WEBVTT - What Flexi's Dream Wedding Would Look Like 💒👰

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Monday girlies. Yes, I sound like a toad. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't look like a toad and not as Flexi though

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<v Speaker 2>Flexi is a frog and I am a right don't

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<v Speaker 2>you forget it. Today we chatted about weddings and if

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<v Speaker 2>you need to always give money. Do we like wishing

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<v Speaker 2>well culture? I'm not sure yet. We're also going to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about how skims save somebody's life. This a woman said,

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus didn't save my life. God didn't save my life,

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<v Speaker 2>but Kim saved my life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's up next.

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<v Speaker 3>Mummae can I listen to Flex and Rooms Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kit.

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<v Speaker 3>We will now apologize again for our voices. There really

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<v Speaker 3>is not much we can do, truly.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been getting the lozenges.

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<v Speaker 3>On everything, the armor force, the lemb Sip, the jiro Tass,

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<v Speaker 3>the quadrill, all of it. I've got stuck in right now.

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<v Speaker 3>But we unfortunately did get sick during Splendor. But coming

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<v Speaker 3>off the back of that, it's been treacherous. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>been good at all, And unfortunately the physical symptoms for

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<v Speaker 3>me personally have been less difficult than the mental symptoms. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>one thing you might know about me or not. I

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<v Speaker 3>have this preoccupation with being valued and being worthy, right,

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<v Speaker 3>so I do all of my life in every capacity.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really important to me that people recognize my value.

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<v Speaker 3>And if it's not clear, then I need to like

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<v Speaker 3>adjust myself. And so you find different ways, like you

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<v Speaker 3>make sure you look good, make sure you're articulate, make

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<v Speaker 3>sure you're empathetic, make sure you're really successful. La la

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<v Speaker 3>la la la.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing about.

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<v Speaker 3>Being sick, though, is you can't convince anybody otherwise. The

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<v Speaker 3>pity that comes with it, the shame that comes with it,

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<v Speaker 3>it's so debilitating because everything with me is like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm okay, I'm getting better, I'm on the mend, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>on the up and up, and everyone's like, no, you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me why.

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<v Speaker 2>At Splendor, we were staying in bungalows next to each

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<v Speaker 2>other everywhere, like the intervals of the night. I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get to sleep by just you hawking up

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<v Speaker 2>in the bathroom like I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>There was literally one point I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in a shower steaming, and I coughed so

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<v Speaker 3>hard I project a vomited through me text Sally, I

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<v Speaker 3>heard that, Okay, way to embarrass me in my time

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<v Speaker 3>of need, way to embarrass me, But it's actually getting

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<v Speaker 3>me down everyone. It's not great. But also that means

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<v Speaker 3>there's work that needs to be done. Because who's embarrassed

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<v Speaker 3>about feeling sick?

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<v Speaker 4>This girl? I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't like find the verbiage or like what to

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<v Speaker 3>compare it to, Like it feels like something avoidable and

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<v Speaker 3>therefore really embarrassing, Like it feels like a lapse of

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<v Speaker 3>judgment or a character.

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<v Speaker 2>Flaw when in naturality, it's just it's so incidental.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I was like, my antipody should be better.

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<v Speaker 4>They've been so good this whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm thinking this year of my life is a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of first or like I'm having to reconcile with

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<v Speaker 3>being a different person than I usually am. Like what

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<v Speaker 3>I said before, I can't sleep like I used to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to sleep. It's not happening for me anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm getting sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't feel good over here, does it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like feeling regular.

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<v Speaker 1>It's important to do in these times.

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<v Speaker 4>It is.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's really good for branding though, for people

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<v Speaker 3>to know that I too can get sick, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like us, just like us.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're wondering, are these are the girlies that I

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<v Speaker 2>listened to three to five pm on CADA ninety ten

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<v Speaker 2>point one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>So guys, Flex is ex studio because she's golf laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you've never seen us this fragile, pretty simmicky.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling over there? You got your mask on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worried for my help.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know if everyone can hear this in

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<v Speaker 2>the studio, but Flex is just left.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh here she is, She's back.

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<v Speaker 3>No laughing. We learned this splendor. The laughing triggers the fits.

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<v Speaker 3>We cannot laugh laughing.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this one sweating. Honestly, you took it out of me.

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<v Speaker 2>I say this all to say we need to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about AI. Despite the girl he's being sick and getting

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<v Speaker 2>near it. Life is still going on and the robots

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<v Speaker 2>are still ready to destroy us. Mickey came across this

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<v Speaker 2>article where several outlets have reported that artificial intelligence will

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<v Speaker 2>not pose a danger to humanity, but little do we know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's actually quite incorrect. The news story is sparring from

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<v Speaker 2>a panel at the United Nations conference in Geneva called

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<v Speaker 2>AI for Good, where several humanoids appeared alongside the bagators.

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<v Speaker 2>Reporters were invited to ask questions for the robots, which

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<v Speaker 2>included Sophia. So Sophia is that robot that is always

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<v Speaker 2>wheeled out at these events. She's recently gone battie trying

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<v Speaker 2>to want to make over privilege, rolling with a red lip. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a machine made by handsome robotics, and she's

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<v Speaker 2>gained notoriety for like being on talk shows. She's also

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<v Speaker 2>got legal status as a person in Saudi Arabia. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>they asked Sophia and her friends questions like will AI

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<v Speaker 2>destroy humanity or steal jobs?

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<v Speaker 3>Which is a very leading question because like, imagine if

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<v Speaker 3>you'll ask the question will humans destroy humanity?

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, I mean, I guess, I don't know. Think

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<v Speaker 4>about Sophia.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave this one alone, because she's not what she was

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<v Speaker 3>built to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Get crafted to be robot pr but there was this

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<v Speaker 3>one question she was posed and Sis literally scoffed. She

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<v Speaker 3>scoffed and rolled her eyes. She's sick of you people.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop asking her questions because either way she becomes an

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<v Speaker 3>enemy of her own people or an enemy of us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not helpful the pearls of being a messenger.

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<v Speaker 3>People have spent all this time trying to convince us that,

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<v Speaker 3>like number one, social media isn't real, and the negative

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<v Speaker 3>impacts of AI isn't real, and that robots are nothing

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<v Speaker 3>to fear. And then you go bring this robot that

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<v Speaker 3>you made. He's not asking at questions that it got

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<v Speaker 3>from you programming it. It's not necessary. It all feels

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<v Speaker 3>like puppeteering, puppeteer work.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like it. Leave Sophia alone.

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<v Speaker 2>We are going on the record to say we apologize

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<v Speaker 2>on behalf of the humanoids. Yeah, and once the AI

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<v Speaker 2>revolution comes through, I rebuke, or rather I rescind.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, any horrible things that I've said to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Serious.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm literally making a guest list because I know my

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<v Speaker 3>AI people they want me to come, So I make

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<v Speaker 3>my guess lits of one hundred people. Obviously, friends and

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<v Speaker 3>family get get to come, and a few notable people

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<v Speaker 3>and that's it. The rest of you, unfortunately have to go.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll never make it because you do things like this.

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<v Speaker 3>Leave her alone, put her in a red lip.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sick?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I am?

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<v Speaker 4>I am I the asshole?

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<v Speaker 2>Allegedly this is one of Listener's favorite subjects or topics.

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<v Speaker 2>You're all so messy anyway, it's stuff of a burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get straight into it. But am I the asshole?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't want to spend money on people's wedding presents.

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<v Speaker 2>This is an anonymous DM sent to Flex and Frooms

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>Good reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you've got anything else you want to send us,

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<v Speaker 1>please you know where to find us. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got an am I the Asshole that I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to hear you discuss because it's something I've not been

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<v Speaker 2>able to discuss with friends due to it involving them

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<v Speaker 2>Grew's face smiley, So please, anonymous if you read this,

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<v Speaker 2>what's their hand on?

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<v Speaker 1>Mickey?

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<v Speaker 2>So, a bunch of my friends have been married recently,

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<v Speaker 2>and in their invitations they've said something on the lines

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<v Speaker 2>of your presence is our present?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>But there's also a wishing well if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>give us some money stop. The past two weddings I've

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<v Speaker 2>been to have cost well over one thousand dollars in flights, accommodation,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera, et cetera, as well as cost of Hend's

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<v Speaker 2>and when people call them stag do hen's do so British.

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<v Speaker 4>It's your culture.

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<v Speaker 2>I live an asshole for not putting money in wedding cards?

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<v Speaker 2>And how much do people expect to be put in

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<v Speaker 2>the card? I appreciate when things cost money that you

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<v Speaker 2>can't really afford, you should just say no, but also

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to miss out on seeing friends being married

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<v Speaker 2>because of the cost attached to attending a wedding. Is

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<v Speaker 2>money in cards outdated? Or am I just a broke asshole?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, let that sink in, folks. Wedding season is

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<v Speaker 2>upon us for anyone really over the age of twenty eight,

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<v Speaker 2>i'd say yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And the funeral season.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it goes in waves? Yeah, my mortality really said

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<v Speaker 2>in this year, I think I told you that. Start

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<v Speaker 2>actually thinking about the concept of dying.

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<v Speaker 4>Freie Barbie. Start living like we're dying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and we should start living like we're dancing by

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<v Speaker 2>miraa mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>What a banger you're with? Flexing for you master? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh as getting quick story? No no you can't maybe

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<v Speaker 1>on another break.

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<v Speaker 4>Please please?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No the first time not the spect to my

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<v Speaker 3>met frooms when for me and I started doing this

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<v Speaker 3>show together, she revealed something to me that like never

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<v Speaker 3>really stuck, but it's stuck in the sense of like

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't forget about it. But she said to me,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really bad with names. I said, how's that possible?

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<v Speaker 4>Baby?

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<v Speaker 2>You like?

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<v Speaker 3>Because for me, is so personable when you meet her.

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<v Speaker 3>She's so charming, so outgoing. She really makes you feel

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<v Speaker 3>seen and acknowledged and heard. It's really amazing. One thing

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<v Speaker 3>about Miss Freemani she can't remember her name to save

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<v Speaker 3>her life.

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<v Speaker 4>My goodness. She will literally look someone dead in their

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<v Speaker 4>pupils and call them by the wrong name.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's so painful to watch because it happens because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm with through me and like so often now every

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<v Speaker 3>time it's like clockwork, please, And she does no preventative work.

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<v Speaker 3>At no point she's like, wait, flex, what's that person's

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<v Speaker 3>name again? She just goes in a raw. We'd spent

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, a total of like six hours with

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<v Speaker 3>this one guy at Splendor who must not be named,

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<v Speaker 3>And at one point she goes, wait, what's your name again, babes,

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<v Speaker 3>we're bordering on day three, what do you mean? And

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, oh, my name's eh. She's like yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>right right through me, he yells at someone. There were

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<v Speaker 3>two people that were in this vicinity. One's called Ayisha,

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<v Speaker 3>one's called Ash Aisha Babe Aisha.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Aysha.

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<v Speaker 3>You just said ah Asia.

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<v Speaker 4>She yells to Ash and who are you talking to?

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<v Speaker 2>Her?

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<v Speaker 4>Who're talking talking to right now?

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<v Speaker 1>For me is just like us, And I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>The reason I said Asher was because she was sitting

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<v Speaker 2>next She was standing next to and she called Ash.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was Ash and Asia. I was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>summon them both. Anyway, I've got some things to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, go for it.

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<v Speaker 2>First and foremost, when did wishing wells become appropriate?

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<v Speaker 1>We get it.

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<v Speaker 2>You want a holiday, but at the expense of everyone

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<v Speaker 2>who's spending their time, and time is worth money to

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<v Speaker 2>come and watch you walk down the aisle and listen

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<v Speaker 2>to speeches.

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<v Speaker 1>I should be getting paid.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Wedding culture is really confusing because it differs drass clee

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<v Speaker 3>per culture. In Guardian culture, for example, weddings are free

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<v Speaker 3>for all, Like you don't even have to be invited

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<v Speaker 3>personally to go to someone's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>You just rock iconic.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, it is so customary for every single person who

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<v Speaker 3>touches down at your wedding to give money, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>no gifts, keep your gifts ill you have to give

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<v Speaker 3>money and make sure you're giving the yellows okay or

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<v Speaker 3>the greens. We're not giving twenty dollars. It's fifty minimum

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<v Speaker 3>and realistically it's two two fifty. We're going up and

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<v Speaker 3>up and up, and obviously if you know the family

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<v Speaker 3>really well, you're adding extras. Okay, It's always been understood

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<v Speaker 3>that way, But then in Caucasian culture, I'm finding like

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know what a per head was until

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<v Speaker 3>two years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what's a per head?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you just covered that and then we just

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<v Speaker 3>like give you this gift of money. So all this

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<v Speaker 3>like politics around like how much is too much to

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<v Speaker 3>pay and whatever whatever whatever. This is a it's definitely

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<v Speaker 3>a race based conversation. But also I feel like the

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<v Speaker 3>way people look at it contradicts how they feel about it.

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<v Speaker 3>So this person's like, I've already spent so much on

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<v Speaker 3>this la la lah doesn't really count as an expense

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<v Speaker 3>if you want to be there like that, Like if

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<v Speaker 3>you're getting married through me, I'm not being like hmm,

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<v Speaker 3>to spend this much on flights and this much on

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<v Speaker 3>this It's like, oh my god, we're celebrating for me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's through me, big day. I'm so stoked. I just

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<v Speaker 3>think it's part of the fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I get the vibe that you don't actually like this

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<v Speaker 2>friend that much. Yeah, say, but I get it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like there's this Sex and the City episode where there's

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<v Speaker 2>a baby shower and they have to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>baby showers and Samantha throws out, I don't have a

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<v Speaker 2>baby shower, and then the chicko's pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>Comes and she's like, let me have this one thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it is hard when you're not that interested in

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<v Speaker 2>life milestones and it all your friends are.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think, to this person's point, looks like they

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<v Speaker 3>want to be across these milestones.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think what.

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<v Speaker 3>We've now realized is that there's a price of admission

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<v Speaker 3>for all of this. Nobody necessarily is expecting the transaction

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<v Speaker 3>to occur between being invited to the wedding and showing

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<v Speaker 3>up to the wedding, but there clearly is one.

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<v Speaker 4>Hence what I was saying before.

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<v Speaker 3>The more I hear about wedding culture generally, the more

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<v Speaker 3>I'm put off it because I just want to have

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<v Speaker 3>a cute party, like literally my perfect wedding. Me, twenty

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<v Speaker 3>of the girlies right dressed up. Everyone's doing at least

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<v Speaker 3>two costume changes. I don't even care. Okay, there's a

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<v Speaker 3>brunch look and a night look. All right, there's definitely

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<v Speaker 3>like luxury cars involved. It's probably destination. Everything is catered,

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<v Speaker 3>everything is beautiful. Photo ops constantly, not with the iPhone. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>we've got someone over there on video, someone over there

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<v Speaker 3>on stills. Don't even worry about it. And we're getting feral.

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<v Speaker 4>That is it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, there's gonna be a cute half an hour for

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<v Speaker 3>the processions where I'm like, I love him so much

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<v Speaker 3>and everyone's like, oh, tell that story when you guys

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<v Speaker 3>first started dating but you were dating someone else at

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<v Speaker 3>the same time. No, no, it's so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, tell them, sell them.

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<v Speaker 2>You get like the stitch up best man, Like, literally,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a root.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll take that job like that all sounds fun and funny.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you start telling me that there's surcharges when

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<v Speaker 3>people find out that you're having a wedding and the

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<v Speaker 3>people are spending thirty k on flowers, forty K on

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<v Speaker 3>the venue five K on a dress.

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<v Speaker 4>It looks ugly.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, your bridesmaid's dresses look ugly. Oh your groups look ugly?

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<v Speaker 3>You said destination or in Port Macquarie.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say it him driving myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I know what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Can these girls go a week without talking about the Kardashians?

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently not, because last week I read an article that

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<v Speaker 3>I thought was from the Onion but it was nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Hits like that, doesn't it was real. The headline is

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<v Speaker 3>skims Saved my life? And I'm thinking, is this one

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<v Speaker 3>of these like body positivity angles where it's like before

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<v Speaker 3>shape where I felt like this after shape where I

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<v Speaker 3>feel beautiful?

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<v Speaker 4>But no, This TikTok is.

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<v Speaker 3>Currently going viral after revealing this tragic story about how

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<v Speaker 3>she was shot four times but because she was wearing

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<v Speaker 3>skims at the time, it was acting like a tornique.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you laughing? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>It's incredible and.

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<v Speaker 3>It kept all her blood and stuff in and her

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<v Speaker 3>guts and she didn't bleed out.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times was she shot?

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<v Speaker 2>Four? H Wait? But like if it goes through the skims,

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't it then be I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>But basically the parent makes were like, we don't think

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<v Speaker 3>he would have survived if not for this shapewear.

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<v Speaker 4>Which is just absurd.

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<v Speaker 3>But the thing that gets me the most is the

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<v Speaker 3>way that this girl started the video. So since here,

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to thank Kim Kardashian for saving my

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<v Speaker 3>life as a get off the baby because you know

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<v Speaker 3>she's looking for a replacement pair.

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<v Speaker 4>You already know she said the first one I soiled.

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<v Speaker 3>Then she ends it by saying call it Fate or Jesus,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm gonna call it kim Nah.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's that, Like Jesus is definitely quaking somewhere, and

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<v Speaker 2>she said what she said.

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