WEBVTT - From labias to letter drops 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.760 Lifelun cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country. We pay 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:06.000 our respects to their elders past and present. 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:09.800 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:22.480 recorded on d rug Wallamuta Land. Hi guys, and welcome 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.000 back to another episode of Live on Card. 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:26.680 I'm Laura, I'm Britney. Happy Tuesday. Yeah, why don't you 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.520 tell everyone what you just said into the microphone? It's 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:31.479 pretty crude And I said that. 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:35.800 To you in a trusting environment? Off my is anything trusting? 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:36.599 Is anything like? 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:37.000 What is? 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:39.120 Do? We have a safe environment. I feel like everything 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.760 we do it's all for content. It all just makes 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:43.400 its way onto the podcast eventually. 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.199 Do you know one thing I have realized is what 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:48.639 usually like with your best friends? Because I don't see 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:50.519 anyone more than you two, Like you know, you're my 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:51.200 inner circle. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:52.440 Yes, this is true. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.080 And when I say you two, I forget that people 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.400 can't see producer case you're sitting here. I don't see 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:59.360 anyone more than producer show and Laura, right, And I 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.320 think your class those people. And you're in a circle 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:03.080 as your best friends, and as your best friends, you 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:05.360 classify those people. It's the people you trust with information 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:07.360 and that you like to go to Yeah, I trust you. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.600 It is a pretty precarious position to be in when 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:12.320 you don't know what is ever going to be used 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:13.760 against you with your best friends. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:16.520 You should know by now after four and a half years, 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:17.840 that that is everything. 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:18.320 Okay. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:21.479 I don't think it's what I said that was confronting. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.640 I think it's the two things I said together. I said, 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:24.920 so I killed a bird, and I was like, man, 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:26.120 I'm horny. I could suck a dick. 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:28.520 Ha ha. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:33.080 That all needs context now because with that, even you 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.520 know what, there was a big conversation that unfolded around 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:37.280 that because I was like, was it an eagle or 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:38.360 was it a sparrow? 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:40.440 Because people are going to feel differently about that. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.880 No, Okay, look, I said, guys, it is very I 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:45.720 had a very traumatic weekend traumatic. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:50.840 Yes, it was traumatic traumatic. It was traumatic traumatic traumatic traumatic. 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:54.920 What am I saying? Traumatic trauma? 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:59.880 So it's traumamatic Okay. I went up to Port mcquarie 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.520 see my family. Five hour drive beautiful, lovely love that 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:04.360 for me, and. 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:05.000 It's just highway. 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:08.919 It's the most boring drive, Like it's five hours basically straight. 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.320 You get out of Sydney and straight. You don't make 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:13.960 a turn until you get there anyway. You know how 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:16.080 sometimes the birds fly to eat food off the road, 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.639 like roadkill and stuff. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:18.680 And they always jump out. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.680 They feel the vibrations, they hear the car coming, they 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:23.799 always jump out of the way. Well, this one bird, 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:28.280 he didn't have good reflex skills and he wasn't very agile, 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:30.720 and he flew down and I was fanging it like 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.200 one hundred and ten and he didn't move, and then 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.120 I just went cook and he went straight into the 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:39.280 grill of my car. And it was you know, when 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.200 you're driving and you're you know when you want it 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:43.840 because it's unsafe to swerve. You never swerve, like that's 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.000 the number one rule on the road is because you'd 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:47.000 end up having an accent. 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:49.079 So you just unfortunately have especially when you're go on 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:49.440 that s feed. 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.519 I just really, really really want to clarify because I 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.200 know some people will be listening to this being like 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.200 you can't laugh about this. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:54.840 I'm not. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:58.240 It was horrified. I'm still reeling from it. Yes, I 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.640 am not laughing. I am not laughing thing about a 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.519 bird dying, because if I was in that situation, I 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:03.440 would be traumatized. 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:06.720 I would be crying traumatiz it'd be traumatic. 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:11.440 No, I'm more laughing at the way in which you're 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:12.200 telling the story. 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:13.400 I just can you just tell me? 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:15.399 It needs to be a bird that's not a majestic 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.400 animal needs to be like does. 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:18.800 It matter, it's still an animal. 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.079 It needs to be like a minor bird or something 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.120 one that's a pest. It needs to be one that like, 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:24.880 we can't you know, it can't be lori key. 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.520 All animals are created equal. You say that as you 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:31.280 eat your bacon sandwich. I don't like bacon. Actually, it 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:34.119 was a beauty. It's a beautiful bird. It was a magpie. 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.800 I care no magpies. A beautiful bird. You know how 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:41.840 intelligent magpies are. They are so highly intelligent. They're also natives. 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:44.040 They do take out. Yeah, they will swoop you. 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.080 But anyway, okay, but do you know what actually, while 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.800 we're we're here on the bird transitioning, you know, I 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:49.360 love animals. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:50.800 I love animal facts. 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:52.840 Do you know what you're supposed to do? If a 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:54.800 magpie comes for you, sweeps for you, you don't hit 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.360 it with your car one hundred and ten colums an hour. 0:03:56.440 --> 0:04:01.720 But I'm not supposed to run. I don't know if 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.160 you know that you never turn you back on a magpie. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:05.320 That's when they keep swooping. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.680 Apparently, No, they won't come for your eyes if you're 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:09.240 looking at them. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.640 Keeha. You don't run from a magpie because when you 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.520 turn your back on it, that's when it keeps coming 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:15.920 from you. 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:17.560 So you shouldn't turn around and run. Shouldn't. 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.240 This makes sense because that's why they always chase cyclists 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.239 and chase cyclists down. And I mean it looks funny, 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:24.480 but it's not funny for the cyclist. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.159 No, you're supposed to turn around and stare that and 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.800 no eye staring. It won't come for your face, it 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:31.640 will not. Okay, don't quote me on this in case 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.800 anything happens. We don't have enough assurance. But like, that's 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:35.520 what I have read, that you're not supposed to turn 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:37.520 you back on it like a bear as well. 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:41.159 Please stop taking advice over me, Okay, I have some 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:43.039 updates on my own before we get into stuff is 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.560 really important. You know this thing on my arm, this 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.800 thing that I've had for ages now so no one 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:50.880 else can see. It's like a slightly browner patch on 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.920 Laura's arm that she's had for the while. It's been 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.440 here for ages, Like it's literally been here for years. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.000 It goes it's whenever I'm in thing, Yeah, whenever I 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.719 get darker, this patch on my arm gets darker. Yeah, 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:04.240 and being that at summertime, like it's been pretty dark 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.200 at the moment, but this is like being here for years. 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.920 The last couple of months, I would say, it's gotten bigger. 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.440 And so recently I went to the doctor and the 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.400 doctor like told me, he gave me some thing to 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.960 try on. It didn't work. Didn't work. So now I've 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:17.760 gone back there after the three weeks and I've gone 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.279 back with the thing on my arm, and I'm like, hey, 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:20.640 the thing you gave me didn't work. 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:23.120 What do we think this is? Because it's not working? Oh, 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:24.960 you want to know what I have on my arm? Fungus. 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:28.320 It's a fungal infectious. Oh yeah, it's a fungus. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.560 Why didn't you It's. 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:31.680 Like, hey, you never tell me I've got something on 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:32.120 my face. 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:34.680 I've got like a fucking shittaki mushroom growing out of 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.400 my arm, and no one told me it's a common fungus. 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.560 It's nothing to be scared about you haven't got some 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:40.839 disease from the Amazon jungle. 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:45.360 It's a common skin fungi. Thank you, it's just brittany. Also, 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:46.840 you can't catch it, just so you know. So, like 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:48.640 I don't want anyone here worried that I'm like rubber 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.119 myself up on chairs or whatever. But like there's nothing 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.400 more humbling than walking into a doctor's office thinking you 0:05:54.440 --> 0:05:57.000 have a pigmentation problem and being told you've got a fungus. 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.560 But it is a pigmentation problem caused by a fungus. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:01.240 So the the reason I know is I also had 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:04.640 a fungus one time, but I have the opposite fungus. 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:06.960 So have you seen the white patches? No, No, that's 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:09.240 what this is. But it reacts differently for people. So 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:10.320 you get a tanned fungus. 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:11.559 So I have tans. 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.520 Mine's like an albino fucker. So it's called tinia versa cola. 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:16.800 It's basically like having athletes foot on your arm. That's 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:18.479 what I have right now. And I just want to say, 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.120 if you're out there dealing with a fungus, me too. 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:24.040 And you know what, I remember that episode of Seinfeld 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.520 when this is a rogue tangent. Seinfeld went into the 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.440 medicine cabinet of a girl that he was dating and 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:30.080 she had a fungal cream in there, and he was 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:31.480 like ill, and he broke up with her because she 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.640 had a fungal cream and it ended up being the 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.839 dog's fungal cream and it wasn't even hers anyway. 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:38.960 Guess what, Laura Burn has a fungus on her arm? 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:41.479 Did they tell Hugh Jerry Seinfeld? Did they tell you 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.680 what to do? Because I can tell you what works 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:44.200 to cure that. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:46.600 Yeah, apparently, because it's been there for so long, it's 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.040 a much more in depth treatment. Don't fucking come at 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:52.080 me with your dander shampoo. That's what I have used. 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:55.120 I've had that fungus multiple times. Mine comes from the sun. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:56.719 Every time you get too much time in the sun, 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.960 it can rebring the fungal memories up from the skin gland. 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.960 Wow, but anti dandre if anyone. 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:06.200 Because this is what you have, so to make yourself 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.400 feel better, Laura, Lots of people have that fungus and 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.240 there are people going to be listening right now being like, 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:11.160 that's what I. 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.160 Have tiny versa collar. So basically, if you don't know 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:13.520 what it is. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.480 It's this like patch on your upper body, on your 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.760 arms or on your torso where the skin changes color. 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.200 So you might get like a patch of white or 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:22.120 you get a patch of brown. 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:23.680 That's what it is. But mine has just like taken 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.520 over my arm on my back now. So you get the. 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:27.800 Anti dander of shampoo. This is doctor prescribed. This is 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:28.800 not something from TikTok. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:29.120 You get that. 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:31.240 It's just anti dander of shampoo and you rub it 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.640 onto your arms, leave it on there for ten twenty 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:34.920 thirty minutes. So I used to live it on for 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.160 a couple of hours and then just wash it off. 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:39.800 That is the treatment. And most of the time, after 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:42.280 a while you have to be consistent, but your fungus 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:44.840 will disappear. My fungus hasn't been here for years. Can't 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.000 wait to keep you updated. It's really nice. I love 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:48.920 these Tuesday episodes. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:50.040 How we get to catch you up on all the 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:52.040 important things that are happening in our lives. And you know, 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:54.200 for me right now, it's fungus. Actually, do you know 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:55.920 what else happened in my life over the weekend? Please 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:57.680 don't tell me it's some other kind of rash or 0:07:58.360 --> 0:07:58.760 what else. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.240 Happened. What other fun are you, rash, I have jockeage. 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:04.920 So if I didn't fee humbled enough over the weekend 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:06.560 by finding out that I have a fungus all over 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:10.760 my body, Mali, Really, I mean, kids are so good 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.440 at just like bringing you back down to earth. Like 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:16.520 if you ever felt good about yourself, they have a kid, 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.840 speak to your four year old and ask them to 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.040 critique anything about you. 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:21.480 Not a critique, it just say look at me, what 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:23.640 do you see? What do you see? Just talk to 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:25.680 me about what you see on me? Oh, my body. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:27.800 Recently, if you were listening to a Tuesday episode from 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:29.440 a couple of weeks ago, Keisha and I were talking 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:33.720 about cosmetic injections, cosmetic surgeries, and I was saying that 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.400 I have not had anything now, like I'm going into 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:39.920 my eleventh month of this year without having any botox 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:42.840 anything done to my face out of pure laziness. Can 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:46.240 I just add one thing, Yeah, that is really weird 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:49.680 to me because your skin looks better than ever. I 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:53.160 can honestly say that that's so nice. I needed that 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:54.520 bit of a confidence boost. Wow. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:57.200 Keisha's kis's very excitedly trying to get off the mic. 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:59.559 How can you possibly say your skin looks better than ever? 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:03.320 It's yeah, from the chin. 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.520 I know you've been asking about my skin everytine, so 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.280 I just wanted to go through it with you. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:11.040 Use this. It is for jockage. Okay, let me rephrase that. 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.559 Let me rephrase that. It's funny you feel like that, Laura, 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:16.800 because from the neck up, your skin looks amazing. Okay. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.760 So what happened was I was laying in bed with 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:20.599 Marley and we were having this cute little cuddle and 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:22.719 like every sort from kids, you're laying in bed with 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.400 them and they're like hold your face and you have 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:26.520 these really beautiful moments where you're like, you know, like 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:29.800 it's just this kind of intimacy that it's quite hard 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.000 to describe because it's like this, it's almost like a 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:35.160 romantic intimacy without any romance. Like they'll hold your face 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.760 and they'll look in your eyes, and like you have 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:39.959 these beautiful little moments of like soul connection with a 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:41.920 human like you love more than anything. 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:45.520 And I feel similarly with Delilah, you would understand that 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:46.320 exact feeling. 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:49.600 And so like this deep moment of connection with Marley 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.640 where she was like stroking my face and she was 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:54.360 like looking into my eyes and I was like, I 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:55.320 was having a moment. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.800 She clearly wasn't. And she said to me, Mummy. 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:02.240 So yes, yes, sweet and she goes, your skin is 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.080 really ugly and I said, thank you, darling. 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:06.720 Why do you say that? 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:10.160 And she said, you just have so many red bits 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.559 on it, like there is red and there is red 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:15.040 and there is red. 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.360 Gone in the morning with no makeup on, laying in bed. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.720 And I was like, okay, that, sweetheart. You know this, 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:20.880 Sometimes when you. 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:23.640 See things about people, you don't have to tell them 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.920 because it hurts their feelings. So when you tell me 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.000 that you notice that my skin is red, that that 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:28.960 hurts my feelings. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:30.679 Mummy has an uneven skin tone. 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:32.640 And I said, you don't have to tell people the 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.520 things that you see about them that you don't like, 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:38.040 and she said, yeah, but even if I don't tell you, 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:39.000 it's still the truth. 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:46.280 Yeah, got it, bitch. That's so brutal. It was so brutal. 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:47.360 This was also for me. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.040 This was the reminder and it really took me back 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.960 to those moments in my relationships, like my ex relationships, 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:56.200 where you're laying in bed next to someone and you're thinking, 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.840 oh my god, we're so connected, like I love him, 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.640 He's gonna say I love you, And you think you 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:02.720 know what they're thinking. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.360 You fucking don't know what they're thinking. They're looking at 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.720 your face thinking you've got red splotches. That's what they're doing. 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:11.679 So they are not sometimes sometimes Yeah, if they're not assholes, 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.679 if they're not saying I love you back in that moment, 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.679 and you think you're having a soul connection, trust me, 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:16.920 that is not what is happening. 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:18.679 Okay, that's too close to home for some people in 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:23.320 the room. Keisha, Have we told toblerone that we love 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.199 him yet? 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:24.959 No? 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:30.560 It is getting it's getting more interesting as the days 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:30.800 go on. 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.800 I don't think he'll ever say it now. I think 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:34.840 you've gone too far, Like, you can't ever say it now. 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:39.760 I feel similarly. Do you know what's the worst moments? 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:42.320 Actually, and this has stuck out to me, it's when 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.440 I've had Delilah like I borrowed her the other weekend. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:46.200 I love that. I say I borrowed her. I took 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:47.880 her for two days. You took her and didn't return her. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:48.120 Yeah. 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.959 Yeah, So she jumps into bed and she loves a cuddle. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:54.440 I'll be like cuddling her and she'll be next to him. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.520 And I'll be like, I love you, I love you. 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.240 You are such a pretty girl, and tell Delilah seventeen 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:00.520 times how much I love her. 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.840 And then it's just maybe that's when you need to 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.400 tail it. Maybe you need to look up then and 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.160 lock eyes and have a moment and then. 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:11.320 Will him to say it. Make that silence so awkward 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:12.920 that he has to say it. 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.480 I just want to like for anyone who doesn't know 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.280 what's happening right now, because they might be confused. 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:17.720 Maybe you're new to the podcast and you don't know 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:18.280 the backstory. 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:22.240 Producer Keisha, she has been dating tolerone for probably seven 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.080 months star maybe eight months, very seriously, seriously, they're moving 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:25.480 in together. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:26.760 The guy's like that shit happening. 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.439 The relationship is progressing in a way that one would 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:31.160 think the I love yous are coming. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.240 Well, you'd think the I love yous would have happened 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:35.040 for these conversations to have happened. 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:36.880 And we've spoken about this a couple of times, so 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:39.920 I'm enjoying the constant updates because one day we're going 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:41.440 to talk about this and you're going to say I 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:44.600 said it or not. Maybe this will just be the 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.600 constant update forever. My only question is does Toblery never 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:48.319 listen to this? 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.120 No? No, he never listens to the podcast. Okay, we 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:51.840 won't be offended. 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:54.880 We love having a supportive partners. 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:56.880 The opposite, I'm like, I don't want you to be 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:57.480 turned off. 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:59.440 I don't want you to hear things that you're like 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.440 that's not it attractive to me, which I feel like 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:04.040 would happen if any of our partners listened to this podcast. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:04.920 You know it's fair. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:06.800 Because Matt doesn't listen either, which is why I get 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:08.520 away with telling so many of the things that happen 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.000 our relationship because I'll give him the brief overview. 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:12.319 I'll say like, oh, honey. 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.760 I talked about this on the podcast, but I tell 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.400 like versions of it, and he goes, Okay, that's fine 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:19.559 because I think that so long as I've told him that, 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.120 I'm telling the story, but I tell a top line 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.319 version of it. If he actually heard it, he'd probably 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:25.600 be like a bit much information. 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:26.400 Laura bit too. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:29.920 Hand listens to every episode, every single and the radio show. 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:30.760 He listens to everything. 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:32.960 See I feel differently about Matt because I think for 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:34.720 him that gives him a permission slip to. 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:37.760 Talk about whatever he wants to talk about on his podcast. Yeah, 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:39.439 I don't listen to that either. That's my point. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.680 I shouldn't feel like, hey, honey, I kind of talked 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:43.439 about a little bit about this, like maybe it might 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:44.760 be a bit too much, and he's like, nah, it's 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.440 all good because he's storing it as like a as 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.520 I get out of jail free card if he needs 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:50.040 to use it. 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:52.200 So I'm glad that tom la Rone doesn't listen to 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:54.800 the podcast, but it is getting more weird by the 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:58.000 day that we haven't told each other that I've never 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:01.640 thought of myself as a stubborn person before this particular situation. 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:04.240 I feel like now I'm just not saying it out 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:06.600 of stubbornness that no, you have to do it first, which. 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:07.240 I think is silly. 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:11.599 I think love shouldn't fall into the stubborn category. I 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:13.720 think that the woman can say they love them first, 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:15.120 just like I think the women can ask. 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.240 Their partner our man or woman. I think it's fine 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:18.720 for a woman to take charge and if you know 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:19.520 you love him. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:22.320 Quality, well, No, I just don't see the point in 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.440 like if you want it, like we get such I'm 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.360 getting so deep, we get such limited time on this 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:29.360 earth and love, but it's true, love is such a 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.720 when you are in love, it is there is no 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:36.600 feeling like it and like you just the second you 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.360 say it and you express things differently because once it's 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.440 almost like a doorways opened up. But I can guarantee 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:44.040 the little things will change once you start to say 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:44.640 you love each other. 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.760 And I think, why waste that time? Well, I think 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:48.800 now we've waited so long. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.600 We went on an international holiday two months into being together, 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:54.320 Like it's not like we slowed down on other things. Now, 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:56.080 I feel like there's been such a build up that 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:57.800 it kind of has to be a moment, Like I 0:14:57.840 --> 0:14:59.320 don't know if it can just be sitting on the 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:00.800 couch patting the dog. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:02.840 You know, well, you're not getting married, You're just saying 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:04.680 I love you. But also I do think you're gonna 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.160 be laying in bed one day and you're gonna be like, 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.200 I love you, and he's gonna be like, your face 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:08.600 is red. 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.800