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Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lola Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter,

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Speaker 1: and professional overshaer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure

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Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn,

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Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview

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Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as they're lows,

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Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to furiously fail.

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Speaker 1: Hello today, if you're listening to this, the day it

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Speaker 1: comes out today is Valentine's Day, February fourteenth, twenty and

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Speaker 1: twenty two. If you're listening to this down the track, well,

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Speaker 1: then happy belated Valentine's Day. But in celebration of all

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Speaker 1: things love and romance. I thought for this episode, we'll

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Speaker 1: get the Boss on and talk a little bit about

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Speaker 1: things that we love about one another, but we also

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Speaker 1: talk about things we dislike about one another. And can

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Speaker 1: I just say, the Boss had quite a list. So

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Speaker 1: this is a really light episode. It's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: It's celebrating love and the Boss I want I so

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Speaker 1: I hope you love it and have an awesome Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: There's not a special someone in your life right now,

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Speaker 1: make sure you do something just for you, big love.

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Speaker 2: Wore were recording. Yeah, are we on?

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Speaker 1: You said, oh, well, hit record and let's go. You're happy.

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Speaker 1: Check the levels.

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Speaker 2: Ah, looks great, sounds great. You look great, you look great,

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Speaker 2: you sound great?

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Speaker 1: What is today? Boss?

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Speaker 2: Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 1: We're recording it in advance. We're recording a Valentine special.

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Speaker 1: That's correct, because I love Valentine's Day. You love love,

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Speaker 1: I love love. I love the movie Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Which one's that Ashton Kutcher Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's

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Speaker 2: like the Florist.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, that falling in love with Jennifer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jennifer Ghana, well done.

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Speaker 1: Ten points to Bosso.

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Speaker 2: All that line's made. Just gives me some coffee right now?

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Speaker 2: Ready for it?

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Speaker 1: Is that? Is that what it's called?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a bit of a gross slap. That's all right.

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Speaker 2: How are you? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Bus We're just we're just plodding along here, trying

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Speaker 1: to get allowed ducks in a row, aren't we.

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Speaker 2: I know, we've had a busy couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: Oh so busy boy. Yeah, and I go to America

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Speaker 1: very soon, so when this pod comes out, are we

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Speaker 1: going very very soon? So just trying to line everything up.

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Speaker 1: I was hoping I could fly out of Brisbane because

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Speaker 1: that's a closer international airport for us. But even though

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Speaker 1: I've got to wait for the borders to open, that

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Speaker 1: don't open, I think till the twenty first affair. I

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Speaker 1: think really Queens Queensland and travel, like just the travel,

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Speaker 1: no bubbles, just try.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so like tourists can travel understand. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: I saw international travels opening on the first of Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's is that what I was reading.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was talking about. So what we are

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Speaker 1: doing in the theme of doing a Valentine's episode, I

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Speaker 1: did a call out on instaff But I've also got

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Speaker 1: a little few talk points here that I thought we

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Speaker 1: might be unpacked. So just for the listeners at home, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: boss has no idea what will be talking about? Zero

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Speaker 1: flying in blind?

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Speaker 2: Are we very blind? Unless you prepared? Did you pre

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Speaker 2: prepare anything? I asked you, I said, do you want

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Speaker 2: to prepare? And you said no.

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Speaker 1: I said that five minutes before we started recording.

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Speaker 2: But I only need five minutes prepare. Yeah, okay, I'm quick,

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Speaker 2: I'm smart.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, okay, So I thought we could start before

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Speaker 1: we get into the influencer questions. I thought we could

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Speaker 1: start by saying what you love about one another and

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Speaker 1: then what you dislike about one another?

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Speaker 2: How long do we have.

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Speaker 1: Go for it?

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Speaker 2: What I love about you?

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Speaker 1: I think let's start with what you don't like about me? Farts? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't like parts.

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Speaker 2: I find you to be.

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Speaker 1: Party. Oh look, yes, farty. But I do also know

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Speaker 1: that you have food intolerances. You do all the cooking,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, I know, but that's why I try to

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Speaker 1: keep it. And I am one of those people and

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Speaker 1: you might judge me. I may be judged for this,

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Speaker 1: but I'm one of those people that, like, I get

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Speaker 1: if we're watching it movie. I love just fighting on

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Speaker 1: the couch and watching Where's the Romance Gone? Where's the

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Speaker 1: mystery Guy? Watching Matt's face like a deer in his life, Like,

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Speaker 2: What the fuck am I get myself into you?

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Speaker 1: Because for me, like I can make good sounding ones.

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Speaker 2: You do not need to go into that. Yes, that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what else?

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Speaker 2: I find you to be a little bit not as

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Speaker 2: clean as me?

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Speaker 1: Hang on. I think we need to get really clear

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Speaker 1: on this because there's two types of clean. So one

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Speaker 1: is like an organized kind of clean, which I am.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I said you're organized.

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Speaker 1: So like I felt all the washing. I make sure

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's organized. We're talking about clean.

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Speaker 1: So I'm tidy and you're clean. Yeah, but your workspace

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Speaker 1: is like our lugafel, so that means you're a messy person,

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Speaker 1: but you're clean as far as hygiene goes. So what

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Speaker 1: I need like a clean space, and I'm a tidy person. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but my personal hygiene is not clean. Is that what

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Speaker 2: I think just in general, like after I see you

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Speaker 1: Okay. And also, what's this You think the bin in

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Speaker 2: I disagreeing lately. No, I completely disagree every time.

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Speaker 1: I If I think every couple of days is fine,

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Speaker 1: it's not full.

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Speaker 2: If it's a absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: It was only a third full you do not throw that.

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Speaker 1: That's such a waste of plastic.

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Speaker 2: Wind line or every air dirty laundry on a podcast.

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Speaker 2: Let's go for it. First of all, I do ninety

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Speaker 2: percent of the cooking. See onion, garlic like things go

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Speaker 2: I do ninety percent of cleaning and all those kinds

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Speaker 1: But your mum also doesn't like bins, and she has

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Speaker 1: a thing that bins have to be thrown out daily too.

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Speaker 2: On my correct So but my point is I know

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Speaker 2: me on that. You just got to be like, hang on,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if it's half. What if I've thrown

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Speaker 2: out like chicken scrap, Okay, that's different, or meat or

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Speaker 2: fish or different.

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Speaker 1: There different different ball game. Obviously, if there is raw fish, chicken,

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Speaker 2: It's a paper bin. No worries if pape win can

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Speaker 2: go out if it's not full, but I recycle.

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Speaker 1: We're not talking about.

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Speaker 2: Anything with food scraps. It's going to go out daily.

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Speaker 2: I probably do. If fifty people message me and say

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Speaker 2: thanks messaging fifty people messages that I'm right.

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Speaker 1: Unless there's meat, I believe. I want to really if

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Speaker 2: Why would you just not?

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Speaker 2: Like I get the plastic plastic thing.

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Speaker 1: If it's only a third full or a quarter full,

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Speaker 2: We also live in a hot, humid place.

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Speaker 1: Well, so I wasn't going to mention this, but what

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Speaker 1: did happen to our red bin, which is our garbage bin?

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Speaker 2: It was okay, so, but where we live the red

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Speaker 1: Week, which is mental to me. So we have three

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Speaker 1: Just okay, green binners garden wasist and like we use

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Speaker 1: Scraps? And then the yellow bin is recycled. It's right, okay,

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Speaker 2: Because I washed out the fucking bin. That's another thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I don't think you've ever thought in the

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Speaker 2: two years that we've lived together, and especially in over

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Speaker 2: the year that we've lived here, that bins need washing

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Speaker 2: out and cleaning, but I just do them. You don't

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Speaker 2: other thing on the bins. I think. I'm not sure

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Speaker 2: like bin liners for your green bin, so all the

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Speaker 2: But also our green bin's like the big one. The

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Speaker 2: yellow bin's a big one, but the red bin is

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Speaker 2: like a finey tiny one puts Yeah, so I do

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Speaker 2: understand that it encourages you to, you know, separate your

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Speaker 1: I'm very good at that. I would say, I'm a

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Speaker 2: You're great, You're greater, No I am. I just think sometimes.

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Speaker 1: It's in America they don't like they say they separate

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Speaker 2: Though I don't remember what was it in Victoria. When

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Speaker 1: I went back to being a kid. Then it used

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Speaker 1: the red was every week. I actually think it goes

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Speaker 1: counsel to counsel. I feel like we're deep diving a

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Speaker 1: as clean as you, but to be clear, I am tidier. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're very tidy, and like I clean shit out all

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Speaker 1: Like I just love cleaning stuff out. I like being minimal,

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Speaker 2: then on top of that, Hey, boss, can you shoot

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, mister Italiana recipe reels.

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Speaker 1: I've been shooting your reels every second night.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: You get to eat the meals though, always.

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Speaker 1: I always have those. Not anything new. It's not like

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Speaker 2: But I'd be honest, there's not There's nothing I don't

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Speaker 2: fucking hate you. I don't hate you about anything. I

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Speaker 2: So I never get angry with you. I never feel

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Speaker 1: No, we don't fight. Really, no, we don't fight. That

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So things I love about you? Now, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel like you really gave more than I expected

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Speaker 1: you to give it disliking. I had one thing written

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Speaker 2: I talk too much? Okay, mouth, what am I doing? Things?

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Speaker 2: I love about you? Yes, you're very kind.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. You're very loving, generous and very general.

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Speaker 2: Very you can't say your own things. Yes, you are

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Speaker 2: very generous.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: Well, you're very generous with your heart and time.

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Speaker 1: Thanks boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but not just me, with other people too.

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Speaker 1: Is that the list? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, And you're beautiful and I love you. Oh that's okay,

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Speaker 1: Then love you? Do you want to my list?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Here you go.

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Speaker 2: What you dislikes about me?

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Speaker 1: I only had one, okay, but I'm going to give

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Speaker 1: So the first one is I I like to get

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Speaker 1: most nights. Correct, this is something I don't like about you? Know,

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Speaker 1: something you don't like about me? Every night without fail

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Speaker 1: when I get up to your wi, this is what

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Speaker 2: Is everything?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Every three single night? And I sat you down

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Speaker 1: yesterday and I said, I love you, but I've got

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Speaker 1: it can be positive. It doesn't need to be like

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Speaker 2: Can I just give you a rebuttal? It's the middle

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if it happens, what eight nights? I know?

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Speaker 1: Why because so?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wake up in a fright and I'm just

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Speaker 2: And last night when you got up, I didn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, So am I supposed to I'm supposed to wake

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Speaker 1: No, staying asleep is definitely. Did you stay asleep though?

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Speaker 2: What kind of sleeper? Am I? I? Heavy sleeper? You

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's my one thing. I did add another thing. Okay, Yes,

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Speaker 2: Okay, My nails grow so fucking and.

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Speaker 2: Do you watch me cut my nails?

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Speaker 1: No, but boss, I'm telling you, they fucking scratched.

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Speaker 2: They grow fast. I can't help it. I'm a very

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, do you know they scratched you because I

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Speaker 2: Just a bit bit scratchy. You had that that tone.

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Speaker 1: Put all that ship on it. Tonight it was not good.

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Speaker 1: from like going to not in Byron, but yeah in Melbourne. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: things I love about you made Okay, here we go,

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Speaker 1: Here we go number one. No, I tell you.

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Speaker 1: Ato, you've got nine that's nothing, and what's d I

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Speaker 1: I love your heart that. I love your heart. You

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Speaker 1: have such a good heart. You feel everything. I love

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Speaker 2: I love your way of putting my deep soul my

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Speaker 1: No, but I think that comes with creativity and sitting

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Speaker 1: you're very very recaring. And I also love the FOODI cork.

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Speaker 1: That's your list?

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Speaker 2: That's nice?

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Speaker 1: Was that nice? Good sexy time? What is it? Good

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this Valentine's Day, we're doing something a little

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Speaker 1: earned savings on wonderful Saint Laurent or Louis Vuitton or Gucci. Instead,

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00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: we're having an experienced Valentine's, aren't we That's great? Talk

442
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: us through what's happening. We are going to NUSA, say

443
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: in the accent you've been doing it around the house.

444
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 2: We're going to I'm going to No, I've never been

445
00:22:53,200 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 2: to Nissa Therndi Markets, the your Monday marker, and I

446
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 2: think if we've got time, we might go to the

447
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: My hero Steve what's called in Australia zoos.

448
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: Australia zoo, which is where Steve. He's my hero. So

449
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: I've already warned Boss, I've been three times now. I

450
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 1: usually cry in the crocoseum because as I just make

451
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: think of Stephen, He's one of my ultimate heroes. So yeah,

452
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm so excited to do this. So we're going for

453
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: an adventure packed trip. We're also going to for a

454
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 1: few other reasons as well. We're recording a podcast in NUSA,

455
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 1: and I'm filming an acting scene with an acting butt

456
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: of mine, and we're doing some training with his teacher

457
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: one day and then the next day we're putting it

458
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: on tape. So that's really exciting. So we've got a

459
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: little bit going on in good old news. Now, Boss

460
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: has never been to NUSA.

461
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 2: You give me the tips.

462
00:23:53,600 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: We're actually staying in the Hinderland n Yeah, I think so. Boss.

463
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: There's the trick with that rich accent. It's not opening

464
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: your teeth.

465
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, keep your teeth together. Yeah. You didn't want to

466
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 2: stay in like a resort, so we found like a nice,

467
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: nice property, like I think it's like fifteen minutes out

468
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: of like.

469
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we did. We. I didn't feel like staying

470
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: in a hotel or anything, and I was like, let's

471
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: be out of the riff raftff. Yeah, let's be out

472
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: of the riff raff.

473
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

474
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,959
Speaker 1: So yeah, we're doing a little bit of a romance. Noosa,

475
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: it's not technical.

476
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:33,640
Speaker 2: At a holiday.

477
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: We've really gone on a holiday, Like our last holiday

478
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: would have been coming here but lived in Melbourne. I

479
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: feel like when we moved here the mic. I feel

480
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: like when we moved here, we treated the first couple

481
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 1: of months like a holiday.

482
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we were trying. That first month or two was.

483
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: I was like eating out. I reckon, I got fat.

484
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: IM shouldn't say that, but I reckon I did I

485
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: put a bit on, Yes, did you too, punchinella? Yeah,

486
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: match word. Yeah. But like the thing is, we were

487
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: barn is so foody though, and you go out and

488
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: you have something that's like Gooden free and vegan but

489
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: loaded with sugar.

490
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also we were, oh, we're going to go

491
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: to you know, get a couch and then oh we're

492
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: getting to cash might as I go for lunch, or

493
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: we're going to go buy a table and a fridge

494
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 2: in this So that whole month was all of that.

495
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 2: So yeah, it is hard, but I don't feel like

496
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: we've actually had a holiday in like two years.

497
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably, Like so this will be half holl We

498
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: went to Gaya. Oh that's wrong.

499
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's like they were like two three day trips,

500
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: still beautiful, and it's like fifteen minutes from our house.

501
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 2: Oh no, let's yeah.

502
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: So I've done an instacral out. I just put a

503
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: little snap of you and I up and said, we're

504
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: recording of Valentine's what do you want to know? So

505
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: we've got some questions. I haven't read them all, so

506
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: i'd like to just I'm going to shoot them out

507
00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: and you can quick fire quick fire. Okay, So what's

508
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: both of your love languages and what do you do

509
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 1: to keep the spark alive?

510
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 2: Love language? What's mine?

511
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: Experiences? On your access service?

512
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 2: I think of access service, Yeah.

513
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: I think I'm so. I think I love to gift

514
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: give like I love to giving gifts, but I think

515
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: I love experiences together, like we do a lot of

516
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: things together. So I think that I respond best to

517
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: an experience. Yeah, but you love to give gifts, but

518
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 1: I love like I'm really struggling with the fact that

519
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: you and I aren't, Like I don't give you a gift.

520
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: I've got you a card.

521
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 2: We're going but we're going away.

522
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: Is that's what I mean? No, that's lovely, but like

523
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: not for me to receive, for me to give, like,

524
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: I just love Like it's my friend Moe's birthdays and

525
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm spending a mid time getting a present, but.

526
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: I just love it. What's my love language?

527
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: Yours is access service?

528
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: Like both ways though giving and.

529
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 1: You're giving is acts of service. I would say your

530
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 1: receiving is probably experiences too.

531
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 2: African it's acts of service probably as well.

532
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah the bins, Yeah, because you're saying to me,

533
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: like if i'd all the dishes or something, or like

534
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: make sure everything's cleaned after.

535
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 2: You, like if I wait, like the if I wake

536
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: up and I'm like, oh, the dishes have been put away,

537
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, god, damn.

538
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 1: When I put out your breaky stuff every ye.

539
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 2: I love that far more than any big expensive gift

540
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 2: or experience.

541
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: So your acts of service both ways, I think. So

542
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: I'm to give gifts as my way out, and then

543
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: to receive energy is experiences. Yeah, that feels right. What

544
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: do we do to keep the spark alive? Dress ups?

545
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: We don't do dress jokes.

546
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: I think we just make time for each other and

547
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: we always check in with each other, lots of check ins.

548
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's probably not like spark exciting, but

549
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: I think that keeps us connected and close and.

550
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: Really on the same page, like very much, same page,

551
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: same words saying like dot or yeah that's cool. We

552
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: do a lot together too, like we want to pull

553
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: out together this ours. We're a team.

554
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're very do things together.

555
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: Very teammatee. Yeah, I just got really hot from this tea. Boss,

556
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: it's hot here now, okay, next one, How do you

557
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: know that each of you are the one?

558
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 2: Oh? Well, I don't think there's a pivotal moment. To

559
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: be honest, I don't think I had like a pivotal moment.

560
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: Okay, I have a penny drop moment.

561
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I did. But I like, I

562
00:28:54,760 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 2: always had a feeling and I always knew. But I

563
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: think every day that we go through life and we

564
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: tackle things and we get through them together is probably

565
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 2: a reminder that you're my person.

566
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool.

567
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeahs So even when like we have like some pretty

568
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: tough things that go on and tough conversations or like

569
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 2: work and business and all those things that we could

570
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: have a fight and legitially like I think some people

571
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: would just be like, fuck this shit, I'm not doing it.

572
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 2: But we kind of navigate it, and then when we

573
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: threw on the other side, we're like, fact, we navigated

574
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: that really well and we feel closer.

575
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

576
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: But then because we navigated it, I'm like, I think that, Yeah,

577
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: that's that tells me you're my person.

578
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: Also as well, like I think traveling and being away

579
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: from you for six months of the year, I think

580
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: a lot of people will go, oh, how do you

581
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: do how can you do that? That's bad, that's sad.

582
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people writing that's so sad, and

583
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's like beautiful. Like it just means

584
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: that you're relationship transformed into like having to have the

585
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: world's best communication ever, but you're also like leaving space

586
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: for one another. That's really good. My moment was date

587
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: number two with your me. We're at that we'll get

588
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: without that Japanese place in Saint Kilda in Melbourne and

589
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: you drop the sushiat of your mouth on the right

590
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: and then mayo went down my face in it. Do

591
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: you remember that I'm not with chopsticks guys? But no,

592
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 1: my moment was I thought that would have been the

593
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: moment that you fell for me.

594
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: To be honest, what you're eating like a slob.

595
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: It was an accident, very hard. No. We were talking

596
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: about our grandparents and you talked about how your grandparents

597
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: wrote each other love letters when one was in Australia

598
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: and one was still back in Italy, and that your

599
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: dad had just found them, and you were talking about

600
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: having read them and you were kind of welling up,

601
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, wow, he.

602
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: Knows real love letter. It wasn't. It wasn't when they

603
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: were a part in Australia, Italy. It was when my

604
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: grandfather was at war, when he was in the army,

605
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: yeap so, and he the letter was the letter that

606
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 2: I told you about that night, was a letter that

607
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: he wrote to my grandmother's brother because he wasn't allowed

608
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 2: to write to my grandmother directly because they weren't married

609
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: or engaged yet. But yeah, he wrote to him, my

610
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 2: grandmother's brother, saying how much he loved and cared for

611
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: my grandmother.

612
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, romance. Yeah, So she eventually obviously saw that letter.

613
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I don't even know, like fifty years

614
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: later or something ridiculous.

615
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: No, but after the war that he came back, she.

616
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 2: Never knew about the letters. No, No, her brother never

617
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 2: told her.

618
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: No what so when did she find out about the letters?

619
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 2: So I'm digressing alone here, But many many years later,

620
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: and I would say fifty years later, my dad's still alive.

621
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: My grandfather had already passed, like twenty years before, he

622
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: had already passed away, maybe longer. My dad went to

623
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 2: Italy and my dad went to his uncle's No maybe

624
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: not his uncles, his uncle's son's house. So hod on,

625
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: So his cousin's his cousin's house in Columbria, and they

626
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: said to my dad, they said, you know, I have

627
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: letters from your father to my father. And Dad was

628
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: like really, and he's like, you know, if you can

629
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: find them, I'd love to see them. And then my

630
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 2: dad's cousin said, come back tomorrow and I'll find the

631
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 2: find the letters. And he came back and then he

632
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 2: gave my dad the letters and.

633
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: He gave them to your dad. So Boss's interior telling

634
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: that story so sweet, very romantic, Oh, bossy, so romantic.

635
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: So did she then find out about it? Did your

636
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: dad then come back and tell her about it?

637
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? Yeah?

638
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: And was she blown away away crying right like cry?

639
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow?

640
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: But she had no idea when they were together that

641
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: that had happened.

642
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: No idea. I don't I don't even like, I don't

643
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: even know how, like it wouldn't have didn't come up,

644
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: or maybe he just assumed that.

645
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: That's a Nicholas Sparks movie. Yeah, gotta be a Spark. No,

646
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: it's Nicholas Sparks, the writer of the Notebook and all

647
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: those long romances, letters and things like many years later.

648
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? There's no water in

649
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: yours take line.

650
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a cutely romantic story.

651
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: We see. Yeah, see, you're right. Yeah, I'm good. Oh

652
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: see that's a hard guys, that's the heart I love. Okay,

653
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 1: next question, oh my fave.

654
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: So far, here we go.

655
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: When's the wedding?

656
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 2: Loll okay. So, so, first of all, no plans as

657
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 2: right now.

658
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: Right now though right now that could change in a

659
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: few months.

660
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: I don't know about months. But in the future, yes, okay,

661
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: in the future, it's definitely a highly likely scenario.

662
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: I'll take that.

663
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 2: But also to put into perspective, right now, you are

664
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 2: traveling a lot, yeah, isn't it. Our lives are quite busy,

665
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 2: which it makes the heartbroke on the boss. So yes,

666
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: in time, in due course, not anytime soon. We're not

667
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: in a particular rush for any of that. Also, I

668
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,879
Speaker 2: feel like our lives are great. We're in a commuter relationship.

669
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 2: Everything is good, everything's nice.

670
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: You're nice. Yeah, yeah, well answered. But I'm just so

671
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: you know, I'm ready when I just.

672
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 2: I find it's just a bit annoying when people ask that,

673
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: to be honest to you, like when you're gonna have kids,

674
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 2: when you get married, like who fucking cares.

675
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: Who knows as well to trust someone else wrote to

676
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: cute you too, that's cute. That's not a question, So

677
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: I'll go on to the next one. How do you

678
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: love birds nourish your connection and keep the spark whilst

679
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 1: in long distance relations? I think it's like we said, communication, communication. Honestly, Yeah,

680
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: we're pretty good. While we were away. We were both

681
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: still seeing our therapist as.

682
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: Well, though, totally.

683
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: I think that helps.

684
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: I think on the relationship level. Yeah, the first couple

685
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,320
Speaker 2: of days or the first week, Yeah, I was a

686
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: little bit like, oh fuck on my own kind of thing.

687
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 1: But your parents came up to visit to Yeah.

688
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 2: My parents had come up, and then yeah, I was

689
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: just like, when things are right and it's how they're

690
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: meant to be, they don't feel bad.

691
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

692
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 2: So I was always like, this is how it is

693
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: meant to be for us right now, and I trusted that.

694
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 2: So I never felt never felt like it was wrong.

695
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 2: I never felt uncomfortable. It always felt normal and natural

696
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 2: and right.

697
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: I like that.

698
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: I like that, and I think on the flip side,

699
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 2: I was always like, well, if roles were reversed, you know,

700
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: like you'd be fine with me. Galivanting.

701
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was thinking because I'm about to book a

702
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: trip to Melbourne and Sydney, and I was like, oh,

703
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: my galvan to be. You don't galivant at all, No,

704
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 1: because you're you ground. Yeah, you're a solid.

705
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 2: I think at this point in life, I'm a little

706
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: bit more happy to yeah, stay put for a little bit.

707
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 2: And I mean in perspective and not comparing other relationships

708
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 2: and other people. But you know, I would work like

709
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 2: DJing clubs and stuff like four nights a week, and

710
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: it was just such a problem and created such issue girls.

711
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 2: Yeah of me being like you know, and also I

712
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 2: was away in a different state for like two years

713
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 2: every second weekend, so I was the one that was traveling.

714
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: And then when I'm back, I'm tired and recovering. So

715
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: it like, I know what it's like to be the

716
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 2: one that's going. But my point is, I think you

717
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 2: and I could handle that a lot better than other

718
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 2: people probably could. It's quite hard.

719
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:34,439
Speaker 1: It is hard.

720
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 2: You do got to have a lot of trust and

721
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: faith in the person and just know that what you're

722
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: both doing is right.

723
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: And I think be really clear, Like I'm very clear

724
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: about my purpose when I'm away like, I don't really Gallivan, Like,

725
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm very much like I'm very like down to the hour,

726
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 1: especially if I've got to Melbourne sitting, it's down to

727
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: the hour with podcasts and like.

728
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: And I think if you understand your partner's purpose, like

729
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: I understand yours, I know that you have to go

730
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 2: off and do those things.

731
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah you just let out of your Sorry, Yeah that's

732
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: my witching hour witch. Okay, next question, how do you

733
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: find the man or woman of your dreams?

734
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,479
Speaker 2: You get first, and get first.

735
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: I think it's therapy working on your own mental health.

736
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: And so once you're like you actually value yourself as

737
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: a human, you know who you are, and you know

738
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: you're what you stand for, what's important to you, then

739
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: I think you're putting a better version of yourself out

740
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 1: there to be in a relationship. And you're not going

741
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: into relationship with expectations. You're just like being true to yourself.

742
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: So I think that would like I until I did

743
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: mental health work and work did therapy, I just had

744
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: a lesson after lesson after lesson when it came to relationships,

745
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: and like, it was pretty horrible because I was just

746
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: like dating the same kind of person that need to

747
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: work on themselves. And it was because you know, they

748
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: say you bring in a mirror, so I would say

749
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: therapy and working on yourself.

750
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, I'll say both those things. I think also

751
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,320
Speaker 2: figuring out what you don't want. Oh yeah, I know

752
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: it sounds like we have a strange thing. But you know,

753
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: people make a list. It's like, oh, you know, I

754
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 2: want to I want a guy that's like six foot

755
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 2: two and has a good job and all these things

756
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: you want, but you ignore the things you don't want.

757
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: So for me, dating other people was a list of like, hey,

758
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: I don't like that quality in a person. I don't

759
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 2: want that quality, or you know, I don't want a

760
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: super party girl anymore. I'm past that point.

761
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 1: Lucky for me.

762
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: Oh lucky for you. But you know the thing is like, yeah,

763
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: like a dated party girls, and I'm like, you know what,

764
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 2: I at some point you gotta be on the same

765
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 2: page about it, or if one person grows out of

766
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 2: that phase. For me, partying is like a job was

767
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 2: a job, and I just yea, I didn't want to

768
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 2: constantly be doing that when I'm not working in it.

769
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, that was a thing. Yeah, just I think

770
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 2: figuring out what you don't want is as equally important

771
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 2: as what you do want, and you don't really figure

772
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 2: that out until you do kind of date other people unfortunately.

773
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: And I think as well, like the commonality that you

774
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,280
Speaker 1: do end up with some of the same value systems.

775
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: Probably you don't have the same dreams of the same careers,

776
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: but like you value the same stuff Like you and

777
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: I love being out in HL, we love honest communication,

778
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: We love dogs and the same breed. Like, yeah, there

779
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: are so many things that where our values and our

780
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: goals are in alignment.

781
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think as well, we're a bit like conditioned

782
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 2: to you know, when you meet something, you need that

783
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 2: spark and excitement and it needs to be fireworks, and yeah,

784
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 2: it always is when you first do meet someone. But

785
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 2: after that you want like a calm love. You want,

786
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 2: like a reliable love. You want you don't want that uncertainty.

787
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 2: You don't want that.

788
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: That's usually a toxic love exactly that our show writes

789
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: about it, like you don't want that fiery, passionate love

790
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: because it doesn't last the test of time, whereas you

791
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: actually want he calls it a cool love where you

792
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: become a teammate, and it's this like calm, sustainable love, Yeah,

793
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: cooler kill love. What's the most important thing aspect to

794
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: you in and about the.

795
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: Relationship, the most important aspect of relationship for us or

796
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 2: in general to us about our relationship. I think it's

797
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 2: just open communication thing between us. I also know and

798
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:48,760
Speaker 2: trust you that you've kind of always got my best

799
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: interests at heart. Not always do you say yes, But

800
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:55,919
Speaker 2: I don't ever doubt that you're not like a good

801
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: person and have the best interest at heart. Like if

802
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: we broke up, I still wouldn't doubt that I would

803
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 2: know that you're still fundamentally a good person that would

804
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 2: want the best for.

805
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: People, totally, totally, And I'm sure that our exits would

806
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: actually probably say the same about us.

807
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 2: Yes, like we're good Eggs good egg.

808
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 1: We said that after we had Lorna Jane Clarkson on

809
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: the podcast, and we got an email after the pod

810
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: because we're trying to figure out when we released that

811
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: episode and what did m her assistant. So we're still

812
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: on a high from Friday and Matt goes, I think

813
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: it's because we're just good people, you and me. We're

814
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: good people.

815
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 2: Put energy to beer out. Actually that was such a

816
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: fun afternoon.

817
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: Well, we hung out for like three hours.

818
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 2: She was meant to come for like forty five minutes,

819
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 2: so that.

820
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: Was how long the pod is.

821
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 2: And then she's like forty one minutes. Yeah, and Lorna

822
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 2: and m sayed for like four hours.

823
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: Shout out, guys, your legends.

824
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 2: Legends.

825
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: Okay, only two more questions. Will Matt come to America?

826
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: Yes, eventually, but not this year? Probably not this year.

827
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: A bit of back like perspective as well. I have

828
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 2: my own life, I have my own work.

829
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

830
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 2: Also we have like Lola coffee, I have commitments. This

831
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 2: has been Lola's dream and this is what she wants

832
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 2: to do, and I support her doing everything she wants

833
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: to do. And that doesn't mean that I stop and

834
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: pack up my own life just for somebody else. Like,

835
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 2: I still have my own life and career, and between

836
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 2: Lola and I like we understand that with each other,

837
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 2: and that's why we let each other do these things.

838
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: I love that.

839
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: Yes, and then but obviously we spend a lot of

840
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 2: time together. But yeah, we have like we'll have six

841
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 2: months apart all in all this year probably maybe a

842
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: bit pinched longer. Yeah, final question, do you buy each

843
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: other Valentine's gifts. No, I think I yeah, I have

844
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 2: in the past. In the past, I think I've bought

845
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 2: you more experiences. I don't actually think I've bought you.

846
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 1: Gifts like last Valentine's did raise Yeah.

847
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think I take it comes out

848
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 2: on Valentine's the Melbourne Zoo one year. Didn't we do

849
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: an experience out of Leamas?

850
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that, Limas or Meercaps, Yeah, I Limas.

851
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: That was Valentine because I had David, the fifteen year

852
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: old leader of the pack, the Liman's. You know, they

853
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: have to stay in the same sex the group, so

854
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 1: it's all boy gangs all but girl gangs. To stop fighting.

855
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 2: That's gone. They fight over each Yeah, we do. But

856
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 2: I really don't think Valentine's is important. I do. I

857
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: love that. I know you love the you love the

858
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 2: idea of it. I don't. I think every year you're

859
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 2: my every day of the year, you're my Valentine.

860
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's nice that we're like getting this

861
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 1: little trip away together.

862
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 2: But we have little date nights, we go on like

863
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: beach adventures, we do little things. Maybes, I think it's

864
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: maybe if people don't have enough time to put into

865
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: relationships and have kids and stuff like that. It is

866
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 2: probably a good excuse to take a break from that

867
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 2: and say hod on, like this is our night, or

868
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 2: we have a day together. Probably not as relevant for

869
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 2: us because we kind of do spend a lot of

870
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: time together anyway, but you know, it's nice to show

871
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: that you care.

872
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: Okay, So that's spoken by a Valentine cynic. I just

873
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: love Valentine. I just love love. But I love all

874
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: like I love Halloween, I love Crimbo, I love like

875
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: every East. I've done an East egg hunt for you.

876
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: I won't be here this Easter. Yeah, I mean now

877
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: Easter egag hunt.

878
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 2: Ah, what am I going to do?

879
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: You'll end up hanging out with for sure. He loved

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00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: my food, so yeah, and you can do what is

881
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: like Greek. He's Greek. Yeah, so you can do like

882
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 1: the red eggs together.

883
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Speaker 2: It might not be Greek Easter. It's day to a

884
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 2: different day, a different day.

885
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: We'll just have me my obile.

886
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: We'll figure it out anyway. It's not a big deal.

887
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: That was our Valentine any any last little messages of love.

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00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 2: Just love each so I love welcome to the love

889
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 2: each other. Every day of the year. Yeah, I think

890
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 2: little things are more important than any special holiday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've got a really sexy voice too, And I

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Speaker 1: might say that in our Valentine.

893
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 2: Thank you by your partner a sex toy and oh

894
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 2: my god.

895
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Speaker 1: When I was in America, bosses like, go downstairs, quick,

896
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Speaker 1: go downstairs. I'm like, it's nine thirty pm at night,

897
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: it's dark. I'm too scared. And he's like, no, no,

898
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 1: it's right at the door. It's right at the door.

899
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: This enormous boxes at the door. Open it and there's

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00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,240
Speaker 1: a small sex toy.

901
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 2: In I think love hunting and having to sale.

902
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you sent me another one into quarantined.

903
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: We've got to respond, one wants a ship deal and

904
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: one Valentine's Day because I'd never been to a sex shop.

905
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 1: Our first Valentine' Day together, you made me walk into

906
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: a sex shop.

907
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you were so embarrassed. Why aren't you.

908
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 1: I just didn't like all diamontes. The diamontes were a

909
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: bit overwhelming because you were pointing in the angle of

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00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: butt plugs.

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00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 2: I was joking, I was not angling. I was trying

912
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 2: to more shock you into just being okay with that.

913
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: That that was a good balance. I've still got the

914
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 1: present that you got me that Valentine's Day.

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00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's nice.

916
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: The goals and manifestos, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cutey cute.

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Speaker 1: I do buy myself Valentine's presence too though. That was

919
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: the year. I also bought myself the the LV bag

920
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: ALV pink Heart bag.

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00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 2: That's a nice bang. I remember that day. It's a

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00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 2: nice adventure.

923
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: That was Valentine's Day. Yeah, okay, I love you, I

924
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: love you to thank you for listening. Thank you again

925
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: for half a million downloads means loads. Can you believe it?

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Speaker 2: Boss, it's already well over half a minion.

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Speaker 1: What are we now?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I haven't looked, but we're already

929
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Speaker 2: like five hundred and thirty or something.

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Speaker 1: Shiving me timbers. Thank you boss It bosses the MVP

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Speaker 1: and obviously does all the editing and makes it all

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Speaker 1: sound wonderful, So thank you, dear sir. This pod will

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Speaker 1: be continuing while I'm away, so Mondays will be your

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Speaker 1: episode pod. I'm already saying to line up some LA

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Speaker 1: based guest and then Fridays will be the Diary, which

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Speaker 1: when I'm not in Byron it will come to you

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Speaker 1: from wherever. Yes, yes, City of Angels. I love you,

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Speaker 1: love you, goodbye, goodbye. That's a wrap on another episode

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Speaker 1: of Fearlessly Failing. As always, thank you to our guests

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Speaker 1: and let's continue the conversation on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lollaberry.

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