WEBVTT - Would You Rather🤔 Share Your Location 📍 Or Your Passwords 🔑 ?

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast. It's

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<v Speaker 2>Flex and Frooms on Caita.

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<v Speaker 3>We only do one thing here, and that's answer the

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<v Speaker 3>big questions, and it's some other things that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>don't really make the cut. I've been doing a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of thinking, prompted by the Internet, mostly but also prompted

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<v Speaker 3>by my own life experience, and I was would.

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<v Speaker 2>We call it an epiphany? No, we could just call

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<v Speaker 2>it a thought. It's a thought. It's a thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Which do you think is a lesser evil in relationships?

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<v Speaker 3>Sharing passwords or sharing locations?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>This?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't mean to come on the internet, to come

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<v Speaker 3>on live radio and be controversial. I don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>not everything I do as a statement. However, this one

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I necessarily have strong opinions on. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm always surprised when I'm interacting with someone who has

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<v Speaker 3>really strong opinions on it. I am someone who shares

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<v Speaker 3>phone locations. Wow, have I ever prompted someone to share

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<v Speaker 3>theirs with me?

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<v Speaker 2>First?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>So basically one of my best friends, who I've known

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<v Speaker 3>forever is an avid location sharer. So as a novelty

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<v Speaker 3>at the start, of our relationship, like you know howe

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<v Speaker 3>many years ago, ten or whatever or whenever the function

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<v Speaker 3>came out to share locations, but we worked together, so

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<v Speaker 3>it was like we worked together.

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<v Speaker 2>With were friends. It was funny. It was a gag.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also felt like coming off the back of Snapchat,

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<v Speaker 3>whenever we use that popular popular really well and I understand,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you could see the snap map and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, this is hectic. Why everybody lives and so,

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<v Speaker 3>because she's a location sharer, what will often happen is

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<v Speaker 3>that she'll talk to me in front of other people

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<v Speaker 3>and just know certain things. Oh, when I was checking

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<v Speaker 3>Little's location, I saw so and so and so, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I was wondering how that date went because like Lil

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<v Speaker 3>had moved locations and I couldn't recognize where this was.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think this is completely normal, And people be like,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you have that information? I'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>we share locations, one of two things will happen. Can

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<v Speaker 3>I now, if you're a close, close friend, yeah, babe,

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<v Speaker 3>jump on board.

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<v Speaker 2>This is funny.

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<v Speaker 3>But then you have other people who are like, that's

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<v Speaker 3>so strange. And then my first response is like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have anything to hide, like I just.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't don't have anything to hide until you have someone

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<v Speaker 1>to hide. Well, this is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>When it comes to like locations, I'm so not fussed

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<v Speaker 3>about it, to the point where I have to kind

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<v Speaker 3>of flag with this friend, like it is not commonplace

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<v Speaker 3>for you to know where I am when I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't create a new norm where you think people are

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<v Speaker 3>being secretive or weird if they don't want to share

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<v Speaker 3>their location with you, Because I think she's also whopped

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<v Speaker 3>in being like, well these people are so weird and secretive,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, no, we're just codependent.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a bit different.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking about this in conjunction with people who

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<v Speaker 3>share their phone passwords, because look, I'll share a phone

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<v Speaker 3>password with a friend. Again, I don't mind. But in

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<v Speaker 3>this instance, if a partner was like, let's share pass

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<v Speaker 3>D be like, well what for?

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<v Speaker 2>What do we need to do that for?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't share a single password with a single person.

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't be I just can't be trusted either way.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Like, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know what I'm saying. I have moods I talked,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it was seen out of context.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, like everything on this phone is criminal, literally,

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<v Speaker 3>But I also feel like there's something I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like about being accomplices, Like your crime is my crime.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess let's do crime together.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what you need to realize is that if

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<v Speaker 1>you're ever involved in a court case, they can go

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<v Speaker 1>through messages.

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<v Speaker 2>They could do that. Now. Can you imagine the person

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<v Speaker 2>I could go to America and they would they could

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<v Speaker 2>check my phone? Do you know that's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen on TikTok a bunch of OnlyFans creators getting

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<v Speaker 3>stopped as a flying to the US because they're cracking

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<v Speaker 3>down on self employed only fans creators because as part

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<v Speaker 3>of the esther the visa thing that you sign when

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<v Speaker 3>you go, you have to confron that you're not going

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<v Speaker 3>there to do work. And it gets a bit tricky

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<v Speaker 3>because people often go to do work. But yeah, think

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<v Speaker 3>about it, not saying that you have to do either or.

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<v Speaker 3>But one thing that I'm trying to work on just

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<v Speaker 3>in life generally is what we kind of spoke about

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<v Speaker 3>the other day of that cool girl over correction. So

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<v Speaker 3>a cool girl cares about nothing, and then when she

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<v Speaker 3>realizes that she actually cares a lot, she suddenly cares

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<v Speaker 3>about everything, and everything is like off limits and off bounds,

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<v Speaker 3>and she has strong opinions. And so with this in particular,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel very strongly about the locations thing. For

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<v Speaker 3>other people, it's sets of alarm belts. What do they

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<v Speaker 3>want to know? Why they're keeping tabs? I don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>strongly about it, and it's good for me to know

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<v Speaker 3>that instead of internalizing this whole like they don't trust

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<v Speaker 3>me or I have something to hide. And with the

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<v Speaker 3>phone passwords thing, people are insane as am I that's

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<v Speaker 3>just crazy. Can you imagine someone like dating someone or

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<v Speaker 3>befriending someone where this was the kind of test they

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<v Speaker 3>were putting you through to gauge if you were trustworthy

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<v Speaker 3>give me your phone password.

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<v Speaker 2>They say you.

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<v Speaker 1>Must be boring if you were going to give it

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<v Speaker 1>away

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