WEBVTT - The Flex & Froome's Rule Book For Borrowing Clothes 👠💎👙

0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.440
<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms. Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:05.960
<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

0:00:07.760 --> 0:00:11.399
<v Speaker 2>Another podcast, Thank Goodness, let the girl speak at length

0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:14.040
<v Speaker 2>about things they want to speak about. What does a

0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:17.280
<v Speaker 2>girl you have to do to yip yap with her

0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:19.360
<v Speaker 2>friend on the job?

0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Be real? This exactly.

0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:22.919
<v Speaker 2>You keep saying, be real, and I keep thinking about

0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:23.239
<v Speaker 2>the app.

0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:26.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, I haven't posted it. Yeah, it's annoying that

0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I keep saying that. But here we are.

0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:31.920
<v Speaker 2>And here I was early to my b real slander

0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:33.760
<v Speaker 2>and you guys couldn't hack it, and here we are.

0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.880
<v Speaker 2>You've all dropped off naturally because there wasn't any longevity

0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:39.680
<v Speaker 2>in it anyway. And that's not shade. There was an

0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.479
<v Speaker 2>observation based on current social media practices. It was asking

0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.480
<v Speaker 2>for too much and giving very little in return. Here's

0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:47.040
<v Speaker 2>the partty.

0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:50.320
<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Kaita.

0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:54.480
<v Speaker 2>Today's big question is all about what the rules are

0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:58.600
<v Speaker 2>for borrowing your friend's clothes? Sound self explanatory. Apparently not.

0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:02.520
<v Speaker 2>We have a TikTok from using Steph dag check this out.

0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.840
<v Speaker 3>There is nothing more frustrating than when you're a friend

0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:10.160
<v Speaker 3>wears your clothes outside of the agreed terms of your contract.

0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.600
<v Speaker 3>Like if I let you borrow my dress for a wedding,

0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.639
<v Speaker 3>but then I see an instant story of you wearing

0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:17.720
<v Speaker 3>that dress two weeks later out at a bar. Oh,

0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:18.959
<v Speaker 3>we're gonna have a problem.

0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:21.400
<v Speaker 2>I was surprised to jump in the comments and see

0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:25.000
<v Speaker 2>that the response wasn't unanimous. So here a few top comments.

0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:27.240
<v Speaker 2>First person says, no, I'm wearing it as much as

0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:28.640
<v Speaker 2>I can, for I have to give it back long.

0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.679
<v Speaker 2>Next person, as long as I get it back in

0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:33.920
<v Speaker 2>the same condition as they got it in, I don't care.

0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.800
<v Speaker 2>Third person, isn't that like the point of sharing with friends?

0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Four?

0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Fourth porson and in front of mutual friends. I'm never

0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.199
<v Speaker 2>letting them borrow anything ever.

0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Again.

0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Last person says, these comments are lying. You can't possibly

0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:51.320
<v Speaker 2>enjoy watching someone use your clothes that much? Are you

0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:53.240
<v Speaker 2>a bad friend if you don't want to share your

0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.760
<v Speaker 2>clothes with your friends? What do you reckon?

0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:58.160
<v Speaker 1>So first and foremost, my friend let me borrow a

0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.560
<v Speaker 1>top the other day, and I wore it on the

0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:02.640
<v Speaker 1>said occasion. I then end up wearing it four more

0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:07.120
<v Speaker 1>times and I and you got I uploaded a picture

0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I've uploaded this last week. Yeah, okay, putting it on

0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:11.160
<v Speaker 1>the grid.

0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Like when you borrow at the top. Did you set

0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.040
<v Speaker 2>terms and conditions and say, hey, I need this.

0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I was at her house for drinks before going out. Okay,

0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:21.639
<v Speaker 1>so you cornered her no because pession I did. I said,

0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to wear the top of the rings

0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.440
<v Speaker 1>too titty. So she gave me that one. So I

0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:28.960
<v Speaker 1>need that one specifically. But I will say, I have

0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:32.400
<v Speaker 1>a list of items that I refuse to share with people.

0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Would you like me to read them? Mountain? Yeah, number one.

0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:36.600
<v Speaker 1>This is something that people always want to borrow, and

0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:38.760
<v Speaker 1>I have let them borrow it before, but it's giving

0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:42.080
<v Speaker 1>massive scared vibes when they take it. It is my

0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Avarex jacket, my bomber jacket.

0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:47.880
<v Speaker 2>You wear that too often enough that if that can't

0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:49.760
<v Speaker 2>be loan, that's your every day Jack's my every day

0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.079
<v Speaker 2>jacket cold you're wearing it.

0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I bought it from gray Old. They retail for about

0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.320
<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars. I bought it for about two hundred,

0:02:55.320 --> 0:03:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and that's vintage, exactly my mcdonald'st.

0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.640
<v Speaker 2>I can imagine it's my Rubbie Mitts all over that one.

0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:03.840
<v Speaker 1>People have also borrowed that however, that can be washed,

0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.519
<v Speaker 1>So that's okay, my chanelle.

0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Who's asking to borrow Chanell notacorum.

0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:14.040
<v Speaker 1>My Chanell Long nineteen ninetyes vintage coat inappropriate, my chilic condition,

0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:20.720
<v Speaker 1>and perhaps most alarmingly, my memu, Oh, my memeu heels

0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:25.520
<v Speaker 1>bush pigs for friends. Mymea heels, tiny snappable heel with

0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.760
<v Speaker 1>beautiful flowers that almost have like a daisy by March.

0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.959
<v Speaker 1>Jenial's lab bought them. Vindig, You're okay, that's actually that's

0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:32.799
<v Speaker 1>going to stay in the fam, which means me.

0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:36.360
<v Speaker 2>I like to think that with most things, there is

0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:39.400
<v Speaker 2>a delicate social contract in which we kind of understand

0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:40.560
<v Speaker 2>the rules, and if we don't, we are on the

0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:44.400
<v Speaker 2>side of caution. I feel like people with sisters, and

0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:48.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking generally women friendships, I recognize people with sisters

0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.840
<v Speaker 2>may not understand what that contract is because that relationship

0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:56.680
<v Speaker 2>is about not respecting boundaries. Yeah, I understand if it

0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:59.160
<v Speaker 2>like filters over into other dynamics, so you need to

0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:03.680
<v Speaker 2>assess that. But generally speaking, unless you went raised by

0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:06.160
<v Speaker 2>a parent who instilled a healthy amount of fear, guilt

0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:08.520
<v Speaker 2>and shame and too, you you acknowledge it. Like I'm

0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.200
<v Speaker 2>given this opportunity, for this opportunity and not for anything else.

0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't think people as a standard push the boundaries.

0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Letting people borrow clothes kind of reminds me of the

0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.120
<v Speaker 2>backwash phenomena. You know, you're sharing a drink with someone

0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.640
<v Speaker 2>and you have a slight inkling that they could be backwashing,

0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:24.800
<v Speaker 2>so you just rescind it to them. It's like it's

0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:25.200
<v Speaker 2>yours now.

0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't share.

0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.960
<v Speaker 2>That's how I feel like clothes sometimes, like in some instances,

0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.480
<v Speaker 2>you have it because I just know it's not coming

0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.119
<v Speaker 2>back in the way that it needs to come back,

0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:37.360
<v Speaker 2>and I know that rather than me carry any animosity

0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:39.400
<v Speaker 2>in my heart, I would feel better if it felt

0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:41.120
<v Speaker 2>like I gifted it to you. So I didn't you

0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:41.760
<v Speaker 2>think about it?

0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:44.360
<v Speaker 1>But should I not upload this? She's a good friend

0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:44.839
<v Speaker 1>of mine?

0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:46.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, have you given the top back?

0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:50.400
<v Speaker 1>No, I've been meaning to. She's away. We don't believe you.

0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why. No, I'm being serious. I'm being serious.

0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.400
<v Speaker 2>I think that you should you not upload that. I

0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:56.360
<v Speaker 2>think you should give upload it. No, I think you

0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:58.560
<v Speaker 2>should give the top back first, then upload it.

0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:00.800
<v Speaker 1>No, because she's a way right now, so I can't

0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.479
<v Speaker 1>give it to her. Is it urgent me posting this?

0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:03.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:07.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is why I'm posting a newsletter. Is it bad?

0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's bad. But it's also our mutual

0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:13.440
<v Speaker 1>friend's friends. Mikayla, do you think it's bad at all?

0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:15.600
<v Speaker 4>I have a friend who posts photos in.

0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.120
<v Speaker 1>My clothes, and how do you feel about it?

0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:21.360
<v Speaker 4>I just say that's my shat every time she posts it,

0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:22.000
<v Speaker 4>and I don't care.

0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're bold.

0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:25.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't care about it. I don't want that shirt

0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:30.520
<v Speaker 4>Anywayswash she's done. Yeah, she's had it for like a

0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:32.640
<v Speaker 4>good four months longer.

0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:33.359
<v Speaker 2>She's lived in it.

0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:35.000
<v Speaker 4>She's lived in it. I don't want to anay Moore

0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:35.560
<v Speaker 4>far out.

0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Mikayla, as they do everything with caution. Be well. We

0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:44.599
<v Speaker 1>have a listener who's told us that there's been a

0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:46.520
<v Speaker 1>situation with him and his girlfriend. I'm just going to

0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:53.080
<v Speaker 1>play the text. Am I am I the asshole. I've

0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:57.479
<v Speaker 1>been dating Ella for two months now. When you're calling

0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:58.960
<v Speaker 1>it about them, I the ass one. This in two

0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:05.120
<v Speaker 1>months two months each other kill her. My family is

0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.880
<v Speaker 1>from an Asian background, so a majority of the food

0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I cook just for myself includes peanuts and other nuts

0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:13.880
<v Speaker 1>because It's an important ingredient in my cultural dishes, say

0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:14.440
<v Speaker 1>with the whole chest.

0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:14.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:16.760
<v Speaker 1>I live alone, so I just make my own food

0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.720
<v Speaker 1>for myself. But because of Ella's allergy, I don't make

0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.600
<v Speaker 1>foods with peanuts in them because I know I'm also

0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:24.039
<v Speaker 1>cooking for her. Her allergy is only reactive if she

0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.400
<v Speaker 1>ingests a good amount of the actual nut. Are you

0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a doctor, Okay? Anaphylaxic surgeon, and he's unaffected by smell,

0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.840
<v Speaker 1>airborne and small traces of cross contamination. Recently, I made

0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.520
<v Speaker 1>a dish which contains a heavy usage of nuts blended

0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:41.560
<v Speaker 1>into the curry so you can't see that they're there,

0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:43.480
<v Speaker 1>and I left the left dos in my fridge. Ella

0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.120
<v Speaker 1>came around while I was in the shower, and during

0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.120
<v Speaker 1>that time she apparently went into my fridge and helped

0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.400
<v Speaker 1>herself to a big portion of the curry and immediately

0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.640
<v Speaker 1>started having an allergic reaction. Luckily, she hadow EpiPen and

0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:54.960
<v Speaker 1>was okay after a few minutes, but she went absolutely

0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:57.680
<v Speaker 1>off and me, accusing me of causing her arm. I

0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.960
<v Speaker 1>felt extremely guilty that she had a bad allergic reaction

0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.800
<v Speaker 1>into my food, and I apologized profusely and off to

0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:04.960
<v Speaker 1>take her to the hospital, but she was just screaming

0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:06.919
<v Speaker 1>at me the whole time. She said that if I

0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:08.800
<v Speaker 1>really cared about her, I should have labeled all my

0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.920
<v Speaker 1>food for her and let her know. Oh am I

0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:12.360
<v Speaker 1>the assle?

0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:13.400
<v Speaker 4>Wow?

0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:15.120
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what this reminds me of?

0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:15.440
<v Speaker 5>What?

0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.600
<v Speaker 2>There's one stating a guy who bought me a microwave

0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:21.800
<v Speaker 2>for a gift, thinking about it was like a microwave

0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:24.000
<v Speaker 2>and something for a birthday, and I was so pissed.

0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I had the worst week. I'm what is this? I

0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:29.720
<v Speaker 2>don't eat left because I don't want to. And then,

0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.440
<v Speaker 2>in a fit of rage, I was getting some cordial

0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:35.800
<v Speaker 2>out of my fridge, you know, the glass bottle of schwepes,

0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:39.120
<v Speaker 2>and I dropped it and it smashed everywhere. As he

0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:41.080
<v Speaker 2>was helping me clean it up, I'd convince myself that

0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:44.120
<v Speaker 2>he dropped it.

0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:45.520
<v Speaker 3>I was like, why do you do this?

0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:50.720
<v Speaker 1>He's like what And I was like, see, see, I'm

0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:54.520
<v Speaker 1>a sicko. But this is the exact same situation. Cold ye. Look,

0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say she stepped into that, and I'm sorry,

0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:00.800
<v Speaker 1>but if you're allergic to nuts, you gotta be hyperfielchill babes. Yeah,

0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.040
<v Speaker 1>you have your EpiPen on your on purpose and you

0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:04.360
<v Speaker 1>know it's because you're a liability.

0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.480
<v Speaker 2>But also we're getting really comfortable to two months in.

0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:09.160
<v Speaker 2>We're walking into the house, we're opening the fridge, we're

0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:10.480
<v Speaker 2>picking through leftovers.

0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Hands off, How did.

0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:13.920
<v Speaker 2>She asked him? Oh? My goodness, I can have a

0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:16.360
<v Speaker 2>little snacky snack. You know some of my best friends

0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.800
<v Speaker 2>I've known my whole life. I sort of the cordial

0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:21.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh can I borrow? Even though I don't need to ask?

0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Because just in case I can't, now I know you've

0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.360
<v Speaker 2>got and poisoned yourself and flip the switch.

0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh one of us, one of us pop culture you

0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:35.360
<v Speaker 1>missed with Flex and Frooms on kit.

0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:40.760
<v Speaker 2>Question for you, should people get paid to have children?

0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:41.120
<v Speaker 4>Yes?

0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Or no?

0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:41.959
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Babe? What I'm pushing a couple out for free? What

0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:48.520
<v Speaker 1>grimes shout out?

0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:52.880
<v Speaker 2>Elon Musk's Baby Mama was on the lex Friedmom podcast

0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:56.840
<v Speaker 2>talking about motherhood and how she feels it under a

0:08:56.840 --> 0:09:00.319
<v Speaker 2>capitalist system, it should be rewarded and then should be

0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:02.320
<v Speaker 2>a monetary value add to it.

0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Listen to this.

0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:07.880
<v Speaker 6>I feel like producing great humans should be seen as

0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:11.480
<v Speaker 6>a great as profit under capitalism, Like that should be

0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.800
<v Speaker 6>That's like a huge social good, like every awesome human

0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.000
<v Speaker 6>that gets made as so much to the world.

0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't think the world is ready for this, but

0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:22.760
<v Speaker 2>points are being made so much so that I wrote

0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.760
<v Speaker 2>some notes what I'd like to read off as Grime says,

0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:29.120
<v Speaker 2>if it was compensated, we've be incentivized to produce great humans.

0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.720
<v Speaker 2>It could be then a community of vocation, not like

0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:34.560
<v Speaker 2>a self interested individualistic act. So you start to think

0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm being compensated to do this bit in a way,

0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.800
<v Speaker 2>they don't need to think about whether I enjoy it

0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:40.720
<v Speaker 2>or I don't enjoy it. Similarly to the way that

0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:43.480
<v Speaker 2>we approach traditional work, right, I don't think a lot

0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.960
<v Speaker 2>of us live and breathe this idea of going to

0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.880
<v Speaker 2>a nine to five and spending forty hours there. But

0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:50.640
<v Speaker 2>it's a means to an end because it provides us

0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:53.479
<v Speaker 2>the money that provides us the life that we want. Alternatively,

0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.040
<v Speaker 2>when you kind of like take the empathy and the

0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.960
<v Speaker 2>readiness out of child bearing and parenting, suddenly you get

0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:02.520
<v Speaker 2>to make an informed choice based on your lifestyle and

0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:04.079
<v Speaker 2>your income. Do you know what I mean? I think

0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.120
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people don't actually think about if they're

0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:09.160
<v Speaker 2>ready to rear a child. They think about if they're

0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:13.120
<v Speaker 2>ready to be perceived as a parent. Oh two different things. Yeah,

0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:15.640
<v Speaker 2>oh you know, like, well I still have my friends,

0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:17.760
<v Speaker 2>Like will I be able to go on holiday babes?

0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.920
<v Speaker 2>You about to raise a person who's going to interact

0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:21.760
<v Speaker 2>with other people?

0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Why do we have to make it that it's It

0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:26.520
<v Speaker 1>feels very much like I think parents already feel a

0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.920
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure. This is putting the pressure on too much.

0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:33.679
<v Speaker 1>We all feel pressure. No pressure, I think.

0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I just also think like when people talk about the

0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.800
<v Speaker 2>realities of parenting, they talk a lot about their investment,

0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:43.760
<v Speaker 2>the time, the energy, the money. Had the average person

0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:45.800
<v Speaker 2>been said or been given a warning and said, hey,

0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:50.240
<v Speaker 2>you know, we've decided that we need people to have

0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:53.439
<v Speaker 2>kids the going raise five hundred KA a year. We

0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:56.160
<v Speaker 2>need you to ensure this kid is nurtured. We're gonna

0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.319
<v Speaker 2>do aptitude tests, strength tests, endurance tests.

0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:03.880
<v Speaker 1>You're not no way as someone who nearly foiled the

0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:07.400
<v Speaker 1>nap Land. You're seven year nine before I nearly failed

0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:11.120
<v Speaker 1>at and yet and yeah, I mean here we are here.

0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:16.560
<v Speaker 2>We flexing froom with Grimes, cater flex and Grimes next week.

0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:24.720
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes our producing Mikayla really brings in some exciting content.

0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:26.840
<v Speaker 1>We have a page on Instagram called Flex and Frooms.

0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.280
<v Speaker 1>You can go and catch some more of our content.

0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:31.480
<v Speaker 1>We've got some video content on there. Somebody sent us

0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:34.959
<v Speaker 1>this DM which is apparently a voice note about a

0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:35.560
<v Speaker 1>dream room.

0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:39.000
<v Speaker 5>I dreamed of Flex and Frooms last night. All I

0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:43.080
<v Speaker 5>remember is I walked up to flex and froome in

0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:50.520
<v Speaker 5>a festival like scenario. Through me had a lanner lips

0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:55.240
<v Speaker 5>lip barm and in the top of it was a

0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:59.600
<v Speaker 5>hollow needle like the people that take your blood use,

0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:04.160
<v Speaker 5>and she was tangular about to put it in Flexi's arm,

0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:09.600
<v Speaker 5>draw blood into the lanner lips lip arm container. Do

0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.800
<v Speaker 5>I know why? I have no idea, but I woke

0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:15.319
<v Speaker 5>up and I smiled because I realized that somehow in

0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:21.359
<v Speaker 5>there we got some like Twilight content and a PostScript.

0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.960
<v Speaker 5>It wasn't It wasn't freaking nightmarish at all. Everyone was joyous.

0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:26.280
<v Speaker 5>It was a great time.

0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:30.679
<v Speaker 2>The cult of Babies. I want to hear what those

0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:34.360
<v Speaker 2>babies the babble They know something we don't know. Honestly,

0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I love that we're blending the absurd. That's not too

0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:39.760
<v Speaker 2>far off from what for mean I would get.

0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:41.280
<v Speaker 1>Into definitely not No.

0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:43.320
<v Speaker 2>I think like it's we're one or two giggles away

0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:44.640
<v Speaker 2>from I just put it in, put the.

0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I love that it's adorable.

0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.079
<v Speaker 4>You've been listening to The Flex and Froom's daily podcast.

0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.960
<v Speaker 4>For more, Tune Indicater on DAB or stream it on iHeartRadio.