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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi John, Hey, good morning. How are you guys?
Speaker 2: All right, Kelly, You're on with John Edward.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi John. I'm hoping to connect with my mom. Please.
Speaker 4: Oh, I thought you can ask about your father. Sorry,
Speaker 4: I actually thought you were going to ask me about
Speaker 4: your dad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a bit going on into dad hasn't been
Speaker 3: well lately.
Speaker 4: So the first thing I'm going to tell you, if
Speaker 4: I interpret this as I always do in my own
Speaker 4: friend of reference, I want to say that your mom
Speaker 4: as a parent, was your more dominant parent.
Speaker 2: Is that correct?
Speaker 3: Correct?
Speaker 2: Not to take.
Speaker 4: Anything away from your dad, It just feels like your
Speaker 4: mom would be the more dominant parent. I kind of
Speaker 4: feel like out of the three in the family, I
Speaker 4: don't know if it's supposed to be the three being you, mom,
Speaker 4: and dad, or if you're one of the three pregnancies
Speaker 4: or kids, but out of the three in the family,
Speaker 4: it feels like some of the responsibility is falling upon
Speaker 4: you to take care of things in the family. That
Speaker 4: maybe if you were really honest, you were like, I
Speaker 4: don't really want to have to do this, but I
Speaker 4: have no choice, Like I have to step up, and
Speaker 4: I feel like your mom wants me to acknowledge you
Speaker 4: stepping up to the plate and seeing that you're doing this.
Speaker 2: I also want to talk about the green.
Speaker 4: Shirt, sweatshirt, blouse, jacket, something greenish that I'm supposed to
Speaker 4: be talking about. Fabric wise, I don't think it's a bathrobe,
Speaker 4: and I don't think it's a like a blanket. But
Speaker 4: I feel like I want to talk about the green
Speaker 4: shirt like it has a significance. It's not just that
Speaker 4: you're wearing a green shirt right now. It's like remember this.
Speaker 4: And then here in the States, like we have like
Speaker 4: theme parks like six Flags and like Great Adventure and
Speaker 4: not quite disney World but a more like rides kind
Speaker 4: of a place.
Speaker 2: Why would your mom want me.
Speaker 4: To talk about going to a theme park or the
Speaker 4: place with the attractions in the rooms.
Speaker 3: I currently have a green and black jacket on from
Speaker 3: the formula one.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's unusual.
Speaker 4: Yeah. And then are you in the process of like,
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm not sure how to say this part, Kelly,
Speaker 4: So I could be misinterpreting this, but are you helping
Speaker 4: someone navigate a separation.
Speaker 2: From a partner? I Dian, Yes, okay, And was this after.
Speaker 4: Your mom passed? Yes, okay, So according to your mom,
Speaker 4: she's making me feel that you give a lot of
Speaker 4: yourself and you help a lot of other people in
Speaker 4: tough spots, and you'll drop everything to go do what
Speaker 4: people need for you. You'll be that person on the phone.
Speaker 4: You'll listen to them talk for hours. But you don't
Speaker 4: let people do that for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so your mom would do that for you.
Speaker 4: You would actually talk to your mom about stuff, You
Speaker 4: would have her as a friend. So she's making me
Speaker 4: feel like one of the issues that you've navigated with
Speaker 4: her not being here is the fact that you don't
Speaker 4: have that person that you feel like you can go
Speaker 4: to where you can talk to. Where's Jeanette or Jeanine
Speaker 4: or Jennifer, where's.
Speaker 3: That best friend?
Speaker 4: Oh well, okay, So for her to give me that
Speaker 4: as a backup, it's a way of solidifying and connecting
Speaker 4: with what I'm talking about with, which is friendship. Right,
Speaker 4: she's giving me the analogy this is your mom's but
Speaker 4: you know she's still with me, she still sees what's happening.
Speaker 4: But you gotta be You got to show up for Kelly.
Speaker 4: That's what she wants. She wants you to show up
Speaker 4: for you.
Speaker 5: Okay, can you go to your mum's best friend as
Speaker 5: someone to chat too?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't really spoken to her much since since
Speaker 3: my mom passed. Yeah, maybe I'm the oldest staut of ale. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm on the oldest stat of all the siblings, so yeah,
Speaker 3: I do try to make sure that they're all okay.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like that's a role that all firstborns
Speaker 6: kind of feel obliged to step into. I'm the firstborn
Speaker 6: as well, and I can already tell I'll be the
Speaker 6: one that's looking after my elderly parents and stuff. Just
Speaker 6: almost like.
Speaker 4: We're born into that role.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was really that was sad.
Speaker 3: But also yeah, it's sit scowed like I enjoy looking
Speaker 3: at for my brothers and sisters and seeing them six seed.
Speaker 6: So yeah, it sounds like your mom is saying, make
Speaker 6: sure that you're making time for yourself and maybe let
Speaker 6: people in and let people help you as well, because
Speaker 6: you give gift gears, yeah, to receive.
Speaker 4: Did you guys have a dog named after a food
Speaker 4: or a dog named after a beverage? No, I want
Speaker 4: you to remember that she said that she's talking about
Speaker 4: a dog that's named after something that feels like a beverage,
Speaker 4: like a pepsi, like Bud like Bairei's or Brandy or
Speaker 4: something that I feel like I could drink or eat.
Speaker 4: So I don't know if she's trying to tell me
Speaker 4: that that dog is there, but she's bringing that up.
Speaker 2: So I just wanted to make sure you heard me
Speaker 2: say that.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you.
Speaker 5: I'm exhausted emotionally.
Speaker 6: Hell, I know she sounds like she's lost her best friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I can relate to.
Speaker 5: That really would provide so much help for people, It's incredible.
Speaker 2: That's my goal.
Speaker 4: Actually, the goal is to let people know that they
Speaker 4: don't need me, because they think the goal is for
Speaker 4: them to recognize that we're not alone, that we still
Speaker 4: have our loved ones and friends that are with us,
Speaker 4: even our pets.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'll look forward to the you know, the DM
Speaker 2: that I get later.
Speaker 4: My cousin's dog's name was Brandy or four X or
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Speaker 7: How's it going everyone? Hi? Adam, Hey, I'd just like
Speaker 7: to connect with dad if I can.
Speaker 4: Adam, is there an m like Michael or an m
Speaker 4: like Mark living or past around you?
Speaker 7: There's an uncle that lives around me. His name's Michael.
Speaker 2: Okay. And then is your mom still living?
Speaker 7: Yep, Mom's still living.
Speaker 4: Did you just have a little bit of a verbal
Speaker 4: thing with your mom?
Speaker 2: No? No, getting along?
Speaker 7: So hey, getting along fun. I live with mom at the.
Speaker 4: Moment, so sometimes we wind up getting into a difference
Speaker 4: of perspective. So like one time I said to somebody, oh,
Speaker 4: you're you're not very close to your family and they said, no,
Speaker 4: we talk all the time.
Speaker 2: And I said, oh, how often do you talk?
Speaker 4: And they said once every two or three months. So
Speaker 4: for me, we talk all the time is like every day, Adam.
Speaker 4: I'm kind of feeling like there may have been a
Speaker 4: tip a little something in the last you know, week
Speaker 4: where there was a miscommunication or something that was a
Speaker 4: misunderstanding having to do around mom. So maybe not a fight,
Speaker 4: not an argument. And Adam, where is the person that
Speaker 4: has the j name for you, the Jay name?
Speaker 7: Um, that would be the kid's mom.
Speaker 6: The kids as in your kids.
Speaker 7: Yeah, my kids? Yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: And did you have a conversation with your mom about
Speaker 4: your kids and was there a different a difference of
Speaker 4: opinion about how things are happening around them?
Speaker 7: Ummm no, No, Mom's very supportive of me, and Mum's
Speaker 7: always got mine back. I haven't had no conversation with
Speaker 7: mom and the.
Speaker 3: Kids are that?
Speaker 1: The kids are you and your partner or you split up?
Speaker 1: You're not together any we split up.
Speaker 7: We're not together anymore, haven't been together for about seven years.
Speaker 1: And you live with mom and the kids with your
Speaker 1: ex partner.
Speaker 7: No, so the kids I share custody with their mom
Speaker 7: and we do week on, week off. So the kids
Speaker 7: are with me this week and then they go back
Speaker 7: to their mom on Sunday.
Speaker 4: So hold on, hold on, I am maybe misinterpreting something.
Speaker 4: If your dad wanted to talk about having a different
Speaker 4: opinion about your kids having to do with mom, is
Speaker 4: it possible that it's their mom?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Possibly, yep, Okay.
Speaker 4: Because I know what I'm looking at and when I'm
Speaker 4: looking at as a difference of opinion, a miscommunication, possibly
Speaker 4: a misunderstanding having to do with you and the word mom.
Speaker 2: So I was I thought it was your mom. With
Speaker 2: your dad's past.
Speaker 4: It might be your dad's way of acknowledging what's happening
Speaker 4: around you with the kids. Did any of your kids
Speaker 4: ever have like a vision or like a who's that man?
Speaker 4: Or I saw you know, Grandpa kind of a moment
Speaker 4: where it freaky out a little bit.
Speaker 7: Possibly possibly my son. My son's been a bit upset
Speaker 7: the last couple of weeks because we've actually lost three
Speaker 7: family members in the last year. No.
Speaker 4: Right, So, I think one of your kids is honestly
Speaker 4: very intuitive and maybe will let you know. I always
Speaker 4: say that kids are very very psychic, and they sometimes
Speaker 4: could either be afraid of what they're perceiving, or it
Speaker 4: could be something like they're just perceiving and they don't
Speaker 4: understand what they're they're looking at. There may be something
Speaker 4: educational coming up as well with one of the kids.
Speaker 4: You may have to shift education or shift something with
Speaker 4: an educator or something with school, or any conversations happening
Speaker 4: about like your kids changing like a school.
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, just at the moment. There's been talks with
Speaker 7: me and their mom about Kyla getting a tutor, and
Speaker 7: I don't agree with the tutor, and she wants the
Speaker 7: tutor for him.
Speaker 2: Got it.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna dude, don't hate me, but I kind of
Speaker 4: feel like the child needs the tutor. And then don't
Speaker 4: you have somebody that passed in a vehicle accident? Is
Speaker 4: that a friend?
Speaker 7: I had a friend, I had a friend.
Speaker 2: I just need you to know that this is your
Speaker 2: dad's way.
Speaker 4: I like to have things backed up with, like you know,
Speaker 4: factual things and anchors. My focus here for you is
Speaker 4: be aware of the communication with the kids mom. Don't
Speaker 4: be argumentative, be a little bit more patient. I just
Speaker 4: in case I did interpret this correctly. I just want
Speaker 4: you to be aware that you and your own mom
Speaker 4: may have a difference of opinions when it comes to
Speaker 4: something having to do with the kids, and maybe if
Speaker 4: you have this conversation with her, she'll tell you.
Speaker 7: I have this conversation with mom a lot. I say, look, Mom,
Speaker 7: they're my kids, and when I'll discipline them the way
Speaker 7: I want to, I.
Speaker 2: Think they're going to be fine.
Speaker 4: But I think that one of the things when we're
Speaker 4: dealing with kids with loss, is that they need answers.
Speaker 4: So I am not a therapist, but I do always
Speaker 4: advocate for kids to have information and not to have
Speaker 4: their emotions when it comes to the grief of someone
Speaker 4: kind of pushed aside because we don't have the words
Speaker 4: for it. Yeah, which one of your kids has the
Speaker 4: mark on their face or like a freckle or some
Speaker 4: type of something on their face. Is she struggling with
Speaker 4: someone's passing as well? Like, is she having a tough time?
Speaker 7: She tends to hide things more and she's more quiet,
Speaker 7: where Carter will like express everything and say, like a
Speaker 7: song will come on and straight away he's like that,
Speaker 7: I miss I miss my uncle Karl, or he'll say
Speaker 7: I'm I miss Pop or I miss Bridger, who's my
Speaker 7: other cousin who's passed away as well.
Speaker 2: I feel like music is a way in for him.
Speaker 4: Then if like you can express yourself that way, I
Speaker 4: almost like you've got to get on this. You got
Speaker 4: to get on the same level that he would be on.
Speaker 7: Yeah, how old is he?
Speaker 2: He's eleven, heels a lot older than eleven.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, what I'm saying is that for an
Speaker 4: eleven year old. I feel like pay attention to what
Speaker 4: he says and his perspective. He may be dropping some wisdom.
Speaker 6: He's like an.
Speaker 7: Old cool yeah cool.
Speaker 2: I hope this helps.
Speaker 7: Good on. Thank you very much. Thank you for your
Speaker 7: time today.
Speaker 2: Everyone, Thanks good Luck and John Edward.
Speaker 1: Thank you. We really appreciate your time and thank you Matte.
Speaker 2: Thank you guys,