WEBVTT - Honour The Season You Are In

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Georgie Stevenson. I'm a lawyer and health coach,

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<v Speaker 1>social media influencer, wife and dog mum. On the Rise

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<v Speaker 1>and Conquer Podcast, we dive deep into all things mindset, habits, career, health,

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<v Speaker 1>relationships and more. This is a podcast for women who

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<v Speaker 1>want to rise up to be the best version of themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>who have big dreams in who are willing to put

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<v Speaker 1>in the work to get there. I want to bring

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<v Speaker 1>you the tools and actionable steps to feel confident in yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>inspired to take bold action, and motivated to conquer your goals.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you with me, girl friends, Let's rise and conquer. Hi, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome to another episode of the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. Today,

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<v Speaker 1>I am coming to you with a solo podcast. It

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<v Speaker 1>is Sunday morning. I've actually just done a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>work in bed this morning with my coffee, which is

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<v Speaker 1>something I love doing if I'm working on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I went for a really nice walk on

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<v Speaker 1>the beach and I've actually been listening to this like

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<v Speaker 1>tape with like mantras, and then I came back and

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<v Speaker 1>did a little meditation I'm feeling very calm, very zen,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just had this idea for this podcast, so

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<v Speaker 1>not planned as usual with my solo podcast, but today

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<v Speaker 1>I want to chat to you about honoring the season

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<v Speaker 1>that you were in. So this has come about because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a season. I don't know if I've actually

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<v Speaker 1>told you guys this yet. I get confused what I have,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm currently in a season of slow and this

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<v Speaker 1>is because was previously probably the last six months, I

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<v Speaker 1>just had a very hectic schedule with the live podcast

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<v Speaker 1>events like launching naked harvests and just a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>personal things, and it really feels like I've been on

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<v Speaker 1>this like automation, like I have not had time to stop,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've just been like smashing out content, smashing out

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<v Speaker 1>things really happy and I love doing that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But probably a good month ago I really felt this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like inner intuition feeling that I just I

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<v Speaker 1>needed to slow down. And it very much felt like

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<v Speaker 1>physically like I felt just very exhausted and drained. Mentally,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt very creatively blocked. Actually I definitely did talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this in my Creating Space podcasts, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really had this feeling of I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>create space, I just want to go a bit slower.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me that it was a very foreign concept because,

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys know, like I'm a very fast paced person.

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<v Speaker 1>I went straight from high school and to doing my

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<v Speaker 1>law degree, and then while I was doing that, I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing all my social media, and then I started

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<v Speaker 1>a side business, and then I went full time, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I started a podcast and then Naked Harvest and

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<v Speaker 1>just going one hundred miles per hour all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love it. I really kind of feed off

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of stuff. My personality is like, that's me

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<v Speaker 1>and that's amazing. But you can imagine how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>when my body and mind is kind of like something

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<v Speaker 1>inside me is just like you need to go slow.

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<v Speaker 1>So it took me a while to even realize what

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to do. But now I'm in this season,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yes, this is exactly where I need to be, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is exactly what I need to do. So it

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<v Speaker 1>feels right for me. But in saying that, I do

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<v Speaker 1>have these feelings that pop up that try and get

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<v Speaker 1>me out of you know, this good feeling and this

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<v Speaker 1>flow we'll call it. So stuff pops up like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm slowing down, does that mean that I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to get taken over by forgotten about? You know, a

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<v Speaker 1>people are going to take my good ideas or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just is something going to happen because I'm slowing down?

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<v Speaker 1>And I've realized that this is such a fear based

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<v Speaker 1>mentality that I know we all get that really tries

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<v Speaker 1>to take off this like aligned path where we're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be. And I know you guys might also be

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<v Speaker 1>in a certain season and you kind of you know

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<v Speaker 1>you should be there, you know what you're doing, but

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<v Speaker 1>this fear based mentality does come up, it rears its head,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of like it puts self doubt in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind. And so I really want to to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this and really create a podcast that's about, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>telling you guys and telling myself really that when you

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<v Speaker 1>are in a season and you know you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be in this season, of really honoring it. So stop

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<v Speaker 1>looking around and feeling like you're missing out or you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something, you're not doing something you should be doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and just really trust where you need to be, trust

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<v Speaker 1>your intuition, and don't live in that fear based mentality.

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, I actually have a friend at the

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<v Speaker 1>moment and she is saving, well, she's not saving for

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<v Speaker 1>a house. Her and her partner have already they've already

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<v Speaker 1>got a mortgage and they're building a house, but they

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<v Speaker 1>currently live in a rental house, so they're having to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pay the mortgage they're building a new house,

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<v Speaker 1>or the expenses plus pay rent. So basically she can't

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<v Speaker 1>do too much because she's got to save money for that.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were discussing how, you know, she does feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she's missing out on things because she's literally having

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<v Speaker 1>to say no, I can't afford that. And she is

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<v Speaker 1>a social butterfly, so she's kind of she used to

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<v Speaker 1>always doing stuff with us, always coming to the events,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, kind of doing whatever she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>do in regards to money. And she kind of said

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<v Speaker 1>that she was feeling like isolated and she was feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like she was missing out. But we had a big

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<v Speaker 1>discussion about it, and then she said, you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>is my current season, and instead of looking outwards and

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like I'm missing out and feeling isolated and all

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of stuff, I need to trust that the

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<v Speaker 1>season I'm in, I need to kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>be in this season and do it. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm out of this season, I'll have money to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, come and do whatever I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>or hang with my friends and imagine how great I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to feel because I've been in that previous season

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<v Speaker 1>of saving money. And I feel like we can all

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<v Speaker 1>have seasons. So you know, you might be complete opposite me,

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<v Speaker 1>and you might be in this season of just getting

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<v Speaker 1>shit done, like Boss girl mode, getting stuff done, and

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<v Speaker 1>you might be going one hundred miles an hour, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know you might be feeling like, oh, should

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<v Speaker 1>I be slowing down? You know what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>The self doubt comes up. But if you really feel

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<v Speaker 1>aligned in what you're doing and it almost feels easy

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<v Speaker 1>to be in that season of get shit done, like

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<v Speaker 1>that is where you're meant to be. This can also

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<v Speaker 1>be a season of you know, maybe training and eating.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're in a season of it's just not a

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<v Speaker 1>priority at the moment. You're not training as much as

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<v Speaker 1>you usually would or eating as healthy as usually would

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<v Speaker 1>maybe work as the priority. And I think you need

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<v Speaker 1>to realize that things ebb and flow so at the

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<v Speaker 1>moment because you're training and eating isn't necessarily a priority,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean it never will be. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>really need to be in a season where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>work or whatever it is, is a parity, then you

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<v Speaker 1>need to trust in that. Or maybe it's something like

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<v Speaker 1>you aren't seeing your friends as much at the moment

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<v Speaker 1>because you're so busy, and you know, you have these

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<v Speaker 1>feelings of guilt and you know, will they be there

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm finished or anything like that, and maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>just isn't your season to be social. Like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I literally had two years, two full years where I

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<v Speaker 1>just really did not see like even my best friend,

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<v Speaker 1>I barely even saw her. But then I had this

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<v Speaker 1>year after where I was like this social butterfly and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like going out, I was seeing everyone. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's about honoring that, because a big thing

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<v Speaker 1>for me is realizing that everything ebbs and flows. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're currently in this season and you're almost like

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<v Speaker 1>pushing against it and you're not honoring the season that

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<v Speaker 1>you're in, it will feel really hard and it will

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<v Speaker 1>not feel good. So for example, like maybe you're really

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<v Speaker 1>trying to push something, so you're really trying to push

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<v Speaker 1>an idea or push in a like a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not working. And so I think you need

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<v Speaker 1>to take a step back and realize in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>where am I not listening to my intuition, aligning with

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<v Speaker 1>where I meant to be, and honoring the season that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in. I'm definitely that person who previously, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I wanted something or wanted to do something or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that, like I would just push and push

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<v Speaker 1>and push. But now I've realized that that just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work and things don't have to be so hard. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was a big thing for me actually with training

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<v Speaker 1>and eating, Like I would go through seasons where it

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<v Speaker 1>was just so easy to get like forty five minute

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<v Speaker 1>work in every single day, to eat healthy, like it

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<v Speaker 1>just was seamless, and then there was seasons where it

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<v Speaker 1>felt so difficult. And I always find like when things

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<v Speaker 1>are so difficult and if they're just not working, I

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<v Speaker 1>would then turn my attention to something else, focus on

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<v Speaker 1>where I needed to align myself as something else in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, and like I said, things will ebb and flow,

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<v Speaker 1>so then that would come back again in the future.

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<v Speaker 1>now let's get straight back into the episode. Another thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm doing differently is previously in my business, I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of like logical, So if I was deciding

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<v Speaker 1>on a partnership or a next step or a new project,

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<v Speaker 1>I would ask myself, you know, to suit my business,

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<v Speaker 1>is it a good opportunity. Rather, now I'm getting really

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<v Speaker 1>clear and asking myself does it excite me? And does

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<v Speaker 1>it spark joy? Because I really feel like I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the season where that's my end goal, Like that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I want the result to be. So they're the questions

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask myself. So maybe things feel really

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<v Speaker 1>difficult and really hard at the moment because you're not

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<v Speaker 1>aligning with your true, authentic and result, like maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>need to start asking yourself different questions of what you

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<v Speaker 1>really want. I know I keep saying this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>really love this concept of everything ebbs and flows. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in a season of slow maybe you have

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<v Speaker 1>creativity blocks, trust that soon or somewhere in the future

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<v Speaker 1>that it's going to come back. So if there's anything

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<v Speaker 1>lacking in your life now, don't live in the fear

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<v Speaker 1>mentality of you're never going to get it. Just have

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<v Speaker 1>faith and trust that you know it's not happening at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. That's all good. I'm going to focus on

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<v Speaker 1>what needs to be more aligned in my life and

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of I call it surrendering. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>something that has been quite hard for me because I

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<v Speaker 1>am someone who I'm just such a control freak, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a tipaid control freak. So I've had to learn

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<v Speaker 1>this process of really surrendering the outcome, surrendering and just

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<v Speaker 1>going Okay, what do I need to do, like guide

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<v Speaker 1>me universe. And it's actually funny because I don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this too much, but I love doing meditation at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment and I have this really cool mantra that

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<v Speaker 1>I say, so for example, I'll often do a meditation

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<v Speaker 1>where I sit down and I recite a mantra. I

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<v Speaker 1>put on some really nice like meditation music, and I

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<v Speaker 1>set my alarm for five or ten minutes and I

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<v Speaker 1>get my breath really long and you know, relaxing, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I just recite this mantra for the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say, I trust the universe is guiding me

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<v Speaker 1>exactly where I need to be. And so I'll often

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<v Speaker 1>do this if you know those kind of the fear

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<v Speaker 1>mentality is popping up, if the self doubt is popping up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you guys, but so for example,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in this season of slow, and then I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and I'll see that, you know, some girl

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<v Speaker 1>is doing this big new project and it seems really exciting,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, this thought pops up and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I need to do a new project or start

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<v Speaker 1>this or do that. And then I've got to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of push it down and stop kind of stop comparing

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<v Speaker 1>myself and stop looking outwards and just go, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>honoring the season of slow. I really need to be here,

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<v Speaker 1>like my intuition is telling me I need to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'll often do this meditation and so like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I trust the unit, I'll say I trust

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<v Speaker 1>the universe is guiding me exactly where I need to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll keep reciting that, and then after i will

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<v Speaker 1>get this feeling of calmness and I'm like, yes, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is exactly what I'm meant to be doing. This

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<v Speaker 1>is this season I'm meant to be in. So kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like clarity, which is something I always seek. And also,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, if things don't feel aligned at the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>if things like if your intuition is not lining up,

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<v Speaker 1>or you don't feel like you're connected to your intuition,

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<v Speaker 1>or if things are really painful and hard, maybe there

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<v Speaker 1>is something that needs to be realigned in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>So start looking where things aren't going well, where you're

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<v Speaker 1>having to really push things instead of flow, and then

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<v Speaker 1>look to areas of your life where things are really flowing.

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<v Speaker 1>So something that I don't know if you guys have noticed,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you have me on Instagram, which is just

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<v Speaker 1>at Georgie Stevenson, I'm really talking a lot about not

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<v Speaker 1>even talking, but you'll see from my Insta stories like

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<v Speaker 1>every single day I'm really seeking joy, which is something

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<v Speaker 1>I never used to do. I don't know, it just

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<v Speaker 1>never occurred to me that I should be enjoying every

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<v Speaker 1>single day. I realize that sounds a bit traumatic, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. So, for example, I've got this series

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<v Speaker 1>on my interest stories where I really want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a front flip and like land on my feet, and

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<v Speaker 1>so me and Tim will go down to the beach,

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<v Speaker 1>or I'll go down to the beach the body my

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<v Speaker 1>little nephew, and like we'll jump off the sand dunes

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll try and do a ford flip, and I

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<v Speaker 1>usually am like just stacking it and like me and

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<v Speaker 1>Tim are laughing, and then he tries, and the whole

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<v Speaker 1>experience is very like in a child, and we're just

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<v Speaker 1>out there. There's nothing, like we're not doing that for

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<v Speaker 1>anything except joy. And so I'm really seeking joy. And

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that that was an area in my life

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<v Speaker 1>that things were really just flowing. Like the days where

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting the joy in, they were like really

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<v Speaker 1>good days. I was having a really productive day at work.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the days where I wasn't getting joy in

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't focusing on joy, things were feeling really

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<v Speaker 1>hard and tough. So I kind of was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to start adding in more joy. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>funny because like these downloads that I like to call them,

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<v Speaker 1>they were they would just come to you when you

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<v Speaker 1>are getting more in tune with how you feel. And

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<v Speaker 1>the first step is just being aware. So if as

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying rambling on as I do with these

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<v Speaker 1>solo podcasts, if straight away you thought of something that

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<v Speaker 1>does not feel aligned, maybe have a look of how

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<v Speaker 1>you can change that in your life, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>baby steps of how you can start doing less of

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<v Speaker 1>it or outsource it, or have a conversation if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship or anything like that. And then also I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee when I was talking about feeling aligned, something popped

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<v Speaker 1>in your head about what feels really aligned to you

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment in your life, like what is bringing

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<v Speaker 1>you joy, what is feeling in flow? And start doing

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<v Speaker 1>more of that. I'm going to finish the podcast, but

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I'm just really honoring the season I'm in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not looking around. I'm not looking what others are

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<v Speaker 1>doing or you know, logically thinking what I should do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really trusting what feels good and what feels aligned,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm leaning into that rather than leaning into the

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<v Speaker 1>fear and the self doubt. And it feels good. It

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<v Speaker 1>feels really good, and just so I wanted to touch

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<v Speaker 1>on it today. But I hope you have a lovely

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<v Speaker 1>day or night whenever you are listening, and I'll chat

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<v Speaker 1>to you in my next episode. Bye for now. Thanks

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