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Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast. Yuh sad, Good afternoon,

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Speaker 1: Happy Thursday.

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Speaker 2: It is Will and Woody for your drive home.

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Speaker 1: The boys are away, so it is Button Pusher Tom

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Speaker 1: looking after you, but I can tell you live from Monday.

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Speaker 1: Will is joined by Brooke Bony filling in for Woody

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Speaker 1: as he's in the jungle for I'm a celebrity, get

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Speaker 1: me out of here, and he started to get along

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Speaker 1: very well with everybody, including championship netballer Liz Allis, and

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Speaker 1: Woody helped Liz confront one of her biggest fears.

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Speaker 3: Liz and I have been practicing this sexy dance routine

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Speaker 3: all day before I asked Liz to join me in

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Speaker 3: this duo act. I didn't realize that what we're about

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Speaker 3: to do is one of her biggest fears.

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Speaker 4: The lot chun Chen a little pep twerkhads mucking f

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Speaker 4: the pe I'm thinking this is an erotic frog dune.

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Speaker 4: Woody and Liz Ellis.

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Speaker 2: That sounds fun.

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Speaker 1: Hey, on this show, we're playing some of the very

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Speaker 1: best bits of the boys coming up. Britt Hockley tries

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Speaker 1: to get our junior producer Analyse on the exclusive dating

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Speaker 1: app Rayer but up next wood he could.

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Speaker 4: Be getting sued.

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Speaker 2: Yep, it's serious stuff.

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Speaker 3: The official Lord of the Rings lawyers suing a local

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Speaker 3: waste clearance company. I don't know why. Oh that's beautiful nice.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why they'd waste their time with this.

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Speaker 3: But there's this waste management company in Brighton, in Melbourne

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Speaker 3: and they're called Lord of the Bins. That is the

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Speaker 3: very good stuff. Lord of the Bins, brilliant. Their slogan

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Speaker 3: is one Ring to remove it all, brilliant.

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Speaker 2: Once again.

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Speaker 4: Well you just had to have that explained to you

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Speaker 4: by It's.

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Speaker 3: Totally fair because the Lord of the Rings. I'm not

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Speaker 3: a huge Lord of the Rings fan, but it's one

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Speaker 3: ring to rule them all.

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Speaker 4: That's what the movie, One Ring to find them, one

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Speaker 4: ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind

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Speaker 3: So they've played on that and gone one Ring to

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Speaker 3: remove it all. So you call them and they remove

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Speaker 3: you good stuff. Anyway, they're now getting sued. So the

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Speaker 3: Lord of the Rings official lawyers are saying, get rid

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Speaker 3: of the name. You know, copyright et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: So given you're a lawyer, wilbur.

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Speaker 4: Well, No, no, I'm not a lawyer.

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Speaker 2: I've got a law degree.

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Speaker 3: Well, given you've got a law degree, Whilber, I thought

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Speaker 3: it would just be a little bit of fun.

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Speaker 2: I spent a bit of time before coming up with

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Speaker 2: like Lord of.

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Speaker 3: The Rings pun business names, and I want to run

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Speaker 3: and buy you, and you tell me if I would

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Speaker 3: get sued for having this name.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, a little bit of fun.

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Speaker 4: Copyright law wasn't my bag. It's quite hard to do.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm you know, you've done the courses.

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Speaker 2: You know you'd be.

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Speaker 3: Able to shed some pretty good light on whether I'd

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Speaker 3: get sued if I had this business.

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Speaker 2: Now, No, it's actually.

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Speaker 4: Really tricky, Like it's really hard to know. It's quite specific.

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Speaker 2: Let me give you one example and then you let

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Speaker 2: me know if it's as obvious or not.

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Speaker 3: But if I opened a doughnuts store and it was

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Speaker 3: called frow Doughnuts with that, honestly, what I get sued

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Speaker 2: I don't think you would know, really, no.

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Speaker 4: Because there's nothing about Proto's Nuts in the Lord of

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Speaker 4: the Rings. Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: What if I use then like it was fro Do

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Speaker 2: holding donuts.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you'd have an issue.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so soon as it easy his image, yeah, because

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Speaker 4: But if you're just using the name, then it's because

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Speaker 4: the thing is if I look at the writing and

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Speaker 4: like they're trading in on their image to lure.

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Speaker 2: People in this lawyer coming look at it.

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Speaker 4: Can we actually get a proper lawyer on though, because

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Speaker 4: I don't want to keep doing this.

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Speaker 2: I've got twenty seven more.

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Speaker 3: You need a real lawyer, Yes, generally lawyer. They're very

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Speaker 4: Physical.

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Speaker 3: If you are one, okay, we will have one, great

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Speaker 3: right because I might open one of these businesses.

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Speaker 4: What photos, nuts, donuts. He's got twenty seven Lord of

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So there's there's a real story in the New Yes

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Speaker 3: Today about a company in Brighton that excuse me, it's

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Speaker 3: not Brighton in Melbourne, Australia. It's Brighton in the UK.

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Speaker 3: But they're called lawd they're called Lord of the Bins,

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Speaker 3: so they're a waste management company. They are getting sued

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Speaker 3: by the official lawyers of Lord of the Rings. So

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Speaker 3: what I've done is I've just put together a whole

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Speaker 3: on the phone right now.

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Speaker 2: He's a partner at Thompson. Hello, Justin Quill.

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Speaker 5: Gooday, guys, thanks very much, she said just before that break,

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Speaker 5: you wanted to get a proper lawyer. I'm sorry you've

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Speaker 5: ended up with just me, but anyway, else I'll do

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Speaker 5: my best.

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Speaker 2: Boys right, not a problem.

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Speaker 5: Can I throw the first one at you? Copyright idea?

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Speaker 5: What about? Will you come in and do my job.

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Speaker 5: I'll come in there and and we'll call it Quill

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Speaker 5: and Woody. Would that be a breach of copyright? Well,

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, we'll talk off there, we'll talk.

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Speaker 5: What do you what do you go for me?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 2: One of us?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So if I was to open a wood shopping company.

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Speaker 4: Justin youmone's holding the phone a little bit away from

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Speaker 4: your mouth. You are tending to heave into it. I

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Speaker 4: know you're excited.

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Speaker 5: That's because I'm where. I was wearing a headset, boys,

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Speaker 5: because I was walking up and down, kicking the footy off.

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Speaker 5: That's just the headset and we're good to go.

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Speaker 2: Get serious, Justine. All right.

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Speaker 3: If I was to open a wood shopping business and

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Speaker 3: called it golumber Jacks, golumber Jacks, would Lord of the

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Speaker 3: Rings sue me?

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Speaker 2: Or is that all good? No?

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Speaker 5: That's were you starting with your best one there? I

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Speaker 5: hope Actually, sigarette could get worse abound the breathing and now, no,

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Speaker 5: that is totally fine. I can't imagine. There's three things

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Speaker 5: that could It could be a breach of copywriter, could

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Speaker 5: be passing off. It could be trademark breech. That's none

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Speaker 2: Okay, amazing, so tick you can do that, all right.

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Speaker 3: Next one, if I was to open a cleaning company

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Speaker 3: and called it stains be Aragon because Aragon is the

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Speaker 4: How much do you charging?

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Speaker 5: Not enough? Not enough of it? You know, you know

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Speaker 5: the old rule of comedy like, it's not going to

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Speaker 5: work if you've got to explain it. And as soon

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Speaker 5: as you read that, you then had to explain that.

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Speaker 2: Fans.

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Speaker 5: Okay, the good news. The bad news is I'm not

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Speaker 5: sure it was that that wasn't your best one. But

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Speaker 5: the good news is you're not getting sued over that

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Speaker 5: because no one's going to come and give you any work.

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Speaker 3: But anyway, Okay, if I was to open a fast

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Speaker 2: Sarah Man Cheese? Am I getting away with that one?

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Speaker 5: You're not getting sued. But you're not making any money either.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're good.

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Speaker 5: No again, you're you're, you're, you're okay, you're you're okay.

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Speaker 4: Can you give me an example of one that might infringe?

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Speaker 5: Well, look, what what are the pins? Is an obvious one.

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Speaker 5: The reason they got into trouble was not just because

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Speaker 5: the name was Semi, That's part of it, but they

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Speaker 5: even their logo looked like the Lord of the Rings logo.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what if I went with and this is literally

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Speaker 2: What if I went with the Pooh Towers.

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Speaker 3: And it was like a and it was it was

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Speaker 3: a toilet busy man, it was a toilet manufacturing business.

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Speaker 5: I wanted to know, I was. If you didn't tell

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Speaker 5: what if what did the Pooh Towers do? Yeah? Again,

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Speaker 5: probably not making a lot of money from that business,

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Speaker 5: But you're not getting sued.

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Speaker 4: You're not getting sued, Okay, what if I started a

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Speaker 4: choir the final one?

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Speaker 2: What if you dare wrap me up? I've got twenty

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Speaker 3: What if I started a choir and it was called

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Speaker 4: All right? Justin?

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Speaker 5: Can I just say, guys, can I just say that

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Speaker 5: Can it be Will and Quill woods you?

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Speaker 4: And I spoke to Britt Hockley recently. She's got a

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Speaker 4: brand new man, the goalkeeper of Celtic.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a man he is.

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Speaker 3: Gorgeous, huge hands, very tall, gorgeous mustache and goaty.

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Speaker 2: It's a great look, the mustache and goaty.

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Speaker 4: And who better?

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Speaker 7: Who?

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Speaker 4: God give me a break. So I just realized what

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Speaker 4: was going on there. Anyway, it is. It is a wonderful,

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Speaker 4: wonderful thing for Britt, who's obviously on the pick up

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Speaker 4: now just before us, all over your radios. But here's

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Speaker 8: We met then and had Laine or yeah, Raia the

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Speaker 8: celebrity celebrity. This makes me sound like such a way

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Speaker 8: accepted onto it or you have to be invited or

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Speaker 2: Really interesting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well look, we weren't all that interested by it,

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Speaker 4: but the person that was most wild for was our

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Speaker 4: junior producer, Analyse, who saw an opportunity and she's in

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Speaker 4: the studio now.

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Speaker 9: Yes, I saw an opportunity and I think it's one

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Speaker 9: that we have to take.

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Speaker 2: I love this. I love his conviction. So can I

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Speaker 2: ask you? So what are you on the apps? Now?

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Speaker 9: I'm on some of the apps sporting, I'm terrible, I'm

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Speaker 9: on Tinder and.

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Speaker 2: I'm on hingeing nice.

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Speaker 9: Hinge has like this little like section of the app

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Speaker 9: where you have to pay to get to the hot guys.

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Speaker 4: So it's just.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, pay for the hot guys.

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Speaker 9: Or send them like a rose and you only get one.

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Speaker 9: So it's just like if you send a rose. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 9: that person's like paying to send a rose and it's desperate, Yeah, desperate.

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Speaker 4: For the hot guys.

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Speaker 2: It is extraordinary idea. That was a thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like you're at the fishmonger, yeah, pay for the sashimi. Wow, okay,

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Speaker 4: fair enough.

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Speaker 4: And then sky's the limit? Who's who's your who's your

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Speaker 9: There's a lot of people who I've heard her on it,

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Speaker 3: The recommendation is what we're after for our junior producer,

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Speaker 4: It on the tinders and the hinges of the world.

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Speaker 4: All right, all right? So, and can I just need

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Speaker 9: A I'd take an AFL player.

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Speaker 4: You got to pay a call, all right, let's do it, mate,

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Speaker 4: You're going to call Britt. But we can't we can't stop.

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Speaker 4: We can't dream about Rayer unless you're on there, and

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Speaker 2: Are you ready to go?

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Speaker 9: Okay, Okay, So obviously you came on the show and

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Speaker 8: Just put me down, just put I think you just

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Speaker 4: Hey, yeah, lady, so much.

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Speaker 2: It's Will and Woody. The boys are away.

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Speaker 1: Well, Will's on holiday, Woody is in the jungle for

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Speaker 1: I'm a celebrity.

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Speaker 2: Get me out of here. So Button pushing Tom looking

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Speaker 1: Channel ten has been emailing us exclusively behind the scenes

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Speaker 2: If you need wood then you're probably shoes. Get Wood

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Speaker 3: So when Rose went Rove Live and went on ten,

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Speaker 6: No, quite the opposite.

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Speaker 7: Rove to his never ending credit, he basically I know

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Speaker 7: I was twenty three when I left my job at

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Speaker 6: You know, I did one episode and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: A show, and you know, with no guests, just a monologue,

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Speaker 6: At fifteen minutes before we started this interview.

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Speaker 4: Geez, what is getting good with those interviews?

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Speaker 1: that will and Woody or head templay dot com, dot

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Speaker 3: Right now, I want to talk about a rather extraordinary

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Speaker 4: You were this time in six years just come on

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Speaker 2: It was it was great to have her above the ground.

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Speaker 4: You can see why we don't get her on tho.

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Speaker 4: She's got no media sensibility. She just gets on with

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure when when we first spoke to us

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Speaker 2: The reception here is great. Noone needs to know.

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Speaker 4: arguing about that. That's an awful way to analyze your

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Speaker 3: Sure, sure, anyway, all of a sudden, I start feeling

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Speaker 2: Have listen to this.

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Speaker 4: It's undeniable that the conversation that you and I had

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Speaker 4: Now, like I.

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Speaker 11: Ill zone now when I talk, so the extraordinary does

447
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Speaker 11: that That's what I want to talk about.

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Speaker 3: So clearly, when you guys are fighting, I'm not saying

449
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Speaker 3: you do this all the time.

450
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Speaker 2: It's all the time.

451
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Speaker 3: She does it all the time, amazing, and you obviously

452
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Speaker 3: get very annoyed because it's a wait to just put

453
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Speaker 3: a hole in your argument.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she just selectively listens. She's like she waits. She

455
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Speaker 4: knows that I'm coming in with the killer blow. Like

456
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Speaker 4: I've eviscerated her forces. You're winding up, there's no one

457
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Speaker 4: else left. I'm about to make a final play at

458
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Speaker 4: the siege siege.

459
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Speaker 2: Tower, right, Yeah, it's ready to go.

460
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Speaker 3: The siege a little bit lost in the metaphor, but anyway,

461
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Speaker 3: I'm about to crush her.

462
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm about to crush her. And then

463
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Speaker 4: she says, I just didn't hear.

464
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: It's like it's like, what do you mean that was?

466
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Speaker 4: That was the best bit? You know, I like winning arguments,

467
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Speaker 4: would he Yeah? Yeah, you know it's a perfect tap out.

468
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Speaker 4: I should say in Sam's defense here and I, you know,

469
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Speaker 4: just to make sure I don't create more issues for

470
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Speaker 4: myself when I get home. She English is her second language, sure,

471
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Speaker 4: and I obviously talk for a living, so just by

472
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Speaker 4: the fact that she is fluent in English, sometimes it's

473
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Speaker 4: really hard for her to continue to communicate in the argument,

474
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Speaker 4: particularly when I'm kicking up a whole bunch of emotions

475
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Speaker 4: for her. Yeah, and she can't explain herself, and then

476
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Speaker 4: she can't reply, So to tap out is really the

477
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Speaker 4: only option that she's got, Otherwise she loses. And then

478
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Speaker 4: we address the argument the next day and she's like,

479
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Speaker 4: I didn't even understand what you were saying. I was

480
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Speaker 4: trying to process what you're saying thirty seconds ago.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I've sort of stop listening to as well, unfortunately, but

483
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Speaker 3: I do. I do want to focus on thirteen one

484
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Speaker 3: oh sixty five on what is the most.

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Speaker 2: Annoying thing that your partner does during an argument? Because

486
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Speaker 2: for you, it's when semis goes I wasn't listening.

487
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Speaker 4: And for you, I imagine it would be making a joke.

488
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Speaker 2: I would be insufferable in that way.

489
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Speaker 3: But I try and get Mim to laugh while she's

490
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Speaker 3: fighting with it, and that's not fair because then that

491
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 3: belittles her argument. She also hates it when I start eating, Yeah,

492
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Speaker 3: so we'll be mid fied and I would just signed

493
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Speaker 3: to start preparing food and then east during the argument,

494
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Speaker 3: would she hates.

495
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do the walk away.

496
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Speaker 2: I walk off.

497
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Speaker 4: Really either I start doing fund myself. I good, it's

498
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Speaker 4: something in the other room. Yeah, right, most annoying thing

499
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Speaker 4: your partner does in an argument thirty one, six or five?

500
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Speaker 4: You want to join here.

501
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking.

502
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Speaker 3: About it because it was quite an extraordinary moment when

503
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Speaker 3: you got your partner on the show and you were

504
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Speaker 3: actually talking about a fight that you had on the weekend,

505
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Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden the fight started.

506
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Speaker 4: It's undeniable that the conversation that you and I had

507
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Speaker 4: on the weekend about what we were putting in was

508
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Speaker 4: incredibly helpful to how we both felt about each other.

509
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Speaker 4: I sort of was listening, but I wasn't.

510
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Speaker 3: Yeah, great, hang on to the conversation on the weekend

511
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Speaker 3: or just now, no, just now.

512
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Speaker 5: Like I Max is trying to get kemp.

513
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Speaker 4: I all know you zone out when I talked.

514
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Speaker 3: So you then said afterwards that it's the most annoying

515
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Speaker 3: thing she can do in an argument is go sorry,

516
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Speaker 3: I wasn't listening.

517
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Speaker 4: She did it on the same point as well, like

518
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Speaker 4: that point I was making. She did on the weekend

519
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Speaker 4: as well, on the solid point.

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Speaker 2: That's extraordinary.

521
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Speaker 4: She knew it would get into my skin.

522
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it does. It really works.

523
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Speaker 3: But thirteen one six, what's the most annoying thing your

524
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Speaker 3: partner does in an argument? We got Christie here, Christy,

525
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Speaker 3: what does your partner do?

526
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Speaker 10: Hey, boy, I have a big, burly partner, and he

527
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 10: grabbed me and hugs me and kisses my face really

528
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Speaker 10: lovingly while I'm trying to yell at him and be

529
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Speaker 10: extremely angry.

530
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Speaker 3: Yeah, my partner was a bit of that killing with kindness?

531
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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's killing with coliness.

532
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Speaker 10: When you're angry?

533
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I really annoyed. If someone was touching me and

534
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Speaker 4: I was really angry, how would you let me get away? Yeah,

535
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 4: I'm angry, get off? Yeah, exactly. We are talking about

536
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Speaker 4: the most annoying thing your partner does in an argument.

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Speaker 2: Macca, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Yes, what's the most Hello, what's the most annoying thing

539
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Speaker 4: your partner does?

540
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Speaker 5: She cheats on me. That's the most annoying thing that

541
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Speaker 5: I've come across. And it's not once or twice, it's

542
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Speaker 5: like seven times.

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Speaker 12: I've so far that on all.

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Speaker 3: So sorry, So you're having an argument. She goes hold

545
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Speaker 3: five and then cheats on you.

546
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Speaker 12: In an argument?

547
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Speaker 5: Yeah, she would bring up the fact that she cheated

548
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Speaker 5: on me before because she knows that he shucks me up.

549
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Speaker 4: You knows what she knows the what she knows that

550
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Speaker 4: she knows that I'll stop arguing so she won't go

551
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Speaker 4: cheat on me again. Oh my god, Mecca to leave this,

552
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Speaker 4: check mate.

553
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Speaker 2: That's all over.

554
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Speaker 5: Got the grip, she has the glip.

555
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Speaker 4: She's got the what the lip? The big lips. Jesus Christ,

556
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Speaker 4: you and I live in different worlds. All right, they're

557
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Speaker 4: gonna move on. She's got the lip.

558
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Speaker 2: She brings up previous cheatings.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that would just make me angry and angrier. And

560
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Speaker 4: then she's like, yeah, she's she's going, Yeah, she's got

561
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Speaker 4: the lips.

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Speaker 2: You got more will and Woody goodness after this. It's

563
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Speaker 2: the Women Woody Podcast.

564
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Speaker 4: If you were going to give the last person you

565
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Speaker 4: slept with feedback, what would you say to them? Was

566
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Speaker 4: the last person that I slept with was my partner,

567
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Speaker 4: sem Yes, If I was going to give her any

568
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 4: feedback the last time that we had a bit of

569
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Speaker 4: a honky tonk and was would be don't bring the

570
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Speaker 4: baby monitor into the bedroom. Quite simple.

571
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Speaker 2: Did it go off? Yeah, because it does with noise.

572
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Speaker 2: Did you watch it back? What did you watch it

573
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Speaker 2: back watch what back the monitor?

574
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Speaker 4: What do you mean?

575
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Speaker 2: Was it video on you?

576
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Speaker 10: No?

577
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Speaker 4: It doesn't. What what are you talking I'm.

578
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Speaker 2: Talking about baby monitors, the video.

579
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Speaker 4: I'm talking about monitoring us. What are you sick freak?

580
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Speaker 4: Did you feel yourself on the monitor? Did you feel

581
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 4: yourself in the baby monitor?

582
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Speaker 2: Did you watch it back?

583
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Speaker 6: You just man?

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00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 4: And you did you watch it back? I didn't feel

585
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 4: myself having sex on my job.

586
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Speaker 2: Accidentally? What a dream? And then and then you could

587
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: you're just showing your cards.

588
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 3: Well, and if you did do it accidentally, if you

589
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 3: did it deliberately, it's a bit weird.

590
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 2: But you could then sit down and then go through

591
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Speaker 2: feedback vision of life feb pause it there, pause it there?

592
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 10: Now?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing with that hand? I didn't like that.

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00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 4: That actually would be a great bit of feedback, sessh.

595
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 4: With a video, you'd learn a lot.

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Speaker 2: I could ever watch myself.

597
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 4: I could never watch myself. There's no way anyway. Neither

598
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Speaker 4: one and six five over to you guys. Feedback. Last

599
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 4: person is there with it can obviously be your partner.

600
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,360
Speaker 4: If you're going to give them one piece of feedback.

601
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 4: You can remain completely anonymous on this.

602
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Speaker 2: Show and it can be really good for them.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely. What would the feedback be, your feedback to men?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I think a bit of feedback in the boudoir

605
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 11: can be incredibly beneficial for your relationship or even if

606
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Speaker 11: you if you have a one night stand, if you

607
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 11: have a one night stand with someone, if you're able

608
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Speaker 11: to say to them, hey, look, just I'm not coming back.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm not getting the weekly DV day, I'm

610
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Speaker 4: just getting.

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Speaker 6: The one nighter.

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Speaker 4: I didn't like it, but Barge, but for the next person,

613
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Speaker 4: maybe this would be a good thing to know.

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Speaker 2: Done with respect, it's a great thing.

615
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 4: And I think, I think particularly with dudes. I mean like, hey,

616
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Speaker 4: an undersheet is a great idea.

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Speaker 2: There you go.

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Speaker 3: You know about critiquing the bedroom as well, well, it

619
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Speaker 3: doesn't necessarily need to be you know, in the gland

620
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Speaker 3: to gland combat that you're analyzing.

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Speaker 4: It's more just like in the bedroom, like.

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Speaker 2: Take your socks off next time. That was weird.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like the fact that your housemate can

624
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Speaker 4: walk through at any stage, you know, like those sorts

625
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 4: of things could be really bad. My mum used to say,

626
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Speaker 4: cut to cut your toneouse.

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Speaker 2: Just talking specifically about sex.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she said, because you'll scratch someone. Yeah, said you

629
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Speaker 4: never get a girlfriend like that if you got long tails,

630
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Speaker 4: because you'll scratch her.

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Speaker 2: When did she bring that up? In what context did

632
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Speaker 2: she bring that up?

633
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 6: Well?

634
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Speaker 4: I think with dad she had a few. No, Jockie,

635
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 4: that's disgusting that that That wasn't okay, I'm living with

636
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Speaker 4: mum and dad right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if this. Yeah, have you heard anything

638
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: she used to say that to me?

639
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 4: That always cut your toe? That was anyway you took me.

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Speaker 2: There, woody. Yeah, mum giving you feedback for six when

641
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Speaker 2: you did?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 2: What does mom? The girls produces the rattle.

644
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 4: We're all rattled. Tarai Tara, Hey, how are you going? Hey,

645
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Speaker 4: so you've got a bit of feedback for the last

646
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Speaker 4: person that you slept with.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, I'm all about giving feedback. Without feedback, you

648
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Speaker 12: do not learn.

649
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Speaker 2: When was it, sorry, when I went in to sleep

650
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Speaker 2: with this.

651
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Speaker 12: Person recently, a couple of weeks ago?

652
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Speaker 2: Great?

653
00:29:53,280 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 12: Great, So my feedback is when a guys going downstairs

654
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Speaker 12: to tell him that he needs to go maybe a

655
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Speaker 12: little bit to the left, a little bit to the right. Nope,

656
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Speaker 12: that's not quite right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just running this down.

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Speaker 4: So oh sorry, sorry, Tara, I read it. I follow

659
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Speaker 4: a thread on Reddit called ask reddit, and this thread

660
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 4: was exactly about that. It was women, if you could

661
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Speaker 4: give men one piece of advice, what would it be?

662
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Speaker 4: And Tara without I'm glad that you're here for this

663
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Speaker 4: discussion as well. The number one comment was when I'm

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Speaker 4: giving direction and you're doing that, listen to the direction?

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Speaker 2: Is that right, Tara? You you were directing and he

666
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: was not listening.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, oh no, he would move and I'll say no, no,

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Speaker 12: actually back the other way. Nope, too far.

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Speaker 4: Trying to pin the town and the donkey or.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, well you know there's there's one spot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, there you go, there's the feedback move around.

672
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Speaker 4: Seems simple, doesn't it, Like listen to the direction when

673
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Speaker 4: you're winning to action.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why you wouldn't listen to that direction,

675
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 3: Like why was lying? Why would you be lying? Let's go,

676
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,479
Speaker 3: it's not a prank. I didn't want that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think sometimes you're on a bit of

678
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 4: a mission though. Anyway, off him Louisa. Let's go to

679
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 4: Louisa to find there which is very well it.

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Speaker 3: Will Let's go to Louisa Louisa, you did you you

681
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 3: actually gave this feedback to someone?

682
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 12: Yes, of course I did. Learned from feedback. My feedback

683
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 12: was slow down. It's not a race. Yeah right, I

684
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 12: didn't get to the finish one.

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00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 6: Right.

686
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 3: That's great feedback. That's really good feedback. It's not a race.

687
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Speaker 3: Awesome work, Laisa.

688
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 4: Have you had that feedback?

689
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 2: It's not a race?

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00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 3: Uh no, because my if duration was an issue, it's

691
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Speaker 3: not that I was racing. Let's just leave it there, Lisa.

692
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Speaker 2: So you go for so long excited. Let's go to

693
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: Lisa here, Lisa, what's come on? What's your feedback?

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00:31:58,600 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 4: What's wanting to know?

695
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: Lisa?

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00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 12: You two out of five stance?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

698
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 4: Wow?

699
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 5: Did he treats me? How you treat your sheep?

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Speaker 12: I'm not coming back.

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00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: You were treated like a sheep? Well he did he

702
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 2: shorn you? Did you?

703
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 5: Did he show the things on the sheet?

704
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 12: He doesn't change his sheep?

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00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 6: Oh?

706
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: She don't like a sheep. He's grabbing you like a sheep?

707
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 4: Did he did? He did? He like a sheep?

708
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: What's the word?

709
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 9: Now?

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00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 4: It's oldest woman in the world dying today? Would one

711
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 4: hundred and eighteen?

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00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 2: Great knock?

713
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 4: Unreal unbelievable. Well done at Lucille, Yeah, well done Lucille. Anyway,

714
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 4: she said the key to long life was a glass

715
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 4: wine and a piece of chocolate. And I said, Lucille,

716
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 4: I respect you.

717
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: A respect, your respect your elders.

718
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 4: Of course that I don't believe you. And so I

719
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 4: did a bit of research what is actually the long life?

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Speaker 4: How do you actually live long? And I stumbled across

721
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 4: this guy called Robert Waldinger who's at Harvard Universities. He

722
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 4: runs the longest running study on human happiness and well

723
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 4: being on the planet, going for since nineteen thirty eight.

724
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 4: They started the study in nineteen thirty eight. So they've

725
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 4: got a number of families in Boston, which is just

726
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 4: near where the university is, and they basically sat them

727
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 4: down and they said, look, we just want to study

728
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 4: you for as long as we possibly can, you, your partner,

729
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: your kids, and we're just going to come around. And

730
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 4: they go around to their houses every two weeks, and

731
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 4: they asked them it was meant to be on psychology,

732
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 4: how are you feeling, how you going with your partner, etc.

733
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 4: But then over time their data obviously increased and increased

734
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 4: and increased and increased and so they started to draw

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00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 4: some patterns and metrics where they could actually measure what

736
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 4: made people happier over the course of their life, what

737
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 4: made people live longer.

738
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Speaker 2: Over the course of their life.

739
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 4: Wow, and the thing that they found that made people

740
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Speaker 4: live the longest, I'm not ready for a drum roll. Yeah,

741
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 4: I'm going to tease it that a little bit more.

742
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 4: I like teasing people. So they the thing that they found,

743
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 4: now you dare drummer on me is was so astonishing

744
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 4: to them that they actually had to double check it

745
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 4: with another study on well being because they were like,

746
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 4: we do not think this can be right.

747
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: I think this couldn't. This couldn't be the answer to

748
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: long life and happiness.

749
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Speaker 4: This thing killed people more than smoking or alcoholism.

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Speaker 2: Comfortably, Sorry, there's a negative thing they found.

751
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 4: Well, if it's the same thing, but the other side

752
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 4: of the coin of this killed people more than smoking

753
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 4: or alcoholism, did Wow?

754
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah that don't.

755
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 4: Relationships? Yeah, people's relationships. If you had a good relationship,

756
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 4: if you had a lot, if you had lots of successful,

757
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 4: loving relationships where you felt secure in relationships, you out

758
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 4: lived everyone. Even for people that like smoked a lot

759
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 4: or drank a lot. This thing was far more powerful

760
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 4: in terms of how long they lived. So the strength

761
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 4: of their relationship was the size of their heart was

762
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 4: how much they loved in their life.

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Speaker 3: So doctor Victor Frankel, who's a psychiatrist who was in

764
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 3: the Holocaust and he was in a concentration camp, he

765
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 3: came to the same thing he did.

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Speaker 2: So he did a study from his time in the Holocaust.

767
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 4: Well, come on, I've come on here with a very

768
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 4: impressive study.

769
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Speaker 2: The people. Well, it's the same answers.

770
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Speaker 4: Drum wrong, You've tried to you've tried to outstudy me,

771
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 4: and you hear me with the same thing.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 3: The people who survived overwhelmingly just had someone to live

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00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 3: for outside of the concentration and overwhelmingly, yeah, the people

775
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 3: who I'm staying alive for this person because I'm looking

776
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 3: forward to seeing I've got a relationship with. Whereas the

777
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 3: people who didn't or the people who found out that

778
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 3: say family or the love died, they would also die almost.

779
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 4: Yes, right way, interesting Yeah, well yeah, so apparently when

780
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 4: this study began, when they started it, nobody cared about

781
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 4: empathy or attachment in their relationships. But they started realizing

782
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 4: really quickly how important. It was as they got older

783
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 4: and older, but for something, but it was too late

784
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 4: and they die effectively. They just die. As you said,

785
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 4: there's no reason to be here anymore if you're not

786
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,479
Speaker 4: living with securely somebody else, unless you've got other people

787
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 4: in your life to be happy with and to share

788
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 4: your life with.

789
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Speaker 2: So lots of Instagram followers live along life.

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Speaker 4: I think I think you missed the point.