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Speaker 1: Well, and what do you podcast? Many six five? I

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Speaker 1: you'd have thought on this.

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Speaker 2: You're with your partner and you bump into someone that

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Speaker 2: you've previously slept with.

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Speaker 1: That meet the ball, spicy meatball. We've all been there.

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Speaker 1: It's a shocking moment.

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Speaker 3: The question shouldn't be a shocking moment, but it generally is. Gone.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think yours is just a bit of a

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Speaker 1: war of attrition, so you're kind of numbed to it.

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Speaker 2: But so for most people, you bump into something who've

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Speaker 2: slept here and then and then and then, and then

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Speaker 2: do you tell them at the time or do you

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Speaker 2: wait until you get home?

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Speaker 3: So you experienced this over the holidays, like what happened

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Speaker 3: with you?

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Speaker 2: Well, I was in amsdam My partners from the Netherlands,

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Speaker 2: so she doesn't get the chance to do this obviously

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Speaker 2: in Australia. Yeah, but on two separate occasions we were

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Speaker 2: at two weird that it was. It was in the

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Speaker 2: same situation both times, and now I realize that that's

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Speaker 2: probably why we went. We went to two different restaurants,

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Speaker 2: so we were at the restaurant, we sit down, I'm

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Speaker 2: absolutely loving the meal, Like, wow, what a great place.

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Speaker 1: I'm eating my mouthful. She's watching me.

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Speaker 2: Eat the food, right, and she's like, hey, do you

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Speaker 2: love that?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, this is amazing. You guys slept

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Speaker 1: with the head chef. Wow, yeah wow?

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Speaker 3: Did he come out?

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Speaker 1: No Christian?

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Speaker 3: No, no was he so he didn't come over and like.

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Speaker 4: Keep a kiss, well, no on the cheek, on the cheek,

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Speaker 4: like there was okay, no, but so did you.

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Speaker 3: Finish your meal?

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Speaker 2: Of course, but it's soured the meal. It's sour with

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Speaker 2: the meal. And lucky the chef wasn't there, because if

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Speaker 2: I did have an interaction with him, obviously I'd be

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Speaker 2: thinking the whole time. It's different. It changes the relationship.

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Speaker 2: So it made me think, surely it would have been

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Speaker 2: better for her, you know, after I've enjoyed the meal,

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Speaker 2: of enjoyed the she is twice by the way, it

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Speaker 2: was like a.

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Speaker 4: Head chef again, yes, okay, yeah, two chefs.

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Speaker 2: Kind of like a food critic, but a dude critic.

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Speaker 2: So she's doing two different places in both places, but

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Speaker 2: again did it at the time? And I was like,

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Speaker 2: and both times I was.

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Speaker 4: Like, after you took a mouthful twice, so like second restaurant,

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Speaker 4: you enjoyed effort you enjoyed thatfort slept with the guy

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Speaker 4: who made it? Yeah, I for you, every time you

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Speaker 4: went and ate out that like she had slept with

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Speaker 4: the person who made the food?

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Speaker 3: Was that because I'm sorry, but it happens twice, you

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Speaker 3: start thinking it's a bit.

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Speaker 1: Of a yeah, No, I know.

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Speaker 4: Well I just be I'd just be like, well, who

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Speaker 4: knows at this point, this isn't coincidental? No, okay, So

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Speaker 4: you so she told you during meal, and you think

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Speaker 4: you would have preferred her telling you later that night.

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Speaker 1: I think so.

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Speaker 2: I think that that for me is where the I

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Speaker 2: think that's the way to go. I think it is

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Speaker 2: otherwise because I think about this, like if you if

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Speaker 2: you tell them at the time, yeah, and you ruin

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Speaker 2: the chance for them to get on with them, you know,

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Speaker 2: like you ruin any chance of their relationship ever happening.

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Speaker 2: So if you go, if you go and let's say

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Speaker 2: you go and you go and stay at someone's house

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Speaker 2: or whatever, you're with your partner, you're going away to

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Speaker 2: the beach, and they go, hey, i've got a you know,

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Speaker 2: a friend of mine who wants plays by the beach.

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Speaker 1: He've asked he's us just to stay down for the weekend.

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Speaker 3: He's a head chef of the local.

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Speaker 2: Tippery we're getting away perfect, don't know this guy awesome.

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Speaker 2: If you right before you get the door, your partner

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Speaker 2: tans and you go by the way before we get

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Speaker 2: in there, slept with this guy. Your weekends cooked, you're

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Speaker 2: not You're not enjoying. You might have the best sunsets.

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Speaker 2: He might have three beers all weekend.

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Speaker 1: You're having a shocking time.

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Speaker 2: If she waits till the end of the weekend, you

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Speaker 2: can go, oh, well, I had a great time, and

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Speaker 2: then you'll have your own picture formed of that person,

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Speaker 2: which means that you'll have a chance of having a

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Speaker 2: relationship with them.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell them at the start or at the time,

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Speaker 1: it'll ruin the moment.

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Speaker 3: It's a good point.

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Speaker 4: But then also I feel like if I acted really

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Speaker 4: close with this guy all weekend and was like really

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Speaker 4: chumming with him and was like, let's play squash every Wednesday,

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Speaker 4: I love this guy, you know we're doing it, And.

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Speaker 3: Then afterwards, I feel like I'm so embarrassed that I

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Speaker 3: was like getting around this guy so much. I don't

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Speaker 3: know why. You probably shouldn't be embarrassed, shouldn't impact it.

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Speaker 4: But I just feel like I would like to know

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Speaker 4: before engaging in weekly squash with this guy that you

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Speaker 4: had slept with him.

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Speaker 1: That's right, information, yourself vulnerable to it.

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Speaker 3: I just think you want the information.

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Speaker 1: But why how does it look? Let's take some calls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah because I I I, yeah, I don't know. Six ' five.

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Speaker 2: Should you tell your partner at the time that you

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Speaker 2: slept with someone or wait till later? Does it ruin

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Speaker 2: the moment? Does it ruin the relationship with that fresh person?

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Speaker 2: Thirty one and six five is the number?

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