WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Phil Burton's thoughts on WINNING Dancing with the Stars 🤩 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:20.520 Pickup with Laura, come on in, Hello Lady Hallo. 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.560 But afternoon Monday. 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.040 Hay Monday. How is everyone's a weekend? Did we go 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:26.920 see Barbie? 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.240 No, I didn't get to the cinema. I think we were. 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:31.480 Britta and I are the only people in Australia who 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:33.920 didn't go to the World My God. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.360 Well I went and saw Barbie and it's how I imagine 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:38.400 the Titanic mania was like in the nineties. 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:40.720 I really want to see it. It is high on 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:42.879 the list, but I'd rather just like let it die 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:44.959 down for a week or two and then go, Okay. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.000 Well, here's my hot hot take review. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:47.440 If you're thinking of taking the kids, like you know 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:50.000 they do mums and bub sessions throughout the week, go 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.520 but be prepared to talk to your child about life 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:56.520 and death because it gets so existential. 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:59.240 I don't think Barbie's a movie like even though obviously 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:02.360 Barbie is for I don't think the movies aimed at kids. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.520 From what I read, what did you think I liked? 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:05.840 I'm giving it a six out of ten. 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:07.760 The hype that's been going around the world for the 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:09.440 last six months about this movie, I would have thought 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:11.120 you'd given it an eight or nine. It's like the 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:12.520 scores Laura Gone Dance, Tom Star. 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:15.520 It's not good as six, maybe just above average, but 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:16.960 he's particularly bad. 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:21.840 I didn't love it. I cried twice, and yeah, it's 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.320 six out of ten. I stand by it. Once you 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:24.640 watch it, you'll get it. It'll make sense. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:26.560 Okay, So did you go and see Oppenheimer as well? 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.119 Because I feel like you can't see one without the other. 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:28.959 No, I didn't. 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:31.800 That doesn't interest me at all. I'm more of a 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:34.080 Barbie bon in the atomic Hiroshima isn't exactly. 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:37.600 I mean that really shouldn't surprise anyone, should it? 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:37.960 Would? 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.559 You know who we have joining us today on the show, Barbi. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.440 No, it's not Barbie, but it is the King of 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:46.080 Dancing with the Stars, Elvis is. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:50.000 No, we had Phil Burton joining us. He was the winner, 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:50.920 and you know. 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:52.400 What, it was so awesome to watch it all play 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.080 out last night. He's gonna be joining us telling us 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:57.680 how he feels. We love feeling that we do. He's 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:58.800 a friend of the show man. 0:01:58.720 --> 0:01:59.240 At the moment. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:00.680 Such a sweet and he'll bring it. 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:02.840 Do they get a crown extraordinary? 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:03.080 No? 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:04.040 But he got a mirror ball. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.960 Oh, great, Well, he'll be he and his mirror ball 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.519 will be in. Philburton joins us next. Plus we're still 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:10.960 doing it all week. Taylor Swift's air As World Tour 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:13.079 is coming to Australia and we have all your free 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:15.880 Taylor tickets coming up very soon. Thanks to Chemists Warehouse 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.160 head in today. Great savings every day. It is the 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:21.200 pick up Monday afternoon with Britain. Laura and Mitch rush 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.520 into Chemist Warehouse today for half price off the Bio 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:28.560 Gland Vitamins range. It excludes bolk sizes. Chemist Warehouse, Great 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:30.560 savings every day, Laura. 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:31.399 We wish it were you. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.800 But last night on Channel seven we had the finale 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:35.480 of Dancing with the Stars. 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:38.040 Well and when they say let the best man win, 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.280 he surely did. We have him here King of Dancing 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:41.960 with the Stars. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:43.399 It's philbery Fell. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:44.079 Well done. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.160 Thank you guys, thank you, thank you for having me 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:48.919 on the show again and thank you so much. 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:56.760 Show us your ball. He's got the mirror ball. Wow, 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:57.320 it's big. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:58.320 It's bigger than your head. 0:02:58.520 --> 0:02:59.840 Pretty close, it's getting there. 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.320 You were here at the start of the season and 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:04.680 I had a feeling you did well. 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:07.160 But to win it I mean, was there a little 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:07.960 bit of you that was shocked? 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.920 Oh, completely shocked. I did know that it was going 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.720 to be either myself or Emily that was going to 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:15.040 win it, but we didn't know which one of us 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.880 was going to win, and had absolutely no idea. So 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:21.520 I'd convinced myself all day before watching the finale that 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:23.640 Emily was going to be the winner. But one of 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.160 the great things was that a bunch of us were 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.960 actually together watching the show last night, so a bunch 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.120 of the cast were there watching, So Emily and I 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:33.079 were literally arms around each other watching the result together, 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:36.320 and no matter which name they ran, no matter which 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:38.120 name they read out, it was always just going to 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:39.240 be a really amazing moment. 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:42.160 So do you think your your diva antiques are going 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.640 to increase now? Like human nature is one thing, but 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:46.560 now you've got the mirror ball, You're going to ask 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:48.640 for a whole lot more in the dressing rooms, Like 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.920 you've already taken a toilet break in this chat. 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:54.480 Yeah, completely, I'm solo dressing room from now on. I 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.880 get my own room, I get my own rider. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.160 And only agreed Eminem, I don't talk. 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:01.080 To anyone else any more. I just I take the 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.280 stage off by myself. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:05.080 I wish you could see film now. He's on zoom 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.400 and he will not look the webcam in the eye. 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:08.320 He doesn't want to look at us. 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.840 It's discussed and he prouettes in and out of every meeting. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.640 Yeah, he's still in a sequence one piece suit. It's bizarre. 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:17.320 Phil you and Ashley, you were truly magical to watch. 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.159 It was such a it was so so beautiful and 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:21.960 something else. When we had our rap party and our 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.360 rap drinks, you said that doing Dancing with the Stars 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:27.719 felt life changing to you, and and you're really sentimental 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:31.080 about what an important experience it was for you. Why 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.680 has this been such an important thing for you? 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.320 I think mainly you know, amongst performers and a lot 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.000 of artists and creative people, they have this thing called 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:44.520 imposter syndrome, where basically you have this feeling that you're 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.720 a bit of a fraud and you're not good enough 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:49.480 to do your job, and that at some point someone 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:51.920 is going to tell you that. I think one thing 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:54.680 with doing Dancing with the Stars is that eliminated that 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:57.280 feeling a lot for me, and it gave me so 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.560 much more confidence in myself and I think that is 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.520 the life changing thing that I was talking about is 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:05.680 knowing that anything that I go into in the future, 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.320 I'm gonna have this level of confidence knowing, look, I've 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.520 done something that I never thought i'd be able to do, 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.000 and I've done it well. I can take that feeling 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.520 into the next thing and just go into it with confidence. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.800 And I think now that you've done it and you 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.760 did it successfully. 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:24.800 Well, some of us more successful, but you can look. 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:26.520 Back with pride at what you did and know that 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:28.400 in the future, if you have to take on some 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.479 other challenge, you're going to be able to give it 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.400 a red hot go and you can do it with confidence. 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:34.040 Well, it must be good to know, like you probably 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.200 always wanted if you can hip thrust on your own, 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:37.400 and now you know you can. 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:38.800 Yeah, I can. 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:42.000 I can hip thrust like no one. 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:43.560 And that it's a great hip thrust. 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:46.880 My dream of the day, Philbert, when you and your 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.160 mirror ball you go, you shimmy off to the sunset. 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:50.960 We love you, buddy, We love you Phil. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:52.440 Thank you guys. I love you guys too. 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.920 I'm so sorry, happily, can we all say for the 0:05:56.040 --> 0:06:04.200 very last time, we love you Phil it's Stambay. Next 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.280 on the pickup are your chance at a full row 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.200 of tickets to see Taylor Swift live The Era's World too. 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:10.120 It's in minutes. 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:14.240 It's the Pickup Monday Afternoon with Britt, Laura and Mitch. 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:17.479 Rush into chemist Warehouse today for half price off the 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:21.280 Bioglan Vitamins range. It excludes bulk items Chemists ware House 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.400 Great savings every day. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.599 I wanted to talk to you guys about something that 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.520 is absolutely divide in the Internet right now. It's what's 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.479 happening in Malaysia with the band nineteen seventy five. You 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:35.640 know Matt Heely, he was dating Taylor Swift recently. So 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.360 there's the Good Vibes Music Festival that's happening over there, 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.560 I should say was happening over there. Matt Healy from 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:45.960 nineteen seventy five got on stage and had this realization 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:50.600 when he got there that homosexuality is actually illegal in Malaysia, 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.480 so he didn't know that when he booked this gig. 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:55.040 He gets on stage and he makes this really big 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:58.200 political statement. He starts to make out with his bass 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:02.160 player Ross McDonald. This is a big political statement to say, 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.400 I know homosexuality here is illegal and this is a 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:09.039 bit of a like stuff you moment. I want you 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:12.760 to hear what he said right before the kiss me 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.840 when we were booking shows, I wasn't looking into it. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:26.280 And then I do not see the point inviting to 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:29.840 a country and then telling us who we can have 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:30.240 sex with. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:35.440 And I'm sorry if that offends you and you're religious. 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:39.960 So then he makes this statement. Then they start making 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:43.360 out on stage, and this isn't like a little peck 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:44.920 on the cheek, a peck on the lips. This is 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:48.760 a twenty second makeout like you're in the movie session 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:51.440 make out. And then after the makeout he says this, 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:53.040 all right, we gotta go. 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:57.560 We just got bang from Quala. Okay. I mean, I 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:59.640 think that's iconic behavior, that's fantastic. 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:02.000 So they make the statement make out. Then they've literally 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.119 I'm assuming they run off stage, get on a private 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.400 get and get out of there because it is punishable. 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.400 And I don't think Malaysia would care that this is 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:10.480 a famous band or a famous artist. I think they 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:12.160 probably would have taken this into the hands. They can 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:16.000 probably never go back to Malaysia again. The music festival 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:20.000 was then completely canceled, the rest of the festival was done, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:23.680 and it is dividing the internet for two reasons. One 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:26.280 half of people are saying, good on you for making 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:28.600 a stand, because this is crazy that this is still 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:31.840 illegal in these countries. And the other half is saying, well, 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.960 should you have done that? What good has come from that? 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:35.720 What's going to happen to the rest of the people 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.880 in Malaysia. What's going to happen to homoseexuals in Malaysia 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:40.680 right now? Are they going to be punished for this? 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:44.240 What do you think, Mitch, being in the queer community, 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:47.120 when you look at this from the safety of Australia, 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:49.200 what do you think, Well, on. 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.240 I mean, I'm gay and I can only kiss someone 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:53.080 for thirty five seconds on the pub on the main 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.360 street here in Australia, and that they'd celebrate me. 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:56.640 They've pop confetti, cannons. 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:57.760 No one's going to put you in prison. 0:08:57.960 --> 0:08:59.440 No one's going to in prison me. I think the 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.320 important thing here is to actually note the facts of 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:05.800 how just how bad the anti LGBTQAA plus laws are 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:10.320 in Malaysia. It's illegal, homosexuality is illegal in Malaysia, and 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:13.640 they actually have laws that they practice that criminalize it. 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.960 They branded as sodomy and it's punishable by imprisonment, and 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.880 they practice it, which is very different to having those 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:23.840 laws and turning a blind and exactly they punish it. 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:27.480 In twenty twenty three, Malaysia was ranked the second worst 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:30.079 country in the world for transgender rhymes. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:31.040 It's awful. 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:33.560 So my point there is that, yes, this is right, 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:35.600 This is a good thing to do, because all it 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:38.680 is is putting a microscope on a really big issue 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:39.160 in this country. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:40.920 We're talking about it, it's bringing attention to it. 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:45.560 My worry is this famous, really handsome, famous man gets 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:47.720 to kiss a guy on stage, get on his private jet, 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:49.360 have a Pepsi max and zooed off. 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:50.840 That's my thought on this. 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:53.319 I'm like, what then, Because there's obviously no long term 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.480 implications to Matt Healey. He's never going to go back 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.280 to Kuala Lumpur again. He makes a political statement, he's 0:09:58.320 --> 0:09:59.800 getting a lot of press off the back of it. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.960 Everyone's like, oh, you're a gay icon, you're a hero. 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.840 But then what does it do for the actual people 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:06.400 who live in Kuala Lumpur? 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:08.679 And I think not only that, who are the people 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:11.520 that then suffer. Is it the event organizers because the 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.720 event's completely canceled? Is it all the people there who 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:16.240 paid tickets? Like, does it actually make an impact on 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:19.559 a government level or does it just impact the actual 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:21.439 citizens and people more so? 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:23.040 I think that's a fine sacrifice to pay. 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.400 I think people not going to music festival is fine 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:29.199 for the horrific standards of gay people in Malaysia to 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:30.199 be spoken about. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.160 I agree, and I do think that while maybe nothing 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.640 directly happens next week off the back of this, the 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:37.800 fact that the world is talking about it is baby 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:40.240 steps for them in the right direction. And I think, yeah, 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:43.120 losing I would happily lose the price i'd paid for 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.760 a ticket to go to a music festival if I 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.200 knew it was going to help people in a quick community. 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:49.400 Well, the anger that he's being put towards Matt Healey, 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:52.400 it doesn't make sense to me that anger should go 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:53.520 towards the Malaysian government. 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:54.000 Totally. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:57.760 Don't be protesting Matt Heeley's British flat. Go to the 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:02.320 front steps of the Malaysian government and go we demand change, 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:04.400 because that's the real issue here. It's not a British 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.920 guy kissing a bloke on stage grow up totally. 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:08.000 I totally agree. 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:09.920 I think the thing that's being missed though, is the 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.200 fact that it is a country where sixty four percent 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:15.599 of people are Islamic, so the majority of the population, 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.320 their religious beliefs are going to be in contrary to 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:19.880 what the rest of the world is thinking and feeling. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:23.040 But a lot of Islaming people are gay one percent. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:25.040 The reason that they're not out is because they go 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:25.520 to prison. 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:29.080 So also, can I just say, like time and time again, 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.880 throughout history, social change has been brought on by moments 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.520 like this. Social change doesn't happen in political boardrooms. It 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.439 never has, never will. So you have to have these 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:39.439 moments for actual change to happen. And today I'm announcing 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:40.319 I'm running for Prime minister. 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:43.439 Wow, sorry for president President? Where that come from? A 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:48.240 president in Australia, in Malaysia? 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:50.440 Qual We can't wait to see it? 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:51.280 Okay? All right? 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.080 Next on the show, we got a five hundred dollars 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:55.520 chemist sware House gift card. It's a biggie up for 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.000 grabs if you want that, we'll do it. Next on 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:00.640 The Pickup Hates the pick Up Monday Afternoon, we've Laura 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.959 and Mitchire. 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And usually by the time you've 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.920 gotten to that point in a relationship, you know whether 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:31.480 they're going to be okay or not okay. 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:33.440 You've done a few birth in classes, you know you 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:33.840 would have. 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.720 A baby in yourself hopefully if you didn't think this 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:36.800 person haud guide you through it. 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:37.720 It is relatively decent. 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.080 Well, there was a woman on TikTok recently and she 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.600 shared a list of all the very questionable things her 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.800 husband did when she went into labor and then ultimately 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:48.880 brought their baby child. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:49.280 Into the world. 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.920 Not only is it a list, she's also like itemized 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.120 it by time because there was just so many of them, 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:56.079 right let's kick it off. 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.640 Have a listen to this six pm. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:59.439 I want to brook at two pm. Six pm things 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.000 are happening, and he asked me what was for dinner, Like, 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:03.280 I'm a little busy, dilating. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:07.439 I can't fire up the hide on some men to 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:10.360 think that she'll still have a roast chick in the oven. 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:13.200 Also uber eats, like you can take care of yourself, Pal, 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.680 I'm trying to do my like my deep breathing right now. 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.600 I don't cook when I'm not giving birth, So fat 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:20.520 chance when I'm baby coming out. 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:24.360 For men bashing, But odd bash that man with my words, 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:29.880 because that is how stupid you can prove your wife 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:32.360 isn't your mother. Sorry, that's that's stupid. 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.600 Oh it gets worse. Michturi five am. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.800 So he's been like taking pictures the whole time and 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.680 sending them to my family and like keeping them update 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.280 what's going on. But later I look at these photos, 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:46.520 I'm titso like just boo boobies, booby setting for my 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:47.360 boobies to my dad. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:51.960 Yeah, like sending updates throughout the course of the duration 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:55.400 of the birth to the family group, chat of everything. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.600 She's done, but not the. 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:59.840 Titties, but like she yeah, he's just sending them without 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:03.120 thinking that maybe maybe she wants some privacy, maybe there's 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.320 a reason why her entire family aren't in the room 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:06.320 with her during labor. 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:08.880 And finally eight am, Yes, that was only the hospital 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:09.440 for eight hours. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:10.000 I was crazy. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.400 So it was time to go and they were kind 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:12.800 of like, can you need something before you leave? And 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:14.280 I was like, oh, I have a protein bar in 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.320 my in my bag, so grabbed the protein bo and 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:18.960 he's like, can we split that. I'm hungry? 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:20.360 Is that top? 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:23.120 It is that post birth? Would you? Yeah? Post birth? 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:25.240 So she's gone in given hang on what she's gone 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.160 and given birth and then left in eight hours? 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.120 Yeah, I mean some people do that. 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:29.720 She's a woman. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:30.280 I left. 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:32.600 I left four hours after How to put the dinner on? 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:35.120 Yeah, she had to go onto a load of washing, 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:36.960 wash the floorboards. Okay. 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.560 My thing is, after you have gone through labor and 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:43.160 you've given birth, you are so hungry. You are so thirsty, 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:48.520 You're so insatiably hungry. And he was prioritizing himself give 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:49.840 the woman her damn protein. 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.000 Well, but he didn't get. 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:52.760 To eat dinner because she didn't cook it in time. 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.360 Yeah, he's hungry. 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:56.760 You've had kids, You've got two gorgeous kids with your husband, 0:14:56.720 --> 0:15:00.760 Matty Jay, how is he like during childbirth? Because he 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.680 is such a sweet, considerate, empathetic man. I feel like 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:04.880 he'd be the perfect partner. 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.320 The reason why I found this list so funny was 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:11.520 because so I went into I went to labor with 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.840 Marley and we were induced, and Matt was hell bent 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:17.720 on creating a TikTok about all the things you shouldn't 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.880 say when your partner's in labor. But the thing was 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:24.480 I was actually in labor, and he was making a 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:27.360 TikTok about the things you shouldn't like, the irony in 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:30.080 that whole thing. Anyway, this went on for eight hours, 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:32.040 because I was in labor for eight hours, and then 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:35.400 the doctor comes in and goes, you're ten centimeters dilated. 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:36.920 I'm just going to go and get the nurses and 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.960 everything because it's almost time to start pushing. 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:40.120 Doctor leave's. 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:43.480 Matt goes, Oh, I don't know how long it's going 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:44.840 to take, but I'm really hungry, so I'm just going 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.440 to go down to the cafe and get chicken sandwich. 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:51.760 Leave what leaves where it goes downstairs. He go time 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.240 and he got a chicken sandwich. But he made it 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:57.000 back just in time, and he was very good the 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:58.080 actual pushing. 0:15:57.920 --> 0:15:58.840 Let him go down. 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:01.680 I think I was delirious by that point in time. 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:03.440 I don't think I newly knew what was going on. Also, 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:05.760 his mum was there with us in the room. No what, 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:07.560 and she's amazing, so she was. 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:08.400 Yeah, she was doing all that. 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:10.520 Were you asked if it was okay if your mother 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:12.320 in law was there while you were bald eagle. 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:15.760 Yes, yes, I know that sounds very random, but no, 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.880 it was wonderful having Ellie there because it also meant 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:21.720 that whilst Matt got very hungry and needed many many 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.640 food stops, there was someone there to fill in for him. 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:27.040 Put it that way. He tagged him out with his mum. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.280 And then his mum was right. 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.000 There and she she was down there at the business end, 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:33.120 and he was up top at the party end. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:34.560 So he didn't want to see what was going on 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:36.080