WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: What's your WEIRD phobia? 🐎 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:27.240 Come on Friday, Mitch and Laura. Today it's International Women's Day. 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.479 What I want to say is, obviously it's great that 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.640 we celebrate women, wonderful, but should we just be picking 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:34.960 out one day to celebrate them. I might be the 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.480 minority for that feeling, but I feel like men should 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:41.600 have one day and women should be celebrated every day. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:47.400 And I am also here. 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.080 You're irrelevant today because you're not a woman. You didn't 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:49.760 even bring us cupcakes. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.000 Or anything, Mitch, not even. 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:54.960 Radio station, do you know what. 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:56.760 That's why International Women's Day has gotten a bit of 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.240 a bad rap, and it's because often in a lot 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.600 of workplaces, they sort of try and celebrate it, but 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:03.640 they do it in a really benign way by bringing 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.680 in cupcakes and maybe sticking a photo of someone on 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:09.000 the fridge, being like, here's our female team, but we're 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:10.920 so bad at them. But then don't do anything else 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:11.720 throughout the rest of the year. 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:14.840 Yeah, and whilst we complain about that, I would still 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:16.039 like the cupcake. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:17.520 Yeah, And it didn't come. 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.080 To How many brands have reached out to you and 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:20.919 asked you to do International Women's Day stuff? 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:21.880 Not many. 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:24.520 I think International Women's Day is evolving, and I do 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.480 think that every year people are talking about it differently 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.319 in terms of they're talking about the performative side of her. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:33.959 Yeah, a little bit. It's vibe and so I just. 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:35.200 Think it's changing a little bit. 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.119 And I think about where we were three years ago 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.000 talking about it to where we are now and how 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.000 we feel about it, and that's definitely evolved. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:44.839 Speaking of powerful women, Libby Tricket is joining the show 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:49.680 Breaststroke Superstar No One Can Breaststroke. Libby Tricket world record 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:53.760 hold on gold medalist Olympian had a really interesting article 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:56.360 go viral on Mumba about something that an adult friend 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:57.640 of hers said to her child. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.400 It's actually a very good discussion to have. We're going 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:01.600 to have it next here at the pickup. 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:05.840 Now you all would have known about Australian's sweetheart egg. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:09.400 But she's an Olympian. But she's an ex swimmer. Libby Tricketts, 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:12.080 Oh ye, incredible. She's won so many gold medals, she 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.680 still holds records. She's truly amazing. And now she is 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:18.880 a mum of four beautiful children and recently she wrote 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:21.280 an article for Mama Mia around something that her eight 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:22.919 year old experienced. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:23.400 And it really. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.400 I mean as a mum, it really struck me, but 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:28.120 also just as a woman. It's something that I think 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:31.560 everybody has been through at some point in their life, 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.960 and that is conversations around your weight and especially as 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.720 your body changes. Now, Libby's little girl is eight years old, 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:39.680 and we have her on the phone, not the little girl. 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.840 We have Libby on the phone to talk about it. 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:44.000 Hi Libby, Hi Libby, Welcome to the show. 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.560 Thank you so much for having me on. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:48.720 Libby. 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:49.720 What has happened? 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:52.200 Because there's a lot of dialogue between something that's gone 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:54.280 down between some of your friends and something they said 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:54.840 to your daughter. 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:59.920 Basically what happened was I was in the kitchen area, 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:02.480 just around the corner from where my daughter was with 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:07.840 someone close to us, and they basically said to her, Oh, Poppy, 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:11.560 you look like you've lost weight. You're looking fantastic. Your 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:14.160 daughter lost right, Yeah, to my eight year old, like 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:19.320 directly to her. And because I wasn't in the exact presence, 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.720 but you know, was overhearing the conversation, I was just 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.040 completely shocked to the point that I had no words. 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.160 I felt really annoyed at myself that I didn't kind 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.480 of call it out in the moment, but I actually 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:34.560 think it was for the best because then I could 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.440 pull Poppy aside later, try not to make too big 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:40.280 a deal of it. And we just basically said, look, 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.840 this is not how we talk about bodies. That's not 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.640 what is valuable. What we care about as a family 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.480 is that you know, we're moving our bodies, we're healthy, 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.200 we're strong, and we're fueling it in the ways that 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.600 is what is needed. She's eight years old, right, like, 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:58.560 this is just so far from her brain and I. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:03:59.960 Shouldn't have to be living. That's the thing. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:01.720 It breaks my heart to think that she would. Then 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:04.360 she could then go and look in the mirror and go, wait, 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:05.160 am I bigger? 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:05.640 Do I? 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:06.040 Do? 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:07.000 I look fat? 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:09.720 It is something that I think all of us have 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:13.360 experienced on some level. I know my sister is in 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.880 a larger body and has been most of her life 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.960 and has recently lost a significant amount of weight, and 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:23.240 she just is horrified by how much better she's treated now. 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:28.159 And that's terrific. Like we shouldn't as a society, we 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.400 shouldn't be doing that stuff. But it starts at eight 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:34.640 years old when someone says something that seemingly on the 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:38.920 surface is a compliment, right, it's something that is totally 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.680 but we're saying that she looks great, you know, but 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:46.040 that things that maybe she looks worse before, or you know, 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:49.719 from the person's perspective, she looked worse before, and that 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:54.599 can get internalized and there's insidious, little toxic comments becomes 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:57.320 something that this never should have been anything. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.560 Do you think it's generational though, because you know, I 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.080 think all of us are growing and we're raising our 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:03.880 children in a more of a conscious way because we 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.320 think about the things that we experienced as kids and whatnot. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:09.200 But it is sometimes the older generation. I don't want 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:12.000 to stereotype, but that's where some of the negative comments 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:12.560 can come from. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:17.560 Absolutely, And you know, this person is of an older generation, 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.560 and we spoke to them, right, and we had the 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.320 conversation directly with them. We said, this isn't how we 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:26.719 talk about bodies now. We don't talk about weight, we 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.200 don't talk about, you know, how we look. We talk 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:33.719 about being kind and funny and smart and hard working, 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.560 and that's what is valuable, not what we look like. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.479 But you know, as a society, we still have a 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:44.800 huge issue with looks and that being the value of 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:46.839 someone's important. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.760 Were they okay with it once you explain it to 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.200 them like your friend, they understand the problem and where 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:51.760 they went wrong. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:58.080 Yeah, they actually responded really well and that washeartening, I think. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:02.200 But I also know that that is conditioning for them, 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:05.960 because I then overheard them say something about someone else 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:10.920 in another conversation. They're conditioned right that that's how they 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:14.279 were brought up, that's what was valuable to them. And 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.240 so I'm going to still be very conscious when these 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:21.000 people are around us, because you know, it's hard to 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:25.440 know that those behaviors will change immediately. I think over 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.680 the long term it will change, but it's being conscious. 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.400 You know about what is happening in our house and 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.200 what my girls are exposed to, what Alfie my son 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.440 is exposed to, and be open to having those conversations 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.400 because I think the thing that we experienced is that 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:43.480 it was just all swept under the rug. We wouldn't 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.159 even approach it. We'll just kind of internalize it and 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.520 get sad and completely different times. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:50.080 I went all the way ins with my mum when 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:51.760 she was on white watches as a kid. That's what 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:53.520 made me game. You were shocked when I came out. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:54.960 It's because I was with all the women going. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:55.800 Did you lose weight this week? 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.320 Always game? 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:00.960 All right, leave you Triggert. 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:01.200 Thank you. 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.120 If you want to read that article, it's on momama 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:03.960 dot com. 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:05.640 Go to read thank you for coming on the pickup. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.520 We adore you my absolute pleasure. Guys. 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:10.680 Hey, guys, a completely different switch here. You know how 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:14.040 I have this phobia of spiders. Yeah, okay, I have 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:17.400 had the funniest encounter with the trade at my house, 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.240 and I've realized that I'm not the only one. 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:21.440 I gotta tell you about it after the break a right, 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:22.320 that's next on the pickup. 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:28.800 I'm proper scared spiders, like you are? You? Even thinking 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:30.600 about it makes me vomit in my mouth. But you know, 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.280 when you can picture one in your room, you spiders 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:33.880 don't bother me. 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.000 Really, I like them. 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:37.920 I just think that they're pretty harmless unless you've got 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:39.000 a trapdoor or something. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.280 Our house was for some reason. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.320 I pictured a doggy door where the spiders came in. 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:48.960 I met a trapdoor spider. But yeah, no, they just 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:49.720 don't bother me. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:53.760 Well, I have this thing right where I'm pitch fright 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:56.960 of them. But I've always lived alone, so it's really hard. 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:58.960 So when something happens with a spider, I have to 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.440 deal with it on my own. I always wished, and 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:04.600 I hate to say this out loud, especially on International Wednesday, 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:06.560 but I always wish that I had a man around 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.120 to do that kind of stuff. 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.400 Do you kill him or do you catch him in 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:11.320 a jar and let him go out? 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:15.440 She Ki does it, Mallet, she. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:16.119 Gets the list. 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:18.680 She doesn't chop them, mark she does. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:21.640 She gets a pair of chicken. Sheers save them. 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:23.360 I get a glass and I put a glass over it, 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:24.640 a piece of paper. That's the way that. 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.240 Okay, mother Teresa, all right, attack who has the time 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.480 to get an aprey piece of paper and some clad glue? 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:31.560 Grow up, grow up. 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:33.040 Go get your trapped door. 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:35.440 I I know. 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:38.120 I try to save them when I can, But if 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.160 they're in my bedroom and they're gonna get lost in 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.000 my Douner cover or something, I'm sorry, but I have 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:42.480 to kill. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.480 See that's where your brain goes. They're not going to 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:45.400 get lost. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.440 Are you kidding? I woke up with a huntsman on 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.000 my face. It's a huntsman. It's not gonna hurt you. 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:52.000 It's like a cockroach. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.960 I actually have birds because they do they help. 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.760 I won't even tell you my story. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:00.160 To help the birds. 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:01.960 What was this spider? 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:08.360 There was a spider that I have never seen before. 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:10.520 And by that I don't mean he hasn't visited me before. 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:11.040 I mean a. 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.000 Type of spider I have never agreed. 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:16.240 It was above my car I lived in under the 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.080 ground garbage. 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:21.640 By the way Britain, Hawaii with Zuckerberg. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:26.240 Anyway, above my car was this huge, mongous spider that 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:28.960 I haven't seen before, like huge, and I'm talking about 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:33.120 all these It looked dangerous, white stripes, red like like oh, 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:35.559 it looked like if anything was going to eat me, 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:36.960 this spider was going to And there was a bit 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:38.920 of the web that was attached to my car, and 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:40.400 a bit of the web was that was attached to 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.760 the person's car next to me. So I knew that 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.600 this spider had made plans to travel south to my car, 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:46.320 and I was worried. 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.760 He was fifty to fifty at this. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:50.160 Point, but I was worried he was going to get 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.240 into my car and then I was going to die 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.520 on the highway. So there's a tradesman that was like 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:58.720 floating around my house, and I was like, oh, perfect. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.480 So I put a bit of a scar on and 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:03.440 I went outside and I flattered my eyelids and I 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.920 was like, excuse me, sir, and he was like yes. 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:07.560 I was like, oh, can I ask you the biggest 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:08.240 favor I ever? 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:10.400 And he's like sure, what is it? 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:12.000 I was like, I just needed to help me with 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.680 something in the garage and he was like, okay, sure, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:17.559 no worries. And I was like, it's a spider. He's like, 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:18.880 what do you mean he's a spider. I said, there's 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:20.679 a really big spider of my car, and I just 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:21.720 I would just love. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.880 For you to get rid of it and help me out. 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.000 And he goes, hang on a minute. He's like, how 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.079 big is this spider? And I was like, well, it's 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:29.720 pretty big. That's why I want you to help me. 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:31.959 And I could tell that he was starting to drop 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:33.480 nuggets a little bit, and I was like, oh no, 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:34.560 this guy's not gonna help me. 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.760 So I was like, just just follow me, come down. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:37.200 So I follow. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.800 So I took him to the garage, just trying this. 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.240 He goes, oh, there is no way, I ain't touching nothing, 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:46.920 and the big manly Trady refused to save me from 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:47.320 this spike. 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:49.640 He was scared of me, A big manly trading was 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:50.120 scared of it. 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.880 I don't think that just because you're a man means 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.800 that you have the You know that you have the 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.840 bravery to go up against the spider. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.760 So similarly against it, you were scared. 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:02.040 But I think it's it's unfair to expect it just 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:03.800 because someone's a man, that they will be less scared 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.679 than you. And I say this because a very similar 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.200 thing happened to me recently. We've got like a we 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:11.360 have like the world's dumbest little spar, like a nineties 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.520 spar in our backyard, and we had a guy come 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:14.199 over and clean it. 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:15.719 He had to pull the lid off its. The whole 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:16.959 thing was green inside, disgusting. 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:18.880 Anyway, he pulls a lid off it and there was 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:22.120 this humongous huntsman. I'm talking like the whole like think 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:22.760 about the top. 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:25.360 Of a coffee mug. Like it was huge. And he 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:28.920 pulled the lid off and he ran and screamed. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:32.360 Down my backyard. This was a four grown burly man screaming. 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:33.840 He's like, oh, I'm sorry. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.600 I love Spiders are the one things that do me 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:37.760 over and I was like, okay, I'll go get it. 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:39.280 It start to walk in soid I get a piece 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:41.160 of paper from the craft box and a cup and 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:42.120 I'm then I had to rescue it. 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.360 I feel like everyone has a little phobia that it 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.920 would surprise them, you know, like spiders. I'm not worried 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.720 about spiders at all, but a magpie, I will not 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:49.360 look them in the eye. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.120 Those things. Don't trust magpie. Don't trust. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:53.920 You're not supposed to turn you back on a magpie. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:54.680 That's when they get he. 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:56.480 Never had a good conversation with a magpie. 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:00.880 My my deep phobia is you eating ingum in the studio? 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:01.040 Oh? 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:01.240 Yeah? 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:03.240 If I eat chewing gum, that sets Laura a light. 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:06.320 Thirteen one oh six five. What's your phobia? What's going 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:08.440 on in your life that we could help cue you for? 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:09.680 Maybe we can help you. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.000 You get some unique phobias. 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.000 I want to phobias that we go no way, you're 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:16.040 scared of that? Yeah, shock phobias. Yeah, all right, calls 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.520 here at the pick up. If you're just tuning into 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:19.959 the show, maybe tune out. 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:23.840 Don't tune out, don't change it. We're about to. 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:27.040 Get to the bottom of like the biggest weirdest phobias. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:29.480 Yeah, because Britt is terrified of spiders and have one 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.239 in her subterranean palace that no one would. 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:32.400 Help me with. 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.000 Yes, And also I think that there is a misconception 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.520 that men should be braver when it comes to spiders. 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.280 I think it doesn't matter if you're a guy or 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.440 a girl, whatever's going on. If you're scared of spiders, 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:44.160 you scared of spiders totally, Jesse, Are you scared of spiders? 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:45.080 Tell us what you're scared of. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:45.600 Yeah. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.920 I hate spiders, but I'm actually petrified of cock croaches. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.840 I hate them to hurt you, though, what are they 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:52.480 going to notice that? 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.800 I think it's because they're quick. They're really quick, and 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:56.640 they you. 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.720 Recently I discovered they can fly at you, and that's 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:01.280 just oh beside myself. 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:04.640 Apparently, surprisingly, they're quite clean. They're really clean. 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:07.480 Which is currently they're only attracted to clean houses. But 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:09.679 I feel I don't like them, like. 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:11.640 I'm getting the heavy geebies and like the sweats. 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:12.160 Just talking. 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:13.400 There's something now. 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:15.760 Yeah, there's something about the fact that they can withstand 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:19.040 a nuclear bomb that just is really because you can 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.320 smash them with a R M. Williams boot all you want, 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:24.480 but no, those things are living us. Hey, Maddie, are 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.000 you phobia by what? 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.280 I'm a phobia of tsunamis. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.400 Where I have a phobia quicksand but I think we've 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:33.880 been lied to. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.480 Okay, So why is scared? What's what's caused this? 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:39.160 Well, when I was six years old, went to Thailand 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:41.600 on a family holiday and Mum and. 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:44.040 Dad thought it'd be just a fabulous idea to buy 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.000 the Thailand tsunami documentary. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.200 Ah, it's terrizing. 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:52.280 Yeah, so six years old, we watched the documentary in 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:55.720 the Thailand hotel and ever since has been absolutely petrified. 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.640 And yeah, I thought. 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:00.640 Them the Pean River, We're going to have a pin 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:02.400 river possible. 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.840 No's terrorizing your children. Don't take them on a holiday 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.520 and then show them the worst thing that's happened. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.120 I guess the good thing Mattie though, is it soon? 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.440 I'm as you get warning because it's normally there's an 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:12.560 earthquake that tsunami. 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:14.400 You're never going to get a random tsunami. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:17.280 Yes you can, because sometimes the earthquakes are so minute 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:18.240 that you don't feel them. 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:18.960 Surprised. 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.360 That makes me feel so much better. 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:25.840 Yeah, great job, Britt, Then call up and we'll help 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:26.600 you with your fears. 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.160 Were actually could happen anywhere? 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:29.400 Amy? 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.560 On thirteen one or six five? What's your weird phobia? 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:33.359 Horses? 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:36.240 The majestic and beautiful? 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:37.440 Do you have a bad experience? 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.480 Absolutely not majestic and beautiful? 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.119 In my eyes, they are terrifying. 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.120 What what about them? Like? Did you did something happen? 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:45.840 Was there? Did you fall of a horse? Get kicked 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:46.360 by a horse? 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:47.160 Laura? 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:49.680 We went to the same high schools that Mary's. Oh, 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.080 no way. I don't know if you remember the year 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.680 seven I think it was year seven camp. There was 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:57.640 some sort of farm involved and we had to go 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:58.320 horse writing. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.920 Yes, one hundred percent, I remember this, clears it. Wait, 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:02.960 we're in the same year in years. 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:04.800 I was a couple of years below you. 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.240 Okay, what was she like at school? 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:11.560 I was always in trouble, So you had the same 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:13.040 horse experiences, Amy. 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:14.800 It's like part of like school camp. You would go 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:16.480 and there was it's like. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.280 A trail ride and I remember saying to the teacher, 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.800 I don't want to do that, and they were like, no, 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:24.240 get on the horse, and I boiled my eyes out. 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:27.040 The whole time, because I just we're so terrified of 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.160 this thing, and it was probably just this poor little 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:29.640 I don't know. 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:33.120 Probably probably were girls who are mean off the back 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:33.640 of it as well. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.360 You can catch up privately. That's good for you too, 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.920 But everyone else, I. 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:39.520 Have an update. 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.640 Yeah, I was also doing some googling while you're talking. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:46.040 In six days time, on March fourteen, there is actually 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:49.520 a day dedicated to spiders. There's a Spider Day National 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.560 Spider It's called Save a Spider Day, and it is 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:56.000 to help reduce a rachnophobia or the fear of spiders 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:57.480 and help conserve spiders. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.720 So Saturday it is for you, so that we can 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.080 start saving the spiders with a little cup and a 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:02.800 piece of paper. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:04.120 There really is a day for everything. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.600 Is Also we have one last called Buttercup. Is called 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.280 butter Cup on thirty one O six five. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:12.720 Same. 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:14.680 The only thing I want to say about that brick. 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:16.680