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Speaker 2: We must always remember that under the concrete and asphalt

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Speaker 2: I'm Rumby. Hi, I'm Amanda. Welcome to its lad In

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Speaker 2: my gosh, Roomby, Welcome to Melbourne. Thank you. It's been

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Speaker 2: But no, I'm so excited. I've only been here for

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Speaker 1: Get to do this like recording in studio, something you've

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Speaker 1: Well, I think it's been such a long time since

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Speaker 1: Oh, who's the most likely to start a controversial conversation?

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Speaker 2: I think both of us, but I think Amanda more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would think something happened with you and Tom.

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Speaker 1: What's one story about us that you're definitely gonna tell

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Speaker 1: It's always been no way with you. I've never seen

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Speaker 1: In another life, I am a singer, and the life

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Speaker 2: I think you'd be next in fashion? Claim it? Claim

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Speaker 1: People think like I think it's like a pop culture

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Speaker 1: Is there one? BuzzFeed is what buzz pop?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm not letting that one clearly. I'm like, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they don't realize it as well. Self

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Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than telling someone something that's so them

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Speaker 2: I think only in adulthood. In the last few years,

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Speaker 2: what's something we've gone through together that's hilarious now even

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Speaker 1: It's the first tie that like just wand my livers.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I don't think people listening to this podcast aren't

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Speaker 2: Don't say that, Okay, don't say that. But I remember,

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Speaker 2: date flaked on me. And then last minute replacement replacement

430
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: through someone and we were in class with and so

431
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:10,919
Speaker 2: this person ended up being super clean and just annoying.

432
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: And it takes a lot to annoy me, does it?

433
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 2: But like I found that time, I took a lot

434
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: to annoy me, and he was super cleaning and was

435
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 2: so frustrating, and I started running away this guy the

436
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: whole night. And then I like go to a man

437
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh gosh, I remember we took photos

438
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: and he wanted to be in the photo. And I've

439
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 2: never been so rude. Yeah, like shut him down, like

440
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: and running. I ran away the whole night. Then I

441
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: think something happened with this brother having to go to hospital.

442
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: He's like, no, I'll stay here with you, and I

443
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 2: was like, don't go to go he needs please go, please,

444
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 2: please don't stay. So that's a funny story, Like, but

445
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 2: then I was so annoyed, Like it was just annoying. Yeah,

446
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 2: being set up.

447
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: By people before the age of the internet was not

448
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 1: good because you're like, kin't even say, can you show

449
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 1: me its profile?

450
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, hello, you have to trust and quote unquote

451
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 2: someone's reference terrible.

452
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, if someone told you had gone viral on TikTok overnight,

453
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: what would you assume I was doing in the video.

454
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 2: I don't know why I'm laughing. It's going back to

455
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 2: the vaseline one. Oh my gosh, you're not going to

456
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,199
Speaker 2: be the people. But like I think we have a

457
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 2: story where we were on holiday and we were traveling

458
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 2: with some person and then they were causing drama and

459
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: Amanda had had it like.

460
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: She was here and she was like stop doing that,

461
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: like and they cried, You're.

462
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: Not gonna be and then she was like hold your friend,

463
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 2: your sister whatever. Like it was so like I'll live

464
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 2: forget her being so mad, and I was just like,

465
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. So like it's it's a viral moment.

466
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 1: I think for you to be singing, I don't know

467
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: why you're not singing room being Maybe I'm always sending

468
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: you like I'm that friend someone's saying doing a TikTok challenge.

469
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: I'm likebbe yeah, she send it to me, And I

470
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 2: was like, waiting for your viral moment.

471
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: And I'll just be the friend from the world and

472
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: I'll be differendrom.

473
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 2: Remember it's supposed to be my stylist. Yes, okay, I

474
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 2: want to be differend. I want to be the what's

475
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 2: her name, Melissa is it? Oh? Yeah, Rianna. I'll be

476
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 2: a photographer something that I don't know that you can

477
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 2: be a stylist. Okay, let's work. Okay, fine, you just

478
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 2: come along for the ride exactly. Okay. The next one

479
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: for you is what are my biggest green flags?

480
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: Oh? How generous you are with your time, with your energy,

481
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: which is so funny because that's maybe that's what's training.

482
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: You're giving too much in the way, I think, so yeah,

483
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: maybe keep something.

484
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 2: That's why I keep the group small, like the friends,

485
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like I want to be committed, like

486
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: one hundred percent, and and then if they're too many people,

487
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 2: it's hard for me to be like, no, you only

488
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 2: get ten percent.

489
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 1: And you've always been able to see things from different angles,

490
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: which I think when you that's why we're saying they're

491
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: rolling vessel. And I'm like, okay, if I'm gonna be

492
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: that friend, then I can't have I need you.

493
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 2: Because then you're gonna be like girl, are you sure? Yeah?

494
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 2: Right there. Some friends were just like Okay, it was hot,

495
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:20,719
Speaker 2: we'll be hot.

496
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 1: There's some friends it's cold, now, will be cold, you know,

497
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: whereas I think you'd be like, okay, but did you

498
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: look at it from the different which can be very confronting. Yeah,

499
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: because obviously if you're sensitive about something someone says, have

500
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: you thought You're like, no, just look at it from

501
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: my ankle player, you know, but you're like.

502
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 2: No, did you consider this? Yeah?

503
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: And I think that's a valuable thing for people to

504
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: have in a social circle.

505
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 2: Thank you. I'll take that shill for me. You're green flags.

506
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: I think you're just like consistently there, like I don't

507
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 2: know how to explain it, and non judgmental. I think

508
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: I judge myself first, and then I'll tell Amanda something

509
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: and think she's gonna judge me. She's like why the hell,

510
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 2: Like no, there's no way I'll do. You're very supportive

511
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: in that, and you care about the person's well being.

512
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm here for you as long as

513
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: you can get because someone may be like, yes, you

514
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: must get your ish together. I don't care, but like

515
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 2: you're patient in that way. I love that about you,

516
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 2: and I love that. I guess the whole premise of

517
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: this podcast, right is like you can we can delve

518
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 2: together and be like what about this? And it's like, oh,

519
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 2: what about this? And it's okay to have differing perspectives

520
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 2: on things. Yes, you know, even if you're good friends.

521
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: And I think That's very important because you can't be,

522
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 2: as we say, an echo chamber all the time. Yeah,

523
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 2: and you're just loving and kind and just you really thoughtful,

524
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 2: very thoughtful about others, thoughtful about whether it's gifts, but

525
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 2: you really think about a person first and try to

526
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 2: be there for them and make them happy in the

527
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 2: way that they can receive, which is because sometimes you do.

528
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes you give what you would like to get, like

529
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: I had, I was taking it. I'll give you this handback, girl.

530
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: I was taking a course and this class meet was like, oh,

531
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: his friend gifted him a Star Wars tea shirt and

532
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 2: people are like, oh, do you like Star It's like, no,

533
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 2: my friend and my friend is someone who loves Star,

534
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,239
Speaker 2: wasn't He was like, here's a T shirt? You know,

535
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: so people could do that, But you're very considerate of War.

536
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: I think there's libra energy. Do you have spend time

537
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: as of libras? We're very like balanced really and I

538
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: even think, Okay, the most famous one I can think

539
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:31,959
Speaker 1: of is Kim k Please. I don't know why I'm

540
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: using as a reference point, but I am. But like, yeah,

541
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: I think she also has within the family strong stoic

542
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: when she's actually quite sensitive. Yes, that's you know, the

543
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: one who's thoughtful, the one.

544
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Libra. Sorry, I don't know much about time.

545
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: You're Leo, which is why I don't know why you

546
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: think you're an interit as a Leo.

547
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: Do you know? I get you. I've been called the

548
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: leo because we don't have a great rip. You're not

549
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 2: a leo my mind. Your energy is not like but

550
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 2: people tell me like, yeah, but you like attention and

551
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: all that. So that's why I think the first impression question. Yeah, yeah,

552
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 2: that's I need to learn. Because there's the there's this,

553
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: then there's the moon sight, what's the earth? Oh yeah,

554
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 2: the time? So you have different yeah yeah, you have

555
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: different elements, so I need to find out what the

556
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: other thing is.

557
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

558
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what balance. Yeah yeah, yeah, balance is me.

559
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 1: If someone told you I was arrested, please do not

560
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: bring up the sale without giving any additional explanation.

561
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: What's the first assumption you'd make about it and why

562
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 2: they got the wrong person? Oh girl, thank you, you're

563
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 2: a true friend. Because I was like, I was going

564
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 2: to say then I'm like, actually, I'll be like, no,

565
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 2: it's not that deep. Yeah, we're arrested girl. I'm too

566
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: cute from she said, I'd be like and also a

567
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: man is very like logical. She's like, I got a kid,

568
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 2: I need to like, I support family. I had like,

569
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: there's no time to be missed on that. It's not

570
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: that deep.

571
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: Unless it's false accusations. Yeah, but then funny thing is

572
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: also being Zimbabwean.

573
00:28:58,680 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: Can you imagine nothing?

574
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, people like, what were you doing? I

575
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: think for you it would be again case of mistaken

576
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: I cannot see it be.

577
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: Really like, yeah, I think a suppose we overthink everything.

578
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: So we're like trying to make sure you get all

579
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 2: the road Definitely, I think so. And for you, we're

580
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: on a road trip and you hand me the ors cable,

581
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: what song of artists do I put on? First? Beyonce?

582
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 2: Anything Beyonce first? You guys on my Spotify wrap, I

583
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: was told that I'm with the one percent of Beyonce,

584
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: and I'm like house sway, okay. I like Bey but

585
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 2: not like you clearly do. I'm not like that. I'm

586
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: not a b I really say I'm not a Bee Hyper.

587
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 2: I don't think I think I'm a secret bee Hyper.

588
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: I think so, But I definitely a hyper, I'm not certified.

589
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 2: In my head, I'm like, I'm more of a Solange

590
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 2: girl as much as she's not in your face like that.

591
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 2: Do you think you like solangees vibe? Yeah, vibe or

592
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 2: maybe Beyonce is more accessible I feel so, yeah, but

593
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 2: so she's there. I like Solange songwriting. I like how

594
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: she layers, you know, in her music so much because

595
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: Brandy is one of my favorite artists. But when she

596
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 2: does her harmonies, like she really and it's not so

597
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 2: much about the power, it's about the intricacies. But on

598
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: a day to day you know, I'll play Beyonce to

599
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 2: be fair.

600
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think Beyonce people gets people HiPE each

601
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: other way.

602
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

603
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: So like renaissance at the moment is just like if

604
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: that's the moment, the restaurant is always a constant, but

605
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,479
Speaker 1: maybe more in the background. Yeah, like I'm cleaning, I'll

606
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: put the Solange, but I'm going out beyond for sure

607
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: for sure. But also don't like putting them against other

608
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: That's what the.

609
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: Completely different leagues of like totally.

610
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: And also I think Beyonce we grew up with her, like, yeah,

611
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: you know this since child we were growing up, she

612
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: was that girl, she's like a big cis energy.

613
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: Definitely, I think you If it's not Beyonce, I think

614
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: you do like a burner. Some afro has been my

615
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 2: top artist and four Yeah that's I love his raps.

616
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: Just be giving me props for that. Berner, Yeah, definitely,

617
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: I love his b D.

618
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: Like he just gives you like that, come correct, correct

619
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: otherwise I will miss up. He will tell you now.

620
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: He's the one to face like what are you saying? Yeah,

621
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: for sure. I watched this, like you know, these magazines

622
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: have these YouTube interviews and he had to try different

623
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 2: food or whatever. Literally was just like I'm not trying that,

624
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: Like like he gives that and he's like, Nope, not

625
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: doing that. He's sure of himself. Definitely, very sure. So

626
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: I asked you about getting arrested. Are we doing? Where

627
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: are we? Girl? We're finished. That's the end of it.

628
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: I need to do run on ice breakst Sorry. I'm

629
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: hoping for one certain one clearly, So why don't you

630
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: just as he is most likely to write a book

631
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: that the one I wanted, So I must answer.

632
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: I think I would. I don't know. Do you think

633
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: that's correct? Yes?

634
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: Generally, and you should. I had this pipe dream of

635
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: doing it while I was a maternity leader. Okay, any

636
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: mother out there must be laughing at that now, because

637
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: you're smung some When was I going to be in

638
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: the middle of pumping and breastfeeding and doing all of

639
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: that writing a book.

640
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 2: But I have that on my heart as all that

641
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 2: I want to What would you write about? Do you know?

642
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: I think it'll be set as an autobiography, but it's

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Speaker 1: not to be a story, but very heavily inspired by

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Speaker 1: my life. Okay, you know, I think having like my mom,

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Speaker 1: you know, terminally ill at a young age, it just

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Speaker 1: gives you that life.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say, that's a wild thing. Like when

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Speaker 2: I think about it, I'm just like girls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think creating itself is its own big So

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Speaker 1: I think I want a story in and around that.

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Speaker 1: And also the craziness of Zimbabwe, Like literally, if you

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Speaker 1: think about the things that we face, like people talk

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Speaker 1: about COVID, like, oh my god, you know, so much

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Speaker 1: happened in two three years, and I'm like check. Coming

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Speaker 1: from Zimbabla, we grew up thinking.

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Speaker 2: Our country was mine, traumatized.

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Speaker 1: Then all of a sudden we're like, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: now we have to leave too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then.

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Speaker 1: Now like family dynamics are all warped because we live

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Speaker 1: away from family. Like even Christmas, you coming over such

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Speaker 1: a huge thing. Otherwise it's just going to be matile

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Speaker 1: German and I having our food and calling it a day,

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Speaker 1: like it's not a big thing. And I think people

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Speaker 1: assume these things like you're close to family, But Zimbabwe

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Speaker 1: is just like shattered that whole idea.

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Speaker 2: And I think we grew up first because of the

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Speaker 2: way I don't know, like pretty much.

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Speaker 1: I mean knowing about economy and stuff like at a

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Speaker 1: young age or not being able to afford Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I always laugh. Remember when in history we learned about

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Speaker 2: you know, the Second World War and also Germany hyperinflation

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Speaker 2: and how they use wheelbarrows to go vibrand and we're like,

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Speaker 2: oh ho, meanwhile, meanwhile, that was reaching around the corner

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Speaker 2: for us.

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Speaker 1: And I also find it quite sad that every term,

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Speaker 1: remember school would give us a letter yes, and we

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Speaker 1: obviously opened it sorry parents, and it would like have

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Speaker 1: our fees for the next and then it won't be like.

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Speaker 2: Say bye, maybe it won't be here next year. You

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Speaker 2: don't know if your parents parents.

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Speaker 1: It was very real, all right, yeah, it's true and

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Speaker 1: the next time we'll be there.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, parents, thank you, thank you for sure. Well.

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed this episode. Was a nice like warm up.

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Speaker 2: It's so surreal, so beautiful having you here. I'm pinching

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Speaker 2: myself all the time. It hasn't registered for me, to

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Speaker 2: be honest, like, I'm still like what, but so grateful

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Speaker 2: to be here. Thank you. Amanda's welcomed this with such

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Speaker 2: warm open arms and just grateful that we can do this,

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Speaker 2: you know, the studio like definitely a moment we'll share

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Speaker 2: with our kids. Bringing back here question definitely anyway, So

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Speaker 2: thanks for listening and we look forward to catching on

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Speaker 2: our next episode. Bye, guy Zitos.