1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. You're joined by journalists Amy 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: and Sophie Torber for our very special Under the Influence episode. 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: And we are so excited to be joined but probably 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: the most talked about Married at First Sight contestant from 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: this year, Martha. Martha, thank you so much for joining us. 6 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 2: No worries, all good. 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, We're so excited to speak with you because you 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: are you are our favorite or married at first Sight. 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 2: I have to say, oh my god when people tell 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: me that, I really find it hard to believe that. 11 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: So actually I was actually so shocking. But okay, I'll 12 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 2: take it. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: Well, because you brought the entertainment every week. 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: You know. 15 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: That's one of the reasons why people chune into a 16 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: show like that, is I mean, I, for one, I 17 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: loved when you threw the wine. I just was like, 18 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, she went there. 19 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 2: You loved when I threw the wine. Okay, I like you. 20 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 2: We can be friends. 21 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: Oh look, we've all been in those situations, haven't we. 22 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: I've never done anything like that ever before, Like I 23 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: have never ever. I'm usually not really I'm not really 24 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: that like aggressive. I've never been violence or anything like 25 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: that ever. And I feel like I was in a 26 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 2: position though that like I've never like my blood boiled 27 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: to new levels, like new levels. 28 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: Well I think also, people know when they're watching reality 29 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: TV they were only seeing one part of someone's personality anyway, 30 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: So I'm sure there's lots of you that we perhaps 31 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: didn't see. Was it frustrating that perhaps the other sides 32 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: of you weren't portrayed as much as this other side. 33 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 2: Was so annoying, so annoying because like you, nobody really 34 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: gets to see like I am fiercely loyal, like to 35 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 2: my friends, to my partner, Like I just feel like 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: no one gets to see any of that, And that 37 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: was like the really annoying part. Like, yeah, I can 38 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 2: be cheeky and funny and I can say silly things, 39 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 2: but like I'm also like a really loyal person, and 40 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 2: I feel like everyone really overlooked how like loyal and 41 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: how much effort I put into actually, you know, getting 42 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: to know Michael, and like Michael wasn't necessarily my type, 43 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: but yet I really like put in the effort to 44 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: peel back the layers and get to know him, you know, 45 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: I feel like it was so overlooked. Everyone overlooked that. 46 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: And it is, and I think it shows how fiercely 47 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: loyal you are and what type of person you are 48 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: that you're still with Michael. It shows how successful that 49 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: relationship is. And we have to say congratulations. I hear 50 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: it was your one year anniversary last month. 51 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: No, it's crazy, though, that is crazy, Like, no one 52 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: is more shocked than us. 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: Well, we loved how you celebrated your one year anniversary. 54 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: I've heard so much online about the picture you posted. 55 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: Can you explain it to people who haven't seen it. 56 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: Oh, it's just a photo of us too. Like we 57 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: had just come up from the pool. We're a few 58 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: margaritas deep, and I were just sitting on the balcony. 59 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 2: There was a really nice sunset. I was just you know, 60 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: I didn't have clothes on because I was about to 61 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: have a shower actually, and I just thought, my god, 62 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: how do we look out here in this light? Quickly 63 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: get the selfie light out of the photo. 64 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: It's a great pick. 65 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was I didn't think. To be honest, I 66 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: didn't even think it was racy or anything. But I 67 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: feel like I don't know, I honestly don't know why 68 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: people made such a big deal out of it. I 69 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 2: swear to you girls, I do not understand it. Like 70 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: my grandmother is like, she's like, please please, I want 71 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 2: these framed for my house. I'm like, oh really, She's like, 72 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: it's so sexy. I love it. I'm like, okay, yeah, 73 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 2: it's got the approval of my grandparents. Like, how come 74 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 2: everyone else finds it so shocking? 75 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: What a cool grandma though, I think that's amazing. 76 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: She's so cool. 77 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: I suppose that's the best kind of Instagram, Isn't it 78 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: to get people talking? I mean, to be honest, it 79 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: really wasn't. It didn't really show that much other than 80 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: the side of your body, so it is quite I 81 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: don't know. I think people just want to have a go. 82 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: I feel like it's Australians like particularly, I think I 83 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: was in I was in America like after that happened, 84 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: and I just feel like, you know, people there are 85 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: so much more liberated and open minded, and even the 86 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 2: things that they talk about so publicly, they're like, if 87 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 2: we were to talk like that here, people would have 88 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: so many opinions about it. But I think personally, it's 89 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 2: just my opinion. I think like Australians were so sensitive 90 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: to everything, especially anything to do with sex or or 91 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: anything like that. I feel like, Oh, we're so, we're so, 92 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: we're not uninhibited, that's what we're not. 93 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: I think they also have Sorry, there's a lot of 94 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: the case of tall poppy syndrome. And I feel like 95 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: if anyone is seen to be doing well or you know, 96 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: there might be people that are jealous that you're in 97 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: this successful relationship. I feel like that's when people lash 98 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 1: out a lot, particularly Australians. 99 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent, the tall poppy syndrome thing, Like, 100 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,799 Speaker 2: I totally agree with that. And I feel like even 101 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: before I, you know, was on the show and had 102 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 2: a relationship, I felt like in my career, like in 103 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 2: my job as a makeup artist, I felt like I 104 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 2: really struggled with tall poppy syndrome a lot, especially mostly 105 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: from other women. You know. 106 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: Oh definitely. Well, can you tell us a little bit 107 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: about what life was actually like before married at First Sight, 108 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 1: because I mean, as we can see, it's changed significantly. 109 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: Life before MATHS was, Oh my god, I missed my 110 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 2: little life before Maks was such a I was so 111 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: chill and like I used to work. I worked a lot. 112 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 2: I was like a workaholic. I was I was really 113 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: really passionate about like makeup and beauty and things like that. 114 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 2: I've always been creepy about that sort of stuff. But 115 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 2: I guess, like I guess I could say I was 116 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: a workaholic. I had quite a actually I had quite 117 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 2: a balanced life. I like to work out a lot. 118 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 2: I worked a few different jobs, and I mean, you know, 119 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 2: just I was living in Bondai, so it was nice. 120 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 2: I like to spend a lot of time outdoors. Like, 121 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 2: what do you want to know? 122 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh, I think that's great. It's really interesting because I 123 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: feel like they don't show that much about your previous 124 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: life and career, so it is really interesting that you 125 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: were a makeup artist. But what was it you think 126 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: that made you want to sign up for the show 127 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: in the first place. 128 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't actually sign up for the show. I 129 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: didn't put myself forward. I was approached by the by 130 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: the production company. 131 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 1: So were you out and about or was this just 132 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: sort of like an a random email or INSTAGRAMO. 133 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: I was actually at work and these two ladies just 134 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 2: approached me and we were talking, and like I was 135 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 2: just being myself. I'm like really bubbly and especially at work, 136 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 2: like when I have it when I'm having like an 137 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 2: interaction and like sometimes you know, you meet people randomly, 138 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 2: but you can still have quite meaningful interactions. And I 139 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 2: feel like we were having like a meaningful interaction with 140 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: these ladies. And they they randomly asked me about like, oh, 141 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: do you know any nice restaurants for dinner around here? 142 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: And I'm like, to be honest, girls, I just moved here, 143 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: so I don't really know that many places. And they're like, oh, 144 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: did you move up here with your husband? And I'm like, 145 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: you know, I'm single. Like I'm like so single, like 146 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: it's almost going to be ten years I've been single. 147 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: And then they go, oh, my god, do you want 148 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: to be on this show? Blah blah blah. And I 149 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 2: was like, no, no, no, no, I'm not interested at all. 150 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 2: And one of the one of the guys that I 151 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: worked with, it's another makeup artist, he gave them my 152 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: number secretly, and it all happened from there. It just yeah, 153 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: they contacted me and just thought I'd be a great fit. 154 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: And yeah, they just convinced me it'd be really fun. 155 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: And I mean, looking back at it now, it has 156 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: been a lot of fun, and it has been a 157 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: massive learning experience. But yeah, that's how it happened. 158 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: That's pretty funny because we're all we're triplets and we 159 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: actually got approached as well. I think it was the 160 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: series when they had the twins and we were just 161 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: sitting at a restaurant and this producer came up to 162 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: us and was like, oh, are you guys interested? And 163 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: I think we all had boyfriends at the time, so 164 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: but they must have been really keen on you to 165 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: keep persisting because we didn't get we didn't get the 166 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: follow up. Then that's a misperception when people watch maths 167 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: is they think that everybody's applied, and then there's a 168 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: connotation that you're only applying to get insta fame or whatever. 169 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: Oh that's that was like really annoying, Like people these 170 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: assumptions and then they're like this, you're stuck with the label, 171 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 2: like you're stuck with that because someone has assumed that 172 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 2: it's so annoying. But no, it's like it wasn't at all. Honestly, 173 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: I thought it would be a it would just be 174 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 2: a fun experience and it was something I could have 175 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 2: fun with. I did not expect to actually meet somebody 176 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: and have you know, a year down the track and 177 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 2: still be with that person. 178 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: And had you watched Maths before you went on? 179 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: I had watched the season before, but that is it. 180 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 2: I haven't like seen other ones, and I hadn't seen 181 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 2: any other ones. I honestly thought that the season before 182 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: was like the first it's a brand new show, like, 183 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: oh my god, have you seen this show? I didn't 184 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 2: know it was. It was like the sixth or seventh season. 185 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 2: I didn't know. 186 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: Well, it has changed a lot because I think at 187 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: the start, soph and I both watched the first series 188 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: and it was very different. I think the experts sort 189 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: of really went in there wanting to match people. It 190 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: was more of a kind of fly on the wall 191 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: kind of look at it. But it really has changed 192 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: so much drama. And one of the things that I 193 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: loved especially about this series of Maths was, of course 194 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: the dinner parties. Are you able to give us Are 195 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: you able to fill us in a little bit about 196 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: what the reality of those dinner parties are, because I've 197 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 1: heard they go for hours and hours and hours, and 198 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: it's it's not a. 199 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 2: Real dinner party at all. It's a dinner party that 200 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 2: starts at around eleven am. Then it's just like a 201 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: lot of waiting around, a lot of intervals. Yeah, just 202 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: a lot of Most of the dinner party were all 203 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 2: separated and just having one on one chats to like 204 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: a producer and the camera. 205 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: Uh so, yeah, what about the do they turn the 206 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: heat up? Because I heard that was a rumor because 207 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: I noticed people were quite sweating, quite profusely during the 208 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: dinner parties. Is it really hot in there? 209 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: Oh, the room does not have heating oreic on. It's 210 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: literally just like a like a like a shed. So 211 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: like if it's hot, if it's hot, it is like 212 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 2: stinging hot. And if it's raining, usually filming cut because 213 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 2: you can't hear any And if it's cold, it's freezing. 214 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 2: It's sort of like that. And so it is warm 215 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 2: in Sydney during the months that we film. But no, 216 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 2: I don't think they like try and like make you 217 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: you know, like make it hot or anything like that. 218 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: It's not it's not that bad. 219 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: I just wanted to if they turn the heat up 220 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: to try and make you drink more, if that was 221 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: one of their sort. 222 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 2: Of Oh, but they cut you off if they see 223 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: you as like if they think that they if that 224 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 2: you're really drunk, they cut you off. But I just 225 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: feel like I just feel like they pick how to 226 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 2: cut people, they just don't pick the right people to 227 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: cut off. I feel like poor Michael would have like 228 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: one drink and they'd be like, oh, Michael, you cut off. 229 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 2: I would be like blind drunk with my eyes rolling 230 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: back into my head, and they would keep like serving 231 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 2: my wine. 232 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 1: Does anyone trust you with red wine? 233 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: Now? 234 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: Has that been like a long running joke? No one 235 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: would give it to you. 236 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: No, anyone who knows me, who knows me, trust me 237 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 2: with it. But the next day on the set, it 238 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 2: was so funny because all the camera men in the 239 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: audio guys were like, I had asked for some almond 240 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: milk to make a protein shake, and everyone was like, oh, 241 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. Maybe like let's not 242 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 2: give very anything like that. 243 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 1: To be fair, didn't didn't Irel throw a fruit bowl 244 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: at you as well? Previous wasn't that? 245 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: Oh no, she had come into my apartment. She did 246 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: throw Oh she threw everything inside at me. Yeah. 247 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: I loved how you stood there with your face mask 248 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: on the whole time though. That was probably my favorite episode. 249 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it takes a lot for me to take 250 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: off a face mask. 251 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: Okay, talking about Sorel. Were you surprised to hear the 252 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: news that, well, it's a bit of old news now 253 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: that she's having a baby with Eden from Love Island. 254 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 2: Oh, I actually just heard that they just broke up, 255 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: and I was like, I was so shook about it, 256 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 2: Like I actually got like I was. I felt so 257 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: bad for her, Like I was actually saying to Michael, like, 258 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 2: and he looked at me, like a few hours later 259 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: and I was still reading the same article that he 260 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 2: had said that he showed me. He's like, why are 261 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 2: you still reading that? I'm like, I really can't get 262 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: over it. I think it's actually quite devastating, Like it's devastating, 263 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: but no, look, I mean it's been a really this 264 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: year for us. I can imagine for Cyrel as well, 265 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: has been crazy, and I feel like only now is 266 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 2: everything starting to settle. But I feel like she's in 267 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 2: a new relationship as well with Eat and all she 268 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: was and I just feel like I feel like, oh, 269 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 2: I think it's taken a while for us to like 270 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: just even get our bearings back. And I mean I 271 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 2: wasn't shocked by it. I don't know these things happen. 272 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 2: It's you know, when you're having unprotected sex, you could 273 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 2: get pregnant, like the roof of the Drew. No, I 274 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 2: don't think I was that shocked. I don't know. I 275 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 2: don't know really, to be honest, I didn't really think 276 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 2: about it that much, but I was really upset to 277 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 2: hear that they broke up. I really I feel for her. 278 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: Well, it seems like from what we've saw she did 279 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: have she's got a fiery personality, so hopefully it's just 280 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: a fight that's but. 281 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 2: I also feel like she comes from such a strong 282 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 2: family unit that she would want her baby to have 283 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: that as well, and I feel like it would be devastating. 284 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,559 Speaker 2: I feel like probably, I don't know. I don't want 285 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 2: to blame it, but I just feel like, I don't know, 286 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 2: like he. 287 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: Does a great track record, does he? 288 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? He doesn't. We're not from what I don't really 289 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 2: know that much about either, but I feel like. 290 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, And talking of other castmates, and there's rumors obviously 291 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: at the moment, that Jessica Power is going to be 292 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: appearing on Love Island. What do you make of all 293 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: of that? 294 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: Well, I can tell you for a fact that the 295 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: contract that we've signed with Channel nine is like ironclad, 296 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: and I doubt that Jessica Power is going to be 297 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: able to get out of it. So we actually can't 298 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 2: work with any other networks or shows or wearing a contract. 299 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 2: So I think it's a rumor. 300 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: Are you what is the status of your friendship with 301 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: Jess because you were close on the show, but was 302 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: there a bit of a riff between you guys after filming. 303 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 2: I just feel like the friendship with Jess was really 304 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 2: for it was really sort of I guess, encouraged by 305 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 2: producers and really for the show. Jess is not somebody 306 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: I would have a relationship with in real life or 307 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: or even like associate with somebody. Not like saying wrong 308 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: with her, but she's just not my people. You know. 309 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: Talking about producers, do you guys have a really good 310 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 1: relationship with them or is it? Does it start off 311 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: good and then when you see the show. 312 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 2: My were some producers that were well, really pushy and 313 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 2: they really didn't care about your well being. But my producer, 314 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 2: sweetest man, he was really caring and like he could 315 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: tell when we were becoming you know, when something was 316 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: pushing us to our limits, and he would push back, 317 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: whereas usually another producer would see you getting flustered and 318 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 2: would actually like you know, push for more and more 319 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: to bring you to breaking point. 320 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: That is good that he was actually looking out for you. 321 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: Just moving on to life after maths. What was it 322 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: like becoming an influencer? Because we see all the glitz 323 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: and glamour, but what is it really like? 324 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: There's so much pressure and like today, like this weekend 325 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 2: for example, I have literally been a demon to everyone 326 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 2: around me because there's so much pressure. I have deadlines 327 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: and I have like making content is so so much 328 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: goes into it. Also, it's hard because you have to 329 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 2: constantly be on, Like you have to constantly be on 330 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: and like witty and funny and make jokes and like 331 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: even like just when you're like filming something, you know, 332 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: like sometimes you wake up and you're just like nah, 333 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 2: I can't be bothered living today, But you have to 334 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: film something for a brand and they need the content 335 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: you just it comes across on camera, like it comes 336 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 2: across in your stories or in your videos that like 337 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: when you're not vibing, and I really like, for me, 338 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 2: it's so important to be like authentic and to be 339 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 2: genuine and I feel like when I'm faking it, I 340 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: just I don't know, I just I don't like it. 341 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: And I suppose it's hard for you too, because you 342 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: want to be authentic, but then you probably don't really 343 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: feel like putting your bad days out there because as 344 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 1: soon as you put something up, the daily mail jumps 345 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: in it or you cop something probably from a troll, 346 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: and that quite difficult sharing you know, real things that 347 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: you're going through as well. 348 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: I mean some things I don't I don't put out there, 349 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 2: like I like to try and keep my relationship just 350 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 2: like the like, you know, we put a lot out there, 351 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: but there's a lot of it that we don't put 352 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 2: out as well. And like definitely one hundred percent there's 353 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: things that I don't like to share. But I feel 354 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: like the more and more it goes on and the 355 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 2: more I'm getting used to it all, I feel like 356 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 2: there are trolls, but then like there's also really supportive 357 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: people out there, and it's so refreshing and nice to 358 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 2: like hear from them, and everyone like will send you 359 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 2: a little message and your DM and it's just and 360 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 2: it's just nice. It really it makes your day a 361 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: little bit better and it's just it's just reassuring to 362 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: know that there's there's nice people out there, but you know, 363 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 2: it's not as easy as everyone thinks, and like it's exhausting, 364 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 2: like I don't really get to see my friends and family. 365 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 2: I'm always traveling. But then also I don't want to 366 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 2: complain about it. If anyone is complaining about being an influencer, 367 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 2: then they don't deserve about that to do it because 368 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 2: it is also a lot of fun and there's also 369 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 2: a lot of perks. 370 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: Well, you mentioned that there's obviously a lot of support, 371 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 1: but then there's also trolls, and I think there was 372 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: a post, oh, I think it was a few months 373 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 1: back that you shared of yourself in Greece and you 374 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: were holding a cigarette, and there were some people that 375 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: slammed you, saying you're glamorizing smoking, but other people jumped 376 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: to your defense. Were you surprised by the comments, especially 377 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: the comments about you being a role model. Do you 378 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: actually consider yourself a role model? 379 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 2: I feel like the last thing I was doing was 380 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: glamorizing smoking. I think I mentioned in the posts as well, 381 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,880 Speaker 2: this was the only photo that me and my stick 382 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 2: got together, and the whole wedding, and I just posted 383 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 2: it because it was like, really a cute picture of her. 384 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: But I feel like the last thing I was doing 385 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 2: with glamorizing smoking. I'm never smoking in my videos or 386 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 2: glamorizing it ever. But also I just feel like I'm 387 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 2: human man, Like I'm allowed to have a smoke at 388 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 2: a wedding, Like I'm not apologizing for it. 389 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: I feel like you'll be a good sister there if 390 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: you you know, often it's a will post a photo 391 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: that they look good in, not the other cigamore. 392 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, correct. 393 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: So it say it's a case of being a good 394 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: system for having a cigarette. Yeah. 395 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: It's funny because that that article actually made it to 396 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 2: news dot com and my dad reads news dot com, 397 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 2: And the next morning we were at breakfast at the 398 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 2: hotel and he's like, oh, they're you know, you're glamorizing 399 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:24,719 Speaker 2: smoking this article saying. I'm like, but I'm not, And 400 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 2: he's like, I just think even that. Dad's like, I 401 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: think you need to be careful what you put out there, 402 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 2: because you know, young people, young girls are gonna look 403 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 2: at it and then like you might influence them. I'm like, man, 404 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: young girls have mothers at smoke like young girls have 405 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 2: aunties at smoke. You know, I'm not the influence for that. 406 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: I don't think like I think I'm a I don't know. 407 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 2: I just feel like, am I a role model for 408 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 2: for for like? I don't know. I actually don't know, 409 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 2: don't you guys? I don't know. 410 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: At least it made you think about it though, because 411 00:18:58,040 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 1: I mean, it's good to hear that you know, have 412 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 1: that a by assume your dad, because I suppose now 413 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: that it's out there, you probably probably do think more 414 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: about the posts that you put up. I'm going into 415 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 1: something though, that you have been very honest about. You 416 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: have been quite open about using apps for editing or 417 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: photoshopping photos. Do you think it'd be good if more 418 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: influencers were more transparent about it too? Yeah? 419 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I just feel like it's one of those 420 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 2: things that they're either going to be open about it 421 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: or they're not. I just feel like you can see, 422 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 2: like when someone's edited a photo and they are just 423 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 2: digging their grave thing I did and I didn't. I 424 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,679 Speaker 2: did this, I can't you're talking to like the panel 425 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 2: of professionals here like week with you can't like And 426 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: the more and more they go on about it. It's 427 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 2: just like, give it up, already, give it up, give 428 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 2: it up, just say say that you did it, like 429 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 2: you're human. Will let it them. But I feel like 430 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 2: I've been really open about everything, even like surgery, fillers everything. 431 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 2: I just it's I've always been like that. I've always 432 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 2: been someone that's super open and even like if it's 433 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 2: like if I've got a really good product or something, 434 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 2: I'll tell everyone about it. I'm not the person has 435 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 2: found like an amazing face cream and like keeps it 436 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 2: as a secret or do you know what I mean. 437 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 2: That's not me at all. I'm like the most open, transparent. 438 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: I say everything. Sometimes it can be a bad thing. 439 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: But well, the other day I've read this article and 440 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 1: it was about a Love Island contestant in the UK, 441 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: and she was basically saying that before the show she 442 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: had plastic surgery because she often got criticized about the 443 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: way she looked. But then it really made me think 444 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: because she said that now she's copying criticism for changing 445 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: her appearance despite people being so awful. So it's kind 446 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 1: of almost this lose lose situation where you know, you 447 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 1: get canned for having something wrong. With you, you change it, 448 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 1: and then you're still being criticized. Do you find do 449 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: you find that it's true? 450 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 2: I just feel like this is what I know for 451 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: a fact. You will never make everyone happy, and there's 452 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: always going to be somebody who has something to say 453 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 2: about what you've done. You will never ever make everyone happy. 454 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 2: Like that is. Just accept it and then you're at peace. 455 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: That's such bad. 456 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 2: Like even if you do even if you do something right, 457 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 2: like even if to go and say donate one hundred 458 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: K to charity, someone would come around and say, but 459 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 2: why did you choose that charity and not this one? 460 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like, it doesn't matter even 461 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 2: if you're doing something from the bottom of your heart 462 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,959 Speaker 2: and you know, with all good intentions, it's always going 463 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 2: to be some idiot that has something to say. 464 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,199 Speaker 1: Talking about criticism and always colling criticism. You shared a 465 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: post that was raising awareness about bullying and the hero 466 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: t shirts, and I thought that was an amazing post 467 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 1: because you spoke about the bullying you faced as a tach. 468 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 2: You've never really spoken about it before because I just 469 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 2: feel like, oh, everyone's gonna have something to say about it. 470 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 2: But I had a really hard upbringing my dad's job. 471 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 2: We used to move around all the time. Like I 472 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: went to like fourteen different schools growing up, Like we 473 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: were constantly moving. I mean when I started school, I 474 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 2: couldn't speak any English. I I couldn't. I had no 475 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 2: friends for a long time, and like it was hard 476 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 2: to make friends. And I feel like that that was 477 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: my foundation. From young like I struggled and I was 478 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: you know, always sort of like left out. I had 479 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,719 Speaker 2: to see a speech therapist. I couldn't speak properly because 480 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 2: I only learned how to speak Greek from young. So 481 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: I was always made fun of. I was literally the 482 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 2: only Greek girl. Like I grew up in aubrew Wadonka. 483 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 2: I was the only Greek girl maybe in all of 484 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 2: aubrew Adonka. Like nobody had an eyebrow that touched in 485 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: the middle, nobody had like the black hair, like you know, 486 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 2: like I was. I was always made fun of and 487 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 2: teased and tormented. Even going into high school. Misha Baden 488 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 2: was the girl, and like she's tall and skinny with 489 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 2: like this really like smooth hair, and I was nothing 490 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: like that, you know, I was even made fun of 491 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,959 Speaker 2: even through high school. I was always really, you know, 492 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: trying to put my ass into a pair of hipster 493 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 2: jeans was not was not cute at all. Like my 494 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 2: mom would always be like, funny, those jeans aren't for you. 495 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 2: I'd be like, but that's what everyone's wearing, you know. 496 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: Did you have those face off pants? 497 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 2: Those? Nah? I didn't do the face off I did 498 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 2: the my ticos. Okay, yeah, they were like the Figger stretch. 499 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 2: You're a bit more bougie ones. 500 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna say, yeah, so you reveal 501 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: this story about your life, I suppose a lot of 502 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: people can ren too. And then and from Billy. 503 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. I thought that's what I thought as well, like, 504 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 2: surely there's other girls that can relate to this, Like, 505 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 2: surely there is. But everyone you know what though, girls 506 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 2: in all honesty, like I could have just archived the post. 507 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 2: But the more trolls that, you know, right on it, 508 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 2: the more the more interaction it gets, and then the 509 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 2: more awareness it actually spreads. So in saying that, yeah, 510 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: there were a lot of trolls and a lot of 511 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 2: nasty comments, but if only people knew that those nasty 512 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 2: comments they send and they like on my wall, actually 513 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: my pay you know, presence on social media then probably 514 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 2: wouldn't have as many. So I like to keep that and. 515 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: As long as there was one person, you know what 516 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: I mean, there probably would have been one young girl 517 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: out there that could relate to your story who's perhaps 518 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: going through boos. 519 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: Ways, even if it's just one person that I can help, 520 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: all that benefits from it unhappy. 521 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: And just to put that into context, because people may 522 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 1: have actually forgotten who Billy is because from married it 523 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: First site. 524 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 2: I don't even want to give him any time, like 525 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 2: to even mention him, to be honest, but let's just say. 526 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: It to the listeners. It was somebody from Married It 527 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,719 Speaker 1: First and he made some comments about Martha that were 528 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: really uncalled for. It's just ridiculous when you're out there 529 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: trying to do some good. 530 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, Like like I said, like, I didn't 531 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,159 Speaker 2: even want to give him any attention because like for me, 532 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 2: he doesn't exist in my world. I don't think about 533 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 2: him ever, so I didn't even notice. 534 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: Is there anyone that you do catch up with still 535 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 1: from maths? 536 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 2: No? No one? 537 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: Oh wow, really no one? 538 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 2: No one? Really no, I don't really like apart from 539 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 2: a little DM to one of the girls here and there. 540 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: But no, no, have you seen the rumors that Elizabeth 541 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: is going to be appearing in the latest series? 542 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 2: No, no, I haven't. But guys, I'll be honest, most 543 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 2: of it's like rumors, like I doubt any of it's true. 544 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do wonder if it's all clickbait, but apparently, 545 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: I mean these are sources. I think nine had their upfront, 546 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: so they showed a few images of the new Brides. 547 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: But it's a it's a pretty strong rumor going out 548 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 1: there that she gets introduced as an intruder. Then again, 549 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: it was a strong rumor about Jessica Power as well, 550 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 1: and we've seen that, so Martha's probably right. 551 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 2: But no, but I wouldn't, I know. I think it's 552 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 2: all just you know, clickbait. 553 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,719 Speaker 1: And moving on. There's been a lot of comparison between 554 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: yourself and Kim Kardashi in and particularly in a recent 555 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: trip to LA because because Michael's even been called or 556 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: compared to Kanye West, which surprised me. I didn't realize 557 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 1: he was a rapper. But what do you make it? 558 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 1: Make of it all? 559 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 2: Oh, it's just a reach. It's there. It's a reach, 560 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 2: like they are reaching if they've put Michael as Kanye. 561 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: That is like a massive reach. 562 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: How did you What did you get up to on 563 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: your trip to la oh oh? 564 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 2: We had the best time. We just sort of did 565 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 2: like I guess, what do you do when you're on 566 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 2: on like away. We just went for dinners, had like 567 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:08,360 Speaker 2: fbousie lunches, We went shopping, We watched a few nice sunsets. 568 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 2: We went into The Joker actually in Hollywood. It was 569 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 2: so scary. I met Michael Leaf halfway through. But it 570 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 2: was fun and New York was great. We just caught 571 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: the subway and like we you know, get around town 572 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 2: and just things like that, a lot of walking, slighting, eating. 573 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 1: Oh it sounds perfect. But I was going to say, obviously, 574 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: you're a year into your relationship now, and I don't know, 575 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: we don't want to put any pressure on, but what 576 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 1: do you think the future holds for you and Michael 577 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: Our future? 578 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: I don't Well, you know, we're looking at a few 579 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 2: places in Sydney, so we are planning on moving in together. 580 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 2: Probably most likely that's going to be up in Sydney. 581 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that's at this set. That's the 582 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 2: only ally that I have that can tell you, guys, 583 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,479 Speaker 2: Oh that's exciting though, Yeah, it's really Actually we are 584 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 2: working on a project together. Yeah, we're starting like a 585 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 2: little like it's like a little love project that we're doing. 586 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 2: It's like something it's got to do with selfies. But 587 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 2: it's not a selfie book. We put it that way. 588 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 2: I think, like, I don't know if I can say 589 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 2: anything now because it's not setting stone and I don't 590 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 2: want to give too much away. Michael will kill me. 591 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: That little teaste is good. Yeah that sounds exciting. 592 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just working on something fall together, So that's 593 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 2: exciting for us. But yeah, that's about it. 594 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: We're talking about selfie related things. What are your tips 595 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: to actually taking the perfect photo and couple? 596 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 2: Everybody always asks me this, but I promise you girls 597 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 2: there it's not a trick. It's just lighting. If you 598 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 2: have good lighting, like you could make a potato look nice, 599 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: like if you have the right lighting. Honestly, that's all 600 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 2: you need. Like if the lighting's not good, I don't 601 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 2: even try. I don't even try it. One even weighs 602 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 2: my battery. 603 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: That's a really good advice. Before you go, We just 604 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 1: had one last question we had to ask. We saw 605 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 1: the news, I think I can't even remember. I think 606 00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: it was a few months ago. 607 00:27:59,000 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 2: Now. 608 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 1: You had a run in Koshi from Sunrise, which just 609 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: fed me up. Your response about not even knowing who 610 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: he was. That was just so hilarious because I think 611 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,959 Speaker 1: that shows. 612 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 2: The true Yeah, we actually. 613 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:15,719 Speaker 1: Want I've seen you did a YouTube video, but can 614 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: you explain for our listen, is what actually happened with Koshi. 615 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 2: Honestly, I just woke up the next day and heard 616 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 2: that I had elbowed him to get to the photographer. 617 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 2: I can assure you that I did not. I don't 618 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 2: even think that we were on the red carpet at 619 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: the same time. And like I actually put it out 620 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: there to the press saying if anyone has photos of 621 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 2: us even standing next to each other, please come forward 622 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: and just tell me. But there wasn't even photos of 623 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 2: us on the same red carpet together, like we It 624 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 2: was a completely viabricated story, and I think didn't I 625 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 2: think the year before Channel seven actually boycotted coming to 626 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: the logis and I think they just wanted clickbait and 627 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 2: they just wanted press. 628 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: And yeah, that sounds like something they do, yeah. 629 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 2: But it was. It was really cruel. It was really 630 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 2: cool and Sam Armitage like of all people because she 631 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 2: has tried to, you know, raise awareness for online bullying 632 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 2: and trolling because I think she was made fun of 633 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 2: about her weight for a long time and then like 634 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 2: for her to go and to go and like be 635 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 2: a bully, like you know what, they sort of dug 636 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 2: their own grave with that, Like I don't I mean, 637 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 2: I don't know if I feel like the way they 638 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 2: acted and the way like they just laughed it off, 639 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 2: I just feel like they dug their own grave and 640 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 2: they showed their true colors and I just feel like 641 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 2: they're so petty and growth. Even though Kosh she said 642 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 2: he refuses to apologize to your reality TV star because 643 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 2: like obviously he feels like he's above that. I felt like, dude, 644 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,479 Speaker 2: look at the way you're acting. 645 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's reality Yeah, it's reality TV that wins all 646 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: the ratings. To finish on a nicer note, what would 647 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: be your advice for the new batch of contestants that 648 00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 1: are going to be on Math next year? 649 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 2: Ah, I feel like the only thing I would say 650 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 2: is don't be afraid to say no, and don't be 651 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 2: afraid just if you don't feel right about something, If 652 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: your moral compass is telling you otherwise, Like do you 653 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 2: not feel like you have to do it? You don't 654 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 2: have to do anything. Can literally just walk off or 655 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 2: say no or just refuse, like flat out refuse. I 656 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 2: feel be true to yourself and don't think that, you know, 657 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 2: because of the producers and like fifty camera men around 658 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 2: and things like that, that you actually have to perform 659 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 2: and do what, you know, sort of play along or 660 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 2: play the role that you that you've sort of been 661 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 2: you know, told or asked or put into. I feel like, 662 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 2: just say no, say no, Like I wish I could 663 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 2: go back in time and like be you know, be 664 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 2: more myself and like just be like no, I'm not 665 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 2: doing that or that's not me. I will never say that, 666 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 2: but you don't know, you know, hindsight is a beautiful thing. 667 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 1: And yeah, is there a certain thing that you did 668 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: on maths that you're allowed to say that you were 669 00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: kind of prompted to do? 670 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 2: Look, no, we can't really say. And I feel, like, 671 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 2: to be honest, most of it, like most of it, yeah, 672 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 2: you know, but yeah, Well. 673 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 1: It was so lovely to talk to you and it 674 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: was so great. 675 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: And I think thank you for having me. 676 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. I think it's so good to see your 677 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: funny side and as you say, like your cheekiness, and 678 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: it was really refreshing to hear more about you. Well, 679 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: you were my favorite, regardless of all the stuff you 680 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: were told to do anyway, so it's been great having 681 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: you on the show. Yeah, you're a legend. Thank you. 682 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 2: Thanks Joel,