1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: When it comes to productivity, you are your own worst enemy. 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Nobody knows how to trick you into procrastinating or cutting 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: corners quite like you do. You know all of your 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: own strengths, weaknesses, and thought patterns. But if you know 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: yourself better than anyone else does, that also means that 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: you are your own best resource for productivity tools, hacks, 7 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: tips and tactics. New York Times best selling author and 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 1: ex Hollywood screenwriter Eric Barker knows how important specificity is, 9 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: especially when it comes to productivity. So while he loves 10 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: pouring over productivity books, courses, videos, and articles, he knows 11 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: that ultimately it's all down to him, which is why 12 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: Eric wrote his own productivity bible called the Book of Me. 13 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: So what is the Book of Me? And how can 14 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: it help help you? My name is doctor amanthe Immer. 15 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 1: I'm an organizational psychologist and the founder of Behavioral science 16 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: consultancy Inventium, and this is how I work a show 17 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: about how to help you do your best work. On 18 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: today's My Favorite Tip episode, we go back to an 19 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: interview from the past and I pick out my favorite 20 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: tip from the interview. In today's show, I speak with 21 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: Eric about his Book of Me. 22 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: I call it kind of like the Book of Me, 23 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 2: where basically it's like, instead of these all purpose, generally 24 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: good sort of advice tips, these are like specific to 25 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 2: me where it's like, you, Eric, you are going to 26 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: tell yourself that you will get to this later and 27 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: you never do, so, do not fool yoursel. It's like 28 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: it's like it's like Doctor Jekyl like chaining himself when 29 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: he knows that mister Hyde is coming, where it's like, okay, 30 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: how do you lie to yourself? What other rationalizations you 31 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: usually tell? Oh, you know what, today, I'll start off 32 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: with something simple. I can do that really hard work. Late. No, 33 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 2: you can't, and you know it, and we have. If 34 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 2: you look in the notebook here, you've written this down 35 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 2: four times that you thought you could do it and 36 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: you never did it. And I think that's the advice 37 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: that no book can ever ever ever give you, no 38 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: guru can ever give you, no blog post can ever 39 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: give you, is your own idiosyncrasies. You know nobody can 40 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: kind of maybe a spouse might have some clue or something, 41 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 2: or a partner you live with, but overall, really that's 42 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 2: there is an enormous amount of good advice that can 43 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: only come from you to you, and you need to 44 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 2: write it down. You need to write it down, You 45 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: need to review it because otherwise you will rationalize and 46 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: you will tell yourself things and to have answers to 47 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 2: those questions to be able to say, you know what 48 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: taking you know, an extra day off? Is that the 49 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: kind of thing that you come back and you are 50 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: energized and ready to go, and it's such a good idea. 51 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: Or you take a day off and all of a sudden, 52 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: you just took three days off and you did, like 53 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: which kind of person are you? That can have different 54 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: effects on people? If you start writing down I know 55 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: that this happens. I know if I wake up after 56 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: this hour, you know, stuff doesn't get done. If I 57 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 2: go to bed this night, Eric, that third drink is 58 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: not a good idea, you know, just like having that 59 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: list is so powerful and like I said, it's it's 60 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: advice that only you can give you. And then reading 61 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: a lot of productivity stuff like, all of a sudden, 62 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: there becomes an easy way to implement it. Because once 63 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: you start having these personal rules and you and you, 64 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: like I said, you real man, today went really badly? 65 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: What did I do and then you can say, oh, 66 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: I did X. You make a note, and all of 67 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: a sudden, the structure creates itself because like it or not, 68 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: you're kind of ab testing. You know, maybe you woke 69 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 2: up in the middle of the night and couldn't get 70 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: back to sleep. Okay, you're going to learn something today. 71 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 2: Maybe you overslept today. Okay, you're going to learn something today. 72 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,119 Speaker 2: And every time I get a tip, I can now, 73 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, it can slot right in like, oh, 74 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 2: they say break should be this long. I let me 75 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 2: try that. Oh that didn't work, And you can like 76 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, and then what you find is 77 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 2: it just kind of all comes together like Voltron, Like 78 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: you got all the pieces and they're just kind of clicking, 79 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 2: because all of a sudden, you have these rules and 80 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: you sort of know, you sort of know what works. 81 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 2: And as long as you read the Bible of you, 82 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: then your productivity religion will stay sacred. 83 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this tip from Eric, you might want 84 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: to go and listen to the full interview. You can 85 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: find a link to that in the show notes. 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