1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just once answers. 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: Now, what was the first big challenge when you brought 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: the babies home from hospital? 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 3: The first bath was probably a little bit and a 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 3: bit of a challenge, just getting used to the nappism 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 3: the way we did we did. I think I've been 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 3: weed on probably four times and pooed on about four 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 3: times like you. 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 4: No, I haven't done that for a while, so I 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 4: must have learned. You know, you've got to hold the 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 4: dicky bird down. 13 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: And now here's the scars of our show, my mom 14 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 1: and dad. 15 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 5: Gooday, this is doctor Justin Colson. I'm on my own today. 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 5: Normally I would have missus Happy Families, my wife and 17 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 5: mum to our six kids joining me as you know, 18 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 5: so that we can have a talk about whatever it 19 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 5: is that we've got to talk about today for parenting. Unfortunately, 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 5: as is the case when you have a big family, 21 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 5: sometimes well you can't. 22 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 6: Be in two places at once. 23 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 5: So Kyle is not with me today, which I'm really 24 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 5: bummed about because after all of the excitement, all the 25 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 5: enthusiastic things that the huge response that we've had to 26 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 5: this fantastic TV show on Channel nine parental Guidance. We 27 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 5: have Brett and Tony, dads to four nine year old boys, 28 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 5: and finalists in the crowded House, joining me for today's 29 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 5: Happy Families podcast. 30 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 6: Morning gentlemen, morning, justin how it is so great to 31 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 6: talk to you. 32 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 5: Now for those of those of our podcast listeners who 33 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 5: have not been able to watch the show or perhaps 34 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 5: missed your story, and they hang, hang on, hang We've 35 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 5: got Brett and Tony and there's four boys age nine. 36 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 5: Can you just give us the short version of how 37 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 5: you two guys ended up with four nine year old 38 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 5: I mean they didn't start nine years old. 39 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 6: Obviously you've had them from the beginning. How do you 40 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 6: end up with four? 41 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 5: Sorry, I still struggle to say it. I've got six 42 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 5: of my own kids, but I can't imagine. I used 43 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 5: to want twins and then we had one and we're like, oh, 44 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 5: thank goodness, we didn't have twins. 45 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 6: You've got quads, Yes, yes we have. 46 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 3: I don't know whether we can make it a short story, 47 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 3: but anyway, our trauma. So Brett and I've been together, 48 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: were actually met at high school, being sort of best 49 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: friends since high school since year eleven. We got together 50 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 3: as a couple when we were about twenty eight, and 51 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 3: probably since then really we wanted we wanted children, but 52 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 3: we first sort of looked into it when we sort 53 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 3: of first got together for a couple of years, but 54 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 3: it was sort of out of our reach financially at 55 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: that time. You could only do it in sort of 56 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: America or Canada. That's surrogacy, and it was out of 57 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: our reach. And then probably you know, sometime after that 58 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: ten years or so, we found out that you could 59 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 3: actually do surrogacy in India and it was within our means, 60 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: within our financial means. 61 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 4: So we looked into a little bit and yeah, we 62 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 4: started the process. 63 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 7: We had several attempts prior to success, and then in 64 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 7: the end the doctor said to us, look, I think, 65 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 7: you know, let's sort of utilize a new egg donor. 66 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 8: Let's try a new egg donor, some new surrogates, and 67 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 8: we'll try again. 68 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: So they already had. 69 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 8: Our deposits over there from last time, and they tried 70 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 8: it again and. 71 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 4: Bing bang boom, there you go. 72 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 5: So two separate egg donors, two separate mums, a set 73 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 5: of twins. 74 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 4: One egg donors. 75 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 3: So the boys are actually half biological brothers. All right, 76 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: so it was one egg donor, yeah, two surrogates and 77 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 3: then two are biologically breads and two are biologically mine. 78 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 6: Oh that's fascinating. 79 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 4: Yeah wow. 80 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: And so you ended up with not just two sets 81 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 5: of twins, but they were born literally the same day. 82 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 83 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: So I think Jagan and Taram were born at about 84 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 3: twelve thirty nine AM or something and just to midnight. 85 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, and Guy. 86 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 8: And aj were born at about five pm that afternoon. 87 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 4: So I had the time the clinic that we went through. 88 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 8: They were the longest gestational period that had for a tweet, 89 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 8: So they made it to thirty eight weeks. 90 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:19,559 Speaker 6: Were you guys there for the birth? 91 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 4: Yes, we were. 92 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 6: Yeah. Emotional, Yeah, it was very emotional. 93 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 4: Actually yeah, there was lots of tears. Yeah. Yeah. 94 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 8: Well nine to now have been digging into the archives 95 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 8: and they just dug out our story when we were 96 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 8: on a current affair. So I saw that on Google today. 97 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: Two gay dads, four newborn baby boys, one unusual family, 98 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 2: a modern miracle delivered by an Indian fertility clinic given 99 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 2: them a. 100 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 9: Tony and Britt. 101 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: You've been home for a couple of weeks, now, how's 102 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 2: it all going good. 103 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 3: We've had lots and lots of support from family and friends. 104 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 3: But the two nights that we did have, we managed 105 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 3: to get about five hours sleep, which was fantastic. 106 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 4: And yeah, and that went really, really well. We've had 107 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 4: a lot of visitors too, obviously. 108 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 8: And I think they've been pleasantly surprised at how collected 109 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 8: we've been. 110 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 4: And I've even surprised myself. 111 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 5: So that's fantastic and just it's such an extraordinary story. 112 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 5: Let me ask a question that I'm sure a lot 113 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 5: of people are wondering, and I hope it's not impolied 114 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 5: me to ask. 115 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 6: We don't see a lot of gay dads. 116 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 5: You guys won a lot of hearts in the show 117 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 5: as people saw your fun and your delight, and obviously 118 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 5: you're clear love for these four boys. What made you 119 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 5: want kids so badly? Because it's not something that we 120 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 5: see and hear heaps about. 121 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: I think I think Breton, Brett and I have always 122 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 3: sort of loved kids always, you know, I suppose that 123 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 3: was always a dream of ours. But but you know, 124 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: as I said earlier, we or as I said, we 125 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 3: looked into it, it was outside of our means. We 126 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 3: sort of resigned ourselves to the fact that we weren't 127 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 3: going to have children, so we. 128 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 4: Actually we looked at alternatives then. 129 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 8: So I actually worked at the bank at a bank, 130 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 8: and I just quick went left work and went back 131 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 8: to school to be a primary school teacher. And I thought, oh, 132 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 8: that'll give me me a fill of kids. I don't 133 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 8: want to see a kid ever again after And you know, 134 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 8: we did the Chiuas. 135 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, we bred and we bred in Chuaas and showed Chuaas. 136 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 4: So they were sort of our fur babies. 137 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 5: Not the same though, are they. You can love dogs, 138 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 5: but they're not the same as kids. 139 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 4: No, no they're not. 140 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 3: And you know, like you know, probably field a place 141 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: in our hearts, but probably not quite to the depth 142 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,919 Speaker 3: that we wanted it to. And look, we just you know, 143 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 3: my sister had kids, and people at work were having children, 144 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 3: and it was just something like we really really sort 145 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 3: of yearned to have children initially, and I sort of 146 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 3: said to breath when the Indian sort of possibility came up. 147 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 3: I said to Brett, you know, I think this is 148 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: what I want to do. He initially was quite hesitant 149 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: and said, no, you know, you. 150 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 8: Were getting old justin that's what I was hesitant about 151 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 8: I think we might be a bit too old for this. 152 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 3: I said to Brett. I said to Brett, you can 153 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 3: either come on this journey with me or without. And 154 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 3: then he said, all right, let's go. If you do everything, 155 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 3: because it was a pretty big process. He said, if 156 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: you do everything, yeah, I'm with you, and yeah, I 157 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: think it was the best decision we ever made. 158 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 5: After the break, We're going to find out about Breton 159 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 5: Tony's experience on Parental Guidance, their biggest learnings, the style 160 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 5: that stood out of the most, and we're going to 161 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 5: find out just how jealous they were about not being 162 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 5: able to go camping in the Wilderness challenge. 163 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: It's their Happy Families podcast. 164 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 9: Our Screens Creating Tension at Home, tweens, teens and Screens 165 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 9: is a webinar to guide families to healthy, safe superscreen 166 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 9: solutions by today at Happy families dot com, dot au 167 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 9: slash shop. 168 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 5: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for the time 169 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 5: poor parent who just wants Answers Now. Predal Guidance has 170 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 5: been this show that has captivated Australia for the last 171 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 5: few weeks and a Channel nine show all about bringing 172 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,679 Speaker 5: ten different parenting styles together and finding out what works 173 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 5: best for kids. It's doctor Justin Coulson without Kylie today. 174 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 5: Unfortunately she couldn't be with us. Talking with Britain Tony 175 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 5: the stars two of the stars of the show, The 176 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 5: parenting style was routine Britain Tony. When you think about 177 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 5: your experience on parental Guidance, what was your biggest learning 178 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 5: from the show? 179 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 3: Oh? 180 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 8: Look, the major thing that stands out for me is 181 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 8: your advice in relation to stranger danger and adults, you know, 182 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 8: tricky adults that might be asking children for help. And 183 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 8: because of course that was the most confronting challenge to watch, 184 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 8: particularly for Usk, but we knew our kids were what 185 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 8: they were going to do, but it was still hard 186 00:08:59,120 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 8: to watch. 187 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 4: So yeah, that was that was a big one. 188 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 3: I think I think we've definitely learned though, definitely learned 189 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 3: calmness and probably more sort of flexibility. Yeah, I think, 190 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 3: you know, absolutely, since going on the show, we have 191 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 3: learned a lot. You know, one of our boys probably 192 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 3: is a little bit more challenging than the other three, 193 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 3: So I think particularly with him, we've we now manage 194 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 3: him much. 195 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 4: Much better than what we used to. You know, we 196 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 4: we we are. 197 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 3: So I think we sort of had picked up quite 198 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 3: a bit from the attachment parents too, to be honest, 199 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 3: and the free range and the nature. Yeah, like I 200 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 3: think we've just I think overall we've just learned to 201 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 3: be better parents. I think as well. Like we went 202 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 3: when we went on the show, we we there was 203 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 3: no there was no perception from us all thought around 204 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 3: that we were, you know, good parents or great parents. 205 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 3: You know. 206 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 4: We we went on the show thinking we actually have 207 00:09:58,760 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 4: a lot to learn. 208 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 6: Quick question for you guys before we wrap up. 209 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 5: As well, when the Crowded House ended and we discovered 210 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 5: that Britain Tony would not be going on the Wilderness 211 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 5: Challenge camping overnight in freezing cold weather with real fire 212 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 5: with the four kids, we disappointed just a bit. 213 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 8: Absolutely not no, we've never been camping. We had bush fires, 214 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 8: bonfires and stuff. We loved the bush but not the 215 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 8: sleeping outside in the cold. 216 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 4: Natanks. We're a bit like Donna from the French. We 217 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 4: don't really do dare. 218 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 8: But I'll tell you what, I would have loved to 219 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 8: have seen Donna in their crowded house or in the 220 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 8: wilderness and dealing with a twelve kids rather than just 221 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 8: one cherub. 222 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 4: That would have been hilarious. 223 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 6: That's a really fun question. 224 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 5: If you were to design the best made for reality 225 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 5: TV crowded house, which families would you have put in there? 226 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 4: Definitely the Frank Chess with their one child. 227 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 8: He'd want to be classic to see how they handle 228 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 8: a whole bunch of kids, for sure. 229 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, you have one. 230 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have put the Nature. I think the 231 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 3: Nature would have been really definitely. I think we could 232 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 3: have learned lots from the Nature. I think there would 233 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: have been a lot of laughs too. 234 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 8: And I also would have liked Debt from the homeschooling 235 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 8: family because she's got so many kids. 236 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 4: That would have been interesting to see how a single 237 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 4: parent double up the number of kids. 238 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 8: And well, if you've got Nature and you've got her where, 239 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 8: you're way. 240 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 4: Over twelve kids already. And then of course us we 241 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 4: have to go as fast. 242 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 6: You guys are massacres. 243 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 5: I'm so glad you don't produce reality TV that I 244 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 5: having to be fun to watch, but wow, to be 245 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 5: hard for the parents. Guys, we need to wrap this up. 246 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 5: One last question for you. It's been such a delightful conversation. 247 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 5: You thought, my goodness, as if we'd go on that. 248 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 5: When you saw it, Brett, you thought, this is a 249 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 5: crazy show. Who's going to put their family up and 250 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 5: go on national TV and hold up a mirror to 251 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 5: themselves so that the entire nation can see the way 252 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 5: they raise their kids. Now that you've done it, not 253 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 5: that there's any hint at this point that there's going 254 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 5: to be a season two, but would you recommend it? 255 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 5: If there's a season two? Would you say to people 256 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 5: get involved, like this is great? 257 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 3: Absolutely, Like we we loved the whole like we love 258 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 3: we love doing the challenges with the kids. It gave 259 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 3: us some really fun opportunities to you know, to have 260 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 3: some fun together as a family. 261 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 4: You know, we grew that, like I. 262 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 3: Think, you know, the kids feel like little superstars too 263 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 3: at school. 264 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 4: You know, we've had a and you know, we've had a. 265 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: Really positive response from from from society in the community, 266 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,719 Speaker 3: which has been a really really positive thing for us. 267 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 4: And also, you. 268 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 3: Know, we went on the show thinking that we really 269 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 3: wanted to raise a when a send be visible to 270 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 3: sort of support you know, rainbow families or you know, 271 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 3: gay dads, and I think we've achieved that. So yeah, 272 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 3: we're really happy and we absolutely recommend other parents' families 273 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 3: go on it. 274 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 8: People would have to think about it, but yeah, I 275 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 8: definitely recommend it. As far as our experience, it's been 276 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 8: great and it's been a very memorable time for us 277 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 8: and the kids. 278 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, something we will be able to have forever. 279 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 5: Our TV shows well Britain, Tony, our routine parents from 280 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 5: Parental Guidance. 281 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 6: Great talking with you, Thanks so much for your time, 282 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 6: Thanks so much, Justin. 283 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 5: The Happy Families podcast is produced by Justin Ruland from 284 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 5: Bridge Media. Craig Bruce is our executive producer. 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