1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast. 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 2: I'd love to know your your opinion here thirty one 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 2: O six ' five. If your partner's got a friendship, 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: very good friendship with someone who's of the sex which 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 2: they're attracted to, what's the line? Where's the line in 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: terms of what they can do with that person? The 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: reason we're talking about it was, Ah, a couple of 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: flogs on TikTok. I mean, they just come out of 9 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 2: the woodwork, these people, don't they We just spoke to 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: a guy with one point seven million followers, and they 11 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 2: bloody heard of the bloke. They're everywhere. There's so poorkedy brother, 12 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: there's more people on TikTok than they are on the planet. 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, successful business tiktoks. 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 2: It into planetary, is it essentially? Anyway? So these people 15 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 2: are popped up big story and they're basically saying that 16 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: one of the reasons that they're so successful they've been 17 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: happily married for thirteen years, which is a successful relationship. 18 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 2: There's noted about that is because they said that they 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: can only have mutual friendships. So if one of them 20 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 2: is friends with a person and the other feels off 21 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: about that person, then neither of them are friends with 22 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: that person. 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 3: Oh, so what you can just you can just what 24 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 3: can friends? 25 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 4: Just like, I don't like that friends. He's like, not 26 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 4: fair enough, I'm not gonna be friends with you anymore. Yeah, 27 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 4: how do you even bring that up with the mate 28 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 4: with the friend? Sorry my wife doesn't like you, or 29 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 4: sorry my husband doesn't like you. 30 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: Just dissolve, just disappear. Oh yeah, I know. 31 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 3: I don't like that at all. 32 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I almost feel like one of the main 33 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 2: parts of a successful relationship is like compromising and navigating 34 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: the people that your partner is friends with or that 35 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: you're friends with around your partner, Like that's kind of 36 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: like what it's about you, kind of you know you. Yeah, anyway, 37 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: these guys just don't do that. They just live in 38 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: a cave somewhere where either of them can make friends 39 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: with other people. And that's probably what it would be 40 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: like doing that. You'd meet someone and be like, sorry, dude, 41 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: you've got to meet my partner before we can be mates. 42 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 3: Like a job interview with my wife. 43 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, anyway, I'm not gonna ask can you have 44 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 2: friends outside your relationship of the sex which you're attracted to, 45 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: because I think that is insane, and I think it's insecure, 46 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: and I think it's just a lot about your relationship. 47 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 2: If I'm being brutally honest, but whack, I like that, Well, 48 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,839 Speaker 2: it's true with it, Like, that's just crazy. If you're 49 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 2: that jealous that your partner cannot have a friend of 50 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: the sex that they're attracted to, you are you're in 51 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: the wrong relationship or you've got trust issues in that 52 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: relationship that you need to figure out. My question is, 53 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 2: once that relationship exists, once your partner is good friends 54 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: with someone of the sex that they're attracted to, what's 55 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: the line, Like, what can they do? Can they do 56 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 2: a weekend away with them? You suggested a foot rub beforewards. 57 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 4: Foot rub, and I foot rub is a fair bit 58 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 4: for me. I'd need to know the circumstances around the 59 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 4: foot rub, Like if this friend was the royal involved, Well. 60 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 3: That's a factor. Definitely. 61 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 4: Another factor would be why you gave the foot rub. 62 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 4: If they were like, I started cramping because we're on 63 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 4: a hike. I get it, Rubbi's feet. 64 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 2: If it was like, what about a hike? Is a 65 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: hike together? Okay? Fine? Overnight hike? 66 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 3: I think so, absolutely fine? 67 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: What if they're sleeping in the same tent. 68 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 4: I think that's I think that's fine. Un Let's see, 69 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 4: this is my other big one is nudity. 70 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 71 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 4: So if they were like, oh, yes, we finished this 72 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 4: day hike, both got naked, jumped in a tent, slept, 73 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 4: nothing happened, but we were both naked, I'd go hang 74 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 4: on a second, pajammers. 75 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: I'd be tapping you on the shoulder at that stage, 76 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: which I think there might be something going on. 77 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think nudity suggests that, right. 78 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: I can't think of one activity where it was like, oh, 79 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 4: not fair enough, you had to get naked for that. 80 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: What about if they were doing body painting? 81 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's see right off, I'm sorry you can't go. 82 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: Body Well, you said you can't think of one activity 83 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: they need to get naked for body painting. 84 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that activity it might be of the line. Yes, 85 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 4: I think nude activities. 86 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 6: Yep. 87 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: I'm just like, yeah, I think that's fair enough. 88 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of you some more people here. Was 89 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 2: there a deal breaking for you? Was there a point 90 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 2: where it was like someone was really good friends with 91 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: someone of the sex they were attracted to, You're going 92 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: out with this person. So your partner's friends with someone 93 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: of the sex they're attracted to. What was the line? 94 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: What was the point where you were like, Nah, that's 95 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: just too much for me. 96 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: Do you have a line? 97 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: Nud It is a good one. I think it is 98 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: a pretty good flag. I think even like, yeah, I 99 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 2: don't know. I think it'd be pretty hard to hear 100 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: that Sem was like, even if she wasn't nude, staying 101 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: in someone's bed, like sleeping in the same bed pretty 102 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 2: consistently one night, if it was like a one night 103 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 2: and I crashed in the same. 104 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: Room, who cares circumstances? 105 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but if she was like, oh, you know, I 106 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: was around Adam's house again and lo and behold we 107 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: played it has been the bottle, got the oil out 108 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 2: and passed out neod next to each other, and I'm like, oh, no, 109 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 2: where I was, dear peppermint tee this afternoon? 110 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: Is it? 111 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 7: No? 112 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 2: I think there'd be an is shiit? Thirteen one oh 113 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 2: six five? You're in a relationship hypothetical for some people, 114 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: But you're in a relationship. Can you have friends outside 115 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: that relationship of the sex which you're attracted to? Right, 116 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 2: and more importantly, this is a question. I'm really interested 117 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: in where's the line in terms of how friendly that 118 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: friendship can be. 119 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 4: Or what you can what you can do, or what's what? Yeah, 120 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 4: what you're okay with your partner and that friend doing. 121 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 4: We discussed at length before the song there on any 122 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 4: activity that involves you being naked with them. 123 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 2: Well, that was your nerd line, and I reckon that. 124 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 2: I would say that I would be okay with a 125 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 2: skinny dip. Yes, and I skinny often like a drunk 126 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 2: well or not drun excuse me, No, you definitely shuldn't 127 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: swim when you drunk. Absolutely, It's often a wild thing. 128 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 2: That was a little joke. It's often a wild thing 129 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: that you do with a group with a group of people. 130 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 2: Haven't been a part of a late night skinny dip 131 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: with a group of people. I missed out. You missed 132 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 2: out in those times teenage years. 133 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 3: But a skinny dip still happening. 134 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: It's a thing, mate, And don't tell's you're missing out 135 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 2: on the dips. 136 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 4: Well, maybe I'm a little bit no, But if my 137 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 4: partner went to a party with a male friend and 138 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 4: then came home, was like, oh great party, big old 139 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 4: skinny dip together I'd be like, hanging a second. 140 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: Well, what's a big old skinny dip though? 141 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 3: The whole party? 142 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the whole party. 143 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 4: She was like, don't worry, Kevin was there to hold 144 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 4: my hand. I'd be like, threw this is Kevin, but 145 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 4: the whole party is now. I think he's. 146 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 3: Coached you to a skinny dipping party. He wanted to 147 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 3: see your nude. 148 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: The line, yeah, well yeah, I just think it's the 149 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: line all right, okay, Maggie, what do you reckon? You got? Well, Maggie, 150 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: you go on holidays with your best guy friend. 151 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 8: Yes, I do. 152 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: You're and you're in a relationship. You're in a relationship, 153 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: I reckon. 154 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 3: That's okay. Does your partner know this? This friend of. 155 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 8: Yours can trust him one to the point where whenever 156 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 8: we go on holidays he actually messages him and goes, bro, 157 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 8: I trust you, like, look after her. Then I'm not there. 158 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: Thanks for looking after her. I mean that that's what 159 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: it's going to be. 160 00:06:58,320 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going to be. 161 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great, great indication of trust making. 162 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 4: Can I ask you, though, Maggie, why go on the 163 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 4: holiday with the best friend over your partner? That'd be 164 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 4: the only thing that I would get weird about be like, oh, 165 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 4: I thought you wanted to go to Egypt with me. 166 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 8: Well, a lot of our trips have just been birthday 167 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 8: trips and it's a tradition that we started from years 168 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 8: ago that we became be friends. And it's a yearly 169 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 8: birthday tradition. So one year we go and go away 170 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 8: for his birthday, the next year we go away for 171 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 8: my birthday. And yeah, it's what everything. 172 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 4: You can your partner get involved, Like if he was 173 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 4: like get me in. 174 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 2: There to go on the skinny dipping birthday trip, absolutely not. 175 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: I yeah, there you go. 176 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 8: My best friend and I were like siblings. Yeah, you 177 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 8: might like siblings as well. Anytime. 178 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: It's a lovely insight. Lovely insight Tony on thirty one, 179 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: six twenty, what's your situation? 180 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 9: Hey guys. Yeah, my situation is like my partner's friend 181 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 9: came out to her and told her that he liked her. 182 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 9: He wasn't aware that she was in a relationship. 183 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 2: Whiz Okay. 184 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 9: The thing is she came back to me, she told 185 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 9: me like, do you think she is right? Should I 186 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 9: still stay friends with him? And I was like, mostly, 187 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 9: what do you think about this situation? Because she hasn't 188 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 9: been in like the relationship before, so she's not aware 189 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 9: of had approach the subjects. 190 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 2: Wow, how long have you been together? For a time? 191 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 9: Probably around six months or so. 192 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 2: Oh wow, so it's fresh, still fresh? Yeah, exactly, And 193 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 2: so she's not into this dude, is she? 194 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 9: That's That's what I'm not too sure about, just like 195 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 9: because it's the thing is that they barely knew each other, 196 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 9: either because she thought like she was still singing or 197 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 9: so far. After was like, do you think it's right, 198 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 9: like it's to stay friends with. 199 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 4: I think yes, Tony, But I think as a little 200 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 4: litmus test, I reckon Tony say yeah, that's my secondary test. 201 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 4: I think it's you go like, okay, say to him 202 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 4: you want to catch up, but just say Tony is coming, 203 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 4: and then see if he's still keeping the catch with both. 204 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 9: Actually, there's actually more to the story because later on 205 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 9: what happened was she she didn't mention the team. She 206 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 9: said I'm seeing someone, But then later on she invited 207 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 9: her to like an outing alone with him, and then 208 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,599 Speaker 9: she even asked me at that point it's like, do 209 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 9: you think I should go? It was like I thought, 210 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 9: I don't feel comfortable with it, but what do you 211 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 9: think do you think it's it's okay to go with 212 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 9: someone alone. Then later when she mentioned him like I'm 213 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 9: going to bring someone like you just changed the whole scenario. 214 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 9: He's like, Okay, I'm busy now and so forth. 215 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 4: So that's that's that's red flags. He's going to one 216 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 4: of those. 217 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: Out there. 218 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 9: Podcast. 219 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 4: This story is truly terrifying, I'd say especially for parents, 220 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 4: but I mean just for humans in general. 221 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 3: This is this is really scary stuff. 222 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 4: So Megan markle Is revealed that when when she was 223 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 4: in South Africa, she was on the Sussex's Tour of 224 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: South Africa. 225 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 3: What a wild tour that one was. 226 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 10: And and she said that she left the Duchess of 227 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,599 Speaker 10: Sussex Tour of South Africa and she did she go no, 228 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 10: Harry was there has dogs there did everywhere. 229 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: The shows were great. The shows. I'm sure they're doing shows, 230 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: an't they? What is what are the tour involved? 231 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: The shows? 232 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it's a show they're not doing. 233 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: They're not touring like a band. 234 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 3: Yeah they do. 235 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: No, they don't. 236 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 3: They don't sing and dance, but they'll rock up to 237 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: her town and you know. 238 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: No, no, we got no stage. They just they go 239 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 2: they go to places and they're like, would you like 240 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: to give these guys ten million dollars or you know, 241 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 2: come and shake the hands of these kids. 242 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 3: Show there's no act, a little bit of a show. 243 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 2: No, no, it's not. We're just getting No. No, it's 244 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 2: important to me. Whenever the queen, there's like, you know, 245 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 2: stories of the Queen coming to Australia and stuff in 246 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 2: the past on tour, and you show what does she do? 247 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 3: We can can No, she gets she. 248 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: Meets people, she doesn't do a show. 249 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 4: That's the show, it's about to start, and then the 250 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 4: cameras just go to her. 251 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 2: Go to meet. 252 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 4: No, no, that's not what happens anyway, whether they're doing 253 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 4: shows or not. They're on a tour of South Africa 254 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 4: and during one of their shows, they leave the baby 255 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 4: with a babysitter who's in one of these houses in 256 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 4: South Africa anyway, So the babysitters up there in the 257 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 4: nursery with the baby, and then and then the nanny 258 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 4: just goes you know what, got a real hankering for 259 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 4: a snack, a bit snacky. 260 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 3: So because of this. 261 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: Shows at least an hour. 262 00:11:55,640 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 4: And absolutely the nanny grabs, aren't she out of the nursery. 263 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 4: It goes downstairs to go and you know service, the 264 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 4: need for a. 265 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 3: Snacks in that place will bloody hell. 266 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 2: It'd be like that fridge on the OC we talk. 267 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 4: About if Harry and Meghan said, help yourself to snacks 268 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 4: while we're gone, don't pain me. 269 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 11: Do you? 270 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 2: Reckon would be down there any cold cuts, every cold cuts. 271 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 3: I reckon salmon for full salmon's. 272 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 2: Just whole fish, whole smoked fish. 273 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 4: Duck hanging from the windows like the butchers. It would 274 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 4: just be unbelievable. 275 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 2: Cheesus for Jesus. The fruits, fruits at the end, and 276 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 2: like it'd be like a restaurant, but like a fancy 277 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 2: hotel buffet with the juices. You know, they'd be like 278 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: four juices and then have like a guava juice or something. 279 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: They have those little glasses and you have like ten. 280 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 4: Of them crackers with little raisins in it. You know 281 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: they're not skimping on the crackers. 282 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 2: Some weird ones. Can you've gone with whole fish duck 283 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: hanging from the ceiling and crackers with raisins. 284 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 4: They'd be there well anyway, So she goes downstairs, and 285 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 4: then while she's snacking on ducking window, et cetera, the nursery, 286 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 4: the nursery. 287 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: Lights on fire. 288 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 2: Wow. 289 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 4: So if if she wasn't snacky and didn't go down 290 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 4: for snacks, Archie could have died. 291 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: Hence, oh wow, so she got him out of there 292 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: the room. The snack saved his life. 293 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 12: Hence, oh no, Archies life has been saved buying a snack. 294 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: A snack save my life? 295 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 3: Thirteen one O six five is our number? Come on, Australia. 296 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 12: Has a snack saved your life? 297 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: Well, you're here, crickets up next, thirty. 298 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 3: Very potentially number, Like, yeah, how did the snack? 299 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 13: We know? 300 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: You know what sort of story after? 301 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: I mean, didn't ask that. 302 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 4: No, you've got that look on your face. You're going, 303 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 4: how could anyone possibly relate to this? I'm thinking, you know, 304 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 4: trucky bars in your pocket, someone throws a knife at you. 305 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 3: Okay, wedges in the chocolate bar. Your life was saved 306 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 3: by a snack. 307 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 2: Right right now? Thirty one six five? Has a snack 308 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 2: saved your life? A snack save my life? 309 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: Talking about it? 310 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 4: Because that is exactly what happened to Megan Markle's son 311 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 4: have listened to this. 312 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: This is her talking to Serena Williams. 313 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 14: We get back our amazing nanny, Lauren floods of tears. 314 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 14: She was supposed to put Archie down for his nap. 315 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 14: Let me just go get a snack downstairs, and her 316 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 14: instinct was just like, let me just bring him with 317 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 14: me before I put him down. In that amount of 318 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 14: time that she went downstairs, the heater caught on fire. 319 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 14: He was supposed to be sleeping in there. 320 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 4: Michelle, A snack saved someone else's life. 321 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: Yes, I was over an island and I lived in 322 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: an apartment block, got up, went to make myself a snack, 323 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: walking back to the couch with my lovely sandwich, and 324 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: I looked out the window and I could see an 325 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: apartment building apartment. 326 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 2: On fire, that's true. 327 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: And the only thing I thought of was to run out. 328 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: So I just ran out of my apartment's building. I 329 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: didn't even paint my keys. I went round to that house, 330 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: knots on the door, and a five year old opened 331 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: the door and he was home alone with black or 332 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: a safe. 333 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 11: Oh my god. 334 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: Wow, So if you hadn't got that snack him, If 335 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 2: you haven't got the snack, though, Michelle. He would have 336 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: he would have died. Is that what he's saying? 337 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, pretty much. 338 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: Right, Sorry, Michelle, Michelle, I hate to wrap up that 339 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 2: last little bit. But and then we got there. 340 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 4: Yep, well let's got to Luky here. Luki, how did 341 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 4: a snack save your life? 342 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 2: Mate? 343 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 15: Hey, boys and poopants? How are you? 344 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 3: I love it? 345 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 9: Hell? 346 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 3: Wow, that is good stuff. 347 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 15: Yeah, so we were we went on a overseas street. 348 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 15: We went up, went over to Florence in Italy. 349 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 2: Florence a couple of times. Look, so carry on, beautiful 350 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: any landmarks, I'll know what you're talking about. 351 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 15: How good such a romantic place with all the old 352 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 15: buildings and that. 353 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 12: Yeah, so that was good. 354 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 15: That was a good holiday. And we ended we ended up. Yeah, 355 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 15: we're walking through one of those towns and ridge town, 356 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 15: regional ones, REGIONALI. 357 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 2: Beautiful Tuscany is what they call regional fliens. Look but 358 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 2: carry on. 359 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, so it was really nice. And anyway, so 360 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 15: I was going to say, we were, we came across 361 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 15: you know those buskers that you see like in Australia, 362 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 15: Well they have them in Florence as well, believe it 363 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 15: or not. And so we've all we're all gathered around 364 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 15: and it's such a nice afternoon. And then you wouldn't 365 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 15: believe it. So it's a nice thrower and he's he's 366 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 15: doing a fair few dangerous treats and all of a 367 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 15: sudden he's picked me to throw throw a knife. 368 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: Oh I know exactly what's going on. 369 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 15: Yeah, And I'm like, now, we don't do this in Australia. 370 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 15: Why would you throw a knife at me? 371 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 2: I know, I know who Luke is. And this this 372 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 2: smell thismells like a rat. I'm smelling a right here, 373 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: Luke you are You're full of it. Luke. You've caught 374 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 2: up before, haven't you? 375 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 3: I think so. 376 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 9: I have called up before. 377 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 15: But I'm called up. But let me finish the story 378 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 15: because actually really. 379 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 3: Sorry, and we'll come on mate. 380 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 15: Throwing the knife at me right, and then I've actually 381 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 15: missed it. Would you believe it? I've missed it. 382 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 9: It's gone straight. 383 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 15: Into my chest. 384 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 3: Oh god, you're full of ship. 385 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 15: And obviously my wife's screaming. 386 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 3: Yeah a knife down, yeah, yeah, yeah, overwork. 387 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 15: Knife Well actually top pocket. 388 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 3: Picnic, but the. 389 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 15: Get out that saved my life. 390 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: You got banned from the show last time, so crap 391 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 2: around the sword fish, and you did. You don't piss off. 392 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: That is ext You can't just get him to call 393 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 2: every time you've got a rank phone topic and no 394 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 2: one calls. 395 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 3: This is a total coincidence that I brought up that exactly. 396 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: And you me in with Florence as well. You gotta 397 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: interested in aut very simple question right now, thirteen one 398 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 2: oh six five? Is weeing in the shower normal? I 399 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: think it's normal. I think it's one hundred percent normal. 400 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: It's a routine for me. It's one of the first 401 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 2: things I do when I get in the shower. Yeah right, 402 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 2: I'm also saving water. 403 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 4: Well, i'd like to point out, well done for you 404 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 4: in the environment, no doubt, thank you. So my my 405 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 4: issue in my household is that, look, I'm not going 406 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 4: to name names, but the other person I live with 407 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 4: is a prominent shower wear and she's also a fan 408 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 4: of asparagus, and it's. 409 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 2: A fan. How often you share in asparagus? 410 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 3: She like every day. She loves pickled onions and asparagus. 411 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 3: And anyone know, it's a pong and there's a pong there. 412 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 3: And we've got our drain's not good. 413 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 4: Our draininge isn't good, and I'm proving a point and 414 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 4: I'm going like, I don't do it, so you know. 415 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 3: We both need to stop. So I'm I'm antie. 416 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 2: It's a perfect storm for you. I think you're I 417 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: think we need to put your circumstances to one side. 418 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 2: You've got a partner with very stinky piss. Well, you 419 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: don't have a drainage system. Where do you live, who 420 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 2: do you live with? Yeah? The is right off sound shocking. 421 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: Here we go, Amanda, what are your thoughts? 422 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 7: It's very normal? 423 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 3: How often do you do it? 424 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: Amanda? 425 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 3: Is a daily thing for you? 426 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:32,959 Speaker 7: It's definitely a daily thing. 427 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 13: I cannot get in the shower without same. 428 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 2: It's a routine, literally, a routine. You get in there, 429 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: you don't even think about. It's brushing your teeth. 430 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 3: So it's like Pavlov's dog. As soon as you hear 431 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 3: the water, urine starts coming out. 432 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: That's It's not like Pavlov's dog. No I can I'm 433 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 2: not incontinent. No, there's Amanda, don't don't turn. There's taps 434 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 2: on around me. Guys, Caitlin six five is wing in 435 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 2: the shower normal? 436 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 13: Of course it is. 437 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 8: There's so many reasons you save water, you save toilet paper, 438 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 8: you save time, and you can clean yourself. 439 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 2: Thank you can bang. Oh to hear apart from if 440 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 2: you live with a partner who's got stinky pears. 441 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 3: Or if you have poor drainage, I don't get. 442 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 2: To hear a reason why you why you wouldn't we 443 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: in the. 444 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 4: Show it's browner? Are you another fan of weening the 445 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 4: shower browner? 446 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 447 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 7: I we in the shower all the time. 448 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 13: My boyfriend and I shower daily of an evening together, 449 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 13: and we always lee together in the shower. 450 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 3: As then you go three two one, let's do it together? 451 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 13: Yeah, pretty much. 452 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 8: We try and like link it up. 453 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 3: So you do a sword fight, you do a sword 454 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 3: fight with your partner a woman. 455 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, pretty much. 456 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 3: No, it doesn't. 457 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 9: It's not about who can. 458 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 7: Aim it down the hole better. 459 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 4: Oh wow, And generally speaking, that's wi they have sword 460 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:49,479 Speaker 4: fights every night. 461 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 2: That's with the woman. 462 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 3: It's the stream. The sword is the stream, not the doodle. 463 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but how how are you like her streams going 464 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 2: down that leg? 465 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 3: No, you can angle it. 466 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 6: We you and I don't need to discuss this, Okay, 467 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 6: you can anyway, I've seen it. 468 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 4: Let's go to Chloe I'm sure a woman, thank you. 469 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 3: I haven't fit forth with them. 470 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 2: But I defend yourself sword for journalist. That's Chloe. Chloe. 471 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 2: Do you think it's normal to away in the shower? 472 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 13: Absolutely, there's nothing like after a long hard day at work, 473 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 13: washing your hair, having a show, but you have to 474 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 13: fully submerge in boiling hot water. And I'm telling you, Wow, 475 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 13: that's a different topic. 476 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 2: That's very different Chloe. Final question, have you ever had 477 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 2: a sword fight with a man? 478 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 11: Oh? 479 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 13: Look, no, no I haven't. 480 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 2: Actually, but you could? 481 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 13: I mean sure, I mean like the last call, or 482 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 13: say I don't think it's a bad idea in the 483 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 13: shower with your partner. 484 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll give it a go, give it a whirl. 485 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: Where we ended up where we ended up normal relatable questions. 486 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 3: You would not ask it a normal do your. 487 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 2: Way in the shower normal question? 488 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 3: Natural jump is to get to do you have a 489 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 3: sword fight with your partner? When you do it? Natural jump? 490 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: Will and Woody, that's the more in just a bit 491 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: the Will and Woody Podcast six five. 492 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 2: Love to hear from Me on Will and Woody. Right now, 493 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 2: the date was going so well until what happened. Lovely 494 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: hearing you I was talking to my sister. She just 495 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 2: got back from London and she'd been on a few 496 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 2: dates over there, and I was just sort of getting 497 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 2: the best and the worst of them, and she said 498 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,679 Speaker 2: it was there was one date that she went on 499 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 2: and she's in the middle of a tiny little pub 500 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 2: in London and this guy walked in and it was 501 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 2: seemed like a really lovely guy and they were having 502 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 2: a really nice time until this song came on. 503 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, and he sat there and he flipped his 504 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 5: hat could and then said, sorry, I've got a groove 505 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 5: dis my jam no no. 506 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 3: And he got up and jammed. He went to the 507 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 3: dance floor. 508 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 2: I just got up and did like, I'm a bit 509 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 2: of a boogie on the spot. Yeah, totally what turn 510 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 2: his cat back? Yeah, crazy, outrageous. And she was like, okay, 511 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 2: waiter Jack. So I'd love to see if anyone can 512 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: beat that. On Furday and mon six five right now, 513 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 2: give us a call. The date was going so well until. 514 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 4: Would you say you would put a certain date that 515 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 4: you had in this category. You were actually I think 516 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 4: you were going out with this girl at the time, 517 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 4: and you were at dinner and. 518 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 2: Then Ax walked in. 519 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 4: No, that was also a bad one, but i's going 520 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 4: My personal favorite is that a current AFL footballer walked 521 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 4: in the restaurant, saw you do having dinner, obviously saw 522 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 4: so little in new It was just like, I am 523 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 4: so so much better and more attractive than you that 524 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 4: I'm just to start flirting with your partner and then 525 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,360 Speaker 4: in front of me, And then your partner was really 526 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 4: good about it. 527 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 2: She was likely it was really he was just like 528 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 2: this guy, there's no way he's going out with her. 529 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 2: Wild is no way. 530 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 3: And so then hit on her in front of me, 531 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 3: and then your partner was quite good about it. You 532 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 3: were like, oh, sorry, before you go. 533 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 4: On with this outrageous with my partner. This balding man 534 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 4: in front of me is my partner. I've actually seeing 535 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,120 Speaker 4: him and he sort of laughs and they I think 536 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 4: they exchanged numbers and then didn't he didn't he continue 537 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 4: to message her during the dinner. 538 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, but you were at the ch he couldn't 539 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 2: believe it. Anyway, Kathy. The date was going so well 540 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 2: until he pushed. 541 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 8: His false teeth out to clean some food out of fid. 542 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, five. The date was going so well until 543 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 2: please filling that gap for me woulds. I just started 544 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 2: thinking about some of yours and they've just they've flooded in. 545 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 2: There's always when you come for me with the knives. 546 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 2: Remember when you took every girl out to the same 547 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: restaurant in Perth that we when we used to live 548 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 2: in Perth. 549 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 3: It was around the corner from where I lived. 550 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, on Rockaby Road. Great spot us they can water 551 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 2: we nias. Yeah, and then and then, But what started 552 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 2: happening is it was obviously such a lovely place that 553 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: the girls would go on a date with you and 554 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 2: they'd be like, oh great, this is a great place 555 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 2: to go. This is a great place to go out. 556 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 2: And then two or three fridays in a row you 557 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 2: were on another date with another girl in the same place. 558 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 3: It was a bad time. Yeah, and that's more too. 559 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 4: I think that the popularity of the place, rather than 560 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 4: you know, how many dates I was having. 561 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 2: You were there, you were there every Friday. Well, yeah, 562 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 2: the guy didn't the way to say something to you 563 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 2: about that. 564 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 4: He did, he commented on it and it was like, mate, 565 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 4: there are other bars or something like that, And then 566 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 4: I knew that was enough. Okay, let's go to bianche 567 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 4: here on thirty one and six five Bianca. The date 568 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,200 Speaker 4: was going so well. 569 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 3: Until what. 570 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 7: Lacose intolerant had dairy in the morning, went on the 571 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 7: canoe and I really had to go to nowhere to go, 572 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 7: So I told him I was going to jump out 573 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,719 Speaker 7: and asked him to take a photo of me, and 574 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 7: then I just did a two in the ocean. 575 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 4: Hang on, Sorry, why I mentioned to take the photo? 576 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 2: What what? 577 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 3: Why would I why wasn't in the photo element there? 578 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 7: Just to make it out like I was jumping on 579 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 7: the canoe to take a photo. But I ended up 580 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 7: marrying him. 581 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 2: So he does know now that so you jumped out 582 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 2: of the carry and he had no idea. You're just 583 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 2: talking to him and just getting the job done while 584 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 2: the canoe is next to you. 585 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, But then like we sort of went snorkeling after, 586 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 7: so I was we found a. 587 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 3: Few c cucumbers. 588 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 2: Brandon. Date was going so well until what Yeah, So it. 589 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 15: Took me a couple of months to work up the 590 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 15: courage to ask at this girl. And we go on 591 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 15: this date. We're having a good time and she decides 592 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 15: like she'll stay the night and in the morning like 593 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 15: actually leave and she goes to my fridge and grabbed 594 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 15: all the leftovers. 595 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 9: And I thought it was a bit of a nick. 596 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, she flees, she flees your feet. What did she take? 597 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 2: What was in there? 598 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 15: She took the first, She took the left like a. 599 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 2: Tim tam or like like what's what's she took a 600 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 2: nice carbonarron. 601 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 9: And from the restaurant forward to that. 602 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 4: Bloody I don't do her all looking forward to that's extraordinary, 603 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 4: totally wild to take because they take a bite. 604 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 3: I'd be okay with you have. 605 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 2: A nibble on the way out, because I want to 606 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: get down to your story. 607 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 4: Okay, no names obviously, but I I think it was 608 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 4: a second date with this girl. And we ended up 609 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 4: going back to her house and we were just we 610 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 4: were in We're in the living room, I think, and 611 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 4: a little bit of kissy whissy whatever going on, and 612 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 4: you know, a little bit of noise was being made, 613 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 4: and she said, oh, can you just keep it down 614 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 4: a little bit. 615 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 2: Because quite a bit of noise is being made. 616 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 4: Well, noise noise has been made and she and I said, oh, 617 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 4: why is that? And she goes, oh, well, my dad's here. 618 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 4: At this point, I had no idea that her dad 619 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 4: was in the house. It was an apartment by the way, 620 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 4: so her small space. And then I was like, oh, gee, 621 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,959 Speaker 4: your dad's it's true so much. She goes, oh no, no, no, no, 622 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 4: don't worry about it. He's a bit ill at the 623 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 4: moment and he can't get out of bed. 624 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 3: And she thought that was a reason that would make 625 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,680 Speaker 3: me feel more comfortable. 626 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 2: Totally wild. 627 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: Thank you for making me bring up that story. 628 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 2: Can you leave? 629 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 11: Yeah? 630 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, And she was like, no, carry on, she said, 631 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 2: don't worry about it. Dontorry bout it's so sick you 632 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 2: can't get out of better than. 633 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 3: This is the. 634 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: Will and Woody podcast. 635 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,959 Speaker 4: So I had this encounter with a big Australian celebrity 636 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 4: on a plane recently. Based on the details of this 637 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 4: inter action, you think I absolutely cooked it. 638 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 3: I disagree with you. 639 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 4: So I'm going to give the audience an opportunity right 640 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 4: now just to hear the specs and hear the perspective 641 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 4: of the story from my angle. 642 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 2: I don't have an angle. 643 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 3: You don't have an angle your story. Now, Your angle 644 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 3: is that I cooked it. You think it was a shocking. 645 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 2: An angle that's just that's that's that's evident. 646 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 4: No, no, it's not and you'll hear in a second astrolomer. 647 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 2: If I feel like you're skirting on any detail, not 648 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: a problem. 649 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 4: Now I get onto a plane, I sit down. 650 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 3: Normally, I don't recognize anyone. I just sit down. I 651 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 3: think I'm sitting next to two strangers. 652 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 4: I just start listening to music, whatever, reading the book, 653 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 4: classic classic woody stuff. 654 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 2: All right, bit much detail at this stage. 655 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 3: At one stage of the flight, I walk on a plane. Okay, 656 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 3: I'll speed it up. 657 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 2: I get myself and treat myselves into doesn't be nuts. 658 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 4: So I I at one moment, the stewardess has asked 659 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 4: if I wanted a water, and I was like, yeah, 660 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 4: oh on a water. And then he indicates to the 661 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 4: person next to me, and I was like, oh, there, 662 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 4: that must be asleep. 663 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: I look over at the person. 664 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 2: If you haven't seen the person next to you at 665 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 2: this stage, I haven't recognized You haven't looked at them. 666 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 3: I haven't looked at them. 667 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 2: You've looked at them, but you haven't recognized them. 668 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 3: I haven't recognized Okay, so you have. 669 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 2: Seen them, though, yes, have they seen you? 670 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: Well? 671 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 3: I'm not sure, Okay, I can't know. 672 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 4: I then look to my right and the person isn't asleep, 673 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 4: but they're in this like zombie like state, like their 674 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 4: eyes are open but they're just staring forward at a chair. 675 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: Effectively on the way back from the logis isn't it? 676 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 3: Sort of? 677 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 9: No, it was. 678 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 4: There was a Sydney trip. It was like a Sydney 679 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 4: into Melbourne flight. He sort of looked like I've seen 680 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 4: ho Chi mint before, he's embalmed. He just looked like 681 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 4: an embalmed man, like he wasn't moving and not really 682 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 4: responding to any sort of stimulus. And then I sort 683 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 4: of I touch him or like sort of shake him 684 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 4: a bit to let him know, like you know, some 685 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 4: water mate, like I think you might have died. And 686 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 4: then at that point he turns and then I recognize him. 687 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 4: Now should I reveal who the person is now at 688 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 4: this point of the story. 689 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,479 Speaker 2: Hey, I'm just going to ask as a couple more 690 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 2: questions here. 691 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 3: Okay, I'll keep going there. 692 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 4: Okay, So I recognize him as this Australian celebrity and 693 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 4: I've actually I've met him a few times before. And 694 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 4: then I Chewy's ear off for the remainder of the. 695 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 2: Fly, right, So yeah, this is for me where it 696 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 2: gets interesting. So it's an hour and a half. 697 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 4: Yeah and a half, Yeah, yeah, left and for the 698 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 4: rest of the fly, Chewy's ear off, I really go 699 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 4: to town. 700 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 3: But he seemed to be. 701 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 2: Like quite receptive. Yeah, he was to the ear chewing. 702 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 4: He was adding to the conversation. We were conversing. I 703 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 4: thought it was really nice. We've both got babies coming up. 704 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 4: We spoke a lot about that. So at the end 705 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 4: of it, I was like, I think he loved that 706 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 4: I noticed him and shook him out of his zombie 707 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 4: lu state. 708 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 3: And spoke to him. 709 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 2: So where's your concern. 710 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 4: My concern is that did he hate that? Did My 711 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 4: concern is was he not wanting to chat because he's 712 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 4: on a plane, he was tired or whatever, And I've 713 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 4: ruined his flight by firstly prodi him and then secondly 714 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 4: talking at him for an hour. That's my You know, 715 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 4: I'm a socially anxious guy. I now have this feeling 716 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 4: like I've just annoyed him for an hour. 717 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 2: Yes, So your fear is that he recognized you saw 718 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 2: you quite deliberately looking out the window. 719 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, like blanked me. 720 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 2: And when you tapped him, what you thought was sleepiness 721 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 2: was actually just sheer horror as he was like, damn it, 722 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 2: now I've got an hour. Okay, that person joins us 723 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 2: up next? 724 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 3: Bloody are we saying who he is? 725 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 2: Didn't tell? Are you just joining us? I think you 726 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 2: butchered it with an Australian celebrity on a flight real quick. 727 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 3: I came. I went on to a plane. 728 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 4: The Australian celebrity clearly blanked me, or I think may 729 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 4: have been ignoring me. We're not one hundred percent sure though. 730 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 4: Halfway through the flight I had to poke him to 731 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 4: see if he wanted a water. He was in a 732 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 4: zombie like state. I nudged him, recognized who he was, 733 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 4: and then I proceeded to chew his ear off for 734 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 4: the remainder of the flight. 735 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 2: And the concern here. And I think most savvy people 736 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 2: would wonder that they deliberately ignored you, hence why you 737 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 2: didn't recognize them, because they had their back turned to you. 738 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 2: That he saw you coming down the plane and they're like, 739 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 2: oh my god, didn't please don't please don't be forty three, 740 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 2: b please don't forty three. 741 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 3: It was just a translation. 742 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, it was just pure fear. As he 743 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 2: was like he looked at his watch and realize I 744 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 2: had Now I left with you, and that person joins 745 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 2: us on the phone right now, the one and only 746 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:30,840 Speaker 2: Sam Mac. 747 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 11: Hello, guys. I mean, first of all, thank you for 748 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 11: my personalized theme song. 749 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 15: Much appreciate it. 750 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 11: That was a long setup. I was having flashbacks for 751 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 11: the flight took. That took a long time to get there, 752 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 11: and PSD is kicking in. I'm not gonna lie. 753 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can talk. I can talk now, Mac. 754 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 2: Let's get down to business. 755 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 3: He made. 756 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 2: What he's actually relatively like withdrawn person in everyday life, 757 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 2: and there's a lot of people around him. But if 758 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 2: he gets you one on one in the shark cage. Okay, 759 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:12,280 Speaker 2: a flight, you know, every flight that Woody and I take, Sam, 760 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,280 Speaker 2: like we always I always check in well before he does, 761 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 2: and then sometimes if he gets the email, he goes mate, 762 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 2: We're sitting next to each other, and I'm like, shit, 763 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: I always get there as quickly can and make sure 764 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 2: I so far away from him. 765 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 11: Well that's wise, that's very wise. I mean, you've learned 766 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 11: that three years of experience. See, I was blindsighted, and 767 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 11: I think a crucial, a crucial part of this story 768 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 11: to really give everyone, to bring everyone in. I was 769 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 11: window seat, he was middle seat. So essentially there was 770 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 11: a locking situation like it was, it was a hostage situation. 771 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,839 Speaker 11: There was nothing unless I was willing to climb over him, 772 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 11: and I'm pretty sure he would have grabbed me and 773 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 11: put me back because he had more to say. I mean, 774 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 11: I'm trying to I'm trying to describe what it was like, 775 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 11: you know, when you know, it's hard to describe the 776 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 11: trauma of that day. It's springing it all back. Now. 777 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 11: I haven't had any counseling for it, I promise it, 778 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 11: But it was like it was like I was front 779 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 11: row at a TED talk that I hadn't bought tickets for. 780 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 4: How about the moment when I found common ground with 781 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,320 Speaker 4: you and me both expecting babies. 782 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 11: Go that was nice? And we're not exaggerating here, Like 783 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 11: I feel like I know you so well? Now would 784 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 11: he like? I mean, it wasn't my choice, but I 785 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 11: feel like I know. I mean, let me, I'm not 786 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 11: making this up. I can tell you three things that 787 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 11: have stuck in my brain since that flight that I 788 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,720 Speaker 11: didn't ask to learn any of this, but I learned 789 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 11: that he has an indoor household plant called Dorian. 790 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 9: The detail we went to. 791 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 11: This this has imagine me sitting there just hearing all 792 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 11: of this, that he's self conscious about the size of 793 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 11: his legs. Apparently he's had some gains and some improvements 794 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 11: in that era. 795 00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 4: I learned that, Yeah, I was talking about that my 796 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 4: new routine, and I learned that. 797 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 11: I mean, look, we talked about min obviously, actually that 798 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 11: was probably a highlight because it wasn't about him. But 799 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 11: I learned that to do this is how detailed the 800 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 11: chat was. Guy picture me on a fly, and I 801 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 11: was a bit knowned out. I've got to admit. So 802 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,440 Speaker 11: what I like to do on flights, I just I 803 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 11: do stare at the chair in front of me, and 804 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 11: I just think about weather patterns without cloud formations southwesterly. 805 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,320 Speaker 11: But this is a detail we went to. I learned 806 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 11: that to improve her bowel movements. She shouts out, Yaba dabad. 807 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 2: Whoa, Well, are you really really so sad? So sad? 808 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 2: Just to wrap this up, because I mean, I'm glad 809 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: that you're able to talk about it. I mean, that's 810 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 2: that's that's your first step in all of this. I mean, 811 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 2: I'm sure if i'd have asked you a couple of 812 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 2: weeks ago, you you still would have been a bit 813 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 2: of a closed book. 814 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,439 Speaker 11: I wasn't ready. I wasn't ready. 815 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 3: A lot of people are stuck in denial. 816 00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 2: A lot of people is there is there, but we 817 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 2: need to get down to really the bit that I 818 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 2: think is most important here. Did you see him coming 819 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 2: down down the aisle? 820 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 3: And I tend to bound onto a plane. 821 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 2: As he's got a lot of energy, comes in very hot. 822 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how hung over he is. Did you 823 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 2: see him coming down? And did you turn and face 824 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 2: the window and hope and hope that he did not 825 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 2: recognize you? 826 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 11: What do they call it? Like fight or flight? 827 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 2: Yes? 828 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 11: No, I know I'm not evil like I genuinely didn't. 829 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 11: I did not see him coming, okay, And he. 830 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 2: Prayed on that. 831 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,840 Speaker 11: This might be an exaggeration, this might be an overreaction 832 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 11: from me. But I will just to be sure that 833 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 11: this doesn't happen again. I will never fly quonduus. I 834 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 11: might even fly jet stuff now. 835 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,359 Speaker 2: Sam your legend. Thanks so much for joining us. Mate. 836 00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,959 Speaker 2: You can always catch Sam on at sunrise anytime during 837 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 2: the week. Thanks so much for joining us, mate. You're 838 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:03,760 Speaker 2: a legend. Have a great weekend. 839 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 11: Really good to chat Will, so. 840 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 2: Will, And now I want to tell you the story 841 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,879 Speaker 2: because my girlfriend is just Sam has just started doing 842 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 2: mother's groups. Great, Yeah, which is a thing that it's 843 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 2: actually a pretty phenomenal initiative. Really. So when you have 844 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:25,319 Speaker 2: a baby, the government consigns you to a maternal child 845 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 2: health nurse, which is like their sheriff, like their nurse sheriff, 846 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 2: and it's run through your council and you go and 847 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 2: meet this person every like two or three weeks after 848 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 2: you have a baby, and they check on them and 849 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 2: they ask you questions and it's a reference point. And 850 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 2: then after I think it's like ten weeks or something, 851 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,800 Speaker 2: you have your first mother's group, so all all the 852 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 2: women sort of get to talk about what they've been 853 00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 2: going through and how tough it's and I think it's 854 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 2: a scary prospect. Well, certainly for Sem, my partner's crippling 855 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 2: social anxiety. It's just groups of people with her worst 856 00:38:58,880 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: nightmare in comparison. 857 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 5: Right. 858 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 4: I think the best way those groups can work is 859 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 4: if it's like, hey, this has gone badly for me, 860 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 4: I hope that normal life, Yes, And I. 861 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 2: Think that's the idea they all share and and the 862 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 2: maternal child healthness runs it and gets them to talk 863 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 2: at different times. Yeah, you introduce your BA, which is good. 864 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 2: Of course, you don't just throw them in a room 865 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 2: and lock the door. 866 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 3: That's what I thought. 867 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 2: I thought that as well, to be honest, the child 868 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,919 Speaker 2: health nurse sits there and she conducts the conversation. And yeah, 869 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 2: So SEM's terrified of group meetings, and she was particularly 870 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,759 Speaker 2: anxious about going to this thing, and you have to go. 871 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 2: I think you kind of do. Yeah, I don't know 872 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 2: if it's like, you know, they're not going to come 873 00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 2: and arrest you if you don't go, But I think 874 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 2: it's it's a good thing to do. Like Mele, who 875 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 2: produces the three pm pickup, was telling me that, you know, 876 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 2: she you can meet a lot of women she knows, 877 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,240 Speaker 2: meet best like friends for life, because you'll have babies 878 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 2: at the same time and you all live in the 879 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 2: same area. 880 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 7: Yeah. 881 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 2: Sure, it's like, right, why the body hell wouldn't we 882 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: hang out. I'm going to see a lot more of you. 883 00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 2: Of course, you know I said that to you. You 884 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 2: could meet you friends with these people. So she's absolutely 885 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:04,400 Speaker 2: freak them out. 886 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 3: For this thing. 887 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 2: Very socially anxious anyway, they came to sim and she 888 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 2: was like, keep in mind the duchess. She's Dutch, so 889 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 2: English is the second language, and she doesn't have a 890 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 2: lot of contrasts, like she doesn't hang out with a 891 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 2: lot of people outside of me and maybe two or 892 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 2: three other people, so she doesn't get a lot of 893 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,320 Speaker 2: She finds it hard to translate things sometimes, and often 894 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 2: that means that she will resort to expressions that I 895 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 2: will use and she doesn't know whether they're how appropriate 896 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,280 Speaker 2: they are in circumstances. 897 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 6: She always says like she's always like a bit of 898 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 6: chicken for the boys, like, yeah, because that's what excuse me, 899 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 6: the boys. And she's like, you know, a bit of 900 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 6: chicken for the boys, And I was like, I don't know. 901 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,280 Speaker 3: What you're talking about. 902 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 2: So she just because she absorbs all of my expressions. Yeah, 903 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 2: so occasionally she'll say things like that, yeah, bit asleep 904 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 2: for the boys. Yeah, yeah, it's hilarious. Yeah, it's very funny. 905 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 2: Exempt In this scenario, so she rocks up to mother's 906 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,839 Speaker 2: group group strangers sitting around her and they're asking how 907 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 2: Max was, and one of the other women said, our 908 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 2: babies had a lot of cramp recently, and Sam was like, 909 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 2: oh great, I can empathize with you. Max has been 910 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 2: cramping a lot recently. And the girl was like, oh, 911 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 2: oh really really and Sam and Sim said she's wearing 912 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 2: a mask. They'll have to wear masks. Sam goes, oh, no, 913 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 2: but I'll do it her voice because she talks, she 914 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,720 Speaker 2: talks funny. She goes, yes, but last week it cleared, 915 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,919 Speaker 2: it cleared, the cramp cleared, and they were like, oh, 916 00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 2: that's good. And then Sam said and now and now 917 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 2: she's just shooting the house down. And they didn't hear 918 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,279 Speaker 2: her because it's in her mask. They were like, oh, 919 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 2: she couldn't have said you know, your child's well. They 920 00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 2: just didn't. They didn't work sure they had the maternal 921 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 2: child Healthness was like, so what did you say? And 922 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,239 Speaker 2: Sam pulled her mask back and just goes, well, now 923 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 2: she's shipting that house. 924 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 925 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 2: Anyway, and apparently there was like a couple of polite laughs. 926 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 2: And then it was like she came home and was 927 00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 2: like is. 928 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:19,759 Speaker 3: This not a common expression? 929 00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 2: You know what else? 930 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:23,720 Speaker 3: I thought that was? 931 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 2: I don't think she's going to go next week, but yeah, 932 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 2: that's 933 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 3: The house