WEBVTT - MINI: Wedding first looks... yes or no? 👰 

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<v Speaker 1>Keeping you guys up to date or your listeners. I

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<v Speaker 1>am getting married next year. Is the love of my life, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>So I am deep in the wedding planning.

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<v Speaker 2>Up until now, I haven't had.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot to do with weddings, Like I've only been

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<v Speaker 1>to my sister's wedding, your wedding, Laura, like a very

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<v Speaker 1>small handful. There's something that I've discovered is a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a trend, and I'm trying to decide if I

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<v Speaker 1>do it or not. It's a first look, so if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what that is, it's most people traditionally,

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you see each other in like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hour period is when you're walking down the aisle,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're not supposed to stay together the night before.

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<v Speaker 2>This is traditionally, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>As your partner's at the end of the aisle, you

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<v Speaker 1>walk out the doors in your in your dress.

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<v Speaker 2>That is supposed to be the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>But people are doing a first look now before any

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<v Speaker 1>of the guests, so maybe I don't know. Midday, no

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<v Speaker 1>one's arrived, the wedding hasn't started. The bride and groom

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<v Speaker 1>usually on camera because hashtag content. Usually they walk up

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<v Speaker 1>behind the groom and the bride taps him on the

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<v Speaker 1>shoulder and he turns around and he it's audibly gasps

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<v Speaker 1>out loud. Sometimes he'll cry if he knows what's good

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<v Speaker 1>for him. And then they have this moment where that's

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<v Speaker 1>the first time that they see each other. They take

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<v Speaker 1>all the photos, all the bridal party takes photos.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they leave again.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the wedding starts a couple of hours later, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you see each other again.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I didn't do that at my wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>and I but my one kind of advice for weddings

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<v Speaker 3>is do whatever is going to make you happy, because

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<v Speaker 3>everybody has a version of weddings that makes you know

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<v Speaker 3>that they think is the right way of doing it,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's traditional, non traditional or loping blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like everyone has their thing. And for us, I got

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<v Speaker 3>out of the car and I walked down the aisle

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<v Speaker 3>with the girls, and I think it was really special

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<v Speaker 3>not just for Matt seeing like the dress or seeing

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<v Speaker 3>me walked down the aisle. I think it was really

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<v Speaker 3>special for him to see our girls and that was

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<v Speaker 3>like a real unveiling of that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think for you, yeah, but he just gets me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have anyone coming along with me so well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a main event.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think it would make it more special

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<v Speaker 3>doing it one on one? Like what would be your

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<v Speaker 3>reasons for wanting to do that? Great question. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 3>you asked yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So my if I could pick, I would want that

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<v Speaker 1>first look to be down the aisle. But because we're

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<v Speaker 1>like an international couple, all his families coming from Europe

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<v Speaker 1>minor all Australia. Because they're coming so far for such

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<v Speaker 1>a little time, I don't want to get I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to have the ceremony, and then most couples go

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<v Speaker 1>away for like two hours to do all their photos

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, while everyone just mingles alone for sunset hour.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the time is so limited. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I want to go away and do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I can do that all before and then

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<v Speaker 1>the second we get married, we're just there, We're with

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<v Speaker 1>everyone and we can enjoy the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Because the number one feedback I.

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<v Speaker 1>Get from people is it goes so quickly, like don't

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<v Speaker 1>waste the second the night is over before you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I like it, But my opinion is you're with each

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<v Speaker 4>other you're each other's partner. Like what difference does not

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<v Speaker 4>seeing them twenty four hours before the wedding makes you

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<v Speaker 4>know the inside out?

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<v Speaker 2>I disagree.

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<v Speaker 3>I think for you, Britt, you just got to do

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<v Speaker 3>whatever you think is going to make you happy. And

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<v Speaker 3>since you guys get such limited time together normally, I

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<v Speaker 3>probably wouldn't be sacrificing an extra day to go and

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<v Speaker 3>to try and create the suspense. Like you said, you

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<v Speaker 3>guys do long distance all the time. Suspense is there.

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<v Speaker 3>You have enough suspense. Just spend as much time together

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<v Speaker 3>as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>I think, do it. I've actually been convinced in this.

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<v Speaker 4>I was against it, but now after hearing you, Laura

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<v Speaker 4>and at your wedding, it was beautiful to be sitting

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<v Speaker 4>there and to see Buster your dog, limp down the aisle,

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<v Speaker 4>then Marley and Lola run down the other than you,

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<v Speaker 4>Like there was like an electricity in the air.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so nice. But the thing is everyone else still

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<v Speaker 2>sees me for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, it's just Ben and the bridal party,

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<v Speaker 1>but like it's still I still expect.

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<v Speaker 2>Audible gasps from the audience.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be really dramatic.

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<v Speaker 2>Look it, I need something. I need tears, get your

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<v Speaker 2>eye drops. I think you should sing some opera operatic

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<v Speaker 2>as you walked down.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I take that as an offer and I will be

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. Okay, all right, don let's go. Will and

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<v Speaker 2>what are up next?

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<v Speaker 4>To drive you home? If you missed the show podcast

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<v Speaker 4>on the iHeartRadio app. We had a big discosus and

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<v Speaker 4>should you pay your grandparents or your parents if they're

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<v Speaker 4>babysitting your kids for their services?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, a grandparents being taken advantage of across the country.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we unpacked.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can podcast it wherever you get your podcasts. Willem,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you next to you tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 3>Pay guys,