WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Waving at Babies & Cringe Proposals 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:05.960 A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn, baby 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:10.719 Worth our windows d that's my world, risen the dust, 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:12.559 only good babs all down. 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.239 I don't march, but yeah. 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:18.959 I'm not our big get and what I want it 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:20.040 don't matter where. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.479 This is the pickup, Hi, guys, it's. 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:25.240 The pickout with Britt Hackley and Laura Burn. 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:27.120 How are you feeling? What are you giggling out over there? 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.320 Okay, I need to get your opinion on this. I 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:31.200 just read what I think is the funniest article. 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:31.440 Okay. 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:34.760 So there's an only Fan star who has taken out 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:38.400 a mobile billboard in a very affluent suburb of Sydney. 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.600 It's a suburb called Mossman where you know all the 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:42.960 wealthy rich people live on the other side of the bridge, 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:45.159 very wealthy area. Yeah, okay, So an only Fans star 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:46.960 is taken out of mobile billboard and it says this, 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:49.640 it's a hot photo of us selfie and it says 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.640 are you rich, old and lonely? Question Mark, I'm looking 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:56.040 for a sugar daddy, And then it has her phone 0:00:56.120 --> 0:01:01.480 number plastered across it. Now, residents of this lovely, peaceful, quiet, 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:05.280 affluent suburb are outraged, and she says, if you're angry 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:06.959 about it, you're probably just not as hot as me. 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:10.360 Can you show me hang on aim a visual? It's 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.600 probably pretty brilliant because they're the people that are gonna 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:15.679 have money. Okay, she's hot, she's hot. I wonder can 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:16.960 we get her on? I wonder she got calls? 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.320 Actually, it's a great idea producer, Grace, can we try 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:19.800 and get her on? 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:21.720 I had be curious. 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.960 She said, it's two thousand dollars away. I want a 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.480 sugar daddy. I don't want to find one for myself. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.520 I'm overworking. So I spent two thousand dollars of my 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:31.960 own money to send a billboard around the richest suburb 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:34.639 of Australia so I can find myself for sugar daddy. 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.399 So if you're reach, you're old, and you're lonely, give 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:39.880 me a call. People are saying it's distasteful, it's inappropriate. 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:41.880 Eye, it's advertising, it's a business. 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.200 I think she's an entrepreneur. 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:45.760 She is brilliant. There's also we could probably tell some 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:46.960 other suburbs that might work in. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.560 I mean, like, look, I understand why some people might 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:49.880 be up. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:50.520 In arms about it. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.160 I feel like it seems like it's distasteful. 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:54.000 I can understand why. 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.400 There's probably some more conservative types that don't like it, 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:56.880 but I can't. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:59.440 They're probably worried because they worried their partner's gonna call. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:01.120 I think it's I think it's so funny. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:04.120 Also, the photo, she's fully clothed, it's not new or inappropriate. 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:05.000 It's just a nice photo. 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:05.559 Ah. 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.480 Yeah, she's just wearing a T shirt and she's got 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:09.640 a midri found she's wearing shorts you would wear less 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:10.120 to the beach. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.520 Yeah. Amen, let's get her on track it down, Grace. 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:17.200 It is time for what we do every Thursday, and 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.000 that is ask Guncut. 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:20.440 Where you guys give us a call. 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:22.240 And you tell us you're deep as dark as problems, 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:26.080 and even though we have absolutely no qualifications or skills, necessarily, 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.720 we do our best to answer them and give the 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:29.840 life advice to save you a bit of money. 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:31.280 We actually have qualifications. 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:33.040 You say that every week, Well, we do this on 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:35.800 our podcast, Life Uncut podcast, and that's been going pretty 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:37.560 good for us specific s. So we thought we bring 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:39.720 across and we got Alisha on the phone. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.960 Hi, Alisha, Hi, guys, Alisha, what is going on in 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:44.440 your house. 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:50.880 My partner doesn't really like having my dog in our bed. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:52.880 How long have you been with your partner for? And 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:54.440 is this a new problem or is it the problem 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:55.480 that's always existed. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.640 Well, we're reaching like a three year mark. It's been 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.480 two and a half years. This is actually a new thing. 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.920 We only moved in maybe like a year ago. So, 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.359 but it's just happened, and I'm kind of freaking out 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:12.440 about it because like, whoa where did this come from? 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:16.240 So like I've cheated? Hang on, where does this come from? 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.160 So a few questions? Hang on, we need to set 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:20.560 the scene. Are we talking Chihaua or Great Dane? 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:23.800 No, it's the brutles. So he's a little big. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:25.680 Oh, goodles are big, okay? 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.639 And I don't even know what a goodle is. It's 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:28.079 a goodle. 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:28.560 They're big. 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:32.120 They're very big Golden retriever poodles. Sorry, sorry, I just 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.320 did a quick google. There's three sizes, Miniature, medium and standard. 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:38.720 Miniature is fifteen kilos, twenty two kilos or thirty kilos. 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:40.200 Fifteen kilo has been the smallest. 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:40.760 That's still big. 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.800 It is a standard, okay, right, so twenty two kilos 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:48.200 so important question. Was the groodle a part of your 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.960 life before you met your partner or did you bring 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.480 it in to your life together as a couple. 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:56.760 Well, he's my dog, so I've had him for five 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:59.080 years and he's just kind of getting on a bit. 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:05.160 I mean, the the grudle has slept in your bed 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.680 for five years, and now your partner's decided that it's 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.600 just too much and the dog needs to go and 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:10.400 sleep in a dog bed. 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:11.800 I understand that, to be sure. 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.040 Do you know I had a very similar situation, So 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:15.920 I have My dog is much bigger than this. He's 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:18.479 forty kilos and he used to sleep in bed with 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.719 me every single night. And then I met my husband, 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.920 and then also my husband would start sleeping in bed 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:26.359 with us. And at one point we've been together for 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.560 about eight months, Matt woke up in the middle of 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.839 the night and he said, I've had enough. He's like, 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:32.680 I can't do this anymore. And this is the first 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:34.200 time we'd ever had a conversation about it. 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.080 He was like, it's me or the dog. The dog 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.040 has to sleep in a dog bed. 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.920 I can't sleep with a dog in the bed anymore. 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:44.839 And unfortunately for Buster, the ultimatum did stick and Matt 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:46.640 got to stay in the bed, even though I threatened 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:48.840 to put him in the dog bed, and Busters now 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.440 in a dog bed next to Can you not get 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.240 a dogbed next to the bed? I feel like that's 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.840 a good solution, so that the grudle is still in 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:55.560 the room. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:57.599 But it's not in your you know, your room in 0:04:57.640 --> 0:04:58.160 your grudle. 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:02.640 Yeah, yes, so I guess it just feels funny because 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:06.279 he moved into like my house. Yeah, but. 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:10.839 Unless the bed is like one of those extra king beds, 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:14.200 that's really really big. I understand because sleep is very 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:16.200 important if you're getting broken sleep because you have a 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:20.719 giant grudle licking you, moving around making noise. Griddles don't molt. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:22.640 But if there was another dog that like molten hair 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:24.960 was all through it, like for me, that's pretty gross. 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.200 I think you need to move the groodle to the ground. 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.160 It can still be close to you. You can keep 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.200 your eye on it, but you can maintain your relationships. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:32.840 Where does the girdle go when you guys are being 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:34.520 intimate with each other, just looks at them. 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.760 He can go where he likes, God, you know, wherever 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:41.760 he sits. He sits. 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.400 Okay, look, the grudle needs to go on a dog bed. 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.200 I don't think. Yeah, I don't think it's worth it, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.880 the divorce or the split. I think moves to the bed. 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:50.120 I get it. 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.200 I get why this is hard, but I reckon for 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.840 the sake of your relationship, it's time to pop. You know, 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.080 the pooch in the dog bed right next to the bed. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.600 He's very close. He's not going to feel too like 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:02.120 he's being shafted. I think that that's your best solution. 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:05.960 Okay, thanks for galling. 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:07.479 If you want. 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:09.960 If you want some advice like that, and also feel defeated, 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:11.640 give us a call at the pickup. 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:17.120 That was a great call, Laura. Do you think when 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:20.960 you're dating someone these days you have to officially ask someone, Hey, 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.040 will you be my boyfriend? Will you be my girlfriend? 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.279 I don't know if I'm the right person to ask. True, 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.200 I guess that that did happen to me. If anyone 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.360 who doesn't know competed for my now husband on a 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.320 TV show called The Bachelor, and the word compete, well 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.240 I did. I was in competition. I was Yeah, it 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.360 was me and twenty four other girls. And then at 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.599 the very end of that, he stood on a magic 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:44.120 carpet in Thailand and said Aladdin, he said, I love you, 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:45.560 and I guess implied would. 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:46.279 You be my girlfriend? 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:46.599 Yeah? 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:48.479 Okay, definitely ask the wrong person the wrong question. 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:50.880 Yeah, but I look, if I'm going to be honest, 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.280 I think sometimes it has to be asked because like 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:56.279 the situationship has gone on for too long, But sometimes 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:57.120 it's just implied. 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:58.719 Well, also, Matt did have to ask you. There were 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:02.039 twenty four other women. So there's a reality TV star 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:04.440 from the UK from Love Island going viral at the 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:08.320 moment for asking his now girlfriend to be his girlfriend. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:11.000 So she was also on Love Island. Her name is 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:14.160 Grace Jackson. And the reason it's going viral. I wish 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.040 I had more audio, but I've only got a grab. 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:18.360 But there's all these videos that have gone up of 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:21.040 him asking her to take it from like friends with 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.840 benefits or something casual to a relationship. Now I want 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:27.760 to show you the photos. Firstly, it's this humongous, elaborate 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:31.520 setup on a beautiful beach. It's very private. There's like 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:36.080 beautiful flowers, like thousands of dollars worth of flowers. There's candles, 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.880 the seats the setups, there's a neon sign in the 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:40.200 middle that's hung between them. 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:42.440 It just looks like it's a proposal. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.520 It's a proposal. It's more than a proposal, and the 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:48.360 neon sign in the middle says, will you be my girlfriend? Now? 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:50.600 In case they wanted to know what she said, hang on, 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:51.960 I've got the audio. 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:56.560 What did you say? The question said, yes. 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.760 A lot of people, a lot of people are really 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:03.880 ringing out at how over the top this proposal for 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.480 a girlfriend was. But the reason is a little bit 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:10.480 deeper than that. So whilst it is like so extreme, 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.160 he's been slammed because he did the same thing for 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.040 his last girlfriend two years ago. 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:18.720 Okay, my question is were they on the show together? 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:20.520 Like do they know each other from so they were 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:23.960 already dating and he's obviously an influencer, like he's got 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.480 a big following, yes, and so does she. Yeah, well 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:28.680 then he's just doing it for the content. He's not 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:30.560 doing it to ask at let's. 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.520 Not say that he might really, I'm sure wanted to do. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:34.600 I've got no. 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.280 Doubt that he wants her to be his girlfriend. But 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.640 the over the topness and the filming it and they're 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:43.600 like creating like esthetic content is for all the people 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:44.720 on Instagram, it's not for her. 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.679 Well, it's definitely happened because it's gone viral, Like what 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:49.760 if that's what he wanted, that's what he got because 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.520 we're in Australia on a radio show now absolutely talking 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:52.880 about it. 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:54.640 Do you want to go viral for the right reasons 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:55.440 or the wrong reasons? 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:55.520 No? 0:08:55.760 --> 0:09:00.000 Not the wrong For me. I love love. I don't 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.120 want a shit on it because I'm like, cute, you 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:04.640 guys are twenty five years old. Well, actually she's twenty seven. 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:07.240 She's a bit older. He's twenty five. You're young, you're 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.240 in love. I love that for you. But for me, 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:13.160 I'm like cringing in my skin a little bit. How 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:15.120 over the top it is. And it makes me think 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.200 that sometimes I think the more over the top something 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:19.719 is the less meaningful it is in a way, I 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:21.640 don't know. Is that a weird connection. 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.960 I've just looked this up because so what you said 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:27.360 before that he had done a similar thing for his 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:31.360 ex girlfriend. He'd put together like this very big extravagant 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:34.920 red roses, red balloons and done the same thing. I 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.360 reckon he just knows it gets good clicks and that's 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:37.959 all it is. 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:40.520 It gets a little bit worse again. God well, because 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.360 he's been on Love Island twice. Right, this was like 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:45.840 an All Stars the first proposal for the girlfriend. She 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.120 was also from the show. It was also a Love 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:49.079 Island proposal. 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:52.520 Do anything that is just for the person that's in 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.280 your life, Like, why is everything so extravagant and so 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:58.960 much for content? I think sometimes these moments, like asking 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:00.880 someone to be your girlfriend or asking someone to be 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:04.920 a boyfriend, it's a pretty preliminary step in the relationship, right, 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.000 Like it's literally. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:06.280 The first step. 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:10.120 I understand why people do like grandiose proposals. I understand 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:12.640 why people have beautiful, big weddings, but this to me 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:13.880 feels a bit premature. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.880 I'm trying to think about my conversation with my field 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:20.520 and say, there definitely wasn't the word girlfriend boyfriend, But 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.319 I'm pretty sure we went about it by saying are 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.880 we exclusive or do you want to be exclusive? But 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:27.640 to me, that feels like more of an adult way 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:30.280 of asking somebody if they will be your boyfriend and girlfriend. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.080 For me, this feels very like sixteen ish. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.160 Yeah, I would agree. 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:35.880 Also, what do you do because if you're in this 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:39.079 situation and someone's created no, yeah, that's I mean, the 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.679 more extravagant the proposal is, and I say this more 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:45.200 about like a wedding, but like an engagement proposal or 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.880 will you be my boyfriend proposal, whatever it is, the 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:50.680 more extravagant it is, the harder it is to say. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:51.240 No in the moment. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.160 I think most people say yes because they feel pressured too, 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:57.719 because they're being filmed. And then afterwards, you know, in 0:10:57.760 --> 0:10:59.600 a month or two times they go, I've been thinking 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.160 about that time that you put me on the freaking 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:02.240 spot with your proposal. 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:04.880 It would have gone better for him. Trust me, as 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:06.480 someone that was dumped on The Bachelor, it would have 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:09.440 gone better for him if she said no, like all 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:11.360 of a sudden. People wouldn't have thought it was cringy. 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.400 People would have been like, oh my god, like I 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.720 will date you, this is You're a catch, this is amazing, 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:17.480 you know what I mean. It's because they're happy and 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:19.120 in love and successful and young and hot. 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:19.679 I don't know. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.120 I also like, I'm very much of the opinion that 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:26.280 people who flaunt, like really overly flaunt their relationships are 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.960 not necessarily the people who are having the best relationships. 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:31.480 I go pretty hard when I'm with my fiancee band like, 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:35.680 but it's like really big, that was. 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:37.280 An appointed thing. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:38.240 Dagger's in the eyes. 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:39.920 I can't wait to see your wedding. It's gonna be 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:40.520 super low key. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:41.920 Right, you'ren't invite it anymore. 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:46.559 I have a very big question for you. 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:51.440 Is it okay to wave speak to say hello to 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.880 somebody else's kid if that kid is like making eye 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:56.480 contact with you and trying to wave like a. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.200 Baby, like a baby toddler. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.679 You know, you see like a kid in a pram 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:02.319 and they'll be trying to like, you know, wave, or 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.480 they're interacting with others as they go past. 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:06.559 Is it okay to interact with the child that you 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:07.120 don't know? 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.240 I just feel like this is the dumbest question you've 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:11.400 ever asked me. Absolutely well, it has to. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.360 Have some limitations on it. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.000 It can't just be like, yes, you could interact with 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:15.400 any child you want anytime. 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.720 No, but if a baby waves that you, yeah, you 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:20.480 can wave back. If a baby's like google and gagaing 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.480 at you, like on a plane across the seats, like 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:23.559 it's rude not to. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:25.560 Engage, Okay, well, look, there is a thread that is 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:27.600 currently going viral from Breddit and it's the you know, 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:30.280 am I the asshole? It's very very popular, but there 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:33.200 is this one question that to me stood out. So 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.439 a twenty seven year old posted that she was walking 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:38.480 past a car and there was a little toddler sitting 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.600 in the boot of the car while the parents were 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.480 unloading some other groceries and stuff. She wrote, I could 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:45.960 see the kid was clearly staring at me like kids do, 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.760 so when I was close enough, I smiled and waved. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:51.760 I also stopped for a second and said hi, but 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.320 then kept on walking. The next thing I know, the 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:56.760 mom and dad are flagging me down to say, hey, 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:58.040 don't ever do that again. 0:12:58.520 --> 0:12:59.240 The woman tried to. 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.800 Rationalize with them, you know, she's like, I said something like, hey, 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:03.840 I didn't mean anything by it. I kept on walking, 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.079 but I heard some very choice words come out of 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:09.240 the mother's mouth. And then she's asking the question because 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.440 she's like, well, it got me really nervous. Maybe I 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:13.720 crossed the line. You know, I can fully understand parents 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.319 being protected by their kids, but it's not as though 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.440 I sprinted across the road to engage with this toddler. 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:22.040 I just kind of stopped at the boot and said hi, 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:23.520 and then kept going. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:27.400 This makes me think that either A this is made up, 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:31.800 or B that that family has had something happen with 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.960 their child, because that is not normal for that reaction 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.040 for someone, just like waving at a toddler and saying 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:40.680 hi is not a normal reaction to the situation. So 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.959 it makes me wonder if maybe they've I don't know, 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.160 they've had something that scared them in the past or 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:48.280 I'm not sure, but absolutely in my eyes, if you're 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:49.840 walking down the street and there's a little baby in 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:51.520 someone's arms and it's looking at you over it's mum's 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:52.840 shoulder and you can wave at it. 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:54.560 I agree, I do think you can wave like that's 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.640 not I don't need that issue with waving and saying hello. 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:00.520 But I absolutely think that sometimes strangers cross the line 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.800 with what isn't isn't appropriate engagement with kids? 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:05.720 Well, if she picked it up, well. 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:06.839 That's totally well. 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.079 Like I mean, I have one example that's of my own, 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.440 only happened recently. We were away only a couple weeks ago, 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.400 and we were waiting in line somewhere and the man 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:17.520 who was waiting in line kept on patting Maley on 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:19.240 the head, and she was just behind me. I was 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.040 standing in front, and like, I'm sure he was fine. 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.080 I'm sure he was seemingly lovely. I'm sure he was 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.360 just being like sweet and engaging, but he had been 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.120 like making faces at her, and so then she was 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:31.760 obviously entertained by him as well, and I was like, nah, 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.760 I don't like that, Like that's you don't have a 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:35.800 right just to touch my kids just because you've been 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:38.040 making faces with them. So like for me, I kind 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:39.400 of like moved her out of the way in a 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:40.040 polite way. 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:41.120 You didn't say that. 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:42.440 I didn't say anything to him. 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.080 But I do think that sometimes some people take things 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.160 and take a little bit too many liberties because they 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:49.440 think that like, oh, they. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:50.920 Just you know, it's done harmlessly. 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:52.800 I know that, but it's not always harmless, and so 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:54.160 as parents, you've got to be careful. 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:56.320 I do think there are some rules, and I think 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.880 you're normal and okay to have been put off by 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:01.320 a strange man adding Maley on the head, like I'm 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.880 sure it was innocent, but I think that is okay. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:06.360 But I think chasing someone down the street like chasing 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.080 this girl down the street because she waved at your 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:12.720 toddler is extreme. Yeah, yeah, like that reaction doesn't fit 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:14.080 the situation. 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.000 Which is exactly what you said, Britt. It makes me 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.200 think that potentially something else has happened to that family, 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:22.160 or there's been a situation that's made them feel uncomfortable 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:23.520 and they're now on high alert. 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:26.520 I have like full on sit down sessions with kids 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.360 on planes. If there's a kid in front of me 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:29.840 and it's turning around, BRIT's like. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.400 What's your askun cut for the week, kiddo? 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:33.480 Yeah, I'm like talking to me, what are your problems? 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.720 Do what they want to take you, dummy? I understand. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.000 But like if a kid puts its head through you know, 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.160 when they put it through the seats in front of him. 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:41.240 Yeah, but that's different. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:43.920 But is it? Why is that different? It is exactly 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.320 the same thing. You're talking to them, you're engaging with them. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:48.360 You don't know them, they're strange. In fact, you're probably 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:50.040 more close for a longer period of time. 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:51.320 It's true, It's true. I don't know. 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.800