Speaker 1: Laura, come on, hell everyone welcome.
Speaker 2: Who watched The Bachelor? Okay, I'm sick for it. Like
Speaker 2: I love The Bachelor.
Speaker 3: You've got a husband and two kids from the show.
Speaker 4: I know, I feel like maybe I am a little
Speaker 4: bit biased, but I actually do love watching it and
Speaker 4: the fact that they've got the three bachelors now, like
Speaker 4: it's weird, it feels different.
Speaker 2: I know they did it last year, but I'm into it.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 3: So Laura, if you were on the show now and
Speaker 3: you had to go and pick your.
Speaker 4: I mean, my husband can hear this, but that's fine.
Speaker 4: Pleasure is the lumberjack one, the Luke Luke.
Speaker 2: Why just he just you know why? Okay.
Speaker 4: On the first episode, he was talking about how he
Speaker 4: was engaged before and then he broke up with his
Speaker 4: ex and that relationship didn't work out. But it was
Speaker 4: the way in which he spoke about his ex. He said, oh,
Speaker 4: you know, I was once engaged to someone who I
Speaker 4: love so much. She was an incredible person, and things
Speaker 4: don't just sometimes don't work.
Speaker 2: Out the way you expected them to. Just the way
Speaker 2: he spoke about his ex, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: this is.
Speaker 5: A good man's on a.
Speaker 3: TV show is the leading man. What did you think
Speaker 3: he was going to stay?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: I don't know him. This is no judgment, but like,
Speaker 2: come on.
Speaker 4: He could have said I was heartbroken, you know, things
Speaker 4: didn't work out. He could have made it about himself,
Speaker 4: but instead he said really lovely things about her, and
Speaker 4: I thought that that says a lot.
Speaker 2: About a person.
Speaker 5: It does look good in overalls with an accident.
Speaker 2: Here are you picking?
Speaker 1: I didn't watch it, but I like Usha quick Gosha
Speaker 1: and he looks the most gay. He looks the most gay.
Speaker 1: It's seven thirty on Channel ten tonight. If you want
Speaker 1: to watch the new season of the Bachelor, Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: give it a go. I'm excited for it.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 4: Well, coming up, if you are in a long term
Speaker 4: relationship and you're a female, there is quite an alarming
Speaker 4: study that has come out that says that a lot
Speaker 4: of women might have back up boyfriends in mind.
Speaker 5: Oh all right, that's all on the here at the pickup.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: So I came across a new study recently, and the
Speaker 4: findings of this study are very controversial. It really pertains
Speaker 4: to you more than it does to me. But I
Speaker 4: want to know how you feel about this. Okay, So
Speaker 4: this is the findings. Fifty percent of women in relationships
Speaker 4: have a backup partner.
Speaker 2: Now what rubbish?
Speaker 4: Okay, wait wait wait, What that means is not that
Speaker 4: you have somebody already on the go or anything like that,
Speaker 4: but just that most women who are in relationships have
Speaker 4: somebody in the periphery of their mind who they could
Speaker 4: go to if things fell.
Speaker 2: Flat in their relationship.
Speaker 4: Now, like a kind of like a just in case emergency,
Speaker 4: pull the ripcord kind of person.
Speaker 3: It took me the better part of ten years to
Speaker 3: find the first person to be in the relationship with.
Speaker 2: How are these people finding backup?
Speaker 5: Who has an understudied partner? Wait?
Speaker 3: And like, do you have to like stay in some
Speaker 3: sort of contact with his people to make sure that
Speaker 3: they're staying on your level to fill.
Speaker 5: Yes, like a six weekly checking in. This is dumb.
Speaker 3: This is so dumb. If you are listening right now
Speaker 3: and you have a backup person for your relafelationship, I'm
Speaker 3: going to tell you some groundbreaking news.
Speaker 2: You're in the wrong relationship.
Speaker 3: If you are already backing up that your relationship isn't
Speaker 3: going to work.
Speaker 2: Call it quits now.
Speaker 4: Yes, but what if it's still early doors. Okay, like
Speaker 4: you're saying this, what if you've only been dating for
Speaker 4: six months or seven months or something, and you're in it,
Speaker 4: but you're not one hundred percent sure if they're one
Speaker 4: hundred percent and.
Speaker 5: So then you have this I have a conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how are you doing this?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 5: But I actually, to be honest, Laura, I know what
Speaker 5: you mean.
Speaker 1: When you're in the early stages of dating and the
Speaker 1: roster is open, you have a couple of people on
Speaker 1: the back burner in the first six months.
Speaker 2: I okay, that's different. You've got a roster.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But if you're in a long term
Speaker 5: relationship bad Also.
Speaker 2: Don't come for me. This is not my data. I'm
Speaker 2: not the fifty percent in this room.
Speaker 5: Okay, you went out on the street.
Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, I wasn't like, Hey, how do I
Speaker 4: feel about my husband? I know who have two children
Speaker 4: with No. But this is obviously there has been quite
Speaker 4: a research pool that's been done and there are people
Speaker 4: who have this.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 4: I would love to know if you were out there
Speaker 4: and you have feelings about this, or you have a
Speaker 4: backup partner in mind, what does that look for?
Speaker 5: Thirteen One of six five a burner partner. It's like
Speaker 5: a burner phone you've just got.
Speaker 4: Like maybe you say, oh, he's just my friend, but
Speaker 4: you've got a partner.
Speaker 3: It means you also don't want to be on your own,
Speaker 3: means you want a monkey branch because I thought of
Speaker 3: them breaking up with you is like, oh, I need
Speaker 3: to have someone ready to go.
Speaker 5: Liz is here, I'm thirteen one or six five? Do
Speaker 5: you have a backup partner?
Speaker 4: Liz?
Speaker 6: I do not have a backup partner. I think that's ridiculous,
Speaker 6: and I think it's really sad. Like I totally agree.
Speaker 6: I think that the study should be titled that fifty
Speaker 6: percent of women aren't happy in their relationships.
Speaker 3: Women are insecure in their relationship.
Speaker 6: Totally Like who knew that behind closed doors women secretly
Speaker 6: have a boyfriend reserve bank. I think it's crazy and.
Speaker 1: Also the best part about I think leaving a relationship
Speaker 1: is then having those single months after And if you've
Speaker 1: got a backup waiting, then you just are robbing yourself
Speaker 1: of personal growth.
Speaker 3: How long you've been in your relationship For Liz, I've
Speaker 3: been in a relationship for seven years. No no itch,
Speaker 3: no backup, no.
Speaker 6: Itch, no and I just think like there's a difference
Speaker 6: between having a little perv on someone and then having
Speaker 6: a backup like I also, I think imagine if the
Speaker 6: shree was on the other foot, imagine for the study
Speaker 6: done by men like we would be up in.
Speaker 5: Art totally true.
Speaker 1: All right, Ella's called on thirteen. Ella, what's your take
Speaker 1: on this? Do you have a backup partner? Oh?
Speaker 6: Look, I think that we all do. I'm not sure
Speaker 6: that statistics right, I think it's much higher. I think
Speaker 6: most would if they're being truly honest.
Speaker 4: Okay, I have to know, Ella, how long have you
Speaker 4: been in a relationship for She's like even years?
Speaker 5: All right, what's what's the backup? How close are they? Like?
Speaker 1: What's the proximity to your backup? Could you go to
Speaker 1: them tomorrow?
Speaker 2: Or I could?
Speaker 3: But that means you are having contact with them, Ella, Which.
Speaker 2: Wait, I need to know more. Where are things at
Speaker 2: now in terms of appropriate friendship level?
Speaker 5: Like do you is there they's best friends? Oh?
Speaker 2: Ella, Ella, Ella, Ella, I'm gonna wait, I need more.
Speaker 2: You are the minority here, not the other way around.
Speaker 6: Okay, I understand that it's just very complicated because the
Speaker 6: best friend is also my.
Speaker 3: Omic Okay, you got way bigger issues, all right, but
Speaker 3: we don't have time about I.
Speaker 2: Know I need to know.
Speaker 4: So wait, you've kept him as a friend though, and
Speaker 4: your partner things that you guys are all just amicable friends.
Speaker 2: But there's still some fire there.
Speaker 1: I think there is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And it's not my decision that they're still friends.
Speaker 6: They're just wear it still on each other's lives.
Speaker 3: This is.
Speaker 5: A najatoire, but today I think that's what it is.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, maybe go for it, dive in.
Speaker 2: I think you need to can that friendship, Britt. I
Speaker 2: agree with you. I think that that's a friendship.
Speaker 4: That's a disaster waiting to Speaking of disasters, waiting to happen,
Speaker 4: Britt and Mitch, you guys are going traveling together at
Speaker 4: the end of this year, very soon, romantic holidays a
Speaker 4: matter of weeks, just the two of you. And look,
Speaker 4: I don't know if you are accurate. I don't know
Speaker 4: if you were both as compatible as you think you are.
Speaker 4: You're jealous, I am, But I also I think that
Speaker 4: this is going to end in disaster. I think this
Speaker 4: is going to end in true love.
Speaker 2: And a marriage.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll talk about that next week you pick up.
Speaker 3: In very exciting news. Mitch and I have just to
Speaker 3: go on our very first overseas holiday together.
Speaker 1: We're a couple.
Speaker 2: You do say it like you've made that step in
Speaker 2: the right direction of your relationship. It's a big step in.
Speaker 3: A friendship relationship because you can be really good friends
Speaker 3: with someone and traveling is a whole another kettle of fish.
Speaker 3: Mitch and I have decided, well, I'm going overseas for
Speaker 3: Christmas and New Years to the UK, to Scotland to
Speaker 3: see my partner Ben his family. My family is going
Speaker 3: over like my mum and dad, my sister. It's a
Speaker 3: whole family affair and Mitch's decided he would like to come.
Speaker 4: So I'm Scotland.
Speaker 5: I'm excited.
Speaker 4: I know you guys are thrilled about this, but I
Speaker 4: feel like you've forgotten because we have been on an
Speaker 4: overseas trip together. We went to Balley last year and
Speaker 4: Mitch is a series of disasters when it comes to holiday.
Speaker 2: This man yea yea yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeahah yeah.
Speaker 4: I've never met a man who is more And I
Speaker 4: love you, and I say this with all the love
Speaker 4: in the world. Yes, but you are a catastrophizer.
Speaker 2: You went to drama school.
Speaker 4: You were a dramatizer and a little bit of a hypochondriac,
Speaker 4: and that little combination of person to get on an
Speaker 4: overseas holiday could end in disaster.
Speaker 5: But I'm a fun person.
Speaker 2: You never know what's going to happen.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: No, well we remember in Bali you got barley belly.
Speaker 3: You called a doctor to put you on a drip.
Speaker 2: You crashed your scooter. Then you got so scared of driving.
Speaker 5: Someone hit me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then you didn't drive it anymore.
Speaker 1: That monkey.
Speaker 5: You wouldn't drink, You wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Drink the water.
Speaker 3: You didn't know how to book your flies. You know
Speaker 3: how to book your accommodation. I had to book your
Speaker 3: flights to Scotland for this trip. It made me realize,
Speaker 3: I don't know how this trip is going to go.
Speaker 3: The other thing, the icing on the cake, is that
Speaker 3: you have this obsession with my boyfriend Ben, and I'm
Speaker 3: a bit concern that when you go on this trip,
Speaker 3: I'm going to get kicked out and you and himre
Speaker 3: gonna have some little love affairs.
Speaker 1: When Ben came over from from Scotland for the first time,
Speaker 1: BRIT's like, I really wanted to be friends. You'd be friends,
Speaker 1: so we forged a friendship. Now I'm accused of trying
Speaker 1: to bone BRIT's boyfriend.
Speaker 2: What did you write to him on the weekend? I
Speaker 2: saw your text message.
Speaker 5: I just said I miss you? Do you love me
Speaker 5: as much?
Speaker 2: That is literally? And what did he say?
Speaker 5: He said yes?
Speaker 1: And then I said can I drive your car when
Speaker 1: in Scotland? And he said absolutely not. Well, well, are
Speaker 1: you actually worried?
Speaker 5: Because I'm good about you.
Speaker 1: I've grown, I'm an older person, I've lost weight, I'm
Speaker 1: lighter on the plane, like, there's so much benefits to.
Speaker 5: Traveling with me.
Speaker 3: No, I am a little bit worried about how it's
Speaker 3: going to go down because you aren't joining the family trip,
Speaker 3: your mom and dad, My mom and dad as well.
Speaker 3: We're going on this three day road trip. But I
Speaker 3: do want to ask you, just like I just need
Speaker 3: to test the waters a little bit.
Speaker 5: Hold on, is this an interview to see if I
Speaker 5: can come or not?
Speaker 2: We want to see how compatible you actually are for.
Speaker 5: Traveling Toots with this you churncut.
Speaker 6: I like to know.
Speaker 3: I would like to place a situation, a scenario. Okay,
Speaker 3: we're hiking you and I are in the Scottish Higlands.
Speaker 5: This is dramatic.
Speaker 2: Do you have some dramatic musicscucts? Hiking is a snowstorm prepared?
Speaker 3: A snowstorm comes out of nowhere, Okay, because that's what
Speaker 3: happens in the highlands.
Speaker 5: I'm closing my eyes as we subl as we.
Speaker 2: Start to run from the avalanche.
Speaker 3: I have trips. It's an avalanche over a highland cow
Speaker 3: and I have rolled my ankle and I can I
Speaker 3: can't go forward anymore.
Speaker 6: What do you do?
Speaker 5: I checked the cows, okay, because they're in danger highland.
Speaker 5: You never suck the vent amount you that's a snake though.
Speaker 2: And you don't know whether she had a spinal injury.
Speaker 2: To just leave it there totally?
Speaker 5: Yes, leave it on a head down? Correct?
Speaker 2: Do you at least leave me with a coat for coke?
Speaker 5: A coat?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Well, not my coat, no designer, absolutely not. Okay, I'll
Speaker 5: call it ambulance. It's one one one in the UK
Speaker 5: Okay Highlands.
Speaker 2: You don't get an ambulance at it.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 2: Scenario two. You and I are on a night out,
Speaker 2: just alone. We're having a great time, drinking feasible. I
Speaker 2: can't quite be sure where we are, and.
Speaker 3: Then you meet a guy that wants to go home
Speaker 3: with you?
Speaker 2: Tricky? What do you do in that situation?
Speaker 5: Get in the newber and I go home with you?
Speaker 5: What's the problem?
Speaker 2: Are you guys not staying at the same hotel at
Speaker 2: this point?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we're sharing a bed in multiple accommodations.
Speaker 2: Firstly, you don't bring him back. Secondly, you don't leave
Speaker 2: me out there on my own in the club loan
Speaker 2: and you let me in the Highlands with an old ankle. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I am seeing a pattern here. It's spread alone on holidays.
Speaker 5: Yes, at the moment you're solo traveling. Is your ankle
Speaker 5: still rolled at the night?
Speaker 2: Because it is? I mean a moon boo.
Speaker 5: Okay, you come with us, you come with us, come
Speaker 5: home with this.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't want to see that either. All right, I
Speaker 2: have a question for you, guys. Mitch. You are quite
Speaker 2: the fancy traveler.
Speaker 5: Maam you are?
Speaker 4: You love your bougier little holiday rooms you like like
Speaker 4: you like a good airbnb that has like a breakfast
Speaker 4: in the morning, everything all inclusive.
Speaker 5: Five star. I don't like hostels. I do love breakfast food.
Speaker 4: So how are you going to feel about the fact
Speaker 4: that one of the weeks off your Scottish trip has
Speaker 4: been booked in a hostel.
Speaker 5: No, we haven't. We have hotels the whole time.
Speaker 2: No, okay, you don't.
Speaker 3: Well what happened is Mitch loves boogie things, but Mitch's
Speaker 3: bank balance doesn't like boogie things. So we've had to
Speaker 3: Mitch one of these fancy stuff and he put me
Speaker 3: on a budget. So sorry, we are top and tailing
Speaker 3: in event.
Speaker 4: You guys are staying at one hotel which is actually
Speaker 4: a hostel which has bunk beds in a shared.
Speaker 5: Or is this actually one week? I'm not playing around.
Speaker 2: You didn't give me much of a budget to play
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 5: To me, this is more intense than you want a
Speaker 5: cow in the highlights.
Speaker 4: You know why.
Speaker 2: It's because it's balanced.
Speaker 4: So for most of the places you're staying in nice hotels,
Speaker 4: but to be able to make it come into budget,
Speaker 4: one of the hotels is actually a hostage. That's where
Speaker 4: you're going to be staying.
Speaker 5: I don't sleep in I'm not doing hostile. You have
Speaker 5: back Mountain many times.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the tenth.
Speaker 5: I don't think you've seen that movie.
Speaker 2: What holiday are you going on for it?
Speaker 5: I do not think you see that film.
Speaker 2: Okay, that was the wrong camping analogy mich is really
Speaker 2: excited about. Look, guys, this is going to be a
Speaker 2: very very different change of pays. But coming up. I
Speaker 2: have a real PSA for parents out there. Don't listen
Speaker 2: to the pip tect your kids to.
Speaker 5: Keep them out the car that's on the way to
Speaker 5: pick up guys.
Speaker 4: I have something that's a lot more serious that I
Speaker 4: wanted to talk to you about. It comes as a
Speaker 4: bit of a PSA to parents out there. As you
Speaker 4: might know, I'm a mom. I have two little kids, Marley,
Speaker 4: she's four and Lawless two, and on the weekend we
Speaker 4: were faced with the situation that I did not think
Speaker 4: I would be faced with this early with my kids. So,
Speaker 4: just to kind of give you the background, we have
Speaker 4: a lovely older lady who lives next door to us.
Speaker 4: She's in her eighties. It's been a really nice part
Speaker 4: of like living in this new house is that the
Speaker 4: kids will go over and they will visit this lovely
Speaker 4: lady next door, and our doors always opened her and
Speaker 4: we kind of try and keep her company as well
Speaker 4: as you know, allow the kids to have a bit
Speaker 4: of a relationship with our neighbor, and on the weekend
Speaker 4: just passed, I went over there with the girls and
Speaker 4: my neighbor and I were standing on the balcony having
Speaker 4: a chat, and the girls ran inside into her house
Speaker 4: and we're playing around because she's got dolls inside, she's.
Speaker 2: Got things in there.
Speaker 4: And about fifteen minutes past and Marley and Lola came out,
Speaker 4: and Lola, who's two, was white as a ghost, and
Speaker 4: Marley was bawling her eyes out, and I thought, what
Speaker 4: could have possibly just happened? And Marley came out and said, oh,
Speaker 4: there was something on the TV. And I walked inside,
Speaker 4: and not realizing our neighbor, who is quite elderly, she
Speaker 4: didn't really register what she had playing out on the TV,
Speaker 4: and she had a true crime documentary playing. And so
Speaker 4: the girls had run inside they'd seen something on the TV,
Speaker 4: and then they'd stood there and watched it, and they
Speaker 4: had seen something truly horrific play out on TV, really violent.
Speaker 4: And now this is so much for a little two
Speaker 4: year old and a four year old to process, and
Speaker 4: also for me as a parent to process the fact
Speaker 4: that they've experienced this and they've seen it, and then
Speaker 4: how do we deal with that, and it's just been
Speaker 4: such a challenging two days and it's going to make
Speaker 4: me upset because you try so hard as a mum
Speaker 4: to protect your kids from this sort of stuff and
Speaker 4: then it feels like, in one moment, you can completely
Speaker 4: fail them. And that's how I felt off the back
Speaker 4: of that experience. And you know, I thought in this
Speaker 4: house they were so safe. We've done it a hundred times,
Speaker 4: and it was just in that moment and then you're like,
Speaker 4: how do you take back something that they've now seen.
Speaker 4: How do you comfort them in a way to explain
Speaker 4: what they've seen on a TV isn't real when they're
Speaker 4: too young to really comprehend what's happening.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think the thing is here, not that
Speaker 3: it makes it okay. But unfortunately in life there are
Speaker 3: going to be things that are outside of your control.
Speaker 3: And you can be the best parent in the entire world,
Speaker 3: which we all know you are, and these things can
Speaker 3: still happen that you can't undo that, and you can't
Speaker 3: be even a helicopter parent can't be with their kids
Speaker 3: twenty four to seven. Like there's always going to be
Speaker 3: something in life. And you know, you hear this from
Speaker 3: parents all the time at all different ages that you
Speaker 3: wish you could protect them from everything and be there
Speaker 3: with them every step of the way, but you just can't.
Speaker 3: And I guess now it's how do you explain to
Speaker 3: them that that was fake, that that wasn't real, that
Speaker 3: that's a growing up show where it's acting like I'm assuming.
Speaker 1: That was tomatoesce that what you have is that what
Speaker 1: you had to do. What was your first step as
Speaker 1: a parent. Did you talk to Matt, your husband, and go,
Speaker 1: we need to talk to them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And my first step with the girls was really reassuring.
Speaker 4: I mean, they live in the safest house, They are
Speaker 4: filled with love, like they are filled with safety. But
Speaker 4: I just I was like, how do you explain to
Speaker 4: them that what's happening on the TV isn't real? How
Speaker 4: do you explain to them that what they've just seen
Speaker 4: is not something that they should have to comprehend it?
Speaker 4: And I guess partly as well, like you want to
Speaker 4: validate that it's okay to be scared of that, because
Speaker 4: I would have been scared too, but it's not real.
Speaker 4: And I guess for me, I just having this experience
Speaker 4: on the weekend, it made me exactly as you said, like,
Speaker 4: realize that you can try so hard, like you can
Speaker 4: put all of the safety nets in place, and sometimes
Speaker 4: things can happen that feel beyond your control. But that
Speaker 4: doesn't mean that you don't feel incredibly guilty for it.
Speaker 4: And That's what I'm dealing with now, is this, like
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm the failure in that.
Speaker 1: Oh, Laurie, you can't feel that, because that's so normal
Speaker 1: and so natural. It's part of growing up. Like you said, Britta,
Speaker 1: and I have memories to this day of seeing pans Labyrinth.
Speaker 1: Nowhere near what the girls saw, but that's.
Speaker 5: So scary. And also all my cousins had all the
Speaker 5: Goosebumps books and the front covers.
Speaker 2: I was scared.
Speaker 5: I would go downstairs in.
Speaker 1: My cousin's house at family events and I'd look at
Speaker 1: these covers and I'd look at them and I'd be
Speaker 1: so terrified, and I would lose sleep over them. I
Speaker 1: didn't tell anyone, And it's not my parents forat I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm playing my kids. So your kids are
Speaker 1: not going to blame you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And maybe this is the reminder to parents, like
Speaker 4: your kids at some point are going to see things
Speaker 4: whether it be because they have an older sibling who's
Speaker 4: on an iPad, or because you've been on Instagram and like,
Speaker 4: there's so much that's happening online these days, whether it
Speaker 4: be violence overseas or whatever it is, but it is
Speaker 4: very easy for them to come across something that is
Speaker 4: not age appropriate. And I guess for me, this was
Speaker 4: a real lesson around how much more I guess active
Speaker 4: I have to be and how much more protection kids
Speaker 4: need in terms of like screen time and having that
Speaker 4: being in front of mind.
Speaker 5: Yeah, of course, all right, let's get out of here, guys,
Speaker 5: let's go.
Speaker 1: We're gonna chat to you tomorrow. We're back for your Wednesday.
Speaker 1: If you've missed the show, you can podcast that. We
Speaker 1: had a revelation that fifty percent of women have a
Speaker 1: backup boyfriend.
Speaker 2: I know there's three women in this room right now,
Speaker 2: and none of us have a backup boyfriend. So you
Speaker 2: have backup boyfriends when you're dating.
Speaker 5: I even have one boyfriend. I said, no, I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't have a backup.
Speaker 1: But we had this conversation earlier in the show podcast
Speaker 1: on iHeart Search the Pickup.
Speaker 5: We'll see you guys tomorrow.
Speaker 3: The