1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional owners on which this 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: episode is being recorded, the combo marry people. We pay 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: our respects to elders past, present and emerging, and extend 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer podcast. This is the podcast where which 7 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: have mindset, self development and becoming your higher self mix 8 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: soon with a lot of laughs, plus behind the scenes 9 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: of my life running two businesses and being among Think 10 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,599 Speaker 1: of us as the perfect combo of brunch with your 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: besties mixed with self development. No matter where you are 12 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: in your journey, We're here to help you be curious, 13 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: pull yourself out, and embrace radical self awareness. If you're 14 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: ready to get into the driver's seat of your own 15 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: life and stop letting life pass you by, then you're 16 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: in the right place. Hello and welcome back to the 17 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: RNC party. Happy Friday. Today we have part two of 18 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: Q and A with Tim. Guys, these are your favorite episodes, 19 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: they are They're my favorite two. A dear loved producing 20 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: this and we chat about how we feel about stepping 21 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: into our next level together. There was like a tricky 22 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: question for me to answer because no one has ever 23 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: asked me that. We also talk about how often we fight, 24 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: how we deal with fighting, if Tim will ever go 25 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: back to work. That question is word it's so funny. 26 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: Tips on how to get your partner into self development, 27 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: and a lot more. In this episode, Tim does chat 28 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: about his coach and the current program he's doing, and 29 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: we will link that in the show notes, just because 30 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: I know you guys will probably ask, and it has 31 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: been transformational for him, and just apps like this is 32 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: something we've fully paid for ourselves, no spon con or 33 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: anything like that, but it just it has been transforming 34 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: for Tim, and I love giving credit where credit is due. 35 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: I think you can hear the difference if you If 36 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: anyone listens to the episode we did with Tim last 37 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: year versus this two parter, you can you can really hear. 38 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 39 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: I think so, Mmm, that's really cool. It's like it's 40 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: cool that we have that evidence. I guess, yeah, yeah, 41 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: I definitely. I felt like he was way more confident 42 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: and I just even loved the points he brought to 43 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: the combo. I was even like, oh, yeah, that's interesting. Yeah. 44 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: But before we get into the show. A quick week update. 45 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 2: Georgie, how's a week been? 46 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: Why we all awk? Good? Oh my god, it's yeah. 47 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: I've actually had one of the best weeks. Yay, it 48 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: has been. I feel like because previous couple of weeks 49 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: were a little bit, a little bit interesting. There was 50 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: lots of internal things happening for me personally, there was 51 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: a lot of like you know, even astrologically, and this 52 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: week just feels lighter. I feel so clear, I feel 53 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: so excited. I've had some really exciting meetings for NH 54 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: and that no, can I give you a hint? No, 55 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: we'll get murdered. And that was me really like stepping 56 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: into like CEO Georgie, Yeah, I love that, like pitching 57 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: the brand, talking about what makes us different, all those 58 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: sorts of things. I could really feel like my passion 59 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: cut getting filled up. And then also, guys, we had 60 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: our first live call for Rebirth and how was that? 61 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: I dear it was amazing. I literally was on the 62 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: biggest high all day after it. And I actually like 63 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: I felt like I was in a bit of a 64 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: just like like a trance when I was on the 65 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: call with the group. I really just like, I you know, 66 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: said a little prayer before the call. I was just like, 67 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: let it all come through, like let it be perfect. 68 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: And I truly, I'm just so proud of myself how 69 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: I showed up. I'm so proud of the group and 70 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: how they showed up. And you can even like we've 71 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: got such beautiful messages about like already feeling a shift. 72 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: And it was really cute when one woman just explained that, 73 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: you know, she had seen the workbook previously and answered 74 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 1: it like just journaled on it. Yeah, And then I 75 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: did the call and she said just the way I 76 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: explained things and like transmuted the message. I guess she 77 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: then went back and redid everything and just like had 78 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: a whole different version of herself come up from my call. 79 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: That's amazing, and that just makes me feel really good 80 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 1: because I'm like, it really does matter how I show 81 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: up and how I be and obviously I know that bit. Yeah, 82 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: that was just some really amazing feedback and yeah, oh 83 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: my god, I just I truly know how life changing 84 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: this course is going to be for those involved. And 85 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: we've already just had the most amazing feedback and I 86 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: don't know, there's just something the energy of a live 87 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: call is just something else. 88 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: It isn't, Yeah, so give it too late to get in? 89 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: No, no, no, So you can get in, but we've 90 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: only got three more live calls, so if you want 91 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: to be involved in the action and the magic, you 92 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: can definitely jump in. But also if you can't make 93 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: it for the live calls, it's so fine because they're 94 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: all saved and recorded. So yeah, do not stress. But yeah, 95 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: just a shout out to everyone involved in rebirth. I 96 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: am so proud of you and just the magic in 97 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: that group. It's just it's feeling it's feeling so so good. 98 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: So it's amazing. 99 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: That was my week. 100 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: What about you? Pretty good? Life's just so normally at 101 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: the moment, nothing crazy is happening. I'm not doing you 102 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 2: know what I mean, And I'm just loving getting into 103 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 2: a good routine and I'm experimenting with like coming to 104 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: work earlier and then going to gym in the afternoon 105 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 2: and playing around with that sort of stuff. I am 106 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: joining a new gym and my condition wasn't needed an 107 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 2: inferreds order and so it does. It's ten minutes from 108 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: my house and it's twenty four seven, so I'm gonna 109 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: be having a sauna more often. 110 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, A tear literally messaged me the other night. 111 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: I think it's a Saturday night, yeah, and she's like, 112 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, I just had a sauna as the 113 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: best thing at that It literally was. I felt so 114 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: good after. 115 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: I had the best sleep that night. And I think, like, 116 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: as much as i'd love to get when at my 117 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: house is something I probably can't do at the moment, 118 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 2: but still finding a way to get it in because 119 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: it is now a priority for me. 120 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 1: I love that. And it's interesting because I have a 121 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 1: sauna at least three times a week. So when you 122 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: said that, I was like, yeah, yeah, they're really good. 123 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: But then I was like, oh no, Like I remember 124 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: when I first started and being like wow, so I 125 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: get what you're saying. And it's like, oh yeah, it's 126 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: it's a vibe, isn't it. It's such a vibe. And 127 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: now that I do it consistently, like I can just 128 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: consistently feel like that, and it makes such a huge difference, 129 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: such a sort of it. 130 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 2: And I'm like, if I'm so to have a sauna 131 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: three times a week, then I'll have to go to 132 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: the gym, so I might as well, Like it'll get 133 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: me to the gym. It's like, oh, it's a whole journey. Yeah. 134 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: So ps A, Tia, we are giving away a sauna 135 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: at n H for our birthday. I'm so jealous. 136 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 2: I can't win it. 137 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: And when this episode goes live, I'm pretty sure you 138 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: guys have like one or two days to enter or 139 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: you have to do a shop at end H and 140 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: you could win a sauna or even four K cash. 141 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: Guys, get on that. 142 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: So if you're obsessed with saunas like me and a tear, 143 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: now is the time to shop at NH. And just 144 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: make sure you register your entry. Guys. If you do shop, 145 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: there is just a link on the website. It's really easy, 146 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: and just put your auto number in and register because 147 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: for every fifty dollars you spend, you get one entry. 148 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: So the more you spend, the more entries you get. 149 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: And with that, let's get into the episode. 150 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: Did you see another side of each other after having 151 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: IVY good or bad? 152 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 153 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 3: Really? 154 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well just your maternal side. 155 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: Oh actually yeah. 156 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: Like I always knew Tim would be an amazing father, 157 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 1: but to see Tim as a dad, as a girl 158 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: dad has just been the most incredible journey. And like 159 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: I've been through a journey, but to see Tim become 160 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: a dad and just how he shows up for Ivy, 161 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: how he role models for Ivy, how he cares for Ivy. 162 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 1: I just can't explain that feeling. It's just, yeah, I 163 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: just feel like I've seen such a beautiful side of you. 164 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: And also, you know, even though we've had so many, 165 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: you know, challenging times, it's like when you're going through 166 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: a challenging time for a child you share together, you know, 167 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: like it's very powerful, like the bond and that sort 168 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: of thing. So yeah, I feel like I've seen a 169 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: whole different side of you. I feel like you're a 170 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: whole different person. 171 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 3: Thanks, man, I appreciate that, and the same to you. 172 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 3: Some reason in my head, I'm like, and that's me thing. 173 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: It's like I thought I can say something negative about 174 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 3: me or something like that. 175 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: Are you baring? 176 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 3: That's interesting? I know, that's an interesting perspective. 177 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: That's a concept. 178 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 3: Put a pin in that one, babe. We can talk 179 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 3: about that later. 180 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that tonight at dinner. 181 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 3: Babe. Yeah, that's a meat problem. But yeah, I mean 182 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 3: you have definitely stepped up in a way of juggling 183 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 3: mum life and work life, which has been super hard 184 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 3: for you because you're already fucking stressed out and busy 185 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 3: enough as it is before we had Ivy. So it's 186 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 3: like for you to be able to do, you know, 187 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 3: mitigate these situations and you know your daily struggles to 188 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 3: be able to come home and like show up for 189 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 3: Ivy as well, it's like, yes, super special and I'm 190 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 3: super proud of you for being able to do that. 191 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: Thank you. How do you both handle moments of feeling 192 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: resentful towards each other? 193 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: We talk about it. I just tell them straight up 194 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: and like I did the other night, I was like, 195 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: I'm actually feeling a bit fucking pissed off that you're 196 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: going to golf tomorrow and I'm feeling really stressed and 197 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: emotional about my week. And then we unpack it and 198 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: we talk about it, and then it's also we came 199 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: to the conclusion or I did, of I need to 200 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: sharedule my week better in work, because I had just 201 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 1: put a lot of things on myself that you know, 202 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: probably weren't needed. I probably didn't need to attend all 203 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: the meetings, I probably didn't need to do all the 204 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: things in the business, but I had such a I 205 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: need to do this. So really that resentment was really 206 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: to myself, but I was projecting it onto Tim because 207 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: it's the easiest thing to do is project and to 208 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: put responsibility on someone else. So I feel like, if 209 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 1: you're feeling resentful towards your partner, really have a think 210 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: about where you're resentful towards yourself. 211 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: And before you guys sort of opened up conversations like that, 212 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 2: did you work through it on your own or did 213 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: you find the resentment building up? How did that first conversation. 214 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 3: Both doing PD, I'd just. 215 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: Be you know, I don't know why you keep calling 216 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 1: your PD. Every time he says that, I've got to 217 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 1: like really think what he's talking about, and I'm like, oh. 218 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, well he does. Yeah, I mean I would just 219 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 3: be passive aggressive, and like we did really hold that 220 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 3: resentment and it came out in toxic ways, like we 221 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 3: would just have like a like a screen magele or something, 222 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 3: or it would come out in spiteful ways, yes, fieful ways, 223 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 3: or like we might lose our temp with IVY, Which 224 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 3: is like why making things so worked up over this 225 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 3: little thing is because it's from like this over here, 226 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: coming from me holding resistance from a situation that happened 227 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: a few days ago. 228 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's the biggest thing we've realized since 229 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: you know, Tim's got into this and we've really started 230 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: unpacking our feelings. Is like a lot of the motions 231 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: you feel in that moment actually don't belong to that moment, 232 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: and they usually are built up from other areas. You 233 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: just don't You're like just at your limit, and it's 234 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: like it's just, you know, the straw that breaks the 235 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 1: camel's back, like it. 236 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 3: Would came out like we didn't because before obviously we 237 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 3: didn't know how to channel our anger, did we really? 238 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 3: And then now it's like we're still working it out, 239 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 3: but at least we can channel it by essentially just 240 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 3: putting emotions out at the table. It's like that's how 241 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,839 Speaker 3: we get our our feelings and angery in a sense. 242 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: Our next question, how does it feel stepping into this 243 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: next level together? New cars, a chef, etc. 244 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: Yeah? Tim, how's your new car? Yeah? 245 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: I love it? 246 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: Full up question on your new car? 247 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: Did you buy a car without telling Georgie? 248 00:13:59,400 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 3: Maybe? 249 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: I literally you already told everyone on the podcast. Can 250 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: you take us through your thought process there? 251 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 3: Oh, just so excited I was like, minute, I'm getting it. 252 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 3: Let's just speak clear. I didn't actually buy. I put 253 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 3: a deposit on it, Okay, didn't. 254 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: The refundable deposit. 255 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 3: No, well listen, it's like I knew it was going 256 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 3: to happen, so I just put the deposit on it 257 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: and it was good. 258 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: And how did you bring that up? Did you tell you? 259 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 2: I think? 260 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: Did you lie about me? He fucking texts me about it? 261 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 3: Babe. This is literally in the past. 262 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: We just. 263 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: Fully channeled it out. I don't even know what happened. 264 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 3: It was all blow. It was like this and then 265 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 3: this and then this. It's like you know that meme 266 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 3: where it's like your phone gets wet and it's like, 267 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm shopping and I don't know what 268 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: I just brought a car. It's like, for gotta know. 269 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 3: Next minute, I. 270 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: Do think it's funny. Oh yeah, well no, I think 271 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: to get back to the question, me and him have 272 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: known each other since we were no. I know, baby, 273 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: you know we're so young. So it's really funny because 274 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: when I talk to people about our lifestyle, you know, 275 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: like I remember a time where I was at university 276 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: and working full time, but like and I was struggling, 277 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: you know, to pay rent, and you know Tim would 278 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: be like, help me out to pay for something, or 279 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: you know, we've really come from you know, that place 280 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: of nothing and having to really build our future together. 281 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: So you know, it really does feel like, fuck, is 282 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: this our life? 283 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 3: M It's like it's almost slug. 284 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: Good analogy and then quit. And then other moments it's 285 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: not like we've just stepped into this life. This has 286 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: been so gradual, Like if you think about it, Naked 287 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: Harvest is for before that, I was, you know, training 288 00:15:56,360 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: to be a lawyer. Like, we have taken gradual steps 289 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: into our reality. So a lot of the time it 290 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: does feel really like, of course, this is our life, 291 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: and then other times it's like, holy shit, is this 292 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: our life? I think a lot of the time, how 293 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: often do we say Tim, like when we look out 294 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: at our view of like oh my god, I can't 295 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: believe this is our house, or like this is our view, 296 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: or like we have so many moments like that of 297 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: being like surreal, Wow, this is our reality. Because you know, 298 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: it's even funny we're talking about just five years ago 299 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: we were in our little townhouse in Holland Park, you know, 300 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: getting married only five years ago. Yeah, and there's a little, 301 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: you know, two bedroom townhouse that was sizes of a 302 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: shoe box, so cute and so like it's funny because 303 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: it's like been fast but also not really. So we 304 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 1: have so many moments where I'm like, oh my god, 305 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: this is our life, and then so many moments of 306 00:16:57,120 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: like knowing how hard you know, we've both worked and 307 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: how hard we've you know, worked on this very specific reality. 308 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: And then like even the chef thing, I remember I 309 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 1: sat on that and thought about that for like six 310 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: months before getting one, Yeah, being like I need this, 311 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 1: inquiring knowing the price, being like now we can't do it, 312 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: we can just cook, and then having like so many 313 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 1: meltdowns in the kitchen of like me and Tim trying 314 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: to cook, and then like me coming home from big 315 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: work day, and then Tim's trying to cook, and then I, 316 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: you know, like all these things and this and it 317 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 1: being like, no, this is the thing. So it's like 318 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people might see social media 319 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 1: and think, oh my god, it's just it's always been 320 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: their life, but not knowing the steps and like what 321 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: happens behind the scenes and how long things you know, 322 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: sometimes take and what goes into it and like the 323 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: amount of times I've got a journal and something and yeah, 324 00:17:56,040 --> 00:18:01,439 Speaker 1: all those sorts of things to doesn't share that with me. 325 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: But sure, no cars, this is why I'm gonna work. 326 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,880 Speaker 3: Hey, but I am good at selling them. So that's 327 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 3: a that's for some reason, I don't know what I'm 328 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 3: really good at selling stuff? Would you not agree? It's 329 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 3: like weird thing that I do. That's like motal So. 330 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 1: Tim sell stuff on the marketplace and out cars and stuff, 331 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: and he just he's great at selling for some reason. 332 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 3: It's like the universe is just like people always want 333 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 3: to come to me, like by style. If you want 334 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 3: to sell anything, I'll just sell it for you. 335 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 1: And he's really good at selling stuff. 336 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 3: To which maybe she just start like a selling business. 337 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 3: Just like hey, you want to sell your ship. 338 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: Stop, you don't fucking have the time right, sit back down. 339 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 3: Sell your ship. Don't come. This is the official like 340 00:18:55,960 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 3: advertising forman stop. So everyone, just if you want to 341 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 3: email hello at Rosen Conker podcast. If anyone wants to 342 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 3: sell their ship, you either get me or you're going 343 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 3: to see you sell it and it'll be gone with 344 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 3: But it's going to be gone within two weeks. Anything, 345 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 3: anything will sell it. 346 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: At the time that we joke to my parents that 347 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 1: we were going to sell our dogs and they were like, 348 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: you can't sell the dogs them. We're going to sell 349 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: them in my place. 350 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 3: That was funny. 351 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: We're joking. We would never sell out pressure pressure as 352 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: little babies. 353 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: All right, So next question is Tim going back to 354 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: work at all? And I've been to daycare, Tim going. 355 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 1: Back to work when I goes to school, Well, I think, well, 356 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 1: Tim reckins, he's retired. 357 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 3: That's it. On the tour. 358 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 1: That's literally what he tells people when you're on holidays. 359 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: But he's retired. 360 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 3: It's like my go to line. I'm like, They're like, 361 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 3: what do you do for work. I'm like, well, I'm 362 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 3: actually retired. 363 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like what, you're retired and he looks after a 364 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: one year old like that. 365 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 3: They're like, oh, pretty much retired. I'm like, no, it's 366 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 3: not retirement at all. 367 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, he is going into daycare probably one day 368 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,360 Speaker 1: a week soon to test it out for her development. 369 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: We think it would be really good, like for her 370 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: to be around other kids, and then it will give 371 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: Tim one day a week. 372 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 3: For himself because weekends is like pretty much strictly. 373 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: Family now, family time, which is. 374 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 3: Like super important, it's like needed. 375 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: Yes, but he's no, he's not going to go back 376 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: to work on that one day. He would just like, 377 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: I'll just do be a lady of leisure. 378 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 3: Well, I'll probably I'll do my golf day on that 379 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 3: one day off and then it'll be like do some 380 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 3: cool stuff, do a bit of study. Yeah, just like 381 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 3: because that's super important, like just me t for me 382 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 3: to like recharge for the week. But like that's my 383 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 3: one day off will be during the week. 384 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: And then also he's one day where he can get 385 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: some ship done because like, as you know, trying to 386 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: get shit done with the child's very hard. 387 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 3: They probably have to mow the lawn as well. So 388 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 3: like I do inside the house and I do outside 389 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 3: the house. 390 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: No one feels sorry. They do. 391 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 3: I don't think understands that they don't feel sorry. 392 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 1: I think they love you. But it like hen going 393 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: back to the question would you ever go back to 394 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: work and. 395 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 3: What would you do? M So, I now have a 396 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: bit of an idea I now have. 397 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: Do you want to tell people you don't well, should 398 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: we leave them on. 399 00:21:55,560 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 3: The Yeah, like I have, so before doing this core stuff. 400 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 3: I didn't really have any idea of what I wanted 401 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 3: to do when I when I went back to work, 402 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 3: or if I was going to get back to work 403 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 3: now figuring out sort of my purpose, I'd sort of 404 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 3: have a bit of idea like what I would like 405 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 3: to do moving forward, but I think it's like, yeah, 406 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 3: I'm still working on it. So I don't want to 407 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: say what it is. If that makes sense, should we 408 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:25,120 Speaker 3: just tell them? 409 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: Can you share, well everyone, what your purpose is? I 410 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 2: feel like that'd be intrigue. Share your purpose? 411 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 3: So my purpose, my purpose. Let me get my notes, 412 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 3: Let me get my notes. I've got notes everywhere through 413 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 3: this phone. I've got notion on my phone. I got audible, 414 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 3: he's got notion socause. I just want to get this, 415 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 3: like absolutely down back. 416 00:22:54,520 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: Okay, we're waiting, all right, all right, so this is 417 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 1: like this is it? 418 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 2: All right? 419 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 3: The short version? So my purpose is to empower men 420 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 3: to be more emotionally intelligent and to leave people better 421 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 3: off than before I met them. I actually saw that 422 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 3: from Jamie a little bit, because when I heard that, 423 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 3: that's so. 424 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: Mean, I told him Jamie's and he goes, oh my god, 425 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: that's my purpose. I love the first part of that too. 426 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: So even me and Tim discuss a lot of like 427 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: because what you know he talks about is like him 428 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 1: wishing he had a lot of these tools when he 429 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: was younger. So even like Tim would love to be 430 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 1: involved in maybe you know, younger males and helping them 431 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 1: in regards to their emotional intelligence and having those tools. 432 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 3: That's awesome. That'd be super cool and whatever that means 433 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: in whatever way. But something along those lines, the universe 434 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: will working towards that. 435 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 2: That's awesome. 436 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: I think that's beautiful, bab, that's really incredible. 437 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 2: Our next question, how often do you fight and how 438 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 2: do you resolve them? 439 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 3: I feel like we've been fighting heaps less. Would you say. 440 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: I was, Oh, have we felt pretty good? 441 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah? 442 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: I honestly think since you have been doing this personal development, 443 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: I don't think we've had a proper fight. 444 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 3: We talk, i'd say fights out about ego, which is 445 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 3: not actually a fight. Let's just say what you go talking. 446 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: I think you're trying to say. In moments, of course, 447 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: we have emotion and we have you know, conversations with 448 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: each other, and we'll get heated and whatnot. But I 449 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: feel like we haven't had like a fight where you know, 450 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: you're like lingering passive aggression. Yeah, and you're like, I 451 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like we haven't had those 452 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: fights because we always sought it out in a way. 453 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: And even what happened the other day and I just 454 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 1: said to you, I a hundred like I agree with 455 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 1: what you're saying, or I don't know, I can't really 456 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 1: remember what it was about, but I just said, I'm 457 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: just dealing with a lot at the moment, and I 458 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: just like would rather not speak about it. 459 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 3: And then I was like I respect that, and then 460 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 3: like almost like you know, I say, thank you for 461 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 3: telling me that, and it does mean a lot. 462 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: And Tim did say, and it's he wrote some stuff 463 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: down and he said, when you're ready to talk about it, 464 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: let's talk about it. He wrote some notes. 465 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 3: I've got the notes. I'm a notes man. 466 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: Now. 467 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 3: I think it's so important because otherwise I just forget it. 468 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 3: So if it's there, I'm like, oh man, we can 469 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 3: tap back into it. 470 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 471 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 3: And then also so like for me, I'll if I George, 472 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 3: like something annoys me with George, I'll like I'll hold it, 473 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 3: and then I know we're going to have that chat 474 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 3: at night and then I'll say this and like what 475 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 3: you did today like really frustrated me, and then sort 476 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 3: of go through the emotions and then yeah, just like 477 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 3: that will be us getting our emotions out instead of 478 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 3: having a screaming match and just actually like just talking 479 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 3: how we felt instead of been like, ah, fuck you 480 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 3: you know this and that it's like, yeah, just literally 481 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 3: talking like the very calm voice. 482 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: Even it was Sunday and I could tell you were 483 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: getting a bit frustrated, and you even kind of snapped 484 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 1: at me at one moment, and I just didn't respond 485 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: because and then it was maybe ten minutes after you 486 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: said I could really feel I was in my ego then, 487 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 1: and I apologize and I just I didn't respond, whereas 488 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: previous me would have snapped back. But because we're so 489 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 1: much more, I know he's not doing it because he's 490 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 1: just trying to be a dick. I know he's clearly 491 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,400 Speaker 1: frustrated about something. So I feel like our reactivity has 492 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: gotten so much better where I don't feel the need 493 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: to react because I'm like, he's having a hard enough 494 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: time with whatever he's dealing with, and I know that 495 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: we're going to bring it up later so I just 496 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 1: don't feel the need to react. But then most of 497 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: the time, nine times out of ten, we'll even be like, oh, look, 498 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: I apologize, I didn't mean to. And it's even so 499 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: funny because I notice myself doing that of like, you're 500 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: not reacting and me being like, and now I have 501 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:28,479 Speaker 1: to apologize. No, But it's not it's not even silent. 502 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even say you don't do that, because I 503 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 1: don't believe in silent treatment. It's but it's the I 504 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 1: know I've overstepped, and even if I don't apologize in 505 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 1: a moment, the fact that I know we're going to 506 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: talk about it later, like being. 507 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 2: Like, how do you feel being at the stay at 508 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 2: home parent now that you're in the trenches as in 509 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 2: I think like actually having to do it now, like. 510 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 3: As in like being tht in the deep end or 511 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 3: most a yeah, and you're. 512 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 1: Like, it's your reality. 513 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 2: It's not just like I'm going to stay at home 514 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 2: with Ivy. It's like you're actually at. 515 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: Home with Ivy now that you're a stay at home dad. 516 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 1: What do you how do you feel. 517 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 3: About it now it's all happening. Yeah, I guess it's 518 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 3: like it's fucking hard. 519 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 2: Like it is. 520 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 3: And it's I mean, hats off to all them, all 521 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 3: the mums that fucking stay home with their kids or 522 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 3: dads or dad's brother. Obviously it's a bit more rareer 523 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,920 Speaker 3: my case, but yeah, it's fucking hard. 524 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 1: Well that's even for example, and I notice our conditioning 525 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: so much because even I fall in the pattern of 526 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: even to get to this podcast, like Tim had to 527 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: wait till Ivy woke up, and then our dogs are 528 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: getting a haircut, so he had to pick them up up, 529 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: pick them up, and then he came here and the 530 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: dogs are here, and it's all stressful, and Tim's a 531 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: bit flustered and stressed. And I made the comment of 532 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: are you stressed because you had to do your two 533 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: things or you know, something like that, which not appropriate, 534 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: And I do apologize to making that comment. It was joke. 535 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 3: I didn't think that was very interesting comment. 536 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: He did put in his phone. 537 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 3: This is gonna come up to not. 538 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: You see us, I know, and I do apologize because 539 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: that's not appropriate. And what your comment back was like, 540 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: you have no idea, and it's so true. Like the 541 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 1: other day my girlfriend was like, let's go for a 542 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: walk of their baby's and she was even coming to me, 543 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: and so I had to walk down you know, our 544 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,959 Speaker 1: hill where we leave, and she's like, I'll be there 545 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 1: in half an hour, and Ivy had just woken up, 546 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: and to like get Ivy up to feed her, to 547 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: back the bag, and then she did fucking pooh and 548 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: then this and then that, and it took me so long, 549 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: and I like was running down the hill. And yeah, honestly, 550 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: I can say, obviously I've been a mom for eighteen 551 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 1: months now, and happily I can say, even though I 552 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: run to seven eight figure you know, businesses with twenty 553 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: staff and all all the things, being a parent is 554 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: the hardest job. Can easily say. Anytime Tim's like we 555 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: have a joke and Tim goes, should we swap? And 556 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: I go, no, I'm not swapping. You'ret called DIBs and 557 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: I no take backs, and. 558 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 3: It is I guess it's like I do like the 559 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 3: aspect that it is challenging and like every day is different, 560 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 3: but yeah, it's still I can't even explain our of this. 561 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 3: Some days, like emotionally and mentally, I'll be like, at 562 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 3: the end of the day, I'll be like so emotionally drained, 563 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 3: Like I don't even want to talk at night, I 564 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 3: just want to sit there you see me, like in 565 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 3: a flak jacket in the corner. So yeah, but it's 566 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 3: so rewarding at the same time, it's like, obviously she's 567 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 3: getting that a stage now where she can like she's 568 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 3: like Richie's few stuff because she knows that you're her 569 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 3: dad or she knows that you're her mum, and just 570 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 3: like and she'll come to you the biggest cuddle at night. 571 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 3: She'll just like cuddle you on the count. It's just like, oh, 572 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 3: all these hard moments are like just for that, you know, 573 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 3: even five seconds, if that happens, it's all worth it. 574 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: Do you wait? Prefer this toddles stage compared to the 575 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: newborn stage? 576 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so much, babe. That's like a no brainer. 577 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: I know so much better. I say this every month 578 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: Ivy gets older, I'm like, oh, this is my favorite month. 579 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: Just keeps getting better. And that's like if you're listening 580 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 1: to this and you're like you're in the newborn trenches 581 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: or you know the things, just know like it just 582 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 1: I know everyone says it, but it does. It Just 583 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: it gets better and you find your feet and you 584 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: find yourself and you know your relationship and all the things. 585 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 2: And yeah, next question, what activities does Tim do with 586 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 2: Ivy during the week, Like playgroup, et cetera. 587 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 3: Oh all right, so no playgroups yet. We just muck 588 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 3: around together, me in the eyves. So what we'll do 589 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,479 Speaker 3: is like general activities, like we'll go for a bit 590 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 3: of an afternoon swim in our spa, do some happy laps, 591 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 3: which include me throwing her in the pool. 592 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 1: Or her jumping off the edge. 593 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 3: Jumping off the edge, she has no fear by the way, 594 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 3: just like and she just like she'll think she's going 595 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 3: to catch her, so she should just run it and 596 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 3: like if you won't look, and she's just going to 597 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 3: fall straight the pool. 598 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: So concerning, it's actually concerning other than that, I haven't 599 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: said that. 600 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 3: I mean other than that, like, well, we'll go to 601 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 3: the park. We'll do a few daily park trips sometimes. 602 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 1: And he's like, I've been in three parks today. 603 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 3: Or she's just like and then that's the thing, like 604 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 3: you gotta find what's like you're going to figure out 605 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 3: like what your baby's like, Like you might not have 606 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 3: a very active baby and you can just chill and 607 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 3: just like you do more intellectual, you know, activities, whereas 608 00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:02,719 Speaker 3: like Ivy is quite active, so I'll to take her 609 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 3: to the park and then she'll just like and then 610 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 3: we'll do things at the park, and then she gets 611 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 3: interact with other kids. 612 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: And yeah, what you were saying the other day, you 613 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,280 Speaker 1: were booking a doctor's appointment, and I was like, Oh, 614 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: why don't you go to this doctor's place that was 615 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: closer to our house? And Tim was like, oh no, 616 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: I like going to this doctor's place because it's further 617 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: to our house. But he's like, the place has a 618 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: play center for her, so he'll, like, you know, if 619 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: he has to do things like go to the doctor 620 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: or like I don't know, do mundane you know, errands, 621 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 1: he will send her around. Well what can I do 622 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: for Ivy two during that time? 623 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's like what I got to think about now, 624 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 3: because like you've seen firsthand, is like she she won't 625 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 3: sit here, Like she will sit here for maximum five 626 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 3: seconds and then she gets up and just wants to 627 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 3: do like she can't sit still. 628 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: Tim was getting my Mother's Day president the other day 629 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: and he said, Ivy ran out of like Pete Aller 630 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: Exander like three times while he was trying to pay. 631 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 3: And like the same. But like I thought it was 632 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 3: fucking hilarious. So I'd be like running after and she'd 633 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 3: look back. 634 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 2: She'd be like. 635 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 3: Running, and then I'll be like grab her. She's like, ah, 636 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 3: I'm like money. This is literally I'm just trying to 637 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 3: buy your mum a knife Month's Day President and just 638 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 3: taking me off like fucking three hours just to do it. 639 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 3: But yes, that's all the joys. So like, yeah, I 640 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 3: guess there's very active activities to keep her entertained and 641 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 3: to weary out so she has a good sleep because 642 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 3: she's actually dropped. No, I don't want to control the. 643 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: Next question. 644 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 2: This is a really good one. I struggle to get 645 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 2: my husband on board to have deeper conversations, but I'm 646 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 2: desperate for some How do I get him to join? 647 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: You take the lead on this, babe? Your purpose? 648 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 3: All right, well, let's just do three three three hints, 649 00:34:54,400 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 3: three tips, three tips from Tim. One is you know 650 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,879 Speaker 3: holding space, Like if you love your partner, of course 651 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 3: you want like what's you know what they want? So 652 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 3: it's like you got to, Yeah, you gotta hold some 653 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 3: space for them. Just have that time where it's just 654 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 3: you and you and them so they can get their 655 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 3: their emotions out basically. 656 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:14,919 Speaker 2: Yeah. 657 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 3: Second tip is like you know, you gotta start. You've 658 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 3: got to step into your your modern alpha male that's 659 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 3: what I like to call it. So it's like your 660 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 3: step into your emotional intelligence and actually let go of 661 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 3: your ego and just sit there and actually yeah, just 662 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 3: like really tap into what your partner is trying to 663 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 3: say and actually connect with them. Mmmm. 664 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: And number three I would say, like you should think 665 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: about the questions you're asking them because you know, for example, 666 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: if I was to ask you without you doing anything, 667 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 1: tim what is your purpose, We're probably not going to 668 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 1: get into, you know, a certain conversation, so it's maybe 669 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,319 Speaker 1: not going so deep so fast of like maybe going 670 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: to other questions that you can just get a layer 671 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 1: of of for example, hey, you know when you do this, 672 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,439 Speaker 1: how do you feel? Or something a bit simpler, something 673 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 1: more like entry point, some conversation cards, some self discovery guards. 674 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 3: That's right. 675 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,240 Speaker 1: I think the questions are quite important. 676 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 3: Definitely, and highlight questions and like another probably like the 677 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 3: biggest hip actually now I'm thinking about it, is it's 678 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 3: okay to feel vulnerable, like especially the ruand your loved one. 679 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 3: It's like men still hold this like thing. It's like, say, 680 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 3: for instance, you know, he's probably in his ego a 681 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 3: little bit. He doesn't want to like show fear because 682 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 3: he's going to feel like less masculine to his wife. 683 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 3: But that, honestly the opposite of that is what you 684 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 3: should should be doing, is like you should be like 685 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:05,879 Speaker 3: giving into that emotion, to that vulnerability where it's like, yeah, 686 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 3: putting it all out on the table, because that's what's 687 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 3: going to help you with that connection with your partner. 688 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 2: Well quick by the last few questions next on knowing 689 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 2: what you do now? Do you wish you waited longer 690 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 2: to have a child? No way, Nah, it comes with 691 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 2: the perfect. 692 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 1: I truly believe in divine timing, and I truly believe 693 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 1: that it's like life happens for me. So I just 694 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 1: would not change anything in my life. Amazing, And I 695 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: couldn't imagine not having the life we have now, or 696 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: the challenges or the relationship or ivy or just everything. Like, 697 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 1: I just would never regret it ever. 698 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,360 Speaker 2: Beautiful, Are you nervous to have another child and go 699 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 2: back through the newborn stage? Oh yeah, a little bit, 700 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 2: even saying that I feel like we're so well equipped 701 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 2: now after having colic baby and like knowing what we 702 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 2: know now. 703 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 1: So if anything, I'm probably like less nervous because I'm like, oh, 704 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,320 Speaker 1: I actually know what to do now because it'll be 705 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 1: also yeah, but also I'm going to straight away get 706 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 1: Susie the sleep Goddess, the sleep queen, straight away get help. 707 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,759 Speaker 1: Was before I like waited, it was only yeah, yeah, 708 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: I just yeah, I say bring it on, but also 709 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 1: not keen on doing it anytimes. 710 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like we'll be ready for when we're ready. 711 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 2: Our second last question, Tim, what is Georgie's worst habit? 712 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 3: In the toilet? 713 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 1: It was on the ground. 714 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 3: I know, I. 715 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: Did know what they were like on the floor, and 716 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: I was taking them off to get in my gym tires, 717 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like that sort of thing. No, 718 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 1: that's not Yeah, probably I'm because I'm not very clean. 719 00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess it's like the cleanest thing because it's like. 720 00:38:55,960 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 1: Ideal date night grilled. It's just when we have time 721 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,279 Speaker 1: to ourselves, when we have a big space of time 722 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: where it's just me and Tim. Honestly, it doesn't matter. 723 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: We recently we did a picnic like we've been on 724 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 1: holidays that it's just whenever we have space and we 725 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: have time to connect. 726 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,840 Speaker 3: A lot of the time, like yeah, like in nature 727 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 3: and it's just. 728 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 1: Your nature, yeah, with some grilled. 729 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:25,759 Speaker 2: In nature with. 730 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 3: It's crazy how much like I have changed, really like 731 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 3: in a way of like because I was just had 732 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 3: that trading mindset, you know, like. 733 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,800 Speaker 2: The you know like this, and do you feel like 734 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 2: that's changed now or like very recently or angel. 735 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 3: Well, like gradually obviously from quitting my trading job and 736 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 3: then going into naked harbers stuff, which was like sort 737 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 3: of the icebreaker of me not having to work, you 738 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 3: know with a whole bunch of other dudes and like 739 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 3: sort of of integrating like you know, started to work 740 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 3: with women and then started to you know, have a 741 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 3: different sort of role that I had to play out 742 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 3: job wise, and then obviously transitioning into and then but 743 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 3: even from then transitioning into having a baby and then 744 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 3: just being alone with the baby. I think it was 745 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 3: a pretty good transition. I think I would have struggled 746 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 3: a lot more if I was just went from straight 747 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 3: trading hanging out with fifty dudes a day a day, 748 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 3: you know, having the trading chat like this, and that 749 00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 3: going straight to looking after a baby would have been 750 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 3: pretty hectic. 751 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:38,760 Speaker 2: That would have actually been nuts. Our last three questions, 752 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 2: what is your favorite part of getting to do parenthood 753 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 2: on your own terms? 754 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 3: I guess my favorite part is I get to do 755 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 3: within reason, like whatever I want every day, which is 756 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 3: pretty good. Like, and I like to mix things up 757 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,320 Speaker 3: because I like to do different things. I don't like 758 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 3: to do the same thing. I was brought up. We 759 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 3: literally our family holidays, we went to the exact same camp, 760 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 3: so for like fifteen years straight. So I was it 761 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,879 Speaker 3: was actually like really I was very conditioned to doing 762 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 3: the same shit all the time, and I was like 763 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,400 Speaker 3: when I finally realized, I'm like, oh my god, I 764 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 3: just I just hate doing that. I like doing different 765 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,800 Speaker 3: things and it's so cool that I can like do 766 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 3: that for Ivy and like show her that you can 767 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,800 Speaker 3: do different things growing up, you know. So yeah, we 768 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 3: like we hit the road and we do heaps of 769 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 3: different stuff. 770 00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 2: That's so funn Yeah, what's your favorite, like most random 771 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 2: thing you've done with it? Oh? 772 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 3: Actually, I think the most random thing I've done with 773 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,880 Speaker 3: Ivy is just one day I was like, fuck it, 774 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 3: was such a perfect day. I'm like, oh, I remember, 775 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 3: like when I was a bit younger, you just love 776 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 3: going down to Byron Bay. So I was like, that's it. 777 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,399 Speaker 3: And we packed up one morning even like id even 778 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 3: wasn't even planning, took Ivy down to buy and we 779 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 3: had like little dam and Byron Bay by ourselves, like 780 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 3: I had it in like the front carrier, like walking 781 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,359 Speaker 3: around Byron. I think it was like her first winter, 782 00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 3: so she was a little rugged up and it was 783 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 3: she was just like loving. Oh gosh, yeah, it was 784 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 3: pretty cool. 785 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,839 Speaker 2: Second last question, what is the best advice you've ever 786 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 2: been given from anyone about anything? 787 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 3: Oh, that's a really good question almost, Like the main 788 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:20,600 Speaker 3: thing is like, you know, trust yourself, like you're on 789 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 3: the right path and you're in the right moment exactly 790 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 3: when you're meant to be in that right moment, like 791 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 3: right now, meant to be in this podcast and studio 792 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 3: talking to you, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, yeah, 793 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 3: it's and it all and it'll all come together like 794 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,239 Speaker 3: in maybe three months, I'll be like, oh, it's so cool. 795 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 3: I've got to talk about that in the podcast. You 796 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 3: don't be abuse that information will be able to do 797 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 3: something for that in you know what I mean? 798 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. Our last question, what is one 799 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 2: core belief you hold close to your heart? 800 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 3: I guess like one of my core beliefs is like, 801 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 3: treat people how you would want to be treated. I 802 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 3: think that's probably like good one, one of the one 803 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 3: that stuck with me, I think the most of the 804 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,759 Speaker 3: most I think about. I mean, that's what it's like 805 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 3: a nice person, Yeah, because it's like I would expect 806 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:12,359 Speaker 3: them to treat me like that as well. 807 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,359 Speaker 2: Amazing. Thank you for your time today, Tim. We've loved 808 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,799 Speaker 2: having body, I love podcasting. 809 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 1: We'll have to get you on more. I thank you 810 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: so much for listening to another episode of the Rise 811 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and want more, 812 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,320 Speaker 1: come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer dot podcast 813 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,720 Speaker 1: and join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise and Concer 814 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 1: podcast community. 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