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Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast mini.

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Speaker 2: But when you're in a rush and on it, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to get them now. I'm going to say their

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Speaker 2: number for the very first time. On thirteen one oh

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Speaker 2: sixty five, give us a call. We're asking the question,

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Speaker 2: what did you have to do with your ex post

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Speaker 2: a breakup?

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Speaker 1: Very very old.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you've got a story.

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Speaker 1: Of course you didn't. Of course you got a story.

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Speaker 2: So on TikTok twelve million views on this story. This

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Speaker 2: girl's got the camera on herself. She's like having a

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Speaker 2: great vacation and then pans across. She's like, put my

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Speaker 2: axes here. They booked the holiday when they were together

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Speaker 2: not be fundable. Then they broke up. Neither wanted to

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Speaker 2: give up the holiday, so they ended up taking the

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Speaker 2: holiday together.

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Speaker 4: But surely you can just fly to the location where

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Speaker 4: you are and then just go see you later.

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Speaker 1: That's not going to go viralong TikTok.

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Speaker 3: So we wouldn't be talking about that. It's a good point.

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Speaker 1: So this is kind of my fault. I well, I

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Speaker 1: was broken up with, I didn't I didn't break up.

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Speaker 1: That's fine.

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Speaker 2: I'm over it since got married, had a baby. I

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Speaker 2: don't think about it ever, and then I set up

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Speaker 2: my best friend with my ex's best friend. They then

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Speaker 2: got married, and I had to walk down the up

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Speaker 2: well both in the wedding party, and I then had

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Speaker 2: to like walk down the aisle and just avoid eye

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Speaker 2: contact with my ex who was standing.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the aisle.

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Speaker 2: And then at like the pre wedding party, one of

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Speaker 2: our mates, I say that in inverted commas Commas, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: was like, you know, a couple of bees deep and

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Speaker 2: he's like, we hadn't spoken in like a year. We're

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Speaker 2: all just kind of standing in this circle, and he goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: wouldn't be awkward if, like you guys were paired up

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Speaker 2: in the bridal party, because like you know, once upon

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Speaker 2: a time you were going.

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Speaker 1: To get married, but like then you broke up.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't that serious? Wasn't that serious with this guy?

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Speaker 1: What was for me?

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Speaker 2: It wasn't that awkward, But it was a bit awkward

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Speaker 2: because everyone was aware of it.

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Speaker 3: Were you single? Were you single? And was he single?

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Speaker 1: He was single? Eye had since moved.

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Speaker 2: I think I was married by then, even or was

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Speaker 2: serious nice I kind of had the upper.

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Speaker 3: Hand I had I had. I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 3: if it's worse than.

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Speaker 4: You, but I was in the middle of a holiday,

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Speaker 4: and if it's okay, I'm going to keep names out

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Speaker 4: of it.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, in the middle of a.

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Speaker 4: Holiday, and we broke up like halfway through the holiday,

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Speaker 4: and we drove to the holiday destination, so it's a

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to say where I was, but it

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Speaker 4: was a twenty six hour drive to the location and

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Speaker 4: we broke up and then like we sort of had

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Speaker 4: the day away from each other, and then we were

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Speaker 4: driving home would have been impossible.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely twenty six hours is too long.

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Speaker 3: And she was like, I don't want to do this

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Speaker 3: holiday anymore. I want to leave. So I paid for

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Speaker 3: her flight home but then waited for it.

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Speaker 4: So paid for her flight home, but then we brought

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Speaker 4: things like bicycles and stuff with us, so then I

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Speaker 4: got back to Melbourne and then had to go and

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Speaker 2: Was any part of you thinking maybe on the holiday

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Speaker 2: this isn't going well, We're probably going to break up,

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Speaker 2: but I should wait till we get home, Like how

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Speaker 2: could you have avoided the mid trip breakup.

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Speaker 4: There was a moment where it was like we just

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Speaker 4: we'd have to end this because we're ruining both of

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Speaker 4: our holidays right now.

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Speaker 3: It got to like a not It wasn't a blow up,

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Speaker 3: but it was like, we have to we have to

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Speaker 2: Holidays really bring out the best worst in even friendships,

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Speaker 2: let alone relationships.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thirteen time thirteen one oh six five. What did

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Speaker 3: you do with the X after you broke up? Was

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Speaker 3: it excruciating? Was it painful? What did you have to

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Speaker 3: go through with the X? Jump on the phone thirty

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Speaker 3: one oh six five. Maybe we ended up looking up again?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, man never ends well.

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Speaker 2: A TikTok user was forced to go on a vacation

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Speaker 2: with her ex. They booked the trip when they were

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Speaker 2: still together, non refundable. No one wanted to give up

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Speaker 2: the holiday, so they had a miserable holiday together, and

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Speaker 2: it has gone viral, of.

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Speaker 3: Course it has. We got Koren here on thirteen one

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Speaker 4: Koren, this is a story about your sister who was

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Speaker 4: forced to do something with her ex.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they booked a holiday together to Bali and then

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Speaker 5: they split up before and they wouldn't get a real

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Speaker 5: fun so they still went and how was the holiday

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Speaker 5: really awkward? So he was in the hotel room the

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Speaker 5: whole time, heartbroken, and my sister just kept going and

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Speaker 5: drinking cocktails and living a single life in Bali?

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Speaker 3: Again, did she did? She Karen?

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Speaker 4: Did she hook up with anyone else while she was

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Speaker 4: at Bali going to these cocktail But he didn't tell us.

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Speaker 5: She said, what happens in Bali stays in Bali.

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Speaker 2: So she definitely did, definitely did. If he wants to

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Speaker 2: make sure that she doesn't hook up with anyone else,

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Speaker 2: the thing to do is to stay in the hotel

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Speaker 2: so that she's forced to like do it on the

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Speaker 2: beach or whatever, which she wouldn't do because unless he

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Speaker 2: wants it's fine, no judgment here, but so.

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Speaker 1: Extrawgry though, to like be watching you like you have

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Speaker 1: on an exit? Have you ever been heartbroken? Truly heartbroken?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

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Speaker 1: Would you have done the same thing?

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Speaker 3: Then yes, I would?

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Speaker 1: Of course.

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Speaker 4: Did you do.

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Speaker 2: Anything to stop that person from moving on? So of

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Speaker 2: course you still go on the holiday.

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Speaker 1: Because you want to be close to them, You don't want.

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Speaker 3: To move on.

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Speaker 4: Isn't it terrible when you're in that spot where you

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Speaker 4: know what you're doing is creepy. It's store career, nothing

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Speaker 4: good is going to come up, but you can't help

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Speaker 4: but do it.

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Speaker 1: And you look at yourself and you're like, you're pathetic.

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Speaker 3: And your friends are just like, what did you do

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Speaker 3: with the X after you broke up? Shannon?

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Speaker 6: Here?

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Speaker 3: Now, Shannon, this happened when you saw your X again?

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Speaker 7: Yes, so we had no contact for six months and

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Speaker 7: then end that's like the same music festival and kind

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Speaker 2: Did you stay together after that or was it just

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Speaker 2: like a one off?

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Speaker 7: Well, we did for a while and then he kind

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Speaker 7: of goes to me again.

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Speaker 2: So I think it gives your break up generally, I

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Speaker 2: don't hear many good stories right of like we broke

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Speaker 2: up and then like we randomly got back together and

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Speaker 2: tried to make it work. I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 2: many examples of.

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Speaker 4: As long as you're both on the same page, though,

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Speaker 4: Like if you're both on the same page of like we're.

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Speaker 3: Familiar, Yeah, why not you know the one off?

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Speaker 2: If one person was very heartbroken by the initial breakup,

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's room for it to work a

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Speaker 2: second time, there has to be a mutual decision we're

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Speaker 2: both cool, and then we'd try again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, otherwise it's done even.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, veryrul Go to Lauren here and now, Lauren, what

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Speaker 4: do you have to do with your eggs?

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Speaker 5: I worked with him two days after we broke up.

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Speaker 6: We were the only two people on beside my boss,

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Speaker 6: and she did not know that we weren't dating anymore.

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Speaker 6: Oh dear, Yeah, was bringing up there were two p's

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Speaker 6: in a pod and the cutest couple ever. So we

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Speaker 6: decided to act like we were still dating Lauren.

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Speaker 3: Lauren, so like, what did you have to do? Were

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Speaker 3: you like doing little bum taps with each other in

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Speaker 3: the kitchen?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm pretty much a.

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Speaker 1: Friend.

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Speaker 6: Oh well, she was really into it, so that will

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Speaker 6: go along with it.

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Speaker 3: Your boss was into it.

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Speaker 2: He was emotionally invested in their relationship. Maybe she felt

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Speaker 2: like as a boss she'd been instrumental and together.

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Speaker 4: Sure yeah, yeah, sure, sure we got highly. Now highly,

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Speaker 4: what's your story? You're forced to do something with your ex?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Hey, guys, well I wasn't forced. Just going back to

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Speaker 6: what you said about like partners splitting up and never

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Speaker 6: finding their way back together. Me and my partner were

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Speaker 6: together for four years and we split up for eight

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Speaker 6: months no contact. Yeah, and he was away in another

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Speaker 6: stay on a holiday. And when we were together, he

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Speaker 6: had a puppy that grew up when I was around,

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Speaker 6: and at that time the dog was two. And then

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Speaker 6: the dog went missing, and while he was away, he

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Speaker 6: called me because.

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Speaker 7: He didn't know who else to call.

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Speaker 6: And now we've been back together for a two years.

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Speaker 4: Worked but sorry, it worked. He called you just about

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Speaker 4: his missing dog.

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Speaker 6: That was the because he didn't know who else to

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Speaker 6: call that was in this state that could have helped

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Speaker 6: them find the dog.

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Speaker 1: Because his one true love made up story.

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Speaker 3: He was thinking of excuses for six months.

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Speaker 4: He's like lost dog perfect.

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Speaker 3: Reconnected all of the.

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Speaker 1: Boys on the Full Show podcast.

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Speaker 6: You know you want to