Speaker 1: Come on.
Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, we're we're going to pick up everyone. We've
Speaker 2: had an emergency before the.
Speaker 3: Show has even begun. Brittany Hockey, give me, give me
Speaker 3: a smile.
Speaker 4: Britt No, no, I'm fine. My teeth are intact.
Speaker 2: Your teeth intact, Laura Burne, why don't you give me?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, hill Billy Johnson in the studio, A.
Speaker 1: Tooth literally just flew across the room, Laura's teeth.
Speaker 5: I was chewing on my paint and my crown break.
Speaker 3: Guys, this is pre Bachelor, Laura. I've revealed the real
Speaker 3: Bachelor previneese.
Speaker 5: I'm not wearing beanies.
Speaker 1: I just had like a bit of composite feeling over guys.
Speaker 5: It's the logis on Sunday.
Speaker 1: I don't have time to go to the dentist, and
Speaker 1: it just flung across the room like I was pinging
Speaker 1: a dick.
Speaker 4: I think it got stuck in my hair. I think
Speaker 4: your tooth is in my hair.
Speaker 2: Is it really that smile? It's a little noticeable, but
Speaker 2: it's fine.
Speaker 1: But you have a disco ball dress, so no one's
Speaker 1: looking at your teeth. I have a I have a
Speaker 1: cracked front, though it's not my front tooth. It's the
Speaker 1: tooth next to the front. It's like pointing to the
Speaker 1: front tooth. Laura goes, oh my god, the tooth just
Speaker 1: flung out, and we're like, how did that even happen?
Speaker 1: Like that doesn't just happen. She's like, oh, no, I
Speaker 1: was chewing on a pant.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, let that be the warning.
Speaker 6: Everyone was chewing the end of the pen and it
Speaker 6: fully flicked my crown off.
Speaker 5: I think it's affected your speech. Probably, I've had it
Speaker 5: for years.
Speaker 3: You've got fluffy Captain feather saw.
Speaker 1: There's Captain feather Sword. Captain feather Sword.
Speaker 6: There's nothing worse, okay, anyone who's experienced it breaking a tooth,
Speaker 6: cracking a tooth, anything that then you have to wait
Speaker 6: to get to the dentist.
Speaker 3: I look at it now, say that I'm connecting to
Speaker 3: the chip tooth community.
Speaker 1: Also, it's my favorite thing, Laura says. She goes, there
Speaker 1: is nothing worse. Nothing, No, there's a lot there is.
Speaker 6: Everyone who's ever had a broken crown knows how I feel.
Speaker 5: Right now, we can join in together.
Speaker 2: You look fine.
Speaker 5: To get the shut up.
Speaker 3: Let's wrap the show so you can get to the dentist.
Speaker 3: Emergency though we need you there.
Speaker 4: This is the start of the show, so we can't
Speaker 4: wrap it.
Speaker 2: It is no.
Speaker 3: Well, we got to kick things off and ask gun cut next.
Speaker 3: We do it every Thursday. It is quite a segment
Speaker 3: you girls do on the Life un Cut podcast. You
Speaker 3: can hear that on Life on Cut, but we do
Speaker 3: it on the pick Up every week.
Speaker 5: We do.
Speaker 6: And also there's something that you all are doing in
Speaker 6: your cars that is utterly disgusting and I've realized that
Speaker 6: I'm also very, very gross.
Speaker 5: I'll tell you about it next.
Speaker 3: All right, it's all on the way here on the Pickup.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. It's Thursday afternoon. Let's do this.
Speaker 1: Ask Ask gun Cut is a favorite here at the Pickup,
Speaker 1: and it's a fan favorite.
Speaker 4: Too, I'm told.
Speaker 1: But it's where we answer our listeners questions like the deepest,
Speaker 1: darkest problems. I love this segment like I love in
Speaker 1: partying my years of wisdom and not what wisdom do
Speaker 1: you have for truckloads?
Speaker 5: I couldn't it zero like actual certificates or wars. No
Speaker 5: psychology like psychology degrees.
Speaker 4: You got some degrees, you know.
Speaker 2: The University of Life is where you graduated.
Speaker 4: I went to a proper university.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we do have like a really heartfelt listener that's
Speaker 1: called up with a bit.
Speaker 4: Of a problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dev joins us today. I believe you're still in
Speaker 2: love with your ex? Right, what's going on?
Speaker 7: Yeah, tricky situation. So we kind of started dating quite
Speaker 7: early on, and we dated for four and a half years,
Speaker 7: so I feel like I'm still quite bonded to her.
Speaker 5: How long have you guys? Been broken up?
Speaker 1: For?
Speaker 7: Two years?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 4: And how can I get your ages?
Speaker 7: Yeah? So where I'm turning twenty one on Saturday?
Speaker 4: Funny enough, Okay? Can I I want to tell you
Speaker 4: something straight off the bat.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is nothing and it never will be anything
Speaker 1: as intense and as strong as your first love. And
Speaker 1: sounds like if you're twenty one and you were together
Speaker 1: for four years that this is probably My guess is
Speaker 1: it's your first love and.
Speaker 4: It is why far, the hardest thing to get over.
Speaker 7: It's kind of like the worst and best thing to
Speaker 7: happen to me. I think I did need the breakup
Speaker 7: to kind of figure stuff out on my own.
Speaker 5: Yeah, why did you guys break up?
Speaker 7: There was never really anything like one incident that kind
Speaker 7: of tipped it was a bunch of small stuff that
Speaker 7: we didn't really deal with in time, and it just
Speaker 7: added up and eventually it was just like, this isn't working.
Speaker 3: We can't dev Have you spoken to them since you
Speaker 3: are you in no contact?
Speaker 2: What's the communication?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Are you still talking?
Speaker 7: Oh? Messy? Messy to say the least. So I actually
Speaker 7: broke no contact with her three weeks ago, like nearly
Speaker 7: a month ago. We started talking. There was obviously like
Speaker 7: the cats up for formalities sake and stuff, and then
Speaker 7: I kind of realized, like, I don't know who the
Speaker 7: this person really is anymore.
Speaker 1: But also on top of that, you were seventeen when
Speaker 1: you started dating. You were a different person at seventeen
Speaker 1: to twenty one. You're going to be a different person
Speaker 1: again at twenty five, and a different person at thirty.
Speaker 1: But when you said, like you caught up and she
Speaker 1: felt different, she probably is different. And sometimes that's what
Speaker 1: you need to find because you for the last two
Speaker 1: years have probably probably been hanging on to what you
Speaker 1: had and who you were as a couple and who
Speaker 1: she was. And the fact of the matter is you
Speaker 1: caught up with her again and she's not what you're remembered.
Speaker 4: So maybe that's what you needed, the closure to move on.
Speaker 7: I think you're going to be proud of me, because
Speaker 7: when after I realized that, like, I don't know this person,
Speaker 7: I kind of wanted to close that door behind me,
Speaker 7: and so I kind of did it in a roundabout
Speaker 7: a way, which I might get judged for. But I
Speaker 7: gave her a gift, and I wanted to put in
Speaker 7: the effort that I felt like I should have put
Speaker 7: in throughout the whole relationship and try and kind of
Speaker 7: make up for my faults. And I guess close it
Speaker 7: up in like a neat little bow. And so I
Speaker 7: went really over the top.
Speaker 5: Oh, don't give a present.
Speaker 2: I don't think will you come on? Were you deep
Speaker 2: down hoping that she Oh my god, I made a mistake.
Speaker 2: I want you back. Is that was that why you.
Speaker 5: Did the gift?
Speaker 7: No? No, okay, So it sounds really stupid that that
Speaker 7: wasn't the rationale behind it. It was kind of like
Speaker 7: I put in one hundred and ten percent into that.
Speaker 7: If that didn't work, nothing was ever gonna work and
Speaker 7: it would have never worked out. So it's like, now
Speaker 7: it's because on.
Speaker 4: One question, what was the gift of, Oh, oh, you're.
Speaker 7: Gonna hate me. We used to build legos together, so
Speaker 7: I got her like a set of Lego roses, and
Speaker 7: then I made roses using ribbon.
Speaker 5: Damn, oh you're breaking.
Speaker 7: Yeah even done, I'm not even done. It gets worse.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't think it can.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I oh absolutely can. I got her a pink
Speaker 7: build a bit, and then to match the build of it,
Speaker 7: I learned knitting to make the build a bear.
Speaker 4: Dave, I'm sorry you're lying to yourself.
Speaker 1: This is not this is not a good bye gift.
Speaker 4: You're in love and that's that no way.
Speaker 5: You've gotta you gotta block and delete that number.
Speaker 1: Deav.
Speaker 5: You no more about build a bed.
Speaker 7: No no, no, it's in the past. But in my
Speaker 7: head you're gonna You're gonna shoot me for this.
Speaker 2: But Jesus, either more work or or.
Speaker 7: No one else will ever be able to live up
Speaker 7: to that present.
Speaker 1: You are so prouderfect selfish, real you're toxic.
Speaker 4: You're not toxic.
Speaker 1: This is my.
Speaker 5: Favorite call I've ever had. Damn good luck.
Speaker 1: Kick that lego over, block the number and it's time
Speaker 1: to move on. But you give that love and lego
Speaker 1: to someone else.
Speaker 5: Goodness.
Speaker 3: If you need help, dev need to hit us up
Speaker 3: in the DMS. That is gold the pickup on Instagram.
Speaker 3: Next on the show, the things you do in your
Speaker 3: car that you don't do in public. That's the question.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I discovered something, and that is that everyone
Speaker 6: is pretty disgusting inside their cars.
Speaker 5: And I have a confession to make.
Speaker 2: All right, that's next on the pickup.
Speaker 6: We were talking about it the other day, how when
Speaker 6: you're inside your car you instantly feel or you act
Speaker 6: different when you're inside your car. So like the amount
Speaker 6: of road rage that someone might have, the way that
Speaker 6: you behave when you get behind the wheel is different
Speaker 6: to the personality that you have normally.
Speaker 1: Would you agree, I do get a tiny bit of
Speaker 1: road rage. I have almost gotten into a fight, but
Speaker 1: otherwise I'm pretty me. I have seen you roaring down
Speaker 1: the street beating your horn with half hanging out like
Speaker 1: with your finger up, your middle finger up.
Speaker 5: At some dude who'd cut you off killed me? He did.
Speaker 1: I mean we're all moving at about fifty kometers an hour,
Speaker 1: but he did almost kill you.
Speaker 4: Britt.
Speaker 6: This is the thing, right, you would never behave like
Speaker 6: that if you accidentally bumped into someone in a shopping center,
Speaker 6: with a trolley. You're not gonna scream in their face,
Speaker 6: stick your finger up at them and then run after them.
Speaker 6: You just wouldn't do it that a car.
Speaker 5: All rules are out, but in a car there's different
Speaker 5: rules that apply.
Speaker 4: It's the equivalent of being a keyboard warrior. There's a
Speaker 4: safety that comes from being your part.
Speaker 5: Okay, So believe it or not.
Speaker 6: There's actually been some research studies that have been done
Speaker 6: around this, and the thing is is that when we're
Speaker 6: in a car, we feel as though we're in our
Speaker 6: own protective little space, and so the way in which
Speaker 6: we behave changes. We behave as though we are completely
Speaker 6: in private, but obviously we're not in private.
Speaker 5: We're in a glass box and people can see us.
Speaker 6: So I had this realization the other day as I
Speaker 6: was driving to work. I will pick my nose in
Speaker 6: the car, and I.
Speaker 1: Will say that I am okay with admitting this because
Speaker 1: I believe that everybody out there actually picks their nose
Speaker 1: in the car. I would never, and if you say
Speaker 1: you don't do it, you're lying to yourself.
Speaker 4: I would never.
Speaker 1: Because it's too risky that somebody would recognize me.
Speaker 7: Look like.
Speaker 1: If a photo of me went around Whent viral of
Speaker 1: me in my car picking my nose.
Speaker 3: Oh probably laugh So Brittany, you live in constant fear
Speaker 3: of being You can't pick a weggie out, you can't
Speaker 3: readjust your boobies.
Speaker 2: Could You're terrified that Pats will get you.
Speaker 1: No, I'd happily readjust my boobies, but picking my nose,
Speaker 1: I'd be devoted.
Speaker 5: Okay, Mitch. Do you pick your nose in a car?
Speaker 2: Absolutely out of the car?
Speaker 5: No, I don't do it out of the car.
Speaker 2: I know you mean you know what I do?
Speaker 4: Car?
Speaker 2: I fart like business.
Speaker 4: You put the window down at least yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, even got recycling though, so I got to turn
Speaker 3: that off otherwise it gets a bit must just comes
Speaker 3: back in.
Speaker 2: Yeah I did.
Speaker 3: I'm with you, Laura. The car For me, I'm a
Speaker 3: different version of Mitch. My road rage is intensified. I sing,
Speaker 3: I dance like it's a save space for yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, even just the amount of rubbish like my car.
Speaker 6: I know I'm really adding myself, but I'm okay with it.
Speaker 5: As my car is a tip.
Speaker 6: I just put the and I could do a cleaner
Speaker 6: like every week, I'll get a bag and I'll clean
Speaker 6: all this stuff out of it. But like, I would
Speaker 6: never in my own bedroom just have bottles and tissues
Speaker 6: and stuff hanging around, But in my car it seems
Speaker 6: like it's off limits.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we both. I got it once. I got into
Speaker 4: the seat, the passenger seat once and I had to move.
Speaker 1: She's like, sorry, this stuff on the seat that was
Speaker 1: it was piled up right, So I get in and
Speaker 1: push it all off the seat. I'm trying to put
Speaker 1: my feet on the ground. And then I hear like,
Speaker 1: and Lola, her daughter was in the house. God knows
Speaker 1: how long she's been in the car.
Speaker 5: She was in the car. It was just a toy, Laurie.
Speaker 3: You once off to give you lift with brit was
Speaker 3: in the front seat and I couldn't get in your
Speaker 3: car because you had two baby seats and the middle
Speaker 3: seat was just full of Tommy Tippy's and a sham kids.
Speaker 2: Okay, you made me get an uber.
Speaker 4: I wanted to.
Speaker 6: I didn't make you get You couldn't fit because I
Speaker 6: had I had two car seats in this and what
Speaker 6: was no room? What was on the middle seat stuff
Speaker 6: stuff that wouldn't fit in the boot because the boot
Speaker 6: was full.
Speaker 5: But get you look, there's this research study. It's been done.
Speaker 5: It's come out of the UK.
Speaker 1: Sixty percent of drivers said that they were embarrassed about
Speaker 1: the states of their vehicles.
Speaker 5: Not anymore, me too, we can do this together.
Speaker 6: Twenty seven percent of people have said that they've declined
Speaker 6: to give someone a lyft because they were so embarrassed
Speaker 6: by the state of their car.
Speaker 5: So this was I was like, I felt good about
Speaker 5: being safety in numbers with all of these people around Australia.
Speaker 3: I love the UK, all the country. If you're listening
Speaker 3: to this and odds are you're in the car?
Speaker 4: Do we really need to pull the country.
Speaker 3: To give us a call here at the pickup? What
Speaker 3: are you in the safety of your car? We'll take
Speaker 3: your calls next.
Speaker 6: So if you're just joining us, we have been talking
Speaker 6: about how it's I mean, look, there's a study now,
Speaker 6: it's a scientific evidence that we're all actually a little
Speaker 6: disgusting when we get inside our own cars.
Speaker 4: I don't think i'd fall into.
Speaker 6: That car, well, not everywhere. Apparently seventy one percent of
Speaker 6: us a disgusting. We do things inside our cars that
Speaker 6: we would never do if we were just outside in public.
Speaker 6: And I have put my hand up, I am an
Speaker 6: in car nose picker. I'm not proud of it, but
Speaker 6: I'm not ashamed of it either, and I'll probably continue
Speaker 6: to do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I put my hand up. I eat boiled
Speaker 3: eggs while I'm driving, crack them and every peel them
Speaker 3: with one hand. I even dropped the shell out the
Speaker 3: window because it's biodegradable, it's nature's it's compost.
Speaker 6: I eat a lot, but I don't like I eat
Speaker 6: in public as well. I don't think eating is weird.
Speaker 6: It's just like the gross or the abnormal behavior that
Speaker 6: you wouldn't normally do if you were walking down the street.
Speaker 6: But somehow, just because you're in a thing with four
Speaker 6: windows actually more windows than that, but you're in a
Speaker 6: car that you feel like you're in your own personal space.
Speaker 3: We had Maddie William's messages on the pick up Socials
Speaker 3: and she says, I squeeze pimples all the time while driving.
Speaker 6: Yeah, or I know one, pluck your eyebrow hairs. I've
Speaker 6: got tweezers in my front console. When I'm stopped to
Speaker 6: the red lights, do you pull a few of those
Speaker 6: bad boys out? Yeah, it's great, perfect lighting for it too,
Speaker 6: travels in the car with tweezers.
Speaker 3: Sheridan says, I spit my gum out the window into
Speaker 3: the world. I see how far I can get it
Speaker 3: every time, like a little podcast.
Speaker 4: That is actually litter because that doesn't break down. So actually,
Speaker 4: shame on you.
Speaker 3: Sharon chaps and says, I fix my cameltoe from my bodysuit.
Speaker 4: I would do that. I'd fix the cameltoe for sure.
Speaker 2: What does that mean? I brush me?
Speaker 3: Tony says, I brush my teeth and spat the wind
Speaker 3: the SuDS out the car window to save time.
Speaker 5: You can't brush your teeth in the car. That's just crazy.
Speaker 3: If Josie says I once shot myself on the front seat.
Speaker 3: People are even calling, all you're on the money with
Speaker 3: his Jane, what do you do in the privacu car?
Speaker 8: I'm actually giggling because I'm doing a tick as you're
Speaker 8: naming some of these.
Speaker 5: Please right, you've done appeal in the car.
Speaker 8: No, that's one thing I haven't done, although I have
Speaker 8: changed nappies in the car being a mum.
Speaker 5: Of three, yeah, I feel that.
Speaker 8: But one thing I have done in the past a
Speaker 8: couple of times. Actually, it's changed your tampons.
Speaker 5: In the car. What do you do with the car?
Speaker 5: What do you with the assisting tampon?
Speaker 8: You put it in a tissue and then put it
Speaker 8: in the car bin And then.
Speaker 2: Are you driving a mac truck? What do you mean
Speaker 2: a carbin?
Speaker 8: Well, you just have a little nappy bag that you
Speaker 8: put all your bits and pieces in so that your
Speaker 8: car doesn't get dirty. But you could take something from that.
Speaker 1: Why did you Why did you feel like you had
Speaker 1: to change the tampon in the car though?
Speaker 4: Is it was were you in a desert and there
Speaker 4: was no bathroom around?
Speaker 8: Heavy flow and you've got to get from A to
Speaker 8: B and you just you know, pull over, pull it
Speaker 8: out and on the fitness trainer, so.
Speaker 3: I've got to stretched your pans, Emily, Emily, what are
Speaker 3: you do in the car?
Speaker 2: The privacy if you can't hire?
Speaker 9: Look, I realized that it's this implication is that I
Speaker 9: do it ongoing and I definitely don't. So I have once,
Speaker 9: only when I was extremely busting and very postpartum, early postpartum,
Speaker 9: grabbed a nappy from the nappy bag that was in
Speaker 9: the front seat and may have used it to pee on.
Speaker 4: I think Emily too many times.
Speaker 9: Innovative Emilyeing and my child was tiny, and I did
Speaker 9: not want to stop, so just fallen asleep. And you
Speaker 9: know what it is when you're on a long, long
Speaker 9: drive and your postpartum and you've got a baby, it's
Speaker 9: just all too much.
Speaker 6: Well, Emily, you have a good excuse, being postpartum, just
Speaker 6: having a baby. Mitch just I mean, he did admit,
Speaker 6: he did admit something in the break and he said
Speaker 6: I begged us actually not to bring it up. But
Speaker 6: I think it's important now that we're all sharing. Mitch,
Speaker 6: what did you do last weekend to sit it a surf?
Speaker 2: I ran a marathon and that's the end of the show.
Speaker 5: So what did you do?
Speaker 3: I had to go when we're in the middle of
Speaker 3: the highway on the way back from the run, I
Speaker 3: drunk all the hydra light and I fieled at one
Speaker 3: point twenty five liter bottle.
Speaker 5: In the car car. You're disgusting and.
Speaker 2: I had to actually cut it off.
Speaker 4: It's still in there as well, isn't it.
Speaker 2: I went to your house and board it to have
Speaker 2: a sick.
Speaker 4: What I actually did? You are rank? You are the rankest.
Speaker 1: Human, genuinely, And then my NATO's on the way out
Speaker 1: We really flip
Speaker 2: Around on Thanks for listening, guys, Will and what are
Speaker 2: you up next?