:25.480
<v Speaker 3>like we hit the road and we do heaps of

0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:26.080
<v Speaker 3>different stuff.

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 2>That's so funn Yeah, what's your favorite, like most random

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 2>thing you've done with it? Oh?

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 3>Actually, I think the most random thing I've done with

0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:36.880
<v Speaker 3>Ivy is just one day I was like, fuck it,

0:41:36.960 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 3>was such a perfect day. I'm like, oh, I remember,

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:44.040
<v Speaker 3>like when I was a bit younger, you just love

0:41:44.080 --> 0:41:45.880
<v Speaker 3>going down to Byron Bay. So I was like, that's it.

0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:48.399
<v Speaker 3>And we packed up one morning even like id even

0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:50.520
<v Speaker 3>wasn't even planning, took Ivy down to buy and we

0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:53.279
<v Speaker 3>had like little dam and Byron Bay by ourselves, like

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 3>I had it in like the front carrier, like walking

0:41:55.200 --> 0:41:57.359
<v Speaker 3>around Byron. I think it was like her first winter,

0:41:57.440 --> 0:41:59.040
<v Speaker 3>so she was a little rugged up and it was

0:41:59.120 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 3>she was just like loving. Oh gosh, yeah, it was

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:02.160
<v Speaker 3>pretty cool.

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:06.839
<v Speaker 2>Second last question, what is the best advice you've ever

0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 2>been given from anyone about anything?

0:42:11.800 --> 0:42:16.120
<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's a really good question almost, Like the main

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:20.600
<v Speaker 3>thing is like, you know, trust yourself, like you're on

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 3>the right path and you're in the right moment exactly

0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 3>when you're meant to be in that right moment, like

0:42:28.400 --> 0:42:30.280
<v Speaker 3>right now, meant to be in this podcast and studio

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:34.520
<v Speaker 3>talking to you, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, yeah,

0:42:34.760 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 3>it's and it all and it'll all come together like

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:41.239
<v Speaker 3>in maybe three months, I'll be like, oh, it's so cool.

0:42:41.280 --> 0:42:42.480
<v Speaker 3>I've got to talk about that in the podcast. You

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 3>don't be abuse that information will be able to do

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 3>something for that in you know what I mean?

0:42:46.640 --> 0:42:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love that. Our last question, what is one

0:42:52.239 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 2>core belief you hold close to your heart?

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 3>I guess like one of my core beliefs is like,

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 3>treat people how you would want to be treated. I

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 3>think that's probably like good one, one of the one

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:06.440
<v Speaker 3>that stuck with me, I think the most of the

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:08.759
<v Speaker 3>most I think about. I mean, that's what it's like

0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:11.200
<v Speaker 3>a nice person, Yeah, because it's like I would expect

0:43:11.239 --> 0:43:12.359
<v Speaker 3>them to treat me like that as well.

0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:16.359
<v Speaker 2>Amazing. Thank you for your time today, Tim. We've loved

0:43:16.400 --> 0:43:19.799
<v Speaker 2>having body, I love podcasting.

0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:26.320
<v Speaker 1>We'll have to get you on more. I thank you

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