Speaker 1: The flex and Rooms Daily podcast.
Speaker 2: A yeah, yea.
Speaker 1: We both went to talk at the same time literally Newflix.
Speaker 1: I for the past few weeks we've been talking about therapy.
Speaker 2: We have. We say that it's.
Speaker 1: Often, you know the show, we talk about whatever we want,
Speaker 1: and obviously something's on our mind. That is the therapeutic
Speaker 1: use of psychologists and other healthcare professionals step in mind.
Speaker 2: Now. We were talking about it so much.
Speaker 1: So that some listeners dm to me with some contrary
Speaker 1: advice or contrary thoughts.
Speaker 2: This is a woman with a name starting with me.
Speaker 1: Okay, my unsolicited thoughts again, Sosburn not SOS strong opener.
Speaker 3: I don't think that's quite strong, but I get strong
Speaker 3: for different reasons.
Speaker 1: I listened to Yours and Flexes episode from yesterday where
Speaker 1: you spoke about therapy. I'm a provisional psychologist, but also
Speaker 1: someone who's been in therapy for ten years classic psychologists vibes,
Speaker 1: so I have a fair bit of experience on both
Speaker 1: sides of lacoin. My hot take is that you don't
Speaker 1: need to go to therapy if you don't have goals
Speaker 1: or are a bit stagnant. You need a life coach
Speaker 1: or something like that.
Speaker 2: In Uni.
Speaker 1: I remember learning that the majority of our clients are
Speaker 1: what is referred to as the worried. Well, okay, nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with you, but you think you need to be
Speaker 1: in therapy. Therapy is so people with mental health issues
Speaker 1: in brackets anxiety, depression, personality disorders, phobias, etc.
Speaker 2: Etc.
Speaker 1: And it's to use a therapeutic tool to work through
Speaker 1: that the worried. Well, just take up resources that are
Speaker 1: actually for people struggling. Sounds harsh, but like peeps need
Speaker 1: to get a life coach or watch motivational videos.
Speaker 2: Lol.
Speaker 1: I don't know self help books. People who are really
Speaker 1: struggling with their mental health can't get sessions booked in
Speaker 1: because sykes are booked.
Speaker 2: Pych's books are closed or full.
Speaker 1: But I think most people still don't have a great
Speaker 1: understanding of exactly what a psych does or can do
Speaker 1: for you, so the expectations are a bit ambig say
Speaker 1: with most things though, people don't know what things do
Speaker 1: because it's gate kept. Like you ask someone who's been
Speaker 1: therapy a lot, what is therapy and they're like, well,
Speaker 1: I mean it depends because like the person I.
Speaker 3: Go to does this, but like your person could be different.
Speaker 3: You know, it's Okay, so what's going on here? It's
Speaker 3: I kind of remember a hair dresser when people used
Speaker 3: to ask me. I'm like, well, you, what do you
Speaker 3: want out of therapy? They're like, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I want them to tell me. It's like, well, how
Speaker 3: are they meant to know? They don't even know you. Well,
Speaker 3: I don't want to tell someone who doesn't know me
Speaker 3: what I'm going through. Okay, Well, and then here we are.
Speaker 3: I think that's a good point though the worried Well,
Speaker 3: I feel like there is a gap in between where
Speaker 3: someone is aware of what they need to do, but
Speaker 3: aren't motivated enough to seek out the answers themselves, because
Speaker 3: it's just like it's web mding yourself into a black
Speaker 3: hole where it could be anything, right, Like if you've
Speaker 3: been on TikTok long enough, you think you have ADHD
Speaker 3: and autism, and then it pathologizes like really basic things.
Speaker 3: I watched the video the other day that said that
Speaker 3: if you often find that you're cutting people off in conversation,
Speaker 3: that you might be autistic. It's like, oh, you just
Speaker 3: have bad social skills, Like it could be.
Speaker 2: A bunch of things. But then now you have people
Speaker 2: being like you get a diagnosis because this chick on
Speaker 2: TikTok told me x y z.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's something about the worried well and figuring out
Speaker 3: how to motivate people to seek out answers themselves, because
Speaker 3: we're not socialized that way. You have, you know, a
Speaker 3: carer in daycare, and then a primary school teacher, and
Speaker 3: then a high school teacher and then a Uni lecturer.
Speaker 3: People who are meant to give you the answers you're
Speaker 3: looking for, at least coach you to find them. People
Speaker 3: aren't trained to seek out this information on their own.
Speaker 1: I see where she's coming from, but I think there's
Speaker 1: an issue with saying the worried well. I think it
Speaker 1: kind of gives a vibe that wealthy people don't have
Speaker 1: problems or like just because you don't have a I
Speaker 1: don't know how I'm trying to say it. Wealthy people, Well,
Speaker 1: I hear the worried well, that doesn't mean who.
Speaker 2: Well, like no, just like well, like you're fine. Right.
Speaker 1: Maybe I just don't believe that anyone who's actively seeking
Speaker 1: therapy doesn't need it. I think it's like it's expensive,
Speaker 1: it's not fun, and if you're going consistently and you
Speaker 1: feel like you need it.
Speaker 2: Maybe you need to know that you need to do
Speaker 2: prior research.
Speaker 1: Like I think it should never be you should never
Speaker 1: be discouraged from doing it. Sure, you can go, and
Speaker 1: if they're a good therapist, then they'll kind of explain
Speaker 1: to you. They'll give you homework, and then if you
Speaker 1: don't want to do the homework, then you can go
Speaker 1: find someone else. But I don't think you should hold
Speaker 1: into your you know, if you really want to go,
Speaker 1: you should go, definitely. But I totally get taking up resources,
Speaker 1: but I think that's more of a.
Speaker 2: It's an education. Is someone else gotta worry about that? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's neither here nor there. But
Speaker 3: I also think the moment that go to therapy turned
Speaker 3: into a catchphrase.
Speaker 2: I feel like we were doomed from that point.
Speaker 3: And I've been thinking a lot about how there's something
Speaker 3: about being a young person in the twenty first century
Speaker 3: and how we spend a lot of time knowing how
Speaker 3: to signal the right things to people as opposed to
Speaker 3: doing the right thing. So let's say you know you
Speaker 3: yourself a feminist. It signals the right thing, but do
Speaker 3: you know anything about feminism?
Speaker 2: Actually?
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe not? You signal that you are a liberal thinker,
Speaker 3: but like, how far does that go?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: And so, as someone who likes words and likes to
Speaker 3: make sure that I'm using the right words to convey
Speaker 3: exactly what I think I feel like, sometimes we get
Speaker 3: stuck in like this communications cycle where we're trying to
Speaker 3: present the right thing without actually meaning what we're saying
Speaker 3: at all. And so when I was watching Love Island,
Speaker 3: a lot of the contestants were asked the same questions
Speaker 3: and like, I get to know them type.
Speaker 2: Vibe, like what about islanders like?
Speaker 3: And they were asked things like, you know, what are
Speaker 3: your turn ons?
Speaker 2: What are your turnoffs?
Speaker 3: And overwhelmingly everybody's turn off is like, oh, you know what,
Speaker 3: like when they're mean to the waiter, when they're mean
Speaker 3: to the waitress. And the thing about that is, I
Speaker 3: don't know very many people who are actually mean to
Speaker 3: the waiter a waitress. Like, think about your close circle
Speaker 3: of friends, even like the fringe trends, how many interactions
Speaker 3: have you truly had where someone's been mean to the
Speaker 3: waitress or waiter?
Speaker 2: Not that many.
Speaker 3: Yet everybody parrots this off like it's something that happened
Speaker 3: so frequently that we need to be on highlight. Oh no,
Speaker 3: don't go on a date with that guy. Could be
Speaker 3: mean to the waiter, mean to the waitress. And I
Speaker 3: keep thinking like, not only is that outdated because we're
Speaker 3: all hyper aware that we need to be nice to
Speaker 3: people in service based industries like tipping culture and all
Speaker 3: of that stuff, but also it's outdated.
Speaker 2: What is actually a better judge of character, like I've said.
Speaker 3: Before, is people who are nice to their AI bots,
Speaker 3: people who are nice to Siri, people are nice to Alexa.
Speaker 3: That is a better litmus test because something about being
Speaker 3: nice to a waitress. Of course, you know what to
Speaker 3: do in a social setting where you're being observed, where
Speaker 3: there are other people to keep you in line, where
Speaker 3: there are other people to signal that.
Speaker 2: This is the right thing to do, this is the
Speaker 2: wrong thing to do.
Speaker 3: When you're alone, when nobody's watching, when you have not
Speaker 3: been warned or taught or reared to do this right thing.
Speaker 2: That's what I want to start looking at.
Speaker 3: People who are like like the people who's instinct. Did
Speaker 3: you ever get that Smarter child or on your explaining
Speaker 3: for this Smarter Child on MSN, Yes, So smarter Child
Speaker 3: was a bot that you could speak to on EMSN
Speaker 3: if you went around for those times.
Speaker 2: I can't even explain it to you.
Speaker 3: Just like a chat bot and with no motivation, people
Speaker 3: would say the most heinous, abusive, sexist, racist.
Speaker 2: Things to it.
Speaker 3: It's a random bot with no agenda, and people are like, oh,
Speaker 3: let's get them, let's get him, let's get him. That.
Speaker 3: To me, these are some clear science and someone's not
Speaker 3: right not you saying please or thank you to someone
Speaker 3: who did a nice thing for you over breakfast. So
Speaker 3: whether or not you say please and thank you to
Speaker 3: your AI bots, I don't really care, but please, just
Speaker 3: so you know, every time you slag someone being hypothetically
Speaker 3: nice or rude to a waitress, I'm clocking you and
Speaker 3: I know, like what I'm seeing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like knowing that something's not controversial. But I say, like,
Speaker 1: shut up.
Speaker 3: Like you know when people like you know, I just
Speaker 3: I just hate that, Like women have to deal with
Speaker 3: like beauty standards and stuff, and it's like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: it's we hate it. Well, I'm watching you just be
Speaker 3: fairal it's a warning. It's a warning you have been worn.
Speaker 3: I'm not letting it slide anymore. I've been quite for
Speaker 3: too long.
Speaker 2: Oh dear, this is flex and frooms.
Speaker 3: On da Oh the internet is It's like Taylor Switch
Speaker 3: Internet right now. It's been a little while since somebody
Speaker 3: has dominated the Internet like that, a musician in particular us. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I feel like he's like always on to the point
Speaker 3: where he's kind of like people are numb to him,
Speaker 3: like what's he done now?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: But I wasn't expecting so so of all, I did
Speaker 3: not know how prolific tailor Switch is. I'm a casual listener,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like some songs really bop.
Speaker 3: I don't really resonate with her as a person, not
Speaker 3: really my archetype of woman, so I just kind of
Speaker 3: like exist on the periphery of her. But looking at
Speaker 3: number one, how many records she's broken with this new
Speaker 3: album release, and I'm like, whoa, she is the most
Speaker 3: She has the most streamed song in the world, and
Speaker 3: she's winning by five million. Drake was the last person,
Speaker 3: which makes a lot of sense, but anyway, so naturally,
Speaker 3: TikTok is all Taylor Swift trends, and there is one
Speaker 3: in particular which is so fascinating. It's calling to question
Speaker 3: how manipulative women can be. I think it's really odd
Speaker 3: when people choose to out themselves, you know, in favor
Speaker 3: of like a quick trend. I said, wow, a, you're
Speaker 3: really putting it all out there. Thank you for this entertainment.
Speaker 3: So one of her lead singles is called Mastermind, and
Speaker 3: the lyric is what if I told you that none
Speaker 3: of this was accidental and the first night that you
Speaker 3: saw me, nothing was.
Speaker 2: Going to stop me?
Speaker 3: Okay, what does that mean? What does that mean? Is
Speaker 3: that consensual? So basically what people do is they film
Speaker 3: themselves listening to the song, and in text, they write
Speaker 3: on the screen what they did relatively to acquire their
Speaker 3: current partner. Oh, I said, wow, wow, listen to this. Well,
Speaker 3: I'm going to read them out because you know, it's
Speaker 3: a written trend. So this one girl says I found
Speaker 3: this band on Spotify that I loved so much that
Speaker 3: I listened to their songs fifty times a day for
Speaker 3: a month, and then I thought, hey, the singer's voice
Speaker 3: sounds raspy and hot, and I looked him up and
Speaker 3: he was my dream man. So I shamelessly played one
Speaker 3: of his songs on the background of my stories and
Speaker 3: tag them, and he messaged me about it and we
Speaker 3: planned a date. So I memorized every word to all
Speaker 3: of his songs and made very slight references to them
Speaker 3: on the date, even though I told him I didn't
Speaker 3: really know anything about his music and no, I've been dating.
Speaker 2: For two years. Was it someone from Oh, we don't know? Okay?
Speaker 2: You like my mom?
Speaker 3: When I show her? I mean, she's like, how do
Speaker 3: you know her? I don't, Mum, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Okay. Here's another one.
Speaker 3: When I was fifteen, there was this cute boy in
Speaker 3: my class, but he was super shy and I was
Speaker 3: too scared to talk to him, but I really wanted to.
Speaker 3: One day, I saw him like a meme on Facebook
Speaker 3: from the certain TV show that i'd never heard of.
Speaker 2: End up watching up.
Speaker 3: I ended up watching the entire TV show in one night,
Speaker 3: So the next time we were in class together, I
Speaker 3: could suddenly make a reference to the show, which led
Speaker 3: to our first conversation. It's now seven years later and
Speaker 3: we're married. I mean, this is just the graft. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's not women grafed. We've all done it, done that.
Speaker 3: It's so like insidious, like it's so far from just
Speaker 3: getting to the point, like you just need to go
Speaker 3: straight through your going left, turning right, walking backwards, going forwards.
Speaker 3: I just feel like also because having a thought, let's
Speaker 3: say you are the person who's been the recipient of
Speaker 3: this manipulation, thinking that you had this really.
Speaker 2: Like earnest connection connection with someone that.
Speaker 3: Was random and out of the blue, and they're like,
Speaker 3: oh no, actually I made it this.
Speaker 2: Way, thank you. Well, people can probably do that to
Speaker 2: you all the time.
Speaker 3: I constantly have conversations with people on the apps where
Speaker 3: you know, it'd be like two dates in maybe three,
Speaker 3: and I'll be like they'll reference something that only someone
Speaker 3: who knows knows, you know, or like they'll reference something
Speaker 3: on the post or something and I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, or someone who will call me lil Lil
Speaker 3: lil and then just call me flex randomly yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so you know. Interesting.
Speaker 3: But outside of the context of dating, people do that
Speaker 3: a lot. They will signal liking things in a way
Speaker 3: they think I like it. So, for example, like every
Speaker 3: I would say every second time I talk to a
Speaker 3: new person, they'll randomly bring up aliens.
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I get that econic.
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, isn't it funny? Because it would seem so
Speaker 1: not obvious from that point of view. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: like someone bringing up aliens obviously don't think that it's
Speaker 1: obvious to you.
Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. They think like, oh, this is so niche,
Speaker 3: Like she's going to know that. I'm like, you know,
Speaker 3: also a big thinker, and I'm like, everybody does this.
Speaker 3: It's aliens, it's twilight. It's like some kind of surface
Speaker 3: level personality test, surface philosophy, or like a reading out
Speaker 3: a question from my conversation card games back to.
Speaker 2: Me like I didn't write that anyway. I like it.
Speaker 2: They're trying to connect. It's cute, but also more of this.
Speaker 3: I need more people outing themselves on the internet for
Speaker 3: my enjoyment because I would never no, bring back nonchalance, bring.
Speaker 2: Back personal space. Never. And privacy. Oh you want privacy back?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I think so flex and frooms so FLEXI.
Speaker 1: Last week I told the story about the nipple hair
Speaker 1: in the nipple. If you want to google flexing Frooms nipple.
Speaker 1: I won't get into the story, yeah, because it's very
Speaker 1: alarming and disturbing, and it might HAPs anyway you get
Speaker 1: good content. But what it did do is it got
Speaker 1: me thinking about nipples in general. Oh okay, Now, nipples
Speaker 1: are very interesting personally. When I hear bad stori about nipples,
Speaker 1: I seize up. They're a very sensitive area of the body.
Speaker 1: And I got thinking, let's say you have a pierce nipple.
Speaker 1: What happens when you go to breastfeed? Does it come
Speaker 1: out like a sprinkler because you're at the nipple hole? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you got the you're gonna have three holes? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I oppose it to the Instagram story.
Speaker 3: Would you agree that that kind of makes sense actually,
Speaker 3: because yeah, you're putting a hole through a hole, yeah,
Speaker 3: like a cross or maybe it kind of like you
Speaker 3: like want to pierce the nipple and it heels. It
Speaker 3: kind of blocks any flow of any liquid. Because I
Speaker 3: know they do say if you plan to breastfeed, you
Speaker 3: shouldn't get aniple piercing. I don't know why really, but
Speaker 3: then I've heard like they never really heal.
Speaker 2: So what's the real story? Well, cop this.
Speaker 1: I put up my story and said, what happens when
Speaker 1: you have a baby and the milk comes out when
Speaker 1: you've got a nipple piercing?
Speaker 2: Does it come out like sprinkle? That's how you phrase it? Yeah,
Speaker 2: what happens when the milk comes out.
Speaker 1: So I've got quite a few responses, but I'll read
Speaker 1: out two of them that I got.
Speaker 2: That's the sut off. Like I got quite a few responses,
Speaker 2: I'll read out to Lisinda, good morning.
Speaker 1: I have one nipple pierced, and I also lactate, but
Speaker 1: not secondary to pregnancy.
Speaker 2: I've never had a kid.
Speaker 1: After heaps of tests, my doctor's advice that everything looks normal,
Speaker 1: I probably need to stop expressing the milk because I'm
Speaker 1: training my body to keep doing it. Anyway, the milk
Speaker 1: squirts out all the same on both pierced and unpierced side,
Speaker 1: apparently no interference from the piercing whatsoever, although I acknowledge
Speaker 1: this is a slightly different circumstance, and people expressing milk
Speaker 1: when breastfeeding make more than I do, and therefore the
Speaker 1: piercing would interfere more. Another person says, Hello, Frooms firstly
Speaker 1: accidentally sent an un sent the following message from my
Speaker 1: work account.
Speaker 2: Apologies.
Speaker 1: I have literally been thinking and honestly gagging about the
Speaker 1: nipple story all night long and was tossing up whether
Speaker 1: to tell you that the milk comes out of a
Speaker 1: million holes, regardless of a piercing. I saw someone already
Speaker 1: has lulls, so don't mind me. But another thing, breast milk.
Speaker 1: Milk can also come out of your armpits, and I
Speaker 1: kid you not, that is not even the half of them.
Speaker 1: When it comes to effing weed location facts, no one
Speaker 1: tells you about anyway.
Speaker 2: I love the podcast. I love the word lactation.
Speaker 1: So when you lax hate for a baby, it doesn't
Speaker 1: come out of the nipple in the middle of the areola.
Speaker 2: It comes out of the whole areola.
Speaker 3: Oh that's why when people get mastitis and the ducks
Speaker 3: are block Oh, terrifying.
Speaker 2: Coming out of it.
Speaker 3: Oh, don't make you sick. So if you got a
Speaker 3: nipple pissed, yeah, you're in the quarry. Don't Yeah, don't stress.
Speaker 3: It's not going to make you lactake in a weird way.
Speaker 3: It comes out of multiple places. It squirts out your breastmeme.
Speaker 3: It doesn't square out in a stream like like a shower.
Speaker 2: It's a great time to learn this.
Speaker 1: Also, someone said that breast milk tastes like it tastes nutty.
Speaker 1: Apparently it tastes metallic. Whoa so many other fluids. They say, mmm, no,
Speaker 1: that was a test. That was a test.
Speaker 2: It's a test. Are you pass? That is a lot?
Speaker 2: I think?
Speaker 3: Where are we out of our nipple era? Now that's
Speaker 3: the last we're going to discuss for now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd love to get into animal nipples more precisely,
Speaker 1: white as hua Us have eight nipples.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we came out of cannibal as an era straight
Speaker 3: into therapy, straight into nipples.
Speaker 2: What will be next? Chihuahua nipples?
Speaker 3: Yes, no hardware, pole, smash, flex and fruit. I know
Speaker 3: millennials and Gen zs are getting stressed about the dating landscape.
Speaker 3: I know it's yeah, yeah, I've seen, I've heard, and
Speaker 3: if you're not stressed, its because you're in denyal apathetic.
Speaker 2: But one thing I know about a human they.
Speaker 3: Want to feel good. You know what it feels good being
Speaker 3: in love? Does you feel good searching for love? It's
Speaker 3: kind of lay, mostly embarrassing and sometimes fruitless. But every
Speaker 3: now and then the Internet's like, no, don't give up,
Speaker 3: We've got some new ideas for you. In today's ideas
Speaker 3: dating stamps. What do you think that means?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Like when you have a passport? Okay, all like stamps
Speaker 1: when you get into the club.
Speaker 3: Close you see if you just allow yourself, allow yourself
Speaker 3: to be a creative thinker, come out. So basically, a
Speaker 3: dating stamp is exactly what it sounds like. It's a
Speaker 3: stamp that you get, you know, made go to your
Speaker 3: local office works or something or Vista print and so
Speaker 3: on the stamp you get something printed into it, like.
Speaker 2: What about are you single?
Speaker 3: Question mark dm me on ig at flex dot mammy
Speaker 3: or Hi, I think you're cute dm me on Instagram
Speaker 3: at flex dot mammy. And then you see a hottie
Speaker 3: you stamp them and in a club environment, it's like
Speaker 3: so funny. What is go around stamping people having flippant
Speaker 3: interactions and then at the end of the night, if
Speaker 3: you someone thing's so cute, then you match.
Speaker 2: Interesting in theory, how do you think? How do you
Speaker 2: feel about that if.
Speaker 1: Someone came round with a stamp? But I think ill's
Speaker 1: doing this to everyone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that not what dating apps are? Though?
Speaker 1: I like to keep the illusion that they are the
Speaker 1: only one.
Speaker 3: They made an account just to see if they could
Speaker 3: find you. Yeah, I think it's a lass and I
Speaker 3: think some that's what dating needs, a bit of humor
Speaker 3: and comedy. It's all getting a bit serious. And the
Speaker 3: stakes are getting really high. I want things to feel
Speaker 3: a little bit more like blase blah, nonchalant and the
Speaker 3: very least a good story.
Speaker 2: Why do you who you're going out with? The guy
Speaker 2: got stamped by?
Speaker 1: Why do you think it's becoming nonchalant dating line?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 3: I think it needs to go back to being a
Speaker 3: little bit nonchalant. I think everything's got a little bit
Speaker 3: too serious. The stakes got really high. It's very age.
Speaker 3: I just think the landscape broadly, I feel like it's
Speaker 3: too many, too much, too many voices, opinions about the
Speaker 3: way it should be. So much multimedia, Like it's in songs,
Speaker 3: it's in movies, it's in TikTok, it's on social media app.
Speaker 2: So many memes.
Speaker 3: It's all just it's getting to a point where it's like, okay,
Speaker 3: like you mentioned dating, and someone's like, you're you gonna
Speaker 3: get gasolt, you're gonna get love bombed. You're gonna come
Speaker 3: back with like PTF and okay cool or or hear
Speaker 3: me out, could have a nice night, could be funny.
Speaker 1: The pathologies, the pathologizing, the pathologization of dating, Yeah, is
Speaker 1: a real thing.
Speaker 2: It's a real thing.
Speaker 3: I wanted to be fun and light and loose, have
Speaker 3: a good story for the girls. Don't remember when you're
Speaker 3: like twenty and every weekend was like another story for
Speaker 3: the girls, like does something? What he? He?
Speaker 2: Bring that back?
Speaker 3: So will I get the stamp? No, but maybe I should.
Speaker 3: I think I would stamp in a different country.
Speaker 2: One hundred percent, get it in like a few different languages,
Speaker 2: intercontinental stamping. Yeah, that's what I would do.
Speaker 1: Probly get it for cheaper if you do a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of one literally different platforms as well, get all
Speaker 1: the platforms out there.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't rule it out.
Speaker 3: Maybe or just on a night out, all the girlies
Speaker 3: get a stamp.
Speaker 2: See when you stamp at a festival.
Speaker 3: Actually know we're on We're on the high end of
Speaker 3: the demographic for that one, the older end, the geriatric
Speaker 3: festival attendees. Anyway, it's a good idea, and for now
Speaker 3: we're just getting ideas going. It's hunting, busy buzz dating,
Speaker 3: dating stamps.
Speaker 2: It's oh, don't know what else.
Speaker 3: To be fair, it's shooting a shot in person or
Speaker 3: one hundred percent, just like going up to people in
Speaker 3: public being like, hey, I had a.
Speaker 2: Few chances this weekend. I really didn't. Yeah you miss
Speaker 2: you don't take that's for sure.
Speaker 3: See, I'm telling you I know a person who can't
Speaker 3: close on I see one.
Speaker 2: Maybe next week I'll endeavor. How are you gonna work
Speaker 2: on it? Watch your plan? What is stopping from closing? Babe?
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