WEBVTT - Why Gossiping Is Actually Good! 💬🗣️

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frims.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Flex and Frooms on CATA and I would self describe

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<v Speaker 3>myself as someone who likes a bit of a gossip.

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<v Speaker 3>Now not with everyone. Some people don't know how to

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<v Speaker 3>gossip effectively. I would say I had to define what

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<v Speaker 3>it is. It is the proactive sharing of information to

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<v Speaker 3>someone who might benefit from knowing said information. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>keeping it broad for that reason. Despite what you may

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<v Speaker 3>think about living in an information age, people like to

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<v Speaker 3>gate keep the most important information. I think it's set

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<v Speaker 3>to standard gossiping of what we think is good or

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<v Speaker 3>not good, or what's off or not off. And also,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, some of us fall into the trap of

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<v Speaker 3>wanting our conversations to be wholly productive in an obvious way,

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<v Speaker 3>and sometimes just the act of like giving information with

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<v Speaker 3>no context is what we need. History requires it from us.

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<v Speaker 3>But I listen to this. I found it on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>My life was forever change when I found out that

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<v Speaker 2>gossip thing is actually like, not that bad, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>actually kind of good because it's a way for our

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<v Speaker 2>brains to communicate like behaviors that we like and dislike

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<v Speaker 2>in other people and like find like friends and people

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<v Speaker 2>who share the same beliefs as us. But like over time,

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<v Speaker 2>like men or like.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop talking about us, stop talking about us and we're

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<v Speaker 1>not around, Like, stop talking about the things that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like about us, Stop talking about our bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Behavior that you don't approve of. And they just like

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<v Speaker 2>ruined it for everybody, Like they're just mad because we

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<v Speaker 2>want a kiki and they're not invited because they're annoying?

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<v Speaker 3>Are they wrong? You don't want to hear us kiki?

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<v Speaker 3>And it's true though, because there is something about seeing

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<v Speaker 3>a gaggle of hotties, you know, kikikikiki ing. Are you like, wait,

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on there in facts? Because usually good stuff

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<v Speaker 3>is happening there. You know. It was in gossiping when

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<v Speaker 3>I found out what is appropriate and inappropriate conduct in

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship. It's through gossiping. I found out, Okay, what

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<v Speaker 3>should I be expecting and not expecting at what? What

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<v Speaker 3>is the appropriate way to speak to my parents? All

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<v Speaker 3>of these things were found out through gossiping. And if

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<v Speaker 3>we're not sharing our stories through that way, then the

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<v Speaker 3>alternative is much harder, which is the intentional documentation of history,

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<v Speaker 3>and you guys want to do that. You're not historians, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so stop sealing those lips, shut, open them up, and

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<v Speaker 3>share some stories. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You've been listening to the flexen Frooms Daily podcast.

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