WEBVTT - What to do when life isn’t going your way 🦋 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:08.480 land which this episode is being recorded. We further acknowledge 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:12.920 country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. 0:00:13.320 --> 0:00:16.239 We pay our respect to their elders past and present 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:19.960 and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and terrest raid 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:32.880 Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to the Rise 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:36.680 and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary people 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:50.360 who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:54.000 to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host, Georgie Stephenson, 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:58.960 lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner, new mum all the things. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.840 We have a little hotline app for you. These are 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:05.679 our fun Friday epps where you send in your life 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:09.160 dilemmas or any questions you have really and we provide 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:13.319 you with our very unqualified two cents on the situation. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.440 But today's hotline is a little bit different. We're actually 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:22.360 doing something we have never done before. As you may know, 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:27.040 the RNC Project KRT is currently open. This is for 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:33.839 our live round six live round and we don't start 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:36.920 to feb but the cart is currently open and so 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:41.200 for today's hotline, I actually wanted to give you a 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:45.119 bit of an insight into the project, and so what 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:49.880 I've done is taken are some questions that I've answered 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.880 in the project because we do live Q and A 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:58.280 calls every couple of weeks and this is your hotline episode. 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:02.880 So in this episode, I answer so many questions about manifesting, 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:06.160 how to get out of a funk, and everything in between. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.240 It will kind of just give you a bit of 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:11.680 a taste of what the container is like and some 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:14.919 of the things we go through. And I just want 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:18.280 to say a massive thank you to everyone who bought 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:23.320 the journal. Thank you guys, the RNC team. We were 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:27.680 just so overwhelmed with the support. It's just incredible and 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.200 I just I can't wait for you guys to get 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.480 your hands on them and start manifesting your big life. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:36.520 It's such an incredible tool to do alongside the project 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.399 or if you're a manifestation galley. 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.160 I know, I just I love my journal so much. 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.320 It's it just makes it such like a beautiful experience. 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:50.080 Absolutely so we and we've already sold over half the stock. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:54.440 So guys, if you want a manifestation journal, make sure 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:58.560 you get in because once these are gone. They are limited, 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.440 and of course if you're wanting to join the project 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.959 and you have any questions, feel free to jump into 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:09.960 the rnc DMS or there's so much information on the website. 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:11.440 We don't start for a bit, so you've got a 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.320 bit of time. But I'm so excited for that one too. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.320 I will make sure I put all the details in 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:21.959 the show notes. A tear weekly recommendation. I've seen here 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:25.600 you've got a not movie or TV show, So I'm 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:26.600 very excited about this. 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:30.560 I've literally only watched two episodes of TV this week 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.400 and I was like, want to make it a recommend 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:36.440 I love that meed too. I'm actually recommending an article 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:42.400 from this month's Vogue Australia. It's by a model, her 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.080 name I think this is how you pronounce it, harn 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:50.560 And Ibrahim, and she has written about how she used 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.800 to wear his job and then she changed her mind 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.800 to actually start wearing it part time. And I obviously 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:58.680 loved reading that because it's something I relate to with 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.160 lots of people, like it's a common question when you 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.440 say you're Muslim, people are like, oh, like, why don't 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.240 you wear it? Why do some people wear it? And 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.280 I just think the way she wrote about it was 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.800 really beautiful. So I'd really recommend that for anyone to read. 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:14.160 That's so beautiful. Yeah, oh, I'm going to read that. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.799 Can you link in the show notes? I absolutely will 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:17.840 send me the link back. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:18.159 I will. 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:21.320 What is your recommendation? 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.520 So my recommendation is kind of random, and it's also 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:29.719 like I can't confirm. Yeah, but what I want to 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:33.440 recommend is I love that I keep bringing up my missus. 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.400 I actually love her so much. 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:40.000 She's just the best energy. But she was saying in 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:44.080 the last couple of massages that I was super dehydrated, 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:48.320 and I was like, I drink so much water, And 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.480 she's like, what sort of water are you drinking? And 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.520 I have never heard that this is even a thing 0:04:53.600 --> 0:04:55.920 that you have to be worried about, like the type 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:59.039 of water, Yeah, because I'm I'm all about just the 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:01.680 tap water, like I've just never well, yeah, I feel 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.200 like it's different two or three times a day refilling 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.440 your water bottle. Yeah, like I've just I know, I've 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.640 never thought about it. And then she's like the town 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:12.640 water is treated and has a lot of like chemicals 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:15.159 and just like shit in there that you don't want 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:19.560 and your body cannot be like getting like the hydration 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:24.240 it needs. And she recommended I get like local water 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:28.360 from like a natural spring or you know, something like that. 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:32.240 So I've actually ordered, like I found this company on 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:36.080 Instagram and I haven't tried them yet, so I cannot recommend. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:39.200 But I've just I've gotten ordered and bought myself high 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:43.120 vib water. Oh and it's supposed to be like alcohalizing, 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:47.200 and it all sounds very like it's water. 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:50.160 It all sounds very like stuck up. 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:53.839 Oh what's that. I'm like, Oh, I have high vibwater. 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.400 Like in grown ups when they ask for voss water. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.960 Yeah, Hi, any drink Voss water. I promise you it's 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:04.159 not that sort of vibe. It's like, I just I'd 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.600 never thought about it. And ye know, I'm so conscious 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:10.120 about the beauty products that I wear, not having chemicals 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.840 and obviously the supplements and all that sort of thing, 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:15.200 and I had never thought about the water I was drinking. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:18.720 So anyway, I'm gonna try that and we'll see, We'll 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:21.200 see how we go. Yeah, But so I don't know, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.640 maybe you know, have a little bit of a think 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:25.800 about what sort of water you drink even just like 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.200 getting one of the little filter taps that you pop up. 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:30.480 We have to filter at home. 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:31.839 Yeah, so that's great. 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.200 But at work, I've just smashed in the tap water 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.279 and I basically live here, so I thought it was 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.400 a great idea to fix that up. Yeah that is awesome. 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:40.960 So yeah, random recommendation. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:07:00.240 But let's get into the episode. 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:57.919 All right, guys. So first question, Hi Georgie. Firstly, just 0:06:57.960 --> 0:06:59.960 wanted to say a huge thank you for this course. 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:03.520 The content has been amazing, even just the time being 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:07.440 dedicated each day towards my desires has been a game changer. 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:11.480 Oh love that, bloody love that. Okay, So her question. 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.000 Since starting the course, I am strongly being called to 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:19.240 share my knowledge and experience with my property investment and 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:23.880 development journey. This absolutely terrifies me, and I've always worn 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:26.760 I wouldn't go down this pass as I struggle to 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:29.760 even tell my friends my success and always play things 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.920 down if ever asked. I also stress that taking numbers 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.480 with the public could make a target on my back 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:39.960 for opportunistic people. Have you ever had these worries? So? 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:43.960 How have you developed your confidence for public speaking? Is 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:47.040 it a genuine concern or a limiting belief that people 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:50.600 will try and take advantage from sharing this type of information. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:54.760 I love this question. Obviously, this is like a very 0:07:54.920 --> 0:08:01.280 niche question. This is definitely a valid concern. A concern 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.280 like this is always valid. Do I think it's a 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:08.960 limiting belief? Yes, because it is something that is stopping 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:13.000 you from following a heart desire. You said so yourself 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:16.520 in the question, I feel that I've been called to 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:22.800 share this journey. That is definitely something that could happen. 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:27.480 But what you need to realize is there's also the 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:32.520 whole other side of you sharing it and the completely 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:38.160 opposite thing happening. That you find your group of people 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:42.280 that inspire you, that you connect with that make you thrive. 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:45.679 Like you find your people, it ends up turning into 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:51.439 this like aspirational, amazing career that completely lights you up. 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:55.280 You know, you obviously said you have been financially successful 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:58.080 in this, and it's something that you then go and 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:02.480 teach people that completely changes their life, which is like 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:06.280 that's incredible. That is like God's work, if that makes sense. 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:09.679 So yes, it's a valid concern, but yes, it is 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:13.559 a limiting belief. You need to work on disarming this 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:17.920 because I'm trying to think if I felt like this, 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:21.480 I think I may have felt like this in some 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:27.080 ways more with yeah, I've definitely felt like this, But 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:32.960 also like, if something happens, you always know that you're 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:36.080 supported and you were guided like lock into that. So 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:39.240 if something dodgy does happen with a person, you should 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:43.800 get that intuitition feeling or nudge which I have had 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:47.040 previously where I'm like, oh, you just don't do business 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.880 dealings with that person or work with that person. But 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:51.880 I just think you need to think about it in 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:57.800 the way of the result and what could happen definitely 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:01.680 outweighs something like that in regards to you know, your 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:06.920 feeling of your playing down your success. That's definitely something 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:10.200 that you need to work on, because you know, if 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:13.920 someone doesn't like you for that, they're not a real friend, 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.600 if that makes sense. And like you said, you're being 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:21.520 called to share this knowledge for a reason and you 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.760 need to trust that. All right, guys, I hope that 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:34.680 makes sense. Next question, Oh, I love this question. What 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.000 are some tips to getting out of a funk and 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:40.760 not getting discouraged when things don't seem to be going right? 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:44.400 I love this question, and it is so normal. I 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:48.400 think you need to lock in the core belief life 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.400 happens for me. I'm not even joking guys. Me, Ellie 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:54.760 and a Tea joked, wait, not a t she's not 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:59.000 into tatoos. Me and Ellie and Jacinta joked that we 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:05.480 are getting live happens for me lh fm, LHFM on 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:08.319 our wrist because this is like my motto, this is 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:11.000 how I live my life, and it's if things aren't 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:12.480 going right, you're. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:13.360 Like, hmm. 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.840 I would sit back and go hmmm, the universe is 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.400 trying to tell me because I know I'm guided, i 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:24.360 know I'm supported, so this is obviously going somewhere better 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:29.559 or it's steering me clear of something bad that would 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:34.120 have happened. So I think if you can constantly install 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:38.680 that like core belief, things not going the right way 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:42.160 won't feel like that and you won't get into a funk. 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:45.120 You will just go. I think you need to start 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:48.800 looking to your practices, your guided meditations. You know you're 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.720 journaling and just being like, hey, Universe, I thought I 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:54.120 was going this way, We're going a different way. This 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:59.400 is interesting. I'm open to it. I'm open to opportunities. 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:02.560 I know good things are coming, and I would just 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:06.000 be affirming that and going with that. I think another 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:08.079 great thing that I used to do when things aren't 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:10.680 going right. I would think back to a time where 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:14.280 I was like really worried how things were going. But 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.480 then in hindsight, I'm like, thank god it happened that 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:21.000 way because it turned out better than I could have imagined. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:27.520 Hope that makes sense. Next question, Hey, g, thanks so 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.400 much for creating an awesome course. I'm feeling super inspired 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:34.240 at the moment. That's amazing. Oh I love this question. Okay, 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:37.080 so she just asked me, like, how I got into 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:41.000 manifesting and how I learned these steps that I teach about. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:43.520 This is such a great question. So when I talk 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:48.840 to you guys about intuition and guided steps, I guess 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:53.320 when I backtracked in my life, I realized that I 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:57.560 had always locked not always locked into my intuition, but 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:02.680 I had For example, I remember journaling as a child. 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:05.360 I was telling a tear this really funny story of 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.640 I wanted this journal I wanted anyone did anyone have 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:13.160 that diary of Like it was voice activated, so it 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.800 would have been like ten or twelve, and this Voice 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:19.680 Activation journal just came out and I was obsessed with 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.880 it and I wanted to get it. And I remember 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:26.560 journaling about that journal, being like, I want this journal. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:28.559 I'm going to use it for so many things. It's 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:30.160 going to be so great for me. And I was 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:34.000 like twelve, So like I've always like journaled my feelings 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.240 and like wrote stuff out. I always just thought it 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.280 was like chicken scratch, like would never show anyone. But 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:43.200 I've realized I have journaled and processed my feelings for 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:47.000 a very long time, and all always had like a 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:52.520 set formula in regards to manifestation and law of attraction. Sorry, back, 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:55.560 that was a tangent going back to it. I always 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:59.199 would just be randomly led to things like, for example, 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:05.040 manifesting books like The Secret or Gabby Bernstein's book where 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:09.640 they introduce law of attraction and manifesting, and I feel like, 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:14.280 you know, different gurus teach things all different ways, but 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.280 it's basically all the same thing of law of attractions. 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:20.640 It's just like what works for them. So I used 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.040 to read a lot of books. I used to get 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:28.160 into like wormholes. I remember I was fascinated with the 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:32.400 twelve laws of the universe. So law of attraction is 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:36.200 just one law of the universe. And so for example, 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:39.920 that's like the secret is law of attraction. But I 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:44.040 reckon personally, the secret doesn't work for everyone because you're 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:48.200 missing the eleven other laws, which is in the course, 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.640 I don't say the laws, but I'm basically teaching you 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.400 all the laws of the universe. And that's why it's 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:58.080 like very formulated and whatnot. And I've learned a way 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:00.640 to kind of like put it into practice in a 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.920 modern world as a modern girl. Yeah, so I guess 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:07.600 like the biggest thing is like when you're fascinated with 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:11.960 something and when you're just randomly led like, oh, someone 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.400 mentioned this book and it just sounds like something I'm 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:17.640 interested in, let me read it, or like, for example, 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:19.640 you know when someone gives you a recommendation and you 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.080 just straight away you're like, nap, not gonna read it, 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.760 not gonna watch it, Like that's just your intuition being 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.800 like no waste of time. So I've just always been 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:32.400 fascinated and like really drawn to these concepts obviously for 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:34.320 a reason because I would then go in and teach it. 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.840 But yeah, I hope that makes sense, and that's like 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:39.800 a big I guess, like the lesson there is like 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:43.200 what you're fascinated with and what you're drawn to usually 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:46.600 has something to do with like your purpose in life. 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:50.200 So like follow that, follow the wormholes even if they 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:57.520 don't make sense. Next question from Laura also guys, as 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.760 you know, if I don't answer your question, it's because 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.440 it's in a previous life, which I will put on 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:07.680 your question. Yes, literally, Natasha, it was girl texts password journal. 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:12.200 I need to like our tea is cracking up because 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:13.800 we were just like laughing about it. 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:18.880 I tea had it too. How many other people had it? 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:19.520 I'd love to know? 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:21.320 Sorry? 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:22.320 What was I saying? 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:25.000 Oh, if I don't answer your question, I'm going to 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.920 personally message you back just because it was like too 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:30.440 niche for the group, or I'm going to tell you 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.720 where to fly in the information. So don't stress if 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.640 I don't do your exact questions, because I am doing 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:39.200 them in order grateful for any tips of what inspired 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:43.880 action would look like when manifesting a partner. She then 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:46.600 kind of speaks about, you know, she knows the example 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.120 of the car test driving it. She's getting a bit 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.560 lost because you know she could go on dates, but 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.440 sometimes dating apps like freak her out and give her 0:16:55.480 --> 0:17:01.000 limiting beliefs. So, Laura, if we're talking about fired action, 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:08.440 inspired action feels good, it feels intuitive. Sometimes it feels random, 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:12.479 but it just feels like hmm. Like for example, it 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:15.240 might be really random and your friend's like, oh, I'm 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:18.080 doing a pottery class, and you're like, huh, I might 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:20.639 do a pottery class and then you might meet the 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:22.800 love of your life at a pottery class, do you. 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:23.200 Know what I mean? 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:26.800 Like, that's an inspired step, but it's like you won't 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:30.280 know until you take it. Also, a big thing with 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:36.679 inspired action is sometimes there isn't any Sometimes inspired action 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:40.119 is not much to do with the actual thing you're desiring, 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:45.040 But the inspired action is actually, I'm gonna work on myself. 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:49.240 I'm going to work on my limiting beliefs. Around a partner, 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:53.840 I'm gonna work on being my best self. So as 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:57.199 soon as you know the person comes along, you know, 0:17:57.240 --> 0:17:59.080 we don't have to work through shit. And I think 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:05.400 the biggest thing with you know, manifesting a partner take 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:08.359 inspired action, Like if it feels good be on a 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:12.760 dating app, but if it doesn't, like don't like I Yeah, Like, 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:15.359 if you're not interested, don't. I don't think that would 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.320 ever stop you. You guys will have to listen to 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:22.240 episode going out? Is it this Friday? A tear? Yes? 0:18:22.800 --> 0:18:26.880 This Friday? We have a life Happens for Me episode 0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:30.719 where everyone like wrote in some like just like wild 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:34.359 manifesting stories, And there's a woman who talks about how 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:39.760 she manifested her dream partner after a really toxic partner 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.120 who she was engaged to, and the way she met 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:47.640 this man was just like we both were like dumbfounded, 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:52.240 weren't we a tear? We were like what? And so 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:55.600 that's why we My response to it was like, don't 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:58.080 worry about the how. The how is not up to you, 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:01.760 but it can just come in the most random ways 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:05.679 that don't require you to do the typical go on 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:09.840 a dating app blah blah blah. So, for example, if 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:13.280 going on a dating app felt really good and really exciting, yes, 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:16.679 do it. But if it doesn't, don't. And also know 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:20.679 that sometimes inspired action can be so random and nothing 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:24.320 to do with the actual thing really it is, if 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:27.240 that makes sense, Yeah, and also I would just get 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:31.119 like you've probably done this already, but just get super 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:34.919 clear on what you want that person to look like. 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:38.800 Not really in regards to physically, you could also do that, 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:41.359 but in regards to like, how would they show up 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.840 in the relationship, how would you show up in the relationship? 0:19:43.880 --> 0:19:45.679 What would they be like? What would you like to 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:48.680 look like? Once you're clear on that and you've locked 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:51.840 it in, you've done everything, don't worry about the how, 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:54.800 and it's just like if something comes up and it 0:19:54.840 --> 0:20:00.879 feels really inspired, maybe a bit random, but good, intuitive, inspired, amazing. 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:03.679 Take it. Otherwise you've done all the things and you 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:07.320 need to trust and lock in that that person is 0:20:07.359 --> 0:20:13.560 coming for you. So glad it exciting. This is going 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:18.840 to sound bad. First up, I absolutely love my husband. However, 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:22.399 I am a dreamer and he plays it very safe. 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:25.880 I can't help but feel like he is my limiting 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:30.840 belief during this course. Oh girl, I feel you. So 0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:34.879 she wants to build and buy or renovate their dream house, 0:20:35.840 --> 0:20:38.520 but they can never agree on what to buy. So 0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:42.200 she wants to buy a beach block. Oh could you imagine? 0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:45.320 But he's like, not right now. She wants to travel 0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:49.159 and he's like one day, not right now? He I 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:51.800 want And then she wants him to start his own business, 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:56.400 which we know could succeed and would change our life significantly, 0:20:57.240 --> 0:21:00.960 but he doesn't want to. All these dreams that you 0:21:01.119 --> 0:21:04.000 need to do together, I can manifest it for me, 0:21:04.119 --> 0:21:08.800 but how can it be achieved? All right, girl, I 0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:13.960 get you. Tim is like pretty much like this. I 0:21:13.960 --> 0:21:17.280 wouldn't say like he is a dreamer himself. Not really. Actually, 0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:21.200 he's more like Tim doesn't like change. So I'm a 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:24.159 dreamer and I'm like, let's do this. This would be great, 0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:26.760 and he's like, whoa, whoa, whoah, let's just chill and 0:21:26.800 --> 0:21:29.320 do nothing because he loves his comfort zone. He's a Taurus. 0:21:30.240 --> 0:21:32.440 I'm like, let's move countries. 0:21:32.560 --> 0:21:34.480 I've never said that, but like, let's do you know, 0:21:34.600 --> 0:21:35.199 cool stuff. 0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:40.120 But the thing here is I don't think he's your 0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:44.640 limiting belief. I think your limiting belief is he's what's 0:21:44.680 --> 0:21:49.000 stopping you. Because I am in the exact same position 0:21:49.160 --> 0:21:51.919 where Tim is the opposite to me. I'm a dreamer, 0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:55.840 he's not. And look at my life in regards to 0:21:56.760 --> 0:22:01.040 me having big dreams and then coming into threeuition. I 0:22:01.080 --> 0:22:05.200 don't think he has to have he has to do 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:08.919 anything towards your big dreams. Obviously, I know you know 0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:12.840 you're purchasing this property together and obviously going on a 0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:17.119 holiday together. But for example, something I do with Tim 0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:20.600 is like I just keep like nudging him talking about 0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:25.640 the thing, sometimes giving him an ultimatum we don't want 0:22:25.640 --> 0:22:28.320 to go that far, but I guess like nudging it, 0:22:28.400 --> 0:22:30.520 and like he's a tourist, so it's like he then 0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:32.880 thinks it's his idea and he's like, yeah, let's do it. 0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:35.840 So I kind of know how to persuade him. So 0:22:36.040 --> 0:22:38.840 is there a way that you can persuade him or 0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:43.480 is it just the fact of your limiting belief is 0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:47.159 you need him on board where that's not actually true. 0:22:47.760 --> 0:22:51.520 For example, I brought this up like every live call, 0:22:51.880 --> 0:22:56.280 but for example, you could win in a DENV house 0:22:57.320 --> 0:23:00.960 tomorrow and have your dream house, Like it could come 0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:05.679 in the most unusual way that has nothing to do 0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:08.680 with him. I know. The usual way is you get 0:23:08.720 --> 0:23:11.520 a mortgage together, blah blah blah. But I'm just saying 0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:15.199 that is a block for you, and I almost like 0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:18.560 when I have like big dreams, I just like don't 0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:22.960 worry about him or what he thinks at that moment. Obviously, 0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:26.439 we discuss and we implement, but I don't know. I 0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:31.800 just my feeling straight away is you can't let him 0:23:31.960 --> 0:23:35.720 stop you. You need to keep working and keep manifesting, 0:23:36.160 --> 0:23:38.920 and almost just lock in that if it's on your heart, 0:23:39.119 --> 0:23:41.639 it's for a reason, and it gets to happen for you, 0:23:42.160 --> 0:23:45.919 and he's either coming along on the ride or you know, 0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:49.080 I don't want to say that it's a bit brutal, 0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:52.600 but does that make sense? Like I don't think you 0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:55.720 should even be too worried about his thoughts, and if 0:23:55.760 --> 0:24:00.199 he's also bringing you down on your high vibe, like 0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:04.439 sometimes I won't even obviously not you go and purchase 0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:08.800 the house, but like when you're manifesting this perfect house 0:24:08.880 --> 0:24:11.679 and he's not agreeing, like you don't have to be 0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:14.760 talking to him about it all the time. You can 0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:20.399 just be quietly doing your thing. I hope that makes sense. 0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:24.639 And also like life gets to happen for you even 0:24:24.880 --> 0:24:29.520