Speaker 1: Keeping you guys up to date or your listeners. I
Speaker 1: am getting married next year. Is the love of my life, Ben,
Speaker 1: So I am deep in the wedding planning.
Speaker 2: Up until now, I haven't had.
Speaker 1: A lot to do with weddings, Like I've only been
Speaker 1: to my sister's wedding, your wedding, Laura, like a very
Speaker 1: small handful. There's something that I've discovered is a bit
Speaker 1: of a trend, and I'm trying to decide if I
Speaker 1: do it or not. It's a first look, so if
Speaker 1: you don't know what that is, it's most people traditionally,
Speaker 1: the first time you see each other in like twenty
Speaker 1: four hour period is when you're walking down the aisle,
Speaker 1: so you're not supposed to stay together the night before.
Speaker 2: This is traditionally, and then.
Speaker 1: As your partner's at the end of the aisle, you
Speaker 1: walk out the doors in your in your dress.
Speaker 2: That is supposed to be the moment.
Speaker 1: But people are doing a first look now before any
Speaker 1: of the guests, so maybe I don't know. Midday, no
Speaker 1: one's arrived, the wedding hasn't started. The bride and groom
Speaker 1: usually on camera because hashtag content. Usually they walk up
Speaker 1: behind the groom and the bride taps him on the
Speaker 1: shoulder and he turns around and he it's audibly gasps
Speaker 1: out loud. Sometimes he'll cry if he knows what's good
Speaker 1: for him. And then they have this moment where that's
Speaker 1: the first time that they see each other. They take
Speaker 1: all the photos, all the bridal party takes photos.
Speaker 2: Then they leave again.
Speaker 1: Then the wedding starts a couple of hours later, and
Speaker 1: then you see each other again.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I didn't do that at my wedding,
Speaker 3: and I but my one kind of advice for weddings
Speaker 3: is do whatever is going to make you happy, because
Speaker 3: everybody has a version of weddings that makes you know
Speaker 3: that they think is the right way of doing it,
Speaker 3: whether it's traditional, non traditional or loping blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: Like everyone has their thing. And for us, I got
Speaker 3: out of the car and I walked down the aisle
Speaker 3: with the girls, and I think it was really special
Speaker 3: not just for Matt seeing like the dress or seeing
Speaker 3: me walked down the aisle. I think it was really
Speaker 3: special for him to see our girls and that was
Speaker 3: like a real unveiling of that moment.
Speaker 1: But I think for you, yeah, but he just gets me.
Speaker 1: I don't have anyone coming along with me so well,
Speaker 1: I mean a main event.
Speaker 3: What do you think it would make it more special
Speaker 3: doing it one on one? Like what would be your
Speaker 3: reasons for wanting to do that? Great question. I'm glad
Speaker 3: you asked yes.
Speaker 1: So my if I could pick, I would want that
Speaker 1: first look to be down the aisle. But because we're
Speaker 1: like an international couple, all his families coming from Europe
Speaker 1: minor all Australia. Because they're coming so far for such
Speaker 1: a little time, I don't want to get I don't
Speaker 1: want to have the ceremony, and then most couples go
Speaker 1: away for like two hours to do all their photos
Speaker 1: and stuff, while everyone just mingles alone for sunset hour.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 1: I feel like the time is so limited. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want to go away and do that.
Speaker 1: So if I can do that all before and then
Speaker 1: the second we get married, we're just there, We're with
Speaker 1: everyone and we can enjoy the night.
Speaker 2: Because the number one feedback I.
Speaker 1: Get from people is it goes so quickly, like don't
Speaker 1: waste the second the night is over before you know.
Speaker 4: I like it, But my opinion is you're with each
Speaker 4: other you're each other's partner. Like what difference does not
Speaker 4: seeing them twenty four hours before the wedding makes you
Speaker 4: know the inside out?
Speaker 2: I disagree.
Speaker 3: I think for you, Britt, you just got to do
Speaker 3: whatever you think is going to make you happy. And
Speaker 3: since you guys get such limited time together normally, I
Speaker 3: probably wouldn't be sacrificing an extra day to go and
Speaker 3: to try and create the suspense. Like you said, you
Speaker 3: guys do long distance all the time. Suspense is there.
Speaker 3: You have enough suspense. Just spend as much time together
Speaker 3: as possible.
Speaker 4: I think, do it. I've actually been convinced in this.
Speaker 4: I was against it, but now after hearing you, Laura
Speaker 4: and at your wedding, it was beautiful to be sitting
Speaker 4: there and to see Buster your dog, limp down the aisle,
Speaker 4: then Marley and Lola run down the other than you,
Speaker 4: Like there was like an electricity in the air.
Speaker 2: That's so nice. But the thing is everyone else still
Speaker 2: sees me for the first time.
Speaker 1: At that point, it's just Ben and the bridal party,
Speaker 1: but like it's still I still expect.
Speaker 2: Audible gasps from the audience.
Speaker 4: I'll be really dramatic.
Speaker 2: Look it, I need something. I need tears, get your
Speaker 2: eye drops. I think you should sing some opera operatic
Speaker 2: as you walked down.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: I take that as an offer and I will be
Speaker 2: doing it. Okay, all right, don let's go. Will and
Speaker 2: what are up next?
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