1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,599 Speaker 1: It was what he's wedding on the weekend and he's 2 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: a married man. 3 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 2: This is the recovery, recovery show. 4 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, still going. 5 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 3: We're not to all those fifty year olds who insist 6 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 3: on calling the show. It's over. 7 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: The dream is over for you. 8 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 3: I'm very sorry. I'd say it. 9 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 2: There's a ring on this little leopard, now, yeah, just 10 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 2: drop that. 11 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 3: It's good, it's funny, it's not sexy. I don't know 12 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 3: where it sits somewhere somewhere between sits somewhere somewhere between 13 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 3: lame and really shit. 14 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: Is it entertainment? No, definitely not. 15 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 3: It was a huge build up to the wedding, though, 16 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 3: and what was an amazing occasion and you, I'm surprised 17 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 3: you made it. 18 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 4: Thank you. 19 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 3: It was a surprise that anyone associated with any communication 20 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 3: that you had to do over the course of the 21 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 3: three months arrived. 22 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: It's a treacherous period organizing a wedding. 23 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 3: Lots of well, you just got blacks, you just got 24 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: taken off. It eventually dropped the handle. I dropped a 25 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,959 Speaker 3: number of balls and then Nim was like, you're banned. 26 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 5: From the balls. 27 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 28 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: I didn't mean to do that. 29 00:00:58,720 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: I promise you. 30 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 4: I didn't do that, but you banned me from all jobs. 31 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: This is the lead up to what happened. 32 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: On the weekend enjoy Woods is getting married. 33 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: Five years ago, I went on a road trip by myself. 34 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: I'm just driving north and I end up at this location. 35 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: I'm busting to take away and I pull off onto 36 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: a dirt road, park my car and just go. I 37 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: don't even know what the bloody hell this place is 38 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: and I take away on a wall, on an exposed 39 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 2: brick wall. 40 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 7: Okay. 41 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: Two years later, the first wedding venue that Mim and 42 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 2: I look at, I get and I go, oh my god, 43 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: this place looks incredibly familiar. I feel like I've been 44 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: here before, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. 45 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 7: That's the place I pissed on on the day. 46 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: Like I want the attention to go towards her. It's 47 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: her special days, and I know that is going to 48 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: be the case for most of the night. But we've 49 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: recently started our first choreographed dance. 50 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 7: Lessons for our first dance. 51 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: It's becoming very clear that I'm a far better dance 52 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 2: than men. 53 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 7: It's becoming a problem. 54 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: I contacted your dance teacher Natalie. 55 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: Natalie, he's trying his hardest. 56 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 5: He probably thinks he's better than he actually is. 57 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: But what he's doing is training, and that's all we 58 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: can ask, you know. 59 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 3: Okay, hes any incredibly confident that he's made a much 60 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 3: better dancer than men is. 61 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 8: He didn't say that he did. 62 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 5: Oh no, I think he might be two in his 63 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 5: own horn. 64 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 1: Really, Okay, Okay. 65 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 9: He's just you know, the rhythm's. 66 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: Not great, just too much energy, not enough pocisions exactly. 67 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 6: Yeah. 68 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 2: Is it a good idea that I go off the 69 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 2: cuff with my speech or should I write something down? 70 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 5: Let me tell you something. This is one of the 71 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 5: most significant moments of your life, right, Yes, let's the vows. 72 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 5: Everybody gets all mushy and writes, you know, yeah, I'm 73 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 5: gonna love you forever, you know, illness and health and 74 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 5: all that. Ye, when you're at the reception and you're 75 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 5: actually we're claiming this declaration of love to her, this 76 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 5: is you telling everybody in front of you that's known 77 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 5: you for your entire life why you're marrying this woman. 78 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 7: I cannot afford to wing it. 79 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 2: I am feeling very nervous and anxious, I said, goodbye 80 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: to min yeah, like three hours ago, which. 81 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: Was why why oh no, oh, it's back. Okay, Okay, 82 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 3: you're right. 83 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 9: I'm just very. 84 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 2: Overwhelmed with emotion and I am learning about myself and 85 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 2: I'm not a very emotional person. But then when I 86 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: do feel the feels, I feel them hard. 87 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 10: Yeah. 88 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: My best man called me a couple of hours ago 89 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 2: and he was like, hey, mate, just double checking that 90 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 2: I don't have the rings. 91 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 7: I said to him. 92 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: I was like, mate, don't worry, I'm on it. 93 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 7: I've got the rings. 94 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: And by the way, I put them in a special place. 95 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: And then as I said special place, I was like, 96 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: oh my god, I forgot where the special place is. 97 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: So I spent like a long time this morning looking 98 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: for the misplaced rings. Amazingly, the special place was my 99 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 2: bum bag. I never use you, but I never used 100 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: my bum bag. 101 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 3: That's probably why it was a special place. 102 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: I think exactly, if we can take myself back to 103 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: when I said we should a special place this, yes, 104 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,119 Speaker 2: so the ring I've got them. They're in my bum bag. 105 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 3: Disaster. It's been a disaster, but you managed to get there, mate, And. 106 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 2: It was it was a perfect day. It was unreal 107 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: wedding went on without a hitch, is a beautiful recovery. 108 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 2: Yesterday sun as well. So I think lucky that Mim 109 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: took all jobs off me. I think that's the key 110 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 2: for us moving forward. Don't give me responsibility a right 111 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 2: going into the day. I've always thought that the vows 112 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: that the couple exchanged to each other, personal vows is 113 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: the highlight of any ceremony because you do get an 114 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: insight into, you know, why these people that you love 115 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 2: love each other. So yeah, I thought it would be 116 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: a good opportunity to let you guys in on the 117 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 2: vows that my beautiful wife and I exchanged on Saturday. 118 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 11: Well well, well, Woodrow, looks like we're getting married today, 119 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 11: big dog, a day that we thought was further away. 120 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 11: Yet our classic tendencies of making impulsive decisions led us 121 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 11: to organizing a wedding in a mere four months. 122 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 6: And when I say us, I mean me amazing. Now, 123 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 6: woody cliche, But where do I begin? Where do I 124 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 6: begin to try. 125 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 11: And put into words that the one person who truly 126 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 11: makes you the happiest means to you. 127 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,799 Speaker 6: I'd need hours of everyone's. 128 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 8: Time just to share my thoughts and dates to share 129 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 8: the negatives. 130 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 6: I met you, and I fell hard. 131 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 8: I'd never met anyone that made me feel so safe 132 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 8: and special to be told I'm too much or to 133 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 8: tone it down, just to be told to truly be myself, 134 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 8: and in turn, you then opens up yourself to me. 135 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 6: Both kind of hilarious and creative person I've known whose 136 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 6: walk flights up every room and easily becomes everybody's favor. 137 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 11: With GIRs, we moved. 138 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 6: Fast, as some would say that in my mind it 139 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 6: felt like I'd known you an eternity classic. 140 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: When you know you know. 141 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 6: Then we made a tiny housemate. She has my attitude 142 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 6: that was amazing. You watch me grow that tiny human 143 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 6: and stood by me while I complained about my sore groin, 144 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 6: andj watch her dad. To love our little girl the 145 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 6: way you do is truly what I've dreapt off. I 146 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 6: promise to always look at you the way you look 147 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 6: at me, with love and adoration. I promise to continue 148 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 6: loving you through your gassy moments. I'll continue to care 149 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 6: when you ask her to come look at the grass 150 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 6: out the front, and I'll make sure I never do 151 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 6: the washing. But I can't guarantee where it somehow still 152 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 6: lose a sock. Most of all, I'll continue to love 153 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 6: you and stand by you through everything we go through, 154 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 6: big ads for as I always say, best friends forever. 155 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 7: Boys whatever, I bloody love you. You're certainly a different 156 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,679 Speaker 7: kind of cat, and I've known that from the moment 157 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 7: you burst into our first date and awkwardly crawled into 158 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 7: the booth where I was sitting. You instantly had me 159 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 7: laughing at your own expense, and that hasn't stopped. Most 160 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 7: people try to hide the parts of themselves that society 161 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 7: need to be flaws or imperfections, but you not only 162 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 7: share yours, you wear them proudly in an effort to 163 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 7: make everyone around you feel more comfortable. You have an 164 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 7: innate ability to sense that someone is feeling embarrassed or vulnerable, 165 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 7: and you'll instantly make them feel better by sharing something 166 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 7: far more embarrassing about yourself, like the time you took 167 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 7: a you on a nightclub dance flock. The true story, 168 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 7: Please don't do it tonight. I'd spent my life trying 169 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 7: to hide my many flaws, but you wanted to know 170 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 7: all of me. I'm sure you were a little surprised 171 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 7: at just how much there was was going on under 172 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 7: the surface. But the more I showed you, the more 173 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 7: you loved me. You didn't try to fix me. You 174 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 7: just made it clear that you loved all of me, 175 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 7: and I love all of you. I love your brain. 176 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 7: You'd like to say that your brain has the engine 177 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 7: of a Ferrari with the brakes of a Billy card. 178 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 7: And whilst I do struggle to keep up and sometimes 179 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 7: have no idea what you're talking about, I'm also in 180 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 7: awe of what it's capable of. You can be painting 181 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 7: a masterpiece and dancing with remy whilst also telling me 182 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 7: about the dream you had the night before. I love 183 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 7: how sexy you are. I won't elaborated on that though, 184 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 7: because your dad is sitting two meters away. Okay, Sari. 185 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 7: I love how you bring a childlike silliness and fun 186 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 7: to any situation. I love how much you support me 187 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 7: and consistently put my needs before your own, and that's 188 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 7: never been more apparent than through the birth of our 189 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 7: little angel. Life is going to undoubtedly throw some difficult 190 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 7: times at us, but I promise to be by a 191 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 7: side through it all. I know there will be times 192 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 7: where you probably won't like me, and if I'm being honest, 193 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 7: I probably won't like you, but I will always always 194 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 7: when I have a walk with you in the morning, 195 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 7: and I will always always love you. Would I give 196 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 7: you this. 197 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 6: Ring as a symbol of my love for you and 198 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 6: a reminder. 199 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 7: That I will always be with you. Mim, I give 200 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 7: you this ring as a symbol of my love for 201 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 7: you and a reminder that I will always be with you. 202 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 12: You too, You've exchanged your promises and your rings. I 203 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 12: now officially pronounce you. 204 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: Wow, that was awesome. I'm actually really glad we got 205 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: that audio. 206 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 3: Beautiful, beautiful stuff that is Would and Mim doing their 207 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 3: vows for each other as we reflect on the wedding 208 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 3: that was this weekend. 209 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 2: One of your ideas was going to chat with my 210 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: beautiful wife. Yeah, of course this is obviously fresh after 211 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 2: she had become missus whitelaw which is which is just 212 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 2: even saying that out loud is really nice. Now, but 213 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: here we were will first ever interview with my wife 214 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 2: as missus Whitewall. 215 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 3: Now I've got to talk to you about about the 216 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: wedding and hate feeling and stuff. But I wouldn't really 217 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 3: like it if you could regale for everyone what happened 218 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 3: when you went over so excitedly to his mum to 219 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 3: tell her that you were finally a white lock. 220 00:10:59,720 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 5: Oh. 221 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 6: Yes, that was a brutal. 222 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 9: That was a brutal a little call by Herbert. I 223 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 9: was so excited, you know, running over. 224 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 6: I'm I'm I'm a missus. 225 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 9: Whitelaw, like this is this is what's happening. And I 226 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 9: was I was a bit shook when she said you're 227 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 9: not a Missus white Law. Well, no, sorry, I am 228 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 9: a missus Whitelaw, but I'm a doctor Whitelaw. 229 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 6: So and I think it was. 230 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 9: It was a harsh reality of no, I'm never going 231 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,119 Speaker 9: to write a thesis that's never going to happen. 232 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 2: Never read. 233 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: Read the room. 234 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 2: It was really mum saying like, you're not on my 235 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 2: level until you've done. 236 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 4: Six years of studying a PhD. 237 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 9: Well then she's then she said that like that Steve's 238 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 9: mum's and missus white Law, I'm not missus Whitelaw, I'm 239 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 9: doctor Whitelaw. That I mean, iconic, very open so much. 240 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 3: What was your favorite part of the day. 241 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: What was the bit for you that was really special? 242 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 9: I think walking down the aisle I reckon that was, Yeah, 243 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 9: That was probably my favorite. Seeing Woody's face at the 244 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 9: end of the aisle, just in tears. I was I 245 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 9: was going to yeah, disappointed if you were crying, Yeah, no, 246 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 9: I would have been. I said to everyone, Oh, you know, 247 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 9: and and did you cry when you saw me? Did 248 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 9: you cry when you saw me? And apparently they cried 249 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 9: when they saw Remy, and I thought, this is why 250 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 9: I shouldn't have given she. 251 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:19,599 Speaker 1: Did clear the room not a dry yeah, yeah, yeah. 252 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 5: I. 253 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 7: Know, girl, yeah yeah. 254 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 3: Because we were doing the photos at one stage. You 255 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 3: were standing in front of this beautiful creame war like 256 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 3: looking gorgeous, getting these professional photos, and Remy came out. 257 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: She'd taken up her dress and she came out screaming 258 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 3: in a nappy, and Mimi just like cool and like 259 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 3: clear as you keep coming. Not your day, rare. 260 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 9: It wasn't to be honest, it wasn't her day. It's 261 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 9: been her birthday for the last two years, so it's 262 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 9: my birthday. 263 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 3: Do you guys stuck to the beautiful tradition of not 264 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 3: seeing each other or. 265 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 9: Talking to I mean, I wasn't going to do that. 266 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 9: But what he was, what he was trying to get away. 267 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 9: He was like, maybe I could leave on Thursday, and 268 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 9: he was like, oh man, I got the radio show 269 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 9: and I was like, you don't want. 270 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 2: To see me. 271 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: Also, he also put put us on a property with 272 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: no receptions. 273 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 10: Yeah, I called you. 274 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 9: Because I text you at one point not reply said. 275 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: Because Mim said it's fine if we don't have any 276 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: contact in the twenty four hours full the wedding, because 277 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 2: again I just feel it would have built up the 278 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: moment of walking down the aisle. But then you said, look, 279 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: as long as I can contact you just in case 280 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: I'm really nervous. The night before that, I was. 281 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I'll answer. 282 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was only it was ten thirty at night. 283 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 4: The night before that I realized that there was zero reception. 284 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 9: It text you something pretty important REPLI. 285 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 6: I thought, weird, weird? 286 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 3: Is it okay? 287 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. 288 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 9: We'll never know until the. 289 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 8: Day that you were a gay. 290 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 3: So you did have that moment, and we don't want 291 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 3: to get into I will save you the absolute debarcle. 292 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 3: That was the finding of the rings that he lost 293 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: on the day we've been wait, what been through that anyway? 294 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 6: He lost the rings? 295 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, not in the day. Did you actually 296 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 3: no found them? 297 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 10: Again. 298 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 9: Oh my god, are you being serious? 299 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'm being serious when I'm saying he's joking. I 300 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: definitely didn't lose the rings. 301 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 9: I feel a little uneasy in the tummy in the 302 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 9: dummy spot. Look well, I've got my I've got my rings. 303 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel a little uneasy in the tubbies in 304 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 3: the dummy spot a little. 305 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: Now, don't worry. That's what we can We can laugh 306 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: about it. 307 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 3: We can laugh about it. 308 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 2: You sent me a gift that I was to open 309 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: on the morning of the wedding. What did you put 310 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: the gift. 311 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 9: In a ring box? 312 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 6: A ring box? 313 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: Did you? 314 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 4: Why would you put it? 315 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 7: Was incredibly confusing, the. 316 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 9: Ring But I was the gift. It was a year plugs, plugs, imagine, 317 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 9: put it on your finger. We don't even call it 318 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 9: a day. 319 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 6: Just just send to me. 320 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 3: It's like chucking me in. You'll never be able to again. 321 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: It's not diamonds. 322 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 5: Again. 323 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 9: You almost people like say, you know, I float like 324 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 9: I floated down, and you're like, oh, come on, that's 325 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 9: a bit ridiculous. But it truly did feel like I 326 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 9: just floated down and then I got there and it 327 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 9: was like held hands with you, and it was just like, 328 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 9: what's going on? 329 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 6: This is the weirdest thing. 330 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 9: Everybody you love is watching you and witnessing you with 331 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 9: my dad. 332 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 6: Walking down, Remy walking down like it was. 333 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 9: It was truly like the best day of my life. 334 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 9: Oh yes, I say, apart from having Remy, but I 335 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 9: mean that was pretty painful. 336 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, this was. 337 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 9: Pain free apart from the logistics. But uh and the shoes, yeah, 338 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 9: size too small, a little bit brutal on the feet. 339 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 3: It looks great, though, I really do look amazing. The 340 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 3: veil and the train Actually hilariously there was the veil 341 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 3: was so big that we were doing photos afterwards. Yeah, 342 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 3: became a real hazard. 343 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 6: It did. 344 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 3: The other thing I want to ask about, which has 345 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 3: come up a number of times. So, right before you 346 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 3: finish your hours, would said how much you loved your 347 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 3: brain And then he said, I I find how sexy 348 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 3: you are and then apologize to your father, who was 349 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 3: a couple of meters away, and then proceeded to rigorously 350 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 3: make out with you. And you raised a league, And 351 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: how do you feel about that? 352 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 9: It was funny because I said to Woody, like, let's 353 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 9: practice kiss He said, I'm not practicing kissing with you? 354 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 9: And I said we're quite tonguey. 355 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 3: There's a lot of kiss It was a lot of yeah, And. 356 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 9: I said, we need a practice anyway. 357 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 6: I was like, wood you're very tonguey. Anyway, I'm very 358 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 6: tongue Yeah, I'm the tongue girl. 359 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: Actually, what happened is you chose to aggressively tongu kiss 360 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 2: me while sitting two minutes away from your dad. 361 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 9: Well, I mean, I think my dad was proud. 362 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 6: I think my dad was proud. 363 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 10: You were just yourself from start to finish, telling people 364 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 10: to shut up during the ceremony, you know day you know, 365 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 10: they all. 366 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 3: Through the photos like just vigorously making out with Woody. 367 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 3: There was like you had a bit of a dance 368 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 3: break through the speeches while you loaded all these things 369 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 3: that were just like unforgivably you, which was what made 370 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 3: it all so special because you stayed true to who 371 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 3: you were. 372 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 9: It was quite remarkable to Yeah, to be someone who 373 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 9: is you know, at times has been told that you're 374 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 9: yeah yeah yeah, I think you know, at times you 375 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 9: can feel a bit down about yourself thinking that maybe 376 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 9: I am yeah yeah yeah sorry, and then yeah, to be. 377 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 6: Told by all people that you love that that makes 378 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 6: you who you are yeah, specially sorry, so yeah, it 379 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 6: was it was just. 380 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 3: And then to marry someone who fully. 381 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 9: Yeah exactly who are Yeah, I couldn't have asked for 382 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 9: a bit of. 383 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 3: Human love you. Yeah, let's tunks. Okay, I don't think 384 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 3: I wanted all right there, you and I could talk 385 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 3: about this more, but we had a very not hungover 386 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 3: conversation about this straight after you got married. 387 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 9: Clever. 388 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 10: Yeah. 389 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: Well, look, at the end of the day, I'm. 390 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 3: A journalist's a journalist journal I'm a professional broadcaster broadcast 391 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 3: and I seized the moment and I was like. 392 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: You know what, now would be a good time, will 393 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: to get your phone out? 394 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:51,959 Speaker 2: Got the exclusive interview with me? 395 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, actually, and obviously I've got to send it 396 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 3: over to the Daily Telegraph, who are keen on this 397 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 3: as well. But before we give it to them, I said, 398 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 3: first DIBs played on the show. Bapers are chasing for it, brother, 399 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 3: I know. Obviously better homes and gardens, oh yeah, horse 400 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 3: and hound, oh yeah, all the big ones. Anyway, here 401 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 3: I am with my best mate and now husbands. 402 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. 403 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 3: Baby, Mimi Whitelaw or Jacqueline Whitelaw sent shock waves through 404 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 3: the crowd. It was very weird was the name was 405 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 3: announced in front of everybody. 406 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 2: When the celebrant said, Edward Timothy Whitelaw is marrying Jacqueline 407 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: Michelle gives people like, we're at the wrong wedding. 408 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 3: The hell of those two, we're the recovery now. So 409 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 3: there's a little bit of delirium. But first of all, 410 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 3: beautiful wedding. Unbelievable. So you guys, yes, a lot of people, guys. 411 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 3: So many moments where it was like only these two 412 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 3: people could do it like this, just the all of 413 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 3: the tongue kissing, relentless tongue kissing. 414 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 2: So it was that too much time because me and 415 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 2: I did have a conversation about that too much really ceremony. 416 00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 3: I think the last thing you said in your vows 417 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 3: was I love how sexy you are. And then I 418 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 3: balled her father and said sorry Terry, who was two 419 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 3: meters away from you, and then proceeded to lift her 420 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 3: leg up and tongue goucher in front of him. 421 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 4: So, yeah, I did do that. 422 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm not a Broode, I'm not yeah, 423 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 3: but you know that, Yeah I did that. I did 424 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 3: turn my toes a little bit. I'm sure so. But 425 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 3: but outside of that though, I mean, everything from there 426 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 3: was so you guys, and so Mimi as well. I'm 427 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 3: looking for catching up with Mim as well. But like 428 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,239 Speaker 3: everything very much looked like a Vogue cover shoot. All 429 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 3: the photos with you guys afterwards, Yeah, sort of smoldering 430 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 3: in front of a bowl of grapes in front of 431 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 3: a cream canvas, which I found very very funny, particularly 432 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 3: for you. 433 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 2: This was a surprise for me as well on the day, 434 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 2: because as you know, I didn't organize anything. The touch 435 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,199 Speaker 2: that personally really lit me out was the cabbages that 436 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:52,719 Speaker 2: were everywhere. 437 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 4: Did you notice that there were cabbages? 438 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, what was that about? 439 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 4: I have no idea. 440 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 2: I think putting cabbages totally, everyone's done, jetic, everyone's doing cabbages. 441 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 2: A couple of radishes were lying around, and then just 442 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: bunches of grapes. 443 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 3: But let's wind back to the day. In the lead up, 444 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 3: you were were the groomsmand house. You were incredibly you know, 445 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 3: like you were telling everyone when the photographers walked over, 446 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 3: I'm more good and more good and more good. And 447 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 3: then you you beautifully hand wrote a bunch of notes 448 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: for all the grooms men. I came up to you 449 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 3: and I was like, Woods, that's a really beautiful note 450 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 3: that you wrote me. And you turned to me and 451 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, man, man, every work Yeah yeah yeah 452 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 3: started breaking down. Yeah, And I said, is here because 453 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 3: you're always saying I think I'm going to be fine, 454 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 3: and I'm going to be fine. 455 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 7: Yeah. 456 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 3: And then as result, I knew you were emotional. So 457 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 3: we got in the car and I was like, you know, 458 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 3: should we play some relaxing cello and you were like nap. 459 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: You're like, I want to play this, and you put 460 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 3: on Jamie XX Breather, which those who are playing at 461 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 3: home is deep check noo. 462 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 9: Yeah. 463 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 3: And that was kind of the vibe in the lead 464 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 3: up was just keep the energy high. I feel like 465 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 3: we're going to a duff, not a wedding. Yeah that's yeah, 466 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 3: yeah yeah in the lead up because you were going 467 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 3: to be so emotional. And I think when we got 468 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 3: to the old tar and I want you to talk 469 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 3: to her this moment when Remy was a flower girl 470 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 3: and she walked down the aisle, I mean that was 471 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 3: that was the end of everything. 472 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. That that broke me. That definitely broke it. 473 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 474 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: Why so again, it's I think the interesting thing about it, 475 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 2: or the part that I think maybe some people understand, 476 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: is that I haven't seen Remy for at this point 477 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: two days. I hadn't seen her for two days. I 478 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 2: just just missing her for two days is one thing, 479 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: but then to see her, like, you're marrying the person 480 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 2: that you love so much, and the human that you've 481 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 2: created is in this flower girl dress holding this basket 482 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 2: of petals. And we've talked before about not knowing how 483 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,919 Speaker 2: Remy was going to react to walking down the aisle, 484 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 2: So in my head, it was like, she just start crying, 485 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 2: and you know, that's totally fine. I didn't want to 486 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 2: push anything on her obviously, to like, you know, confront 487 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 2: an intense situation. But when she, like when she clocked 488 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 2: eyes with me down the aisle and just kind of 489 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 2: like blocked out everything and ran literally ran into my arms, 490 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 2: it was just. 491 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 7: It's hard. 492 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: Again. 493 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 2: It's I think people often spend their entire lives defining 494 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 2: what happiness is, and for me, that's it was it. 495 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 2: It's so beautiful, that was it. So it was bad, 496 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: and I think everyone. 497 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 3: Particular moment really just swept through like a shockwave. Ceremonies 498 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 3: beautiful and your dad spoke your dad earlier about doing 499 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 3: the ceremony, which was it's such a good job, such 500 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 3: a good job. It was on the way that he 501 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 3: could very glad that you admitted a few lines a 502 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 3: few years left in the chopping room. Yes, yes, what 503 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 3: for you was the your favorite part of the day 504 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 3: after the ceremony. 505 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 2: There's moments that are popping into my head now, like 506 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: it's it's like a it's like a memory roll of 507 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 2: memories that I'm trying to pick out my favorite one. 508 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: But it honestly is very difficult to do that. Like 509 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: I can I could talk about some of the speeches 510 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 2: that were that were told on the day, which really 511 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 2: were beautiful. Every single person who spoke just spoke to 512 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 2: the relationship than mem and I have. And you get 513 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: so surprised by the ways that people perceive you. 514 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 4: Yeah as well, it's. 515 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: Really so much more positive than you think it could. 516 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 3: Learn things about yourself, you know, other people are speaking 517 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 3: about you. 518 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 2: You just don't think you have that effect or impact 519 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 2: on people, and to hear that is really extraordinary. And 520 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: then on the other side of the scale, you've you've 521 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 2: got the moment where my mum was placed on someone's 522 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 2: shoulders and she celebrate on top of those shoulders. 523 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 4: And then dad, you know, not. 524 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 2: One to miss out on an opportunity, then also all 525 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 2: one hundred and fifteen kilos and got on shoulders as well, 526 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: and you know, like those moments. 527 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you appearance are on your mate's shoulders. Yeah, 528 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 3: that's what that's that's why you get married. Totally beyond 529 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 3: the piece of paper. You guys got a kid, you 530 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 3: got a house, you got all the other things. The 531 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 3: committal is something, but those moments are way yeah. 532 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely, And then to really finish it off, we a 533 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 2: guard of honor was made for us, and we we 534 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 2: left the party, and then we were able to go 535 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 2: up to the top of the butter factory, yeah, and 536 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 2: look through a window at every single person. 537 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 3: Not a euphemism, by the way, they actually we're getting 538 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 3: married at a butter factory. I don't know what you 539 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 3: were doing after you left the dance floor, but. 540 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: We went up to the top of the butter factory 541 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 2: and we're able to look through this window and just 542 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: kind of like hold each other up and watch all 543 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 2: the people that we love and just watch them in 544 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: really great moods. Yeah, yeah, and really happy, and it 545 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: was Yeah, it was kind of like a moment where 546 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 2: it was like, people are so happy for us because 547 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: we're happy. Yeah, Yeah, that's that's I mean, that's that's 548 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 2: more beautiful than. 549 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 3: That's a bit made. It was awesome, you did so well. 550 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 9: So proud of. 551 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 3: You, so happy for you. I says to a couple 552 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 3: of people the other night, like, I feel like you've 553 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 3: had a lot of girlfriends in the past, or let's 554 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: just say girlfriends in the past. 555 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 2: Maybe we shouldn't bring them up now. 556 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 4: This is a weird little but to go like, also, 557 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 4: let's talk about your enders. I say this to the 558 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 4: last let's talk about you. 559 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 3: No, I feel like with so many relationships, I think 560 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 3: I actually said this to you about one of your 561 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 3: ex's that like, you know, the parts of you I 562 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 3: love the most, how silly you can be, and I 563 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 3: love how spiritual can be, And I feel like none 564 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 3: of those people really let you be either of those things. Yes, 565 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 3: Whereas when you met Mimi, I was just like I 566 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: knew immediately because I was just like, oh, she know, 567 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,199 Speaker 3: did she let you be those things? She handsws them 568 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 3: for you to explore them, and as your best friend 569 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 3: and someone who loves you so much and wants only 570 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 3: the best for you. To see you so happy and 571 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 3: have the luck and the privilege and the honor of 572 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 3: meeting that person and see how much lights you are 573 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 3: is just the best feeling in the world. Yeah, I'm 574 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 3: so happy for you. 575 00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 7: Man, Thank you, thank you. 576 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 2: And we shared Also it's worth mentioning that we shared 577 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 2: this in the car ride to the ceremony, when you 578 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 2: knew I was nowhere, and we had this moment where 579 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 2: we were playing yes this deep this deep House songs 580 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: from Jamie X says, but there's there's these particular lyrics 581 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 2: that are happening about being this moment and don't think 582 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 2: about the past and don't think about the future. And 583 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 2: there was this moment where you did you You reached 584 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 2: over and you held my hand and you said, this 585 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: is perfect. This moment is perfect right now, and I 586 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 2: will I will remember that forever. 587 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 7: So I love you too. 588 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 6: It's not about us. 589 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 5: I love you. 590 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 3: I love you too.