1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nason. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 2: Can I give you the clap you so richly deserve 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 2: for putting on a fantastic twenty first for your youngest 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 2: son on Friday night. I'm always worried about twenty first 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: because they're fraught. I've put on a couple of myself 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 2: and I think, ty worried that's going to be okay. 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 1: You know what, Jack's eighteenth had to be canceled because 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: of COVID, and I was so relieved I lost a deposit. 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: Who cares because eighteenth's a fraud. I thought at twenty 10 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: one they're a little bit better. But then you describe 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: what the bathroom looked like, and I said, maybe not. 12 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: But we didn't have it at home. We rented a 13 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: room in a pub and they are about one hundred 14 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: and ten people something like that. And the pub, I 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: shall give them a shout out, was the Clavelli Hotel. 16 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: It was the Ocean View Room. Because they were brilliant 17 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: to deal with and they brought up food. They you know, pizzas, cheeseplates, 18 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: all of them, alcohol, soaking up. 19 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: Food, all that brought up in the trough. 20 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: I'm just not the young men, what are you going 21 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: to do now? 22 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: I walked in there and I went, hey, boys, and 23 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: I started to just you know, I started to pick 24 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 2: up some glass and I thought, there's nothing I can 25 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 2: do here. It looked like sygone, well. 26 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: Let's bye the bye. That's that was. 27 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 2: Away from that. 28 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: Away from that, it was a fantastic night. We had 29 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: a DJ and it was just great. And you know, 30 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: it was It was a hard week for me leading 31 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: up to it because normally I wanted to put some 32 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: slide a slideshow together to play throughout the night. And 33 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: normally that is Harley's domain. He has been the guy 34 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: who will make the kid's birthday invitations. He's very creative. 35 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: He will work on the computer to do this funky stuff. 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: Normally he would have done all of that. And with 37 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: the way things are with Harley at the moment, he's 38 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: got he's got Parkinson's disease and things are just hard. 39 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: So that kind of skill set isn't with him anymore. 40 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: He doesn't have dementia any of that stuff, but that 41 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: stuff's hard for him to do now. And so, and 42 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: also I was going through a whole lot of photos 43 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: on my phone and seeing photos of when he was well, 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: and it was a very emotional week leading up to 45 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: the twenty first, and I'd like to give a shout 46 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: out to Jenna here who helped me put together the 47 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: slide show, and to Netty who did an amazing job gitching. 48 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: They gave me the work laptop, all that stuff. But 49 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: leaving the house to go to Jack's party, I thought, 50 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: and it's not right that Harley can't come. I really 51 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: felt lonely, thinking it's our son's twenty first, but how 52 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: hard it is for Harley and how much he would 53 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,399 Speaker 1: have loved to have been there. So there we are 54 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: having a great time. The speeches are about to start, 55 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: and my friend Kate said to me, there's Harley, And 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 1: I looked over and I know what it cost him 57 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: to be there. He and our friend Pam and our 58 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: driver friend Cole had conspired to get Harley there for 59 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: the speeches, and it was so moving. And then to 60 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 1: see Jack without a beer in his hand for ten minutes, 61 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: to sit with Harley, and to see Liam and friends 62 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: come over and say a lot to Harley. And a 63 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: lot of people were shocked because I hadn't seen Harlee 64 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: for a while. But I know what it cost him 65 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: to get there. And he said to me, how could 66 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: I not be here? So anyway, it was an amazing, 67 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: amazing night. Harley was there for about an hour or so, 68 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: he didn't hopefully have to see that horror in the bathroom. 69 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 1: And it was everything I was hoping that night would be. 70 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 1: It was fun, it was rollicking. Jack's friend Louis made 71 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: a hilarious speech. It was just a great, great night, 72 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: and I'm so glad you and your family were there. 73 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: I'm just grateful that we're invited. And you know, as 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: I said, it was just that's what a twenty first 75 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: year is. It's all the people from your life. And 76 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: I've known Jack and Liam since before they were born, 77 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: and I've known you and Harley for years. And yeah, 78 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: it was a very emotional, but at the same time 79 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: a very joyous night. 80 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: It was such. It was a hilarious, funny, joyous night. 81 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: Jack's girlfriend was there, Liam's girlfriend was there. I met 82 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: her for the first time. 83 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: That's a lot of pressure, it's a lot of It 84 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 2: was just. 85 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: The most brilliant, brilliant night, and I wish I could 86 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: live it again and again and again, but without that 87 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: bathroom situation. 88 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: Apologies for that. 89 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: It was just great