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Speaker 1: Get a.

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Speaker 2: I'm Laala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, and professional oversharer.

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Speaker 2: This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe

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Speaker 2: it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face

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Speaker 2: our blind spots. Each week I'll interview a different guest

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Speaker 2: about their highs as well as they're lows, all in

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Speaker 2: a bid to inspire us to feiously fail. Hello, Welcome

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Speaker 2: to the pod. Today we have returning guests David the Medium.

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Speaker 2: He's a psychic medium, a speaker and social commentator and

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Speaker 2: when we recorded this specific episode, he's been on the

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Speaker 2: pod I think four or five times now, but when

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Speaker 2: we recorded this episode it was actually his birthday wa

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Speaker 2: A Tredea. So it's been an honor to continuously have

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Speaker 2: David on the pod. Here in this app he talks

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Speaker 2: about his predictions and themes for the rest of the year.

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Speaker 2: So how great this might help ive your you know,

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Speaker 2: when you just need a little bit of a guidance,

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Speaker 2: maybe that's what this etpol brings for you. And he

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Speaker 2: talks really nicely around themes. He does a little mini

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Speaker 2: reading on me, but in all honesty, it felt like

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Speaker 2: it was for yes, me, but also you the listener.

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Speaker 2: So I hope you love that bit that's towards the

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Speaker 2: second half of the chat. David, you are always such

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Speaker 2: a joy to interview on this pod. And I know

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Speaker 2: you're going to be coming to beautiful Los Angeles soon

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Speaker 2: and we're going to do another true crime pod together

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Speaker 2: and I can not wait enjoy David's unreal. Hope you

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Speaker 2: love it, David, you flipp and magical?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Who are a big love by David the Medium the Bearer?

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Speaker 2: How many yets are we at now?

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Speaker 3: I was wondering on the drive. I think it's more

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Speaker 3: than that. I think five or five.

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Speaker 2: And today's extra special?

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Speaker 3: Is it? Why? Because you're here exactly.

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Speaker 1: Because it's your birthday?

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Speaker 3: You told you that everyone has one. It's nothing special.

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Speaker 1: No, it's so special. It's so special.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited to chat with you today because

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Speaker 2: we're kind of at that phase of the year where

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Speaker 2: you're kind of like, all right, the start of the

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Speaker 2: year felt kind of like clunky, I would say, especially

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Speaker 2: living in LA and thank goodness, you're such a lifeline

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Speaker 2: to me. You were like you like, cis this area

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Speaker 2: is okay? You've got to pack your bags if you're

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Speaker 2: in this area.

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Speaker 3: I got obsessed with the fire.

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Speaker 2: But I know you have a love of natural disasters

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Speaker 2: also and L and LA, so it was like two

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Speaker 2: of your things just all put together. To the listener,

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Speaker 2: you are a medium and a psychic, and I want

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Speaker 2: to say you know you're your media talent as well,

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Speaker 2: like your podcast, you go on TV, you talk about

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Speaker 2: you talk on a plethora of topics.

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Speaker 3: I just got into corporate speaking as way.

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Speaker 2: I saw you did it two days.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look at little mainstream. That's what it's all about.

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Speaker 1: This is what I think this year is for you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let's take a little moment to celebrate you. It's your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Birthdays are a really strange time because they kind of

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Speaker 2: force us to do this weird stock take.

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Speaker 3: Literally, Oh my god. You could have said it better

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Speaker 3: because it sort of feels like I'm having a I

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Speaker 3: do it every year, but I go through like a

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Speaker 3: twenty four to thirty six hour mental breakdown from like

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Speaker 3: what's working in my life? What's not working? I need

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Speaker 3: to ruin and change everything not ruined, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? Like I need to upheaval. It's always a

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Speaker 3: big up people for everyone, not many people. And I

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Speaker 3: read a thing about this so many people like their birthdays.

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Speaker 1: It's super common people not like their birth.

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Speaker 3: I don't like my birthday, but it's always like, oh okay,

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Speaker 2: I always do around birthday time. I'll always enjoy the day,

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Speaker 2: but I'll always have like a mini breakdown on either

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Speaker 1: And it's it's like.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it. We put so much pressure on ourselves. I

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Speaker 3: like we've failed. But we only feel like that on

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Speaker 2: It's funny, but as somebody that is so connected to

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Speaker 3: Now I haven't been mental breakdow because I feel like

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Speaker 3: I don't know no. It's it's it's such an important

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Speaker 3: for all of us at any stage of our life

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Speaker 3: or any part of you to just do self reflection

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Speaker 3: and it's yea the remembrance. And the biggest lesson that

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Speaker 3: I've learned is that there's no real point planning life

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Speaker 3: it's meant to. Like, even as a psychic medium, I

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Speaker 3: with age comes maturity and wisdom. But you know we

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Speaker 3: had that young lola, you know, you and I bucked

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Speaker 3: just be easy on ourselves, like, yeah, don't like everything's

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Speaker 3: happening how it's meant to the universe is too complicated

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Speaker 3: and too complex for anything to be a coincidence. And

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Speaker 3: for anyone that feels like you're on the wrong path,

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Speaker 3: you're not. It's that simple because if you were meant

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Speaker 3: to be on a different path, you would be on

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Speaker 3: a different path, So be easy on yourself. Everything's turning

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Speaker 3: out how it's meant to you. The universe happens for you,

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Speaker 1: You're that's like your thing, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: I love that and I think it gives you a

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Speaker 2: positive perspective too, as opposed to like why isn't this happening?

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Speaker 2: or like holding on. I'm someone that holds on too tight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so do I. Though we're on the humans, this

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Speaker 3: is it. We're only human like ireckards with your spiritual

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Speaker 2: I always feel like you've you're you're a step ahead though.

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Speaker 2: I always feel every time I see you, I always

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Speaker 2: you're very clear. I would call you energetically clear. I

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Speaker 2: guess you've got to be for your line of work.

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Speaker 3: It helps.

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Speaker 2: So for people that haven't listened to the past mazillion

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Speaker 2: episodes I've done on not just feels failing. You've been

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Speaker 2: on every wonderful podcast under the sun. You're you're the

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Speaker 2: pod King. I had a meeting with a publicist the

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Speaker 2: other day and I was like, how good's David. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I feel like he's on sorry pods. In fact,

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Speaker 2: I've stopped preparing you for your episodes the traditional way

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Speaker 2: that I prepare for guests, which is like I do

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Speaker 2: a deep dive and I really like listen to the

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Speaker 2: latest pod. They've done all that for you because I

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Speaker 2: trust and we have a friendship, so I guess it

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Speaker 2: comes from a space of like lived experience together. I

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Speaker 2: literally trust that whatever is meant to come out of

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Speaker 2: this conversation is just going to flow out of this conversation.

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Speaker 2: And that's kind of like how I come to record

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 2: I like that we just bounce back and forth, I know,

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Speaker 2: except for when we do our true crime episodes.

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Speaker 1: Then there's a lot of prep that goes into that.

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Speaker 3: Gosh, guys, if you haven't listened to the True Crime episodes,

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Speaker 2: We're going to do another one, aren't we.

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Speaker 3: I really hope so, because they're my favorite podcasts I've

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Speaker 1: So good.

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Speaker 3: Lola does the most incredible research and takes me to

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Speaker 3: these places around Los Angeles where true crime has happened,

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Speaker 3: hence the title true Crime Podcast. But my gosh, we

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Speaker 3: have so much fun. We have so much my favorite

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Speaker 2: And we kind of do this like tour because I

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Speaker 2: mics and so, yeah, it's happening again when you come

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Speaker 2: to LA, we are doing another true crime. So I

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Speaker 2: can't have you on this pod and without and I

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Speaker 2: think because of like like I was saying, it starts,

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Speaker 2: This year is going to roll up the predictions of

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Speaker 2: to know what David the medium thinks.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's put it this way. It comes down to

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Speaker 3: the best of times, it was the worst of times.

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Speaker 3: Like it's neither. Really, it's how everyone interprets it. For

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Speaker 3: You know, those things that we're having now. Honestly, let's

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Speaker 3: it's interesting that you mention the eclipses because we're in

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Speaker 3: That's what I've been doing. Yeah, but it's it's fascinating

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Speaker 3: it and the ripple energy that hangs out, like I

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Speaker 3: kind of feel that always go around the world. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And it's really like it's going to be a year, right,

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Speaker 3: take a year.

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Speaker 2: Like I saw you posted on Insta like two days ago.

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like you've to like that feels like

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Speaker 3: Well, that's it. Even if it talks about negative things

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I see them when I'm hiking, like I'm

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: That is the most morbid thing you've ever said.

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Speaker 2: Matt thinks that we Matt and I were driving here

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Speaker 2: share it? A little bit? Like Disneyland in La there's

438
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,399
Speaker 2: you know, have you been to Disneyland now?

439
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 3: You know?

440
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,720
Speaker 2: Also Universal Studios in La. Yeah, there's there's these to

441
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:30,520
Speaker 2: the listener. There's this crazy huge mass massive but where

442
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 2: you walk on at the top level right where the

443
00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 2: top level and the bottom level, so you're right up

444
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,119
Speaker 2: the top. There's just like this bit where they're building

445
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 2: a whole new roller coaster. And I was like, oh,

446
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 2: let's get a photo over here. It's good skyline of

447
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: l A. I go, oh my god, imagine how many

448
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 2: people commit to here just like chump, chump, Sorry, that's

449
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 2: my Really the same thing?

450
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Speaker 1: Do you think the same thing everyone does? But don't

451
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 1: talk about.

452
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,640
Speaker 2: We're riffing and the man no, And Matt's like, why.

453
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 3: Do you think that and I'm like everyone thinks that, Matt.

454
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 2: Honestly, And I think like sometimes if I'm out at

455
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 2: night or like doing something or on my own shopping,

456
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 2: I'll be like, I wonder if they're a murderer. Really feminine,

457
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,440
Speaker 2: that's female because we have to You've got to be

458
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,400
Speaker 2: very aware of your surroundings that night especially, and we're

459
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,119
Speaker 2: little like we could grab us no props.

460
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm they're hoping they'll take me on a tour, right.

461
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 2: A tour would be good or like fly on the wall.

462
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: That's why I think we like our true true crime pods.

463
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Speaker 2: Out of all the true crime places you and I

464
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 2: have been, there's one that I'm so excited to take

465
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 2: you by the way, Yeah, all new locations.

466
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Speaker 3: Friend, So you've already done the research in your RUDI

467
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:41,679
Speaker 3: mental beginning.

468
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Speaker 2: So when you said you wanted to, I was like,

469
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: already know the first place we're going, even like a

470
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,679
Speaker 2: time where we could go for lunch, like around the

471
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,959
Speaker 2: talking about death and stuff like that. Out of all

472
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Speaker 2: our true crime ones, I think I know what your

473
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 2: fave was, But what was your fave?

474
00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,440
Speaker 3: What do you think of my favorite? The O? J.

475
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Speaker 1: Simpson? Yeah, I did like that what's her name again?

476
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 3: You knew all the cold Brown? Yeah?

477
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 2: You see.

478
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 3: Flashlights? Yeah? God? What was my true fave? My true crime? Faith? Yeah?

479
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 3: I did like Nicole Brown. I did like Marilyn Monrose

480
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,120
Speaker 3: as well.

481
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Speaker 2: Even though we couldn't go into the house, it's been

482
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 2: there was fun. So apparently I'm not going to tell

483
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: you because I'll surprise you with it.

484
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 3: Oh you can't do that to me.

485
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: No, Well, we'll do it together in La.

486
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: It's fun.

487
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 3: Were able to drive up to the Palisades, you can

488
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 3: probably can't get up there, can you.

489
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Speaker 2: I think they've opened it. It'll literally look like an

490
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 2: apocalyptic Yeah, you'd probably feel a lot of stuff.

491
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 3: There'd be very very heavy.

492
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 2: Ah. Maybe if we do that, we have to do

493
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Speaker 2: that last.

494
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, or I'd like to see it because it kind

495
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: of feels like you know, I know you and I

496
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 3: have talked about this, but I used to go to

497
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 3: the Palisades every trip I went to on it in LA,

498
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 3: like Palisades Village, always just to have lunch or dinner there. Yeah,

499
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,119
Speaker 3: so it to kind of be nice to say goodbye

500
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Speaker 3: to it. They're going to ruin the rebuild obviously, so.

501
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: Question I look at you. To me, I look at you,

502
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 2: and I hope you take this the right way, but

503
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: like I don't look. Yes, you're a psychic medium, but

504
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 2: to me, like you sit in the entertainment industry so well,

505
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 2: like you're very comfortable on a pod, you're very comfortable

506
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 2: being filmed. I say, all your TV segs in a

507
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 2: dream world. If it's your birthday, so if we can

508
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: manifest something like it's your like where does where do

509
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 2: you want to be in a year or two from now?

510
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 3: Wow? Well something. It's great that you even asked that,

511
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 3: because it has been something I've been thinking a lot about.

512
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I know, Okay, I you know

513
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 3: what I mean. Like, it's not that I'm hesitant to

514
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 3: put labels on it, but I would love to have

515
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 3: more of a social profile.

516
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So.

517
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 3: I think there's a lot of benefit and just being

518
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 3: able to go very mainstream with what I can show

519
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 3: people and what I can not teach people but teach.

520
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 3: You know, I would love to do more work on TV.

521
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 3: I've just got into, as we were talking about before,

522
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: you know, guest speaking and corporate speaking. Yeah, because what's.

523
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: Harder than TV?

524
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 3: Though? Well it is, But I love getting up in

525
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 3: front of a crowd, even with my live shows that

526
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 3: I did last year that I'll continue towards the end

527
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 3: of twenty twenty five, Like, I love being able to

528
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 3: do it because I think for me, my motto is

529
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 3: there's such benefit in bringing what I do and who

530
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 3: I am mainstream because I want every single person to

531
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 3: know it's not supernatural, it's actually just super natural. And

532
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 3: not everyone has to go to a medium, and not

533
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 3: everyone has to be a medium or a spikiek or

534
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 3: anything like that. But there's little tips and tools and

535
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 3: tricks that we can bring into our daily life that

536
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: can actually be of such benefit to us.

537
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: Can you share a couple?

538
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 3: Well, even just manifestation, I don't think many people necessarily

539
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 3: understand how easy manifestation is. It's about, you know, the

540
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 3: creation of pathways in your life. Because everything in our

541
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 3: life his energy. Even science understands that like humans admit

542
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 3: an energetic field, any living creature admits an energy field.

543
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 3: But once energy's been created, it can't cease to exist,

544
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 3: it changes form. So when it comes to manifestation, for example,

545
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 3: there's an infinite amount of possibilities of the energy we

546
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: can attract into our lives based on how we show

547
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 3: ourselves in the world or show up in the world,

548
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 3: but also our mindset. The energy is the frequencies that

549
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 3: we're creating. Is that attracting what we want into our life? Oh?

550
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 2: I love that. What about people that are afraid of

551
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 2: manifesting the wrong stuff?

552
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 3: You can't, but you know when?

553
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: So for example, right, what if someone's like, okay, go

554
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: to like a meditation course and at the end they're like, Okay,

555
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 2: breathe what you want, and then you get an intrusive

556
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 2: thought like let's get murdered down on the shops and

557
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 2: stuff and theoon. Do you know what I mean?

558
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 3: Though I do, and well, people are always worry about

559
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: the loved ones dying for example, or you know, or

560
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 3: did I wish that on them somehow? And I mean

561
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: the simple answer is no, because you can't. You can't

562
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 3: drastically change someone else's whole journey or their life path

563
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 3: like that. But yeah, I think we all do have

564
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 3: those intrusive thoughts, like I worry that if I think

565
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 3: the wrong things, I can get very superstitious on things,

566
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 3: can you. Yeah, Like I'm like, if I don't do

567
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 3: this and this will happen. But that's it's all in

568
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 3: your mind, you know what I mean. Yeah, so it's

569
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: about calming the mind. But yeah, I don't want anyone

570
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 3: to fear or worry that you're going to manifest negativity

571
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 3: into your life or wrong things. Our choices that we

572
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 3: make as humans can absolutely have consequences. That's a different thing. Yeah.

573
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I thank you. Thanks putting in my mind.

574
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 3: You're not going to get murdered at the shop, sloller,

575
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 3: and if you are, it was meant to happen.

576
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 2: Anyway, David said, So.

577
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 3: I don't want that on the podcast. Now, let's get

578
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 3: that out. It's not going to happen. Damn it. You're

579
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 3: going to die at an old great grandmother in your

580
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 3: bed at.

581
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 2: Coming I always said as a kid, I'm going to

582
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: live to one hundred and fourteen.

583
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 3: Great, Well that's probably likely given. I mean, if we

584
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 3: don't ruin the world first, you know, that's the thing

585
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 3: people are advances in medicine.

586
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: I know. So okay, So you love and you I

587
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: feel like you love one connecting with people. I feel

588
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 2: like that's your whole jam.

589
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 3: I love connecting with people. I like talking. Yeah.

590
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's a sense of like.

591
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: Self awareness and self confidence with you with not ego.

592
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

593
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: Teach other people that as well? Yeah, I think yeah.

594
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: So TV media live talking live shows like going to

595
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 3: the Glamor on the green of anyone's listening.

596
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: I saw your your fashion PRITYI have.

597
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: Some and that's the thing.

598
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 3: You can have so much fun with it. Oh so,

599
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 3: good outfits that we wear is also how we sharp

600
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 3: into the world. So I'm going to get more into

601
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 3: that because the beautiful outfits that everyone was wearing is

602
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 3: that you can actually read them psychically and spiritually. Really yeah,

603
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 3: because it's how we present.

604
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 2: What does this green situation tell you?

605
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 3: You need to connect with nature? Oh yeah, but you're

606
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 3: always good at doing.

607
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love it.

608
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 3: But it's also obtained of the world you want to be. See,

609
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 3: that's like a download. That's where it's talking. Be more spicy,

610
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 3: oh say less the authentic spice of green chili.

611
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 1: At the moment, Yes, green jalapeno any day.

612
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: The way.

613
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 3: Green's a great color with your eyes especially, Oh thank you,

614
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 3: my friend.

615
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: So I feel like sky's a limit for you.

616
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 2: I think one thing that I love that you're so

617
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: able to do is like a tune yourself and the

618
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: way you manifest and live to the stuff that you're

619
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: the downloads, the stuff you're picking up on as well,

620
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: So for the listener, for me selfishly as well.

621
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: What can we lead into this year?

622
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: Like what do you think? Like, yeah, we talked about

623
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: a clip eclipse season and all that, and you don't

624
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 2: you don't have to hold out, like you can say

625
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: what you think is like going to shape things in

626
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: a good way. Like I know, talking to you at

627
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 2: the start of the you were like so excited about

628
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 2: this year. You were like this and the way you

629
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: said at starf like we've had We've had a few

630
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: years that felt like they have really been cutting our teeth,

631
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: like getting us ready for now, and now it feels

632
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: like the start gun's gone, you know, like let's run

633
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: at this thing cold life, right, So what because I'm

634
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 2: going to bring this episode out pretty soon, Like what

635
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 2: can we do between now and say, like the end

636
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: of the year. That's what it's March, there's that nine months, Yeah, April, May, July,

637
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 2: August septeen b teven members of it. It's eleven, No, no,

638
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 2: it's nine months. It's nine nine ish twelve months in

639
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: the yeah, yeah, it's nine. It's nine. So what do

640
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 2: you see for us and what can we lean into?

641
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 3: Well, this is it. Twenty twenty five is all about

642
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 3: change and transformation. So it's really important for anyone to

643
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 3: do a lot of self reflections at the moment, but

644
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 3: especially over the coming weeks to months, about letting go

645
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 3: of things that are no longer working for you, like

646
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 3: maybe they've worked great the last four or five years,

647
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 3: maybe there's not real benefit to it anymore. Now. That

648
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 3: can be people, can be relationships, it can be business agreements,

649
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: it can be how you see yourself in the world

650
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 3: and how you're placing yourself. If it's not working for you,

651
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 3: then work on evolution. So twenty twenty five in a

652
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 3: lot of ways. And this is a term that I

653
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 3: used really in twenty twenty three. So we're talking about

654
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 3: a good sort of twelve to eighteen months before twenty

655
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 3: twenty five begun, and then the Trump administration has actually

656
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: taken my word on board. But it was the Golden Age.

657
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 3: We're rebirthing the world in a lot of different ways,

658
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 3: and it's very interesting to see because there's a lot

659
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 3: of things that are come into light of those transparency

660
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 3: that's been presented to us, and a lot of people

661
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 3: are actually a bit fearful of that, or they're a

662
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 3: bit sort of confrontational with it. So it's sort of

663
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 3: like they're really class been trying to hold on to

664
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 3: the old world that doesn't necessarily exist anymore. So it's

665
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 3: also about being flexible, remain in the flow, and remembering

666
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 3: you you don't bend, you end up breaking.

667
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 2: So I love that you've said about how it's holding

668
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: on something that I'm really bad at, and we all, yeah, oh,

669
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: you're so lovely. But I think as well, like if

670
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 2: we can there's this beauty about like working. There's this

671
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: it's a yoga word. I'm going to absolutely say it

672
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: wrong via Gria, and it means to like work really

673
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: hard at a goal.

674
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 3: I thought you're trying to viagra had on something.

675
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: It's like it's like viria. Now all I can hear

676
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: is viagra as well, And it means to work really

677
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: hard at a goal, but have no attachment to the outcome.

678
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 2: And I think that if if we work that way,

679
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: then what you were just talking about about being able

680
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: to let go, and you were saying, like this time

681
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: right now with the eclipse is that cleansing energy. If

682
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: we can learn to like, let go of the stuff

683
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: that's not serving us, let it go, and it just you.

684
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 3: Will be like a bow and arrow. You'll get pulled

685
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 3: back to be.

686
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 2: Shot for Oh well, there's the audiogram. Thank you.

687
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: Love that.

688
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: I think it's a practice that we need to employ

689
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: this year, this year especially. I feel like I interviewed

690
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: right before you came here, or not right before, but

691
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: before you came here, this epic young kid that's built

692
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: three multimillion dollar businesses and he's twenty seven.

693
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 3: It's not gorgeous, so sounds like a catch.

694
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: And he worked with Yay on the Yeasy relaunch and

695
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: made nineteen million dollars in one day. Amazing, Yeah, in

696
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: credit But anyway, he talks about failing really fast, like

697
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: and just and he said success loves speed. And so

698
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: I think if you can let go of the shit

699
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 2: that's in your way, the stuff that like and I

700
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 2: hope you don't mind me sayings. When you came in,

701
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: you were like, I feel a bit heavy, and I

702
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 2: think that that comes when you let shit go. I

703
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: don't know, we haven't caught up for lunch yet. The

704
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: lunches after the podcast that Matt will be how but

705
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: there's a and people don't talk about this heaviness because

706
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: like when we let go of stuff, even if it

707
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: is the right thing, and it's that what you were

708
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: saying about the bowl and arrow, like pulling us back

709
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: for a relaunch, That pulling back feeling that like letting

710
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: go of the stuff weighing you down, feeling as essential

711
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 2: as it is, is so uncomfortable.

712
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: It's very uncomfortable.

713
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: And that's where I think the heaviness can sometimes come

714
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,959
Speaker 2: because you can second guess yourself, you can doubt, especially

715
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: if it's and I know what yours was, but like

716
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: if it's like changing the people that you're working with

717
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: on a program, you know what I mean, or on

718
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,479
Speaker 2: a project or something as an entertainer and as a creative,

719
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: which I think you are. So I didn't mean to

720
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: therapize you, but here we are, here we are to

721
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 2: birthday or just therapist's perfect.

722
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: But I think if.

723
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: Because of the industry you're in and then wanting to

724
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 2: work in the media industry is well, you have to

725
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: work with a team that wholeheartedly believes in you.

726
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 3: And I wasn't beforehand.

727
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, And how cool is that? Realizing that it's super normal,

728
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 2: but it does feel like a relationship break.

729
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it, But I don't know whether I can

730
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 3: find it again.

731
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: Oh are you kidding?

732
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 3: But like, I know I can get the opportunities again,

733
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 3: but maybe it's something I do need to do solo.

734
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 3: Like I think I'm my own best advocate when people

735
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: are actually able to talk to me directly, because if

736
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 3: I have someone pitching on my behalf say no, he's

737
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 3: a psyche medium that comes with everyone else's preconceived ideas

738
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 3: about what that is or what that represents or who

739
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 3: I would be. But then when I'm able to sit

740
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 3: in front of people, They're like, wow, he actually is

741
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 3: quite intelligent, and he is pretty mainstream and normal, and

742
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 3: he actually can speak pretty well in front of the media,

743
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 3: whether it's podcasting or radio or TV or anything like that.

744
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 3: So I am my own best advocate in that sense.

745
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 3: And that's a very big lesson that I've learned. And

746
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: it's actually something my astrologer Luke Bolker, is that you

747
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 3: know Luke. If you don't know Luke, we're definitely getting

748
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 3: you to know Luke. Okay, I don't know, but Luke

749
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 3: bolk he's an incredible astrology here in Australia, like the

750
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 3: biggest because he does a year ahead sort of astrology

751
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 3: session with you, so it picks up the big themes

752
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 3: and the transitions and changes. And I did one with

753
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 3: him about sort of six seven weeks ago, and the

754
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 3: biggest lesson for me was that I can't give my

755
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 3: power over to anyone to steer the ship that I've built.

756
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 3: And I think it's a really big lesson for all

757
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 3: of us, like you, we all know who are people are.

758
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 3: And if I look at my talent management, for example,

759
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 3: who I recently separated from, from a personal level, they

760
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 3: are my people. They're lovely, they're great, but from a

761
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 3: work perspective, they're not. And it showed, you know, with

762
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 3: the outcomes that were received. So I need to steer

763
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 3: my own ship.

764
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:47,359
Speaker 2: I went many years unrepresented. There's nothing wrong with it.

765
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 2: So it's actually so free and in Australia, because the

766
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 2: industry is smaller, you can totally wrap yourself yeah yeah yeah,

767
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: and not to talk business to the listener, but you

768
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 2: make a bigger cut because you're not giving away commissions.

769
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 3: So like missions, so they didn't get any deals with.

770
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: It, don't But don't feel bad, don't feel bad about

771
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: and to the listener, if you've got a dream, don't

772
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 2: feel bad like for like, if you're the only one

773
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 2: that sees that vision, you don't need to outsource until

774
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 2: that comes into your past.

775
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't need anyone else to see your vision.

776
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: Like there will be people along our journeys for all

777
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 3: of us. Like we learn how to swim, we learn

778
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 3: to swim out, we learn to stand on the surfboard,

779
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 3: we start learning how to surf the waves, and we

780
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 3: do all that ourselves. With whatever it is you're doing,

781
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 3: whatever industry, whatever creative that you are, then people will

782
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 3: come along. Once you know how to surf, they're like, okay,

783
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 3: we're going to help you surf as well. And I'm like, great,

784
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 3: But don't forget who you are. Don't forget all the

785
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 3: work that you can do, and don't forget that for

786
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: any of us, even before opportunities arise or before maybe

787
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 3: management comes in, wh're the one that did all the work.

788
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 3: You know, you create yourself. We shall be incredibly proud

789
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 3: of ourselves.

790
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: A thousand, one thousand say, you've got to You've got

791
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: to celebrate yourself for sure. Can I ask uh, this

792
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 2: is kind of like the meshing of your two worlds.

793
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: But like when you do come up with a call

794
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 2: like to leave your team or your management whatever, how

795
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: much so you're gonna your intuition is gonna be like

796
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: this feels iffy, like you want to know when it

797
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: kind of feels a bit like man, this might have

798
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: run its course. I mean, and in La people change

799
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 2: agents every second day, like it is a.

800
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 3: Very fast moving city.

801
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and you just you're expected to go up

802
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 2: the ladder as an actor, like you're meant to start

803
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: and then move up and up. But like how much

804
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 2: when you're, say, for example, in a meeting with someone

805
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 2: that might be rapping you or you might be looking

806
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 2: at working with and then you know how you were

807
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 2: saying when when spirits involved you kind of like turn on.

808
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 2: I know your auditory and you've got certain things, but

809
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: like does anything ever happen when you're in a meeting

810
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 2: and like spirits like, ah, this isn't working, danverse.

811
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: Well it's all intuition. And again like even there's David

812
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 3: the medium who's now thirty eight years old, I maybe

813
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 3: didn't listen to my intuition as good as I should

814
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 3: have really, and I not ignored it, but I I

815
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 3: knew the like if I look on back on everything

816
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 3: in hindsight now, like I knew it was going to

817
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 3: turn out this way really, but I let it go

818
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 3: on for longer than it should, maybe from that hope

819
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 3: that it could change, even no intuition was telling me

820
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 3: this is how it is.

821
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:25,760
Speaker 1: Wow.

822
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 3: So it's again it's a great lesson for me.

823
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 2: But it's also a good lesson in hope as well,

824
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 2: like in that like I think we do love to

825
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 2: see the best in people even when it's like, oh,

826
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 2: they are still great people, but they're not the right fit,

827
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: the right fear.

828
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 3: And that's not just with business, but you know you'll

829
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 3: do that with relationships. I think a lot of people

830
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 3: with romantic relationships, for example, will maybe date someone for

831
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 3: longer than maybe they otherwise they should, or they'll be

832
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 3: in relationships for longer even though you feel.

833
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 2: Like it's charged. I've been stuck in stuff and I'm

834
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 2: like beautiful people, wrong people for.

835
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 3: Me, Yeah, but there's always that hope that I'll change

836
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 3: el seat. From my perspective, yes, they can.

837
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 2: All grow to never.

838
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a good lesson for me and I know.

839
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: You talk about you don't you don't read for yourself

840
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,240
Speaker 2: because I can't. You can't and family as well, Right.

841
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 3: It's hard to read goodly.

842
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that would tell me that your intuitions probably

843
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 2: bang on.

844
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: Then for you is like if you get that feeling

845
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: of like.

846
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should be doing this, but

847
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 2: I'm just going to see the look on the bright

848
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 2: side and give it a crack. Anyway, how can we

849
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 2: the listener develop and nurture our intuition?

850
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, the most important thing for everyone listening to

851
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 3: realize is that you already have it. But it is

852
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 3: like a muscle. The more that you pay attention to it,

853
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 3: the more that you listen to it, the stronger it

854
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 3: will get. It's like flexing the muscle in the gym.

855
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 3: So start off small, like pay attention to If you're

856
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 3: feeling the need to say something, then say it. If

857
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 3: you're feeling the need to change lanes when you're driving

858
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 3: down the road, then do it. Like that even happens

859
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 3: to me the other day. I was like, I need

860
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,240
Speaker 3: to get the right hand lane, and I just instantly

861
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: did and then five hundred meters then I would have

862
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 3: on the massive block and it would have taken me forever. Yeah,

863
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 3: So it's those little things. But the more that you

864
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: utilize it, the more that you pay attention to it,

865
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 3: the stronger it will grow. But irregardless of what level

866
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 3: we find ourselves on with our own spiritual journey of

867
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 3: spiritual growth or even just our intuity of growth, it's

868
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 3: good right from the stuff, Like the very first time

869
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 3: you're lifting up the weight, you're still actually very in

870
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 3: shae because it's it's the remembrance for all of us

871
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 3: that we are a soul in a human body. We're

872
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 3: not a humans having a spiritual experience Like this is

873
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 3: something that is a natural language to every single one

874
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 3: of us already. You just got to start listening. We

875
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 3: already know how to speak the language of intuition because

876
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 3: it is wholeheartedly our foundation.

877
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 2: I imagine intuition feels different for different people, Like I imagine like

878
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 2: I always get like tingly hands, you know, go feeling

879
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: the God, Yeah, exact and like or you'll just.

880
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 3: Know that's it. But it is that simple. Really, you'll

881
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 3: just know, like how many times in general throughout life

882
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 3: do we just know?

883
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: You know?

884
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my American accent.

885
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 2: It's yeah, you got a good you got a good one,

886
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 2: and it's and it's trusting that. Obviously, I can't have

887
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 2: you on the pod without asking if you feel like

888
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 2: tapping into spirit and just seeing if anything feels like

889
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: saying anything today. Also, it's your birthday though, so I

890
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 2: don't want you to work on your birthday, so you have.

891
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 3: It's never it could never be working if I'm with.

892
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 2: You, So if you feel like it, go for it.

893
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: I also had a download right before you said that,

894
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: And I've got a really cool business if we're going

895
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 2: to talk.

896
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 3: About fair oh hear that listeners?

897
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah for you though, like not met like you. I

898
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: just have a feeling that something's going to blow up.

899
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: It's not that in the cafe that is going to

900
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: blow off, hopefully.

901
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 2: I love how many I just love how many things

902
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: that are like off kilter that you and I, that

903
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: you and I have like one hundred percent touched on. Say,

904
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: I feel so safe going there with you.

905
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 3: Likewise, anyway, I'm going to tap into Lola Berry. It's

906
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 3: interesting when you mentioned that because the instant reactions that

907
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 3: I get is sort of this element of feeling torn

908
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 3: between kind of everything that we've even talked about about

909
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 3: feeling torn between who I am and what I am,

910
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 3: but also what the past represents to me, and especially

911
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: I think given that you've been around family again, there

912
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 3: is that sort of pool where it's sort of like, Okay,

913
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 3: who am I? So it's you're very in matching with

914
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five about this element of reflection about not

915
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 3: only everything that's happened over the last few years, but

916
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: who am I right now and where do I want

917
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 3: to be? And you may also be feeling the same

918
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 3: about where we feel like in between worlds of right now.

919
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 3: So it's a remembrance that the family will will sly say,

920
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 3: the family will always be the anchor. Don't feel like

921
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 3: you're letting them down by not being present in the

922
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: way that you feel like you should be, because you

923
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 3: are anyway. Does that make sense? Yeah, And I think

924
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 3: it's hard for anyone that lives into SATA, especially overseas well.

925
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,280
Speaker 3: We've got our family and our friends and the connections

926
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 3: with the people that we built up with. But uh,

927
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 3: you know, again, your energy matches changed and transformation, which

928
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 3: is again perfect in line. And you know you mentioned

929
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 3: something to me before and I'm like, I'm just decided.

930
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 2: You can say, the listeners know, do they They don't.

931
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 2: They don't know the specifics, but that's okay.

932
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 3: But Lola is getting some cool opportunities in the City

933
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 3: of Angels. So I think, I don't know how to

934
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 3: translate this, but it's kind of like speaking to the

935
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 3: old Lola, because there was previous versions of you that

936
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 3: were coming up in my head that like offer you

937
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: advice or offer you direction, and it's kind of like

938
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 3: take it on board. But remember their opinions aren't the

939
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 3: bill and end or like you're own control of you.

940
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: So even if I was to go back to Lola

941
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 3: from two years ago, a whole different bowl game exactly,

942
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 3: but she's still in your mind, she's still knew, but

943
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 3: don't allow her to control the net already.

944
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 2: Now, Ah, that's freeing.

945
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 3: So this is not only for you, Lola, but for

946
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 3: everyone listening as well. Every single version of ourselves from

947
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 3: the day that we were born up until yesterday, it

948
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: still exists. They're not walking around the streets, they're not

949
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 3: sitting down having coffee, but they exist in here in

950
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 3: my head and the emotions that they went through, the

951
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 3: negative feelings, the triumphs, the tragedies, the positivity. Everything that

952
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 3: they felt and experienced still plays a part in how

953
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 3: we operated in this world. It shapes you exactly. But

954
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 3: sometimes in life we feel like we can't move on,

955
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 3: or we feel like that we do reminisce or get

956
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: stuck or duell on things because the world still keeps spinning.

957
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 3: It doesn't allow us opportunity to sometimes heal quick enough

958
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 3: inverted commas. So it's always important to reflect back on

959
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 3: our relationships with those former of us because they still

960
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 3: exist and their emotions are still relevant. But it's reminding

961
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 3: them that they're still safe, they're still felt, and they're heard,

962
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 3: but they don't control who we are today. They helped

963
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 3: shape us, they're not the dominant.

964
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 2: Oh, I love that. I've never thought about it like

965
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: that before. Yeah.

966
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 3: So if we have a bad example in life when

967
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 3: we're fifteen, for example, like say our parents separate, I

968
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 3: mean literally what happened to me at fifteen? No crying over,

969
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 3: But like I look back now, I'm thirty eight years

970
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 3: old now, and fifteen year old David's emotions for a

971
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 3: large part of my twenties and even my thirties still

972
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 3: dictated the narrative, even though I was twenty five year

973
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: old David's fifteen year old David's what he was going

974
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 3: through in that moment. His feelings and his viewpoints on

975
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 3: life and relationships especially was still being too dominant, and

976
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: I kind of had to reflect back on him and

977
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 3: actually literally go and sit down with him in my

978
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: head and be like, hey, everything, you're going through shit,

979
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 3: but look at where we are now, and you're safe

980
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 3: and you're heard and your felt and all that fifteen

981
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 3: year old David needed to do was hear that, and

982
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 3: then he's like, Okay, cool, I can relax so I

983
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 3: don't have to control the narrative of this man right now.

984
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,240
Speaker 2: Ah, you're like that, You're like a therapist.

985
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 3: It is therapy, yeah, because I'm going to record a

986
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 3: YouTube on this actually because I feel like I need

987
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 3: to talk about it properly. But it's the work that

988
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 3: we can do on ourselves with the reflection and meditation.

989
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 3: I'm going to call it the tunnel meditation, where it's

990
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 3: where you delve into your own subconscious and past memories.

991
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 3: You can heal yourself quicker in fifteen minutes and maybe

992
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 3: twelve lakes of therapy with you.

993
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 2: How crazy? I love that, and I think we can

994
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 2: all relate to that.

995
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's why it came as a downloaded message

996
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: for you.

997
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 2: Thank you. I always put you on the spot and

998
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: make you do this.

999
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 3: No, I'm David, the Media'm not David.

1000
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 2: But I also think it's so everything you just shared

1001
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 2: then was relatable to anyone, And I I can't believe

1002
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 2: how quickly these recording sessions go by the way. It's mental,

1003
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 2: but just for the listener.

1004
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: If they're.

1005
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 2: You know, we're at that, like I said, are at

1006
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: that part of the year or we're kind of like, no,

1007
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 2: it's still the start of the year. I can get these,

1008
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 2: I can I can let go. Like you're saying, the

1009
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: theme is transformation and a bit of a cleansing or

1010
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: a clearing and then what it feels like from what

1011
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,240
Speaker 2: you just shared then as well, it's like this stepping

1012
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 2: into the truth and really like knowing that that space

1013
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 2: is safe. Yeah, what can we do to just like

1014
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,919
Speaker 2: to really embrace the rest of the year.

1015
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 3: Well, definitely do goal setting, but it's a remembrance that

1016
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 3: everything that is meant for you won't pass by you.

1017
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 3: But when we look at our goals and when we

1018
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 3: look at maybe what we want to achieve as and

1019
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 3: foremost be very defined and intent for with that, sometimes

1020
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 3: it's okay not to know necessarily what you want now

1021
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 3: I need to work on it a little bit. But

1022
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 3: we've all got things that we want to achieve. But

1023
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 3: what I want everyone listening and also you, Lola, to

1024
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 3: remember the goals that I want in my life, the

1025
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:07,800
Speaker 3: things that I want to attract into my life. Okay,

1026
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 3: we can put the energy out and we can create

1027
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:14,919
Speaker 3: the pathways to it. But is are those goals? Are

1028
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 3: those things that we're wanting? That's a good symbol.

1029
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

1030
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 3: Spirit? Ye? Spirit? The lights flickered for everyone listening? Are

1031
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 3: those things attracted to us? Are we creating the proper

1032
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 3: life and the proper thoughts process for those things that

1033
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 3: want to come into Oh?

1034
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: And this is where you were talking about our responsibility

1035
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 2: is like how we choose to show up and cut

1036
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 2: back to glamor on the grid fashion.

1037
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 3: But this is it? Like for example, for relationships, like

1038
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 3: I'm single, I would like to meet someone, and I

1039
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 3: have a perfect image in my head about the guy

1040
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 3: that I would like to attract into my life. And

1041
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 3: then I asked myself, would that man be attracted to me,

1042
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 3: and it's okay to be reflective on that, because are

1043
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 3: my habits conducive? Is the way that I shop into

1044
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 3: the world who I am, who I'm being in the world.

1045
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 3: Will that person find attractiveness in that.

1046
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 2: I love what you're saying because it's a part of

1047
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 2: the manifestation picture that I know I've been missing out

1048
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: on it. It's the accountability piece for like how I'm

1049
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 2: showing up now in the present moment, because because also

1050
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: as an actor and it it's a TV host and

1051
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 2: all those things. Because it is a world that is

1052
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 2: rife of rejection, it's so hard to like pitch yourself

1053
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 2: and be like, I'm doing all the right things.

1054
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm doing all the right things.

1055
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 2: But because you've sat in so much rejection, it takes

1056
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: such work to get out of the rejection.

1057
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 3: Because every version of you that's been rejected is still.

1058
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 2: In your head right And then tap into my inner

1059
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 2: channel and be like, actually, I do deserve this. This

1060
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,319
Speaker 2: is where I like, I am going to do that

1061
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 2: TV show and have the best flipping time doing it

1062
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 2: because That's what I'm meant to be doing that.

1063
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 3: You were never a rejected law at law you were

1064
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: just redirected.

1065
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,399
Speaker 1: Can you just like stay in my pocket at.

1066
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 3: All the time? I love and love that.

1067
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 2: Do you know you're the most reoccurring on this podcast.

1068
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 2: That's an It's the honest truth. And I say this

1069
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: to whenever I meet with my pod managers. I'm like,

1070
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 2: I always have to get David the mediumont not because

1071
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 2: it's just so fun to chit chat and catch up

1072
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 2: with you and you're a joy. But honestly, people love

1073
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 2: your episodes, like these are the most popular episodes. Do

1074
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 2: you know that I told you that?

1075
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 3: That's no.

1076
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 2: So that's why I'm like, even if you're and like

1077
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 2: to come back to you, like even if you feel

1078
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: like you're at a transformation or a crossroads, like I

1079
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 2: do want you to know like these episodes, like people

1080
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 2: really love hearing you on the pod, and like, please

1081
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,879
Speaker 2: keep doing all the stuff that you're doing. I want

1082
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 2: to see more of you. I've got an idea for

1083
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 2: you that we'll talk about off air that you're going

1084
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: to nail and I'm here to champion you. So I

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Speaker 2: want to see you, know, I want to see your

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Speaker 2: name up in lights. I think you should be doing

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Speaker 2: a live tour in la as well, so just say

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Speaker 2: the words. Your EMC is sitting opposite you.

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Speaker 3: Read my mind right now. I'm like, you're definitely you're

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Speaker 3: not going to get to some in the crowd and

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Speaker 3: relax with that one.

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Speaker 2: You're going to bring it on, bring it on. So

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Speaker 2: thank you, my friend. It's always such a joy.

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Speaker 3: To have you here, pleasure, great to sit down with.

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Speaker 2: Happy birthday. I'm going to give you a presents for this.

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Speaker 2: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,

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Speaker 2: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation

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